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Roundup: Salmon Trees, Orphenians’ Ole, Shakos Podcast …

The park named for Grace Salmon is one of Westport’s most popular.

Easily accessible on Imperial Avenue, with an expansive view of the Saugatuck River and beyond, it’s a place for solitude and quiet contemplation.

It’s also educational.

The Tree Board has affixed small informational plaques to each tree.

They’re unobtrusive …

… but when you look closely, they offer information about the species. Complete with (of course) a QR code, to learn more.

(Photos/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

Other species with signs at Grace Salmon Park include red maple and river birch.

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If the Staples High School Orphenians’ trip to Spain this summer is half as successful as last night’s “Cabaret Olé,” it will be one of the famed a cappella group’s most legendary events ever.

Christ & Holy Trinity Church was filled for the fundraiser. They got their money’s worth.

Mary Kate Morrissey starred in “Wicked” on Broadway.

All-star entertainment — including the Orphs together and as solo acts; Broadway’s “Wicked” star Mary Kate Morrissey and music director Dan Micciche; future Broadway “Stranger Things” star Jamie Mann (Staples ’21), and world-renowned VOCES8 (just off a plane from California), accompanied by super-talented keyboardist Andrew Maskoff (Staples ’25) — were on stage for nearly 4 hours.

Orphenians conductor Lauren Pine (left) leads her singers, in a combined number with Mary Kate Morrissey (back row, right).

Students from chef Cecily Gans’ Staples culinary classes provided fantastic Spanish tapas, desserts and more.

Staples grad Jamie Mann makes his Broadway debut next month in “Stranger Things.” The show is in previews now.

NOTE: Silent auction bidding remains open until 9 p.m. tonight. Click here to see the many great items, or to donate to the fundraiser itself.

¡Bravo! ¡Felicidades! ¡Olé!

Staples senior Andrew Maskoff, at the keyboard. (All photos/Dan Woog)

Orphenians and VOCES8 (Photo/Nataliya Lalor)

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The other day, “06880” highlighted Westporter Bill Shakos’ informative, behind-the-scenes new podcast “What Do I Know.”

We won’t be mentioning every episode. But the fourth one — which dropped this morning — features a guest dear to our hearts.

Me.

Titled (a bit grandly) “Legacy of the People: One Man’s Generational Advocacy Shaped Our Town’s Culture and Identity,” it’s a look — led by Bill’s gentle but crisp questioning — into my “06880” blog, life in Westport, LGBTQ advocacy and more.

The podcast is available on Spotify, Apple, Amazon and the web, all from this handy link. Click below for the trailer.

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The Westport Book Shop’s Short Story Club meets April 24 (6 p.m.). They’ll discuss “The Elephant Vanishes” by Haruki Murakami, and “Patriotism” by Yukio Mishima.

Registration is required. Call 203-349-5141, or email RSVP@westportbooksaleventures.org.

Also next month at the Westport Book Shop:

  • Puzzle Night (April 3)
  • Book signing and conversation with Chef Alison Milwe Grace, author of “Savor: Recipes to Celebrate” (April 10)
  • Book reading and signing with Marsha Temlock, author of “Tuesday’s Mah Jong” (April 16).
  • Book reading and signing with Ira Joe Fisher, author of “The Birth of Snow’ (April 17).

All events are 6 to 7:30 p.m.

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Last week, Staples High School Class of 1991 graduate Lynsey Addario’s photo from Ukraine ran on page 1 of the New York Times.

Yesterday, her fellow Pulitzer Prize-winning Times photographer Tyler Hicks contributed his own image, in the same upper-left page 1 corner.

The 1988 Staples alum’s shot showed Ukrainian soldiers.

It — and others inside — illustrated a major Times story on America’s efforts in the war against Russia. (Hat tip: Arthur Hayes)

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There will probably be a large crowd Saturday, for a “Hands Off!” anti-Trump rally on the Ruth Steinkraus Cohen Bridge downtown.

This past Saturday, one Westporter got a jump on the event. He exercised his First Amendment rights, and showed his patriotism with a large American flag.

(Photo/Bean Corcoran)

He was a lone figure.

But he may have been a familiar one.

More than 50 years ago, Rex Fowler co-founded Aztec Two-Step, the legendary folk-rock duo.

He’s still playing and singing — this time in Aztec Two-Step 2.0 — with his wife, Dodie Petit.

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It was almost 80 degrees Saturday.

It was not anywhere near that yesterday.

But a sailboat race was full speed ahead, off Compo Beach.

Laurie Sorensen captured the chilly scene:

(Photo/Laurie Sorensen)

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Today, dogs are allowed on Compo Beach.

Tomorrow, they’re not. The ban is in effect through September 30.

This guy — the star of today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo — is not, technically, on the beach. He’s on the Soundview Drive wall next to the beach.

(Photo/June Rose Whittaker)

Is he okay?

Probably. But a leash would help.

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And finally … speaking of what we learn about trees (story above):

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Roundup: Sandy Hook & Broadway, Doughboy, Chickens …

Westport and Weston will be well represented next month, when Broadway stars perform in a benefit for Sandy Hook Promise.

“The Best of Broadway’ (September 22, 6 p.m., SHU Community Theater, Fairfield) is the brainchild of 2 residents.

It began with Dodie Pettit, who performed on Broadway in “Cats” and “Phantom of the Opera.”

Her husband — Aztec Two-Step co-founder Rex Fowler — had been asked to perform in a Sandy Hook Promise film called “A Father’s Promise.”

Sandy Hook Promise — formed in the aftermath of the horrendous school shooting — is a Newtown-based non-profit that educates and empowers youth and adults, to prevent violence in schools, homes and communities

The documentary is about Mark Barden, whose son Daniel was killed in the Sandy Hook shooting.

Dodie was so moved by the mission of Sandy Hook Promise that she volunteered to gather Broadway performers to raise money for gun
violence awareness.

Among the artists next month: 2-time Tony Award winner James Naughton, and Terry Eldh (Carlotta in “Phantom of the Opera”). Dodie and Rex will also perform, as Aztec Two-Step 2.0.

Longtime Levitt Pavilion favorite Frank Mastrone (“Phantom,” “Cats,” “Les Miserables”), and Paige Backus and Grace Hutchinson — recipients of the Connecticut Dance School Kevin Gray Scholarship, given in honor of Dodie Pettit’s late husband (a Broadway star in “Phantom of the Opera” and “The King and I” — will also appear.

For tickets, a full cast list and other information. click here.

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Dave Shea writes: “One of the benefits of a dog who needs walking at 5:30 every morning is being greeted by this brave soul. He puts it all into perspective.”

   (Photo/Dave Shea)

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It’s illegal to stick commercial flyers on utility poles.

If we called out every company that does this, we wouldn’t have room for any photos bad drivers — I mean, anything else.

But this one caught our eye.

There sure aren’t a lot of services like this one, in our little corner of the world.

(Photo/Steven Goldstein)

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A reader writes: “There has been a scam going on for a few months at Whole Foods.

“If you bring your own shopping bag, you’re supposed to get a 10 cent credit per bag.

“The receipt will indicate Bag Refund,’ but it no longer shows the credit. It’s happened to me 4 times, with different cashiers and different registers.

“The cashier insists it’s at the end showing up on total savings, but if you do the math, it’s not there.

“I showed the manager twice. He agreed and thinks something is wrong with the computer program. But I think Whole Foods is hoping no one will notice, and they are saving thousands of dollars, maybe more.”

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Garden and music lovers — and those who are both — take note.

Blau House & Gardens and the Norwalk Symphony Orchestra present “Music in the Garden” this Sunday (August 18).

There’s a pre-concert tour of the magnificent property off Bayberry Lane from 4:30 to 5 p.m. The woodwind quintet plays in the gorgeous gardens from 5:30 to 7:15 p.m.

Bring your own picnic, blankets and chairs. There’s a shuttle from Coleytown Elementary School. Tickets are $75.  Click here to order.

A small section of the Blau House & Gardens.

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The item above is a great lead-in to today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo.

There are plenty of spots to see rabbits in Westport.

Your first guess — or 100th — would probably not be Ned Dimes Marina.

But Laurie Sorensen saw this bunny bopping around there.

One more bit of proof — if any is needed — that Compo Beach is a very welcoming place.

(Photo/Laurie Sorensen)

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And finally … Dave Shea’s photo of the Doughboy statute at Veterans Green got us thinking about the sacrifices our soldiers made over 100 years ago, in World War I.

You know: The War to End All Wars.

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Roundup: Westoberfest, Southern Tide, News 12 …

On Friday, “06880” noted that early bird tickets are on sale for Westoberfest.

Here are more details on the 7th annual craft beer-and-fall festival (September 21, 2 to 5 p.m., downtown Westport), sponsored by the Westport Downtown Association.

Guests enjoy over 45 tastings from innovative craft breweries like Kent Falls, Nod Hill, Obscure Oscillation and Space Cat Brewing to name a few, plus activities like keg rolling and pumpkin chucking contests for adults.

Children’s activities include root beer floats, flower crown-making, pumpkin decorating and face painting.

There’s live music too, from One Bad Oyster.

For a complete list of breweries, kids’ activities, food and vendors, click here.

The price through August 31 is $45. Tickets go up to $50 on September 1, and are $55 at the event. Click here to purchase, and for more information.

Westoberfest, in downtown Westport.

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Southern Tide — the men’s, women’s and children’s clothing store — has opened on Elm Street, around the corner from Brooks Corner.

There is still merchandise at their Playhouse Square location. But the large sign above the store there is gone.

Meanwhile, coming August 17 to Westport: Framebridge.

The custom frame shop will open at 123 Post Road East, next to WEST.

(Hat tips and photos/Sal Liccione)

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News 12 Connecticut has been nominated for a number of New York Emmy Awards.

Among them: “My Name is Wynston Browne” — a compelling story about the Staples High School rising senior who, despite non-speaking autism — has learned to communicate using a typing device

The nomination cites reporter Mark Sudol, and photographer/editors Frank Bruce Rosen and Mark Sogofsky. It is in the Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Category.

News 12 Connecticut’s “Burning Desires” story — about the murder of Westporter Joan Wertkin — was also nominated for an Emmy.

Also nominated: 1974 Staples High School graduate Susan Handman, as a performer/narrator for NYC Life.

The 67th annual Emmy gala takes place October 26, at the New York Marriott Marquis.

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Happy anniversary to Rex Fowler and Dodie Pettit!

The couple — who now perform and tour as Aztec Two-Step 2.0, the new iteration of the much-revered folk-rock duo Fowler formed over 50 years ago — celebrated with a small party yesterday, in the same yard where they were married 6 years ago.

Rain chased the musicians inside. But — happily — the band (with some very talented friends) played on.

Rex Fowler and Dodie Pettit blow out the candles. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Congratulations to the 2024 Longshore Women’s Golf Association club champions: Jennifer Cole, Cynthia Carpenter, Robin Babes, Jean Murdoch, Dorothy Torpie, Cynthia Sher, Chris LoRusso and Elizabeth Harleman.

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Three princesses came to Westport Saturday, in custom gowns and professionally styled wigs.

They were not real royalty. They were from Your Premium Princesses, a “bespoke character company of your dreams, where magic meets sophistication.” They’re hired for birthday parties, corporate events and grand openings

This event was a child’s birthday party, off Hillspoint Road.

Young partygoers did their part too, arriving in costumes.

What? No princes?!

(Hat tip and photo/Barbara Schwarz)

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June Walker Rogers — a Broadway singer, dancer and comedienne who appeared on television and wrote 13 plays and musicals, died last Monday at her Westport home, where she lived for decades. She was 97.

Born in Steubenville, Ohio, and raised in Queens, she started dancing at 5. She later developed a nightclub act, performing with Frank Sinatra, Nat King Cole, Louis Prima, Don Rickles, Rodney Dangerfield and Louis Farrakhan (when he performed under the name “Calypso Louie”).

She left Columbia University early to make her Broadway debut. She performed with Bert Lahr, Dick Van Dyke, Tony Bennett and Orson Bean, and appeared on Steve Allen and Jackie Gleason’s TV shows. Ed Sullivan was so taken with her that he brought her to the White House, to perform for Presidents Truman and Eisenhower.

After starting a family, she turned to playwriting. She then returned to the stage, at the Westport Country Playhouse.

Rogers was a founding member of the Theater Artists Workshop of Westport.

She was married for 50 years to the late Tony-nominated writer/actor David Rogers, who died in 2013. She is survived by her daughters Dulcy Rogers Bader (Diedrich) and Amanda Rogers, and grandchildren Lucy, Sebastian, Dashiell and Ondine. Click here for a full obituary.

June Rogers

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The weather was on-and-off this weekend. Beachgoers cut short their visits, both Saturday and Sunday.

This guy looked right at home, though. He hopped, strutted, then stayed still just long enough to pose for today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Lauri Weiser)

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And finally … on this day in 1962, Marilyn Monroe was found dead in her Los Angeles home, from a drug overdose. She was 36.

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Roundup: Young Shoots Photo Contest, Best Of Broadway Benefit …

Only 2 weeks remain for young photographers to take shots at the Westport Farmers’ Market — and enter the “Young Shoots” contest,

The 8th annual event runs this Thursday and next (July 31, August 7). Students ages 5 through 18 can demonstrate their love for local food — and their creative photo talents — to win cash prizes in 3 age categories, plus a chance to attend an art class at MoCA CT.

All photos must be taken at the Westport Farmers’ Market (Thursdays, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Imperial Avenue parking lot). It’s an amazing place, filled with food, plants, food trucks, entertainers, the farmers themselves, shoppers — everything a young photographer could hope to capture.

Local artists will judge. Age groups are 5-9, 10-14 and 15-18. An exhibit at Gilbertie’s Herbs & Garden Center (August 21, 6 p.m.) will showcase the winners. Every entrant can pick up a framed print of their photo there.

The contest is sponsored by the Farmers’ Market, the Artists Collective of Westport, and the Drew Friedman Community Arts Center.

Click here for rules, registration and more information.

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This terse, 2-line news release was sent to local media yesterday:

“As of July 27, 2024, Alma Sarelli will no longer participate as Campaign Manager for Candidate Kami Evans who is running for State Senate for the 26th District. Alma wishes Kami nothing but the best in her campaign.”

Kami Evans

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Tony Award winner James Naughton, and Aztec Two-Step folk legend Rex Fowler — both local residents — headline an all-star “Best of Broadway” cast.

The performance — a benefit for Sandy Hook Promise, the gun violence education and empowerment non-profit — is set for September 22 (6 p.m., SHU Community Theater, Fairfield).

The evening of music and dance includes stars from the casts of “Phantom of the Opera,”” “Les Miserables,” “Chicago,” “City of Angels,” “Cats” and more. Naughton and Fowler will host and perform.

The cast also includes veteran Broadway stars Dodie Pettit and Terry Eldh of Westport; a special screening of the trailer “A Father’s Promise,” and an auction.

Mark Barden and Nicole Hockley — co-founders and CEOs of Sandy Hook Promise, and parents of 1st graders killed in the vicious school shooting in Newtown — will be at the benefit.

For tickets, a full cast list and more information, click here.

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Speaking of entertainment: Westport singer Melissa Newman joins Tony Lombardozzi, Phil Bowler and Bobby Leonard at this week’s Jazz at the Post.

Thursday’s event (August 1, shows at 7 and 8:30 p.m.; dinner from 7 p.m.; VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399) kicks off another great season for the popular series.

Reservations are highly suggested: JazzatthePost@gmail.com

Melissa Newman

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This cormorant waited patiently on a Ned Dimes Marina buoy — perhaps for someone to take his “Westport … Naturally” photo?

If so, Matt Murray obliged.

(Photo/Matt Murray)

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And finally … Happy 81st birthday to Lobo!

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Roundup: Aztec Two-Step …

Rex Fowler — co-founder of Aztec Two-Step — says of the 53-year-old duo, “We’re a household name. But we’re in a select few households.”

After the retirement of Neal Shulman — and his marriage to singer/actor Dodie Pettit, who took Shulman’s place — the band is now Aztec Two-Step 2.0. Their home base is Westport, where Pettit lived with her husband Kevin Gray. The “Phantom of the Opera” star died of a heart attack in 2016.

Fowler has just published a memoir. “See, It Was Like This …” chronicles his life in the music world. From Johnny Cash knocking on his dressing room door at the Bottom Line, to sharing a stage with Bruce Springsteen, Fowler has had a memorable half-century career.

But the very readable, quickly engaging book is about much more than music. Fowler grew up in Connecticut and Maine, and he brings those carefree but not-easy days to life with wit and insight.

Fowler has quickly become an important part of Westport — and a big fan of it.

“I have such admiration for this town,” he says. “From Paul Newman’s philanthropy, to the great library and Levitt Pavilion, it’s an amazing place.

“Dodie and I have been supported by everyone. We take exercise classes at the Senior Center, and get computer help there. It’s all been very heart-warming.”

Fowler has made “great new friends” like musician/promoter Roger Kaufman.

Though he modestly says there are “far bigger celebrities” than himself here, like Michael Bolton, and Talking Heads’ Chris Frantz and Tina Weymouth, both acts opened for Aztec Two-Step back in the day.

Fowler’s memoir is available at AztecTwoStep.com. Click here to order.

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Speaking of Aztec Two-Step: Rex Fowler met Joe Meo here almost 5 years ago, and brought him into the band. The saxophonist died unexpectedly in November.

He played with Johnny Mathis, Billy Vera, the Temptations, the Four Tops, the Pointer Sisters and Aretha Franklin, among many others. Click here for a full obituary.

A memorial service will be held today (Sunday, February 11, 2 p.m., Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport; click here for livestream).

Joe Meo

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Wesley was out early the other day — to greet the sunrise at Eloise Ray Park, and model for “06880”‘s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Maxx Crowley)

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And finally … On this date in 1534, Henry VIII was recognized as supreme head of the Church of England.

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Roundup: Kidnapping Rant, Lyman Aid, Menorah Lighting …

For several weeks, small posters with photos of Israelis kidnapped by Hamas have hung on the Ruth Steinkraus Cohen Bridge.

That triggered one Norwalk resident.

The woman, whose social media handle is “Best of CT Moms” — definitely not to be confused with “Moms of Westport” — posted a video story on Instagram.

Admitting it would be “an unpopular opinion,” she said: “I do not like all the kidnapped signs all over Westport. There’s nobody here who has been kidnapped that we can actually find.”

Should there be one side of the bridge with Israelis, and one side with Palestinians, she asked, “and you choose which side to walk on?”

She continued: “What was the goal? To let people know people were kidnapped? I feel like everyone knows.”

Or perhaps to let people know that antisemitism exists? “We know as Jews people are antisemitic,” she said. “I don’t need to be reminded. It’s not positive.”

She said that protecting her own mental health was important, so she stays away from the news. But, she concluded, “I don’t need news. I can drive through Westport and see all the kidnapped people.

“It’s too much. It’s too much. It’s too much.” (Hat tip: Andrew Colabella)

Screenshot of “Best of CT Moms”

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In just 24 hours, Westport passed the halfway mark in its drive to provide heat to 2,000 residents in our Ukraine sister city this winter.

“06880” announced yesterday a $60,000 goal for Lyman. That would cover 2 wood pellet machines. Each heats 1,000 homes — a dire need, in the 2nd winter after Russia’s invasion.

An anonymous donor kick-started the campaign, with a $30,000 donation. Within an hour, another anonymous Westporter contributed $10,000.

Combined with $6,300 more from individual residents, we’re less than $15,000 away from funding both wood pellet heating machines.

Come on, Westport. We can finish this today — and have the machines delivered, up and running by Christmas. Ukrainine Aid International — the non-profit created by Westporters Brian and Marshall Mayer — will handle all details.

To donate by credit card, click here; then click the “I want to support” box; then select “Westport — Lyman Sister City.” Scroll down on the Donate page for other options: mail, wire transfer and Venmo. Thank you!

Wood pellet heating machine.

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Westport’s annual Hanukkah menorah lighting is set for Monday (December 11), at 5 p.m. in front of Anthropologie, where the Post Road meets Church Lane and Main Street.

The public is invited.

The downtown menorah, in 2020. (Photo/Arlene Yolles)

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Interested in learning how to make your home more energy efficient? Want to help Westport reach our goal of becoming Net Zero by 2050?

Sustainable Westport offers a “Going Geothermal” session. It provides information, resources — and confidence — to kick off an energy-saving home improvement project.

A panel of energy professionals — and Westporters who have actually been through the process — will lead a conversation, and answer questions. The event is next Tuesday (December 12, 6:30 p.m., Westport Library). Click here to register, and for more information.

Going geothermal.

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It’s all 12s for the Artists Collective of Westport.

Their 12″x12″ small works holiday show kicks off in the Westport Country Playhouse Sheffer Barn next Tuesday: 12/12. The reception (not 12 noon, but rather 6 to 8 p.m.) includes food, music and wine. “Affordable artwork” will be available, in a variety of mediums.

The show continues December 13 to 17, from 2 to 6 p.m.

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Last year, Julie Buoy Whamond threw a dance party. She raised over $4,500 for Westport’s Warm-Up Fund.

This year, she’s aiming for more.

Her “Girls Nite Dance Party” next Wednesday (December 13, 7 p.m., Christ & Holy Trinity Church’s Branson Hall) includes a DJ and dancing.

“Bring a drink and snack to share,” Julie says. “Holiday attire encouraged!”

There’s a $35 donation to attend. Venmo @Julie-Whamond. Questions? Email Whamondjoy@gmail.com.

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The Westport Rotary Club is a longtime supporter of Mercy Learning Center.

Yesterday, Mercy’s new president and CEO Lindsay Wyman told members the many ways in which the Bridgeport non-profit educates women, in turn helping families overcome poverty.

Mercy’s holistic support services include adult education, English instruction — plus full infant and toddler care, and an early childhood education program.

Since opening in 1987, over 16,500 women have been helped. Many earn GEDs and citizenship. Volunteer tutors and childcare givers are always needed, Wyman said.

Mercy Learning Center CEO Lindsay Wyman. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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Elton John loves Drew Angus.

The mega-popular knighted singer — who has sold over 300 million records worldwide — recently posted an Instagram of his reactions to a couple of other versions of his double platinum 1973 hit “Step Into Christmas.”

Among the songs he liked: the one by 2007 Staples High School graduate Angus.

Check it out below. Drew appears twice: first in a circular frame, wearing crazy glasses; then performing, in a red flannel shirt.

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Speaking of entertainment: In a few minutes (10 a.m.), Westporter Rex Fowler — half of Aztec Two-Step 2.0 — will be live on Rob Silber’s “Rock Therapy” show on WPKN-FM.

Rex will discuss his new memoir, and play a few songs mentioned in it. Click here, then click on the “Listen” link — or tune in to 89.5.

Aztec Two-Step 2.0: Dodie Pettit and Rex Fowler.

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Following up on yesterday’s announcement about makeup, skincare, health and wellness products and hair products at a special holiday gift event at Salon Nash this Saturday (December 9, 2:30 to 6 p.m., 179 Post Road West), which is a fundraiser for the Friends of the Senior Center:

Owner Felicia Nash will also give a free blowout for contributions to Ukraine Aid International’s sister city fund (click here; then click the “I want to support” box; select “Westport — Lyman Sister City”).

Salon Nash owner Felicia Catale.

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Robert Bernstein — a noted educator, and Westport resident for 55 years — died yesterday morning, surrounded by his family. He was 94. He leaves a legacy of love and laughter.

Born in the Bronx, the third of 3 boys, he earned BA and MA degrees from Brooklyn College. He served in Korea as Sergeant First Class with the 101st Airborne Infantry Division, then joined the pre-doctoral program at Teachers’ College, Columbia University.

Bob’s soulmate and life partner was Barbara (Bobbie) Grishman (Bobbie). They raised 3 children: Lydia, Doug and Brian.

Bob began his teaching career in elementary schools in New York City and Westchester County. After an administrative internship, he accepted a principalship in Wilmington, Delaware.

In 1968, Bob found a perfect fit as principal of Redding Elementary School. The family moved to Westport.

Bob was the beloved principal of Redding Elementary for 25 years, dedicating himself to facilitating the growth of children and teachers and profoundly impacting the community. After retirement, he held 4 interim principalships.

Bob also taught adult education in New York City and Westchester County, and ESL with Norwalk Community College and Literacy Volunteers in Danbury. He was a member of the board and served as president of the Elementary/Middle School Principal Association of Connecticut.

Bob was a longtime member of the Y’s Men of Westport Weston and Temple Israel. He loved opera and the symphony, enjoyed playing tennis and ping pong, and watching his grandchildren play sports. Spending time at Compo Beach remained his favorite activity.

His family says, “Bob was the consummate gentleman, treating every person with kindness, respect, and dignity. We will carry forward his most enduring and endearing quality; a belief in every person’s goodness and their capacity to grow.”

Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 64 years, Bobbie, their children Lydia, Doug (and Melissa) and Brian (and Lauren), his grandchildren Miriam, Brendan, Ilana, Jessica (Graham), Audrey, Cayla, Sydelle, Esther and Nate; brother-in-law Hank Grishman (Jill), and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his grandson Jason.

Bob’s service will be held at Temple Israel tomorrow (Thursday, December 7, 1 p.m.). Burial will follow at Temple Israel Cemetery in Norwalk.

Shiva will be held at the home of Bob and Bobbie’s home on December 7 immediately following the burial, and Friday, December 8  (1 to 4 p.m.) and Saturday, December 9 (7 to 9 p.m.; service at 7:30).

Bob’s favorite educational and cultural arts charities were: A Better Chance of Westport (PO Box 2153, Westport, CT 06881) and Neighborhood Studios of Fairfield County (391 East Washington Avenue, Bridgeport, CT 06608).


Bob Bernstein

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The other day, our “Westport … Naturally” feature showed a swarm of blackbirds.

Here’s a similar shot, from elsewhere in Westport. Once again, there are far more than 4 and 20.

Fortunately, they’re not baked in a pie.

(Photo/Richard Fogel)

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And finally … speaking of “Step Into Christmas” (story above): Here are the 2 versions mentioned. Enjoy (and “the admission’s free…”):

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Roundup: Staples Sports, Elvis’ Cadillacs, Irwin Lebish

The Staples High School field hockey team is one win away from a state championship.

The #2-seeded Wreckers dominated #3 Glastonbury yesterday, in the Class “L” (large schools) semifinal at Amity High.

The score was only 2-0 — on goals by Mary Stevens and Leah Larit — but the Westporters did not allow the Guardians any shots on goal.

The title match is this Saturday (November 18, Wethersfield High School, 11 a.m.). The Wreckers face #1-ranked Darien. The Blue Wave squeaked by Wilton, 3-2 in overtime, yesterday.

Darien captured the first 2 meetings of the schools this year. They edged Staples 3-2 in overtime during the regular season, then took the FCIAC (league) championship 3-0 earlier this month.

Coach Ian Tapsall’s girls are shooting for their 5th Connecticut crown. They won it all 4 years in a row, from 2016-19, but have not been back to the final since.

Staples’ girls soccer team was denied a chance at their 3rd straight state championship. Seeded 3rd in “LL” (extra large schools), they fell 4-3 to their archrival, #2 St. Joseph, 4-3 at Fairfield Warde last night.

The Cadets — 2-time reigning champions in the “L” (large) division who moved up to “LL” this year, and who as a private school draw players from outside Trumbull — overcame a 2-goal deficit to win.

Staples and St. Joseph tied 1-1 in the regular season — the only blemish on the Cadets’ 20-0-1 record. They took the FCIAC title over coach Barry Beattie’s Wreckers, with a nail-biting 2-1 win.

US youth national team player Natalie Chudowsky scored twice for Staples last night. Annabel Edwards added the other.

The 2023 Staples field hockey team.

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You may know Rex Fowler as the very talented founder of Aztec Two-Step, the  folk-rock duo that, despite being “no hit wonders,” has enjoyed a devoted cult following for half a century.

You may also know Rex Fowler as a fellow Westporter. He and his wife, Dodie Pettit — an even longer resident — now comprise Aztec Two-Step 2.0.

Now Rex has added another credit to his long list of achievements. “200 Cadillacs” — his new documentary featuring interviews with people who were recipients of Elvis Presley’s gift of choice (a shiny new car) will show tomorrow (Thursday, November 16, Sacred Heart Community Theatre, downtown Fairfield).

A talkback with Rex — who wrote most of the music — follows the screening. It’s hosted by Susan Granger.

Reviewer Leonard Maltin wrote: I like Elvis well enough, but I’m not a
devotee, and I never thought I’d find this film as compelling as I did.”

Tickets are just $15. Click here to order.

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Irwin Lebish has been a veterinarian for almost 70 years, and a member of the Westport Rotary Club for 23 years (president from 2011-’12).

But, he says, he has been playing piano “always. Area residents known him from many bands, and the Jazz Doctors trio.

Yesterday, he treated his fellow Rotarians to a jazz concert, with songs like “I’ll Remember April,” “Fried Pies,” “My Funny Valentine” and “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.’

He was accompanied by his son Scott on electric bass guitar.

Irwin’s pre-holiday recitals are a Rotary tradition.

Irwin and Scott Lebish. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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It’s been a gorgeous fall so far. Here’s one more “Westport … Naturally” foliage photo, from Longshore:

(Photo/June Rose Whittaker) 

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And finally … in honor of Rex Fowler’s Elvis-themed “200 Cadillacs” film (story above):

(Elvis never gave “06880 a Cadillac. But our readers are welcome to contribute to this hyper-local blog. Please click here. Thank you — and viva Westport!)

Roundup: Lynsey Addario, Dracula, Tornadoes …

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Yesterday’s “06880” highlighted Tyler Hicks’ haunting photos from Ukraine.

But he’s not the only New York Times photographer shooting images in that threatened nation.

He’s not even the only one who is a Staples High School graduate.

Hick’s colleague Lynsey Addario — who graduated 3 years after Hicks, in 1991, and is both a Pulitzer Prize and MacArthur Fellow winner — has contributed her own important work.

This one shows — and humanizes — embattled Ukraine president Volodymyr Zelensky.

Ukraine president Volodomyr Zelensky (Photo/Lynsey Addario for the New York Times)

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Wednesday’s “Fall in Love with Westport” event was a great success.

A number of new neighbors joined “old timers” at Greens Farms Church. They shared tips and stories about life in this town. Just as importantly, they connected around kids, previous residences and similar needs.

It was a diverse crowd, with an international flavor. They plan to get together again soon.

If you missed the event and want to know more, email office@greensfarmschurch. All are welcome — church membership is not required!

“Fall in Love with Westport” at Greens Farms Church.

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On Halloween I was honored to hear the world premiere of “Dracula: The Covenant.” That’s the musical project Westporter Dodie Pettit worked on for years with her husband, the late Broadway star Kevin Gray. (It was in the works long before a similar show with the same name flopped.)

With help from husband Rex Fowler — with whom she performs, as Aztec Two-Step 2.0 — Dodie completed the project.

Now it’s on Spotify and other digital media. CDs will arrive soon. To download and listen now to this enthralling work, click here.


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In the wake of December’s devastating Kentucky tornadoes, Westporter Steve Crowley and his sons organized a fundraiser downtown.

Governor Andy Beshear recently thanked Crowley for both the money donated, and the specially designed t-shirts created for and sent to affected families.

Beshear also cited the “love and support” of donors, noting “we can come together in troubling times and give a lift to our friends and neighbors. In Kentucky we say ‘we will get through this, we’ll get through this together.’ Thank you for caring and contributing in our time of need.”

Steve Crowley (right) and sons sold t-shirts downtown.

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Edward Thompson is the beloved minister of music at Westport’s Unitarian Church.

He does far more than pick songs and direct the choir. He’s a working composer. On Saturday, February 26 (8 p.m., Unitarian Church of Westport), New York’s Choral Chameleon offers the world premiere of his 12-movement choral piece “Step into the Night.” A jazz quartet will join the voices.

Thompson wrote the work in response to situations like the pandemic, filled with isolation and fear. It includes elements of both the classical tradition and jazz.

Tickets are $25 each, available online and at the door.

Edward Thompson

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There is always something new at Finding Westport.

Jillian Elder has just added t-shirts (short and long sleeve), tanks, hoodies, tumblers, totes and mugs with 2 designs: the Minute Man in an “Interstate” crest (click here to see and order) and “I Really Miss Westport” (click here).

New “Finding Westport” designs.

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Alison Milwe Grace wears two toques. She’s a highly regarded culinary teacher at Staples High School. And her AMG Catering offers not just food for every event, but cooking classes.

Now she’s a television star. News12 Connecticut is featuring her, offering 5 favorite recipes, like honey-glazed chicken thighs and mussels with garlic toast. Click here to see (and then cook!).

Screenshot of Alison Milwe Grace.

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There’s a moose on the Sherwood Island Connector.

At least, it looked like that to Katja Gabrielson. When she posted this image — which I’m stealing as the “Westport … Naturally” image today — on Facebook, many users chimed in that they thought exactly the same thing.

Longtime “06880” readers George, Bev and Jeff Bullwinkel were not available for comment.

(Photo/Katja Gabrielson)

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And finally … because this is (as you know) National Condom Week:

 

 

“06880” Podcast: Rex Fowler & Dodie Pettit

It’s tough to cram half a century of music stardom — and a spectacular new musical about Dracula — into a half-hour conversation.

But that’s what Rex Fowler, Dodie Pettit and I did in our latest “06880” podcast, at the Westport Library’s Verso Studios.

He’s the co-founder of Aztec Two-Step, the internationally known folk-and-more band. She’s a longtime Westporter/Broadway singer and dancer who — while married to fellow actor/singer/Staples High School graduate Kevin Gray — collaborated on that Dracula show. (Not the one that flopped on Broadway.)

Now Dodie and Rex are married too. They perform together as Aztec Two-Step 2.0. And they recently unveiled the soundtrack of their “Dracula” musical at their Westport home.

Click below to listen to their fascinating stories about life on stage, and here.

 

Roundup: Inauguration, Staples Sports, Restaurant News, More

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Tuesday night’s COVID remembrance at the Lincoln Memorial reflecting pool will be remembered for its somber, stunning 400 lights. Each represents 1,000 Americans killed by the coronavirus.

Staples High School 2009 graduate Andrew Lott — a former Staples Players lighting director — played a major role in the event. He also helped light last night’s Biden/Harris inauguration show, featuring musical performances, fireworks, and tributes to Americans affected by the pandemic.

Lott — a University of Michigan alumnus — has worked with the Spoleto and Williamstown Theatre Festivals, Public Theatre, Shakespeare in the Park and Lincoln Center.

He spent 2 years as lighting director for “CNN Tonight.” He now works nationally on a wide variety of events.

Joe Biden, Kamala Harris and their spouses admire 400 lights, at the Lincoln Center reflecting pool.

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Meanwhile, there were no protests — in Washington, state capitals or Westport — yesterday, as Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were sworn in as America’s new leaders.

But Westporters Rex Fowler and Dodie Pettit — aka Aztec Two-Step — headed to the Ruth Steinkraus Cohen Bridge to celebrate.

A few people asked why Fowler was wearing a red hat.

“We are All Americans today,” Pettit explained. “We didn’t think about the color when we went out of the house. Maybe that’s the point!”

Rex Fowler, with flag. (Photo/Dodie Pettit)

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Last Sunday, author Layla F. Saad honored Martin Luther King Day with a  compelling discussion based on her book, “Me and White Supremacy.”

Two days later a panel of local leaders explored how to undertake Saad’s self-guided 28-day process of self-reflection.

It was an important talk. If you missed it — or want to see it again — click below.

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Winter sports practices have begun at Staples High School.

The usual date is around Thanksgiving. The pandemic delayed the start nearly 2 months; the first competition will now be in early February.

For the boys basketball team (shown below), along with girls basketball; boys and girls indoor track, ice hockey and skiing, and boys swimming and diving, it was one small step toward normalcy — though masks are required at all times, and spectators are not allowed.

Wrestling and competitive cheer are still prohibited.

(Photo/Dylan Goodman)

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I got a nice surprise this week with my takeout (fantastic lamb dan dan) from Kawa Ni.

The Japanese/pan-Asian restaurant has partnered with 2 others also owned by Bill Taibe — Don Memo and The Whelk — in a game. Every time you order from one, you get a letter (mine was “E”). When you have enough to spell out the name of one of those restaurants, you can post it to social media (with a tag) and win prizes (a family meal for 4, takeout up to $75, or a cocktail to go).

There are instant prizes too: guac and chips, fried oyster deviled eggs and crab rangoon.

It’s great food fun. And a lot better than a toy with a Happy Meal.

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Noted chef Matthew Redington died unexpectedly earlier this month in New York. He was 40 years old.

The Westport native learned his craft at Acqua restaurant on Main Street under Christian Bertrand, formerly of Lutèce. Matt graduated from New England Culinary Institute where at age 19 he was the youngest person offered a spot in the Advanced Placement Program.

Matt and went on to top chef positions at Jean-George Vongerichten’s Spice Market in New York, Clio in Boston and Tengda in Greenwich (a co-creation of his). At Paul Newman’s The Dressing Room next to the Westport Country Playhouse, he helped Michel Nischan create the groundbreaking farm-to-table menu.

Most recently Matt ran a consultancy, creating culinary themes, concepts and menus for new and re-launched restaurants in New York and Connecticut.

Matt also enjoyed yoga, snowboarding, and innovative art and graphics.

He is survived by his father Thomas of Colebrook; sister Jessica Redington-Jones of Taylors, South Carolina; 3 nieces, 7 aunts, 6 uncles and numerous cousins.

A memorial celebration of Matt’s life will be held at a later date. Donations may be made to the New England Culinary Institute Scholarship Fund, 7 School Street, Montpelier, VT 05602. To leave online condolences, click here.

Matthew Redington

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And finally … Happy 71st birthday to Billy Ocean!