Thomas Nistico, Sr. — known universally as “Tommy,” and a member of the beloved Nistico family who epitomized old Saugatuck as owners of the Arrow restaurant, then served new generations when they revived the famed Red Barn — died yesterday. He was 76
The son of Virginia and Frank Nistico Jr., he grew up in Westport and graduated from Staples High School. He furthered his education at Staunton Military Academy and Memphis State University, before dedicating the rest of his life to his family’s restaurant businesses.
Tommy was an avid sports fan, from football and golf to boxing and fishing. Especially important to him was his involvement in youth sports, and mentoring young children.
He is survived by his wife of 55 years Joan Domalewski Nistico; sons Thomas Jr. & his fiancée Charissa, and Daryl (Lisa); siblings Frank III, Lou, Pam, Richard, and brother-in-law Ron Domalewski, plus many nieces, nephews and godchildren.
He was predeceased by his younger brother John.
Visitation is set for Monday (November 9, 4 to 7 p.m., Collins Funeral Home, 92 East Avenue, Norwalk). A funeral service will be held Tuesday (November 10, 10 a.m., St. Philip Church, 1 Father Conlon Place, Norwalk)
In lieu of flowers, he requested any donations be made to the The Navy Seals. Checks can be written to the Navy League; in the memo line, write “for the RDAC Program.” Checks can be mailed to Captain Andrew Bisset, 18 Canfield Drive, Stamford, CT. 06902.
Last month, the Planning & Zoning Commission approved a proposal for permanent lights on the Wakeman and PJ Romano athletic fields.
On Thursday, 4 Whippoorwill Lane neighbors of the Wakeman property filed suit in Bridgeport Superior Court, appealing the decision for that field.
Shelby Keefer, Christopher Mashia, and Dorothy and John Francis allege that the P&Z’s actions were “illegal, unlawful, arbitrary and capricious and in abuse of powers.”
In addition to charging that the application and supporting documents were incomplete, and the decision was “inconsistent with procedural and substantive requirements,” the plaintiffs says that use of Wakeman for evening events will “interfere with the peaceful use and enjoyment of their property.
The case will be heard December 29.
The turf field (center) is proposed for lights. Whippoorwill Lane runs behind the grass field (top).
POLICE: STOLEN VEHICLE UPDATE
Westport Police have provided an update on Thursday’s stolen vehicle incident.
The driver of a vehicle stolen in Enfield raced away when he saw a police cruiser on Compo Road South. He later crashed on Greens Farms Road, near Prospect Rpad.
Three suspects were quickly apprehended — one through a canine track, one on the I-95 northbound ramp, and the third walking without shoes in Fairfield.
Two were 22-year-old men from Hartford. One was a 21-year-old from Middletown. One was charged with larceny of a motor vehicle and interfering with an officer ($250,000 bond); larceny of a motor vehicle, interfering with an officer and possession of a controlled substance ($75,000 bond), and larceny of a motor vehicle, interfering with an officer, reckless driving, possession of narcotics with intent to sell, and possession of a controlled substance ($250,000 bond).
An 18-year-old from Hartford was arrested later, after seeking assistance from a Greens Farms Road homeowner. He was charged with larceny of a motor vehicle, interfering with an officer and failure to appear, and was held on a $900,000 bond.
The WPD was assisted by Fairfield and Bridgeport Police Departments, and the Connecticut State Police.
book it! big library sale continues today
Bad weather was a boon to the Westport Library’s Big Fall Book Sale.
Yesterday’s opening day drew a big crowd. The big — actually, huge — event continues (in better weather) today through Monday. The schedule:
Today (Saturday): 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Sunday: 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. (Almost everything half-price; $1 fiction and $1 children’s books remain $1)
Monday: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. (Shoppers can fill the Library’s logo bag for $10, or their own same-sized bag for $8, or buy individual items at half price).
Browsing for books yesterday. (Photo/Susan Garment)
mangia! felice offers traditional sunday dinner
Felice — the hot new Main Street restaurant — says, “Somewhere between growing up and getting busy, the Sunday family dinner became a bit of a lost art.”
Now they’ve found it. And brought it back.
Every week they host an “Italian Sunday Table.” The family-style meal includes (of course!) one big table, shared plates, and no rush.
Six dishes are served family style, for $55 per person (4-person minimum; children under 10, $35; under 5, complimentary). Felice wine is $34.
Sunday dinner at Felice.
classic “nutcracker” set for playhouse stage
Sure, you can go to New York to see “The Nutcracker.”
But you can also enjoy Tchaikovsky’s classic ballet much closer to home: at the Westport Country Playhouse.
And at the Norwalk Metropolitan Youth Ballet‘s performances December 5 (1 and 6 p.m.), every role will be danced by a local student.
Including Alissa Zimon. The Greens Farms Elementary School 5th grader has the plum role of Clara.
“The Market” — a holiday event featuring “goods and gifts for a greater good” — takes place Saturday, December 5 (10 a.m. to 4 p.m., Branson Hall at Christ & Holy Trinity Church).
Vendors — including Thistle Farms, Collected Haus antiques and Ajiri Teas, plus jewelry, accessories, ceramics and home decor — join pastry chef Michael Finehirsch, who will serve palmiers, hot chocolate and other treats.
Proceeds benefit the Connecticut Institute for Refugees and Immigrants. There is a suggested entry donation of $20 to $50.
Organizer Margaux Caniato says, “We hope to swap holiday hustle for a more meaningful shopping experience. You can support small businesses, help important causes, and choose from special items for everyone on your list.”
The weekend includes music, crafting workshops, pastry making demonstration, a community circle and more.
“hero to hero” benefit (and “blue bunny”) set for tuesday
Dave Briggs lends his substantial MC talents to many causes.
One of the best is Hero to Hero, the non-profit dedicated to transitioning servicemembers.
They, and the team behind the upcoming film “Blue Bunny,” host their 2nd joint fundraiser, “An Evening of Honor and Service,” this Tuesday (November 10, 6:30 p.m., Fairfield Theatre Company).
Guests will enjoy a sneak peek of footage from “Blue Bunny,” personal appearances from stars of the film, and powerful firsthand accounts from veterans whose lives intersect with the mission of Hero to Hero.
The evening also features food, wine, beer, and a specialty Hero cocktail. creating a warm and celebratory atmosphere in support of a meaningful cause.
Next Friday and Saturday (November 13–14), the Weston Women’s League hosts “Main Street Weston,” its 14th annual holiday market, at St. Francis of Assisi Church. It features over 30 local makers, brands and boutiques.
Proceeds benefit the Weston Warm-Up Fund, which helps residents pay for heating oil, gas and electricity and covers critical heating repairs, and to Weston Human Services.
Last year the market donated $25,000, split evenly between the two.
BOAT PHOTO EARNS TOP STATE PRIZE
Congratulations to Weston photographer Peter Mendelson!
His “Boat Work” has been selected to represent Connecticut in VSCO’s “The Fifty.”
The nationwide project features 1 photographer from each state. The selected image appears on a billboard in that winner’s home state. The site of the Connecticut billboard will be announced soon.
Mendelso took his photo at a Norwalk marina, in the off-season. He was drawn to the red and blue boat hulls, weathered surfaces and intersecting boat stands.
It’s part of “New England Narratives,” his ongoing exploration of the region’s traditions and sense of place.
Mendelson retired after more than 30 years in law, to pursue fine art photography full time. He is a member of the Artists Collective of Westport, and exhibited at Faherty this past summer.
Longtime Weston resident and local realtor Francine Matik died Wednesday in Wilton. She was 86.
The Bronx native and Hunter College graduate first worked as a speech therapist in New York schools.
She and her husband Mickey lived in Yonkers, Rochester and Simsbury, before spending 32 years in Weston.
Fran earned a real estate license in 1976. She worked with Carmen’s Country Homes, Edith Davidson Real Estate, Riverside Shavell and Coldwell Banker.
Fran loved collecting antiques and decorating. She especially enjoyws pieces with history and stories to tell. Many clients sought her help decorating their new homes.
Fran was also passionate about dance and tennis.
She found a spiritual home at Temple Israel. She was a member of the first adult bat mitzvah class, proudly learning to read Hebrew after all 4 children had become B’nai Mitzvah on the same bima.
Fran is survived by her children Leslie (Arthur) Hahn, Amy (Michael) Berkin, David (Libia) and Scott; grandchildren Jesse, Sam (Erica), Lily, Drew, James, Nicholas, Peyton, Talia and Cooper; nieces Laurie and Cathy Casriel and Myong
Feiner, and nephews Eric Casriel and Bruce Feiner. She was predeceased by her
husband Mickey, beloved sister Tamara Casriel and Tamara’s husband, Carl Casriel; sister-in-law Marilyn Feiner and Marilyn’s husband Burton Feiner, and nephew Robert Feiner.
Funeral services will be held at Abraham L. Green and Son Funeral Home in Fairfield this Sunday (11 a.m.). Shiva will be observed at the home of Amy and Michael Berkin in Weston on Sunday (2:30 to 7 p.m.) and Monday (noon to 3 p.m., 5 to 7 p.m.). To join a livestream or send a condolence, click here.
The family extends their gratitude to the nursing staff and care team at Evergreen at The Greens at Cannondale, and RVNA Health & Hospice of Ridgefield.
“westport … naturally” & song of the day
The number of boaters ebbs, as cooler weather settles in.
But don’t tell this guy. He’ll do his thing as long as he can.
Saranda Barisa captured the moment for “Westport … Naturally” — while (of course) out on the water.
And finally … speaking of “The Nutcracker” (as we were above):
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A reminder: Tonight is the night you turn back your clocks — and get back that hour you lost in March. Enjoy!
“DAY IN THE LIFE OF WESTPORT” debuts at y
On Sunday, September 6, 241 photographers submitted 510 photos for the “Day in the Life of Westport” project.
They showed — vividly, colorfully, artistically, prosaically — the enormous variety of things that happened, large and small, that typical day.
Donuts at Coffee An’. A rainbow over Old Mill Beach. A Staples soccer team car wash. Volunteers at Homes with Hope. Kids jumping off a bridge (next to a “No Jumping” sign).
Yesterday, 80 of those images were unveiled at the Westport Weston Family YMCA. They hang handsomely on a wall, just inside the entrance.
A crowd of photographers, residents, Y officials, volunteers from the Artists’ Collective of Westport and League of Women Voters (the project’s sponsors), and 1st Selectman Kevin Christie admired the photos, and the 430 others that played on a screen nearby.
Miggs Burroughs — the Collective’s co-founder — hung the exhibit. The Collective and LWV paid for the printing and framing.
The exhibit is open to the public. Visitors must check in at the front desk.
Of course, this is not the end. Future possibilities include a book and mosaic.
From left: Christina Scherwin, Westport Y COO; committee members Joan Gillman, James Delorey, Miggs Burroughs; 1st Selectman Kevin Christie; committee member Velma Heller. Missing: member Andrea Moore. (Photo/Dan Woog)
CRIBARI BRIDGE HOLIDAY LIGHTS: SPONSORS SOUGHT
Today is Halloween. So of course our thoughts turn to … the Cribari Bridge holiday lights.
Three years ago, Westport PAL took over the beloved tradition. They ensure the lights are strung and maintained.
They do it thanks to sponsors. During this drive, additional proceeds support the PAL Scholarship Fund.
There are 4 levels:
Presenting Sponsor — $2,500+
Community Sponsor — $1,000
Holiday Sponsor — $500
Friends of the Bridge — Contributions of any amount are welcome.
Businesses contributing $500 or more have their name or logo displayed on a sign next to the bridge, throughout the holidays.
Contributions are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law. To sponsor, or learn more, email emmarenglehart@gmail.com.
That’s a big deal for the organizers: the NY Road Runners.
Their CEO, Westport resident Rob Simmelkjaer, will be in the spotlight (until the winners cross the finish line).
On Friday, he was center stage too, at the pre-race gala next to Tavern on the Green. He had the honor of announcing the organization has raised $100,000,000 — that’s $100 million — for charity this year.
He was joined in the photo below by (left) fellow Westporters Jonathan Alloy and marathoner/running coach Jody Bell.
RTM TRANSIT COMMITTEE TO MEET ON BRIDGE
The Representative Town Committee (RTM) Transit Committee meets Monday (November 2, 6 p.m., Zoom).
They’ll continue their discussion of the establishment of a working group or subcommittee to review the proposed Cribari Bridge project; identify key areas of concern, including traffic, public safety, and community impacts, and discuss the RTM’s potential role, organizational structure and next steps.
A GREAT BET: ROWAN CENTER FUNDRAISER
Many Westporters volunteer for, and serve, the Rowan Center. The nonprofit protects children, helps prevent sexual abuse and supports survivors throughout Fairfield County.
On December 3 (6:30 p.m., The Inn at Longshore), the Center’s “Casino and Cocktails for a Cause” will raise both funds and awareness.
183 Wilton Road. The 3-bedroom, 3-bathroom house was built in 1946.
STAPLES HONORS 7 STUDENTS OF THE MONTH
Staples High School’s October Students of the Month are seniors Jace Darby and Shea Root, juniors Grant Theisinger and Elle Worobec, and sophomores Sid Kumar, Chase Landgraf and Anna Setten.
The program recognizes students who “help make Staples a welcoming place for their peers and teachers. They are the ‘glue’ of the Staples community: the type of creative, thoughtful, conscientious students who enable the school to grow and thrive.”
Honorees are nominated by their teachers as students who always work
hard, are friendly to the staff and fellow students, and make positive contributions in class and the Staples community.
From left: Grant Theisinger, Sid Kumar, Jace Darby, Anna Setten, Shea Root, Elle Worobec, Sofia Mutescu.
FOLLOW-UP: REAL ESTATE AND THE ARTS
Yesterday’s “06880” story on the November 17 (8 a.m., SoNo Collection, Norwalk) panel on “Second Acts: Real Estate and the Arts in Fairfield County noted that it was co-sponsored by the Westport and Norwalk Chambers of Commerce.
The link for tickets that was provided to us was to the Norwalk Chamber. But both organizations are registering participants — and each gets proceeds for its registrants.
The Saugatuck Church’s concert season kicks off Friday (November 6, 7 p.m.).
Singer/songwriter Spencer LaJoye offers music and stories. A classically trained violinist, their music blends indie folk, Americana, and deeply personal storytelling. Admission is free.
Spencer LaJoye
obituary: david burgess
David Burgess — a well-respected Westport handyman and caretaker — died September 15, after a 2-year struggle with health problems. He was 72.
David’s family moved to Westport when he was 12. He traveled widely, but always returned here.
David was born in Dobbs Ferry, NY, on March 21, 1954, to Julian Ayres Burgess and Virginia McIntyre Burgess. In 1966, the family moved to Westport; and although as a young man David would travel widely, it was always Westport he returned to, eventually making it his permanent home.
An avid fiction reader, he especially enjoyed science fiction and mysteries. When in his 60s he converted a delivery van into a motor home, he installed a small library.
David’s first workshop was in the basement of the family house on Burritts Landing North, where he learned the basics of repairing and tuning outboard motors. As he grew older he graduated to motorcycles and cars.
David traveled widely, and enjoyed being on the water. In 2008 he inherited the last boat his father ever made.
David’s greatest pleasure was working with his hands. As a young man he did tree work and plowed snow. Later he settled into being a caretaker and handyman for homeowners in Westport and surrounding towns, as well as VFW Post 399.
He had a large clientele, many of whom were elderly. He served as an unofficial health care aide, helping persons with mobility issues get around the house.
In 2024 he fell from a high ladder. This past April he developed trouble walking. Tests found a broken sacrum and severe spinal stenosis. Spinal surgery seemed to help, but while in rehab two more vertebrae fractured.
David is survived by his mother Virginia, brother Randy, aunt and uncle Marie and John McIntyre, step-uncle Ernie Cotrill, and cousins Jennifer Cole, David McIntyre, Anne-Marie McIntyre, Richard Waggoner, Mary Waggoner Moritz, Julie Waggoner, and William Waggoner.
A memorial service will be held on a date and place to be announced later.
David Burgess
“westport … naturally” & song of the day
John Kantor contributes today’s “Westport … Naturally” image.
He writes: “Maybe this is something only tide geeks like me would appreciate. But the king tides this time of year are always impressive. Big highs and big lows.
“This is New Creek, between Sherwood Island and Burying Hill.”
And finally … today’s song — based on the photo above — is of course:
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Homeowners bordering the northern property line are not pleased.
Edith and Samuel Anderson have filed a lawsuit against the town, in Bridgeport Superior Court.
As reported by CT Insider, they allege that excavation work “resulted in the repeated and continuing alteration of the natural flow, volume, direction and concentration of surface stormwater and ground water.”
Soil, mud and silt have been deposited on their Hyde Lane property, including wetlands.
The Andersons call this a violation of the Connecticut Environmental Protection Act. They are also suing for trespassing, and public and private nuisance.
The Andersons’ property is just to the right (north) of the construction. (Drone photo/Brandon Malin)
the arts and real estate in fairfield county
Non-profit arts and culture generates nearly $1 billion in economic activity in Connecticut: $600 million spent by organizations, and another $350 million by audiences on dining, parking
and lodging.
On November 17 (8 a.m., SoNo Collection in Norwalk), FLB Law’s 9th annual Real Estate Outlook explores how the arts give Fairfield County properties a second life, while enriching community culture, attracting foot traffic and increasing real estate values.
Panelists for “Second Acts: Real Estate and the Arts in Fairfield County” — including Carleigh Walsh (Levitt Pavilion), Darcy Hicks (Norwalk Art Space), Eric Bernheim (FLB Law), Danny Loftus George (Norwalk Conservatory of the Arts), Jessica Vonashek (Manresa Island — will discuss the artistic uses of these properties, and why they matter to the real estate market, local businesses and community members.
The Levitt Pavilion is more than an entertainment venue. It’s also an economic engine. (Photo/Susan Garment)
KARAOKE TONIGHT AT THE CLUBHOUSE
Karaoke is alive and well at The Clubhouse.
So far though, it’s been confined to 2 special, dedicated rooms.
Tonight (Friday, 9 to 11 p.m.), the event space on the Post Road near Southport brings karaoke into the bar. In addition to song, they promise drinks, food and fun. To learn more about The Clubhouse, click here.
FOOD HISTORIAN LAUNCHES PEQUOT LIBRARY SERIES
The Pequot Library is launching “The Common Table: A Conversation Series on Culture, Place, and Food.” The talks will feature historians. and food and beverage industry leaders.
The first speaker (November 19, 7 p.m.) is Westport culinary historian, author and journalist Ramin Ganeshram.
A press release says her work “traces the hidden histories of American food. A Pequot Library Fellow, she draws on the library’s Special Collections for her research, including her forthcoming biography of Hercules Posey, the enslaved cook of George Washington and one of the most accomplished culinary figures of his era.
“Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, Saveur, and Food & Wine, and her books include ‘Stir It Up!’ and ‘Sweet Hands: Island Cooking from Trinidad & Tobago.'”
Jay Walshon reports: “Last night, just before sunset, 2 guy friends set this up in the sand at Compo Beach, for their friend to surprise his girlfriend with a ring and the question. Then they hid.”
(Photo/Caroline Walshon)
“15 minutes later the couple arrived. He had her stand in the center, and on bended knee presented her with a ring and asked the question. Two hidden friends filmed with their cell phones.”
After that: How could she say no?
jolantha’s halloween
If there’s a holiday, Jolantha celebrates it.
This Halloween, Hans Wilhelm — the popular Weston pig’s keeper — says, “With so much horror, war and suffering in the world and politics, Jolantha does not believe we need more skeletons, skulls, monsters or fear. Rrather, the wisdom of women (witches) and owls.”
(Photo/Hans Wilhelm)
STAPLES GRAD MARKETS WORLDHOTELS
Best Western is bringing more than 4,000 properties, across 18 brands, under one global umbrella: WorldHotels.
The woman telling the story is chief marketing officer — and 1996 Staples High School graduate — Joelle Heise Park
She’s helping oversee a redesigned website, new app and unified loyalty program, connecting 70 million members.
“Best Western is not getting replaced, and I want to be really clear about that,” Chief Marketing Officer of WorldHotels Joelle Park told USA TODAY. “It remains a core foundational brand.”
Thomas Dean died on Sunday at Stamford Hospital, after a brief battle with cancer. He was 55, and lived in Old Greenwich.
The youngest of 8 children, he was raised in Westport, Connecticut. As his mother’s last child, Janice doted on Tom. She threw him a grand 50th birthday celebration, unique among her children.
Though quiet by nature, he was the first to answer “I’ll be there” whenever the family came together.
After college Tom worked for Xerox and Chesebrough-Pond’s before joining Glencore, where he spent 27 years on the office services team.
During the pandemic he was one of the few employees considered essential, going into an empty office to keep things running for his colleagues working from home.
Tom met Andrea Orbanowski at Norwalk Community College. They shared 30 years together, 22 as husband and wife.
Their life centered on walks with their 4 dachshunds, time at Old Greenwich Tennis Academy and days at the beach.
The couple set sail on cruises each year. This past summer they traveled to Italy and the Mediterranean.
Tom is survived by his wife, Andrea; siblings Mark (Jaime), Christopher (Carline), Jayne Albani (Gaetano), Eric, Mary Ann Lindwall (Mark) and David (Alison Campbell); 19 nieces and nephews, and his dachshunds.
He was predeceased by his parents, Evan and Janice Dean, and his sister Jennifer Burke.
Funeral services will be held November 3 (9 a.m. Church of the Assumption). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tom’s memory to Lucky Dog Refuge, 36 Pulaski Street, Stamford, CT 06902.
Tom Dean
“westport … naturally” & SONG OF THE DAY
Yesterday morning, Dave Wilson headed to Sherwood Island.
Curious to see 20 or so people — many with telephoto lens cameras — crowded around a tree, he asked what was happening.
A knowledgeable birdwatcher told him: a vermilion flycatcher.
But not just any one. This was the first time such a bird has been seen in Connecticut.
The Connecticut Ornithological Association was on the case, Dave reports.
Dave checked a “Rare Bird Alert” social media page.
Sure enough, they confirmed the sighting.
“Wowzers!” one birdwatcher wrote. “No mistaking that for anything else.”
Vermilion flycatcher at Sherwood Island. (Photo/Jo Fasciolo)
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Yesterday, the Westport Police Department responded to multiple reports of mail stolen overnight from mailboxes, and discarded in several neighborhoods.
Areas include Hillspoint Road, Prospect Road, Greens Farms Road and Compo Beach area.
Police suspect that thieves were seeking items of value and checks, credit cards, etc.
Residents can help reduce opportunities for theft by:
Retrieving mail and packages as soon as possible after delivery.
Arranging for a trusted neighbor to collect deliveries when away from home.
Using secure delivery locations, parcel lockers or signature confirmation when available.
Signing up for delivery notifications, and tracking expected packages.
Hand delivering any outgoing mail containing checks or sensitive information directly to a post office facility.
Arranging for a mail hold when traveling.
Installing security cameras or video doorbells to help monitor delivery areas.
Reporting suspicious activity around mailboxes, mailrooms, and residential properties.
If you believe your mail or a package has been stolen, report the incident and provide tracking information, delivery confirmations, photographs or video footage.
Residents should also notify the delivery carrier or postal service and contact the sender or retailer regarding missing shipments.
Anyone with information about these incidents should call the WPD: 203-341-6000.
Discarded mail after thefts, in the Compo Beach neighborhood.
PARKS & REC WINTER PROGRAM REGISTRATION BEGINS
Registration has begun, for Parks & Recreation Department winter programs.
They include:
Ice skating: Parent and Tot, Tot Basic, Intro to Figure Skating, and Inclusive Skating.
Winter tennis: Indoor offerings at Sylvan Tennis Club.
Pickleball: Indoor play at Northeast Athletic Center.
Aquatics: Westport Swim Club, water polo and lifeguarding classes.
A water polo clinicover the Thanksgiving holiday, led by Barcelona International Water Polo Academy, focuses on skill development and tactical training.
A new beginner fencing program for ages 10–14 launches in January.
For program details, registration, fees and other information, click here. Questions? Call 203-341-5152.
WAKEMAN, PJ ROMANO LIGHTS: CLARIFICATION
Yesterday, “06880” reported that the Planning & Zoning Commission voted 4-1 on Tuesday to allow lights on Wakeman and PJ Romano Fields.
Two clarifications: commissioner Craig Schiavone asked the Parks & Recreation Commission to ensure that games are not played on nights that there are other student or parent activities planned at Saugatuck Elementary School — not Staples, as originally reported — to cut down on traffic, and ensure adequate parking.
It should be noted too that lights will be allowed Mondays through Saturdays only. There will be no lights on Sundays.
Restrictions on the use of lights at PJ Romano Field, behind Saugatuck Elementary School, will help alleviate traffic concerns. (Drone photo/Brandon Malin)
voter guide to 2026 election: be ballot smart!
Voting is underway. On the ballot: Candidates for governor, Congress, and the Connecticut General Assembly.
Don’t dog it! Check out CT Mirror’s Voter Guide. (Photo/Jo Shields)
Speaking of the election: on Monday, the League of Women Voters Westport hosted a debate with 4th District congressional candidates Jim Himes, Michael Goldstein and Ben Wesley, at the Westport Library.
Click here or below to watch. (Hat tip: Sal Liccione)
positive directions: $125K to PREVENT UNDERAGE DRINKING AND DRUGS
Positive Directions – The Center for Prevention & Counseling has been awarded a 5-year grant of $125,000. The funds, from the Connecticut Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services, will expand efforts to prevent underage alcohol and cannabis use in Westport.
The grant builds on a collaboration between Positive Directions, Westport’s Human Services and Police Departments, the Aspetuck Health District, Westport Public Schools, parents and guardians, youth, and other community partners.
The grant will fund a full-time prevention coordinator and youth peer advocate at Positive Directions. It will also support expanded youth leadership opportunities, parent and caregiver education, community awareness efforts, substance-free teen activities, and enhanced prevention strategies.
robo wreckers reach out
This spring, the Staples High School Robotics Club team won the RAINS Drone Competition. as All-Around Champions.
This year, they’re spreading their robotic wings. They’ll compete in Aerial Drone and SeaPerch.
The “Robo Wreckers” are giving back too. Club members are writing an open-source drone curriculum for other Connecticut schools. They hope to get drone kits into schools that can’t afford them.
To make it all happen, they’ve started a GoFundMe. Donations will go toward competition fees, drone kits, parts, travel and more. Click here to help.
Staples Robotics Club
SHERRY JAGERSON’S SUSTAINABLE FOUNTAIN
The new water refill station at Winslow Park has an even newer name.
On Sunday, Sustainable Westport dedicated its contribution to conservation in memory of Sherry Jagerson.
Family, friends and neighbors celebrated the longtime environmental activist.
Earth Animal joined Westport’s Parks & Recreation Department as partners. The many dogs on hand enjoyed natural dog treats, and a basket of earth-friendly toys and accessories.
The Winslow Park refill station is part of UnPlastic Westport, Sustainable Westport’s community-wide effort to reduce single-use plastic. More stations are planned around town. To help fund the next one, click here.
Fill ‘er up!
GOOD VIBEZ FOR GIRLS
Good Vibez is a great idea.
Two Westport moms organize retreats for girls ages 11–15. They build healthy habits, boost confidence, and learn practical tools to help them feel their best, while having fun.
Each retreat is led by a team of professionals. Activities include yoga, mindfulness and meditation, healthy cooking lessons. art projects, group discussions and opportunities for reflection and connection.
The goal is to create a warm, uplifting environment where girls can unplug, recharge, and leave feeling more confident and grounded.
The “Career Coach” returns to the Westport Library parking lot tomorrow (Thursday, October 22), for a session on “Job Seeker Strategies for the Digital Age.”
Future sessions include “Excel II” (November 19) and “Intro to PowerPoint” (December 17).
There are 2 sessions ( 10 a.m. and 1 p.m.) each day; both are 2 hours long. Registrants can choose one.
The service is available to people who are exploring career opportunities, actively looking for a job, or seeking additional part-time employment. Click here to reserve a spot.
HALLOWEEN ON HILLANDALE
Today’s spooky Halloween decorating scene comes from the free library at the Hillandale Road/Morningside Drive South corner:
(Photo/Bob Weingarten)
OBITUARY: BERNIE ORENSTEIN
Noted television comedy writer and producer, and longtime Westport and Weston resident, Bernie Orenstein died September 14. He was 95.
Throughout his 40-year career he collaborated with stars like Joan Rivers, Dean Martin, Judy Garland, Dick Van Dyke, Marlo Thomas, Redd Foxx and Bing Crosby.
With creative partner Saul Turteltaub he wrote and produced classics including “That Girl,” “The New Dick Van Dyke Show,” “Cosby,” “What’s Happening!!” and
“Sanford and Son.”
Bernie was also a generous mentor and educator, inspiring a new generation of writers and producers through LIU Brooklyn’s TV Writers Studio MFA program.
He is survived by beloved wife Barbara Rhoades Orenstein; children Lisa, Barbara, Jenny and Alec; 8 grandchildren, and 4 great-grandchildren.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Westport Center for Senior Activities.
For an obituary in the Hollywood Reporter, click here.
Bernie Orenstein
“WESTPORT … NATURALLY” & SONG OF THE day
“Egrets” — the 7 1/2-foot stainless steel sculpture by Babette Bloch — enhances Canal Park every day.
These days, it too is enhanced — by the trees and plants that surround it. John Maloney’s autumnal shot is a golden addition to our daily “Westport … Naturally” series.
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All 5 Westport polling locations are open Tuesday, November 3, from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m.:
Now, have a chance to learn how to prevent damage by bad guys — and to meet Sam, one of the real good guys.
The event is next Tuesday (October 27, 6 p.m., VFW Post 399). It’s hosted by (of all groups) the Wilton Drum Hill chapter of the Daughters of the American Revolution (who only had to worry about Benedict Arnold).
But that’s not all.
Soon, Sam will team up with the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce, for a pair of Verso University “Lunch and Learn” sessions at the Westport Library.
Both are at noon, on November 13 and December 11. The first topic is “AI for Small Businesses“; the second builds on that one, for “Next Steps” (though previous attendance is not required).
No technical background required. The Library says: “Bring your lunch, your questions, and a real task you’d like help with.”
Sam Disraelly
PINKALICIOUS halloween
Halloween’s color is orange.
But this Sunday (October 25, 2 to 3 p.m.), the holiday turns pink.
Westport “Pinkalicious” author Victoria Kann will read her new book, “Snickerdoodle.” It’s a family-friendly event, with books available for purchase and signing.
Then comes trick-or-treating on Jesup Green. Westport Animal Shelters Advocates will join the fun. Guests can bring items from their wish list to donate.
Email (kids.westportlibrary@gmail.com) a photo of your dog dressed in costume, for possible inclusion in a slideshow.
EVERLASTING EVERGREEN SEWER WORK
As anyone who has tried to take the Evergreen Avenue shortcut knows, you can’t get to Myrtle Avenue from there.
As part of ongoing work, homes on that road were connected to temporary water a few weeks ago.
Now, digging has begun on Evergreen Parkway. They’ll go about 100 feet a day. That involves digging a trench navigating around gas, sewer, roots, rocks and other buried stuff; laying the pipe, then covering it all up, including an asphalt patch on the road.
Once the water main is installed, it is pressure tested for leaks. When the main is secure, workers dig up the road again and connect every house to it.
There is no estimated date for completion.
Evergreen work. (Hat tip and photo/Mark Mathias)
SKELETON SAYS: SLOW DOWN!
Today’s featured Halloween home decoration doubles as an important warning to all drivers on Compo Road North, near Cross Highway:
(Photo/Diane Bosch)
vince mcmahon crash: charges dropped
Speaking of speeding: In July of 2025 WWE co-founder Vince McMahon was involved in a high-speed accident on the Merritt Parkway, in Westport.
Driving northbound near Exit 20 (formerly Exit 41) at a speed of 110 to 115 miles an hour, the 79-year-old Greenwich resident slammed his Bentley Continental GT into the back of a BMW. He caromed off a guardrail, then continued driving before a Connecticut state trooper pulled him over.
The WWE owner told the officer he was in a hurry to get to his granddaughter’s birthday. Click here or below for a dashcam video.
He received a misdemeanor summons for reckless driving and following too closely, and was released at the scene on a $500 bond. In October, he was granted accelerated rehabilitation for one year, on the condition he make a charitable contribution.
On Thursday, a judge dismissed the charges completely.
McMahon’s lawyer, Mark Sherman, said, “As we’ve maintained in this case, not every car accident is a crime and Mr. McMahon is grateful to the court for this quick dismissal.” (Hat tip: Bill Dedman)
food drive saturday at the y
Members of the National Charity League Westport chapter volunteer at — and donate food and clothes to — Person to Person.
Now, they’ve organized a food collection event, to benefit clients of the Norwalk nonprofit. It’s this Saturday (10 a.m. to 5 p.m.), at the Westport Weston Family YMCA.
Most-needed items include hearty soups, pasta and sauces, peanut butter and jelly, dried and canned beans, cold cereal, oatmeal, snack and granola bars, rice (1-pound boxes), mac and cheese, canned fruits and vegetables, pancake mix, and shelf-stable milk.
“COLOSSI” AT MOCA: WHAT IT ALL MEANS
Visitors are flocking to MoCA\CT, for Rick Schaefer’s monumental charcoal drawings.
On Saturday (October 24, 4 p.m.), the artist will discuss the historical, political and visual dimensions of his work.
He’ll be joined by Avon Theater executive director Peter Gistelinck, and artist/ educator/urban policy leader Rick Bell. MoCA director Robin Jaffee Frank will moderate.
Together, they will explore Shaefer’s “Colossi” series. His images of vast walls in open landscapes evoke ancient monuments, while addressing contemporary questions of borders, land use, security and environmental change.
The event is free, with support from the CORA Foundation.
dave kardas band rocks the vfw
Blues, rock, jazz and original music fill VFW Post 399 this Friday (October 23, 6 to 8 p.m.).
The very popular Dave Kardas Band returns. Also on tap: happy hour drinks, and bar food.
at the vfw too: jazz @ the post
Pianist Brian Marsella returns to the VFW, for Thursday’s Jazz at the Post (October 22, 7 and 8:15 p.m.; dinner service at 6:15). The “psychedelic Art Tatum” is joined by bassist Reid Taylor, drummer Brian Floody and saxophonist Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall.
Westport resident Carolyn Landis died Friday. She was 87.
A graduate of the Bronx High School of Science and Barnard College, with a degree in zoology, she taught science in the New York City public schools. After moving to Connecticut, she became a technical science writer.
Carolyn was a voracious reader and tennis player. Later, water aerobics at the YMCA became a daily ritual, and a source of both exercise and friendship
She is survived by her husband of 67 years, Alan; sons Eric (Johanna) of Rye, New Hampshire, and Mark (Deb) of New York, and grandchildren Beau (Katie Sweeney), Aaron, Justin (Maddie) and William (Emily).
A memorial service is set for Thursday (October 22, 2 p.m., Abraham L.
Green & Son Funeral Home, Fairfield). Contributions in Carolyn’s name can be
made to the Westport Library or Saint Jude’s.
Carolyn Landis
“WESTPORT … NATURALLY,” & SONG OF THE DAY
Some of the trees have turned, in Winslow Park.
But many others have not — as today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo sure shows.
Clayton Chalfant — one of Westport’s last World War II veterans, who landed at Omaha Beach, helped establish our town’s sister city relationship with Marigny-le-Lezon, served as grand marshal of our Memorial Day parade, and 2 years ago received the Legion of Honor, France’s highest honorary distinction — died Tuesday. He was 102.
Friends and family will meet at St. Luke Church at 10 a.m. this Friday (October 23). A funeral Mass will follow at 11.
In February of 2024, when Clayton turned 100, “06880” honored him with this story.
In mid-20th century Westport, the name Clayton Chalfant was a familiar one.
A heavy machine gunner who landed at Omaha Beach shortly after D-Day, he helped establish our town’s sister city relationship with Marigny-le-Lezon, a Normandy town he had passed through.
Nearly 80 years later, the two towns’ ties remain strong.
So does Chalfant. Today, he celebrates his 100th birthday.
Two views of Clayton Chalfant.
He’s not a Westport native — but he comes close. Soon after his February 21, 1924 birth in Killingly, Connecticut, his family moved to Westport.
They lived on Compo Road and in an apartment on Main Street (possibly above the original Klein’s store) before settling in a home on Kings Highway.
Chalfant attended Westport schools. He spent his youth playing sports, and hanging out at the Gault sandpit on Imperial Avenue, the YMCA, Compo Beach and Nash’s Pond.
The family survived the Great Depression. His father Russ held multiple jobs to keep the family fed and sheltered. It was not easy.
As a teen Chalfant worked in a Main Street bakery, making doughnuts. Their sweet smell still lingers in his memory.
When World War II broke out, his older brother Jim served as a medic. But Clayton was too young for the draft.
Heavy machine gunner Clayton Chalfant.
He and a few of his Westport pals, including Bob Saxonmeyer, went to the Navy recruitment office. Chalfant was turned away, but his patriotism, sense of honor and duty to serve the nation never waned.
He joined the Army in January, 1943, and headed to basic training at Fort Devens, Massachusetts.
Assigned to the 486th Anti-aircraft Battalion, his unit landed on Omaha Beach on June 21, 1944. He was a heavy machine gunner on a half-track mobile unit, protecting aircraft.
The amount of precision and detail communicated among forces is astonishing, considering the limited technology available.
Chalfant served in 5 battle campaigns: Normandy, northern France, Rhineland, Ardennes and Central Europe.
He has not been forgotten. The consulate general recently invited him to be France’s guest at the 80th celebration of D-Day this June, in honor of his service to their nation.
Twice in Europe — once at the beginning of his tour, then toward the end — Chalfant had a reunion with his brother. The meetings buoyed their spirits, and strengthened their resolve.
In 2004, as parade grand marshal, Clayton Chalfant proudly delivered Westport’s Memorial Day address. (Photo courtesy of WestportNow.com)
Chalfant enjoyed creative writing. During the war a battalion committee created a yearbook about their experiences. He contributed a futuristic view of the men after the war.
His creative flair later evolved into a long love of painting, sculpting and sketching.
Chalfant attended his first Catholic Mass during the war. He converted to the faith upon his discharge, and received all of his sacraments at Assumption Church.
He is now a parishioner at St. Luke. He considers faith to be paramount in living a joyful and generous life.
Clayton and Mary Chalfant, with then-1st Selectman Jim Marpe.
Also back in Westport, Chalfant started a discussion group of World War II servicemembers.
When Staples French Department chair Charlotte MacLear wanted to form a sister city relationship, it was Chalfant (and gun sergeant Bob Loomis) — both of whom had passed through Marigny, just 25 miles from Utah Beach — who made the connection with that town.
For more than a decade, Westporters sent holiday gifts, clothes and food to Marigny residents.
In return, they created a Westport School Canteen, and named their largest square “Place Westport.”
In June 1994 — as part of the 50th anniversary of the invasion of Normandy — Marigny officials invited 3 Westport middle school students and 2 Westport veterans to stay in the homes of residents. They visited “Westport Gift Shop” and “Pharmacie Westport.”
Nearly half a century earlier, through his brother’s wife Florence, Chalftant had met the love of his life, Mary Speer. On April 10, they’ll celebrate their 76th anniversary. They have 5 children, 10 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren (so far).
And today, Chalfant celebrates his century birthday today with many of those family members. They are proud to call him husband, dad, grandpa and Pop Pop.
And “06880” is proud to wish “Happy 100th Birthday” to Clayton Chalfant: war hero, longtime Westporter, and — today — our newest centenarian.
(For a story on the Town Hall ceremony for Clayton Chalfant’s Legion of Honor award from France’s consul general, click here.)
For more than 20 years, Paris Looney has helped the most vulnerable people in our community.
As vice president and chief operating officer of Homes with Hope, every day Paris helps people in crisis find a safe place to sleep.
Now her own family needs help.
Six years ago, Paris’ son Don was diagnosed with stage 5 kidney disease. He has relied on life-sustaining dialysis for many years.
Paris’ youngest daughter Tausha was found to be a 100% compatible match for her brother. A mother of 4 who tutors 2nd-grade children with learning disabilities who come from military families, she lives in Massachusetts.
One day earlier this month, Don and Tausha had surgery at Hartford Hospital. The transplant was successful. Both went home 6 days later, and are doing well.
But the road ahead is long, and expensive. Don will need lifelong medications and ongoing follow-up care. Tausha, still recovering from major surgery, will be out of work and away from her family routine while she heals.
A GoFundMe campaign has set a goal of $20,000. All funds go directly to Paris, and will help cover:
Medical bills, equipment and follow-up care
Income lost by Don and Tausha during recovery
Rent, groceries, utilities and transportation
Repairs to Don’s car, which he needs to drive himself to appointments
A reclining chair and bed wedge for Tausha
Movers and cleaners, since Don must leave his apartment this month and move in with Paris.
Early voting starts Monday (October 19) and continues through Sunday, November 1.
Early voting locations are open 7 days a week throughout the state, from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Extended hours (8 a.m. to 8 p.m.) are set for Tuesday, October 27 and Thursday, October 29.
Westport’s early voting site is the Town Hall auditorium.
On Election Day (Tuesday, November 3), all regular polling places will be open.
(Photo/Mark Yurkiw)
mad dog russo MEETS THE Y’S MEN
The Y’s Men of Westport and Weston have a robust speakers series.
Most are at their regular meeting place: Saugatuck Church.
This past Thursday, they moved to the Westport Library. They knew this one would draw a huge crowd.
Chris “Mad Dog” Russo did not disappoint.
After 40 years in sports broadcasting, he knows his stuff.
Well, maybe not all of it.
Mad Dog predicted that the Dodgers would win the World Series, likely over Cleveland. That won’t happen.
He also said that Major League Baseball would lose at least a month next season to a labor dispute, and that the NBA is headed for an especially strong year, fueled by major-market rivalries and rising young stars.
Chris “Mad Dog” Russo, at the Westport Library. (Photo/Allan Siegert)
MIGGS BURROUGHS, AT (AND ON) 80
With many Americans living longer*, the New York Times recently asked readers who are getting close to their sell-by date about longevity.
Several hundred responded. One was our own Miggs Burroughs. He is, after all, 80 years old. Though no one (least of all him) can believe it.
The very energetic, creative, talented, still-working-hard, always-willing-to-volunteer artist made the cut.
On Thursday, the Times printed his response:
No matter our age, health or station in life, we are all passengers on the same planet and live through the same 24 hours each day. My father who died at 80, the age I am now, used to say that there is no shame in being the best passenger you can be during the ride.
My mother who lived to 102 held grudges to the day she died. A friend said that her behavior was like setting her own hair on fire, hoping the people who had done her wrong would choke on the smoke. Longevity is no guarantee of enlightenment, but enlightenment never grows old.
20% of gross sales from the 2026 Hope In Bloom Collection will be donated directly to National Breast Cancer Foundation to support early detection, education, and patient support services for those affected by breast cancer.
obituary: peter maloney
Peter Maloney died at his Westport home on Tuesday. He was 77.
Peter fought a long battle with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, but was determined to live his life to the fullest until the very end. He worked at Bloomberg for 28 years, retiring this past July.
He enjoyed spending time outside: on a golf course, swimming at Compo Beach, or hiking anywhere from Redding, CT to the Catalonia Coast of Spain.
He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Carol, and children Tim, John and Kate; brothers Edward and Jeffrey Maloney; sisters Maureen Bowen, Mari Maloney and Tara Parsley; 15 in-laws, and 21 nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother James Maloney and sister Barbara Maloney.
A mass will be held at St. Luke Church on Monday (October 19, 11 a.m., with a reception to follow.
Fall continues to inspire, with ever-changing colors. Today’s “Westport … Naturally” images comes from the Lansdowne condos.
(Photo/Lauri Weiser)
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And finally … in honor of Miggs Burroughs, and the New York Times’ celebration of longevity (item above):
NOTE: Neil Young was 26 when he wrote this.
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New state motor vehicle laws went into effect October 1.
And breaking them could cost you.
According to Asia Rutledge of On the Marc media, “Connecticut’s new distracted driving law goes beyond texting. Drivers can be ticketed for holding or supporting a phone, using it outside hands-free mode, reading or typing messages, or having videos visible while driving — even while stopped at a red light.”
There are exceptions for navigation and driver-assisted systems.
NOTE: Distracted driving violations can increase insurance rates by 64% — that’s $1,083 a year.
The first violation for passing a stopped school bus brings a $450 fine. Subsequent violations can cost up to $1,000, and result after a third time in loss of license. Our “06880” Police Reports routinely note these violations — including multiple offenders.
Texting — even while stopped — is illegal.
THE SHORES: official welcome
The Shores — the new name for what was once St. Vincent’s Behavioral Health, and for decades before that, Hall-Brooke Hospital — has been operating quietly, but effectively, in Westport since Hartford HealthCare took over St. Vincent’s.
This week, 1st Selectman Kevin Christie joined company officials, including CEO Jeffrey Flaks, for a ceremonial ribbon-cutting.
Welcoming The Shores to Westport. CEO Jeffrey Flaks (7th from left), 1st Selectman Kevin Christie (9th from left), and others. (Photo/Dave Briggs)
“06880” reporter Dave Briggs was at the ceremony. Click here or below for his interviews.
The Shores offers 76 beds, for acute adult cases, children and adolescents, and a mood and anxiety program.
A new Welcome Center — open 6 days a week, including evenings — allows people to talk with clinicians. If admission is appropriate, it happens quickly. If not, they may be referred to one of the outpatient facilities.
CLOSET FACTORY OPENS DOORS
Last year, Westport residents Dan and Melanie bought the local Closet Factory, across from Stop & Shop.
She is an interior designer, with a background in residential and commercial work. His background is in entrepreneurship and investing.
Their goal was to create a welcoming space where people could possibilities for their homes, from an organizational upgrade to a larger custom project.
Their new showroom includes a wide range of displays, styles and finishes, going far beyond closets. The staff handles everything from design consultation through installation, with all cabinetry manufactured in Bethel.
They work closely with local interior designers, builders and architects. A grand opening is set for this Saturday (October 17, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.).
BINGO! CLUB203 SCORES
Club203’s Halloween Bingo Party filled the Westport Center for Senior Activities last night with dozens of people in creatives costumes.
Members of the social club for adults with disabilities enjoy laughter, games, and plenty of Halloween fun.
Volunteers led by Holly and Paul Betts, along with caller Doug Brill and cookie decorating ace Avery Horne, made the evening extra special.
Bingo! (Hat tip and photo/Stacie Curran)
jane austen at 250
A free Sunday Symposium on October 25 (after the 3 p.m. Westport Country Playhouse performance of the world premiere of “Ken Ludwig’s Pride and Prejudice, Part 2: Napoleon at Pemberley”) explores “Pride and Prejudice” author Jane Austen’s legacy, 2 1/2 centuries after her birth.
Moderator Kelle Ruden is a member of the Jane Austen Society North America.
The show runs from October 20 through November 7. Celebrating Austen’s 250th anniversary year, it is a lively ensemble comedy about marriage, ambition, and the thrill of changing one’s destiny. For more information and tickets, click here.
SPEED KILLS
This Coleytown area family manages to, um, kill 2 birds with one stone.
They send an important message — with a Halloween twist.
(Photo/Julie Whamond)
BE CAREFUL OUT THERE!
We’re not sure what happened here yesterday.
But this is not something you want to see when you come back to your car at the Westport train station.
(Photo/Dave Briggs)
OBITUARY: MARTIN SLATTERY
Former Westport YMCA aquatics director, swim instructor, lifeguard and Water Rats coach Martin Slattery died October 1, after a long illness. He was 53.
In addition to his Y work, he was an automotive service manager with Subaru and Park Place Lexus. In every role he enjoyed working with people, solving problems, and helping others succeed.
Martin enjoyed attending car shows, refining his automotive detailing skills, and working on projects in his garage. His other interests included music, exploring the outdoors, discovering a great bargain, and enjoying a good meal or cup of coffee.
In his later years Martin faced significant health challenges, including end-stage renal failure. He always maintained a positive attitude. He died of heart failure during a dialysis treatment.
Martin is survived by his wife Deborah; sons Cadyn and Meryk; parents Martin and Margaret Slattery; sister Maureen, and brother Michael.
There will be a celebration of Martin’s life on October 22 (10 a.m., Allen Family Funeral Options, Plano, Texas).
POLICE REPORTS
Westport Police made 2 custodial arrests between October 7 and 13.
A 41-year-old Westport Man was charged with disorderly conduct and threatening, after a complaint about a 2-day period in which the man made repeated threats of physical harm, while brandishing a knife. He was held on a $100,000 bond.
A 42-year-old Westport man was charged with disorderly conduct, following an investigation into 3 incidents in August in which the man was allegedly under the influence of alcohol, and was verbally aggressive and threatening. He was released on a $500 bond.
Westport Police also issued these citations:
Failure to obey state traffic commission regulations: 5 citations
Traveling unreasonably fast: 4
Texting while driving: 4
Operating a motor vehicle under suspension: 4
Failure to renew registration: 4
School zone violation, 2nd offense: 2
Operating a motor vehicle without a license: 2
Failure to obey traffic control signals: 2
Transporting a child under 5 without restraints: 1
Failure to drive in the proper lane: 1
Failure to grant right of way: 1
Failure to obey stop sign: 1
Following too closely: 1
Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 1
Operating a motor vehicle without minimum insurance: 1
Improper rear lights: 1
Children need car seats!
“WESTPORT … NATURALLY” & SONG OF THE daY
Wendy Levy spotted today’s interesting “Westport … Naturally” image on Old Road.
(Photo/Wendy Levy)
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And finally … we missed this yesterday: the 100th anniversary of the publication of “Winnie-the-Pooh.” So, as the classic tale begins its 2nd century:
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But it’s hard to recall a buzzier beginning than hi’Amba.
Bill Taibe’s new Mediterranean-and-more spot in the former Basso/Matsu Sushi/Fine Arts III theater space on Jesup Road has drawn huge crowds — and great raves.
CTBites took notice too. Click here for their take on Westport’s newest hot spot.
Bill Taibe greets the first-day crowd. (Photo/Dan Woog)
board of ed talks special ed
The Board of Education has 2 discussion items on its agenda for tomorrow’s meeting (Thursday, 7 p.m., Staples High School cafeteria and Zoom).
They are the recommendation by superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice of the firm to conduct a review of special education, and the results of the K-12 school climate survey.
The Board is likely to recommend Four Point Education Partners for the special education review. Six companies submitted proposals to the Board of Education.
A group of parents continues to push the BOE to select a firm that will conduct a comprehensive, independent and transparent review of the entire special education program. Click here for their petition.
P&Z: LIGHTS, OLD MILL GROCERY
Different town board, different agenda: Lights on the Wakeman and PJ Romano athletic fields are back on the docket, for the Planning & Zoning Commission meeting next Monday (October 19, 6 p.m., Zoom).
Also planned: a public hearing on text and map amendments, to permit outdoor eating and the sale of alcohol at establishments like Old Mill Grocery & Deli.
To see all background materials: Click here, then scroll down to 70 North Avenue (Wakeman Field), 170 Riverside Avenue (PJ Romano Field) and 222 Hillspoint Road (Old Mill Grocery).
Lights have been proposed for the Wakeman turf field (center).
$10,000 GRANTS AVAILABLE FOR NON-PROFITS
Does your organization want $10,000?
The Westport Woman’s Club is once again offer funding of up to 10 grand to non-profits, for a project during 2026-27 that benefits social services, health, safety, arts or education in Westport.
The Ruegg Grant was founded from an endowment by former WWC member Lea Ruegg. Over $200,000 in Ruegg Grants have been awarded by the WWC since 1995.
But Westport’s VFW Post 399 has become Westport’s go-to comedy stopo.
This Friday (doors at 7 p.m., show at 8), “NYC Comedy Night” features favorite Joe Pontillo, and a new cast of comedians: Rich Shultis, Michael Agunbiade and Trish Bradbury Gernert.
Speaking of entertainment: When opera and musical theater professional Wendy Morgan-Hunter moved here with her family from the Bay Area 15 years ago, she was particularly excited to explore our cultural life.
Wendy is the founder and CEO of High Octave Productions. Working with fellow Westporters Tami Benanav (partner and COO) and documentarian Chris Bolan (producer), they find unheard voices in theater, TV and film, and create opportunities for powerful connections with audiences.
The team’s latest project brings Westport to the London stage with “The Radium Girls: A New Musical.” The cast of 16 — including 12 female roles — is a powerful exploration of the young women who worked the line at radium watch dial factories across North America in the 1920s.
The show is set for the Southwark Playhouse in March, at the exact same theater that launched “Operation Mincemeat” and “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button.”
Motherhood is not easy. For mothers with ADHD, shifting identity, emotional regulation, executive functioning challenges, and the constant pressure to keep everything moving can make this stage of life especially complicated.
Many women navigate these experiences quietly, feeling unseen or believing they should manage it all better. On November 12 (9 a.m., Beyond Yoga, 136 Main Street) host “Sharing the Invisible Load: ADHD, Motherhood & Identity.”
The morning combines movement, conversation, support, and connection with other women who understand the experience. In addition to coffee and light bites, Beyond Yoga will offer attendees 20% off in-store shopping after the event.
This event is for mothers with a formal ADHD diagnosis, as well as those who identify with ADHD-related experiences and want to better understand themselves during this demanding phase of life.
One of the biggest charity walks — the one to end Alzheimer’s — is at Sherwood Island State Park on October 25 (10:30 a.m.).
In a ceremony that begins at 10, walkers carry flowers of various colors, each representing their personal connection to the disease.
Right now, 80,000 people in Connecticut live with Alzheimer’s. Anyone with a connection to the disease, or another form of dementia — and anyone concerned about their own brain health — is invited to join. For more information and to register, click here.
JOHANNA PAGANI LAUNCHES NEW BOOK
Local author Johanna Pagani launches her new book, “Violent Hill,” at Westport Book Shop October 30 (6 p.m.). The evening includes food and drinks, a reading, Q-and-A, and a signing.
Her thriller is about an asylum with terrifying secrets.
Johanna Pagani
obituary: charlie Mcbride
Westport resident Charles “Charlie” McBride died peacefully at Norwalk Hospital on Friday. He was 77.
Charlie lived a full and active life until this June. He walked 10,000 steps a day, spent Memorial Day weekend in Kennebunkport, Maine, and traveled last year to Europe.
Charlie grew up on Wilson Point in Norwalk, where he developed a lifelong love of boating, tennis and being on the water.
He graduated from Fairfield Prep in 1967 and Boston College in 1971. He earned an MBA from Iona College in 1982. He was a certified public accountant and chartered global management accountant.
Charlie served 6 years in the Connecticut Army National Guard, rising to staff sergeant. In 1972 he began a 44-year career at Pitney Bowes, retiring as vice president of investor relations. He also served for many years as board chair of Pitney Bowes Employees Federal Credit Union.
Charlie met his wife of 48 years, Judy, through a bowling team. They married in 1978. He is survived by her; daughter Meredith Frances McBride (Jonathan Hack) of Westpor; his son, Charles McBride II (Hannah Elizabeth) of Needham, Massachusetts; grandchildren Xavier Jonathan Hack-McBride, Quintin, Lily, Owen and Dylan; sisters Theresa (Chris) Levy and Eileen (John) Margherio of Charleston, South Carolina, and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews. He was predeceased by his sister Mary McBride Konrad, and his beloved black labs Bogart, Char and Digger.
Relatives and friends may call on Friday (October 23, 4 to 7:30 p.m., Harding Funeral Home). A funeral Mass will be held Saturday (October 24, 11 a.m., St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Fairfield).
And finally … in honor of the VFW’s new role as comedy club central (item above):
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