Staples Students’ Veterans Day Speech: “Indian And Polish, We Are Proud To Call Ourselves Americans” [A Must Read For All Westporters]

One of the highlights of Westport’s Veterans Day ceremony is always an address by a Staples High School senior.

With wisdom and insight beyond their years, they remind us each year of the importance of citizenship, service, and honoring those whose sacrifice ensured that those teenagers could stand at that lectern, that day.

This morning’s address at Town Hall was extra special. Ignacy Nieweglowski and Sahil Vora have unique stories to tell — and they told them superbly. Alternating at the microphone, they said:

Thank you so much for being here as we gather to commemorate those who served our country with great courage; those who continue fighting for us with heart and bravery; and those who have sacrificed their lives to protect the country that we are so privileged to call home.

I’m Sahil Vora. And I’m Ignacy Nieweglowski; and we’re both seniors at Staples High School.

Sahil Vora and Ignacy Nieweglowski outside Town Hall … (Photo/James Farnen)

There’s a certain irony that we’re standing up here today. I’m originally from Warsaw, and moved to the US 4 years ago to start high school here in Westport.

My parents moved from India in 2004. Growing up, English was one of 5 languages I heard at home. By any ordinary measure, the 2 of us are unlikely people to be speaking to you about what it means to be “American.”

And yet, here we are. My father grew up in a small village in Haryana, India, while my mother was raised in Mumbai, a large city. They traveled and lived all over the world, eventually settling here, motivated by the lack of a caste system and opportunities for all.

My parents were born in the port city of Szczecin along the Polish Baltic coast. They grew up under the ruling hand of the oppressive and degrading communist regime. Through all of it, my parents had always looked westward.

… and Ignacy and Sahil at the mic. (Photo/Dave Wilson)

Under such different circumstances, our parents both formed the same belief about the possibilities of this nation. And they passed those beliefs on to us: that in a just America, your ancestry doesn’t dictate your future. That in a tolerant America, a dissenting voice is answered but never silenced.

It is for this faith that so many generations of men and women have fought for our country with unwavering commitment. Those who fought came from every background that this nation holds, all fighting for the same convictions.

Kazimier Pulaski was a Polish cavalry officer who had fought for his country’s independence, lost, and been forced into exile. In 1777 he sailed to America and joined the Continental Army as a volunteer, with no rank and no soldiers to command.

At the Battle of Brandywine, the British broke through the American lines, and George Washington’s army was in danger of being surrounded. Pulaski asked for the only horsemen available, the 30 men of Washington’s personal guard. He led them in a charge against the advancing British, and held them off long enough for the army to escape.

Pulaski fought to defend his belief in this nation’s sovereignty and right to self determination. So too would the millions of Polish American veterans after him.

Simratpal Singh served in Afghanistan, earning a Bronze Star for his service in the U.S. Army. But as a Sikh American, he initially had to give up his turban and beard to serve. He challenged that restriction, and in 2016, the Army granted him the right to serve while practicing his faith. Like Singh, generations of Indian Americans have served this country, united by a belief in the freedoms America stands for. 

(Photo/Lucy Zeko)

Today, we have the rare opportunity to celebrate and appreciate 250 years of those who valiantly fought to protect their convictions, to realize their shared vision of a fair and true America.

To the veterans here today, your service reaches far beyond the years you spent in uniform. It lives in the freedoms we exercise, the opportunities we pursue, and the lives we get to build.

For that, we thank you. We are proud to call ourselves Americans.

Unsung Heroes #454

The other day, an “06880” reader suggested a true Unsung Hero: the traffic agent who works at Staples High and Bedford Middle Schools every morning and afternoon.

Traffic is heavy. He’s there — standing in a little North Avenue circle — waving bus drivers, parents and newly licensed teenagers in and out, in a complex but always efficient dance.

It was a great idea. But the subject demurred.

“You should mention all the traffic agents,” he said.

Of course!

Only a traffic agent is outside on a day like this.

Lieutenant Howard Simpson oversees the 30 or so Westport Police Department traffic agents. In addition to handling traffic at Staples, Bedford, and Coleytown Middle and Elementary Schools, they are posted at Routes 1 and 33 (the Riverside Avenue/Post Road West/Wilton Road “worst intersection in Connecticut”), Riverside Avenue at the Cribari Bridge, and other spots as needed, during crunch times.

(The Cribari Bridge may be the only piece of infrastructure in the country named for a traffic cop. The beloved Bill Cribari was a full police officer though — not an agent.)

They’re called upon too for the Memorial Day parade, Independence Day fireworks, and other major events.

Their job is to help keep traffic moving as best as possible, untangle messes — and avoid crunches.

They are civilians, not police officers (though some are retired from the department). The oldest — Jerry Waldron — is 91.

The Westport Police Department honored traffic agent Jerry Waldron last year, on his 90th birthday.

One of the youngest agents is working while going through paramedic school. He left his post one day near the train station after a man collapsed on the platform. The agent did CPR, and restored his heartbeat.

Traffic agents also help on road construction jobs, if police security is not needed.

New agents undergo extensive background checks, and classroom training. Then they go out “in the field,” learning to operate traffic lights.

They do not have enforcement powers, Simpson notes. They can write tickets at the railroad station. But they cannot ticket a moving vehicle.

Move it!

“They’re here because they want to be,” Simpson says. “They’re all motivated to serve and help.

“Everyone complains about traffic,” he adds “But when you’re trying to get home from the station, or through 1 and 33 at lunchtime, or picking your kids up at school, they’re the ones helping you get through it.”

The next time you see one of our Unsung Heroes, honk your horn to thank them for their work.

Actually, that’s not a great idea. Maybe wave instead.

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Roundup: Pies, Magic, Comedy …

WAKEMAN TOWN FARM “PIES FOR GOOD” SALE IS ON. AND BOY, ARE THEY GOOD!

Wakeman Town Farm’s “Pies for Good” — their annual Thanksgiving sale supporting Earth Animal’s Mitten Project benefiting CT Food Share — is back.

But every pie needs ice cream. So WTF is selling that too.

The 9-inch freshly baked Oronoque Farms pies include apple, apple crumb, blueberry, blueberry crumb, cherry, cherry crumb and pumpkin. And new this year: cinnamon walnut coffee cakes.

Ice cream flavors are Madagascar vanilla or bourbon brown sugar, from Lindsay’s Handmade Ice Cream.

Click here to order (deadline: November 21). Pickup is Monday, November 23, 4 to 7 p.m. at Earth Animal (not Wakeman Town Farm!)

NOTES: For the freshest taste, pies should be frozen the day of pickup, or eaten within 3 days. Pumpkin pies are frozen and unbaked. Any items not picked up by 7 p.m. on November 23 will be donated to the Gillespie Center the next morning.

WTF: Irresistble! 

JASON BIRD RETURNS TO DELAMAR

It’s been nearly a month, and I still can’t believe what I saw at Jason Bird’s “Parlor of Impossibilities” show at the Delamar Westport.

Then I saw the magician/mentalist against last week, at the Sunrise Rotary Club’s “Uncorked” event at the Inn of Longshore, and I was equally gobsmacked.

But I do believe this: If you go to Jason’s next shows — Sunday, November 22 (4 and 7 p.m.) — you’ll still be shaking your head weeks later too.

I’ll leave the details to you. Suffice it to say: The intimate “parlor” atmosphere (small room, magic show mood) makes the experience even more other-worldly.

Click here for tickets. To learn more about Jason, click here.

comedy returns to vfw 

If you’re looking to laugh this Friday the 13th: You’re in luck!

Comedy returns to VFW Post 399 (8 p.m.).

Hosted by Matt Zako, the show features resident comedian Joe Pontillo, along with New York comedians Jane Condon, John Kenneth, and headliner Chris Roach.

Doors open at 6 p.m. Tickets are $20 in advance (click here), $25 at the door. There’s a 1-drink purchase minimum.

POPSHOP MARKET RETURNS TO MUSEUM

The popular Popshop Market returns to the grounds of the Westport Museum for History & Culture this Sunday (November 15, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m.)

Shoppers can browse gifts from independent boutiques, emerging brands, local artisans and specialty retailers.

Items include women’s clothing, handcrafted and fine jewelry, home décor, apothecary and self-care essentials, vintage treasures, artisan goods, seasonal accessories, and special gifts.

chris fuller’s “cheese fries & chili Dips” returns to ftc

Chris Fuller takes “Cheese Fries & Chili Dips” — the Weston golf pro’s funny, moving, insightful and inspiring show about his life with bipolar disorder — to Fairfield Theatre Company on November 17 (7 p.m.).

Afterward, Sachi Parker — Shirley MacLaine’s daughter, Warren Beatty’s niece, and Chris’ acting coach — takes the stage for a talk. Click here for tickets, and more information.

slobs 3-v-3 hoops tourney tips off soon

Get your game on!

Staples Service League of Boys’ (SLOBs) annual basketball fundraise is set for November 20 (6 p.m., Staples fieldhouse).

3-v-3 teams vie for supremacy. Everyone has fun — and all proceeds benefit Staples Tuition Grants.

Entry is $25 per player or manager. To pay, Venmo @Diane-Benke (last digits 7136).

PS: Volunteers — especially referees – are still needed. Click here to sign up.

The champs!

localcompany offers mah jongg tiles, tees & More

Merlin Classics — the Greens Farms company that creates original designs with a retro and vintage feel — has turned 4 vintage mah jongg tiles into both a gift collection and crystal holiday ornaments.

Each design is drawn from a single tile in the fine line of an old engraving: The Big Joker (the joker only the American game plays with); the 3 Dragons (for the clubhouse game in Florida); the Sparrow Tile (the One Bamboo bird that gives the game its Cantonese name), and The 3 Honors (the red, green and white as a Japanese set cuts them, with the white left blank).

They come on tees, sweatshirts, hats, totes, mugs, rocks glasses, coasters and more, and as 3-inch faceted crystal ornaments. To order, click here.

Merlin Classics mah jongg tiles.

SANTA comes to CLUBHOUSE BRUNCH

The Holiday Stroll is Saturday, December 5. Everyone of all ages will be there.

The family fun continues the next day, with a Santa Brunch at The Clubhouse.

There are 2 seatings (Sunday, December 6; 9 to 10:30 a.m., and 11:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.).

The event includes festive food, Christmas cookie decorating, a meet-and-greet with Santa, and a holiday carol sing-along.

An adult ticket ($65) includes a brunch entrée, and 1 specialty holiday beverage (alcoholic or nonalcoholic).

Children (ages 2+: $40) includes a kids’ holiday brunch entrée, soft drink, and  Christmas cookie decorating kit with cookies, icing and sprinkles.

All prices includes tax and gratuity. Children under 2 attend free.

In the spirit of giving, The Clubhouse will be collecting new, unwrapped toys for Toys for Tots.

Additional event infomration, and tickets can be found via the link. Santa Brunch Link

For parties larger than eight, email connect@theclubhousewestport.com.

POLICE REPORTS

Westport Police made 4 custodial arrests between November 4 and 9. They were reported earlier on “06880.”

Westport Police also issued these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 2 citations
  • School zone violation: 2
  • Improper turns: 2
  • Failure to renew registration: 2
  • Disorderly conduct: 1
  • Texting while driving: 1
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 1
  • Failure to yield to a pedestrian: 1
  • Failure to obey stop sign: 1
  • Failure to obey state traffic commission regulations: 1

“WESTPORT … NATURALLY” & SONG OF THE DAY

They come in a carton. But what’s more natural than Wakeman Town Farm eggs?

Celia Campbell-Mohn captured today’s colorful, farm-fresh “Westport … Naturally” feature photo.

(Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

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And finally … because I’m an idiot, I posted the “Armed Forces Medley” as yesterday’s Song of the Day — a day before (today’s) Veterans Day.

I meant to salute the Marine Corps. Yesterday was its 251st birthday.

So here — a day late — Semper Fi!

Remembering All Who Served

Westport artist Stevan Dohanos’ “Honor Roll.” Showing our original Town Hall (now Massi Co restaurant), it was a Saturday Evening Post cover on December 4, 1943.

The Honor Roll today, on Veterans Green across from the Myrtle Avenue Town Hall. (Illustration and photo/Amy Schneider)

A color guard, speakers — including Vietnam veteran Jay Direnberger and 2 Staples High School seniors — along with recognition of veterans highlight today’s Veterans Day ceremony.

The event is in the Town Hall auditorium at — appropriately — 11 a.m.

The public is invited afterward to a free Veterans Day luncheon and open bar at VFW Post 399 (465 Riverside Avenue).

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From Pasacreta Park, Riverside Avenue (Photo/Rojan Shrestha)

Staples Player Rewind: “Mamma Mia!”

On Friday, the curtain rises on Staples Players’ fall production: “Bye Bye Birdie.”

Seven years ago they staged another popular musical, with a pop music theme. “Mamma Mia!” was directors David Roth and Kerry Long’s high-energy, very fun take on the Broadway show that ran for 14 years.

Click here or below to see this highlight reel, produced by former media instructor Jim Honeycutt. You will definitely be “having the time of your life!”

Here’s what cast members are up to today.

Camille Foisie (Donna Sheridan) graduated from New York University Tisch School of the Arts, with a BFA in drama. She is working professionally as an actor.

Sammy Guthartz (Bill Austin) is an actor and producer. He graduated with a bachelor of fine arts in theatre performance from the University of Michigan. He has roles and production credits in “The Diary of Aaron Stanford” and “The Midnight World.”

Colin Konstanty (Sky) is an actor and musician. He appeared in the Off-Broadway and Disney+ productions of “Trevor: The Musical.” An alumnus of the NYU Tisch School of the Arts, he has also appeared in projects like “Caravan,” and released original music.

Jamie Mann (Sky) graduated from the University of Michigan’s musical theater program in 2025. He made his Broadway debut in “Stranger Things: The First Shadow.” He appeared previously on the Netflix show “Country Comfort,” and toured nationally as the lead in “Billy Elliot.”

Benny Zack (Pepper, Featured Male Dancer) is an actor and filmmaker who graduated from Pace University’s Sands College of Performing Arts. He had roles in “Murder in Maplewood,” “Building Eden” and “The Awakening of Edwin Lorde.”

Annabel Kavetas (Lisa) is an entertainment, production and beauty professional who has worked in digital media, audience coordination and television production. She has been involved with “RuPaul’s Drag Race.”

Bridget Looby (Jess, Björn Ensemble) graduated from Colgate with a degree in political science and government. She is an assistant account executive in New York..

Macey Lavoie (Jess, Björn Ensemble) is a firefighter in Montana. She graduated from James Madison University.

Kelley Schutte (Ali) is an interior designer, artist and performer. She operates an independent design and landscape painting practice in the Westport area.

Tomaso Scotti (Eddie Featured Male Dancer, Björn Ensemble) is an actor. He performed in “Another Day of Sun.”

Owen Keaveney (Corey) graduated with a degree in bioengineering. He is a research technician at Mass General Hospital Brigham in Boston.

Ryan Porio (Featured Male Dancer, Björn Ensemble) is an actor, filmmaker and musician. He graduated from the Emerson College School of Film, where he collaborated on short films and experimental media.

Sophia Betit (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is an actor and vocalist. She has also worked as a crew co-manager for theater sets.

Chloe Manna (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is a stage and screen actress. Her credits include “Peace, Love and Cupcakes: The Musical” at the New York Musical Festival.

Melody Stanger (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is an actress and model based in New York.

Feven Alemu-Renzulli (Björn Ensemble) graduated with a bachelor of science in law and policy (pre-law) from Liberty University. She serves as a staff member for the Regent Law Moot Court at Regent University School of Law.

Lulu Dalzel (Björn Ensemble) is a filmmaker, writer and scenic designer. She graduated with a BFA in film and video production from Emerson College and specializes  in production design, screenwriting, and art direction.

Emily Desser (Björn Ensemble) is an actress, writer and NYU Tisch Drama student. She worked on “Murder in Maplewood” and “Love’s Labour’s Lost.”

Madelyn Spera (Björn Ensemble)  is a singer-songwriter, musician and stage actor based in New York City. She has performed at The Bitter End, and was a finalist in New York University’s Ultra Violet Live talent competition. Her debut release is “Dying to Know.”

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Roundup: Veterans Day, Online Safety Seminar, Shop Local

TOWN HONORS VETERANS TOMORROW — BIG Y TOO

A color guard, speakers — including Vietnam veteran Jay Direnberger and 2 Staples High School seniors — along with recognition of veterans highlight tomorrow’s Veterans Day ceremony.

The event is in the Town Hall auditorium Wednesday, November 11, at — appropriately — 11 a.m.

The public is invited afterward to a free Veterans Day luncheon and open bar at VFW Post 399 (465 Riverside Avenue).

Meanwhile, Big Y honors veterans and active duty military members with 10% off their order, all day tomorrow — plus a reusable bag.

Just tell the cashier that you are a veteran or on active duty.

 

Veterans Day at Town Hall. (Photo copyright Ted Horowitz)

“WHAT PARENTS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ONLINE SAFETY”: SESSION SET FOR THURSDAY

Parents often feel as if their children know more about the online world than they do.

New apps, games, group chats and social media platforms pop up faster than pop-up ads.

“Behind the Screen: What Parents Need to Know About Online Safety” can help.

The event is tomorrow (Thursday, November 12, 7 p.m., Bedford Middle School). Sponsored by the Westport Police Department, it grew out of a recent seminar by the Connecticut Department of Emergency Service and Protection, attended by members of the WPD’s School Security Unit.

The program offers parents a look into what is happening in the online spaces their children spend time in. Topics include how children can be approached and manipulated through social media, gaming, group chats and other online platforms. as well as a discussion about specific networks and groups in the online space that specifically target young people.

Police officials say, “Your child does not have to be a teenager for this information to matter. Learning about some of this before you need it may be the best time to hear it.”

The event is aimed at parents and guardians of children from elementary through high school.

 

What are your kids watching? You may be surprised.

SHOP LOCAL; SUPPORT MERCY LEARNING CENTER

Westporters are great supporters of Mercy Learning Center.

They serve on its board, volunteer at, and donate to the Bridgeport non-profit, which impacts countless women’s lives — and those of their families — through education and support services.

Local businesses help in a big way too. Two are running special promotions, with 10% of all sales donated to it.

This Thursday (November 12), it’s Unsubscribed (33 Elm Street, 6 to 8:30 p.m.).

On December 3 it’s J. McLaughlin (382 Post Road East, 1 to 5 p.m.; in-store and phone orders).

CAREER COACH RETURNS: EXCEL, POWERPOINT

The “Career Coach” returns to the Westport Library parking lot this Thursday  (November 12), for a session on “Excel II.”

Next month, it’s “Intro to PowerPoint” (December 17).

There are 2 sessions ( 10 a.m. and 1 p.m.) each day; both are 2 hours long. Registrants can choose one.

The service is available to people who are exploring career opportunities, actively looking for a job, or seeking additional part-time employment. Click here to reserve a spot.

JAZZ AT THE POST HONORS VETS

Thursday nights’ “Jazz at the Post” shows regularly attract great performers to the VFW.

This week, those sounds do more than entertain. They’ll help a great cause.

On November 12 (7 p.m.), the Jazz Society of Fairfield County hosts a “Day After” (Veterans Day) benefit concert. All proceeds directly fund crucial veterans’ services, including counseling for PTSD and other combat related disabilities, benefits advocacy, career coaching and more .

Master drummer and Vietnam era vet Joe Corsello leads a stellar ensemble: Joe’s Army buddy cornetist Don Hahn, Grammy-winning bassist Phil Bowler, pianist Dave Childs and Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall on saxophone.

The evening’s emotional heart centers on special guest musician Hank Bolden.

Now 89, the saxophonist spent decades overcoming severe physical disabilities from his time as an “atomic soldier” during nuclear tests. His music carries the weight of history, survival and ultimate triumph.

Click here or below for a PBS feature on Bolden.

“westport … naturally” & song of the day

We’re getting near the end of fall foliage. We hope we’ll continue to have very colorful posts, for days to come.

But leaves are falling fast. Here’s an image from a couple of days ago, in the Gorham Avenue Historic District:

(Photo/Jamie Walsh)

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And finally … tomorrow is Veterans Day. “06880” — and all of Westport — gives great thanks to all the men and women who have served our country. We would not be here without you!

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Kerstin Rao Stars At Smithsonian

In 2021, Kerstin Rao took a leap of faith.

Retiring early from her 21-year teaching career in Westport, she started an art business, Vivid Cottage.

Last week, Kerstin landed in mailboxes all across the country — for subscribers to the Smithsonian Holiday Catalog, that is.

Two of Kerstin Rao’s many creations. (Photo/Abby Cole Photography)

For the past 3 years Kerstin has quietly created 3 different holiday cards, exclusive to the Smithsonian.

Because it is a federal non-profit educational institution, there are limitations on what vendors can share with the public about their partnership.

This year though, Smithsonian buyers suggested they write a piece about Kerstin and her process.

She is the only vendor to have a personal photo in the catalog, and the only one with a QR code leading to a 1-on-1 story. It’s even featured on the home page. To read the full article, click here.

The Smithsonian piece includes this quote — “Museums are one of our collective treasures. They confront us with new information and remind us we’re part of a larger story.” — and adds, “Through her cards, Kerstin now contributes to that story—helping people connect, one handwritten note at a time.”

Kerstin Rao (Photo/Abby Cole Photography)

Vivid Cottage began at the Westport Farmers’ Market, with floral bouquets from Kristin Burrello of Muddy Feet Flower Farm.

During the pandemic, when everyone craved connections and beauty, Kerstin began posting her colored pencil drawings of Kristin’s bouquets on Facebook.

Friends asked if she made greeting cards. She contacted printers, to make it happen.

Today, Kerstin’s products are offered in over 100 stores — including boutiques, independent bookstores and museum shops — in 20 states.

Kerstin Rao sends her first shipment to the Smithsonian.

She has won 2 Louie Award Finalist prizes for greeting cards, and received 2 grants from the Women’s Business Development Council. The Small Business Administration has certified Vivid Cottage as a Woman Owned Small Business.

Kerstin’s art has been featured in Westport Artists Collective shows, and throughout the region.

Her products are available at the Westport Book Shop and Westport Library story, and on her website. (For framed art, email studio@kerstinraofineart.com._

Kerstin says, “My 7-year-old self would be gobsmacked to see this Smithsonian feature. I hope my story inspires others to take a few steps to revive dormant dreams, and see where it leads.”

P.S. The Smithsonian offers free shipping through tomorrow (Wednesday, November 11).

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Little free library, Kings Highway North (Photo/John Maloney)

“06880” Podcast: Matthew Mandell

This is Matthew Mandell’s second appearance on “06880: The Podcast.”

A few weeks away from retirement, after 12 years as executive director of the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce, he visited the Westport Library’s Verso Studios last week.

We chatted about his successes (and a a couple of flops); the state of Westport’s business economy; music, restaurants, and much more.

Click here or below to listen to Matthew’s wide-ranging take on all things local.