Category Archives: Teenagers

Nolan Francis Wins Staples Key

Nolan Francis — a science researcher, violinist, swimmer, honor student and active volunteer in and out of school — has won Staples High’s greatest honor.

He was awarded the Staples Key, at last night’s annual awards ceremony.

Three outstanding students are nominated by faculty, based on superior academic achievement, loyalty to Staples, and contribution to the Staples community Voting is done by members of the senior class.

The other finalists were Gunnar Eklund and Sophie Smith.

Introducing Francis last night, assistant principal Christine Cincotta said, “Nolan’s school counselor describes him as talented, disciplined, and highly personable. His demeanor is calm and jovial, always accompanied by a big smile, and he remains consistently focused on his personal goals. Nolan has served as captain of the boys swim and dive team for 2 years, and advanced to the state finals.

“He was selected to be part of the Link Crew, and is a 4-year member of Staples’ Service League of Boys. He has also served as vice president of the Science National Honor Society, and is the co-founder of our newly reestablished National English Honor Society chapter.

“Through Staples’ research program, Nolan was named a Regeneron Science Talent Search Scholar (one of only 300 in the country).

Nolan Francis

“He is also an accomplished violinist who has received recognition at the state level. Outside of school, Nolan has coached Special Olympics swimmers, served as a camp counselor for children with severe medical conditions at Camp Discovery, and researched rare genetic skin conditions at Yale. He even wrote a children’s book to help kids living with these conditions feel seen and connected to a community.

“One of the things I appreciate most about Nolan is the way he brings humor and a level-headed perspective to every conversation. I am grateful that he is a member of our Staples community.

“Nolan will attend Williams College in the fall to study biology (and bring his banana-bread-baking skills to the Berkshires).

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Introducing Eklund, Cincotta said: “Gunnar’s school counselor describes him as kind, considerate, intelligent and genuine. He brings a thoughtful approach to everything he does.

“Gunnar has served as president of the Staples Debate Team, worked with the Staples Service League of Boys board to coordinate volunteer events, and collaborated with last year’s ‘We The People’ Constitution team to represent Connecticut as Top 10 national finalists.

“During his summers Gunnar has worked as a lab intern, a camp counselor at Camp Mahackeno, and a courtroom aide for North Carolina’s 4th Prosecutorial District.

“This past year he has become even more involved in the Westport community by contributing to Dan Woog’s ‘06880’ blog, delivering a Veterans Day speech at Town Hall, and helping 2023 Staples alum Addison Moore become the youngest-ever elected RTM official.

“Regardless of these accomplishments and roles, Gunnar says his time at Staples has been shaped most by the extraordinary people he has met. I would add that Gunnar has also shaped those around him over the past 4 years because he is an extraordinary person himself. He will always greet you with a smile and ask how you are doing. He genuinely cares about those around him, and that thoughtful approach is something I will always remember about him.

“Gunnar will study government and biology at Cornell University this fall.

Gunnar Eklund delivers his Veterans Day speech at Town Hall.

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 In introducing Smith, Cincotta said: “Sophie’s school counselor says she is a wonderful example of what it means to be a well-rounded person. She is an accomplished student in the classroom, actively involved in our community, and looked up to as a leader, all while finding time to give back to others in need. Sophie demonstrates that Staples is a place where students support one another in an encouraging environment.

“She is co-editor-in-chief of Inklings, one of our largest extracurricular activities. As the social media specialist for Business Leaders of America, she actively recruits new members. Sophie is also a member of the varsity squash team and the co-founder and co-president of Peter’s Heart Club, which provides educational support to underprivileged children in Uganda.

“In each of these spaces, Sophie has learned that success is rarely individual; instead, it is built on collaboration. She consistently goes out of her way to support her staff members and teammates while fostering a positive environment.

“From my own experiences with Sophie, I have seen her genuine care for others, as well as the strength and conviction behind her voice. These qualities will undoubtedly benefit those around her.

“Sophie will attend the University of Virginia this fall to study English and public policy.”

Sophie Smith (Photo courtesy of Inklings)

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Roundup: Soundview Summer Stroll Preview, Blondinit Follow-up …

One of the phone numbers in this morning’s story on teenage entrepreneurs was incorrect.

To contact Pierce Brown for grill cleaning, text 203-228-2293.

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The Soundview Summer Stroll returns Sunday, July 26!

For the 3rd year in a row — with the support of “06880” and the Compo Beach Improvement Association — the beach exit road will be closed to vehicles.

From 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Westporters can enjoy live music, food, kids’ activities, and a chance to stroll, bicycle, Rollerblade or otherwise enjoy one of the town’s crown jewels.

New this year: non-profits are invited to set up information booths, all along the road.

Earthplace, the Westport Weston YMCA, MoCA\CT and the Westport Swim Club are already in. If your non-profit would like to participate, email 06880blog@gmail.com.

Soundview Summer Stroll (Photo/Benji Porosoff)

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Just a few days after being harassed while leaving The Blondinit — and posting about it on social media — Jonny Daniels returned to the Israeli restaurant on Monday.

This time, he heard no epithets about Israel from across the street. Instead he met the owners — who had closed briefly, after the incident went viral — and wrote:

“Today we had the privilege of meeting an extraordinary couple who proudly embrace and display their Israeli and Jewish heritage. Their warmth, resilience and unwavering pride were truly inspiring.

“The Blondinit serves exceptional Israeli cuisine in a beautiful setting. While the restaurant is not kosher, it offers an authentic and unapologetically Israeli dining experience that deserves to be celebrated and supported.

“Moments like these remind us that hatred and intimidation will never dictate where we go, who we support, or how proudly we live our Jewish lives.

“In the coming days, we will be announcing a very special evening at The Blondinit, where our community will have the opportunity to come together, support this incredible business, and send a clear message: we do not back down, we are not afraid, and we will always stand proudly as Jews.”

Click here for the full Instagram post. (Hat tip: Elaine Marino)

Jonny Daniels (far right) and friend (2nd from right), with Blondinit owners Inda and Solomon Sade.

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Police are conducting SWAT training today at 6 Coleytown Road, near Temple Israel.

There will be increased law enforcement in the area. Don’t be alarmed — it’s for training purposes only.

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Preliminary work is already underway on the Cross Highway bridge replacement, near the entrance to Wakeman Town Farm and the Wakeman fields.

The road will close on or around June 19, through approximately August 20.

Access to Wakeman and Bedford Middle School will be through North Avenue only.

Residents of Cross Highway, Silent Grove North, Half Mile Common, Woody Lane and Whippoorwill Lane will continue to have access, but there will be no through traffic.

Gruel Britannia and Christie’s Service will remain open and accessible.

Questions? Call town engineer Keith Wilberg: 203-341-1128.

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The Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport’s “upcycle online” auction ends tonight, at 7:45 p.m. A reflection of their commitment to reduce, recycle and reuse, it’s a chance to share with others, and keep landfills down.

Sports fans (Patriots, Bayern Munich), college grads (Northeastern, Cal), shoe aficionados (Ferragamo, Sperry), china and crystal (Limoges, Wedgewood), clothing (Talbots Liz Claiborne), toys (Lego, Nintendo) and more (Thule luggage rack, live ficus tree) — there’s something for everyone.

Click here to see all items, and bid. But hurry — only a few hours remain!

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For many neurodivergent teenagers, school provides social connections and routine.

That can be tough to replicate in the summer.

NeuroMind — a Westport-based hub for neurodivergent individuals and their families, offering coaching, counseling, support groups workshops, and resources — can help.

Their in-person social group for 15-19-year-olds meets Fridays at 2 p.m., from July 10 through August 28. Led by a licensed social worker, it offers an opportunity to make new friends, find a community, feel supported and judgment-free, and “be yourself!”

Click here for more information, and registration.

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The next Veterans Benefits Luncheon is tomorrow (Thursday, May 28, 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.), VFW Post 399).

It’s open to all veterans as part of an ongoing effort to check in on all veterans’ welfare, and connect them with the benefits and support they earned.

Representatives will answer questions, and provide information on services and assistance available to veterans.

RSVPs are encouraged (but not required). Email vfw399ct@gmail.com, and include the number of attendees, or call (203) 227-6796.

PS: If you’re not a veteran, but know one: Please pass the word!

VFW benefits luncheon.

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Speaking of lunch: Emmy Squared just launched a new promotion.

From Monday through Thursday, they’re selling cheese slices for $1, and pepperoni for $2. That’s “cheaper than gas,” they say — a lot cheaper. (For one gallon, anyway.)

Also on tap at the Church Lane restaurant: Trivia Nights.

They run every other Thursday (June 8 and 22, July 6 and 20, August 3 and 17).

Drinks are happy hour prices all night, on those days.

Though if you drink too much, you might not remember all those factoids. (Hat tip: Sal Liccione)

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Longtime Westporter George Manchester turns 95 in June.

His son Jeff — now raising his own family, in his home town — has planned a special gift. He hopes at least 95 “06880” readers will send his father “Happy Birthday” cards.

George spends summers in Maine. Going to the post office is an important part of his day. Let’s inundate him (and the PO) with cards!

Send to: George Manchester, PO Box 202, South Bristol, ME 04568. And feel free to pass this on to others!

George Manchester in 2017, just before the old Saugatuck Island bridge was torn down after damage from Superstorm Sandy. Decades earlier he was involved in the construction of that bridge, as president of the Saugatuck Shores Island Association (now the Saugatuck Island Special Taxing District).

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Elizabeth “Betty” Auber died Sunday in her Westport home, with her family by her side.

She was born and raised in Queens, the child of immigrant Irish/German parents.

After graduation from high School she married her sweetheart, Dick) Auber, and raised 5 children.

She went back to school and obtained a degree in nursing from Norwalk Community College in 1981, then graduated from Fairfield University 4 years later with a psychology degree.

Betty was highly respected for her nursing expertise and compassion. She ended her career as a psychiatric nurse providing compassionate care to vulnerable patients.

Betty retired when she was 76 years old, but continued to be a medical consultant to family and friends, always willing to listen and offer advice.

She and Dick loved traveling with friends, and enjoyed hosting social activities.  She was also an active Senior Center and Westport YMCA participant. She volunteered at St. Luke Parish, beginning in 1976. Until very recently, she hosted weekly bridge and canasta games in her home.

Betty is survived by her children Patricia (Tom), Richard (Tatyana), Ron (Cheryl), Judy (Ferdinand) and Christine (Michael); grandchildren Abby, Steven, Jordan, Anastacia, Matthew, Kevin and Mary; great-grandchildren  Colden, Keegan, Beckham and Eleanor; sister Patricia Casey and brother Joseph Schick.   She was predeceased by her husband of 64 years, Richard.

A funeral Mass will be celebrated Saturday (May 30, 11 a.m., St. Luke Church).

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to he Parkinson’s Voice Project or The Westport Center for Senior Activities.

Elizabeth Auber

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It arrived late. But some of this spring’s colors — like today’s “Westport … Naturally” featured photo, from Joann Circle — make the wait absolutely worth it.

(Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

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And finally … Sonny Rollins, the saxophonist who was a giant of the post-war jazz age, died at his home in Woodstock, New York. He was 95. Click here for a full obituary.

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Creative, Hard-Working Teen Entrepreneurs Thrive

Entrepreneurship is alive and well in Westport.

Our town is filled with men and women who have stepped back from corporate America — or whatever career they were in — to start their own businesses here.

But they’re not the only ones.

Teenagers are also taking the entrepreneurial plunge.

We’re not talking about lemonade stands or lawn moving. These young men and women are the real deal.

Here are a few. Read their stories — and be inspired that our future is in very good, creative and hard-working hands.

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We’ve highlighted Christian Rinaldi a couple of times.

Less than one year out of high school, he’s rebranded his thriving, and very professional, mobile car detailing business.

Now called Car Concierge CT, Christian and his staff — a well-trained crew, including Kyle Dulak and Justyn Capellan — offer 4 packages.

There’s interior cleaning, exterior polishing and waxing, and rim work, of course. But they’ve stepped up their premium luxury “concierge” service, highlighting multi-step paint correction, ceramic coating, and much more.

Including the engine. You’ll never see it. But Christian does.

Christian Rinaldi, with cars he’s worked on.

Christian bought a van, and outfitted it with water and a power source, to come to customers all over Fairfield County.

He’s fully licensed, insured, and — as an LLC — has an A- rating from the Better Business Bureau.

Their customers trust Car Concierge CT with Lexuses, Audis, BMWs, Porsches, and an Aston Martin Vantage.

Christian recently spent 2 weeks in Atlanta, getting certified by Koch-Chemie, a high-quality German cleaning products firm. He studied chemistry, along with paint reconditioning skills.

This is not a high school start-up. It’s Christian’s full-time business. He’s a perfectionist, putting hours into every aspect of what he calls “my art.”

Taking care of every detail.

He’s honed his people skills too. He communicates easily and efficiently, explaining to customers exactly what they’ll get, and when, and how he’ll do it.

Christian Rinaldi is going places. Including — he hopes — to your driveway.

(For the very professional Car Concierge CT website, click here. For the Instagram @carconciergectllc, click here.) 

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Two summers ago, going into junior year, Staples friends Will Stoutenburg and Ollie Vynerib were looking for jobs.

Ollie was 15 — too young to work officially — and neither wanted to have a boss.

They brainstormed ideas, and settled on starting a window washing business.

Will’s parents warned it would be a waste of time. But the boys went to a hardware store and bought squeegees, mops and dish soap, plus long poles.

They came up with a clever name: WOW (for “Will Ollie Window-washing”).

They watched “a ton” of online videos to learn about their craft, and door-to-door sales.

It was not easy.

“Getting doors slammed in our faces was actually super good for us,” Will reports.

It was intimidating at first. But by the end of the summer, after multiple 14-plus hour days, their business had generated $10,000. Ollie and Will made $4,000 each.

They promised every customer that they’d donate a percentage of profits to Staples Tuition Grants. Proudly, they did.

Ollie Vynerib (left) and Will Stoutenburg, ready to work.

Still, they knew there was room to improve.

Last summer they scaled things up. They spent nearly all the money they’d made on upgraded equipment — enhancing both their product and their efficiency. (They’re also fully insured.)

They hired 15 employees — all Staples students — and got very good at selling door to door. They cleaned over 200 homes (and some businesses), with Ollie and Will doing all the sales and scheduling.

“It was exhausting days and stressful,” Will says. “But it was working, so we stayed disciplined and kept grinding.

“The amount I learned about business from running WOW the last 2 summers is incredible,” he adds.

“From how to sell, managing expenses and customers, mastering window cleaning and employees, I gained a ton of knowledge.

“It was far from easy, dealing with things like equipment issues, mean customers, etc. But it was all worth it.”

Wow!

This summer they’ve again spent money upgrading equipment, and reinvesting in WOW. They’ve added sales employees to their cleaning staff.

And they’re still just in high school. After graduating in June, Will heads to Tulane University. He’ll study — no surprise — business and entrepreneurship.

And Ollie will attend the Marshall School of Business, at the University of Southern California.

(To learn more, text 203-820-0078.)

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Grill cleaning is a task that nearly everyone needs done.

But few people want to do it.

Pierce Brown and Ben Zwick are happy to fill the need.

Both graduated from Staples High School last year. They were sports captains (volleyball and ski team, respectively), and participated in the Service League of Boys.

While finishing up their first year at college (Queens University and the University of Vermont, respectively), the business/finance majors looked for holes in the Westport service market that needed filling.

Grill cleaning seemed like a great opportunity.

They offer a full, deep clean and polish — including deep inside, and underneath.

Those are places no one ever sees. But Pierce and Ben make them shine just like the hood.

(To learn more, text Pierce at 203-228-2293 or Ben at 203-818-1833.)

Looking like new!

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But grill cleaning is not Ben’s only job.

Cars are a lifelong obsession. From a very young age he and his father have raced them. And for years, Ben has helped friends and family members source them, for good prices.

He has turned that latter hobby into a business: BZ Auto Advisory. He find cars that are the best fit, negotiates new and used car prices to save thousands of dollars — and monetizes it for himself too.

“Eliminate the stress, inefficiency and risk associated with car buying by working with an unbiased, personal vehicle advisor,” Ben says.

First, Ben helps define the criteria a customer is looking for in a car. Then, he offers specific models to choose from.

Next, he creates spreadsheets from throughout the region, to find the best deals. Then he contacts the seller, and negotiates.

Ben’s pricing analyses show clients a variety of possibilities. 

One recent example: a 2018 Volkswagen Golf R. The deal was closed at $6,000 less than market value.

Ben constantly watches the market. His research is very thorough. Clients are thrilled.

He found a Porsche Panamera 4S Turismo. with a manufacturer’s suggested retail price of $129,000 in 2018, for a client for $56,000. It had only 50,000 miles, and a full Porsche service record.

Ben found a BMW in Boston for $26,900.

Another client says, “BZ helped me find a great 2018 Audi A4, and knew all of the important questions to ask the owner and mechanics. He let me know about expected maintenance and how to identify what cars to walk away from. I was very pleased with his services, and he saved me a bunch of money.”

(To learn more, text Ben at Ben at 203-818-1833. For the Instagram @BZAutoAdvisory, click here.)

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Mental Health Matters: Supporting Parents When Kids Need Help

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Each week, Timothy Schmutte — a Westport resident, clinical psychologist and assistant professor in the Department of Psychiatry at the Yale School of Medicine — and his wife Elenee Argentinis will address a different mental health issue that impacts Westporters.

This week, they focus on parents, when children need help. Names and details have been modified, to protect privacy. Timothy and Elenee write:

When a child or teenager struggles with mental health issues, their parents also face challenges.

Although most parents find raising a child to be rewarding and enjoyable all or most of the time, parenthood is also tiring and stressful, which can bring on or worsen existing mental health issues.

In fact, being a parent increases the risk of depression and anxiety, as described in a recent Surgeon General report. Parent stress levels are 50% higher than non-parents’ levels.

But it is important to highlight that parents often benefit from individual support when their child faces mental health challenges.

Families are an interconnected system. Speaking with a therapist separately, even when your child is initiating therapy, can be helpful for both you and your child.

When a child has challenges, adults can talk with therapists too.

Not only can you learn how to support your child’s recovery, but you may also have grief to process, frustration to express, and worry to manage privately as your family navigates a difficult time. Directly engaging with a therapist to learn more effective coping skills can help kids recover faster — and help parents feel empowered.

A practical example is Benji, a 10-year-old who had stopped going to school. During COVID, he started developing separation anxiety, which intensified over the years. What started with returning to his parents’ bed to sleep became insisting that his parents be nearby during sports practice, resisting play dates at friends’ homes, and finally refusing to ride the school bus.

By the time Benji’s mother called for help, she was exhausted from round-the-clock care. She was also desperate, as administrators were pushing to transfer Benji to a specialized therapeutic school due to multiple absences.

Benji’s mental health care required his mom to have her own sessions to help her cope with the stress of the situation, and teach her a parent-based approach for Benji’s separation anxiety and school avoidance.

In addition to learning how to manage her own upset, she learned how to respond more supportively to Benji’s anxiety. Working together, we created a structured plan that progressively encouraged Benji to tolerate his anxiety while engaging in previously avoided activities.

One example: going to school for only 30 minutes in the counselor’s office to play games, followed by gradual increases in time spent in the classroom with the counselor, then with a paraprofessional, and finally by himself.

Dr. Timothy Schmutte offers advice for parents, and their children.

Coupled with similar activities at home in which he progressively spent more time outside of his comfort zone, within 4 months Benji was back in his classroom for full days, and enjoying play dates with friends. His parents had their first “date night” in years.

Sometimes parents also need separate therapy sessions to deal with their own challenges. A parent’s anxiety, depression, substance use or other mental health concerns can be triggered or worsened by a child’s challenges.

Diane — a C-suite executive whose son I had treated for OCD in the past — reached out to me for help with her anxiety, insomnia and growing irritability that began after a promotion.

Another client, Juan, consulted me because he was unsure what to tell his young children about his cancer diagnosis.

Kirstin was overwhelmed when her aging father became severely depressed. She worried about being there for him as well as her teenagers.

Parents need to take care of themselves, not only for their own well-being but for their families as well. Sometimes the demands of parenting can be so great we neglect our own care. The best parent is a healthy one.

So it’s common for parents of kids and teens with mental health issues to need support as well. Getting help as a parent can help you build useful skills to apply at home, and support the resilience you need to manage the challenges of parenting.

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Roundup: Brooks Brothers, Soho Pizza, So Hot …

We’re just 2 days away from the 53rd annual Fine Arts Festival.

Across North America, over 150 artists will head to Westport. (Six already live here — they’re hometown favorites.)

Selected from more than 320 applications, and representing 12 categories, they come from 23 states and Canada.

All 2025 award winners return (click here for a full list). Meanwhile, a record 52 artists make their Fine Arts Festival debut.

New this year: Staples High School art students will paint a BMW in the family area (Sigrid Schultz parking lot). There are lots of other kids’ activities there too.

Plus, of course, music and food.

Two new judges join the panel: art enthusiasts Lonnie Quinn (CBS weatherman) and Louise Crowley.

The dates are Saturday and Sunday (May 23-24, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.). Click here for a full list of artists, and a map. The Fine Arts Festival is sponsored by the Westport Downtown Association.

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Also downtown, coming soon: an interesting reshuffling of space.

After more than 25 years in Westport, Brooks Brothers will vacate its space in what used to be called Brooks Corner, at the corner of Main and Elm Streets.

But they’re not closing. In fact, they’re moving a few yards away, to bigger digs.

Brooks Brothers’ new location is 44 Main Street. For decades, it was Klein’s department store. For a couple of decades after that, it was Banana Republic. For a few minutes most recently, it was Oka furniture.

(Before Klein’s expanded north from its smaller beginning, the space belonged to the Townly restaurant. During Banana Republic’s renovation, they discovered a long-lost painting, depicting life — in Westport? — during that era. They preserved it. Hopefully, Brooks Brothers will too.)

The move is planned for late October or early November — in time for the holidays.

The new space will be 1,000 square feet larger. It will include new women’s casual and everyday wear, in addition to the current inventory.

DOWNTOWN TRIVIA: Brooks Corner (now called much more generically “Main & Elm”) was not named for Brooks Brothers.

It’s a tribute to B.V. Brooks and his family. The real estate developer created the small shopping plaza in the 1960s — years before Brooks Brothers arrived in Westport.

Of course, the clothing company has a much longer history than that. They were founded in New York City in 1818 — 17 years before Westport was incorporated.

That makes them the oldest apparel brand in continuous operation in the United States.

Brooks Brothers’ new home. 

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Speaking of companies that have been around a long time: Texaco — originally the Texas Fuel Company — was founded in 1902.

We’re not sure when it came to Westport. But it was a loooong time ago.

We know, because a faded sign on Riverside Avenue has long marked the long-gone location of King’s Texaco.

(Photo/Mary Maynard)

Sure, it was old and faded. But it was a reminder of Westport’s heritage.

(It may even have been a remnant of when Riverside Avenue was named King Street. Yeah, that goes back a ways.)

No longer. Driving toward the Post Road yesterday, Jamie Walsh spotted this:

(Photo/Jamie Walsh)

“I almost crashed!” he reports.

“Just what Westport needs — another f—ing pizza place … touting New York City- style pizza in ‘the Pizza Capital of the World.’

“No SOHO Pizza for me … don’t NYC our Westport!”

At least there’s always Sunny Daes, next door.

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There will be no Democratic primary in the 26th State Senate district race.

Weston 1st selectwoman Sam Nestor is assured of a clear path to the November ballot. State Representative Lucy Dathan of New Canaan had explored a bid after Nestor outpolled her nearly 2 to 1 at the nominating convention, but decided against it.

Nestor’s Republican opponent for the seat being vacated by Ceci Mahar will be Westporter Alma Sarelli.

State Senate candidate Sam Nestor.

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Last month, Dr. Matthias Becker led a powerful Westport Library conversation about decoding bias and hate.

Next Thursday (May 28, 6 p.m.), the noted linguist returns for a follow-up discussion.

The evening includes screenings of video shorts about the subject, created by local teens — and an announcement of the winners of the “Decode Hate Video Challenge Awards.”

Parents, teens, and all community members are invited to learn — and to celebrate the next generation, using creativity to tackle an enormous social problem.

Dr. Matthias Becker

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My Toyota Camry is not an official weather station.

Still, it was quite something to see this reading yesterday, at 3 p.m.:

(Photo/Dan Woog)

But hey … this is New England. Conditions change rapidly.

Today is forecast to be about 40 degrees cooler — 60 degrees.

With rain showers.

It was nice while it lasted.

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The Brubecks are one of the jazz world’s leading family.

They’re also local. Their roots in Wilton date back decades.

So it was fitting on Tuesday night for for Dave Brubeck’s son Chris to bring his trio, Triple Play, to MoCA\CT, for an intimate, high-octane performance. A full house enjoyed the warm, playful and intimate show.

Arts supporters and blues lovers joined together in the gallery space where the  current exhibition, “Art, Jazz + the Blues,” has drawn raves.

It closes June 7. Click here for more information.

Chris Brubeck (left) and his trio, in the MoCA\CT gallery. Two of Westport artist Eric von Schmidt’s majestic paintings, telling the stories of America’s jazz, blues and folk music history, hang on the wall. All 7 of his works are part of the show. (Photo/Roger Young)

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Lila Doromal is going to the Venice Biennale.

The Pierrepont School junior will perform there in November, with Pierrepont dance faculty members Jamal Jackson and Emily Pacilio.

They’ll be in “Timaeus and The Teacher,” an opera written by former Pierrepont teacher Tammy Nguyen.

It will cost $100,000 to produce the piece. Tax-deductible donations can be made through the Center for the Arts at Wesleyan University. Designate a gift to the “Venice Biennale Project Fund,” or email Joshua Lubin-Levy, director and chief curator: jlubinlevy@wesleyan.edu.

Questions? Email Lisa Manimala: lisamanimala@gmail.com.

“Timaeus and the Teacher”

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We’re not sure where exactly this guy was headed to Tuesday, at Burying Hill Beach.

But it was sure easy for Gary Shure to snap him, for our “Westport … Naturally” series.

Let’s just say he was not racing to get there.

(Photo/Gary Shure)

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And finally … in honor of yesterday’s wonderful (if fleeting) weather:

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“12 Angry Men”: Staples Players’ Dramatic Twists

In 2018, Staples Players put on “12 Angry Men.”

In the Black Box, the audience surrounded the courtroom set on all 4 sides. I saw 3 productions. Each time, I sat in a different spot. Each time, the show felt completely different.

On May 28-31, Players will stage “12 Angry Men” for the third time. (They premiered it in 2009. As before, some of the “men” are females.)

The drama — a compelling exploration of human morals and values, and a sharp critique of the American legal system — is familiar. But directors David Roth and Kerry Long have made sure that, like the variety of views from each seat, this one will be quite different from previous productions.

For example, this — like the Sidney Lumet film starring Lee J. Cobb, Ed Begley and E.G. Marshall  — is set in the McCarthy-era 1950s. (Players’ 2 others were updated to the ’70s.)

For another, the set and costumes are all black and white. They pay homage to the 1957 movie.

From left: Brady Walker, Lilliana Gomez, Griffin Delmhorst.

For a third, it’s the first time that Staples actors have worked with a dramaturg. Former Player AnnaMaria Fernandez helps the ensemble understand the political, racial and social realities of the play’s era.

She brings plenty of insight into the role. She was a juror in the 2018 show.

Perhaps most interestingly, the show is double-cast — but the combinations will be different for every production. That makes each one unique, as actors play off each other in different ways.

“’12 Angry Men is great, for the cast and audiences,” Roth says. “It’s a real ensemble show, with everyone on stage all the time.

From left: Harper Iglehart, Denver Razza, Ari Sklar.

“It’s a fantastic script. It teaches everyone about the judicial process. The jury doesn’t have to believe the alleged murderer is innocent. They do have to agree 100% — all of them — that he is guilty, beyond a reasonable doubt.

“The stakes are high. There was a mandatory death sentence for the crime of murder.”‘

Long adds, “It really deals with the prejudices we have inherent in ourselves, while a group of strangers comes together, and figures out how to work as a team.”

“12 Angry Men” will be the last show for several Players, members of a strong senior class. Some will study theater in college.

From left: Blake Raho, Will McCrea, Sara Stanley. (Photos/Kerry Long)

ENCORE: Will McCrae plays Juror #8. That’s the same role his grandfather — the legendary Jack Lemmon — played in the 1997 Showtime film version of “12 Angry Men.”

Will — a familiar face for Players’ audiences over the past 4 years — says that when he learned he would share a role with his grandfather, “I was ecstatic. Realistically, I’m not going to get another chance like this.

“I’ve got some tremendous shoes to fill — and yes, I am a bit scared. But I am determined not to play the role as ‘well’ as he did. I want to bring my own interpretation to the part, and not try to mirror his choices simply because I feel an obligation by blood.

“My grandfather died several years before I was born. Playing this part is the closest I’ll ever get to meting him. I’m honored, terrified, and really, really excited.”

(“12 Angry Men” is set for 7:30 p.m. on May 28, 29 and 30; 5 p.m. on May 30, and 2 p.m. on May 31. Click here for tickets. Click here for each show’s cast.)

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“Students Speak”: “Impossible To Find Success When You Have Yet To Find Your Passion”

Delilah Berniker is a sophomore at Staples High School. She has lived in Westport since 2016.

She plays JV soccer and lacrosse; is a member of Student Council, an editor of the school’s Soundings literary magazine, and will soon be co-president of Circle of Friends, where she works with students with special needs. In her free time Delilah loves to draw, paint, take photos and write poetry.

She is also a very talented writer. Today, she says: 

Unlike many Westport parents, mine did not pressure me about academics when I was younger.

Delilah Berniker

So when freshman year at Staples came along, I had no idea what I was getting into. It felt like everyone got a memo that I missed — the one that told them to “join as many clubs as possible,” add maximum “rigor” to their schedules, become president of a club by junior year, and at a bare minimum have at least the next 7 years of their life planned out by the time they turn 14.

Am I the only one who didn’t know high school is more about college than it is about high school?

While I don’t blame my parents, I feel naive for listening to them when they told my anxious middle school self “it will all work out,” and I should just go to sleep early.

Now, not only am I catching up on sleep, but I feel like I’m catching up on at least 2 years of intensive PSAT prep, creating new math proofs, publishing my latest philosophical theories, and starting a non-profit.

Don’t get me wrong: I love Staples, and I am invigorated by the different classes and clubs offered. My issue is not lacking interests, it’s having too many. Even after 2 years of scrambling for leadership roles and scribbling my name down on every club sign-up sheet, I still feel lost within the chaos of this high school marathon.

My classmates, painted as competitors, are all rushing to fill the idealistic mold of a college applicant: stacking extracurriculars, joining more clubs, and constantly wondering what more they should be doing. This pressure on our shoulders becomes increasingly heavier as we squish ourselves to fit the narrow definition of success now engraved in our brains.

It wasn’t until recently, as I approach the end of sophomore year, that I realized, within this race to build my perfect academic picture, I have lost sight of my interests.

In fact, I don’t think I’ve had the chance to fully discover them. I’ve been so overwhelmed with what others are doing and what everyone tells me I am supposed to be doing, I haven’t given myself enough room to think of other paths.

I realized I was doing the wrong things by trying to do the right things.

My name was on the roster for multiple clubs, my schedule was full, but I wasn’t invested in anything I was doing. In some cases (like mine) it takes a Debate Club meeting to realize that you may be in the wrong room — and you never wanted to be there in the first place.

A common misconception students have is that there is only one definition, or one path to success. What I’ve started to understand is that it is impossible to find success when you have yet to find passion.

When we focus so much on what we feel like we’re “supposed” to do in order to stand out, we end up following the same 2-dimensional checklist. In that process, we lose something deeper: the space to actually figure out what matters to us.

The truth is, the people who seem like they have everything figured out often don’t.

Declaring your future at 14 doesn’t mean you’ve discovered your passion — it often just means you’ve chosen a path that feels acceptable. I love art, writing, and everything creative, but I’ve been afraid to lean into that because “unless you’re applying to art school, it’s a waste of time.”

What will colleges think about art, and a literary magazine?

I’ve learned that the most valuable accomplishments are ones that stem from passion and consistency. What makes you stand out cannot solely live on an application in a maximum of 200 words. It exists in the things you care about enough to keep showing up for, even when they don’t “count.”

I know a certain amount of external expectations and pressure are necessary to push myself, but I will no longer fall victim to the assumption that there is only one way to succeed in high school.

In trying so hard to build something impressive, it is easy to forget to build something real. Focus on finding your passion, and the rest of the checklist will fill itself in from there.

Passion cannot be manufactured. And passion is never a waste of time.

(“Students Speak” is a regular “06880” feature. Any student living or studying in Westport or Weston can submit a piece. Email 06880blog@gmail.com. To support this local blog, click here.)

Roundup: P&Z, P&R, AI …

The Planning & Zoning Commission’s agenda for May 13 (6 p.m., livestream) is packed.

Among the items, both submitted by the Parks & Recreation Department:

  • Lights at the Wakeman turf and PJ Romano Fields (4 70-foot poles with LED fixtures at both)
  • A new lease for food and beverage concessions at Compo Beach, Longshore pavilion and the Longshore golf course halfway house.

Lights are proposed for Wakeman turf field (center).

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Speaking of Parks & Rec: Their “Kickoff to Summer” is a recent tradition.

The May 23 event (11 a.m. to 3 p.m.) features food, touch-a-truck, bouncy houses, a climbing wall, face painting, helicopter rides — and this year, something special.

This year marks the unveiling of a new mural. It brightens the formerly drab wall, between the side of the concession stand and the brick pavilion.

Staples High School junior Luke Bernier won a town-wide contest, with his design.

The other day, volunteers — led by super-volunteer Miggs Burroughs — turned his plan into an actual mural. We look forward to seeing the finished work on May 23 — and for many years to come.

(Photo/Carm Roda)

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Nobel Prize-winning MIT economist Daron Acemoglu called last week’s Westport Library talk with Dave Briggs “the most important conversation in the world.”

This week, (Friday, May 8, 10 a.m.) Briggs — a longtime resident and national journalist — hosts one that will rivet parents (and any students and teachers who can get there).

Brookings Rebecca Winthrop one of the nation’s leading experts on AI and education. She and Briggs will discuss what parents need to know about the impact AI may have on their children’s education; how evolving technology affects critical thinking — and are schools doing enough?

The conversation will explore why skills like common sense, critical thinking, curiosity and sound judgment matter more than ever — especially for young, impressionable minds.

For more information, click here.

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As Westporters think about graduations and summer camp, Westport’s Human Services Department is thinking about how to help residents who struggle to afford them.

Youth and family specialist Annette D’Augelli coordinates the Camperships and Ceremonies & Celebrations programs. for income-eligible families.

Camperships help bridge gaps, offering children access to structured, confidence-building experiences while providing parents the stability of reliable summer care.

The Ceremonies & Celebrations Fund ensures 8th and 12th grade students can mark important milestones with dignity, through a graduation outfit, special meal or other meaningful experience.

The impact of a donation is felt in many ways:

  • $5,000: Full summer of camp
  • $2,500: 6 weeks of camp
  • $1,000: 2 1/2 weeks of camp
  • $400: 1 week of camp
  • $200: Half week of camp or a celebratory meal
  • $100: Camp support or graduation/prom attire

To donate online, click here; (Family-to-Family program). To donate by mail: Family to Family, c/o Westport Human Services, 110 Myrtle Avenue, Westport, CT 06880.

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Construction at Sherwood Island State Park — the traditional site of STAR Inc.’s annual Walk & Roll — moved the event to the non-profit’s Norwalk home.

But the 21st annual fundraiser was another smash. And it offered attendees a chance to experience first hand the facility and environment where important work, supporting people with intellectual and developmental differences, happens every day.

Bob Levy spoke on behalf of Team Ariel, once again the top fundraising team. He reflected on over 2 decades of involvement, and noted that donations this year included his 7-year-old granddaughter. He  also recognized Laura Blair and Team Jenna Herbst, for their continued commitment and impact.

For more information on STAR, and to contribute, click here.

Joining in the STAR Walk & Roll.

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Guests enjoyed jazz, conversation and laughter Saturday night, at MoCA\CT.

Hosted by Richard Epstein and Jim Motavalli of WPKN-FM, the program paired iconic recordings with lively, nostalgic dialogue.

Selections like “Song for My Father” by Horace Silver and “In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning” by Johnny Hartman sparked personal stories and reflections.

The event was part of MoCA’s ongoing programming for “Art, Jazz + the Blues.” The exhibit combines visual art with jazz-inspired public programming.

This Thursday (May 7, 6 p.m.), MoCA\CT presents One Degree of Separation: Jazz in CT. Thomas Duffy and Wayne Escoffery of the Yale School of Music explore Connecticut’s vibrant jazz legacy, including mentorship, collaboration, and the social impact of the music in the state and beyond. Grammy Award winner Escoffery will play the saxophone too.

On May 14 (6 p.m.), the museum hosts the Westport Writers’ Workshop. Amanda Parrish Morgan and Liz Matthews’ immersive, all-levels workshop invites participants to respond to “Art, Jazz + the Blues” through observation, imagination and curiosity.

Then, on May 16 (7 p.m.), internationally acclaimed pianist (and 25-year Westport resident) Frederic Chiu is joined by his niece, rising violinist star Karisa Chiu — fresh off her Carnegie Hall debut. Their program spans Gabriel Fauré, Sergei Prokofiev, and a special piece written for Karisa by Bright Sheng.

Karisa Chiu and Frederic Chiu.

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Congratulations to Olivia Jackson!

The Coleytown Middle School 7th grader earned a Platinum award in the Connecticut Writing Project’s Student Writers contest. Her poem (below) — one of over 1,500 submissions — will be published in this year’s magazine. She’ll also take part in a special writers’ workshop.

That’s not all. Last month, Olivia performed at Carnegie Hall, with the Camp Broadway Ensemble at the New York Pops’ 43rd Birthday Gala.

We’ll follow her writing and performing careers with interest!

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The Caribbean is coming to Weston.

May 31 (3 to 5 p.m.) is when Town Hall Green turns tropical. The town’s Commission for the Arts welcomes the high-energy Silver Steel Drum Band, for the inaugural Music on the Green show.

The Green was restored to create a central gathering space, with a veterans’ memorial, walkway, improved lighting and native landscaped gardens. Concerts will add another dimension.

Guests are invited to bring chairs and refreshments.

Silver Steel Band

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image looks a bit abstract.

On closer examination, Jerry Kuyper’s photo shows weeping cherry petals on his Rayfield Road driveway, with passing clouds illuminated by the sun after a rain shower.

(Photo/Jerry Kuyper)

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And finally … as the P&Z prepares to discuss lights on 2 town fields (story above):

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Declaration Of Independence: TEAM Westport Teen Essay Winners Address Promise And Reality

This year, America celebrates 250 years of the Declaration of Independence.

It’s a lot older than TEAM Westport. But it was a perfect topic for the town commission’s 13th Annual Teen Diversity Essay Contest.

Last night at the Westport Library, 2 high school students — younger even than 23-year-old TEAM Westport, the town’s multicultural commission — were honored as winners of that contest.

This year’s prompt asked students to reflect on the relevance and value of the Declaration of Independence in their lives; their duties or obligations to uphold its principles, and opportunities that Westporters have to reinforce those principles. (The full prompt is below, followed by the winners’ essays.)

Judging was done by producer and screenwriter Shonda Rhimes, the Westport Museum for History & Culture’s Michelle Rubin, and the Westport Library’s Alex Giannini.

Staples High School junior Kaila Patel won the $1,000 1st prize. She noted that although people like her — females and immigrants, were “never imagined as part of (its) promise … that flaw does not weaken the Declaration; it strengthens it.” To Kaila, “the Declaration was never the finished product. It was the catalyst.”

As a Korean and Indian girl growing in Westport, she recognizes “a luxury I can only live because of Jefferson’s ideals, because of women and men across America centuries ago, using the themes of the Declaration of Independence as a template, creating equality so people like me can go to school, claim independence, and live their lives freely.”

One of her own ways to give back, Kaila says, is by becoming an EMT. She looks forward to not simply “inheriting” the Declaration’s promise, but building on it.

Staples sophomore Liam Harrison, who earned $750 for his 2nd-place essay, wrote about the rights of minorities, and the “solemn duty of all members of society to ensure that everyone is heard and understood…. It is everyone’s obligation to fight against social injustices, regardless of who you are. We have forgotten that even if it is not your fight, you can either be an upstander, bystander, or aggressor.”

Though not a minority, he feels “just as responsible as anyone for making sure that all voices are equally appreciated.”

Locally, Liam adds, “embracing the values laid out in the Declaration of Independence today means addressing microaggressions in school where they show up; it means being the person who stands with the new kid in class instead of the one who giggles and points out their differences behind their back. Only once the atmosphere of slight but meaningful separation has dissipated can true democracy, true equality roam free. That is how anyone can play a part in ensuring liberty and justice for all.”

From left: 1st Selectman Kevin Christie, Staples High principal Stafford Thomas, winners Kaila Patel and Liam Harrison, TEAM Westport chair Harold Bailey, essay contest chair Maggie Mudd, Westport Library director Bill Harmer, judge Michelle Rubin.

TEAM WESTPORT TEEN ESSAY CONTEST PROMPT

This year, the United States will celebrate the 250th anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence, a document which Abraham Lincoln called “a rebuke and a stumbling-block to tyranny and oppression.”

The Declaration of Independence was a product of its time, drafted to rally the colonists to defy Great Britain, support the creation of an autonomous and independent nation and attract allies to its cause.

Nonetheless, its claims have been universalized and imbued with fresh meaning by people here and around the world who have regarded it as an enduring beacon of hope in their own work to seek equal rights, freedom and self-determination.

The famous words in the Declaration’s preamble proclaiming as a self-evident truth that all men are created equal and have inalienable rights endowed by their Creator, including life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness have been widely employed to assert the inherent dignity and fundamental human rights of each person.

The Declaration of Independence is a foundational document in American political and social life that also inspires TEAM Westport’s mission: to build a community where diversity is welcomed, and inclusion, respect, and belonging are actively extended to all who live, work, attend school, or visit in Westport — regardless of ethnicity, gender identity, race, religion, and sexual orientation.

 In 1,000 words or less please comment on the following:

 1) The relevance and value of the Declaration of Independence in your everyday life and your duties or obligations, if any, to uphold its principles for all people living within our democratic society;

AND…

2) Opportunities, if any, you believe town leaders (including fellow students, school officials, community members, and TEAM Westport) could create to act differently or additionally to reinforce the principles of the Declaration of Independence.

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kaila patel: “THe declaration of independence: A foundation, not a finish line”

Sophomore year. U.S. History Honors with Mrs. Lynch. The lights in the classroom had been turned off as she read the Declaration of Independence, sentence by sentence. One after the other: “that all men are created equal”, that they “are endowed with certain unalienable rights”, that among those rights are “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness”. I remember thinking how powerful those words were. How strange and bold it must have felt 250 years ago to challenge an empire and declare that human dignity mattered more than authority. But even as I admired it, another thought crept in quietly: something was missing.

The document was revolutionary for its time, but to me it was also incomplete. When Thomas Jefferson wrote “all men are created equal,” women were excluded. People of color were excluded.

Immigrants and people who looked like me, Korean and Indian, were never imagined as part of that promise. Yet that flaw does not weaken the Declaration; it strengthens it. To me, the Declaration was never the finished product. It was the catalyst.

Kaila Patel

I view the Declaration as a template, one that later generations have been asked to build upon. The founder drafted the foundation, but it has been the responsibility of the American people to build upon it. Over time, the country has continued to add new chapters to the original promise of liberty and freedom, such as the 13th Amendment abolishing slave1y, the 19th Amendment granting women the right to vote, and the Civil Rights Act of 1964 prohibiting discrimination. Each of these efforts was an attempt to move reality closer to the ideals set forth in the Declaration. Each generation added another layer to the structure Jefferson began.

As a student at Staples High School, I see that same idea eve1y day. Our school gives us the foundation, such as knowledge, skills, and the framework of an idea, but they expect us to build something more with it. A history lesson becomes a topic at a debate. A science concept becomes a research project. A small idea becomes a passion project, a chance to make real change. The Declaration works the same way. It gave America the framework. What we do with it now determines its true meaning.

For me, I want to do my part to reinforce the principles of the Declaration of Independence. As a Korean and Indian girl growing up in Westport Connecticut, a place full of opportunity and strong education. I am reminded eve1y day that this is a luxury. A luxury I can only live because of Jefferson’s ideals, because of women and men across America centuries ago, using the themes of the Declaration of Independence as a template, creating equality so people like me can go to school, claim independence, and live their lives freely. 250 years ago, someone like me would not have been included in that vision of equality. Yet today, I sit in a classroom studying the very document that helped create the system that allowed me to be here. That realization carries weight.

The ideals expressed in the Declaration are part of my everyday life, whether large or small.

Because of that, I feel a responsibility to uphold those principles. The Declaration does not simply grant independence; it challenges each generation to prove it deserves it. If I claim the right to liberty and opportunity, then I must also embody the ideals of freedom and equality. For me, that means working hard, standing confidently, and not shrinking myself to fit in someone else’s view of who they think I should be. It means proving that our independence is not simply something that we were given, but rather that we take through action.

I plan on doing that by giving back to my community. Currently, I am in the process of becoming an EMT, as I believe that independence also means that one should be willing to give back to their community. Being an EMT and helping people in their time of need is one way that I can turn the abstract ideas of the Declaration into action.

However, it is not just an individualistic duty to advance the principles stated in the Declaration.

Our town leaders, schools, and organizations must also help advance the principles stated in the Declaration. If the Declaration of lndependence is a template, then our town, Westport, has the chance to build upon it.

One way to do this is to provide students with more opportunities to be in charge of actual projects that will benefit the community, whether it be in terms of the environment, health, or outreach.

When students are given the opportunity to be proactive, they will realize that democracy isn’t just something that’s written in history books; it’s something they are actively a part of.

Town leaders can also improve upon the idea of the Declaration by encouraging students to become active citizens by providing opportunities for internships, volunteer work, and other such leading roles. When students are given a voice, they begin to realize that the future of democracy lies in their hands.

Now, when I think back to that day in Mrs. Lynch’s classroom, I realize why the Declaration felt so powerful to me. It was never meant to be absolute. It was meant to begin something. 250 years later, that ideal continues. Now it is our turn. As a female, Korean, and Indian student in Westport, I do not simply inherit the Declaration’s promise; I build on it.

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liam harrison: codex officii populi

“… Governments are instituted among men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed” — The Declaration of Independence

The Declaration of Independence, when written, was intended to protect the rights of and establish a better nation for a group of revolutionary citizens. Since its creation, the ideals of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness have become cornerstones of what it means to be an American. The understanding that “all men are created equal” has embedded itself in the hearts of those oppressed or struggling today to experience that equality.

Owing to the increased need for recognition and empowerment of the oppressed, it has become more relevant than ever as a beacon of equity for those without said rights than as simply history for the ones who initially had them-the white, patriarchal society.

Unfortunately, the oaths promised by the Declaration are not given. There are still millions of Americans today living in inhumane conditions, struggling fruitlessly for their entitled liberty. Even in Westport, one of the most well-off communities in the country, I’d need at least ten hands to list the racial, gender, or ethnic microaggressions I’ve seen this year at Staples alone. Whether as a truly hurtful comment or a joke in passing, it doesn’t matter. So what happens when the Declaration is abridged? Can citizens ensure that the promises of our founding fathers are met, or are the voices of the minority weak without a ‘savior’ standing behind them?

Liam Harrison (Photos/Dan Woog)

Minorities are not weak. The powerful speeches of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and the tireless efforts of activists like Susan B. Anthony or Elizabeth Cady Stanton are proof. But no matter how hard minority groups may fight for representation in Congress and in communities in general, the rigid gears of oppression will refuse to budge without a representative voice.

The fact is that it is impossible to gain representation in Congress or town hall if you are prohibited from doing so, as many groups were in the past, and as some still are. In that way, it is necessary — even mandatory — that all minorities gain a proper footing in our society today so that they can make systemic changes and defend their own rights.

But what am I getting at here? The efforts of activists have always been the catalyst, the driving force behind justice. Yet an unfortunate but manageable reality of American democracy is the necessity for majority recognition for popular reform. As a community, it is our responsibility to ensure that all groups are not only seen, not only heard, but recognized, and perhaps most importantly, understood.

On the national scale, the failure of the country to embrace the Declaration of Independence can look like not recognizing those in Guam as US citizens, denying Puerto Ricans the right to vote in presidential elections, or any other instance of American’s voices being tossed aside. These struggles have not been resolved yet, and they will only be once those currently in power support and recognize those efforts.

Even in Westport, a town well renowned for its education quality, it’s obvious that there is a large gap in education between students with access to private tutoring versus those without.

Furthermore, embracing the values laid out in the Declaration of Independence today means addressing microaggressions in school where they show up; it means being the person who stands with the new kid in class instead of the one who giggles and points out their differences behind their back. Only once the atmosphere of slight but meaningful separation has dissipated can true democracy, true equality roam free. That is how anyone can play a part in ensuring liberty and justice for all.

I am not a member of any minority, by any and all definitions. My own personal struggles are not connected to the grand fights for equity in the United States. But it is disquieting to me that the current community practice is to leave the activists to fend for themselves, standing on the sidelines and acting as a spectator in the field of equality — for what?

I believe that as people and as a community, we have forgotten that it is the solemn duty of all members of society to ensure that everyone is heard and understood. Quite frankly, it is irrelevant that this is not a struggle that touches me personally. It is everyone’s obligation to fight against social injustices, regardless of who you are. We have forgotten that even if it is not your fight, you can either be an upstander, bystander, or aggressor. To act as a bystander is almost as criminal as being the aggressor, because you are turning away from the injustices at hand; devaluing and silencing the voices of the minorities. I may not be a minority member, it’s true, but I’m just as responsible as anyone for making sure that all voices are equally appreciated.

The purpose that connects all Americans in the caretaking of the Declaration of Independence is the responsibility to ensure that all members of our community are empowered, heard, and understood. Even if you don’t have a grievance, a battle to fight in society, it is your responsibility as a member of our Westport community to make sure that those with struggles and grievances can be equal members of society, and truly benefit from the equality of opportunity that our founding fathers intended.

With this common goal, nobody is excluded. Nobody is downtrodden. Nobody is denied not only the right to speak, but the right to be seen and heard. Once all Westporters unite in this aim, we can act as a beacon of light, hope, and equality in these dark times. It starts with a single choice; the one decision to uplift instead of put down, to open our minds instead of closing our hearts, to bring in instead of push out. From there, the possibilities of a fully united, multicultural, inclusive society are simply endless.

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Staples Players Rewind: “Beauty & The Beast”

In the fall of 2007, Staples Players produced “Beauty & the Beast.”

Directors David Roth and Kerry Long’s adaptation of the beloved fairy tale musical is this week’s “nutshell” — a 17-minute highlight reel filmed and edited by former media teacher Jim Honeycutt.

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