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Roundup: Matteo Bocelli, Jake Sussman, David Pogue …

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Sure, the Levitt Pavilion — and everything else here — is covered with snow.

But eventually, we’ll be outdoors, in lawn chairs, listening to …

Matteo Bocelli.

The Italian singer — and son of tenor Andrea Bocelli — will step on the Westport stage July 10. It’s part of his “Falling in Love” world tour.

Member tickets went on sale yesterday. The public sale begins at 10 a.m. Friday (February 13).

As Valentine’s Day approaches, the Levitt reminds everyone: Tickets to Bocelli “are certainly romance-infused.”

As for presents: A Pavilion gift card can be used toward any paid ticket shows, as well as membership.

The season runs from late May to mid-October. It includes several paid-ticket events, along with over 50 free shows. (Hat tip: Karen Como)

Matteo Bocelli

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Jake Sussman knows something about smart kids, and learning disabilities.

The Westport native — who struggled mightily with ADHD before graduating from the Forman School, then the University of Hartford — ultimately learned to advocate for himself.

Now, as co-founder (with his brother Max) and president of Superpower Mentors, he connects men and women who have gone on the same journey he did, with people who are just learning how to cope with ADHD, dyslexia, autism and other learning differences.

Jake’s advocacy continues on February 28, at Smart Kids with Learning Disabilities Inc.’s 8th annual Parent Conference

He’ll be part of the daylong conference at Fairfield University). It provides parents and educators with hands-on resources to help children
with learning and attention differences succeed.

The schedule includes round-table sessions, panel discussions, exhibitors, and opportunities to speak with private school administrators, tutors, and businesses that focus on assistance for children with learning difficulties.

For information on the conference and how to register, click here.

Jake Sussman

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David Pogue no longer lives in Westport.

But the “CBS Sunday Morning” correspondent, “Nova” host, best-selling author– and so much more — still has many friends here.

They’ll be glad to know that — 12 years after he stopped writing his very informative New York Times tech column — he’s back on that beat.

With Substack.

Pogue’s first piece is headlined “Dammit! Tesla’s Self-Driving Has Gotten Amazing. Just kind of wish the tech came from a better company.”

It’s a great look inside recent advances in this aspect of the auto industry. (Spoiler alert: You’re no longer likely to die.)

Near the end, Pogue poses a series of questions I’ve never seen anywhere else:

What happens to car insurance when people aren’t driving? What happens to driver’s ed and driver’s licenses, when even a 12-year-old can hail a self-driving taxi? What happens to car ownership when it no longer makes economic sense?

When only a fraction as many people own cars, will they convert their garages to living space? What happens to parking lots? Will the layout of cities change?

His Substack is free. There are no ads or paywall — just David Pogue, at his best.

Click here to read the full piece (and subscribe).

David Pogue

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A large crowd enjoyed the Westport Country Playhouse’s February Script in Hand offering on Monday.

The 1-person performance of “The Goldsmith” was all about Sharone Sayegh. The Broadway actor wrote the script, and played various family member roles in the sentimentally humorous show about her Iraqi/Israeli family, who emigrated to Los Angeles.

Actor Sharone Sayegh (front, center) with (from left) director Zachary Prince, Playhouse artistic director Mark Shanahan and stage manager Jinghong Zhu. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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Speaking of theater: The Y’s Women went “backstage” on Monday.

Kevin Connors — executive artistic director of Music Theater of Connecticut — described the power of lighting and projection to touch an audience, change a mood and impact a play.

“Theater is not just observed” at MTC, he said. “You are right in the middle of it.”

Kevin Connors, at the Y’s Women meeting. (Photo/Vera DeStefano)

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Westport Museum of History & Culture executive director Ramin Ganeshram is also a food writer. Her book The General’s Cook: A Novel is about Hercules Posey, the African-American chef enslaved by George Washington who self-emancipated in 1797.

On Monday the New York Times published her piece about cherry bounce, titled “This George Washington Story Is Actually True.”

The subhead says: “While tales of his copping to chopping a cherry tree were just lore, the nation’s first president did partake of this cherry drink.” Click here to read the story (with a link to the recipe.) (Hat tip: Tom Prince)

(Graphic/Luke Wohlgemuth for the New York Times)

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We’ve featured plenty of fine feathered friends, in our “Westport … Naturally” daily post.

But we may never have seen as close a close-up as this:

(Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

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And finally … in honor of George Washington and his love for cherry drinks:

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Roundup: William Tong, Jake Sussman, Marc Selverstone, Talmage Boston,

Attorney General William Tong spoke to a large Y’s Women crowd yesterday.

He described the impact of state lawsuits against tobacco and pharmaceutical firms. Up next: social media companies.

The AG — one of nearly 2 dozen who have sued Donald Trump and his administration, in several cases — said that the president must follow judges, and the law. States have the “checks and balances” power to keep the executive branch in check, he noted.

Connecticut Attorney General William Tong with (from left) Y’s Women president Vera DeStefano and vice president Catherine Albin. (Photo/Jilda Manikas)

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Jake Sussman is not yet 30. But — as founder of Superpower Mentors, an online mentoring program that empowers young people with learning differences to confidently succeed in any environment — he has already made a difference in thousands of lives.

On April 10 (6:30 p.m., Woodway Country Club, Darien) the Westport native will be honored at Smart Kids with Learning Disabilities‘ annual gala. Sussman will receive the Norwalk-based non-profit’s “Be the Difference” Award.

Jake has spent thosands of hours personally mentoring neurodiverse youth around the world. He often uses his own experiences with learning differences in his work.

As someone who once struggled to see my own potential, I know firsthand that the right mentorship can change everything,” he says.

“The world’s biggest problems will be solved by those who think differently. I am committed to making sure every young person sees their differences as their greatest superpower.”

Click here for tickets, and more information.

Jake Sussman

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Sunday’s community conversation about the Representative Town Meeting was informative, insightful and fun. (And I’m not just saying that because I was the moderator.)

If you want to know more about our town’s legislative body — what it does; what motivates people to run; what they get out of it — click below.

PS: RTM members want competitive races. It makes everyone better. If you’re thinking of running for a seat this fall, the video above may motivate you.

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Westport did it again!

On Sunday — in just one hour — residents donated 180 bags of food and household items — to Homes with Hope’s Gillespie Center and food pantry.

Others send supplies through Amazon.

The collection was sponsored by Marcy Sansolo, the Facebook “What Up Westport” page creator and avid town volunteer (and most recent “06880” Unsung Hero).

Along with donors, the Imperial Avenue parking lot collection point was visited by Homes with Hope CEO Helen McAlinden, Westport Volunteer Emergency Medical Service president Jaime Bairaktaris, CLASP Homes president Tracy Flood, Gillespie Center pantry manager Sarah Carusone, and the general manager of Fresh Market.

Fresh Market had offered a great deal to Marcy. She bought 100 pounds of beef, and 100 more pounds of chicken, to augment the other donations.

Marcy got a tour of the newly renovated Gillespie Center. “I was so moved by everyone involved, and in awe of all the goodness surrounding me” she says — referring to the homeless shelter, food pantry, and all who helped with the collection.

Marcy Sansolo and Sarah Carusone, Homes with Hope food pantry manager. (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

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More politics (national version): Last Thursday was “Westport Day,” at the prestigious Virginia Festival of the Book.

Historian (and 1972 Staples High School graduate) Talmage Boston, discussed his new book, “How the Best Did It: Leadership Lessons from Our Top Presidents.”

The moderator was 1980 Staples grad Marc Selverstone, the University of Virginia Miller Center of Public Affairs’ director of presidential studies.

Referencing America’s 8 greatest presidents, Boston explored how their leadership traits can be applied today. 

In the audience were Dave Harrison, a legendary Staples social studies teacher who taught both Boston and Selverstone, and his wife, former SHS educator Marianne Harrison, along with Selverstone’s parents, Bob and Harriet. Bob — a psychologist — also worked as a Staples guidance counselor and teacher, while Harriet is a retired media specialist and library department chair at Norwalk High School.

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Staples’ recipients for March Students of the Month are senior Massimo Sequenzia, juniors Angela Dellorusso and Vincent Vega, sophomores Hayley Epstein and Igancy Nieweglowski, and freshmen Chloe Endich and Petra Schwartz.

Students of the Month — nominated by their teachers — help make Staples a welcoming place for peers and teachers. They are “the type of kind, cheerful, hard-working, trustworthy students that keep the high school together.”

From left: Angela Dellorusso, Hayley Epstein, Ignacy Nieweglowski, Massimo Sequenzia, Vincent Vega. Not pictured: Chloe Endich, Petra Schwartz.

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John Basile — the jazz guitarist and composer known for his “soulful melodic playing, sophisticated harmonic sense, and deep conversational approach to improvisation” — headlines this week’s Jazz at the Post (Thursday, March 27; shows at 7:30 and 8:45 p.m.; dinner at 7 p.m.; VFW Post 399; $20 music cover, $15 for veterans and students; click here to reserve).

Basile has worked withPeggy Lee, Rosemary Clooney and Tony Bennett. He’ll be joined by bassist Yuriy Galkin, drummer Carmen Intorre Jr., and saxophonist Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall.

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Speaking of music: pianists Dr. Liang-Fang Chang and Dr. Uriel Tsachor perform April 6 (2 p.m.), at Saugatuck Congregational Church.

The Y’s Men of Westport & Weston co-sponsor the free event, on the church’s Steinway grand piano.

Dr. Liang-Fang Chang and Dr. Uriel Tsachor

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Four stone pillars have stood on Morningside Drive South for decades. It’s not going anywhere.

But there’s plenty of ever-changing life all around at least one, as today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo shows. In a few days, this scene will look very different.

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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And finally … happy 78th birthday, Sir Elton John!

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Roundup: Y’s Superpower Mentors, P&Z’s Field Trip, Playhouse’s “Gardens” …

The Westport Weston Family YMCA is many things, to many people.

Now — thanks to a partnership with Superpower Mentors — it is reaching out specially to students ages 10 through college and beyond with dyslexia, ADHD and other learning differences.

Y families now get reduced rates for Superpower Mentors’ services. The organization — created and run by Westport native Jake Sussman, who struggled with ADHD before graduating from the Forman School, then the University of Hartford — provides one-on-one support to build confidence, develop executive functioning skills, and prepare for success in school, work and life.

Superpower Mentors does it by matching students with peer mentors who share their learning differences, smf understand their challenges firsthand.  They’re paired by interests too — sports, music, technology, the arts and more — creating an even strong connection.

Mentors offer guidance in time management, study habits and emotional well-being. Over 90% of mentees show increased confidence and success after just a few months.

Information sessions to help families learn more about the program are set for March 11 (12, 6 and 7:30 p.m.) Parents can meet the Superpower Mentors team, ask questions, and explore whether the program is a good fit for their child.

Click here to learn more about Superpower Mentors. Registration is required; click here for details. For questions, or if unable to attend, email hello@superpowermentors.com or call 800-403-2377.

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To prepare for a discussion of adapting 5 buildings at Baron’s South for affordable housing, the Planning & Zoning Commission will inspect them next Tuesday (February 25, 2 p.m.).

The public is invited, but no public comment will be taken.

“Golden Shadows,” the largest of the 5 buildings at Baron’s South. (Photo/Wendy Crowther)

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“Native Gardens” bloomed last night at the Westport Country Playhouse.

The comedy — about neighbors from different cultures who clash over the property line separating their gardens — runs through March 8. 

Author Karen Zacarías will be in the audience tonight (Wednesday). American Theatre magazine recently cited her as one of the 10 most-produced playwrights in the US. 

Click here for tickets, and more information. Click below, for a video preview:

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Upcoming Westport Farmers’ Markets include “effortless” discussions.

Both are led by TAP Strength’s EJ Zebro, from noon to 1 p.m. On February 27 he’ll speak with Bena Kallick on “Effortless Aging.” The March 3 topic is “Effortless Wellness,” with Jennifer Boyd.

The Winter Farmers’ Market runs every Thursday, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Gilbertie’s Herbs & Garden Center (7 Sylvan Lane).

As always, there are 3 dozen vendors, plus lunch options like pizza, Thai and Mexican food, oysters and more.

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Westport is quiet this week. With schools closed for winter break, families have taken off for spots warm (Florida, the Caribbean) and cold (Vermont, Utah).

Two dozen Staples High School students and 4 teachers have gone somewhere else: Japan.

Their 9-day tour has a STEM focus. They’re visiting a testing facility for maglev trains, and the Japanese Aerospace Exploration Agency.

They’re also having traditional experiences, like seeing Mt. Fuji, shrines and gardens, and attending tea ceremonies and a sushi-making class.

Learning about sushi …

… and maglev trains. (Photos/Maggie Gomez)

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The Compo Beach playground’s “community build” renovation is set for April 21-26.

In preparation, fencing has already appeared.

(Photo/Matt Murray)

The renovation will include new accessible equipment for children of all abilities; widened walkways; safer surfacing around the swings, and replacement of the weathered fence.

It’s a major project of the Westport Rotary Club and Westport Young Woman’s League, with help from the Parks & Recreation Department and other organizations.

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Riverside Park has become a favored destination for quiet meditation, watching the ever-changing Saugatuck River — and dog-walking.

Recent frigid weather has not deterred visitors.

At least, not this guy.

Collette Winn captured today’s icy, but heart-warming, “Westport … Naturally” image.

(Photo/Collette Winn)

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And finally … in honor of the Westport Y’s partnership with Superpower Mentors (story above):

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Roundup: Kyle Martino & Ted Lasso, Jake Sussman & Star 99 …

A billion or so people watched Sunday’s European championship. (Spoiler alert: Spain beat England, 2-1).

Plenty of Westporters watched, all around town.

In New York, Kyle Martino threw a watch party for a couple of hundred of his closest friends.

Including Jason Sudeikis.

That’s right: One of the most famous soccer coaches in the world — aka Ted Lasso — was in the “No One Home” crowd.

That’s Martino’s latest brainchild: a soccer clubhouse/meeting place.

He’s had a storied career in the game: 1999 Gatorade National High School Player of the Year, while playing for Staples High School; MLS Rookie of the Year with the Columbus Crew; David Beckham’s teammate with the Los Angeles Galaxy; US men’s national team player; TV commentator (NBC Sports, Warner Brothers Discovery); creator of Goalpher (an innovative design that turns basketball courts into mini-soccer pitches), and founder of the Over Under Initiative, to bring the sport to underserved neighborhoods.

No One Home is at 141 Chrystie Street, on the Lower East Side. The place was hopping, all during the Euros and concurrent Copa América.

It will continue to grow, and attract fans of the beautiful game, all through the run-up to next year’s World Cup (hosted by the US, Canada and Mexico).

But don’t take our word for it. Check out Dave Briggs’ video below — and Kyle’s invitation to the “06880” community to visit.

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“06880” has proudly chronicled the journey of Jake Sussman.

The Westport native struggled mightily with ADHD before graduating from the Forman School, then the University of Hartford.

He learned to advocate for himself — and went on to huge success.

As co-founder (with his brother Max) and president of Superpower Mentors, he connects men and women who have gone on the same journey he did, with people who are just learning how to cope with ADHD, dyslexia, autism and other learning differences.

The mentors provide guidance, advice and support based on their own lives. “They speak the same language,” Jake notes.

Now Star 99.9 has taken notice.

Jake was interviewed on Kevin & Jenna’s radio show. He told the back story of Superpower Mentors, and offered inspiring success stories.

Click here, then scroll down to listen to these very important 8 minutes.

Jake Sussman

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A storm moved in quickly yesterday afternoon. It dumped heavy rain for a few minutes, then departed just as suddenly.

Lawrence Zlatkin captured the scene over Cockenoe Island, for today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Lawrence Zlatkin)

Today’s forecast is for a high of 92. It will be mostly sunny, with the possibility of another stray afternoon rain storm.

And, once again, very humid.

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And finally … on this date in 1941, Joe DiMaggio hit safely for the 56th consecutive game. More than 80 years later, it is still an MLB record.

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Roundup: Jesup Green Saved, Finalmente Closes, Dog Fest Nears …

Tuesday night’s 6 hours-plus Representative Town Meeting about Jesup Green was not the end of the legislative body’s debate.

Meeting again Wednesday night, the RTM clarified that although they had approved $630,000 in American Rescue Plan Act funds for a redesign of Jesup Green and the Imperial Avenue parking lot, there will be no further consideration of parking on Jesup Green.

The final vote was 23-10, in favor of that resolution.

Parking will no longer be considered for Jesup Green, the RTM clarified Wednesday night.

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In Italian, “finalmente” means “finally.”

The final day for Finalmente Trattoria — the small but much-loved Italian restaurant across from Design Within Reach — is this Sunday (May 12).

Owners Andre and Mary Iodice wrote to their customers:

It’s with a mix of emotions that we share the news of Finalmente Trattoria’s closure after 19 remarkable years. Andre’s decision to retire brings an end to a chapter filled with cherished memories and lasting connections.

We are immensely grateful for the unwavering support and loyalty shown by the Westport community and surrounding towns throughout the years. The memories created and the friendships formed have been the heart and soul of Finalmente Trattoria. Your patronage has been the lifeblood of our restaurant, and we are profoundly thankful for every moment shared with you. Whether you joined us for a special celebration, a quiet meal with loved ones, or simply to savor our culinary creations, your presence has enriched our lives in countless ways.

We also want to extend our heartfelt gratitude to our dedicated team whose hard work and commitment have been invaluable. Their contributions and loyalty have been instrumental in making Finalmente Trattoria a special place for all who walked through our doors.

Unfortunately, the challenges posed by the Covid-19 pandemic have been significant, with rising costs and staffing shortages making it increasingly difficult to sustain our operations. While we have poured our hearts and souls into creating a welcoming space and crafting delectable dishes, the challenges of the past years have proven insurmountable. After careful consideration, we have come to the difficult decision that we will be working with our landlord to navigate the changes and sign a new tenant to take over the space.

While we may be closing our doors as of May 13th, the memories created, and the connections formed at Finalmente Trattoria will forever hold a special place in our hearts. We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for being a part of our journey, and we look forward to carrying these memories with us as we embark on new adventures.

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Dogs love Winslow Park.

For one Sunday every May, they really go to town.

The 8th annual Westport Dog Festival is set for May 19 (10 a.m. to 4 p.m). The event is sponsored by the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce, in association with TAILS. The local non-profit promotes spaying and neutering of animals. multiple informative and exciting demonstrations, goofy competitions, Police K9 presentation, obstacle course, kids activities, food trucks and more.

As always, the day includes demonstrations like guide dog training, obedience exhibitions and police K9 presentations. There’s an obstacle course (with a year’s supply of dog food for the winner), and competitions with prizes for best tail wagger, best dressed, best kisser, best trick, best lap dog over 50 pounds, and the dog that most looks like its owner.

Surrounding the main activities are over 60 pet-related vendors, picture taking, caricatures, games, giveaways and food trucks.

The entry fee is $10 per person, $30 for a family of 4 (2 adults, 2 children). Proceeds benefit non-profit organizations. So far, over $40,000 has been donated by the Chamber to deserving groups.

Dog owners can register for the competitions at the event ($5 per entry). Click here for more information.

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For the first time in over 50 years, Bill Vornkahl will not lead this month’s Memorial Day parade.

The Korean War veteran — “Mr. Westport Parade” — died in January. He was 93.

But his memory is very much alive. And his legacy will be celebrated on Saturday, May 25 — 2 day before the annual parade — with a special blood drive.

St. Paul Church is partnering with the Vornkahl family and the Connecticut Blood Center. The event is at the Easton Road church, from 9 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.

Click here to sign up for a time slot. Walk-ins are welcome too.

Bill Vornkahl (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

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Craig Melvin is a noted news anchor of NBC’s “Today,” co-host of the “Third Hour of Today,” a memoir author (“Pops: Learning to Be a Son and Father”), and a Westport resident.

Now he’s written a children’s picture book too.

“I’m Proud of You” — published Tuesday — is also about father/son relationships. It follows the ups and downs of a young boy’s life. One thing is always certain: his father’s unwavering support and love for him, no matter what.

The heartfelt book — perfect for Father’s Day! —  is a tribute to all fathers, sons, and childhood milestones.

“I have many passions in life, but what I’m most passionate about is being a father,” says Melvin. “’I’m Proud of You’ is a celebration of the small things in life, and a book for anybody who has experienced the joys and wonders of parenthood and wants their children to know how amazing and inspiring they are.”

Click here to order direct from HarperCollins.

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On Tuesday, Jake Sussman visited the Westport Library.

The Westport native — and founder of Superpower Mentors, which has facilitated over 7,000 sessions connecting youth to neuro-diverse mentors worldwide — spoke about how to reach the next generation of youth with learning disabilities.

Sharing his own story, Jake demonstrated that challenges can be transformed into “superpowers.” T

He spoke about embracing different learning styles, becoming a better self-advocate, finding healthy outlets and managing time.

If you missed it — no problem! Click below for the presentation:

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Amy and Eric Falkenstein — and seniors from Staples, Weston and other area high schools — will honored at The Circle of Friends’ 17th annual evening of recognition (May 19, 5:30 p.m., Westport Woman’s Club).

More than 100 local teenage volunteers enjoy friendships with special needs children, through the organization.

The Falkensteins — who will receive the Heart of Friendship Award — have 3 children. Their son Theo participates in Circle of Friends programs.

For reservations, sponsorship opportunities, to place an ad in the journal or more information, click here, email cof@circleoffriendsct.org,  or call 203-293-8837.

Amy and Eric Falkenstein

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This past winter, Staples High School held a “signing day” ceremony for students who have committed to play NCAA Division I sports next year.

The athletic department followed up this week, with a similar ceremony for students playing Division II and III sports.

  • Jack Farnen: Baseball, Hobart and William Smith College
  • Cooper Levinson: Rowing, University of California at San Diego
  • Andrew Berkowitz: Swimming and diving, Amherst College
  • Cisco Celotto: Lacrosse, Gettysburg College
  • Gabriela de Brito: Soccer, Massachusetts Institute of Technolgoy
  • Liam Donaldson: Lacrosse, Emerson College
  • Natalie Greene: Squash, Mount Holyoke College
  • Charlie Iannone: Lacrosse, Rochester Institute of Technology
  • Charlotte Moody: Cheerleading, Elon University (DI; announces in spring)
  • Caroline Roschen: Field hockey, Franklin & Marshall College
  • Leilani Fleming: Cross country, track and field, Swarthmore College
  • Luke Rabacs: Track and field, Case Western Reserve University
  • Libby Turner: Swimming and diving, Swarthmore College

From left: Charlie Iannone, Liam Donaldson, Cisco Celotto at Staples High School’s NCAA Division II and III signing day.

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Westport content creator Julia Dzafic has just published a cookbook. “Garden Grown: Garden-to-Table Recipes to Make the Most of Your Bounty” features recipes, using ingredients from her husband Anel’s (you guessed it) garden.

According to her Instagram stories (@lemonstripes), it’s available at Terrain. There are also signed copies at Barnes & Noble.

Click here to order direct from Penguin Random House, and for more information. (Hat tip: Erin Regan)

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Drew Angus is one of the highlighted musicians at this summer’s “Soundview Stroll” (July 25) — the first-ever Sunday street party on the Compo Beach exit road.

But you don’t have to wait for this summer to see the popular Westport singer-songwriter.

The Staples grad performs at Fairfield Theatre Company on May 17 (7 p.m.).

Drew mixes superb storytelling with a mix of Americana sounds, blending indie and folk rock.

He’s played alongside Stevie Nicks, Noah Kahan, Zach Bryan, Brandi Carlisle and The Lumineers, and performed for the San Francisco Giants and New York Mets,

For tickets and more information, click here.

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Paul Delano writes: “We are less than a week away from the first day of the Quiet Season. On May 15 the gas leaf blower ban begins in Westport. It continues until October 15.

“I’ll celebrate by listening for new birds.

“The free Merlin phone app from Cornell listens for bird calls, and tell you what they are. It’s very cool.

“For me it turned up a variety of birds, including beautiful ones like the yellow warbler, common yellowthroat and Northern parula.

“May is a peak time for seeing and hearing migrating birds like warblers.”

The Merlin app can identify catbirds like this, from its sounds. (Photo/Lou Weinberg)

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Westport native and lifelong resident Eleanor Banyard died April 21 in Norwalk. She was 99.

Ellie was born in the same house on Franklin Street in Saugatuck where her mother, Antoinette Eleanor Gilbertie DePalmer was born, and where her grandparents had lived since they were newlyweds.

She attended Saugatuck School, and remembered Miss Coyle as her favorite teacher. She graduated from Norwalk High School.

In 1953 Ellie married Joseph Banyard Jr., an accountant for the US government. They bought land on Lyons Plains Road, and built a house there. Ellie live in her beloved home for 70 years. Though they divorced, Ellie and Joe remained close friends until his death in 2021.

Ellie worked as a bookkeeper, then a teller. at Westport Bank & Trust Company. She rose to senior vice president and corporate secretary. She was an active member of the American Society of Corporate Secretaries, and earned a certificate in international banking. She retired after 47 years of service to the bank.

Ellie took drawing and painting studies at Silvermine Guild Art Studios, and took classes with well-known artists like Frank Covino and sculptor Stanley Bleifeld.   in retirement she had time to paint and garden. She also cared for her mother, until her death in 2000.

Ellie was predeceased by her brother Anthony DePalmer and sister Dolores Karl, who died 3 days before Ellie at the age of 95.

She is survived by her sister-in-law Judy DePalmer of Citra, Florida, and many nieces and nephews, and their children.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Francis of Assisi Church in Weston on May 21 (11 a.m.). In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Notre Dame Nursing & Rehabilitation, 76 West Rocks Road, Norwalk, CT 06851, where she received superb care the last year of her life. Condolences may be left on line at www.hardingfuneral.com.

Eleanor Banyard

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo was taken in Steve Halstead’s back yard. He does not know what this great blue heron was doing — but it had a good time doing it.

(Photo/Steve Halstead)

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And finally … on this day in 1503, Christopher Columbus visited the Cayman Island. He named them “Las Tortugas,” after the many turtles there.

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A Mind Like Jake Sussman’s: Empowering Kids With Learning Differences

Jake Sussman knows how it feels to be called stupid.

To pick up a book, want to read — and be unable to.

To be told dismissively, “I can’t believe someone in high school wrote that.”

He also knows what it’s like to find out that he can learn — just differently from his peers.

To embrace his differences.

And to discover his superpower.

The Westport native — who struggled mightily with ADHD before graduating from the Forman School, then the University of Hartford — ultimately learned to advocate for himself.

He learned that 1 in every 5 people is neuro-divergent — including up to 10% with dyslexia, and 5% with ADHD.

He took a huge step forward — gaining confidence and renown — when “The Forgotten Child,” a poem he wrote as a college junior for a poetry slam went viral.

With lines like “Imagine yourself as the child that always smiled/You were wild, you were beguiled/Until the day you were profiled,” it touched a chord with youngsters battling every day against a world filled with peers, teachers, even parents who did not understand them.

That forgotten child “refused to acknowledge he would never go to college,” Jake wrote — and repeated that poem and message to parents and educators.

A video of his poem went viral.

Jake had found his passion. His calling. And his superpower.

The 28-year-old could not deliver his message of overcoming frustration, affirmation and ultimately elation to his younger self.

But he could tell it to the millions of boys and girls just like him, growing up now in a world that — despite greater knowledge of learning differences — still does not provide the role models and lived experiences those kids need.

Jake’s younger brother Max empathized completely. A basketball player in Staples High School’s Class of 2018, and a business/ entrepreneurship major at Northeastern University, he was the perfect partner to help spread Jake’s message of how to reach “that kid in the back of the class.”

When Jake spoke to educators, parents, community groups and at a global dyslexia conference, people asked if worked with young people.

“I’m not a parent, a teacher or a therapist,” Jake says. “But I had credibility, because I lived this. I spoke kids’ language, because I knew it. I was relatable. I had the missing link.”

With Max’s help, Jake set up an online mentorship program. Four youngsters quickly turned into 30.

“They sat their totally focused” as he talked with them, Jake recalls. “They couldn’t get off the call.”

Of course, mentoring more than 2 dozen kids himself was unsustainable. So Superpower Mentors was born.

Jake is the heart of the company. Max is its CEO.

Their mentors are not licensed healthcare professionals. They are not competing with schools.

The mentors are men and women — just a few years older than their mentees — who provide guidance, advice and support based on their own lives. “They speak the same language,” Jake notes.

Those lives are impressive. Mentors include a NASA engineer, professional musician, animator and video game designer.

Mentors undergo rigorous training through a proprietary course. They are matched with mentees who share their interests and backgrounds. Then they meet online, up to 6 hours a month, sharing experiences only someone with a learning disability can understand.

Mentors offer practical advice in areas like time management, organizational skills and executive functioning.

Equally important is the confidence and excitement youngsters gain, just by talking with someone who knows what they’re going through.

But Superpower Mentors serve parents too. They have access to the mentors to discuss their child’s progress, and gain insights and tips.

“They ask things like, ‘how can we handle the fight we always have just before dinner?'” Jake says. “It’s a family partnership.”

“The myth is that kids with learning disabilities can’t sit still,” he adds. “But they can. And they do, the entire time they’re with their mentors.”

Since launching, Superpower Mentors has enlisted over 100 mentors. They’ve conducted over 7,000 sessions, with mentees as far away as Spain and Norway.

But as important as that is, Jake has another goal: to impact the town he grew up in.

His time in the Westport public schools “did not work out well for me,” he says. “But I’m not pointing fingers. I want to be partners. We can help change the world. And it can start here.”

Jake’s home town is filled with “artists, creative people, entrepreneurs,” he says.

“They’re people who think differently. We want to make sure our schools are empowered to reach those types of kids. Max and I love this town!”

To reach those area kids (and adults), Superpower Mentors has partnered with Smart Kids with Learning Disabilities.

“A Mind Like Mine: Inside the World of Kids with LD and ADHD” is an interactive program for parents and educators, to learn strategies and empower youngsters. The free event is May 7 (7 p.m., Westport Library). (Click here to register.)

Westport Board of Education and school officials have been invited.

Over 100 people have already signed up, a month before the event. Jake looks forward to meeting them.

And — even more — to helping their kids’ unleash their superpowers.

(To learn more about Superpower Mentors, click here.)

Jake Sussman Fights For “The Forgotten Child”

Imagine yourself as the child that always smiled
You were wild, you were beguiled —
Until the day you were profiled.
This is the story of the forgotten child.

Jake Sussman delivers those words clearly, directly and powerfully. Like many guys in their early 20s, he’s got scruff and exudes confidence.

But he is “The Forgotten Child.”

Now, he’s making sure that educators around the world do not forget any other Jake Sussmans out there.

There are many.

Growing up in Westport — and diagnosed with a learning difference — Jake had a “great experience” at Coleytown Elementary School.

Middle school was different, though.

“It wasn’t working for me,” Jake says. He transferred to The Southport School, then the Forman School in Litchfield for high school. After graduating in 2014, he headed to Roger Williams University.

It was the only college he applied to with no academic support system.

Jake Sussman

“That was fine,” Jake says. “In life, there’s no special corner for employees with learning differences.”

He directed his energy and charisma toward creating a Hillel on the Rhode Island campus. By the time he left for his senior year at the University of Hartford — for its program in communications and business — there were 30 attendees at Shabbat dinners.

As a junior, he took part in a campus poetry slam. “The Forgotten Child” was all about overcoming adversity, and being true to oneself.

Negative labels are destructive
Counter-productive and obstructive
This forgotten child refused to acknowledge
“You will never go to college.”

Speaking those words out loud, Jake felt empowered. He told his story — but he was not alone.

“Everyone learns differently,” he notes. “I may be 3 grades behind in reading, but I’m the best artist in the class. Teachers have to be able to tap into that.”

He realized his poem spoke for “anyone not seen or heard.” Learning differences, sexualities, physical disabilities — whatever adversity students have to overcome, Jake included them. They too are “forgotten children.”

At boarding school, Jake had met Harvey Hubbell V. The Emmy-winning documentary filmmaker — who himself was diagnosed with dyslexia in the 1960s, and in 2013 produced “Dislecksia: The Movie” — was intrigued by Jake’s passion. And his poetry.

Beginning last May, they collaborated on a video. Last Thursday — in the middle of Dyslexia Awareness Month — they launched “The Forgotten Child” on Facebook. In it, Jake implores:

Don’t ever give up your shot
Our minds are all we’ve got!

Within 2 days, it had 25,000 views worldwide. And dozens of very favorable comments.

He hopes it reaches the right audiences: people with learning differences, and those who work with them.

“I’m not a teacher, a psychologist, a researcher or a parent,” he says. “I am a student. I represent all those who are not seen or heard, just for the way they learn.”

“The Forgotten Child” is just one of the ways Jake is speaking out about his own educational life, and those of so many others.

On Monday night, he was at a Decoding Dyslexia meeting in Salt Lake City.

I’m not sure whether he presented a talk or a poem.

Either way, I have no fear.

His message was heard loud and clear.

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Jacob Sussman, filming his video.

 

Digging An ALS Challenge

You’ve probably heard of the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge: the video craze in which someone pours (or has poured) ice water over his or her head, and challenges others do the same within 24 hours. If not, they make a donation to fight ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease).

Plenty of folks are doing it creatively, wetly and freezingly. The videos are clever and funny.

But you’d have to go a long way to top this, from Westporter Jake Sussman:

Jake dedicated his video — created with the help of Peter Greenberg, of Able Construction — to a contractor who died of ALS. Jake also donated $100 to the ALS Foundation.

He hopes his video goes viral. Feel free to pass it along — and take the Ice Bucket Challenge yourself, too!

Training Jake Sussman

At 18 months, Jake Sussman loved train videos. In the years to come he read Thomas the Tank Engine, saw historic steam locomotives at the Smithsonian, and dreamed of building a Lionel set.

Soon after his family moved to Westport in 2007, their basement flooded. His parents — David and Lauren — built a small table for model railroads, then told him to do the rest.

He certainly did.

She'll be comin' 'round the mountain, on Jake Sussman's model train layout.

She’ll be comin’ ’round the mountain, on Jake Sussman’s model train layout.

“This is my world,” Jake — now 17, and a junior at Forman School in Litchfield — says as walks downstairs. He shows off the astonishing HO model railroad layout he has built — track by track, train by train, tiny tree by tiny tree — over the past 5 years.

“When I got the table, my mind went crazy,” he explains. “I drew up plans. I got a subscription to Model Railroader. And I just started building.”

Jake Sussman stands amid a small part of his layout. Compare this photo with the one above, for a sense of the amazing scale Jake created.

Jake Sussman stands amid a small part of his layout. Compare this photo with the one above, for a sense of the amazing scale he created.

For his bar mitzvah, his parents gave him 6 sessions with Marc Rosenblum. The owner of HobbyTown USA in Fairfield was eager to share his passion with a rare teenager who seemed interested.

“I was 13. I had no idea what I was doing,” Jake admits. “Marc gave me tips on electrical work. Now I’ve got hundreds of feet of wire. He told me how to weather the cars and buildings, to make them look old. He taught me how to get the tracks aligned, the tunnels right, and make all the details correct.”

To say Jake’s 14 foot-by-11 foot layout (with a 4×5 extension) is “detailed” is like saying Martha Stewart thinks “homes should look nice.”

Jake has created all these little men, working on the railroad.

Jake’s little men, working on the railroad.

Using plaster, crumpled newspapers, paint, powder, some purchases as HobbyTown and a spectacular amount of ingenuity, Jake has crafted hills, towns, a coal mine, ruts where cars have ridden on dirt roads, smoke coming out of chimneys — an entire world that he controls with a few flicks of a switch.

“I love the feeling of watching trains disappear into the mountains, and then reappear,” he says. “When I come down here, I get lost for hours.”

He does far more than watch his trains rumble, of course. He’s always tinkering — adding a tiny figure lounging against a car here, realigning tracks to prevent derailments there. “I’m constantly looking for ways to make everything flow better,” he says.

Here comes one of Jake's trains -- right on time.

Here comes one of Jake’s trains — right on time.

It’s a work in progress, with 2 goals in mind. Jake wants to be the youngest person profiled in Model Railroader.

And he wants to inspire other teenagers to get into model railroading.

Why don’t more people his age do it?

“It takes a lot of time and patience,” he says. “And kids don’t want to be judged by doing something different. But I love this. I love the endorphin rush, the sense of accomplishment, and calling it my own.”

Jake Sussman, at the controls.

Jake Sussman, at the controls.

“Most kids today — adults too — want instant gratification,” Marc of HobbyTown says. “Building a train layout is a long-term thing.”

But the skills Jake needs — architecture, electrical engineering, woodworking, painting, problem-solving — last a lifetime.

This is not Jake’s only hobby. He’s captain of Forman’s cross country team, and does triathlons. Clearly, though, model railroading holds a special place in his heart.

And — besides a bit of help from Marc — Jake has done this all on his own.

“I’ve done nothing,” his father says. “It’s his venture — his working, his learning, his making mistakes and fixing them. We just support it.

“There are 2 things I want my children to have: passion and resilience. This” — his hands sweep across Jake’s painstakingly created, compellingly creative landscape — “shows he has both.”

All aboard!

Jake designed and built this intricate coal mine.

Jake imagined and built this intricate coal mine.

One more tiny -- and fascinating -- detail from Jake's layout. He even weathered the truck, to make it look old.

One more tiny — and fascinating — detail from Jake’s layout. He even weathered the truck, to make it look old.