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Staples Player Rewind: “Mamma Mia!”

On Friday, the curtain rises on Staples Players’ fall production: “Bye Bye Birdie.”

Seven years ago they staged another popular musical, with a pop music theme. “Mamma Mia!” was directors David Roth and Kerry Long’s high-energy, very fun take on the Broadway show that ran for 14 years.

Click here or below to see this highlight reel, produced by former media instructor Jim Honeycutt. You will definitely be “having the time of your life!”

Here’s what cast members are up to today.

Camille Foisie (Donna Sheridan) graduated from New York University Tisch School of the Arts, with a BFA in drama. She is working professionally as an actor.

Sammy Guthartz (Bill Austin) is an actor and producer. He graduated with a bachelor of fine arts in theatre performance from the University of Michigan. He has roles and production credits in “The Diary of Aaron Stanford” and “The Midnight World.”

Colin Konstanty (Sky) is an actor and musician. He appeared in the Off-Broadway and Disney+ productions of “Trevor: The Musical.” An alumnus of the NYU Tisch School of the Arts, he has also appeared in projects like “Caravan,” and released original music.

Jamie Mann (Sky) graduated from the University of Michigan’s musical theater program in 2025. He made his Broadway debut in “Stranger Things: The First Shadow.” He appeared previously on the Netflix show “Country Comfort,” and toured nationally as the lead in “Billy Elliot.”

Benny Zack (Pepper, Featured Male Dancer) is an actor and filmmaker who graduated from Pace University’s Sands College of Performing Arts. He had roles in “Murder in Maplewood,” “Building Eden” and “The Awakening of Edwin Lorde.”

Annabel Kavetas (Lisa) is an entertainment, production and beauty professional who has worked in digital media, audience coordination and television production. She has been involved with “RuPaul’s Drag Race.”

Bridget Looby (Jess, Björn Ensemble) graduated from Colgate with a degree in political science and government. She is an assistant account executive in New York..

Macey Lavoie (Jess, Björn Ensemble) is a firefighter in Montana. She graduated from James Madison University.

Kelley Schutte (Ali) is an interior designer, artist and performer. She operates an independent design and landscape painting practice in the Westport area.

Tomaso Scotti (Eddie Featured Male Dancer, Björn Ensemble) is an actor. He performed in “Another Day of Sun.”

Owen Keaveney (Corey) graduated with a degree in bioengineering. He is a research technician at Mass General Hospital Brigham in Boston.

Ryan Porio (Featured Male Dancer, Björn Ensemble) is an actor, filmmaker and musician. He graduated from the Emerson College School of Film, where he collaborated on short films and experimental media.

Sophia Betit (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is an actor and vocalist. She has also worked as a crew co-manager for theater sets.

Chloe Manna (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is a stage and screen actress. Her credits include “Peace, Love and Cupcakes: The Musical” at the New York Musical Festival.

Melody Stanger (Frida Ensemble, Björn Ensemble) is an actress and model based in New York.

Feven Alemu-Renzulli (Björn Ensemble) graduated with a bachelor of science in law and policy (pre-law) from Liberty University. She serves as a staff member for the Regent Law Moot Court at Regent University School of Law.

Lulu Dalzel (Björn Ensemble) is a filmmaker, writer and scenic designer. She graduated with a BFA in film and video production from Emerson College and specializes  in production design, screenwriting, and art direction.

Emily Desser (Björn Ensemble) is an actress, writer and NYU Tisch Drama student. She worked on “Murder in Maplewood” and “Love’s Labour’s Lost.”

Madelyn Spera (Björn Ensemble)  is a singer-songwriter, musician and stage actor based in New York City. She has performed at The Bitter End, and was a finalist in New York University’s Ultra Violet Live talent competition. Her debut release is “Dying to Know.”

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“Bye Bye Birdie” Bounds Onto Staples Stage

Staples Players enjoyed their 68th successful season last year.

They wowed audiences with “Les Misérables,” “Urinetown” and “Twelve Angry Men.”

All 3 shows were staged with Players’ trademark near-Broadway quality. All 3 provoked their sold-out houses.

And — to varying degrees — all 3 can be considered a bit dark.

This fall’s production offers not a revolution, dystopia or courtroom.

“Bye Bye Birdie” is a fun, old school musical. Between high-energy music, tons of dancing and great ’50s-style costumes, it’s a feel-good show for all ages.

“The Telephone Hour”

Players directors David Roth and Kerry Long have always loved “Bye Bye Birdie.” It was a summer production in 2014.

“There’s a reason it’s a classic,” Roth says. “The songs are great. And it’s very, very funny.”

The 1960 Tony Award-winning Broadway show was influenced by Elvis Presley being drafted into the Army 3 years earlier. The star character’s name — Conrad Birdie — is a play on the name of Conway Twitty, the country music star who was one of Presley’s biggest rivals.

The role is double cast. One of the Birdies is Jeffrey Nwafor. A senior who was in, among others, “Twelve Angry Men,” he is an A Better Chance of Westport scholar. He follows in the footsteps of previous ABC Players stars, like Jahari Dodd and Jeremie Mayes.

Jeffrey Nwafor as Conrad Birdie.

Jeffrey shares the role with sophomore Grayson Jandora. He played Jean Valjean last fall, in “Les Mis.”

Roth and Long look forward to full houses, in the newly renovated Staples auditorium. “It’s always great to have young kids introduced to theater,” Roth notes.

Ari Sklar (left) as Albert Peterson with the ensemble, in “Put on a Happy Face.” (All photos/Kerry Long)

As always, Players will raise awareness of important causes. Audience members are encouraged to bring non-perishable food and household items for Homes with Hope’s pantry.

There’s also a “pink out” opening night for breast cancer awareness, and a “kiss wall” fundraiser.

The curtain rises this Friday (November 13, 7:30 p.m.). “Bye Bye Birdie” also runs at 7:30 on November 14, 19, 20 and 21, with additional performances at 2 p.m. on November 15, 21 and 22.

Click here for tickets, the double cast list and more information.

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Unsung Heroes #452

Like many Staples students, the scholars at A Better Chance of Westport are very busy.

Seniors are applying to colleges. Freshmen are adapting to high school. Everyone is balancing academics, extracurriculars, and everything else.

Plus, the young men in ABC’s Glendarcy House live away from home, with all the adjustments and stresses that brings.

Still, they have time to give back to their adopted community.

“It’s really important, because they’ve gotten so much support from the town,” says resident director Tamika Thompson.

“They want to help. And they have fun doing it.”

The A Better Chance scholars outside Glendarcy House …

The A Better Chance scholars volunteer in many ways. In September they helped set up the Westport Rotary Club’s LobsterFest. The year before, they served food there.

They’ve sorted food and filled bags at Homes with Hope’s Gillespie Ceter.

They’re always looking for other opportunities too.

The ABC program sometimes flies under the radar. The young men who leave their home towns, live together, and are thrown into the challenging but exciting maelstrom of Staples High School do not get the credit they deserve for their achievements in the classroom, on the stage and playing fields, and elsewhere.

And they certainly don’t get it for the hours they give back to Westport.

Thank you, Anderson, Jeffrey, Mehiel, Alan, Ismael and Yashai. You are this week’s Unsung Heroes!

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Roundup: Election Day, 1st Amendment, Halloween Rager …

it’s election day! have you voted yet?

After 2 weeks of early voting, the traditional Election Day is here.

Polls are open until 8 p.m. Click here to find your polling place.

Not sure what voting district you’re in? Click here.

Ready for voters, at Greens Farms Elementary School. (Photo/John Karrel)

 

THE FIRST AMENDMENT AND YOU

Speaking of democracy: The First Amendment touches everyone’s lives, in more ways than we may realize.

It’s long been a bedrock of our democracy. But how secure is it?

On November 17 (6:30 p.m.), the Westport Library and CT Mirror — winner of the 2026 Pulitzer Prize for Local Reporting — present a panel exploring the issue.

Connecticut Superior Court Judge Daniel Klau; Emily Bazelon, staff writer at The New York Times, and Justin Silverman, executive director of the New England First Amendment Coalition will discuss challenges faced by local journalists, First Amendment issues on college campusesthe impact of AI and more.

The event is free. For more information, click here.

“westport uncorked”: Now more magical than ever

The other day, Jason Bird astonished 2 sold-out audiences at the Delamar Westport with some gobsmacking magic and mental feats. I was there, and I still can’t believe what I saw.

If you missed it — or were there, and want to see more — you’ll get a chance Thursday.

Jason will join the Sunrise Rotary Club’s 35th annual “Westport Uncorked” (November 5, 6 p.m., the Inn at Longshore).

The evening always features special wine and great food. This year, Jason will ensure it’s even more “magical.”

Proceeds are donated to charities and local organizations. For tickets and more information, click here. 

HALLOWEEN RAGER

“All available” Westport police officers responded to a teenage Halloween party — and needed help from Weston, Norwalk and Wilton too.

According to WTNH-TV, “upwards of 500” teenagers were at a Heron Lake Lane party.

A Westport woman was cited for allowing minors to possess alcohol, while the party’s organizers were cited for alcohol violations. Click here for the full WTNH story.

 

 

This is not a scene from the Westport Halloween party.

special westport art on sale for holidays

As the holidays come into view: Here is perhaps the coolest, most “Westport” gift of the year.

Westport River Gallery has commissioned a special digital work: “Westport USA.”

Several artists have collaborated on a piece that blends iconic locations of yesteryear, with some of our town’s most recognizable names: Paul Newman & Joanne Woodward, Anne Hathaway, Patty Hearst, Martha Stewart, Rodney Dangerfield, Neil Sedaka, Michael Bolton, Norman Rockwell, Liz Taylor (with her home), Don Imus, Christopher Lloyd, Phil Donahue & Marlo Thomas.

The price is just $49, unframed. Email westportrivergallery@gmail.com, or call 203-226-6934 to order.

STAPLES BOYS SOCCER SQUAD INSPIRES BRIDGEPORTERS

The Staples boys soccer team are winners — on and off the field.

On Friday — just hours before their FCIAC semifinal match against Greenwich — the Wreckers traveled to Bridgeport.

They spent quality time with boys and girls in the GZS (Generation Z Soccer) Academy. They high schoolers helped with training, shared a meal, and donated soccer gear — and had just as much fun as the youngsters.

Lucas Alarcon has volunteered with GZS for several years. He and his family helped organize the event.

Perhaps it inspired him. The next day he scored a rare “Olimpico” — a corner kick that goes directly into the goal — that was the game-winner. Tomorrow (Wednesday, 6 p.m., Fairfield Ludlowe High), he and his teammates play for the FCIAC (league) championship.

Staples soccer players, with GZS youngsters. 

POLICE PROMOTE 2

A pair of Westport Police Department officers will be promoted tomorrow (Wednesday, 12 noon). The public is invited to the ceremony, in the classroom at Jesup Road headquarters.

David Scinto will become a sergeant. He joined the WPD in 2013. He has served in leadership roles with the Southwest Regional Emergency Response Team, With Westport’s K-9 unit, he earned the Daniel Wasson Memorial Award for his apprehension of a robbery suspect. He also received a Meritorious Service Award from the Police Commissioners Association of Connecticut for rescuing a woman from the icy Saugatuck River.

In 2025, Sergeant Scinto established the WPD’s Street Crimes Unit, contributing to significant reductions in motor vehicle thefts.

Samuel Sabin will also be promoted to sergeant. He first joined the Westport Police Department in 2001. After moving to the private sector, he rejoined it in 2012. Scinto has been honored for apprehending a vehicle burglar while off-duty. He has also been recognized for his technical proficiency in the use of Stop Stick tire deflation devices, including one that resulted in 2 arrests after the robbery of an armored car driver

In 2018 he was recognized with a Meritorious Service Award by the Police Commissioners Association of Connecticut for his rescue of an individual from a fully involved structure fire.

Sgts. David Scinto (left) and Samuel Sabin.

COLEYTOWN COMPANY’S “PURE IMAGINATION”

Katie Bloom’s first show as director of Coleytown Company is a “Pure Imagination.”

The 14 numbers in the musical revue include selections from “Willy Wonka,” “Frozen,” “Shrek” and more.

Show dates are this Thursday and Friday (November 5, 6 p.m. and 6 (7 p.m.). Click here for tickets.

Coleytown Company gets ready for the curtain to rise.

GRAMMY WINNER TOOTS HIS HORN AT VFW

A Grammy Award-winning trombonist is coming to VFW Post 399.

Steve Davis brings his hard bop to Jazz at the Post this Thursday (November 5, shows at 7 and 8:45 p.m.; dinner from 6:15).

He’s joined by pianist Maki Nientao, bassist Matt Dwonszyk, drummer Jason Tiemann and saxophonist Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall, in a brassy tribute to J.J. Johnson, Melba Liston, Slide Hampton,and Curtis Fuller. Davis will also perform his own compositions.

Click here for tickets, and more information.

“WESTPORT … NATURALLY” & sONG OF THE DAY

It doesn’t get more autumnal than this.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” featured photo shows the planter in front of Colonial Druggists in Westport.

Similar scenes can be found all over town.

(Photo/Lauri Weiser)

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And finally … in honor of Jason Bird’s upcoming appearance in Westport (item above):

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Jake Motyl: Sorority Rush King

The last time “06880” featured Jake Motyl, the Staples High School Class of 2021 member was teaching seniors — those at the Senior Center, that is — how to use electronic devices, join a Zoom chat, and otherwise cope with the digital world.

He organized a club: SMORES (Social Media Outreach Educators).

Jake Motyl

Now — with a degree from the University of Southern California Marshall School of Business — he’s working with a much younger group.

They’re even younger than he is: college sorority women. But once again, technology ties them together.

As Jake realized that his first job after graduation — consulting — was not for him, his longtime Westport friend Josh Suggs encouraged him to embrace his entrepreneurial spirit.

(Josh dropped out of Syracuse University to start Street Talk, an advertising agency that turns street interviews into viral social media and TV ads for consumer brands.)

Josh connected Jake to a jewelry brand that needed content creators. They’d pay $1,000, if he could find 10.

Jake messaged his friends, and posted on TikTok. Nothing.

Then his brother’s girlfriend texted her sorority group chat, mentioning free jewelry. Jake’s phone blew up.

He delivered dozens of content creators. He made $4,000.

Jake Motyl, at work.

Jake connected with 2 other brands. But managing so many young women was time consuming.

Then he discovered RushTok.

The viral media phenomenon documents sorority recruitment. It’s huge at Southern schools like the University of Alabama.

Potential members post TikToks detailing their outfits. Chapters also put on synchronized dance routines — the more elaborate, the better.

It’s transformed Rush Week into a massive marketing effort. Big brands have jumped in; some sorority members (and hopefuls) have become major social influencers.

Jake realized he could outfit everyone for a dance video, with clothes and accessories. There was much more power in those numbers.

Jake Motyl, organizing a campus dance shoot. (Photo/Madie Huynh for the Wall Street Journal)

His post about his project went viral. BodyArmor called about their sports drinks. Business boomed.

He was still working at his consulting job. On his lunch hour Jake would bike to the gym, and take sales calls.

He realized he had to take a leap, and dive in full time.

“My parents thought I was crazy,” Jake says. “But I knew if I stayed for a year, I wouldn’t leave. I knew I could make this work.”

A year ago, he quit. He started Campus Launch, and hired 2 interns to do cold outreach.

One contacted Nike. The behemoth company signed on. So did Benefit Cosmetics.

In June, Jake hired his first employee: a former sorority chapter president.

August — when many sororities participate in RuskTok — was crazy. Nike’s campaign went viral. Fox Entertainment called.

Work is hard, but Jake Motyl is managing. 

Jake is convinced he made the right move. As he conquers the sorority space, he has a new goal. “I want to be the largest campus marketing agency in the world,” he says.

“I threw myself in the pool,” he notes. “I took business and entrepreneurship courses in college. But I had to jump in and learn.”

In fact, he says, “I learned more in 1 month of work than 4 years of college.” That includes outreach, hiring, building a business.

And everything there is to know about sorority rush.

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Roundup: A Night To Set Clocks Back, A Day In The Life Of Westport …

A reminder: Tonight is the night you turn back your clocks — and get back that hour you lost in March. Enjoy!

“DAY IN THE LIFE OF WESTPORT” debuts at y

On Sunday, September 6, 241 photographers submitted 510 photos for the “Day in the Life of Westport” project.

They showed — vividly, colorfully, artistically, prosaically — the enormous variety of things that happened, large and small, that typical day.

Donuts at Coffee An’. A rainbow over Old Mill Beach. A Staples soccer team car wash. Volunteers at Homes with Hope. Kids jumping off a bridge (next to a “No Jumping” sign).

Yesterday, 80 of those images were unveiled at the Westport Weston Family YMCA. They hang handsomely on a wall, just inside the entrance.

A crowd of photographers, residents, Y officials, volunteers from the Artists’ Collective of Westport and League of Women Voters (the project’s sponsors), and 1st Selectman Kevin Christie admired the photos, and the 430 others that played on a screen nearby.

Miggs Burroughs — the Collective’s co-founder — hung the exhibit. The Collective and LWV paid for the printing and framing.

The exhibit is open to the public. Visitors must check in at the front desk.

Of course, this is not the end. Future possibilities include a book and mosaic.

From left: Christina Scherwin, Westport Y COO; committee members Joan Gillman, James Delorey, Miggs Burroughs; 1st Selectman Kevin Christie; committee member Velma Heller. Missing: member Andrea Moore. (Photo/Dan Woog)

CRIBARI BRIDGE HOLIDAY LIGHTS: SPONSORS SOUGHT

Today is Halloween. So of course our thoughts turn to … the Cribari Bridge holiday lights.

Three years ago, Westport PAL took over the beloved tradition. They ensure the lights are strung and maintained.

They do it thanks to sponsors. During this drive, additional proceeds support the PAL Scholarship Fund.

There are 4 levels:

  • Presenting Sponsor — $2,500+
  • Community Sponsor — $1,000
  • Holiday Sponsor — $500
  • Friends of the Bridge — Contributions of any amount are welcome.

Businesses contributing $500 or more have their name or logo displayed on a sign next to the bridge, throughout the holidays.

Contributions are tax-deductible to the extent permitted by law. To sponsor, or learn more, email emmarenglehart@gmail.com.

Cribari Bridge holiday lights. (Photo/Patti Brill)

HALLOWEEN WINDOW PAINTING WINNERS NAMED

Last weekend, over 40 children painted more than 30 windows throughout town.

It was all legit: the annual Halloween Window Painting Contest, sponsored by the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce.

And the winners — who each earned a $25 gift card from Sweet Lyfe, and a certificate — are:

Middle School

Best Halloween Themed: Aria Brown, 7th grade Coleytown (helpers Tina Xhao, 7th grade and Julianna Brown, 3rd grade): Greens Farms Spirit Shop

Most Creative: Frazer Benton, 7th grade Coleytown: Cycle Dynamics

Scariest: Lila Boyd, 7th grade, Bedford: Cycle Dynamics

Elementary School

Best Halloween Themed: Teagan Belton, 2nd grade Coleytown (helper: Quinn, age 4): BFT

Most Creative: Margaux Chang, 3rd grade Kings Highway (Helpers: Madeline Chang, 3rd grade and Emelia Vitelli, 2nd grade): Riverside Barber

Scariest: Madeline Frommer, 2nd grade, Saugatuck: BFT,

Winners’ montage.

ROB SIMMELKJAER’S $100 MILLION HAUL

The 50th New York City Marathon runs tomorrow.

That’s a big deal for the organizers: the NY Road Runners.

Their CEO, Westport resident Rob Simmelkjaer, will be in the spotlight (until the winners cross the finish line).

On Friday, he was center stage too, at the pre-race gala next to Tavern on the Green. He had the honor of announcing the organization has raised $100,000,000 — that’s $100 million — for charity this year.

He was joined in the photo below by (left) fellow Westporters Jonathan Alloy and marathoner/running coach Jody Bell.

RTM TRANSIT COMMITTEE TO MEET ON BRIDGE

The Representative Town Committee (RTM) Transit Committee meets Monday (November 2, 6 p.m., Zoom).

They’ll continue their discussion of the establishment of a working group or subcommittee to review the proposed Cribari Bridge project; identify key areas of concern, including traffic, public safety, and community impacts, and discuss the RTM’s potential role, organizational structure and next steps.

A GREAT BET: ROWAN CENTER FUNDRAISER

Many Westporters volunteer for, and serve, the Rowan Center. The nonprofit protects children, helps prevent sexual abuse and supports survivors throughout Fairfield County.

On December 3 (6:30 p.m., The Inn at Longshore), the Center’s “Casino and Cocktails for a Cause” will raise both funds and awareness.

The evening includes casino tables, magic, cocktails, dinner and more. CBS weatherman (and Westport resident) Lonnie Quinn is MC. Click here for tickets, and more information. 

GRAND OPENING TOMORROW: DIVINE BEAUTY SPA

Divine Beauty Spa celebrates its grand opening tomorrow, from 3 to 6 p.m.

Located on the second floor at 46 Post Road East, near Tiffany, they’ll offer sales, flash tattoos, tea and pastry. (Hat tip: Sal Liccione)

TEARDOWN PERMITS SOUGHT FOR 5 HOMES

The Historic District Commission meets November 10 (7 p.m., Zoom).

The agenda includes discussion of demolition permits for

  • 10 Woodcock Lane
  • 17 St. John’s Place
  • 4 Grist Mill Lane
  • 183 Wilton Road
  • 5 Inwood Lane.

To see all meeting materials, click here. 

183 Wilton Road. The 3-bedroom, 3-bathroom house was built in 1946.

STAPLES HONORS 7 STUDENTS OF THE MONTH

Staples High School’s October Students of the Month are seniors Jace Darby and Shea Root, juniors Grant Theisinger and Elle Worobec, and sophomores Sid Kumar, Chase Landgraf and Anna Setten.

The program recognizes students who “help make Staples a welcoming place for their peers and teachers. They are the ‘glue’ of the Staples community: the type of creative, thoughtful, conscientious students who enable the school to grow and thrive.”

Honorees are nominated by their teachers as students who always work
hard, are friendly to the staff and fellow students, and make positive contributions in class and the Staples community.

From left: Grant Theisinger, Sid Kumar, Jace Darby, Anna Setten, Shea Root, Elle Worobec, Sofia Mutescu.

FOLLOW-UP: REAL ESTATE AND THE ARTS

Yesterday’s “06880” story on the November 17 (8 a.m., SoNo Collection, Norwalk) panel on “Second Acts: Real Estate and the Arts in Fairfield County noted that it was co-sponsored by the Westport and Norwalk Chambers of Commerce.

The link for tickets that was provided to us was to the Norwalk Chamber. But both organizations are registering participants — and each gets proceeds for its registrants.

To register through the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce, click here.

SAUGATUCK CHURCH CONCERTS BEGIN

The Saugatuck Church’s concert season kicks off Friday (November 6, 7 p.m.).

Singer/songwriter Spencer LaJoye offers music and stories. A classically trained violinist, their music blends indie folk, Americana, and deeply personal storytelling. Admission is free.

Spencer LaJoye

obituary: david burgess

David Burgess — a well-respected Westport handyman and caretaker — died September 15, after a 2-year struggle with health problems. He was 72.

David’s family moved to Westport when he was 12. He traveled widely, but always returned here.

David was born in Dobbs Ferry, NY, on March 21, 1954, to Julian Ayres Burgess and Virginia McIntyre Burgess. In 1966, the family moved to Westport; and although as a young man David would travel widely, it was always Westport he returned to, eventually making it his permanent home.

An avid fiction reader, he especially enjoyed science fiction and mysteries. When in his 60s he converted a delivery van into a motor home, he installed a small library.

David’s first workshop was in the basement of the family house on Burritts Landing North, where he learned the basics of repairing and tuning outboard motors. As he grew older he graduated to motorcycles and cars.

David traveled widely, and enjoyed being on the water. In 2008 he inherited the last boat his father ever made.

David’s greatest pleasure was working with his hands. As a young man he did tree work and plowed snow. Later he settled into being a caretaker and handyman for homeowners in Westport and surrounding towns, as well as VFW Post 399.

He had a large clientele, many of whom were elderly. He served as an unofficial health care aide, helping persons with mobility issues get around the house.

In 2024 he fell from a high ladder. This past April he developed trouble walking. Tests found a broken sacrum and severe spinal stenosis. Spinal surgery seemed to help, but while in rehab two more vertebrae fractured.

David is survived by his mother Virginia, brother Randy, aunt and uncle Marie and John McIntyre, step-uncle Ernie Cotrill, and cousins Jennifer Cole, David McIntyre, Anne-Marie McIntyre, Richard Waggoner, Mary Waggoner Moritz, Julie Waggoner, and William Waggoner.

A memorial service will be held on a date and place to be announced later.

David Burgess

“westport … naturally” & song of the day

John Kantor contributes today’s “Westport … Naturally” image.

He writes: “Maybe this is something only tide geeks like me would appreciate. But the king tides this time of year are always impressive. Big highs and big lows.

“This is New Creek, between Sherwood Island and Burying Hill.”

(Photo/John Kantor)

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And finally … today’s song — based on the photo above — is of course:

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Roundup: Christopher Lloyd, Cribari Bridge, Debbie Allen …

CHRISTOPHER LLOYD, STAPLES & THE WALL STREET JOURNAL

Nearly a dozen readers alerted me this week to a Wall Street Journal interview with Christopher Lloyd.

After describing his upbringing on the 400-acre Waveny estate in New Canaan — now a beautiful park and recreation area for the town — the Emmy-winning actor (“Back to the Future,” “Taxi,” “Nobody”) mentioned briefly what happened after he transferred to Staples High midway through his junior year. (He’d been bullied at his boarding school.)

“The drama teacher cast me in ‘Charley’s Aunt,'” he said. “I soon got a feel for acting.”

Either the 88-year-old star is downplaying what happened, he misremembered it, or the editors cut out the rest.

Christopher Lloyd was not simply “cast” in the show.

He helped create Staples Players.

As I wrote in “120 Years of A+ Education” — my history of Staples High School — Craig Matheson was an English (not drama) teacher, in the last year at the Riverside Avenue building (now Saugatuck Elementary School).

Principal Stan Lorenzen and some students wanted something more than the “senior class plays” that had been staged for years.

“I found Christopher Lloyd,” Matheson told me when I interviewed him in 2004.

“He was a marginal student, but he was interested in theater. He came to my small apartment on Turkey Hill Road, and we had a long conversation about theater.

“He helped me get started with our first production later that year. It was at Long Lots, on the stage in the gym. (The old Staples did not have a stage.)

The next year, the school moved to North Avenue. There was a real auditorium (though built primarily for music, not theater).

Matheson became Staples Players’ first director. The rest is history.

Though it would not be the same without him.

Or Christopher Lloyd.

(Click here for the full Wall Street Journal story.)

Christopher Lloyd’s write-up, in the Staples yearbook.

CHRISTIE ANSWERS CRIBARI BRIDGE OWNERSHIP QUESTION

An interesting twist in the long-running debate over the fate of the Cribari Bridge has been: Who actually owns it?

It’s on a state road (Route 136), and the Connecticut Department of Transportation has led maintenance and rehabilitation efforts for decades.

But questions have arisen as to whether the town ever gave, sold, or otherwise conveyed it to the state.

In answer to an email from Bridge Street resident and longtime Cribari Bridge observer/activist Werner Liepolt, 1st Selectman Kevin Christie responded last night:

We have looked into the ownership question and, based on what we have reviewed to date, have not found documentation establishing that the Town owns the Cribari Bridge.

I also asked Town Attorney Ira Bloom and his staff to review the available information and applicable statutes. Ira’s initial assessment is that the statutory framework governing state highways and bridges, together with the actions of the Town and State over at least the past sixty years, strongly indicate State ownership.

Cribari Bridge. State workers open it to allow maritime traffic to pass underneath. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

DEBBIE ALLEN: BOOKED FOR A GREAT EVENING

Emmy Award-winning director, choreographer, producer, actress, educator and United States Cultural Ambassador of Dance Debbie Allen has earned 3 Emmys, a Golden Globe, 5 NAACP Image Awards, a Drama Desk honor, the first-ever Astaire Award for Best Dancer, 4 honorary doctorates, and a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

She has choreographed the Academy Awards 10 times, directed and produced episodes of “Grey’s Anatomy,” “Scandal” and “A Different World,” and was the creative force behind Steven Spielberg’s “Amistad.”

Last night she added another honor. She headlined the Westport Library’s annual “Booked for the Evening” gala.

Allen captivated the large crowd, in a conversation with another powerful, talented and creative woman: Shonda Rhimes.

Debbie Allen, at the Westport Library. (Photo/DinkinESH Fotografix)

SPINNAKER OFFERS SAUGATUCK UPDATE

Spinnaker Real Estate Partners — developers of the Saugatuck property bordered by Riverside Avenue, Railroad Place and Charles Street — say:

“We are pleased to have formally submitted our zoning applications for the redevelopment of 606 Riverside. The applications and the plans within them reflect the generous feedback we’ve received from stakeholders, the Architectural Review Board, and the Planning & Zoning Commission through several pre-application meetings, as well as our ongoing dialogue with the community over the past several months.

“We believe the vision for this important property has evolved favorably as a result of that input. The plans are now presented in a more complete and detailed form, which allows the Planning & Zoning Commission and the subject-matter experts across the town’s commissions and departments to fully analyze the technical aspects of the proposal.

“We look forward to continuing the conversation with the Commission and the community throughout the land-use process and beyond. Our goal remains to integrate this significantly underutilized property into the neighborhood in a way that respects its context and reflects Westport’s high standards.”

Spinnaker’s plan — the view from Franklin Street.

senior center invites VETS TO NOVEMBER 11 LUNCH

Plenty of veterans are regulars at the Westport Center for Senior Activities.

Many others have never been. All veterans — of all ages and all branches — are invited to a Veterans Day lunch there.

It’s Tuesday, November 10 (12 noon) menu includes vegetable bisque, beef stew, roasted potatoes, roasted asparagus and (of course) apple pie.

Speaker Jay Dirnberger is a decorated Vietnam War vet. He participated in the Tet offensive, the siege of Khe Sanh and the invasion of the A Shau Valley. He was awarded the Silver Star, Distinguished Flying Cross, Bronze Star, Air Medal with 22 Oak Leaf Clusters, and the Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry with Silver Star.

For non-military guests, there is a suggested donation of $6 to $8. All attendees should call 203-341-5097 to register.

Jay Dirnberger

TEDX COMING TO TOWN

Eight speakers take the Town Hall auditorium stage on November 8 (3 p.m.), for a special Westport TEDx event.

Speakers include:

● Kyle Martino: “The Youth Sports Monster: The Alarming Trend of the Commercialization of Youth Sports.”
● Dr. Mahsa Khodabakhsh: “The Biology of Compassion: The Missing Variable in Modern Medicine.”
● Gilda Bonanno: “The First 30 Seconds: Creating Connection with Someone New.”
● Dr. Amy Arnsten: “How Stress Shuts Down the Rational Brain.”
● Nisheeth Vishnoi: “What Happens to Us When We Let AI Do the Thinking?”
● Adam Moore: “Why We Do What We Do (And How to Stop Doing It)”
● Mark M. Melendez: “Beyond the Mirror: The Rejuvenation Paradox”

Tickets are $95, and include a post-event reception. Click here to purchase.

SAUGATUCK CHURCH INSTALLS DR. SAVIDES

Last Sunday was special at Saugatuck Congregational Church.

The 194-year-old congregation installed Rev. Dr. Steven Savides as its 23rd senior minister.

Though he served as pastor for the past year, the United Church of Christ installation tradition is a sacred and joyful occasion. He and the congregation promised mutual support, shared ministry, and commitment to the future of the
church.

Words of welcome were given by 1st Selectman Kevin Christie, and Rev. Dr. Pete
Powell on behalf of the Westport/Weston Clergy Association.

Rev. Dr. Steven Savides

RAVEIS OFFERS GOLD 

William Raveis’  “Gold for Good” Event offers attendees to turn unwanted gold and silver jewelry, coins and collectables into cash.

And, at the same time, help fund cancer research.

Attendees can sell their items — from broken chains and earrings to vintage pieces gathering dust. Monetary donations are welcome too. All proceeds benefit the Damon Runyon Cancer Research Foundation and Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.

It’s November 20 and 21 (10 a.m. to 4 p.m., William Raveis, 47 Riverside Avenue).

SHAKE SHACK AND SAUGATUCK EL

Shake Shack is clear across town from Saugatuck Elementary School.

But on Tuesday, they’re partnering on a fundraiser.

All day — from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. — they’ll donate 25% of your total meal to the SES PTA.

Just mention “Donation Day” at checkout, or type “Donate” on the ShackApp or kiosk.

The PTA urges all Westport families to help. They suggest: “If you’re out of ideas how to occupy the kids on a no-school day, or while running from one sports clinic to another, or heading home after voting, stop in at Shake Shack!”

today’s halloween house

We’re getting near the end of these holiday photos.

This one is not spooky, though. There are no ghosts or goblins, 30-foot skeletons, webs or witches.

Just a nice, handsome home on Hillspoint Road, with a few scarecrows and pumpkins in front.

The family that lives here is probably just as friendly too as the folks in front.

(Photo/Ed Simek)

LANDMARK PRESCHOOL CELEBRATES 30 YEARS

Congratulations to Landmark Preschool!

The early childhood education center is celebrating 30 years in Westport.

For reflections on those 3 decades from director Siobhan Powers, click here.

CLUB 203: MARITIME BOUND

CLUB203 is heading to the Maritime Aquarium.

Westport’s social group for adults with disabilities will enjoy 2 hours of friendship, exploration and Thanksgiving cheer on November 17 (6 to 8 p.m.).

Aquarium staff will lead interactive experiences, including access to exhibits and touch tanks

CLUB203’s creative partner, MoCA\CT, will offer a special Thanksgiving-themed art project. The evening is funded by the Westport Woman’s Club and Westport Rotary Club. For more information, click here. 

POLICE REPORTS

Westport Police made 2 custodial arrests between October 21 and 27.

An 81-year-old Westport woman was charge with failure to appear. She was released on a $1,000 bond.

A 30-year-old Queens man was charged with failure to appear. He was released on a promise to appear.

Westport Police also issued these citations:

  • Failure to comply with state traffic commission regulations: 3 citations
  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 2
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 2
  • Failure to renew registration: 2
  • School zone violation: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle using handheld electronic device: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle under suspension: 1
  • Failure to drive in the proper lane: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle without minimum insurance: 1
  • Cruelty to animals: 1
  • Possession of a vicious/barking dog: 1
  • Permitting a dog to roam: 1

This is presumably not the vicious dog whose owner was cited.

“westport … naturally” & song of the day

Fall foliage gets plenty of press — deservedly so.

But there’s more to autumn than meets the (leafy) eyes.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” featured photo offers this view of Rayfield Road, from Jerry Kuyper’s deck.

(Photo/Jerry Kuyper)

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And finally … this date in 1929 became known as “Black Tuesday.” The New York Stock Exchange crashed, ending the Great Bull Market of the 1920s. The Great Depression soon followed.

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Roundup: Indoor Farmers’ Market, Tots’ Tantrums, Bairaktaris’ New Gig …

INDOOR FARMERS’ MARKET STARTS NOVEMBER 5

Fall is settling in (Daylight Saving Time ends Sunday!).

So on November 5, the Westport Farmers’ Market heads indoors. They’ll settle into their wonderful winter home: the 3 warm greenhouses at Gilbertie’s Herbs & Garden Center.

Running every Thursday, and the first Saturday of every month through March 11 (10 a.m. to 2 p.m.), the winter market is not a scaled-back version of the summer season. It’s a full experience, with great vendors.

“Fresh, local food doesn’t take a winter break — and neither do we,” says WFM executive director Lori Cochran-Dougall.

“The winter market is one of my favorite things. There is something special about walking into those warm greenhouses on a cold morning, and watching the community gather around good food when the rest of the world has gone quiet.”

tantrums! limits! Tough moments at Home!

Sure, it’s tough to leave your 18-month-old to 5-year-old child.

But tomorrow (Thursday, October 29, 7:30 p.m.), find a sitter (or spouse or sibling).

Child development specialist (and mom of 3 boys) Dr. Chloe Massey offers a workshop called “A Compassionate Approach to Tantrums, Limits, and the Toughest Moments at Home.”

The event is at Temple Israel, but all community members are invited. Click here to register, and for more information. 

BAIRAKTARIS NAMED REDDING PARK & REC HEAD

The new head of Redding’s Park & Recreation Department has roots in that town.

And Westport.

Jaime Bairaktaris — president of Westport Volunteer Emergency Medical Services, former Representative Town Meeting member, longtime Earthplace educator and publisher of The Westport Local Press — takes over November 3.

The 2016 Staples High School graduate attended Redding Elementary School (and played youth sports there). He began volunteering with WVEMS as a Staples freshman. (Hat tip: John Karrel)

Jaime Bairaktaris

HOLIDAY DECOR sALE HELPS STAPLES MUSICIANS

It’s not too early to start thinking about holiday wreaths, garlands, planters and more.

And it’s never too early to help the Staples Music Department.

With plenty of projects and trips ahead, the Staples Music Parents Association has launched a fundraiser to help the choral, orchestra and band programs.

Click here for all offerings. Order by this coming Monday (November 2, 10 a.m.). Pick-up is December 2 at Staples.

STAPLES DANCE ELECTION DAY CLINIC SET

You may or may not want to dance on Tuesday, when the election returns come in.

But earlier that day, your K through 5th grade student(s) can learn some jazz and hip hop moves.

The first-ever Staples dance team’s Election Day clinic takes place at the Westport Academy of Dance.

The first session is already filled. The second session (1 to 3 p.m.) has a few opening.

Click here — but hurry. Registration closes Friday.

Staples High School dance team. (Photo/Jerri Graham)

DOG PADDLE

The water is still (relatively) warm. So why not head out, with your best friend?

I’m sure she was glad to join you!

(Photo/Michael Szeto)

TODAY’S HALLOWEEN HOMES

If you’re thinking of trick or treating in the Compo Beach neighborhood — and who isn’t? — here are a couple of extra-spooky decorations nearby:

(Photo/Michael Szeto)

hey, gym rats: put your phones down!

An “06880” reader asks for anonymity for this piece. But — as an avid Westport Weston Family YMCA Fitness (aka “Wellness”) Center user — I totally agree. He writes:

“After 8 months on the waiting list, I was finally admitted to the Westport Y. After nearly a decade of fitness classes at boutique studios, I looked forward to having access to a full gym.

“What surprised me was how much time people spend on their phones while they’re there.

“I know this isn’t unique to the Y. Walk into almost any large gym these days and you’ll see the same thing. I get it — phones are part of our lives. People use them for music, workout apps, timers and the occasional text.

“But there’s a difference between checking your phone and settling into a piece of equipment for 5 minutes of doom-scrolling while someone is waiting.

“I’m not talking about a reasonable rest between sets. Take your time. Catch your breath. Recover. That’s part of working out.

“But when I’m standing there waiting for a machine and someone is completely absorbed in their phone, I have to ask ‘Are you done?’ more often than I’d like.

“My workout time is limited. After a long, stressful day at the office, getting to the gym is one of the ways I blow off steam. I’d rather spend that time exercising than waiting for someone’s TikTok session to end.

“The Y has signs asking members to be mindful of cellphone use around the equipment. I don’t expect staff to become the phone police, but some gentle enforcement — or simply reminding people that the equipment is shared — would help.

“I’m not asking anyone to surrender their phone at the door. Just remember that you share the gym with other people who are trying to get their workout in, too.

“Rest between sets. Check your phone if you need to. Just don’t let 5 minutes of scrolling become another set.”

Not the Y. But it could be.

VFW BENEFITS LUNCHEON TOMORROW

The next Veterans Benefits Luncheon is tomorrow (Thursday, October 29, 11 a.m. to 1 p.m.), VFW Post 399).

It’s open to all veterans as part of an ongoing effort to check in on all veterans’ welfare, and connect them with the benefits and support they earned.

Representatives will answer questions, and provide information on services and assistance available to veterans.

RSVPs are encouraged (but not required). Email vfw399ct@gmail.com, and include the number of attendees, or call (203) 227-6796.

PS: If you’re not a veteran, but know one: Please pass the word!

“westport … naturally” & song of the day

We’ve had so many great hunter moon-rise photos, we’ll run one more.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo comes courtesy of Cindy Zuckerbrod.

(Photo/Cindy Zuckerbrod)

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And finally … following up on the workshop about the “Compassionate Approach to Tantrums” workshop (item above):

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Staples Players Rewind: “Legally Blonde”

Audiences know that every Staples Players production will be special.

Still, there are always surprises: A set that rotates. An actor who flies.

Or a principal who steals a scene.

In 2008, John Dodig did it in “How To Success In Business Without Really Trying.”

Eleven years later, it was James D’Amico’s turn. Though he did not sing or dance as Dodig — who had a theater background — did, he did a fine job as Harvard’s head of admissions in “Legally Blonde.”

Today — thanks to the editing skills of former media teacher Jim Honeycutt — it’s time to relive directors David Roth and Kerry Long’s production. Click here or below to see.

And here’s what cast members are up to, in the years since they shared the stage with their principal.

Georgia Wright (Elle Woods) is a non-binary, New York-based emerging playwright, actor and director. They have written and staged several independent and festival plays.

Nick Rossi (Emmett Forrest) is a professional singer, actor and musician. He has appeared regionally in “Master Harold … and the Boys,” “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” “Pericles,” “La Cage Aux Folles” and “Jersey Boys.”

Daisy Brackett (Paulette Buonofuonte) earned a master’s degree in advanced classical acting training from the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Art. Her credits include short films, independent projects, showcases and reels.

Sam Mandelbaum (Warner Huntington III) is an actor and writer working in independent films and creative projects, including “Dinner Date,” “The Awakening of Edwin Lorde” and “Pinky.”

Antonio Antonelli (Professor Callahan) is an actor and crew member. He voiced the character Shane in “Santaman,” an appeared as Wes in “Maybe Today, Maybe Tomorrow.”

Mia Kobylinski (Brooke Wyndham) is a designer at Snake River Interiors. Her love of travel and photography help her gather design inspiration from all over the world.

Ben Roland (Kyle B. O’Boyle, the UPS man, Grand Master Chad) is an actor (“Man Camp”) and designer.

Kelley Schutte (Kate) is interior designer, artist and performer. She operates an independent design and landscape painting practice in the Westport area.

Sammy Guthartz (Sundeep Padamadan)  is an actor and producer. He graduated with a bachelor of fine arts in theatre performance from the University of Michigan. He has roles and production credits in “The Diary of Aaron Stanford” and “The Midnight World.”

Jamie Mann (Carlos)  graduated from the University of Michigan’s musical theater program in 2025. He made his Broadway debut in “Stranger Things: The First Shadow.” He appeared previously on the Netflix show “Country Comfort,” and toured nationally as the lead in “Billy Elliot.”

Macey Lavoie (District Attorney Joyce Riley) is a firefighter in Montana. She graduated from James Madison University.

Kristina Ludel (Cashier at Hair Affair) attended the University of Florida – Warrington College of Business. She works in the New York area as a senior strategist in business solutions.

Annabel Kavetas Kiki (Colorist at Hair Affair, Delta Nu Girl) is an entertainment, production and beauty professional who has worked in digital media, audience coordination and television production. She has been involved with “RuPaul’s Drag Race.”

Chloe Manna (Dana) is a stage and screen actress. Her credits include “Peace, Love and Cupcakes: The Musical” at the New York Musical Festival.

Faven Alemu-Renzulli (Hansen-Harkness, Perfume Girl) attended Liberty University, where she earned a degree in law and policy. She is studying for a JD degree at Regent University School of Law.

Camille Foisie (Elle Woods) graduated from New York University Tisch School of the Arts, with a BFA in drama. She is working professionally as an actor.

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Roundup: Magic & Delamar, Lamont & Fazio, Garden Club & Teacher Honors …

jason bird’s “Parlor of impossibilities”: impossible to miss show at delamar

I expected to be impressed, amazed, even awed, at magician/mentalist Jason Bird’s intimate “Parlor of Impossibilities” Sunday at the Delamar Westport.

I did not expect to have the most mysterious, “magical” night of my life.

His card tricks were astonishing, sure. I’m still reeling from some of them.

But the evening — one of his first 2 “residences” at the hotel, in a small room decorating like a private parlor of old — was so much more.

From opening a sealed box with lotto tickets that matched exactly 6 random numbers chosen by audience members, to showing a watch that matched precisely the time of birth of another guest, Jason’s show was absolutely mind-blowing.

Not to mention his whole don’t-try-this-at-home razor swallowing trick. (The 5 blades emerged — from his unbloodied mouth — arranged neatly on a string of floss.)

“Parlor of Impossibilities” has to be seen to be believed. (Though 2 days later, I still can’t believe what I saw.)

Fortunately, you can. Jason returns to the Delamar November 22 and December 13. There are 2 shows each day, at 4 and 7 p.m.

Click here for tickets, and more information. You won’t be disappointed.

Only gobsmacked. And transported into a new dimension.

MOONRISE!

Speaking of magical: How about last night’s moonrise?

“06880” was flooded with photos. Here’s one of the best, from Howard Edelstein on Saugatuck Shores:

(Photo/Howard Edelstein)

Here’s a bonus shot, of Arabela Hayes having fun with the full moon:

(Photo/Gabriela Hayes)

GARDEN CLUB REAPS 2 reWARDS

Congratulations to the Westport Garden Club!

The 102-year-old organization won 2 big awards at last week’s 97th Federated Garden Clubs of Connecticut ceremony.

One was the Award of Excellence — Civic Development.

For nearly 50 years the Westport Garden Club, in partnership with the Grace Salmon Trust and the town of Westport, has transformed a former landfill into the vibrant Grace Salmon Park and Pollinator Pathway along the Saugatuck River.

Cub members recently restored 4 garden beds with 100 perennials and 100 native plantings, added educational features, and continue enhancing the park’s ecological, educational and recreational value.

The 3-acre park was created in the 1970s when the WGC initiated a project to reclaim a former municipal landfill and marshland. Designed by landscape architect Eloise Ray (1905–1995) and named after Westport civic leader Grace Salmon (1869–1937), the park opened in October 1977. It has been maintained by WGC members ever since.

The second award was a Certificate of Appreciation — Louise Demakis

For more than 20 years she has served as the historian for Westport Garden Club. Through extensive research she wrote a 118-page history, “From White Gloves to Wheelbarrows.”

The book chronicles the club’s 100-year evolution from 1924 to 2024, highlighting its major projects and the changing role of gardening through the decades.

The Westport Garden Club, with help from Parks & Rec, maintains 5 garden beds at Grace Salmon Park. From left: WGC Civics Chair Joellen Bradford, member Patricia Buckley, past president Ginger Donaher.

Y’S WOMEN HOST GOVERNOR HOPEFULS

This month, the Y’s Women have heard from the 2 men running to be governor.

On October 12 they hosted State Senator Ryan Fazio, the Republican who is also running as an Independent.

Yesterday, Democratic Governor Ned Lamont joined them at Green’s Farms Church.

Both made presentations, then took questions.

Fazio emphasized middle class tax relief, caps on property tax and electric rate reductions.

Lamont focused on his 8 years in office, including balanced budgets, pension debt paydown and housing growth .

Ryan Fazio and Ned Lamont (Photo/Vera De Stefano)

HALLOWEEN HOME HIGHLIGHTS

Today’s Halloween decorations are from 3 different houses. All are on Mayflower Parkway, near Compo Road South.

Trick or treat!

(All photos/Susan Garment)

modern love: crash landing a plane, rebuilding a life

Every Sunday, the New York Times’ “Modern Love” column offers a thought-provoking essay about relationships.

Old, young, happy, sad, complex, simple, straight, gay, polyamorous, lusty, loveless — each week, writers invite readers into their most intimate lives.

This week’s essay — harrowing and compelling — was by a Westporter.

Robin Bonnist wrote about the afternoon 3 years ago when her husband, flying them both to a family reunion, blacked out during the approach to Martha’s Vineyard.

Pinned on one side by his body, she somehow crash landed the plane.

He died 5 days later. She grappled with the aftermath.

Fourteen months later, her mother was dying in Florida. Could she confront her demons, and board a plane to say her final goodbye?

Robin’s column is masterfully written. It is also a lesson in resilience.

The author’s note says she is working on a memoir about her experience. It will be well worth the read.

Click here for Robin Bonnist’s New York Times “Modern Love” story.  

Robin Bonnist

MARRY ME!

Speaking of marriage: You never know what you’ll see at Compo Beach.

On Sunday, it was this proposal:

It worked!

Moments after Nathan Greenbaum saw that, there was this:

(Photos/Nathan Greenbaum)

If the wedding is at Compo Beach, we’ll cover that too.

MEGHAN SCHECK: OUTSTANDING EDUCATOR!

Congratulations to Meghan Scheck!

The Staples High School English teacher has received a University of Chicago Outstanding Educator Award.

An Outstanding Educator “shapes young minds in meaningful ways —thoughtfully approaching instruction, sharing an infectious love for learning, and caring for students both inside and outside of the classroom.”

Each year, new UChicago students nominate an educator who played a significant role in their education, and made a positive impact in their lives. Scheck was selected by a Chicago Class of 2030 member.

Meghan Scheck

LIBRARY BOOK SALE NEAR; VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

The Westport Library Big Fall Book Sale — featuring thousands of gently used books, vintage vinyl, CDs, DVDs, artwork, puzzles and more — will attract thousands, from November 6 to 9.

Every purchase — from rare collectors items and fiction to the room dedicated to children’s stories — supports the Westport Book Shop’s mission of providing meaningful employment for adults with disabilities, while also raising vital funds for the Westport Library. For more information, click here.

Library book sales are run entirely by volunteers. More hand are still needed. Helping with setup, assisting shoppers and keeping things running smoothly are 3 ways to help. Click here to sign up.

The Westport Library Book Sale needs you!

STITCH HAVEN CELEBRATES GRAND OPENING

Stitch Haven’s new location at 420 Post Road West is both different, and familiar.

The look is fresh. But the same knowledgeable, passionate staff is on hand, to help with every crocheting and knitting need.

A grand opening is set for this Friday (October 30, 11 a.m. to 3 p.m.) There’s a raffle every hour (must be present to win), and an ice cream truck from 1 to 3.

yanov taubenhouse headlines jazz at post

Pianist/composer Yaniv Taubenhouse headlines Thursday’s “Jazz at the Post” (October 29, shows at 7 and 8:15 p.m.; dinner at 7).

A classically trained artist whose style channels Chic Corea, Bill Evans and Herbie Hancock, he’ll be joined by bassist Dan Montgomery, drummer Jerad Lippi and saxophonist Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall.

Click here for tickets, and more information. 

MOCA PANEL PROBES POWER OF ARCHITECTURE

Speaking of the arts: On Saturday, MoCA\CT hosted conversation  exploring walls, division, and the power of architecture to bring people together.

The event — part of the museum’s current exhibit featuring Rich Shaefer’s monumental charcoal drawings in “Colossi” – was sponsored by the CORA Foundation.

MoCA\CT executive director Robin Jaffee Frank (left), with panelists.

“westport … naturally” & song of the day

This hunter’s moon has brought “06880” photographers out in droves.

Today’s almost-Halloween-ish “Westport … Naturally” image was captured by Michael Szeto.

(Photo/Michael Szeto)

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And finally … in honor of Jason Bird’s unfathomable magic show (story above):

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