Betty Lou Cummings: Full Obituary, Funeral Service Information

Betty Lou Cummings — a Westport resident for over 58 years, who made her mark on town in innumerable ways — died suddenly from an accident on January 3. She was 90.

Pennsylvania native Betty Lou Lundstedt recently celebrated her 69th wedding anniversary with her college sweetheart Thomas. She was a graduate of Michigan State University, with bachelor’s and master’s degrees in physical education and dance.

At MSU. she was one of the first 6 females cheerleaders. She later taught at MSU, and Vassar College.

Early in their marriage the Cummingses lived in Waco, Texas and Poughkeepsie, New York, where she became the YMCA director.

Betty Lou Cummings

Her family says, “Encouraging others to achieve higher goals through cheerful interactions was a mark of Betty Lou’s enduring presence. This was the continuing gift she brought to everything she did.”

Her many achievements include Connecticut state champion for sewing, president of the Staples High School PTA (1981), Sportsmen of Westport (1991), YMCA Faces of Achievement (1998), and the Rotary Club’s Paul Harris Award (2003).

In midlife her interests and leadership expanded into politics. She was elected as Westport’s second selectwoman, and served from 1993 to 1997.

During her years as a community leader, she supported many important projects, including founding the Apple Festival, fundraising for CLASP, and the Westport Library’s Riverwalk and River of Names projects.

She was instrumental in the town’s purchase of Cockenoe Island, preventing construction of a nuclear power plant.

She helped organize Random Acts of Kindness Days, and will be remembered as a joyful presence in her role as a judge for Westport’s annual Memorial Day parade.

Other public service included selection as a delegate to Russia and China for Bridges for Peace.

Betty Lou Cummings (left) and Joanne Nistico, advertising the Apple Festival.

She and Tom were ardent world travelers, visiting over 100 different countries. She loved seeing cultures and wild animals, and viewed the world as a miracle.

The Cummings family spent 50 memorable years skiing at Okemo, and 13 with fun-filled gatherings at Ocean City.

Her family adds, “She made sure every holiday was a full experience of love, recognition, and her delicious homemade cakes. She developed a deep skill as our historian and chronicler of activities with her newsletters and holiday cards.

“Betty Lou will be remembered as a generous, deeply caring and compassionate person of principle. She spent her life advancing the positive whenever she could with enthusiasm, hard work, her laughter and her winning smile. Along the way, Betty Lou met any challenge head-on, was resilient, constructive and always optimistic.”

Betty Lou and Tom Cummings, at their 69th wedding anniversary last month.

Betty Lou is survived by her husband; sons Mark (Lisa Livingston) of Modesto, California; Mathew (Michele Grether) of Trumbull, and Todd (Kate Francek) of Fairfield; grandchildren Mathew Jr., Ella, Caroline, Zoe and Toby; sisters Janet Hanes and Diane Martin, and brother Roy Lundstedt. She was predeceased by her son Edwin, and brothers Jack and Bob.

Visitation is set for Friday (January 10, 4 to 8 p.m., Harding Funeral Home). Her memorial service is Saturday (January 11, 10 a.m., Saugatuck Congregational Church). Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Betty Lou’s name may be made to CLASP Homes, Friends of the Westport Center for Senior Activities, or the Saugatuck Congregational Church.

Real Estate: ’24 Prices Rose; Tight Market Continues

Westport’s housing market surged during COVID.

In fact, more people moved here that year than to any other place in Connecticut. And that’s raw numbers — not percentages.

Could the strong market continue?

Yes.

Our friends at KMS Team at Compass say that for the 308 homes sold in 2024, the median sales price was $2,150,000. That’s 6.7% higher than the previous year.

But as prices rise, the number of homes on the market shrinks. Those 308 properties were the lowerst in over a decade.

In 2023, 327 homes were sold. Three years earlier — at the height of the pandemic — 639 houses changed hands.

The average sales price in 2024 wsa $2,483, 276. That’s more than $100,000 over the 2023 average of $2,380,204.

The average price per square foot edged up too: $571, from $565.

The median sales price of $2.15 million was up too: $135,000 higher than the year before.

The graph below shows details:

 

Meanwhile, despite stronger new listings than the prior December, Westport’s inventory of homes for sale remains very tight.

With less than 1 month’s sales quantity on the market in the under-$2 mllion range (8 properties), home buyers have little to choose from.

Why are so few homes on the market?

KMS Team’s Michael Mombello explains, “People are staying put, because they are locked into loans under 3%.”

In addition, many empty nester want to downsize or “rightsize.” But, Momebello says, “they are extremely picky. They do not want to give up a certain standard that they have achieved, living in a town with incredible amenities.

“They would go smaller. However, there is nothing on the market to look at. Many want to purchase and know where they are going before they list the home they raised a family in.” So the tight housing market continues.

120-122 Beachside Avenue remains the most expensive property on the Westport market. Listed at $25 million, the 5-bedroom, 6-bathroom home on 6 1/2 waterfront acres includes a tennis pavilion, manicured garden entry, and cobblestone courtyard with fountain. 

Meanwhile, the pool of potential buyers remains strong. Residents who moved to town recently now want to purchase. More city dwellers are ready to come to the suburbs. Grandparents want to move closer to their children and grandkids.

All of those factors have helped raise prices. The majority of homes listed for sale are over $3 million, bringing the average list price to $4,503,981.

The median price is only slightly less: $4,100,000. See the graph below for details.

As for 2025: While KMS Team at Compass expects new inventory to hit the market in advance of the traditional spring selling season, they believe it will remain tight in the lower price ranges.

Competition will remain fierce for Westport homes priced under $3 million. Buyers seeking homes in this range need to be prepared, and ready to act fast.

The luxury market, they say, will be “neutral from a buyer-seller standpoint. Buyers in this range typically have the wherewithal to wait for the right property, at the right price, and sellers of these properties do not ordinarily need to unload their property quickly.”

Mortgage rates are always a concern. Karen Scott says KMS Team at Compass is telling clients that today’s interest rates are “the new normal,” compared to the unprecedented low rates of 5 years ago.

“We don’t expect much fluctuation in rates,” she says. “Buyers should work with their mortgage brokers and lenders to determine what options are best for their personal situations.”

The least expensive single-family house in Westport right now is 65 Grove Point Road, off Hillspoint. The 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom, 1,722-square foot home was built in 1935. It is listed for $899,900.

Looking at new construction trends, Mombello says, “the white house is a New England classic. It’s not going anywhere. I do think shutters will make a comeback, as a way of distinguishing your front facade.”

He sees a great emphasis now on “tasteful, pulled back, not overly wrought landscaping.”

Mombello notes too a growing interest in houses with “a distinct or unique character. Not so cookie-cutter, and with hallmarks of great quality and authenticity.”

He observes “more room separation again, for a cozier feel,” with “fewer requests for full-on, sterile open floor plans.”

Great natural light is still extremely valuable, Mombello says. “Let the outside in!”

People love move-in or turnkey conditions. However, he notes, “if it has charm and is in a prime location, they will take on othe updates themselves, over time.”

Large homes are not all that realtors sell, of course. Accessory dwelling units continue to increase in popularity.

Chatter continues in town about new apartment buildings, potential condo complexes and property subdivisions.

“Builders and developers would not propose these developments if there wasn’t demand for them,” Scott says.

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Pics Of The Day #2819

Compo Beach, early afternoon in today’s snowfall … (Photo/Sunil Hirani)

… and the Library Riverwalk and Saugatuck River … (Photo/Wendy Levy)

… and Longshore entrance road (Photo/Patricia McMahon)

Roundup: WestportREADS, Popup Bagels, River Dredging …

Copies of this year’s WestportREADS selection — “In the Distance,” by Pulitzer Prize-winning author Hernan Diaz — are available for borrowing now, at the Westport Library.

Community-wide events are planned around the book over the next few eeks. The highlight is a keynote conversation with Diaz, on February 13.

“In the Distance” is a compelling story about a young Swedish immigrant who travels east from California in search of his brother.

It’s available at the Library as a physical copy, e-book and audiobook.

For more information about WestportREADS — including a calendar of discussions, films and more — click here.

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Popup Bagels — the Westport-based pickup business that spread first throughout Fairfield County, then to the Big Bagel Boroughs of Manhattan and Brooklyn — has just opened at the Boston Seaport.

That makes 10 permanent locations in 3 states. The Westport site is 971 Post Road East (behind Cycle Dynamics).

More stores will be build in the Southeast over the next few months, founder Adam Goldberg says.

Time to change their motto? “Not famous but known” may no longer cut it.

Adam Goldberg, with his Brooklyn BagelFest award.

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Dredging continues on the Saugatuck River. VFW Post 399 is working on its docks, providing greater access to boats.

Werner Liepolt captured a view of equipment making its way past the Saugatuck Rowing Club:

(Photo/Werner Liepolt)

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image is a serence Compo Beach shot — with the obligatory gull.

(Photo/Ed Simek)

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And finally … in honor of Popup Bagels’ new location (but not related at all to the water they use in boiling):

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OPINION: Lawsuits Threaten Old Mill Grocery

In the wake of the Planning & Zoning Commission’s decision allowing Old Mill Grocery & Deli to serve alcohol, and use pre-existing picnic tables and a gelato cart, 2 neighbors filed 3 lawsuits.

Soundview Empowerment Alliance (SEA) — the non-profit that owns the 222 Hillspoint Road building — has written a note to donors who funded the purchase of the building 2 years ago. Here is a slightly edited version of that letter.

Three years ago, you and nearly 600 other neighbors and friends generously donated to save Old Mill Grocery & Deli from the wrecking ball.

Since then, thousands of people have frequented OMG&D, loving their neighborhood gathering place.

Along the way, OMG&D received 3 historic designations from Westport and the state of Connecticut, acknowledging its 105-year history as the oldest continuously operating retail food establishment in Westport — and the heart and soul of the Compo Beach community.

Thanks to you and many others the OMG&D tradition lives on, generational memories continue to be shared (and new ones made), neighbors connect over great coffee and food, and new friendships are forged daily. We hear countless times every day how grateful the entire community is that the neighborhood gem called OMG&D was spared.

The good news: In January of last year, the Romanacci Group took control as the operating tenant of OMG&D. They have been embraced by the community for their great food and beverage offerings, and warm sense of hospitality.

Additionally, the Planning & Zoning Commission approved a text amendment to the zoning regulations which permits the sale of beer and wine for on-premises consumption, the use of pre-existing picnic tables, and more, for “retail food establishments” in residential neighborhoods. This includes Old Mill Grocery & Deli, and 2 others.

More than 600 residents signed a petition, wrote to the P&Z, or spoke at meetings, offering their unwavering support and approval of these regulatory changes.

The bad news: While there is so much to be happy about and grateful for, SEA and the Romanacci Group face significant challenges, in the form of 3 lawsuits filed against SEA (owners of the building), the town of Westport and Romanacci Compo Bach LLC, which operates OMG&D).

These lawsuits challenge the beloved market’s very existence.

The lawsuits were filed by an attorney on behalf of 2 neighbors who are leading and funding the efforts, along with a very small number of others from across town who have joined the suits.

The lawsuits seek to overturn the decisions of the Planning & Zoning Commission and Zoning Board of Appeals, with respect to adoption of the text amendments, and the P&Z’s approval of the liquor license application.

The Romanacci team, at Old Mill Grocery & Deli.

We need all the support we can muster. And support comes in many forms.

First, we need to raise money. At $400 an hour, our legal fees are significant and mounting. Our attorneys have advised us that these fees could exceed $100,000. Your GoFundMe donation will help pay our legal bills, and ensure that SEA has adequate resources to fulfill its charitable mission of preserving the historic building and providing job training for people with disabilities.

Second, please let your RTM representatives know how you feel about OMG&D, and its importance to the community.

Third, please support the Romanacci team with your business. Make OMG&D one of your top choices when getting something delicious to eat or drink. And don’t forget the amazing wines, sold at wine store prices.

Feel free to reach out to us with comments and questions. For more details on “How We Got Here” and “What Happens Next,” please click here, then scroll down.

(NOTE: “06880” has contacted opponents of Old Mill Grocery’s regulatory approvals, and invited them to respond.)

Picnic tables flank Elvira’s, a predecessor of Old Mill Grocery. (Photo/Katherine Bruan)

Pic Of The Day #2818

Hillspoint Road mailbox (Photo/JD Dworkow)

Photo Challenge #523

Duck!

That — well, the Black Duck, anyway — was the site of last week’s Photo Challenge.

The cropped photo, showing only the door and a crooked window (click here to see) threw off our readers. Most guessed Wakeman Town Farm.

Lee Scharfstein and Jennifer Piseck had their ducks in a row. Well done!

Meanwhile, f you know where today’s Photo Challenge is, click “Comments” below.

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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Roundup: Gillespie Center Reopens, Car Fire Contained …

After 7 months of renovations, clients are moving back into the Gillespie Center and Hoskins Place — Westport’s men’s and women’s shelters on Jesup Road respectively.

On Friday and Saturday, Homes with Hope — the non-profit agency that oversees our town’s responses to homelessness and food insecurity — welcomed hundreds of Westporters for tours.

Representatives showed off the new bedrooms and beds; bathrooms (including handicap-accessible), full-service kitchen, meeting rooms (with one for local organizations to use), freezer, food pantry with toiletries, and more.

Westport’s homeless shelter celebrated its 40th anniversary last year. From its beginning in the old Vigilant Firehouse (now OKO restaurant), it has grown into a full-service shelter.

Homelessness remains a major national problem. In Westport — just a few yards from Tiffany and the police station — it continues to be addressed, forthrightly, generously, and compassionately.

Both the Gillespie Center and Hoskins Place are now accessible through the same door.

New beds, and more room, in the men’s shelter.

A small part of the newly expanded pantry.

Meeting room, where clients can gain assistance for employment and related issues.

From left: Homes with Hope president and CEO Helen McAlinden; director of marketing and development Katharine Murray; vice president and COO Paris Looney. (All photos/Dave Matlow)

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Westport firefighters responded to a vehicle fire at 7:18 last night, at a Sturges Highway home.

They minimized the spread, limiting it to the garage exterior. There were no reported injuries, and the incident is being investigated by the Westport Fire Marshal’s office.

Norwalk and Wilton fire departments provided mutual aid station coverage. The Fairfield fire department responded to the scene as a rapid intervention team.
Westport firefighters were assisted by the Westport Police Department and Westport Emergency Medical Service. The last unit cleared at 10:01 p.m.

The aftermath of last night’s blaze. (Photo courtesy of Westport Fire Department)

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Once upon a time, coyotes roamed this land.

Now they’re back. This one — today’s “Westport … Naturally” subject — was spotted last week on Timber Lane.

(Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

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And finally … Wayne Osmond — one of the lesser known members of the eponymous 1970s pop group — died Wednesday in Salt Lake City, after complications of a stroke. He was 73.

Click here for a full obituary.

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Staples Students Offer Light To The Homeless

As our nation’s housing crisis worsens, Americans want to help.

We donate funds, clothes and toiletries to organizations that work with unhoused people. We hope this lightens their burdens.

Two Staples High School students have given them light — literally.

Last summer, rising senior Shreyas Gorre and sophomore Rohan Sareen were looking for a way to use their engineering skills to help the community.

The teens designed a solar-powered lantern. Incorporating lights, wires, batteries and solar panels, they provide safety and comfort for people living many hours a day in darkness.

But how could 2 teenagers produce solar-powered lanterns?

With a 3D printer, naturally.

Rohan Sareen (left) and Shreyas Gorre, with solar-powered lanterns.

In November, Shreyas and Rohan invited residents to the Westport Library. There, they taught attendees — some of whom had no experience with the MakerSpace — how to assemble the lanterns. In addition to 3D printing, the project included soldering and circuitry.

Shreyas and Rohan know the MakerSpace well. They serve as senior coordinator and technology coordinator, respectively.

In late December — thanks to the Library Makerspace’s Ultimaker S5 and brand-new Bambu P1S 3D printer — the devices were finished.

Eight solar-powered lanterns were distributed to Open Doors, the Norwalk-based nonprofit that provides services to unhoused people.

The volunteers “loved seeing their printed parts turn into something that can truly improve lives,” Rohan says.

“It is incredible to see the work you have done have a real impact on the community,” Shreyas adds.

The 2 friends hope to run this program again this winter, with an updated lantern design and more volunteers. Anyone — of any age — interested in joining the program should email rohanjsareen@gmail.com or shreyasgorre@gmail.com.

Contributions to cover the costs for materials of these lanterns, and help fund similar projects at MakerSpace, are always welcome.  Click here to donate.

MORE LIGHT: This is not Shreyas Gorre’s first community-minded venture. Last spring, “06880” profiled his work with Serve2Sustain.

The non-profit workd with local tennis clubs to collect used balls. They’re sent to a facility where machinery separates materials for reuse. They then go to RecycleBalls and Laykold, which supplies tennis courts for events like the US Open. Click here for that story.

Pics Of The Day #2817

One view of Longshore’s ER Strait Marina … (Photo/Rob Grodman)

… and another (Photo/Nancy Breakstone)