Take A Knee? TEAM Westport Asks Teens Their Take

Last year, TEAM Westport‘s annual teen diversity essay contest tackled a hot topic: white privilege. Submissions were insightful and strong. Reaction was strong too, though not nearly as intelligent. A national controversy ensued.

TEAM Westport was not cowed. The town’s multicultural committee has just announced this year’s 5th annual contest. The topic is once again in the news.

And the idea once again is to make local teenagers — and everyone else reading their essays — think.

The prompt says:

Recently, several professional athletes have “taken a knee” during the singing of “The Star-Spangled Banner” to bring attention to — and to protest — ongoing bias and discriminatory practices in American society in general, and by law enforcement officers in particular.

In reaction, some people have called these athletes “unpatriotic.”  In 1,000 words or fewer, describe your understanding of what it means to be a patriot, what kinds of behavior you think would be unpatriotic, and what forms of protest against discriminatory laws, customs, or patterns of behavior you would consider legitimate.

This is not your typical essay contest.

But — as the nation continues to be grapple with issues relating to race, ethnicity, religion and identity, along with questions about what America is and what it stands for — it is exactly the kind of essay contest we need.

The contest — co-sponsored with the Westport Library — is open to students in grades 9 through 12 who attend Staples High School or another school in Westport, or who live in Westport and attend school elsewhere.

Applications are available here. The deadline is February 27. Winners will be announced at a ceremony at the library on April 2. Based on the volume and caliber of entries received, judges may award up to 3 prizes. First prize is $1,000; 2nd prize is $750, 3rd is $500.

(Individuals or organizations who would like to help sponsor the contest can click here or email info@teamwestport.org. Contributions are deductible to the extent permitted by law.)

Game, Set Match: Greenwald!

Back in the day, Jeff Greenwald was quite a tennis player.

Jeff Greenwald, in his Staples days.

In 1984 — playing #1 for Staples High School — he won a rare triple crown: the FCIAC and state LL (largest schools) singles championships, and the team’s 3rd consecutive state title.

As life moved on, Greenwald continued to compete. Seventeen years later, in 2001 — now a clinical and sports psychologist in northern California — he won the US 35-and-over national singles and doubles championships. He was ranked #1 in the world International Tennis Federation men’s 35 category, for both singles and doubles.

He played #1 singles for the US in the Italia Cup. The team made it to the finals, grieving at night over the 9/11 attack, and pounding balls by day.

Another 16 years went by. Last month, Greenwald – now 51 — entered the national 40s hard court tournament. Most of the 64 competitors were just 40, or a year or two older.

He’d won that tournament for the first time in 2009 — and again in 2016. No one had ever been champion of a division a decade younger.

Jeff Greenwald

Seeded #3 this year, he reached the finals. His opponent — ranked #1 — was a 3-time 40s winner.

Greenwald flew his son Will — 9 years old, and an avid tennis player himself — to La Jolla for the finals. The stands were filled.

Greenwald lost the first set, 6-3. He won the second, 7-5.

Suddenly — at match point in the final set — the umpire called a “ball abuse” penalty on his opponent.

The radio announcer had never heard of that situation before. Neither he nor Greenwald saw his opponent’s infraction. But he’d smashed a ball out of the court, onto another court in play, in frustration over losing the prior point.

Just as suddenly, Greenwald told the umpire he did not want to win that way.

He declined to accept the penalty.

Greenwald went to the line again. He unleashed an aggressive shot to his foe’s backhand. It was not returned.

For the 2nd time in minutes, Greenwald won the national championship.

“We battled for over 2 hours,” the victor told a reporter. “There was no way I wanted to win that way. It wasn’t even a choice for me.”

He called it “the most satisfying tournament of my career.”

And then he waved his son over, to join him for the trophy celebration.

Jeff Greenwald and his son Will, happy together.

(Jeff Greenwald is the author of The Best Tennis of Your Life, and several instructional videos. He conducts corporate seminars on stress management, gives motivational speeches, and helps promising young athletes enhance their mental skills. His website is www.mentaledge.net

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Saugatuck Congregational Church (Photo/Storm Sorrentino)

Unsung Heroes #30

Brrrrrr!!!!!

Recent polar temperatures set records, for lows and lengths. And if they didn’t, it was cold comfort — they were close enough.

In the sub-zero midst, alert “06880” reader Scott Brodie sent this suggestion for Unsung Heroes: the folks at our local energy companies — like Hoffman and Gault — who worked overtime to keep so many home heating systems up and toasty.

Local oil companies provide great, cheerful service — even when the weather isn’t as gorgeous as in this shot.

Scott should know. The other day, his mother Esther noticed her house felt a bit chilly.

The furnace was not cycling on — even though the thermostat crept below the set point. She checked the tank monitor on her tank. There was plenty of oil.

Esther called Hoffman. She was told she was “3rd in line.”

Just an hour or so later — at 8:30 p.m. — a repairman knocked on her door. He quickly identified the problem: A thermostat wire had come loose. Within minutes, the problem was fixed.

On his way out, he even straightened out a glitch in Esther’s cable TV service.

“Warm thanks are clearly in order,” Scott says.

For sure. It’s service Westporters have come to expect from local companies like Hoffman and Gault.

But it’s service we should never take for granted. And always be grateful for.

(To nominate an Unsung Hero, email dwoog@optonline.net)

RTM Website Lets In Sunshine — And Raises Hackles

In 2011, financial arbitration lawyer Christine Meiers Schatz and her husband moved to Westport. They liked the town’s “open-minded, progressive” vibe. It seemed like a great place to raise their kids.

As she became active in the school start-time issue — she’s founder and president of Sleep For Success Westport — Schatz learned a lot about local government. She saw few people in her demographic (women with young kids, like hers: 6, 4 and 2-year-old twins) on the RTM.

She understood why: “We’re busy keeping little humans alive.”

Christine Meiers Schatz, with her family.

But Schatz also believed it’s important for everyone in town to be represented. The RTM, after all, is the Representative Town Meeting.

And, she says, in these fractious times “we may not be able to change the world. But we can make things better in our own backyards.”

She ran for a seat in District 2 — and won. She is excited to serve.

But that’s not what this story is about.

As she campaigned door to door — her district stretches from Old Hill to Saugatuck — Schatz realized that was the only good way to meet constituents, and get a sense of the issues.

RTM veterans warned her that most Westporters don’t pay attention to local government. Schatz is not sure. She thinks people want to be involved. They just don’t know how.

The only options, she says, are to attend RTM meetings in person, watch them on TV, or read the minutes. Newspaper coverage, she says charitably, is “short.”

But everyone is online. So Schatz decided to create a totally unofficial — but quite comprehensive — blog.

Her plan was to compile biographical information on every member. She’d post agendas, reports about meetings and FAQs, plus short video clips. It would all link back to the town’s quite factual — and visually snore-inducing — RTM page.

The official RTM web page, at WestportCT.gov.

She called it “The Unofficial RTM Report by Christine Meiers Schatz.” She registered the domain RTMReport.com.

Schatz researched all 35 RTM colleagues. Using publicly available information, she created profiles for each: education, profession, volunteer work, RTM committees. She offered links to each member’s personal website.

She began building the rest of the site too.

Suddenly — and to her surprise — a few members objected.

Some wanted to provide guest posts. She created that opportunity — and was criticized for opening it up that way.

Others did not want so much info about themselves provided online.

“We have a lot of really talented people on the RTM,” Schatz explains. ” I thought this would be a great way to highlight them.”

Much of the information came from sources like the League of Women Voters’ Guide. One member protested that it was incorrect — even though it’s provided by RTM members themselves.

But — in deference to those objections — Schatz stripped most of those details from each member’s profile.

A screenshot of the stripped-down member page from Christine Meiers Schatz’s website. This is for her own District 2.

The blowback continued. Some members wanted the ability to provide their own, free-form paragraph about themselves. Others thought there should be a standard template. Right now, Schatz is seeking input and consensus from members on exactly what information and format is best.

Of course, not all members objected. Nicole Klein praised Schatz’s “initiative and creativity.” Others applaud her efforts too.

In a nod toward critics, Schatz changed the name of her blog to “Christine Meiers Schatz’s RTM Report.” And she switched the domain to SchatzRTM.com.

The home page of Christine Meiers Schatz’s blog.

But she persisted.

And she emphasizes that she intends her website to be one way — among others — to get information to residents.

“I’m not trying to be the sole voice,” Schatz notes. “That’s not ideal. Not everyone agrees what should go on the town site, or this one. So let’s have not just me, but lots of people doing things like this.”

For now though, Schatz’s site is the most robust RTM page in town. To check it out, click here.

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Sturges Pond hockey (Photo/Lynn U. Miller)

Here’s Why They Call It A “Snow Bank”

It’s 43 degrees today, and people are as giddy as the first day of spring.

But that doesn’t change the fact that — nearly a week after our big snowstorm — this is the scene at People’s Bank:

An alert — and frustrated — reader writes:

I was coming back from town, and had to walk IN TRAFFIC on the Post Road to get by the bank.

I went in immediately and asked to see the manager. The person at the counter wanted to know what for, so I told her. The manager came out with some excuse or other. I was so upset I didn’t listen closely, having just had my life on the line on the street.

Another guy who was there admonished me for my angry tone of voice. Oh yeah, make ME the bad guy.

By my count the snow storm was five days ago. They should be fined at the least. Hope nobody gets killed on the Post Road.

Today’s Most Entitled Westporter Is NOT A Driver!

However, he had to get in his car to earn this sleazeball award.

An alert — and legitimately ticked-off — “06880” reader reports: “some jerk dumped not 1, but 2 Christmas trees in front of our house.”

The reader — who is in great shape physically, but nonetheless one year shy of his 80th birthday — adds: “Anyone who was too lazy to take trees to the town brush center, or too stupid to call the Boy Scouts for free pickup, is really a slob.”

He’s too kind. I’d have used much harsher words.

Ramin Ganeshram: Historical Society Can Look Backward, Move Forward

Ramin Ganeshram has been an editor for companies like Ziff Davis and Hachette. She was a cultural strategist for a major market research firm, a New York Times stringer, and a researcher and writer on culture, history, food and travel. And she’s a professionally trained chef.

Now Ramin has a new gig. This week she takes over as the Westport Historical Society’s new executive director.

It’s the next, entirely natural fit for the New York native and Columbia Journalism School grad.

Ramin Ganeshram (Photo/JP Vellotti)

Her father was Trinidadian, her mother from Iran. “They met in Brooklyn!” she laughs.

They assimilated into America. In fact, Ramin says, the only time her parents nodded to their cultures was around food. As he cooked, her father told stories.

She started writing about food 25 years ago. “It wasn’t as hip and trendy as it is today,” she says of that genre. “But shopping and cooking is really about history and anthropology.” Her writing focused on those elements of food.

She’s been a Westporter for nearly a decade. She and her husband, JP Vellotti, moved here for the schools — and so their daughter Sophia could learn her dad’s family’s history. (They’ve been in the Norwalk/Rowayton area for generations.)

Ramin wanted to be near a beach, no more than an hour from New York — with a downtown she could walk to. They fell in love with an old house on Evergreen Avenue. The seller grew up in it, and was thrilled that Ramin and JP would not tear it down.

Soon after moving, Ramin organized a fundraiser for Haitian earthquake victims. It raised $10,000.

That led to more volunteer work. She attended meetings of TEAM Westport — the town’s multicultural committee — and after a year, was appointed a full member. She welcomed the opportunity to address Westport’s diversity (or lack thereof).

She applied for the Historical Society executive director position knowing that “I don’t come to museum history and curation in traditional ways. But I love history. I’ve done a lot of research. And I have a strong business background.”

Ramin believes the WHS can be “a more expansive organization. Sue (Gold, the previous executive director) was amazing. But all businesses have to look at how they manage themselves.”

Right now, Ramin says, the Historical Society is “a consistent and well-thought-of part of the community. Lots of people go to lectures and exhibits. Lots of kids go to the camps. It’s high-quality, very professional, and and it fulfills its mission incredibly well.”

Ramin’s vision is for the WHS to extends its reach, and become more integrated into the community. “A historical society can be seen as aimed at only pockets of people — history-minded older people, young children. I want us to be more expansive.”

She’d like a better social media presence, interactive programs to accompany exhibits, “virtual” exhibits on the website, and livestream talks.

“I want the Westport Historical Society to be a place people want to come to and enjoy — a place where they know they can have an ongoing conversation.”

Ramin Ganeshram wants to make the Westport Historical Society a welcoming place for all. (Photo/Lynn U. Miller)

Challenges include “the perception that historical societies in general are just repositories of old information,” and — of course — funding.

With enough money, Ramin says, the WHS can even do outreach to nearby under-served communities.

She’s spending her first week getting to know the staff and volunteers. She’s excited about the exhibit opening in May — it’s on Westport’s African-American history.

Ramin looks forward too to meeting directors of other non-profits: the library, Westport Arts Center, area historical societies.

So what’s been her favorite exhibit, in the hall she now oversees?

“The Danbury raid,” she says without hesitation. “I love that Revolutionary War era of history. It’s great there’s still a tangible link, with the Minute Man monument at Compo. It was mounted beautifully, with amazing artifacts.”

And, the multi-talented, food-oriented new director admits, she had a small part in the display: “I did something on colonial kitchens!”

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Traffic jam on Lyons Plains Road, this morning. (Photo/Bonnie Dubson)