Monthly Archives: April 2010

One Challah-va Mother

How far will a Jewish mother go for her son?

400 miles, apparently.

That’s how far Jane Moritz traveled to make a nice Jewish meal for Sam, a sophomore at Allegheny College.

This was hardly chicken soup.  Jane made brisket, cabbage and noodles, gefilte fish, potato kugel and more.

Jane and her boy did not dine alone.  They were joined by  Sam’s Phi Delta Theta fraternity brothers — and members of the Allegheny Hillel.

College president James H. Mullen also stopped by to nosh.

Jane and Sam Moritz

Last weekend’s event was one of the 1st joint Greek-Hillel events at Allegheny.  The Hillel members enjoyed the comforts of familiar food — while the frat guys loved the unfamiliar meal.  (Don’t believe me?  Check out this YouTube video of the event.)

Sam — who is both a Hillel member and his house’s social chairman — was the catalyst for the lunch.  His brothers loved the kosher care packages Jane sent, so he figured he’d go one step further:  a Jewish meal, made by mom.

“When Sam asked me to come to his college and cook for 50 kids, I looked at him like he was crazy,” Jane — the owner of Challah Connection, an online Jewish gift and gourmet kosher gift basket company — says.

“But then I began to realize that this was a lovely opportunity to share our traditions — and that it was my ‘mitzvah’ (good deed) for the day.

“No matter where you come from, no matter what your religion or ethnic background, we all come together over great food.”

Especially when Mom comes 400 miles to make it.

A Tailor’s Tale

It may be the 1st time in history a clothing store bought a full-age ad to honor a tailor.

Today’s Westport News features a tribute to Domenic Condeleo.  He’s celebrating 50 years as a tailor at Mitchells of Westport — and the Mitchell family wants the world to know how proud they are of him.

Domenic now oversees a staff of 23.  He personally fits America’s top executives — some of whom refuse to see anyone else, the ad says.

“Mitchells would not be as successful as it is today without Domenic,” notes Bill Mitchell.

“Not only is he an incredible tailor, he also is a top-notch manager, and a great salesperson.  His personality makes people gravitate towards him.  He’s a star.”

This is not the 1st time Mitchells has honored Domenic.  Back in 1994 — when he’d been with the family for “only” 34 years — the US hosted soccer’s World Cup.  Bill and his brother Jack flew Domenic around the country, to watch his beloved Italian team play.

Tomorrow (Saturday, April 24), Mitchell’s invites Domenic’s many customers and friends to toast his half-century of service.  The store serves prosecco and antipasto from 11 a.m. to 7 p.m.  All are welcome.

And while you’re there thanking Domenic, thank Bill and Jack for their very classy thanks too!

Monbo Time

In the summer of 1966, the Standells hit it big with “Dirty Water.”  And the Remains toured with the Beatles.

I never understood why the Standells — a California garage band — sang about “the River Charles,” and said, “Boston, you’re my home.”

The Remains then...

I cared much more about the Remains.  Though they never had a smash like “Dirty Water,” they’re revered now as “America’s greatest lost band.”  They were, Jon Landau said — channeling John Sebastian — “How you tell a stranger about rock and roll.”

And — though they began at Boston University, and are forever associated with that city — lead singer Barry Tashian and keyboardist Bill Briggs are Staples grads.

“Dirty Water” lives on.  For years, the Red Sox have played the song after home wins.

The Remains knew about baseball too — on the Beatles’ final tour, they opened for them at places like Shea Stadium, Dodger Stadium and Candlestick Park.

The Standells — 1-hit wonders — are long gone.  But the Remains have reunited, playing concerts to adoring fans here and in Europe.

Now they’re ready to take on Fenway Park.

Westporter Fred Cantor took a 2002 Remains song — “Time Keeps Movin’ On” — and co-wrote new lyrics.  The new song is “Monbo Time” — a tribute to former Sox pitcher Bill Monbouquette.

...and now.

It’s also a paean to the past 40 years of Red Sox history.  There are references to Yaz, Jim Lonborg, Bernie Carbo’s historic home run, Pudge Fisk, Pedro Martinez, Curt Schilling, Manny Ramirez — even announcers Ken Coleman and Ned Martin, and the Citgo sign.

But “Monbo” — a 3-time All-Star — is key.  Now 73, he has leukemia — fortunately, in remission.

To honor “Monbo” — and Briggs, who has been diagnosed with bladder cancer — the Remains are donating 50% of revenues from the song to cancer research and treatment.

The band’s connection to the Red Sox is real.  Myles Standish Hall — their BU dorm — is a line drive away from Fenway.  When they were rockin’ the Rathskeller — a Kenmore Square landmark — Sox outfielder Tony Conigliaro was a fan.

Cantor — an attorney and longtime Remains fan who produced both an Off-Broadway musical and a documentary about the band — sees parallels between Monbouquette and the Remains.  “Both achieved a certain level of fame,” he says.  “But neither got the recognition they deserved.”

For 44 years, “Dirty Water” has defined Boston.  Maybe now it’s “Monbo Time.”

(“Monbo Time” is available at cdbaby.com, and soon on iTunes.  For lyrics and to hear a song clip, click here.  To read more about the recording, click here.)

Green Day

Happy Earth Day!

In honor of today’s holiday, “06880” shines a light on “On the Green.”  Like many aspects of the green movement, it’s local, little-publicized — and potentially very important and impactful.

“On the Green” is a wiki — a collaborative, interactive website — where users share ideas, information and thoughts about sustainable environmentalism.

Nancy Kuhn-Clark — a Westport Public Library reference librarian — started “On the Green” in 2007.  She and library director Maxine Bleiweis wanted to cover environmental issues locally, inclusive and creatively.

“We figured no one needed another boring list of books,” Nancy — a realistic librarian — says.

Find "green parenting" books on the wiki.

“On the Green” is anything but boring.  Topics include organic gardening, green homes, green parenting (“green mothers,” there’s a blog for you!) and green pets (as in natural dog food).

There are links to green restaurants like Sugar & Olives, The Dressing Room and Le Farm; sections on farmers markets, green businesses, green products and green travel (who knew there is such a thing as a green RV?).

The “Green Gifts” section includes ideas like tree seedlings, eco-clothes and compact fluorescent light bulbs (“You’re so sweet — these bulbs are just what I wanted!”).

Westport-specific information includes “Westport Library Greener Than Ever,” the Green Village Initiative, and our plastic bag ban.

The wiki is a work in progress — the “Discussion” and “Video” pages are a bit thin — but there is plenty here to feast on (organically, of course).

Here's what a green RV looks like.

Nancy’s background is in English and education — not environmentalism — though in her hippie days she held build a log cabin in Nova Scotia, cooked on a wood-burning stove, and planted organic veggies long before green became the new black.

“On the Green” is mentioned on the Library’s home page, and appears in its newsletter.  Mostly it’s marketed by word of mouth.  It got a boost in 2008 when Wetpaint — the wiki’s software host — awarded it a Golden Paint Can as “Civic Superstar.”

Celebrate Earth Day by checking out “On the Green.”  Nancy Kuhn-Clark thanks you — as does the planet.

David Pogue’s Pool

David Pogue doesn’t need the world as his stage.

He’s got Westport.

A fairly standard stand-up shot.

The nationally renowned tech guru has used previous local sites like the library and Saugatuck River for his CNBC and New York Times videos.

Yesterday was the Y’s turn.

To demonstrate 2 new underwater (and drop-proof, kick-proof and hurl-through-a-slide-proof) cameras, the Westporter, his son Kelly, a cameraman and producer used the YMCA pool.

They put the cameras to the test, in takes that got progressively sillier — and tougher.  The cameras lived to tell the tale — as did David, who took one for the team when he got dunked by Kelly.  (He got revenge in the final shot.)

You can put the cameras in your mouth, if you want to.

Despite Pogue’s familiarity with — and about — Westport, he was surprised at the ease with which he and his crew could use the Y.

“I expected a lot of bureaucracy,” he said.  Instead they got quick approval, sauntered in, and began shooting.

Hey — they don’t call it a community resource for nothing.

(Click here to see the video on the New York Times site.)

David Pogue and his cameraman plan to send the cameras through a slide.

Kyle Martino Heads To The World Cup

Kyle Martino — the Westport soccer star who was National High School Player of the Year in 1998, earned MLS Rookie of the Year honors, and shared the Los Angeles Galaxy field with David Beckham — is going to the World Cup.

Kyle Martino

He won’t be playing for the US national team — though he’s done that in the past.  For a  month starting in mid-June, Martino will be a key part of ESPN and ABC’s radio crew.  He’ll announce games with TV veterans J.P. Dellacamera and Tommy Smyth, and former New York Cosmos star Shep Messing.

Martino has earned praise for his ESPN television work, covering the US men’s team and MLS.  However, for the World Cup, Disney — ESPN and ABC’s parent company — has signed a largely British TV crew.

That will be particularly interesting on June 12.  It’s the Americans’ 1st game of the tournament — against England.

Don’t want to hear a Brit call the match?  No problem.

Gather in front of a huge hi-def screen.  Mute the sound.

And listen to Kyle Martino, live from South Africa.

Game time is 2:30 p.m.

The Things You Find On eBay

You can get anything you want at Alice’s Restaurant.

And, apparently, eBay.

A listing this morning offers “2 big reels” of “vintage 8 mm 1960s home movies” of Westport.

The description says:

See the town of Westport, Connecticut as it was nearly 50 years ago!  Lots of great shots, including the Remarkable Book Store, Main Street, the YMCA, library, Compo Beach, country clubs, sailing, and more!  2 large 7-inch reels, full, about 400 feet each or 45 minutes in total.  Lots of country scenes, old stores, farms, etc.

This film was shot by an amateur but someone who clearly made a hobby of shooting home movie film.  Shots are clear and steady.

A fine step back in time…

As of 11 a.m. today, there had been one bid — for $49.99.  The offering had been viewed 23 times.

Interested?  Click here!

Want to bid on the 8 mm movies of Westport? You better have an 8 mm projector!

Frazier Peters’ Houses

Adam Stolpen has a thing for Frazier Forman Peters houses.

As a child he lived in a South Compo Road home designed by Peters, arguably Westport’s most famous architect.

Today he lives in another Peters house on Spring Hill Road.  Neighboring homes are also Peters-built.

Adam Stolpen's Frazier Peters house. (Photo by Douglas Healey/The New York Times)

This Saturday (April 24), Stolpen will host Laura Blau.  Peters’ granddaughter — and an architect in her own right — she and Stolpen will ride around Westport, looking at the handsome stone homes created in the 1920s and ’30s by her grandfather.

Her visit comes at a propitious time.  The Westport Historical Society is considering a 2011 exhibit devoted to Peters.  Under the direction of Bob Weingarten, the WHS is also identifying Westport homes designed and built by the legendary architect.

They’ve found 25 so far.  Ten more are being investigated.  They’re on the lookout for others.

Though Weingarten will be away when Blau visits, she’ll have a full itinerary.  And she’ll enjoy seeing — first hand — the mark her grandfather made on Westport.

Writer Susan Farewell wrote about Peters:

Were Frazier Peters to build houses today, he’d be receiving all sorts of accolades for being an architect on the leading edge of environmentally-conscious, energy-efficient, sustainable design and construction.

The thick fieldstone walls (as much as 16 inches) typical of a Peters stone house make them energy-efficient; the stones effectively hold the heat in winter and keep the interiors cools in summer….

He segregated rooms by giving each one a separate identity, and through the use of step-downs, varied building materials, and interesting transitions. He was also taken by how beautifully European stone structures aged and compared them to American-built frame houses that “droop and pout if they are not continually groomed and manicured.”

Another important component of Peters’ designs was the marriage of the house and its surroundings. He wrote a great deal about this and was especially enamored with the brooks, hillsides, and woods of Connecticut.

Stolpen has a copy of Peters’ final — and unpublished — book.  Decades ago, the architect wrote about urban planning.  “He was our first ‘green architect,'” Stolpen says.  “And he was completely self-taught.

“These are definitely not cookie-cutter McMansions.  They are homes meant to be lived in.  And each one has a bit of whimsy.”

The rear of Adam Stolpen's house. (Photo by Douglas Healey/The New York Times)

Blau — who co-founded BluPath Design, a Philadelphia firm specializing in environmentally sensitive spaces — has been to Westport before.  Stolpen drove her around.

“We just looked at the homes,” she recalls.  “One or two people were in their yards.  We introduced ourselves, and chatted.”  For the 1st time she understood the depth, breadth and impact of her grandfather’s work.

This weekend, she hopes to get inside more properties.  She also plans to meet WHS volunteers who are considering next year’s Peter’s exhibit.

Blau, her husband and son will stay in Stolpen’s guest house.  Of course it’s a Frazier Peters structure — built elegantly to house masons, as they worked on other Peters homes that still stand proudly, all around town.

(If you think you live in a Frazier Peters house — and the WHS does not know about it — email Bob Weingarten: rwmailbox@aol.com.  If you’d like Blau and Stolpen to see your house when she is in town, call Stolpen at 203-227-8758.)

No-Fly Zone

The Iceland volcano looks cool -- unless you're flying. (Photo courtesy of Huffington Post)

As the fallout — literal and figurative — from the unpronounceable Icelandic volcano spreads across the globe, one Westport family told “06880” about their experience.

Dad, mom and 3 kids had a flight to Paris for April break.  Last Friday morning, they learned it was canceled.

Some Westporters might have ranted and raved.  They may have looked for someone or something to blame.  And — because their children would certainly be upset — perhaps they’d have scrambled to somehow salvage the week.

But these are not “some Westporters.”

“We were forced to cancel due to Mother Nature,” the actual Mother said.

“The airline offered to rebook us for next Thursday, but could not confidently say the flight would leave.  With 3 kids in school, we did not want to extend our vacation after the break.”

But wait — there’s more.

“It is what it is,” she philosophized.  “We have no plans, so we’ll just take this week day by day.”

This is not the 1st time they have turned a ruined vacation into a life lesson.

Bad weather in Denver once prevented them from flying back after February break.  The earliest flight was 5 days later — so they rented a minivan and drove home.

“My kids still think that was the greatest vacation ever!” the mother said.  “Two-and-a-half days of driving, and they loved every minute.

“So I don’t think this trip’s cancellation is much of a story.  We were just going on vacation, and luckily it wasn’t for anything but pleasure.  It wasn’t a big deal — we were already here, not trying to get home.  I feel so sorry for the people stuck in airports around the world who don’t have money to stay in hotels.

“Does it stink that we didn’t get to go to Paris?  Of course.  But no one in my family is crushed.  It’s a privilege to be able to do the things we do.  We are all safe and healthy, which is much more important to us than a 7-day trip.”

Give that family a round of applause.

And a day pass to the Norwalk Maritime Aquarium.

Tracy Sugarman’s Mississippi Summer

In the early 1960s Tracy Sugarman was a successful Westport artist.  With plenty of magazine and corporate work, he was happily illustrating “other people’s fantasies about America after the war.”

Tracy Sugarman

But different images — of police dogs, fire hoses and beatings — filtered up from the South, intruding on his sense of contentment.  He and his family wondered how they could help the burgeoning civil rights movement.

Tracy decided to go South, and draw what was happening.

In late spring of 1964 Tracy arrived in Ruleville, Mississippi.  Segregation and hatred were worse there than even Alabama or Georgia.

“Mississippi blew me away,” Tracy recalls.  “The only pool in town was closed, so blacks wouldn’t contaminate it.  Only 5% of blacks were registered to vote.  Convincing poor, illiterate people to let us stay in their homes was huge.”

But thanks to the young leaders of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee — who Tracy calls “the cutting edge against the worst apartheid in America” — college students, and a few older folks like Tracy, arrived for “Freedom Summer.”

On his 2nd day there, 3 young volunteers disappeared.  Andrew Goodman, Michael Schwerner and James Chaney had been in the same training program as Tracy.

Andrew Goodman's grave

“We immediately knew they’d been killed,” Tracy says.  It took weeks for the FBI to open a field office to investigate the triple murder that galvanized America.

“It was a crazy summer,” Tracy says.  “I was more scared in Mississippi than I had been on D-Day.”

In World War II he’d been backed up by thousands of ships, planes and soldiers.  Down South, he says, “We couldn’t call the press, the clergy, the mayor or the police for help.”

So he called home whenever bail money was needed.  That summer, Westport raised $10,000.

Tracy developed strong bonds with the college students — black and white — he befriended.  “They were terrified every day, but they went out and did their job,” he says.  “American kids, when challenged, do remarkable things.”

The following summer, Tracy returned.  He worked with Fannie Lou Hamer, the sharecropper’s daughter who was the voice and symbol of SNCC’s Mississippi work.

Fannie Lou Hamer

Their friendship — which lasted until her death in 1977 — included visits to the Sugarmans’ Westport home.  “She was one of the smartest, most Christian women I’ve known,” he says.  “She was beaten, and people fired on her house.  But she said, ‘If I hate them, I’ll be just like them.'”

Tracy has carried Mississippi with him ever since those days.  Earlier this year — when he heard that SNCC was planning a celebration of the 50th anniversary of its founding — he knew he had to attend.

This past weekend, Tracy traveled South again — this time to Shaw University in Raleigh.  Organizers expected 300 people.  900 came.

There were — like 4 decades earlier — plenty of workshops and speeches.  Attorney General Eric Holder was there; so was SNCC benefactor Harry Belafonte.  The real stars, Tracy says, were unsung heroes like Charles Cobb, Hollis Watkins, and longtime friend Charles McLaurin.

But this was not a nostalgic look back at a watershed moment in American history.  The weekend, Tracy says, was “much more about tomorrow than yesterday.”

The crowd included many young social studies teachers and professors.  They discussed ideas like economic empowerment, and how to keep America moving forward.

“They’re very enthusiastic,” Tracy — now well into his 80s — says.  “The bit is in their mouth.  They asked good questions of those who came before them, like how do you organize a movement?

“It’s tough to pass on.  There was no rulebook.  SNCC’s strength was working things out as we went along.  I guess the legacy was:  Have faith in people.  Inspire them by your example, that you can make a difference.”

Back in Westport, Tracy says:  “It was a very affirmative weekend.  The baton is being passed.  I wanted to be there for that.

“You know,” he continues, “I never stayed in touch with anyone I served with in the Navy.  But the people from that summer — when we see each other across a crowded room, we rush to embrace.

“I wouldn’t trade those experiences for anything else in the world.”