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Decoding Hate And Bias On Social Media — With A Twist For Teens

“06880” readers are bright people.

We know that our social media feeds are manipulated by algorithms. The stories, videos, images, ads and clickable links I see are different than yours.

We know we are getting a skewed view of the world — one that reinforces what we already believe, and separates us further from those who believe differently.

We know all that. But — as we scroll, click and scroll again, endlessly and mindlessly — we seldom think about what those seemingly ordinary posts mean to our lives.

We think of social media as a galaxy of free speech.

In reality, it’s a universe of hate speech.

Dr. Matthias Becker has spent years studying those ideas. He just finished a $3 million-plus research grant on antisemitism, and wrote a book about it.

Dr. Matthias Becker

In his new position at New York University as the Address Hate Research Scholar, he is exploring digital hate, implicit communication, and the social impact of AI-driven platforms.

He regularly advises governments and tech companies on ways to mitigate online hatred.

On April 21 (7 p.m., Westport Library), Dr. Becker brings his research and insights to Westport.

“Decoding Bias & Hate on Social Media” is the next in a series of Common Ground Initiative programs. CGI hosts positive conversations on how to encourage respectful, constructive dialogue, and tackle challenging issues.

Dr. Becker is an engaging, thoughtful speaker. His insights are relevant to anyone on social media — in other words, everyone.

But they’re especially important for young people, who gobble up social media constantly, and may be less cognizant of what they see and why. The hate speech they see online — not always identifiable as such — can have an especially pernicious effect on developing minds.

So as part of the April 21 event, the Common Ground Initiative is sponsoring a “Decode Hate Video Challenge.”

Students throughout Fairfield County are invited to meet with Dr. Becker at 6 p.m. Over pizza, they’ll learn about explicit and cover hate and bias online — from obvious slurs to hidden memes.

At 7, they’ll listen to his talk. Then, they’re challenged to make a 1- to 2-minute video, showing any kind of hate, bias or manipulation online.

It can be related to sports, music, movies, pop culture, race, religion, ethnicity, sexuality, misogyny — or anything else. The video should be personal, and include ideas on what people or platforms might do differently.

The deadline is May 15. On May 28 the top 5 videos will be judged by a VIP panel — for cash prizes of $1,000, $750 and $500.

“Hate doesn’t announce itself,” Dr. Becker says. “Neither does the AI that’s spreading it.

“Most of what circulates online doesn’t look like the crude hatred of decades past. It look like irony, insinuation, strategic ambiguity — ideas traveling in plain sight, just below the threshold of what most people would call extreme.

“The distinction between free speech and hate speech matters enormously here. And it’s precisely this coded, ambiguous nature of modern hate that makes drawing that line so difficult, and so consequential.

“That also makes these expressions extraordinarily hard to detect, for humans and AI systems alike.”

Dr. Becker’s research addresses 3 elements of the problem: “coordinated bad actors who deliberately exploit divisive issues, and manufacture disinformation at scale”; platform algorithms that reward outrage and amplify emotionally charged content, and elements of online communication itself — anonymity, mutual reinforcement, constant exposure to extremity — that “turn ordinary users into unwitting amplifiers of hate.”

An even deeper problem, Dr. Becker says: “Most public debate about AI and hate focuses on what AI produces — offensive outputs, extremist content.

“That’s real. But it’s downstream of a harder issue: what AI absorbs.

“Every major model shows consistent bias toward hateful associations — not because engineers are hateful, but because models were trained on centuries of human text in which those associations are already embedded.

“You can add guardrails. The underlying associations remain.”

(“Decoding Bias & Hate on Social Media” is free. Click here for more information, and to register.)

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Roundup: Daffodils, Outdoor Sculpture, Antisemitism & Allies …

You know all those daffodils that make Westport look so beautiful every spring?

They didn’t just fall from the sky.

They weren’t even planted randomly.

They’re part of a years-long project. Debra Kandrak — the energetic visionary behind it — says: “Once again fall is upon us. Before the weather gets too cold, we need to plant daffodils all around town for our traditional community-wide event called ‘Paint the Town Yellow!’

“I started this years ago to remember loved ones who have passed on, including our fur babies.

“It has been well received over the years. Residents, businesses and local community groups participate, and for that I say thank you. So let’s keep the tradition going and plant more!”

Daffodils have already been planted in many areas, like traffic islands, the Minute Man Monument, Compo Beach, and (of course) Willowbrook Cemetery.

More can be planted just about anywhere. A great place is the edge of your property, by a road,

This is a great time of year. And there’s only a few months until spring.

Daffodils on Riverside Avenue. (Photo/Debra Kandrak)

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Speaking of how good Westport looks: The outdoor sculptures just keep coming.

“Queen of Hearts” — the newest addition — will be dedicated on Wednesday (3 p.m.), at the Senior Center.

Artist Carole Eisner will share the inspiration behind her work — one of hundreds of sculptures and paintings showcased in parks, museums and gardens throughout the Northeast.

Suzanne Sheridan will sing a song she wrote specially for the occasion.

The Westport Arts Advisory Committee is — as always — behind the outdoor art project, which is sponsored by the Friends of the Center for Senior Activities.

“Queen of Hearts” by Carole Eisner, at the Senior Center.

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Quietly but consistently, the Westport Library’s Common Ground Initiative has been offering programs that enhance positive, respectful and constructive conversations on challenging and/or controversial issues.

Up next this Thursday: a “Community Conversation on Understanding Jewish Identity, Antisemitism, and Allyship” (November 13, 7 to 8:30 p.m.).

Project Shema — a training and support organization — will lead a presentation and Q-and-A that provides historical and modern realities of antisemitism, emphasizing its evolving expression in contemporary culture and politics.

The evening will provide “an accessible but powerful introduction to the historical and modern realities of antisemitism, with an emphasis on its evolving expression in contemporary culture and politics. By creating space for collective reflection and inquiry, the evening aims to foster a shared vocabulary and a common starting point for deeper community dialogue.”

The goal is to promote a better understanding of the effects and impacts of antisemitism, to strengthen allyship for and within the Jewish community, to gain a greater appreciation of different lived experiences, and to increase awareness, promote empathy, and encourage dialogue.

“Allyship” is a key element of the Common Ground event. Everyone is welcome, including Westport residents of all faiths, families, clergy members, and anyone who wants to learn more about antisemitism in an open and welcoming environment.

The event is free. For more information, click here.

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SNAP benefit reductions during the government shutdown have caused long lines at local food pantries.

Quickly, AWARE (Assisting Women through Action, Resources & Education) high school students took action.

AWARE clubs in Fairfield County — including  Staples and Weston — organized a food drive.

They collected kid-friendly snacks, pasta, peanut butter and other pantry staples. Volunteers then gathered for a joint packing event to assemble bags for families served by Homes with Hope.

Residents can continue to support Homes with Hope, and built on the AWARE students’ efforts. Food donations can be dropped off at the Gillespie Center (Jesup Road, behind Barnes & Noble) any time. Click here to donate cash, enabling Homes with Hope to purchase food.

AWARE students, with bags for the Homes with Hope food pantry.

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Congratulations to Dylan Mogelof!

The Staples High School swim and dive team sophomore made waves last week, breaking a 26-year-old diving record at the CIAC Class “LL” (extra large schools) state championship.

She scored 456.50 points on the 1-meter, 11-dive event, surpassing the previous record of 452.75 set in 1999 by Corey Pagnotta. Her performance earned All-LL State and All-America honors.

Teammates Mikaela Snow and Avery Nissenson also qualified for the LL meet.

Mogelof’s record came under new Staples swim and dive coach Grace Slama. Next up for her: This week’s state open championship.

To learn more about Staples’ girls (fall) and boys (winter) swim and dive teams, email head coach Mike Anderson: swimmike@usa.net.

Dylan Mogelof

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Congratulations too to Staples cross country runner Sarah Bogdan. The Wreckers’ first runner since 2016 to qualify for the New England Championship, she ran a great race and finished 6th, at Vermont’s Thetford Academy. Click here, then scroll down for a video.

Sarah Bogdan, at the New England Championships. (Photo courtesy of MySportsResults.com)

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Speaking still of sports: It’s a big week for 2 Staples teams.

Both field hockey and boys soccer compete in the state tournament semifinals tomorrow.

Coach Ian Tapsall’s field hockey girls — seeded #1 in the state “L” tourney — take on #4 Fairfield Ludlowe Tuesday, 4 p.m. at Brien McMahon High School.

Coach Liam Witham’s soccer boys — #4 in the “LL” competition — meet #9 Hall-West Hartford at Newtown on Tuesday at 7 p.m.

Good luck to both teams!

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This afternoon at the Fairfield Library (Monday, 4 p.m.), Ukraine Aid International founders and team members offer “Stories of Connection: Connecticut the Donetsk Region, Building Bridges of Hope Together.”

Our state, and the Donetsk oblast in Ukraine, have built powerful partnerships. Behind it is UAI — created by Westporters Brian and Marshall Mayer, backed by many local residents.

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Despite the existence of a fence, it can be confusing to know where dogs are allowed on leash, or off leash, at Compo Beach — and where they are not allowed at all.

Fortunately, the Parks & Recreation Department has posted a clear, aerial map showing the 3 different areas:

Unfortunately, it hangs too high for dogs to see it.

But at least they can read the sign.

(Photos/DinkinESH Fotografix)

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Speaking of Compo: A few yards away, this was the scene on a basketball court:

(Photo/Tammy Barry)

Some people must have time on their hands.

Way too much time.

As anyone who has ever tried to move one of those benches knows: They’re heavy!

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image shows a Cooper’s hawk, on Diane Lowman’s deck.

She did not have to snap her photo quickly. The bird sat on the railing — posing — for nearly 30 minutes. “What a treat!” Diane says.

(Photo/Diane Lowman)

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And finally … when you saw the name of the sculpture being dedicated at the Senior Center this week (item near the top of this Roundup), you had to know this song was coming:

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Roundup: Food Help, Emergency Registry, Ukraine Aid …

Because of the government shutdown, SNAP benefits (food stamps) will be halted or delayed to many local residents, starting today.

In response to this, Westport Rotary Club and Sunrise Rotary Club have organized an emergency food drive for today (Saturday, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.), at Stop & Shop.

Rotary volunteers, with help from the Westport Police Department, will be there to collect food for Homes with Hope’s Gillespie Center Food Pantry.

The most needed items are rice, pasta, pasta sauce, canned goods 9tuna, soup, vegetables, beans, fruit), cereal, oatmeal, peanut butter and jelly.

Food can also be dropped off at the Gillespie Center on Jesup Road (behind Barnes & Noble). Click here to donate directly to Homes with Hope.

Another way to help: Shop directly from Greens Farms Church’s Amazon Wish List (click here).

And don’t forget: Homes with Hope’s Community Kitchen is open daily for lunch (12 noon) and dinner (5 p.m.). It’s at the Gillespie Center on Jesup Road (behind Barnes & Noble).

A September food drive stocked Homes with Hopes’ food pantry. With SNAP benefits ended, more donations are needed. The pantry is open Monday, Tuesday and Friday from 1:30-4:30 p.m., and Thursday from 1:30 to 6 p.m.

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For a while, Westport has had 2 different registries for residents in crisis.

One was used by the Department of Human Services to check on seniors living alone with medical needs during storms and other emergencies. The second was managed by the Police Department, to help first responders understand the needs of people with disabilities during 911 calls.

Now they’ve merged. Human Services, and the Police and Fire Departments, have launched “Westport Ready.”

To register, click here. For help completing the form, or to request a mailed copy, call 203-341-1050 or email humansrv@westportct.gov.

NOTE:Westport READY is a support tool, not a rescue list. Households should still maintain their own emergency plans and supplies.

Residents should also enroll in NIXLE town alerts online, or text 06880 to 888777, CT Alert, and the Fire Department’s Community Connect program.

Westport now offers one streamlined service for seniors and people with disabilities during emergencies.

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Meanwhile, on a lighter — by which we mean, Halloween — note: There was one less house this year to trick or treat at, in the Compo Beach neighborhood.

16 Westport Avenue was recently torn down. The new home — documented in an intriguing Westport Project video series — is not yet finished.

But kids and parents passing by got a “treat” yesterday, thanks to builder Chris O’Dell and his crew:

Not far away in the Compo neighborhood, this house went all out:

(Photo/Louise Pepin)

You’ve heard of spooky Area 51?

Nevada’s got nothing on Westport.

We have Area 23 — on Juniper Road. Here’s how it looked last night, for trick-or-treaters who dared enter.

(Photo/Pam Long)

And across town, this creature on Sylvan Road North was handing out full-size candy bars. You didn’t even have to walk up the driveway.

Every car that passed by honked.

(Photo/Susan Garment)

Here’s one more eerily lit scene. This is Gorham Avenue:

(Photo/Jamie Walsh)

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Missed either (or both) League of Women Voters debates this past week?

Want to see one (or both) again, to confirm (or make) your ballot choices?

You’re in luck! They were recorded, and uploaded to the Westport Library YouTube channel.

Click here or below for the 1st Selectman and Planning & Zoning Commission debates.

Click here or below for the Board of Education debate.

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Speaking of the election:

Through the first 12 days of early voting, 12.46% of eligible Westport voters have cast ballots. That’s 1 out of every 8.

The breakdown:

  • Democrats: 1,370 of 7,945 eligible voters (17.24%)
  • Republicans: 378 of 3,332 eligible voters (11.34%)
  • Unaffiliated: 609 of 7,588 eligible voters (8.03%)

Early voting continues this weekend, also at Town Hall:

Saturday, November 1           10 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Sunday, November 2             10 a.m. to 6 p.m.

The polls are open Tuesday (Election Day), from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m., at the 9 RTM district locations.

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This is the final chance for tickets to tomorrow’s 3rd annual “Historic Homes of 06880” tour.

On Sunday, from 1 to 4 p.m., we’re partnering with our friends at KMS Team at Compass to offer an inside look at 4 historic houses.

They’re at 221 Greens Farms Road, 249 Greens Farms Road, 155 Long Lots Road, and 209 Wilton Road. Click here for details of each.

Tickets are $60 each, $100 for 2. Click here to purchaseProceeds help fund “06880”‘s work — which, as always, chronicles Westport’s past, present and future.

249 Greens Farms Road — one of 4 historic homes on tomorrow’s “06880” tour.

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Tomorrow (Sunday, November 2, 5 p.m.), Chabad of Westport launches its Film Series.

They’ll show “Blind Spot”: the first documentary exposing campus antisemitism before and after October 7, 2023. After the screening, executive producer Leonard Gold will take part in a conversation about the film. Click here to register.

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Westport was the first community to form a sister city partnership with one in the Ukraine, shortly after the Russian invasion. In less than 4 years, our town has provided over $300,000 worth of food, clothing, wood pellet stoves, communications equipment, trash trucks and more, to our war-torn friends.

Ukrainian Aid International — the boots-on-the-ground non-profit founded by Westporters Brian and Marshall Mayer, which has delivered over $2.5 million in aid to the region — is hosting 2 events soon. Both highlight the sister cities program — and the new “Sister State” relationship between Connecticut and Donetsk, the front-line oblast.

UAI’s team and local leaders will over personal stories, and describe first-hand experiences of their partnerships.

The first is November 9, at 2 p.m. (Ferguson Library, Stamford). The second is November 10, at 4 p.m. (Fairfield Public Library; register here).

Solidarity, in Donetsk.

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The next Westport Country Playhouse Script in Hand play reading — “The Machine” — is Monday (November 3, 7 p.m.)

It’s a “smart, fast-moving thriller about a poet, an AI, and the tricky questions that arise when technology starts writing our art for us.” Click here for tickets, and more information.

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Club 203’s next event is “Giving Thanks Together.”

Westport’s social group for adults with disabilities gathers at the Senior Center on November 12 (6:30 to 8 p.m.) for turkey sandwiches and apple pie, laughter, bingo, and a celebration of friendship and connections.

MoCA\CT will be there as usual, with an art activity that’s a creative way to reflect on what everyone is thankful for this year.

As for “06880”: We’re thankful that Club203 offers a space for all Westporters to find those friends, and make those connections, that are so important in life.

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Growing season is hanging on.

So were these — the focus of today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo, from Wakeman Town Farm.

(Photo/Niki von Praag)

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And finally … Happy All Saints Day!

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Police, Tooker Respond To Antisemitic Snowman

The Westport Police Department says:

On the night of February 9, Westport Police were notified by a local rabbi to the existence of a snowman with antisemitic features at the Newman Poses Preserve.

The person who found the snowman notified the eabbi and a local blog. On the morning of February 10, Westport Police initiated an investigation which included responding to the Newman Poses Preserve where a snowman was located, but without any antisemitic symbols.

We contacted the complainant and spoke with him about the incident. He reported finding the snowman at approximately 5:40 p.m. on Sunday, Februray 9 while walking in the preserve. The complainant took a photo of the snowman, and then removed the antisemitic symbols prior to leaving the preserve.

The Westport Police Department is investigating the incident, and asks anyone who knows who is responsible for this incident to contact the Westport Police Department at 203-341-6000. Furthermore, we ask that incidents like this be reported immediately to the Police Department so they can be investigated in a timely manner.

First Selectwoman Jennifer Tooker stated, “This incident does not reflect the beliefs of our community. Westport strives to be a welcoming community, where everyone feels like they belong. I will continue to lead with that goal as my north star, and will work with the Police Department to ensure everyone feels safe and heard.”

Snowman with Nazi symbols, at Newman Poses Preserve.

 

Addressing Antisemitism And Bias: The View From Our Schools

The Westport Public Schools address antisemitism and other biases in many ways: in and out of the classroom, and during and outside the school day.

But educators know they can do more.

That was one takeaway from last night’s “Addressing Incidents of Antisemitism and Bias in our Schools” forum at Temple Israel.

A large crowd — and more watching the livestream — heard Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice, and nearly every member of his leadership team, discuss an array of efforts the district takes to confront a problem that is ongoing, rising, and part of American society as well as its schools.

Some of those efforts are proactive. Others are reactive. All, Scarice and others stressed, rely on the support of parents and the community, as well as educators.

Introducing the evening, Rabbis Michael Friedman of Temple Israel and Jeremy Wiederhorn of TCS told the audience — which included members of the Board of Education, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, Police Chief Foti Koskinas and state legislators — that Scarice and his administrators work as partners with local clergy to address hate incidents.

Rabbi Michael Friedman welcomes forum attendees to Temple Israel.

The presentation was divided into 2 parts. Much of it was devoted to antisemitism, though other types of prejudice, such as racism and homophobia, were mentioned too.

The first part  — “Prevention” — described staff training and professional development; curriculum and instruction; social emotional learning; student clubs and activities; special events, and parental outreach.

The second involved schools’ responses to incidents of bias. It includes prioritizing the safety of targeted students; gathering facts; education; communication with stakeholders; consequences and accountability, and restoration and training.

Scarice noted the importance of holding students accountable for their actions, while at the same time helping them understand the meaning and import of what they said or did.

Privacy laws prohibit schools from discussing individual incidents, or revealing specific consequences.

“We don’t behave a certain way because we’re fearful of being sued,” Scarice said. “We’re following the law.”

And, he acknowledged, “We can do more. We will still have bias incidents that are unacceptable. Kids will be kids.” But he committed the Westport Public Schools to continuing to address hate-based words and actions, wherever and whenever they occur.

(From left): Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice, Staples High School principal Stafford Thomas, Westport Public Schools Grades 6-12 social studies coordinator Lauren Francese. (Photo/Dan Woog)

One way is through a tightened, clearer Code of Conduct. “It’s squishy now. It needs to change,” the superintendent said.

The code is being revised and reviewed, with Board of Education oversight. Scarice urged residents to provide input, throughout the process.

“Westport is a competitive community,” Scarice noted. “Sometimes this does not bring out the best in people.

One result: students “exclude others, based on things like socioeconomic status, ability, race, religion and ethnicity.”

A new Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging page on the WPS website offers more information on the school district’s efforts to provide education and resources to combat hatred, bias and misunderstanding, in all forms.

Roundup: Antisemitism Forum, Capital Spending, Staples Insta …

Tonight is the night for a forum on “Addressing Incidents of Antisemitism and Bias in our Schools” (Wednesday, March 13, 7:30 p.m., Temple Israel).

The event — including educators, clergy and community leaders — will provide an opportunity to share best practices for preventing and responding to identity-based bullying in public schools. A Q-and-A session will follow.

Originally scheduled for February, the forum was postponed by snow.

Click here to attend in person (pre-registration is required). Click here to watch via livestream. Click here to watch via livestream.

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Several big capital spending projects loom in Westport.

What are the rationales, goals and processes?

Town Hall and Westport Public Schools leaders share insights on March 26 (7 p.m., Westport Library) in a community conversation.

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker and Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice will present their capital spending strategies and rationales. A panel of experts will discuss possible funding strategies, capital planning best practices, and the approval process for achieving capital spending goals. An audience Q-and-A session will follow.

The event is sponsored by the League of Women Voters of Westport, and the Westport Library’s Common Ground initiative.

Longshore is one of several large capital projects planned for the future.

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Congratulations to the Staples High School Model UN Club.

Inklings reports that 16 delegates attended the recent National High School Model UN Conference in New York.

Staples delegates represented South Africa in 8 committees, debating topics like healthcare and renewable energy.

Club president Tucker Peters and vice president Jameson Russell were given the Commission on Science and Technology for Development’s Awards of Distinction, the highest possible award.

Alessandra Spadea, Jori Altman, Mia Bomback and Graysen Peters earned Awards of Merit for their contributions in the UN Human Rights Council and International Organization for Migration, respectively.

Jacob Calandro and Julien McMahon received Awards of Excellence for the Commission on Crime Prevention and Justice.

Staples’ Model UN Club, at the real UN. (Photo/Mia Bomback)

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Speaking of Staples: What does the world see when they think of our high school?

If they’re one of the 83,000 followers of “thekingof5thave” — actually, Nicholas Pinsker — this is what they saw:

He’s not a Staples graduate. So how well — or poorly — did he describe our high school? Click “Comments” below. (Hat tip: Donna O’Donnell)

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From a quick glance at this photo, it looks like just some guy playing piano at last night’s Artists Collective of Westport pop-up gallery opening party.

(Photo/Dan Woog)

But look closely. “That guy” is Mark Naftalin. A spectacularly talented keyboardist, he played with the Paul Butterfield Blues Band — and was inducted with them into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2015.

It did not take long for the large crowd to realize they were in the presence of greatness — musically, as well as artistically.

Attendees of all ages gathered around the piano, as the famed Westport resident played blues, boogie-woogie, and lots more — just like he was back on stage at Monterey.

Mark Naftalin: a master at work. (Photo/Tomoko Meth)

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The Gaelic American Club is in Fairfield.

But plenty of Westporters are members of the 75-year-old organization.

And sure, they’ll all be there this St. Patrick’s weekend to celebrate.

You’re invited too!

From Friday to Sunday (March 15-17; $10 non-members), Irish and non-Irish alike* will enjoy live music from a pipe band, with step dancers; corned beef sandwiches and more.

Click here for details.

*But isn’t everyone Irish on St. Patrick’s Day?

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As our national mental health crisis escalates, TAP Strength — the individualized coaching center in downtown Westport — is offering an intriguing discussion.

“Psychedelic-Assisted Therapy” features a discussion with Jennifer Boyd, a  physician assistant, ecopsychologist and Reiki master. TAP founder Dr. EJ Zebro will moderate.

The event is March 26 (6-7 p.m., 180 Post Road East). Proceeds from the suggested $25 donation will go to the National Alliance on Mental Illness.

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Westporter Atara Nova’s unique “Cosmic Misfit” concert and one-woman show of all original music heads to Newtown’s Sticks & Stones Farms this Saturday (March 16, 7 p.m.).

Organizers say: “As the music from pulsating beats to haunting melodies unfold, you’ll embark on a journey woven with intricately layered harmonies and rhythms, each reflecting a chapter of Atara’s profound inner quest.

“The music tells a story of Wetiko, a deadly virus of the mind, and one celestial being’s quest to heal herself and her community.”

Tickets are $22 (sliding scale available). Click here to buy, and for information.

PS: If you haven’t heard of Atara Nova, you may know her as Atara Horrigan.

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We can never have enough dogs in our “Westport … Naturally” feature.

Ellen Wentworth captions this: “Ever feel this way?”

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And finally … in honor of Mark Naftalin, last night’s featured musician at the Artists’ Collective of Westport gallery opening (story above):

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Parents Offer Proposals To Address Racism, Antisemitism

In the wake of last month’s allegations of racist behavior by students at Bedford Middle and Staples High School, over 30 Westporters signed a letter sent yesterday to the Board of Education, and Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice. It says:

Based on the call for participatory policymaking during the town hall meeting on February 27 of the Westport BOE Policy meeting, we have short-, medium- and long-term proposals to address the increasing prevalence of antisemitism, racism, and overall protected class harassment.

Short-term policies to be approved by the BOE and implemented immediately: 

  • Block students who violate the protective class harassment governance from sports and leadership positions during their suspension period. Remove VI. Procedures Governing Suspension 13: “unless the responsible administrator or the administrator’s designee specifically authorizes a student to enter school property for a specified purpose or to participate in a particular school-sponsored activity” and specify that students will not be able to participate in sports, orchestra, Staples Players, or leadership-related activities during suspension.

  • Modify VI. Procedures Governing Suspension 9 and 10. Notice of suspension specific for protective class harassment shall be recorded in the student’s cumulative educational record and not be shortened for students with first-time suspension. In both cases, the suspension notice should remain in the educational record until the student completes a bias training specific to the offense (i.e., ADL training, NFHS bias training) and submits a teacher-reviewed 250-word reflective essay for middle school and 1,000 words for high school.)

A group of parents urges that students who violate harassment policies should complete bias training through a group like ADL.

Medium-term policies to be implemented before the next academic year:

  • Review the middle school and high school social studies curriculum to make sure it equips students with an understanding of biases and how they can avoid harming others with their behavior.

  • Make community service/volunteering, preferably outside of Westport, and bias training mandatory for ALL students.

  • Review the mission and vision of the school district to ensure that kindness, good character, and civic-mindedness are part of our school’s culture.

  • Support and empower school diversity initiatives that increase cross-cultural and identity understanding.

  • Report protected class harassment indicators such as relapsing rates, number of suspensions, number of reported cases, etc., on a quarterly basis.

Long-term policies to be implemented in the next five years within the context of the restorative justice procedures that will become law in CT next year in lieu of expulsions for “non-safety related offenses” that prevent the district from adopting a zero-tolerance policy:

  • Assign up to 180 hours of specifically outlined community service and a reflective 1,000-word essay as a restorative sanction within the context of a restorative circle to middle and high school students who violate the code of conduct’s policies on protected class harassment. The student should have a note in their file about their violation and be blocked from student leadership positions and sports until the completion of this requirement. Completing community hours should be a requirement to shorten the suspension period of first-time-suspended students and remove a notice of suspension from the cumulative educational record (180 assigned hours.)

The current code of conduct has two salient loopholes that enable the concerning behavior (VI. Procedures Governing Suspension 9. And 10.) We find it’s of utmost urgency to address the gaps in these rules to deter protected class harassment and keep children who are being victimized safe. Notices of suspension should not be expunged from the cumulative record by just graduating high school.

This policy overlooks an opportunity to educate children about the consequences of their actions and how they can make amends for the harm caused by their behavior. We are also advocating for the suspension of individuals from leadership positions including athletics until they complete their required bias training/service hours.

Parents also say that students suspended for harassment should not be allowed in leadership positions — including athletics — until they complete bias training/service hours.

One of the Westport parents backing this proposal emphasizes the importance of this policy: “As a former member of my University’s judicial board where I held a judicial role for 4 years, we found that over 80% of primary perpetrators of civil rights infractions and sexual assaults on campus were members of a sports team or fraternity. These peer-led and often pressured organizations have been seen to insulate young adults enabling behaviors such as these infractions and often protect them from being held accountable. Suspension from these activities would have a tremendous impact on behavior.”

In order to help students avoid disciplinary action in the first place and promote a culture of belonging and respect, the Westport School District should require community service/volunteer hours and bias training for ALL students.

Recent research suggests that schools offering a variety of diversity education activities, such as diversity clubs, lessons, or special events, are associated with lower rates of bias-based bullying among students. Specifically, attending schools with more diversity education opportunities was linked to reduced odds of bullying related to race, ethnicity, or national origin among boys of color, bullying related to sexual orientation among gay, bisexual, and questioning boys, and bullying related to disability among boys with physical health problems.

These results indicate that diversity education may help protect vulnerable students from specific types of bias-based bullying and promote health equity. Therefore, implementing diversity education as a fundamental part of anti-bullying efforts and policy is recommended.

Anne Van Goethem’s research indicates that community service positively influences adolescents’ behavior and attitudes towards school, self, others, and society. She found that intensive service experiences enhance learning outcomes, especially when accompanied by frequent reflection. The impact of community service on adolescents is influenced by the amount of service performed; adolescents derive greater benefits from community service when they engage in it more frequently.

There is no apparent threshold where the benefits plateau or become negative, and the positive effects of community service can extend up to 180 hours of participation. Whether the service was mandatory or voluntary doesn’t impact the overall positive effects. Community service hours would be a restorative sanction within the context of a harm repair circle, where students “are guided to understand the harm their actions caused, take steps to repair the harm, and make a plan to avoid making the same mistakes in the future.”

The community service hours should ideally be in communities outside of Westport. Some hours could be integrated with the activities of the school. For instance, a California school district offers community service hours to students who participate in Black History Month events.

We believe in the potential of these policies to address the increasing cases of racism, antisemitism, and overall protected class harassment within the district. It expands on the restorative practices efforts while giving victims a sense of justice, keeping victims safe, and educating students so they graduate from the Westport School System, being kind members of society. Please let us know if you have any questions about the impact measurement of our proposed policy.

The letter writers specifically requested that the 2 “short term” policy items above be placed on the Board of Ed agenda for the next meeting.

Roundup: Long Lots Timeline, Antisemitism Forum, SXSW …

The Long Lots building project is moving ahead.

The review for the appropriation for design documents for the new elementary and Stepping Stones Preschool, including the site, will be heard by the Board of Finance tomorrow (Wednesday, February 7).

The Representative Town Meeting will hold a special meeting next Tuesday (February 13).

Both meetings begin at 7:30 p.m., in the Town Hall auditorium.

First Selectwoman Jen Tooker says that the next phase of the project includes “requesting appropriations for needed studies and plans as well as the ability to perform the appropriate due diligence on critical issues such as impact studies on neighboring properties, drainage, parking, wetlands, etc.

“All land use and funding bodies will have the opportunity to opine on their given expertise and authority in public meetings throughout each stage.

“Although time is of the essence in order for construction of the new school to begin before the end of 2024, proper process and public participation will not be compromised. Most importantly, we need to ensure the Long Lots School and Stepping Stones School community is heard, and that the goal of a safe, secure environment for our children to learn and grow is realized.”

Next up for Long Lots Elementary School: the Board of Finance and RTM.

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The Westport Public Schools that our Westport educators have partnered with local clergy and community leaders on an important community forum.

“Addressing Incidents of Antisemitism and Bias in our Schools” (February 13, 7:30 p.m., Temple Israel) provides an opportunity to share best practices for preventing and responding to identity-based bullying in our public schools, A Q-and-A session will follow.

Click here to attend in person, or to watch via livestream.

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South by Southwest — the annual film/interactive media/music festival/ conference in Austin, Texas — is very cool.

But it just got cooler.

Staples High School 2014 graduate Rachel Rose has joined the list of performers.

The University of Texas alum volunteered at SXSW as a sophomore. Next month, she’ll be on stage.

Rachel’s new EP, “And One More Thing,” includes original songs. She also recently worked with producers John Alagia (John Mayer, Dave Matthews), and Tyler Chester (Madison Cunningham, Joan Baez).

Click here to be added to her newsletter. Click below to see Rachel on Jimmy Fallon’s “Tonight Show” Battle of the Instant Songwriters:

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Meanwhile, Fashionably Westport — the very cool runway show-and-more Westport Downtown Association show, which benefits Homes with Hope (March 28, 7:30 p.m., Westport Library) — just got even jazzier.

The Staples Jazz Band will perform during the cocktail hour.

Already announced: Dave Briggs as MC. Stay tuned for news about the models. Hint: They’re some of Westport’s coolest (and jazziest) names.

Click here for tickets, and more information.

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Rodgers & Hammerstein’s classic musical “Cinderella” — originally seen on Broadway in 2013 — is set for a limited run at the Westport Country Playhouse. Dates are February 17-25.

Click here for more information, including the all-star cast and tickets.

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More show news: Tickets go on sale March 8 for Coleytown Company’s spring production of “Footloose.” There are 4 performances, April 5 to 7.

It’s an inspired choice. The “Footloose” film came out in 1984 — the same year Coleytown Company was formed.

Click here for more information, and tickets.

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Aspetuck Land Trust welcomes spring (yes, it’s coming) with a pair of Lunch & Learn webinars.

Attracting Birds by the Season” (February 23, noon to 1:15 p.m.): Allison Middlemass from Bent of the River Audubon explains how enhancing your garden with native plants can attract birds naturally all year long. Click here to register.

Native Trees, Shrubs  Perennials: Choosing Layers for Biodiversity” (March 18, noon to 1:30 p.m.). Anna Fialkoff, formerly of Wild Seed Project, discusses how to design a native plant garden with trees, shrubs, herbaceous plants, hedges and hedgerows. Click here to register.

On Saturday, March 16 (10 a.m. to noon, Trout Brook Valley, Weston), “Ranger Jim” leads a family hike. He’ll highlight “all the  wonders of nature hiding in plain sight.” Click here to register.

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The latest scam: Scaring residents into thinking the Westport Police caught them driving illegally on camera.

If you get this text …

… ignore it. And delete it.

The WPD does not use traffic cameras, nor do they solicit payment for violations via text.

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Free People is Westport’s oddly named women’s bohemian-inspired clothing chain store.

Bob Weingarten spotted this very un-bohemian sign in its parking lot, near Fresh Market:

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

It is, Bob said, “a sign of the times.”

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John Fumasoli and the Jones Factor Lite headline this week’s Jazz at the Post (Thursday, February 8, shows at 7:30 and 8:45 p.m.; dinner from 7 p.m.; VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399; $20 music cover charge).

Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall met Fumasoli several years ago, at a memorial concert for Micky Golomb (namesake of JazzFC’s scholarship fund), and was wowed by his musicianship and friendly vibe. Now they both bring the Jones Factor Lite to the VFW.

Reservations are highly recommended: JazzatthePost@gmail.com.

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Longtime Westporter Robert E. McGrath died peacefully at home on Saturday, surrounded by his family. He was 93.

The Massachusetts native attended Fitchburg State College, where he met his wife of 68 years, Betty. After serving in the army during the Korean War, he began his career as a teacher. He went to school at night for his graduate degree at the University of Connecticut, then went into sales. He established his own executive search firm, Robert E. McGrath & Associates, which he ran for more than 20 years.

Betty and Bob moved to Westport in 1966, and enjoyed Compo Beach and all that Westport offers. Bob served on the board of the Stamford YMCA, and several Westport town committees. He was an active member of the Westport YMCA and the Y’s Men, which he served as president. His 2 great loves (other than his family) were the Boston Red Sox and the stock market.

Bob is survived by his wife, Betty, and daughters Maura McGrath, Kerry McGrath (Michael Cox) and Sheila Wulf (Brad).

A funeral Mass is set for Thursday (February 8, 10:30 a.m., Assumption Church). Interment will follow in Assumption Cemetery on Greens Farms Road. The family will receive friends in the Harding Funeral Home tomorrow (Wednesday, February 7, 4 to 6 p.m.). In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the American Cancer Society. Click here to leave online condolences.

Bob McGrath

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“06880” loves every creature we feature on “Westport … Naturally.”

But we have a special place in our heart for barred owls. Even AI could not come up with something this cool.

Betsy Amitin sends today’s photo, and writes: “We just got a visit from our favorite barred owl (we named him Bart!) in our backyard. Or maybe we are visiting him, if he’s lived here for a while.

“Either way, we love hearing his call ‘woo woo woo woo wooooo,’ and seeing him snoozing during the day.”

(Photo/Betsy Amitin)

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And finally … sure, Coleytown Company’s production of “Footloose” is not until April (story above).

But to get you in the mood, click below:

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Board Of Ed: Firm Support For Administrators’ Actions; Proactive Steps Planned

Last night, the Board of Education addressed a recent Newsweek opinion piece in which a Westport parent described antisemitic bullying, and its aftermath.

The Board met in executive session, to explore details that privacy laws prohibit from being made public.

The Board of Ed then adopted this statement. The public vote was 6-0, with one abstention (Robert Harrington):

This evening, the full Board met in executive session and discussed the steps taken by the administration in response to a recent allegation of antisemitic bullying. We are deeply sorry for the pain this child and their family have experienced.

Each of us has had an opportunity to ask questions, specifically about this matter and generally about our bullying and harassment policies. Based on our review, we are confident that the district handled this matter in a manner that fulfilled its legal obligations, complied with our policies and met the high expectations of professionalism we all share.

While federal privacy laws generally prohibit Board of Education members from accessing student records, state law requires an exception in this situation so that we can ensure compliance with laws related to bullying, nondiscrimination, and discipline.

We affirm that our administrators acted promptly, ensured safety and support for the students, investigated thoroughly, imposed discipline, and provided learning opportunities to help students understand the impact of their words and actions. It is also clear that the matter was handled with care and sensitivity to all the children and families involved.

We are concerned about the recent rise in reported antisemitism, and our school system is focused on preventing its spread and educating our students about hate. Our board and administration know that student safety and well-being are our top priority and that antisemitism and other forms of hate cannot be tolerated.

Westport Public Schools aspires to be a national leader when it comes to educating our faculty and students on hate, bias, and antisemitism, including Holocaust curriculum. We further understand the frustration that many members of our community feel right now and that many questions remain, not just related to this specific matter but the broader set of issues related to how we as a district address challenges of this nature.

As we enter the new year, we intend to take proactive steps to engage with the community, increase awareness of our policies and practices, solicit feedback, look for opportunities for improvement, and do everything we can to prevent and effectively address all incidents of bullying and identity-based offenses. We will not wait, and have already scheduled a community conversation about antisemitism in January.

We owe it to every child in Westport to make sure we are delivering a learning environment that is safe, supportive and responsive when problems develop.

[OPINION] October 7, Antisemitism Are Wakeup Calls For Parents

Jenna Diane is a Westport mother. She facilitates support groups for mothers of children from birth to age 5, receiving early intervention services (Instagram: @uniquelymothering).

Jenna writes:

My son was 18 months old when my husband and I moved to Westport. Thoughts of him attending college ought to have been the last thing on my mind.

But while new moms around me were going on playdates and enjoying baby classes, I was at speech and occupational therapy sessions, hosting birth to 3 providers in my house, and trying to not be consumed with fear over what a “developmental delay” could mean for my toddler.

Like so many mothers of young children who do not present as typically developing or receive an early diagnosis, the vision of what I expected while I was expecting imploded — leaving me in a perpetual state of anxiety over the future.

As someone who was surrounded by people who attended well-known colleges all my life, I unconsciously assumed my child’s path would be similar to my own. But at barely 2 years old, my husband and I were presented with 3 options.

Our child would grow out of his delays. He could end up with a mild learning disability. Or the delays could turn into something more significant.

Would he be college-bound? Only time would tell.

It was a difficult journey processing that my family’s path to and through school could end up being different from all I had ever known. But in a strange twist, it was a gift to see the world through a new lens.

As I encountered mom chatter about all the sports their kids were signing up for or which preschoolers were reading at an early age, all I cared about was whether my son would have meaningful friendships, develop confidence and compassion for others, learn to think for himself, and become independent.

Those who are privileged to live in a town like Westport are well aware of the hyper-competitiveness that lurks beneath the surface, even at the earliest of ages.

Wealthy communities are socialized to see admittance to high-ranking schools as emblematic of higher intelligence, and subsequently a pathway towards a high paying career.

But this cycle foments crushing pressure onto parents and students, and one must wonder at what cost. In a New York Post article, Christopher Rom, CEO of Command Education, stated, “The emphasis on elite and Ivy schools has absolutely gone off the rails.” We all know what he is referring to.

The atrocities of October 7 unearthed another ugly reality about our classist educational system. While elite institutions have long been known as bastions of intellectual and rigorous think tanks, for its renowned research from the créme de la créme professors, and churning out the best and brightest graduates, the aftermath of those attacks shattered such illusions.

The hate-spewing college protests that arose the next day, the disturbing rise in campus antisemitism and harassment of Jewish students, proclamations from professors at places like Cornell and Columbia University praising Hamas’ heinous barbarism, and the disgraceful congressional testimonies of Harvard, Penn and MIT presidents should make everyone question the value of a degree from any of these schools today.

At the very least, it should propel every parent to reevaluate such an investment in future tuition and alumni giving.

Anti-Israel protest at Tulane University.

In a letter I sent to my alma mater a week later, I wrote: “It is disturbing to observe Columbia’s leaders being either weak, ignorant or heartless in turning their backs on a historically vulnerable and traumatized community. What does it say about the education Columbia is providing, the critical thinking skills you’re cultivating, and pursuit of human understanding when you have to shut down your campus due to safety concerns on the heels of the death, torture, rape, and kidnapping of 1,300 innocent civilians? What does it say about the mass numbers of Columbia University students who are unable to distinguish between terrorism and ‘resistance?’”

As a community, I hope we will seize this moment by taking a hard look at our educational goals and aspirations for our children.

I had to do that exercise when I least expected it. But if we take this unexpected moment in history to collectively wrestle with this question, Westport will be better for it.

The recent Newsweek article detailing the pernicious, antisemitic bullying that took place in one of our schools ought to be a wake-up call that we, as parents, must do better.

We have to return to the basics. Prioritize kindness, curiosity, tolerance, a growth mindset, and courage. Teach them more than ever before how to stand up to bullies and counter bias in all its forms, including antisemitism. Help them learn how to debate, search for nuance and understanding, but also to be forceful in distinguishing and calling out the difference between good and evil.

An Ivy League degree might get Westport students an impressive stamp on their resumé, but it will not produce the next generation of leaders that America and the world desperately needs. It is clear we cannot rely on the current educational system to be leaders on moral clarity. That responsibility falls uniquely and urgently on us.