Monthly Archives: January 2017

Teenage Depression — Through Teenage Eyes

Depression in teenagers is rampant.

We see young people who look like they’ve got it all together. Inside, they’re crumbling.

That’s the foundation of a compelling and fascinating public service video. In just 2 minutes, it shows the agony some kids go through — and the ways they mask it. It’s well worth your time.

Particularly because it was produced not by a big New York ad agency, but a pair of Staples High School juniors.

Sydney Carson and Jillian Gault made the video — called “I’m Fine” — as a project for Kelly Shamas’ health class.

They chose this topic because they know depression is all around, and very real.

During their research, they were stunned to find out that only 30% of teenagers with depression are being treated for it.  They used that as their powerful final message.

Click below to see Sydney and Jillian’s video. Be proud of their work.

Then pass it on.

(Hat tip:  Eileen O’Brien)

Julia Marino: X Marks The Spot

On Thursday night, Julia Marino — the greatest snowboarder in Westport history — earned a medal at her 1st-ever X Games, in Aspen.

She finished 3rd in big air (going over one super-huge jump — duh).

Julia Marino

Julia Marino

Today, she competes in slopestyle. (Racing down a course with a variety of obstacles — rails, jumps, that sort of stuff. Points are scored for amplitude, originality and quality of tricks. But you knew that.)

The competition is televised live on ABC. The fun begins at 3:15 p.m. EST.

(Click here for a video of Julia’s bronze medal performance on Thursday.)

I Am More Than …

For a few weeks now, the Westport Arts Center has been asking folks what they are “more than.”

Men, women and kids, old-timers and newcomers, well-known and unknown, politicians and business professionals, artists and athletes, religious figures and atheists — more than 500 people have responded.

They say: “I am more than … a housewife … my bank account … bi-polar … gay … Jewish … a twin … middle-aged … my pretty clothes … a mailman … a bald guy … an immigrant … a nun.”

They say it graphically: with words and photos.

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The images — dramatic and strong — were taken by Xenia Gross.

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Last night, the WAC hosted an opening reception for those dozens of “As We Are” portraits, and hundreds more cards. They’re part of a larger “MORE Than Words” exhibit — dedicated to artistic expressions of gender, racial, religious, geopolitical and age inequality, along with the impact of bullying.

Guests at last night's Westport Arts Center opening reception viewed dozens of "I am more than ..." posters.

Guests at last night’s Westport Arts Center opening reception viewed dozens of “I am more than …” posters.

A picture is indeed worth more than 1,000 words.

Or 7.

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The Westport Arts Center is located at 51 Riverside Avenue. The exhibition continues through March 11. Click here for more information. NOTE: A supporting event — a SlamJam featuring dance, music, rap, poetry, spoken word and song, performed by teens with something to say about empathy — is set for tomorrow (Sunday, January 29, 5 pm) at the Westport Country Playhouse. Click here for more information on that event.

Jos. A. Bank Closure

The Jos. A. Bank men’s store in Colonial Green is closed. And completely empty.

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A sign in the window directs customers to the store in Fairfield, or the website.

This is not the first time an apparel store has closed on this site. Before George Subkoff Antiques, the spot was occupied for many years by Paul Zabin, a children’s clothier.

(Hat tip: Molly Alger)

Friday Flashback #25

A few weeks ago, alert “06880” readers were identified the 1920s-era Flambeau Tea Room.

Now how about the Westover Inn?

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The front view of this postcard — courtesy of Seth Schachter — looks like it really could be in Westport.

Or anywhere else in New England.

I’ve never heard of it. Seth hasn’t either.

But — according to the back of the postcard — it was right there on the Post Road.

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There’s one clue as to its vintage: the phone number. Those were the days when you needed only 5 digits to make a call.

Sometime in the 1950s, Bell introduced the “CA 7” (for CApital) prefix to Westport.

If you have any memories of the Westover Inn, click “Comments.”

And if you know where it was located, we’d really like to know.

Frosty Bear’s Final Scoop

John Hooper — owner of Christie’s Country Store, which leases its gazebo to Frosty Bear ice cream — says:

I am saddened to inform you that Frosty Bear will not open this season. John Martin — aka Frosty — has hit some tough times, and must contract his operations.

I think it’s been a 7-year run. John came to me in 2009 when, as a graphic artist, he was having problems finding jobs. He rented the gazebo and, at the same time, worked for an hourly wage at the cafe in the Darien library. He would rush to us at 2 p.m. in order to open every day.

In time he bought the rights to the cafe, and opened a small ice cream shop in Monroe. His 2 daughters helped out in all locations.

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Frosty Bear at Christie’s Country Store, on Cross Highway.

Selling ice cream is not easy, and many more well-capitalized folks have entered the business selling ice cream or frozen yogurt.

Early last summer, John got tough news that his oldest daughter Lauren, who had just graduated from UConn, was diagnosed with MS. A month later, Alyson was having trouble scooping hard ice cream. She, a UConn student, was diagnosed with the disease as well.

Our customers may have noticed that he had trouble staffing the gazebo this year, and this is why. It got a little worse when his wife Ann, broke her ankle. The challenges have just become too great for him to stay open.

We are so sad to see him go. But you can find John at the Darien Library on the Post Road, and at 695 Main Street, (Rt 25), in Monroe.

Friends Of Trees

There are 3 subjects I know will always generate huge “06880” reader reactions:

Parking. Dogs. And trees.

The first 2 are predictable parts of Westport life. The 3rd may be less intuitive.

But as regularly as power goes out when the wind blows, any time I post a tree story we get comments from readers who mourn the loss of every tree. And from others who say hey, easy come, easy go.

Yet — until the other day — I had no idea that both tree huggers and Paul Bunyans could find common purpose.

That’s when alert — and arboreal-minded — reader Johanna Rossi told me about the Friends of Parks & Recreation’s Arbor Program.

Full disclosure: I didn’t even know the Friends group existed, either. They’re a  public-private partnership that finances worthwhile projects and services, beyond those paid for by tax dollars.

The website of the Friends of Parks & Recreation website includes a photo of the Longshore entrance -- before the removal of several trees lining the entrance way. New trees have taken their place.

The website of the Friends of Parks & Recreation website includes a photo of the Longshore entrance — before the removal of several trees lining the entrance way. New trees have taken their place.

One of those programs can be found on the Friends’ website  under the heading “Trees, Trees, Trees.” Launched last year, it’s a way to honor “the lives and achievements of friends and families.”

Working with Parks and Rec, tree warden Bruce Lindsay identifies locations where he’d like to plant trees. He notes the specimens and species that thrive there.

Donors can choose their location and tree. The price is based on the cost of planting, as well as a fund to support maintenance — fertilizing, watering, pruning, etc. — for 5 years.

Planting takes place in the spring and fall. Photos and biographical info can be displayed alongside the tree.

It’s a “living legacy” for people to celebrate those who, most probably, are no longer living.

There’s even a GPS locator to help identify locations and tree types. Right now, there are 2 sites: Winslow Park and Compo Beach.

Tree warden Bruce Lindsay has a plan to remove dead trees at Winslow Park -- and replace them.

Tree warden Bruce Lindsay has a plan to remove dead trees at Winslow Park — and replace them.

So the next time I post a story about tree removal, don’t click “Comments.”

Instead, donate a tree.

Searching For The Quintessential Westport Shot

The Compo cannons and Minute Man monument. Sherwood Mill and Nash’s Ponds. The Saugatuck and Aspetuck Rivers. The Bridge Street and Post Road bridges.

Those — and many others — are photographers’ favorites. From the water to the Weston border, our town teems with great scenes to shoot.

Now one of those images may land on the cover of the next Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce‘s Visitors/Membership Guide.

And it could be yours.

The Chamber is seeking “quintessential” Westport photos. The last time they asked — in 2015 — they received over 1,000 submissions, from dozens of amateur and professional photographers.

Westporter Mark Litvinoff was the winner, with a gorgeous shot of the Levitt Pavilion.

Mark Litvinoff's winning photo from 2015.

Mark Litvinoff’s winning photo from 2015.

Scores of other images were used inside the 68-page booklet and map. Every winner received photo credit.

Any resident or businessperson from Westport or Weston can submit any number of entries. Send them to matthew@westportwestonchamber.com, with the subject line “Photo Contest.” Deadline is March 1.

“06880” will publish the winning image, and worthy runners-up.

Both Sides Now

It’s been a mild winter so far this year (knock wood).

But that doesn’t mean it hasn’t been interesting. Earlier this morning, Matt Murray admired this cloud formation above Sherwood Mill Pond:

(Photo/Matt Murray)

Click on or hover over to enlarge. (Photo/Matt Murray)