Monthly Archives: February 2010

Brenda Wants To Know…

“06880” is a blog by, for and about Westporters.  But “Westporters” is a very broad concept.

Many folks who left long ago — even those who lived here only briefly — still consider themselves Westporters.  A large number are avid “06880” fans.

One — a woman named Brenda — emailed me last weekend.  She said:

I really enjoy this blog.

I spent my young years in Westport in the 1960’s, and have nostalgia for those days.  I really miss it and dream about it.  It seems so changed, but somehow the same in some ways.

A view any Westporter can relate to.

I grew up off of Main Street and then on Bridge Street.  It was almost magical, even though they seemed like plain ordinary neighborhoods.  The spooky abandoned houses on our street, the embalming fluid factory at the end of our road gave us kids major nightmares!  And the beach, Big Top hamburgers, all of it is etched in my memory.

The book signings at The Remarkable Bookshop, Rico’s Hair Salon on Main, Carrols, the Carousel toy shop — I really wish I had stayed in Westport for my teen to college years.  I visited several times when I lived in NYC in my 20’s.  It was changing then, but still so much the same.

I would love to move back with my husband, but does it in any way resemble the Westport in our day?  The magic in my mind of Westport is perhaps unrealistic from all of the comments I’ve read about how much it has changed.

Thanks for all of these memories.

Brenda is not the 1st person to ask such a question.  It’s a great one — and not easy to answer.  Here’s my attempt, in an email back to her:

Thanks, Brenda — much appreciated.  We definitely grew up in a magical time, and you’ve nailed many important memories, places and events.

Remember Westport Bank & Trust? It's now Patagonia.

So is Westport the same?  Yes and no.  Some nice old homes have been torn down.  Places like Welch’s Hardware, Remarkable and Selective Eye — the stores that made downtown so memorable and homey — are long gone; the chains that replaced them have sucked the soul out of Main Street.

Kids don’t ride their bikes all over town; they don’t walk to school; they don’t play running bases at the end of cul-de-sacs.

BUT — you hoped this was coming — many newcomers are as involved in Westport as our parents were.  They are intelligent, creative, hard-working, and just as dedicated to making this a true community as previous generations.  They’re doing good things for others, and having a great time in the process.

Our school system is in tremendous shape.  I know Staples best — and with a dynamic principal, an outstanding staff, superb facilities and a remarkable student body, this could be the “best” Staples has ever been (however you measure such a thing).  That’s really saying something.  From everything I see and hear the middle schools and elementary schools are also highly regarded, and in excellent shape.

Despite being overbuilt (and over-banked), Westport remains an incredibly beautiful town. As Longshore celebrates its 50th anniversary as a municipal park; Compo retains its grace and allure; trees grow, leaves turn and snow falls — this really is a special place.

You didn’t say where you live now.  But if you’re close by, I hope you can get to the Westport Historical Society on Saturday, March 6.  From 1-4 p.m. there’s a party celebrating a very cool map and exhibit of “Main Street Memories.”  It’s dedicated to the downtown of the 1960s.  You’ll enjoy looking back — but you can also see Westport’s present, and envision our future.

I hope that helps.  Thanks again for writing.  I’d love to see you on March 6 — and, soon after, as a neighbor.

That’s my 2 cents.  But I’m just one guy.  I invite other Westporters — wherever in the world you live — to toss in your own thoughts.  Click the “Comments” tab at the top or bottom of this post.

Let’s give Brenda a piece of our Westport minds.

Max Orland Joins The Red Sox

Max Orland always dreamed of working with the Boston Red Sox.

Four years after graduating from Staples, he can strike that off his to-do list.

Max Orland

A 4-year student manager for the University of Delaware baseball team, Max has left the Blue Hens for the BoSox.  Right now he’s in Fort Myers, Florida, working as an operations and equipment intern during spring training.

Max prepared for this opportunity for years — and never let his speech and language disability get in the way.  At Staples he was part of the baseball team.  During summers he worked with the Bridgeport Bluefish and Pawtucket Red Sox.

Since his first day at Delaware, he’s been an invaluable member of their athletic department.

In addition to his baseball work, Max assisted the men’s basketball team.  According to BlueHens.com, his “positive demeanor and undying energy” were hallmarks of his Newark career.

Delaware baseball coach Jim Sherman called Max’s service with the Red Sox “our loss for the next 6 weeks. When Max isn’t around, you realize how much he does.  From getting the equipment ready, to doing all the preparations for practices and games, those are all things we’re going to miss.”

Sherman said the team will also miss “Max’s humor in the dugout.”

Max finishes out this spring, having earned 60 credits.  He will receive an advanced certificate in sport management.  And a major league job already under his belt.

One More Eyesore

Last summer, “06880”  turned a disapproving eye on “the ugliest building in Westport“: the Quonset hut behind the Boat Locker, on the Post Road off North Maple Avenue.

Within seconds — well, a few weeks — it was cleaned up.  It’s not exactly the Taj Mahal, but at least it’s no longer Calcutta.

Today’s target is the building between the fire station and the old Curran Cadillac — across from Five Guys, to use the most modern GPS.

It was abandoned around the time Chuck Berry sang about Maybelline‘s Coupe de Ville.

Since then it’s been all downhill.

Rotting wood, chipped paint, busted gutters — not a shred of evidence that anyone cares about the property, or plans to do something with it.

Will “06880’s” eyesore-cleaning lightning strike twice?

Stay tuned.

Remembering Lou Santella

Lou Santella died today in Florida.

Lou Santella

We’ve lost more than a great, gregarious Westporter.  And we’ve lost more than a beloved barber.  For years Lou was the unofficial mayor of Saugatuck.  As that storied part of town races toward redevelopment — his old Riverside Barber Shop is already closed — we’ve lost one more important link to our past.

Years ago, I wrote a “Woog’s World” column on Saugatuck.  The idea wasn’t mine; it was Lou’s.  We were talking at the Italian Festival, and he said, “You never write anything about Saugatuck.”

He was right.

He said that Saugatuck is “the real Westport — the soul of the town.”  He offered to give me a tour.  I jumped at the chance.

We started, fittingly, in his barber shop.  Gesturing broadly — with his big hands — Lou said, “No matter where they live, people from here consider Saugatuck home.”

Without pausing to think, Lou rattled off a list of families.  There were judges, policemen, teachers, contractors, firemen, restaurant owners, and everything in between.

Capasse.   Anastasia.  Luciano.  Cribari.  Giunta.  Caruso.  D’Aiuto.  Dorta.  Romano.  De Mattio.  Arciola.  De Mace.  D’Amico.  Manere.  Capuano.  Arcudi.  Melillo.  Rubino.  Caputo.  Tiberio.  Bottone.   Nazzaro.  Saviano.  Reitano.  Valiante.  Tedesco.  Gilbertie.  Nistico.

Those were his people.  We got in his big car, so he could show me his world.

Lou drove up Charles Street, where St. Anthony’s Festival once reigned every summer.  He pointed to a nondescript building.  Tucked away under the roof was a statue of Saugatuck’s patron saint.  “As far as my mother was concerned, Jesus works for St. Anthony,” Lou joked.

On Franklin Street Lou described the grape arbors, plum trees and beautiful gardens of years gone by.

Then he motioned to a parking lot.  “The house I was born in used to be here,” Lou said.  “And over there was a little grocery store.  My uncle owned it.  You could get anything there.”

Lou Santella and his wife Marge.

Every few yards brought a new story:  how the Nisticos founded the original Arrow restaurant, on the corner of Franklin and Saugatuck.  The pub that sat where Dunville’s is now.  The devastation I-95 caused when it was built.  “People had to move,” Lou noted.  “Not far, but out.”

On Saugatuck, near the Exit 17 northbound ramp, I gazed right past a green plot of land.  “I used to live there too,” Lou said quietly.

We turned onto the oddly named Dr. Gillette Circle, but I didn’t even have to ask.  “They built this when the highway came through,” Lou said.  “A lot of these houses were moved here.  Dr. Gillette was our doctor.  He was a very special man.”

And so it went.  I saw a bank branch office; Lou saw the wooden row houses that once stood there, and the fireworks that always made the firemen work overtime.  I stared at the unsightly Charles Street office complex; Lou described the store it replaced, owned by Joe Arcudi’s father.  And Luciano Park — well, it’s been in Saugatuck even longer than Lou (though the name dates “only” to the late ’60s), but Lou remembers the bocce courts there.

Our tour ended back at Lou’s barber shop.  Across the street, he explained, was the old Sons of Italy hall, and a cable grip factory.

“This is the heart and soul of Westport,” Lou repeated.  “I’m so proud I grew up here.  No doubt about it.”

I’m so proud to have taken that tour.  I’m so proud to have known Lou, to have called him a friend, and to have been able to describe his Saugatuck — in his own words, far more eloquent than mine — to the rest of Westport.

Lou’s death is more than a loss to Saugatuck, and the entire town.  It’s the end of an era we will never see again.

Grazie, Lou Santella.  Grazie.

Lynsey Addario In Afghanistan

Westport is justly proud of our trio of world-famous photojournalists:  Lynsey Addario, Tyler Hicks and Spencer Platt.  All are Staples graduates from the 1980s.

Last week, both Lynsey (the recipient of a MacArthur “Genius” Fellowship and a 2009 Pulitzer Prize) and Tyler (who shared that 2009 Pulitzer for International Reporting) have had gripping photos in the New York Times, from Afghanistan and Haiti.

Now check out the February 21 edition of Time magazine.  Lynsey has contributed an insightful photo-essay on medical evaluation units in Afghanistan.

In the 1950s and ’60s, Famous Photographers School made Westport proud.  Five decades later, 3 home-grown photojournalists are doing the same.

Lynsey Addario captures the urgency of a medical evacuation. (Photo courtesy of Time magazine)

Haiti Collection Snag — Any Solutions?

People in Haiti still need our help. (Photo credit: AP/Jorge Cruz)

“06880” reader Wendy Newton no longer lives in Westport.  But she read a recent post about a 1-day collection of important items for Haiti, and she wanted to help.  She packed up clothes, bedding — whatever she could find — to bring here.

Bad weather delayed her trip.  Now she’s learned that the collection has been almost too successful.

The shipper quoted a figure of $5,000 for the near-containerful of goods that is warehoused, ready for Winy Cedon to take to Haiti for distribution.  That’s almost $3,000 more than the initial projected cost.

Organizers are desperate to come up with a couple of fundraising ideas — or angels to make monetary donations.  Action is needed as quickly as possible.

“06880” readers are a creative, committed bunch.  Click the “Comments” tab at the top or bottom of this post to offer suggestions — or contact Karen Hube (karen_hube@yahoo.com) directly.

Getting a container filled with goods was the hard part.  Finding funds to get them to Haiti should be easy.

Get Buzzed

Uh oh.

As if Facebook, Twitter, Google Reader and all things David Pogue weren’t enough, I just fell into another time suck.

Buzz.

Google’s latest offering — for those living under a rock, or who spent winter break on a cruise ship with usurious internet access fees — is the newest salvo in the social networking wars.  Ripping off some of Facebook and Twitter’s best features, it’s like an RSS feed on ‘roids.

And because it’s Google, it’s both unfathomably interesting and somewhat controversial.

Because I already had a Gmail account — but hardly ever used it — I wasn’t burned by the early catastrophic rollout, which (without asking) added your most frequent email contacts to your Buzz list, then published it for all the world to see.  (“All the world” included, for example, abusive ex-spouses you had to communicate with because of your kid, and journalists’ uber-secret sources and tipsters.)

So I was lucky.  Without a predetermined Buzz list, I could build my own.  I dug into my Outlook contacts, saw which ones had Gmail accounts, and added them to Buzz.

I waited all of about 6 seconds for something to happen.  John Blossom — a Westport-based media and online analyst — buzzed about — well, Buzz.  That was quickly followed by something on Apple.  Then a story about his own book, “Content Nation.”

Each of his buzzes included graphics, clickable links, and comments from John’s followers.  He responded to them; they responded back.  It was a conversation in real time — about topics I’m interested in.  (One of the raps on social networking — “Who wants to hear what someone had for breakfast?” — is unfounded, so far, on Buzz.  The ability to upload photos and videos steers most folks away from the mundane.  But if you must know, it was an everything bagel and coffee.)

Fiddling around, I realized I could click on a list of everyone else following John — and everyone John was following.  Most names meant nothing to me, but I culled 1 or 2 I recognized as media bigwigs.

I had better luck with former Staples student Charles Gallant.  A web developer in New York, his list led me to a number of clever, insightful Staples alums.  Charles buzzes often.  Some of his stories I’ve seen already — thanks to my Google Reader subscriptions to sites like Gizmodo and LifeHacker — but much is also fresh and thought-provoking.

And time-consuming.

Make no mistake:  Buzz is as addictive as Facebook or Twitter.  It is not something to dive into lightly.  You must be prepared to sacrifice some area of your life, such as sleeping or eating.

Well, those are overrated anyway.

So come on, Westporters.  Go ahead.  Follow me.  I’ll follow you.

And none of us will get any work done, ever again.

Stony Brook Assault

Part of the Sillan house on Stony Brook Road, from a contemporary newspaper photo

The news that federal help is being sought in the search for 2 suspects in a Stony Brook Road sexual assault brought back memories of another even more heinous crime on that same road, nearly 50 years ago.

According to the November 23, 1962 issue of Time magazine:

On Veterans Day last week, the sun had risen to brighten woodsy Westport, in Connecticut’s suburban Fairfield County.  It was a holiday for schoolchildren and some of their parents.  At 9 o’clock in the morning, Westport looked just like the sort of place people think of when they want to epitomize a sophisticated, upper-middle-income suburban community.  Manhattan is only 52 miles away, but Westport. with its carefully tended property and its comfortable homes, seems impervious to the cacophony of city life.

By 9, Textile Designer Pierre Sillan had left his $75,000 Westport home for his Manhattan office.  His two sons were not at home; one was with the armed forces in Germany, the other at college. His 14-year-old daughter Gail got out of bed, put on a bed jacket and started downstairs.  Suddenly, a tall, mustached Negro grabbed her, looped a cord round her neck, dragged her back into her bedroom, locked the door and began choking her.  She fainted, and when she awoke, she heard noises downstairs.  Rushing into the living room, she found the man strangling her mother.  She leaped on him to tear him away, but the man was too much for Gail and her mother.  He forced them into the mother’s bedroom.  Mrs. Sillan pleaded with him:  “Do you want money?”  “No,” he replied.  “Why are you doing this?” cried Gail.  “Why do you hate us?”  Said he:  “Not because I hate you. but you wouldn’t understand anyway.”

With that, he again began choking Gail.  Again she lost consciousness, and when she came to, the assailant was choking her mother on the bed.  Gail screamed, and the man dragged her to her own bedroom, tied her hands and returned once more to attack her mother.  Soon, he got back to Gail, wrapped her in a blanket, hauled her out to his car, threw her in the back and drove away.

For hours he cruised aimlessly around the countryside. Once, when he stopped to light a cigarette, Gail asked,  “What are you going to do now?”  “I haven’t made up my mind yet,” he said.  He drove off again, stopped at one point to move Gail into the trunk of the car.  Later, after sundown, he put her back into the rear seat, tied her hands to a door handle, went into a grill in nearby Norwalk, bought a chicken sandwich and gave it to Gail.  Then he raped her.

Afterwards, she begged him to get her a drink of water, and when the man got out of the car, Gail painfully slid her bound wrists off the door handle, pushed the door open with her head, and staggered away toward a house in the neighborhood.  It was around 8 p.m.  An hour earlier, the police had arrived at the Sillan home.  Pierre Sillan had returned and found his wife dead.

The terror and tragedy that had struck the Sillan household left Westport in shock.  Householders locked doors, double-checked windows and waited in dark apprehension, as if time itself had been suspended.  The police, meanwhile, worked methodically and got on the trail fast.  They discovered that a handyman named Harlis Miller, 31, had not reported for work the day following the crime; he had disappeared with his common-law wife Rosalie.  He fitted Gail’s description of a handyman she had seen working in the neighborhood; he had worked once at the Sillan place.

George Marks was one of the officers who flew south, after a 4-day nationwide manhunt.  Earlier today — long since retired — he recalled the trip.
Because Miller and his wife were handcuffed, the airlines refused to let them board.  Marks and another officer rented a car, and spent 24 hours driving north.  When they stopped for food, or to use bathrooms, it was at small police stations along the way.
Westport has been lucky.  We’ve had very few crimes like this in our history.
But long-time residents — especially Marks, and those on Stony Brook Road — have never forgotten the Sillan family.

Huff Po Here

Some Westporters love the Huffington Post.  Others hate it.

Mary Ann West writes for it.

The Westport resident — who in real life is a screenwriter with her own production company — is a regular contributor to the popular news site/blog that’s popularly called “the progressive counterpart to the Drudge Report.”

It’s not, of course.  The news on HuffPo is actually true; the opinions far more intelligent, and the writing much better.

You can argue any of those points, of course, but 1 thing is certain:  Mary Ann West nails some pretty good topics.

She began her Huffington Post career during the 2008 presidential campaign, contributing pieces to the “Off the Bus” civilian journalist project.  Her big break came on August 7 of that year, when her report on TEAM Westport’s open forum — asking whether America was ready for a black president — was featured on the website’s front page.

Since then, Mary Ann has written on everything from receiving a dinner invitation from Newt Gingrich (she opted out of sending $50 and entering a lottery for the opportunity); the fallout from Chris Dodd’s decision not to run for re-election (it was heavy with wrestling references, thanks to the entry of WWE president Linda McMahon), and giving a lap dance as a Christmas present.

That latter story referenced Bedroom Matters — the Westport intimacy boutique that recently closed.  Mary Ann often includes Westport references — another one cited Homes for Hope as a great community response to homelessness — though her readers may be in Iowa, Israel or Istanbul.  Bringing global issues to the local level — and vice versa — is a key to successful blogging.

Such writing does not come easily to Mary Ann.  She is more comfortable writing long pieces.  She spends a lot of time “fixing” — editing and chopping — but the results are worth it.  Her words reach an international audience.

Still — and despite plenty of travel, like a recent North American tour in which she interviewed a cross-section of people about health care and the recession — Mary Ann remains committed to Westport.  She is a Red Cross disaster volunteer, and is very active in the Saugatuck Congregational Church.

Among her church projects:  the Farmers Market, which last year donated 10,000 pounds of goods to a Bridgeport food pantry; an upcoming fundraiser for outreach efforts and women-oriented workshops; and June’s intriguing Field of Flags (details coming soon).

Mary Ann was co-chair of Westport’s Community Gardens, back in the “raw dirt” days.

“Westport is a really good community,” she says.  “It allows us all to be as creative and active as we want to be.”

Sounds like just another of Mary Ann West’s crazy progressive notions.

Giving Turtle

At Staples, Zach Weiner was one of those students everyone knew was going somewhere.

After graduating in 2008, Zach went first to Stanford University.

Now he’s going to change the world.  And he’s doing it 1 charity at a time.

Zach Weiner

Zach and a few Stanford friends are the brains behind GivingTurtle.org.  The layout is as simple as the  idea:  If plenty of people give a dollar a day — or even a week — amazing things can happen.  Giving Turtle proves the power of micro-philanthropy — and the democratization of donations.

Each day, the site features a different organization.  Yesterday it was Gumball Capital — a non-profit that inspires students to fight poverty through entrepreneurship.

Visitors to Giving Turtle are encouraged to donate $1 (or more, of course).  But the good feeling of giving doesn’t end there:  Logged-in users are able to vote for a charity, from a list.  The winner becomes the next day’s featured charity.

When I checked yesterday, FaceAIDS — a student-run group that funds HIV projects in Rwanda — was in the lead.  Unicef, QuestBridge and several other very worthy charities trailed.

Users can also suggest their favorite non-profit for inclusion.

What can $1 do?  Zach says that if just 1 percent of Facebook users donate $1 a month, GivingTurtle would raise $36 million a year.

Don’t be surprised if the numbers so far look low.  The site just launched on Monday.  Already, though, it’s 1 of 5 finalists for the South by Southwest People’s Choice Web Awards.

Zach encourages Westporters to use Giving Turtle to donate, vote and submit new charities — and spread the word.

If so, Giving Turtle can take off like a hare.

(For updates, follow @givingturtle on Twitter.)

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