Monthly Archives: February 2010

Remembering Rudy Mutter

The obituary may pass with little notice:  Rudy Mutter, 82, died Saturday.

Rudy Mutter

He hadn’t lived in Westport in many years.  Most recently he was back in his hometown of Easthampton, Mass.  But he spent 30 years here, and made a mark on this town in ways we don’t see much anymore.

Though a high-ranking executive with American Standard and Nestle, Rudy found time for a broad range of civic activities.  He served on the RTM; was chairman of the Board of Education; joined the Republican Town Committee; volunteered with the League of Women Voters; was an active participant in the Saugatuck Congregational Church, and was a founder, longtime member and chairman of the board of the Saugatuck Nursery School.

In 2001 he wrote and published a family history, chronicling his family’s journey “from Old Germany to New England.”

After moving from here, he continued his active ways.  He was an RTM member in Easthampton; helped manage the family-owned 430-acre tree farm in New Hampshire, and was a key member of many forestry, mountaineering and outdoor clubs.  He and his wife were avid bike riders, on the C&O Canal, on Cape Cod, and through Elderhostels in Europe.

It’s not true that there are no more Rudy Mutter types around.

But the woods aren’t full of them, either.

(Memorial gifts may be made to the  Saugatuck Nursery School, 245 Post Rd. E., Westport, CT 06880.)

Today’s Obligatory Winter-Looks-Lovely Photo

This morning’s snowfall makes even the Westport Y seem beautiful.

If you’re not in Westport today:  Eat your heart out.

Or not.

Hail To The Chiefs

America celebrated Presidents Day yesterday in the usual manner:  with special sales, no mail delivery, and absolutely no thought given to Zachary Taylor, Benjamin Harrison or Gerald Ford, let alone actual presidents like Thomas Jefferson, Theodore Roosevelt and (the big one) William Howard Taft.

Westport — a national leader in areas like hedge funds, education and nannies — would seem to be a natural for presidents too.

We’re not.

Besides passing through on the railroad or highway, our town has few connections with our commanders-in-chief.

George Washington, of course, slept here — he slept everywhere.  In 1780 he is said to have discussed war strategy with the Marquis de Lafayette and Comte de  Rochambeau at the Disbrow Tavern (where Christ & Holy Trinity Church is today).  He returned twice in 1789 as president, coming and going on an inspection tour of the Northeast.  He spent 1 night at the Marvin Tavern — located on the Post Road, opposite King’s Highway South — but did not have a bang-up time.  In his diary, he called it “not a good house.”

This may be the only time Millard Fillmore appears in my blog. Or any blog.

Millard Fillmore was a guest at Richard Winslow’s “Compo House” mansion on the North Compo/Post Road corner (it later became a sanitarium, then was torn down before tear-downs became fashionable).  But he was here 6 years after he left office.

Abraham Lincoln supposedly stayed at Hockanum, Morris Ketchum’s Cross Highway estate near Roseville Road, during his presidency.  Woody Klein‘s history of Westport says only that Salmon P. Chase — Lincoln’s Secretary of the Treasury — was a frequent guest.  Hockanum still stands; there is a “Lincoln bedroom” upstairs, and the deed states that no changes can be made to that room.

Franklin D. Roosevelt spoke on the steps of the YMCA’s Bedford Building during his re-election campaign of 1936.  He was the 1st sitting president to visit since George Washington.  In addition, FDR’s grandson David lived here for several years in the 1990s.  And FDR’s wife, Eleanor, often visited Lillian Wald’s South Compo “Pond House.”  I know, I’m stretching here…

Hey hey, LBJ...

Lyndon Johnson was friendly with Supreme Court Justice Abe Fortas — so friendly that that helped scuttle Fortas’ nomination to be Chief Justice in 1968.  Fortas had a summer home on Minuteman Hill, and some beach residents say that Johnson was an occasional guest.

Bill Clinton trolled here for money, before and during his presidency.  As president he attended fundraisers at the Inn at National Hall, and a private home on Saugatuck Avenue.  Both were low-key affairs, if you don’t count the 25-car motorcades, sharpshooters on top of buildings and helicopters whirling overhead.

Westport has had better luck with presidential candidates.  Like Bill (and Hillary) Clinton, in recent years many have made their way here — more for fund-raising than actual vote-seeking.  Who knows?  Soon, Sarah Palin may come to town.

I’d prefer Millard Fillmore.

A Diverse Question

You can find answers to anything on the web:  Every song recorded by Moby Grape.  How long it takes to fly to Uranus.

And what’s it’s like to be Indian in Westport.

City-Data.com is one of those websites you stumble upon, looking for something else.  It provides statistics on towns all over the US — and a forum to post questions about them.

Recently, someone said:

Hi all.  I posted a while back asking advice on Norwalk since we were primarily house hunting in East Norwalk.  During that process, we fell in love with the city.  Ends up that we found a home in Westport, CT for a pretty good deal.  I am anxious and excited about the move.

We are of Indian background and my main concern about Westport is its lack of diversity.  Does anyone have any insight on diversity moving to the area or the attitude towards other races in the town?  I hear it’s a pretty liberal town and not as exclusive as groups in Darien can be?  But I don’t know….

I have a 14 month old and am 7 months pregnant with my next child so we will have young kids living there with us and don’t plan on moving any time soon.  I am happy that the schools in Westport are excellent so the kids do benefit.

We checked out the library on one visit AND LOVED IT.

Any advice, tips, suggestions, resources for young families just starting out in Westport and activities for kids would be very much appreciated!

There was 1 reply:

Welcome to Ct.!  Westport is a fabulous town, and very welcoming to families…. I don’t think you’ll have any difficulties settling in at all.  They have a “Newcomers” club, which will help you meet other families, do some activities, and get to know the town.

That was a decent response (and it included a link to New Neighbors of Westport).  But it did not go far enough.

TEAM Westport tackles multiculturalism and diversity issues.

There was no mention of TEAM Westport — the town’s committee on multiculturalism, which has moved far beyond the usual black/white/Hispanic nexus to explore Westport’s ethnic, religious and sexual orientation diversity.  (Their comprehensive “Living in Westport” newsletter answers many questions about diversity.)

There was nothing said about the fact that a few dozen languages are spoken in our schools.

There was nothing about our 50-year celebration of jUNe Day — or the burgeoning Indian population that lives here in town.

There are several ways to interpret the fact that only 1 person responded to the soon-to-be-new resident’s question about Westport.

Perhaps our diversity is not well known.

Maybe our attitude to it is so matter-of-fact that no one felt the need to comment or explain.

Or maybe no one reads the forum section of City-Data.com.

Be Billy Elliot

Hey Westport kids:  Got nothing to do over winter break?

Audition for “Billy Elliot”!

The national touring company is holding auditions this week at New York’s  Pearl Studios.

Want to be the next Billy?  If you’re between 9 and 12 years old, and no taller than 4-10, be there this Thursday (Feb. 18) at 10 a.m.  You should have strong dance, ballet and/or tap talents, as well as an unbroken voice.  It’s probably good to be pretty far from puberty too.

Auditions for Michael (maximum height 4-10; natural actor with a strong singing voice; “funny, a real kid”) and Small Boy (no taller than 3-7; “ability to listen on stage, concentrate, and not fidget”) take place Thursday at 1 p.m.

Girls get their chance this Saturday, Feb. 20 at 10 a.m.  The casting folks seek “a variety of sizes, shapes and types, with expressive character and lots of personality, not the traditional ballerina.”

Click here for further details.

PS:  “All ethnicities are encouraged to attend.”

UConn Basketball Coach Leads Staples Wreckers

Jim Calhoun made headlines yesterday.  It was easy:  The $1.6 million-a-year University of Connecticut men’s basketball coach returned to the bench following a 23-day health-related leave of absence.

What’s that have to do with “06880”?  After all, Staples’ best player in years — John Baumann — ended up at Columbia University, not Storrs.  The Wreckers are not known for producing Husky hoopsters — or any Big East players, in fact.

George Wigton

Long before Calhoun, UConn was led by another legendary coach: Hugh Greer.  He died at age 60 of a heart attack, in the middle of the 1962-63 season.  His place was taken by assistant basketball coach George Wigton.

Wigton led the Huskies to an 11-4 record, the Yankee Conference championship, and the 2nd round of the NCAA tournament.  His reward?  His contract was not renewed.

So he went to Staples High School.  He served for 1 year as basketball coach (and assistant football coach), before heading to Bates College.

Wigton remained at the Maine school for 30 years.  When he retired in 1996, as the revered coach of men’s basketball, men’s soccer, men’s and women’s tennis, and men’s and women’s squash — and assistant director of athletics — Bates named a scholar-athlete award in his  honor.  Last fall he was inducted into the New England Basketball Hall of Fame.

George Wigton’s Westport year is just a footnote in a storied career.  Few UConn basketball fans have heard of him — hey, they don’t even remember Hugh Greer.

But on a weekend when Jim Calhoun returns to action, and basketball fans are thinking about the Olympic-size spectacle known as the NCAA men’s basketball tournament, it’s nice to recall a time when the UConn basketball coach made a pit stop on the Staples sidelines.

Read All Day

Last year, Nina Sankovitch read a book a day.  For a full year.

You would think that after such a project she would take a much-earned rest, curling up with, say, a few good episodes of “Jersey Shore.”

You would think wrong.

The environmental lawyer spends her time maintaining Read All Day, the website that began with her reviews of those 365 books she read.

Nina Sankovitch will read anywhere.

The site now contains over 400 reviews in a wide range of categories:  novels, memoirs, mysteries, short stories, teens, tennis (!), love and sex, and sorrow (interesting that those 2 categories are listed next to each other).

You can browse by authors or book title, and sign up for email alerts.

Nina has cut back from 1 review a day, to only 2-3 a week.  She also links to articles on books that she puts on Huffington Post.

She is amazed that readers around the world have found her site — and contacted her with comments and book recommendations.  She is having “global conversations about books” — and loving it.

In all her spare time, Nina is writing a book about her book-a-day year — why she did it, and how she leads a life of reading for comfort, pleasure, knowledge and thrills.

On Feb. 12, Nina is the star attraction at the Westport Library’s “Booklover’s Bash.”  She’ll drink wine, eat cheese and talk about books with other bibliophiles.

“Read All Day”‘s tagline is:  “Great Good Comes From Reading Great Books.”

Great good comes from Nina Sankovitch, too.

Jeff Wieser Heads Homes With Hope

After his international banking career took him to Australia and Hong Kong, in 1985 Jeff Wieser was posted to New York.  He lived in Westport, but did not feel part of either this town or the city.

“My community was the train,” he says ruefully.

Jeff Wieser

Hoping to engage more with his hometown, he joined Christ & Holy Trinity Church‘s outreach program.  That’s how he met Rev. Peter Powell, the president and CEO of Homes With Hope (formerly the Interfaith Housing Association) — the long-running organization that helps homeless Westporters lead independent, self-sufficient lives.

Jeff joined the board, but soon was transferred to Canada.  When he returned — eagerly — to Westport in 1995, he quickly re-involved himself with IHA.

He served as chairman from 1998 to 2002 — a “wonderful experience” — and remained on the board thereafter.  A year ago, when Rev. Powell announced his retirement, Jeff helped search for a successor.

Some excellent candidates applied, but when — for various reasons — no one was hired, Jeff began thinking about applying himself.  The decision, he says, was “spiritual and exciting.  It was almost like it was meant to happen.”

The 57-year-old felt energized by “the chance to do something full time that I’ve been passionate about for years.”  Homes With Hope is, he says, “a born and bred Westport organization.  It’s one of the very few in the country in an affluent suburb.”

Homes With Hope represents “the incredibly generosity of Westporters who have carried it for so many years,” he says.  Only 10 percent of the budget — about $160,000 — is funded by the state, he notes.  The rest comes from individuals, businesses, foundations and the religious community.

When Jeff assumes his new duties as president and CEO next month, his main task will be “making sure the transition is smooth.  It’s been run for 22 years by a great guy.  My job will be to help it continue to thrive, and be as good a neighbor as we have been for 25 years.”

He faces 2 main challenges:  Providing services every day to 70 or so people who rely on them, and raising funds.

Happily, he says, “we have a great staff.  They’ve been there for quite a while, and they’re excellent.”

Jeff started this interview with a train anecdote, and he ends with one.

One day, riding to New York, he told a friend from Darien about his IHA work.

“You have homeless people in Westport?” the friend asked.

“Yes,” Jeff replied.  “And you do in Darien too.  The difference is, we take care of ours.”

Soon, Jeff Wieser will have an entire homeless organization to take care of.  He can’t wait to begin.

Nick Georgis Is Writing His Memoirs; Wants Stories

For 3 decades, Nick Georgis was a beloved figure at Staples High School.  He taught physics — and through his K1UAT Ham Radio Club introduced hundreds of students to that intriguing hobby.  When he contacted fellow ham radio operators Barry Goldwater and King Hussein, his classroom overflowed with eager listeners.

After retiring he designed Nerdkards, a  series of baseball-like trading cards — portraying famous scientists and mathematicians.

Now 82, Nick is writing his memoirs.  He’s calling it Mr. G’s Odyssey B.A. (before Alzheimer’s sets in).

He’s looking for anecdotes, stories, photos — anything — from anyone who remembers him from Staples.  To be included in what he calls “this classic piece of science classroom drama,” email nicholas.georgis@sbcglobal.net, or call 203-926-0286.

Nick Georgis: Physics teacher, ham radio operator, Nerdkards creator

The Lou Nistico Fieldhouse

Athletic fields around Westport bear the names of men and women who contributed greatly to the youth of this town:  Albie Loeffler.  Jinny Parker.  Doc Doubleday.

Without knowing it, every time we mention those sites, we honor an important part of Westport’s past.

So why have we forgotten the “Lou Nistico” part of Lou Nistico Athletic Complex?

The reflection of lights, and an exercise machine placed in front, don't detract from this portrait of Lou Nistico near the fieldhouse.

Staples’ enormous fieldhouse — where people of all ages run, pole vault, long jump, wrestle, play basketball, hit baseballs, kick soccer balls, toss lacrosse balls (sometimes all simultaneously), and swelter during graduation ceremonies each June — is named for a man as gargantuan as the indoor space itself.

Lou Nistico was a co-owner of the Arrow Restaurant.  It was a family place that defined Saugatuck — all of Westport, really — for generations.  But calling him a restaurateur is like saying da Vinci “liked to draw.”

Lou loved this town — particularly its young people.  He would do anything for them — and often did.  He gave them jobs.  He invited teams to drop by after games, and fed them for free.  He bought clothes  so athletes and musicians could look good at banquets and concerts.  He paid for college educations.

And he did it all quietly, unobtrusively — no mean feat for a man who tipped the scales at 400 pounds.  (He was weighed once at Gault — true story.)

Lou Nistico did many other things for Westport.  He was the kind of guy who — through force of personality and physical presence — cut through crap red tape, and got highway departments and police officers to do what was good for the town, back in the days when such things were possible (or at least not likely to be videotaped or blogged about).

Though Italian through and through, Lou would’ve been proud to be called a mensch.

When the Staples fieldhouse was built 30 years ago, it was named for Lou Nistico.  A larger-than-life portrait by Ralph Ruta was hung in the hallway, by the pool.  “Lou Nistico Athletic Complex” was written in large letters above the outside entrance.  Almost immediately, everyone forgot.

In 3 decades, I have never heard the fieldhouse called by its proper name.  Newspapers, Channel 12, Staples broadcasters — all refer to it simply as “the fieldhouse.”

It’s hard to overlook a man as big — or as big-hearted — as Lou Nistico.  But Westport has managed to do just that.

(Thanks to Red Izzo and Paul Lane for suggesting this post.  They note that the Wilton High School fieldhouse — named for longtime Westporter and former Wilton athletic director/coach Nick Zeoli — has suffered a similar fate.  But that’s a story for an “06897” blog.)

The sign at the entrance to the Lou Nistico Fieldhouse shows its age.