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Interfaith Vigil Mourns Peace Advocates

“06880” intern Katherine Phelps reports:

Jesup Green — for decades, a gathering place in times of both crisis and celebration — was the site last night of an interfaith vigil.

Over 200 people honored Sarah Milgrim and Yaron Lischinsky. The young peace advocates were killed last week, while attending a Jewish American Heritage Month event at the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington.

The vigil was personal and communal. It was a time for mourning, reflection, and expressions of commitment to justice and solidarity. 

The vigil begins.

The vigil drew clergy of various faiths, elected officials, and neighbors of all backgrounds.

Among the speakers was Rabbi Jeremy Wiederhorn of The Community Synagogue. He also chairs the Westport/Weston Interfaith Clergy Association.

“Tonight’s gathering was powerful because it brought together clergy, elected officials, and the broader community to stand together against antisemitism,” he said. “As a rabbi serving a congregation during this difficult time, this show of unity and support brought me strength and pride to live in a town like Westport.”

Clergy from across Fairfield County called for unity and resistance to hate. Reverend Carl McCluster of the Baptist Church in Bridgeport noted, “An attack against anyone is an attack against everyone. I am a neighbor who will not be silenced.”

Rabbi Michael Friedman of Temple Israel. 

Congressman Jim Himes — who knew Sarah Milgrim, and called her a “shining light” — offered a reminder of the work ahead, and how change can always be made. 

“Your faith is shaken by the unknowable question of how someone can be taken just like that,” he said.

“We will teach our children to never take the lives of others, especially based on religion. It is our schools and our religious institutions that must propagate against violence.”

The event also included remarks by Rabbis Michael Friedman and Yehuda Kantor of Westport; Rev. Heather Sinclair of the United Methodist Church of Westport and Weston, and Rev. Carl McCluster from Bridgeport, who was recently in Israel.

Rev. Heather Sinclair of the United Methodist Church of Westport and Weston.

Senator Richard Blumenthal spoke, as did 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker. She assured the Jewish community that Westport is a safe place for all.

Senator Richard Blumenthal. In the front row behind him are (from left): Rev. Carl McCluster of Bridgeport’s Baptist Church, Congressman Jim Himes, Rev. Heather Sinclair and 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker.

Marking the 600th day that hostages have remained in captivity following the October 7 Hamas attack, the gathering resonated with grief, but also resilience.

Joe Weisz, a senior official with the US Department of Homeland Security overseeing community engagement in Fairfield County, emphasized the urgency of “denouncing hatred toward Jews” and “advocating for internal dialogue and understanding.” He reminded the gathering that Sarah had dedicated her life to “peace-building and religious understanding.”

Rabbi Jason Greenberg of Norwalk’s Temple Shalom in Norwalk led the gathering in singing “We Will Rise.” Rabbi Evan Schultz of Congregation B’nai Israel in Bridgeport, shared the commandment: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

Erika Brunwasser, a longtime Westport resident, and the founder of the online community Jewish Westport, called the event “deeply important to me. I was horrified when I heard about the murder of these two beautiful souls — peacemakers and activists — who were shot and killed simply for attending a Jewish Heritage Month event.”

The gathering on Jesup Green. (All photos/Dan Woog)

She emphasized the importance of public response and community strength. 

“It is crucial to stand together in solidarity against terrorism, to gather with friends and neighbors in the Westport Jewish community and with those incredible allies who support us.

“I will always do all that I can to raise awareness — not only to honor my grandfather, who survived the Holocaust, but also the memory of my other family members who weren’t lucky enough to survive.”

Another Jewish resident said, “It was important for me to attend the vigil to honor the lives lost and be a strong part of a community that speaks out against hatred, violence, and antisemitism.

“Despite gathering on behalf of a deeply painful and troubling event, the collective experience was heartwarming. The songs sung and the prayers said were deeply touching and provided an opportunity for healing.”

Teens Turn Antisemitism Into Teachable Moment

A disturbing antisemitic incident has had a very positive outcome.

Late Monday evening, Rabbi Michael Friedman sent this message to his Temple Israel congegants:

Dear Friends,

A few weeks ago, on the day before Kol Nidrei, and just a few days after the first anniversary of October 7, a swastika was etched on the football locker of a Jewish student at Weston High School.

A swastika etched on a Jewish student’s locker is different from a swastika drawn, for example, on a bathroom stall or the seat of a school bus (both of which have also happened locally in recent years), because this is a targeted act.

But the story I want to tell you is not one of persecution and antisemitism. Instead, this is a story of resilience and pride, and about the great faith we should have in the next generation.

The student on whose locker the swastika was etched — who grew up here at Temple Israel — was brave enough to inform coaches and the athletic director.

Weston High School athletics

Then later that very evening another Jewish student on the football team — also a Temple Israel student — recorded a courageous and emotional message to his teammates about the impact this swastika had on him, and posted it on the team’s internal chat.

The school administration and town police swiftly coordinated a thorough investigation, according to the policies and procedures that they have in place. Ultimately the investigation was inconclusive; we don’t know who etched the swastika.

A group of Temple Israel teens had recently formed the Jewish Student Union at Weston High School, and swiftly jumped into action.

They approached the principal and administration, advocating for a schoolwide assembly to address the incident. These teen leaders envisioned, shaped, organized, executed and led that schoolwide assembly on Friday morning. They demonstrated initiative and leadership throughout the process.

The assembly included words from the targeted student, the testimony of a Holocaust survivor which was paired with an engaging video, and a message from Senator Blumenthal that the students them themselves had reached out and obtained.

The students also asked me to speak. I taught about the power of symbols, which not only stand for something concrete but also invoke certain emotions and feelings.

I showed a series of symbols on the screen and asked students to share what that symbol made them feel.

When we got to the swastika, Jewish students were able to share in front of their peers how the etching of a swastika on a Jewish student’s locker made them feel targeted, and how the act reverberated throughout the Jewish community of our town.

Finally a representative from the ADL taught about strategies by which one can oppose hate.

The assembly was an excellent and impactful educational experience for the entire school. I want to underscore that the students themselves envisioned, created, shaped and ran the assembly from start to finish. And I credit the school administration for trusting and supporting them, and for giving them the opportunity to stand up and lead.

I am so very proud of the Temple Israel teens who took action following this antisemitic incident.

When the response to an act of hate could have been fear or silence, what the high school community saw instead was courage and pride. Each of them — starting with the one whose locker was targeted, continuing to his football teammate, and then to the many leaders of the JSU — provide a model for all of us.

Many of them began in our Early Childhood Center. All of them were (or are) students in our Kesher program. They embody what success looks like for all our children: to be knowledgeable and proud Jews, and when the time comes for them to act in the world, they do so with courage and integrity.

Thanks to them, even in these trying times which can often feel very dark, we know that the future is very bright.

L’shalom,
Rabbi Michael S. Friedman

Rabbis And Congregants Travel To Israel, Return With Hope

For 4 months, the media has covered the aftermath of Hamas’ terror attack on Israel.

But news reports can convey only so much.

Earlier this month 21 Westporters — led by Rabbis Jeremy Wiederhorn of TCS, and Michael Friedman and Zach Plesent — headed there, to see for themselves.

It was a brief trip: just 4 days. But as they traveled around the country, met soldiers who fought Hamas that day, and families that hid in safe rooms; volunteered at an agricultural center, and visited the site of the music festival massacre, they felt a welter of emotions.

Horror, anger, inspiration, pride — all those and more remained, when they returned to Westport last week.

The rabbis and their congregants began with a visit to Danny’s Farm. The “oasis of calm” assists soldiers suffering from PTSD.

They headed south to the Gaza Envelope, less than 5 miles from the Gaza Strip. The Westporters volunteered with the New Guard, which organizes help in the fields and orchards previously tended by foreign workers, and Gazans with security clearances.

Rabbi Jeremy Wiederhorn picks fruit.

They visited a brigade that transports troops and supplies in and out of Gaza, and heard from a major in the paratroops reserves who was involved in the fighting on October 7.

The Westport group, with IDF troops. The poster was created by young Temple Israel students.

At Kibbutz Nirim — a community severely impacted by the Hamas terrorists — the Westport group met a woman whose family hid in their safe room for hours that day.

Aftermath of the October 7 Hamas attack. 

The rabbis and their congregants visited the site of the Nova Music Festival. It is now a memorial, and a gathering spot for families, visitors and soldiers. As they paid their respects, artillery boomed nearby.

Music festival memorial. 

The group also met with the father of an October 7 hero, first responders, and an expert on the Israel-Arab community; visited graves of fallen soldiers; sorted clothes for evacuees, and went to the Kotel, where Rabbi Friedman placed notes written by 3rd and 4th grade students.

Young Westporters’ notes in Kotel wall.

“Our itinerary sounds macabre,” Rabbi Friedman wrote midway through his trip to Temple Israel members back home.

“Although it was unquestionably sad, there was also a clear sense of pride, purpose, unity, mutual support, and that most powerful of Jewish senses: memory. Even in the presence of death, one feels the essential vitality of the Jewish people.”

Later, he quoted a congregant, who said, “This was oxygen for my soul and stitched up my broken heart.”

Rabbi Friedman concluded: “As much as this trip gave us, so many of the Israelis we met gave us the gift of expressing their appreciation to us for being there.

“I knew I needed to be here, but I didn’t realize just how much. I needed to mourn at Har Herzl, witness the Nova Festival memorial, and feel terror as I entered the replica Hamas tunnel in Hostage Square. I also needed to experience the vitality of Machane Yehuda, pick bushels of lemons in an orchard, and bask in the sun for a moment in Herzilya.

“We came home knowing that every single Israeli Jew is fighting the war. Some are risking their lives, but everyone is fighting — for their children’s future, to hold their community together, to provide for neighbors and strangers, to simply do what needs to be done at an impossibly difficult time.

“On several occasions, we joined groups singing HaTikvah together, outdoors, in public. It was an expression of our commitment to embody the words of the prophet Zechariah, who calls us ‘prisoners of hope.’

“Despite everything, our shared fate, shared vision for the future, and shared destiny as Am Yisrael points us in the direction of hope.”

Scarice: Community Conversation Planned; Vigilance Needed

Yesterday, superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice sent a message to all Westport Public School parents. He wrote:

My apologies for the late timing of my message below. I wanted to be certain that the school community heard directly from me before the weekend.

As many of you are aware, an article circulated Thursday with a Westport parent’s account of antisemitic bullying directed at their child.

This comes at a time when there is a frightening rise in antisemitic incidents in our country. I know this, and am deeply saddened that our Jewish community is understandably feeling so vulnerable.

Let me be clear: antisemitism is vile, and is never tolerated in our schools.

When we receive reports of antisemitism, including those described in the article, we always respond and take action to keep our students safe and issue appropriate consequences, including discipline.

While we do all we can to teach our students about the impact of their words and actions, incidents do occur. For more information about how we address these matters, please see my comments on the “06880” blog.

Today, I spoke with the director of the Connecticut ADL, as well as Rabbis Friedman (Temple Israel) and Wiederhorn (The Conservative Synagogue). They shared with me how members of the Jewish community are feeling, and we had a chance to talk about what we can do moving forward.

As one important step, I am looking forward to joining them in a community conversation next month. I also look forward to continuing these conversations with other members of our community.

We will continue to be vigilant in the face of antisemitism and all other forms of hate. Of course, there’s always more work to be done. We ask that you continue to share any concerns you have with members of our administrative team.

Roundup: Antisemitism, Board of Ed, Sweets & Ice Cream …

Stacey Sobel — regional director of ADL Connecticut (Anti-Defamation League), and a former Westporter — provides an important update on increased antisemitism and hate nationwide at Temple Israel on Tuesday (December 19, 7 p.m.).

It will be followed by a discussion with Rabbi Michael Friedman, to explore how Westport can fight hate. The Conservative Synagogue joins Temple Israel and the ADL as sponsors.

The event is free, but registration is required. Click here for tickets.

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The Board of Education welcomed Jill Dillon, at last night’s meeting.

But she soon won’t be the newest member. Christina Torres announced her resignation, effective January 1. She recently assumed new responsibilities at her work as a school administrator in Westchester.

The Democratic Town Committee will recommend a replacement, who will be voted on by the board.

Also last night, the BOE re-elected Democrat Lee Goldstein as chair, and chose Republican Dorie Hordon as vice chair.

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WestportMoms invites families to get in the holiday spirit tomorrow (Saturday, December 16).

From 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., at The Porch @ Christie’s, they’re sponsoring photos with Santa (and/or a dreidel), face painting, games, music, ornament making and cookie decorating.

The “Winter Wonderland” cost is $20 per family.

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Heard on the street:

An “artisanal ice cream shop” will replace Saugatuck Sweets, on Riverside Avenue.

And Retreat Sweets will take over for Dunkin’ next to Layla’s Falafel on the Post Road, at Maple Avenue North.

The sign promises “Korean hot dog, bubble tea, mochi donuts.” A quick Google search to learn more came up empty.

(Photo/Rob Haroun)

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In May, “06880” reported that Cava — a national chain specializing in pitas and salad bowls — would take over the space next to Westport Hardware, across from Fresh Market.

That now seems unlikely. The sign is down, and non-pita-type boxes fill the space.

One source says a mattress store will move in. Rest assured, we’ll let you know as soon as we hear anything new. (Hat tip: Tom Foran)

What we’re missing if Cava does not come.

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Westport Police arrested 2 men on failure to appear warrants, between December 6 and 13.

Besides those custodial arrests, police issues these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 15 citations
  • Failure to comply with state traffic commission regulations: 7
  • Operating a motor vehicle without a license: 3
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 3
  • Improper use of marker plates: 3
  • Operating a motor vehicle without minimum insurance: 2
  • Failure to carry registration: 2
  • Breach of peace: 1
  • Driving while texting: 1
  • Traveling at an unreasonable speed: 1
  • Failure to obey stop sign: 1
  • Failure to obey traffic control signals: 1
  • Failure to drive in proper lane: 1
  • Failure to renew registration: 1
  • Failure to register a commercial motor vehicle: 1

If you don’t appear at your court date, you’ll be arrested.

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Earlier this week, lifelong Westporter John Brandt told a large Library audience that “music is the soundtrack of our lives.”

Then — using a variety of media — he proved it.

Brandt’s Y’s Men of Westport and Weston presentation ranged from Leonard Bernstein, Martha Graham, George Balanchine and Aaron Copland to Staples High School. Video clips included “The Nutcracker,” Fred Astaire, Jimmy Cagney, Gene Kelly and “A Chorus Line.”

All, Brandt said, contributed to his love of music.

If you missed it — no problem! Click below to see (and hear) it all:

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Every night, a local non-profit organization or family provides dinner for around 2 dozen residents of the Gillespie Center and Hoskins Place.

Last night it was the Westport Rotary Club’s turn. Below (from left) retired anesthesiologist Joe Carpenter and retired journalist Ron Henkoff prepared and served the meal.

 (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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Looking for roses?

They’re still blooming on the Riverwalk, by the Westport Library. Johanna Keyser Rossi spotted this beauty the other day — just perfect for our “Westport … Naturally” series.

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … in  honor of WestportMoms’ family-friendly event tomorrow at The Porch at Christie’s (story above):

(There are just 10 days till Christmas. But you can make a tax-deductible donation to “06880” today — or any day. Just click here. Thank you!)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Candlelight Vigil: “The People Of Israel Live”

As darkness fell last night, over 300 Westporters lit Jesup Green with candles.

In the chill October air they stood shoulder to shoulder in support of Israel, and prayed for the safe return of hostages held by Hamas.

They gathered, Rev. Heather Sinclair of the United Methodist Church said, for “comfort, support and reassurance,” and in “sadness, grief, anger, fear and frustration.”

Rabbi Yehudah Kantor of Chabad of Westport and Weston noted, “Some rise up in arms. We rise up by linking arms.”

They sang the Israeli national anthem, and America’s.

They observed a moment of silence. And then, spontaneously, they sang “Am Yisrael Chai.” The words mean: “the people of Israel live.”

The vigil was non-partisan. No politicians spoke.

But the words of the multi-faith clergy — and the size of the crowd — spoke volumes.

(From left): Rabbi Greg Wall of Beit Chaverim, Rabbi Michael Friedman of Temple Israel and Rev. Heather Sinclair of the United Methodist Church, before the vigil.

Organizers of the vigil distributed flyers of many of the 200 hostages held by Hamas. Like other Westporters, Lauren Soloff and Wes Malowitz (above) have relatives and friends in Israel.

Staples High School seniors Jeremy Rosenkranz (left) and Eitan Eiger.

Andrew Colabella, during the national anthem.

(From left): Police Chief Foti Koskinas, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker and Bill Mitchell. Westport Police provided security for the event.

(All photos/Dan Woog)

Scarice: After Terror Attacks, Schools Care For All Students

Hamas’ terrorist attack on Israel earlier this month is an international event.

But it has local implications.

At the beginning of last night’s Board of Education meeting, Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice spoke heartfully about what the incident means, for our students — and for him.

I can speak on behalf of the Board when I reiterate that our hearts are broken for the unspeakable acts of violence and terror that occurred in Israel the weekend of October 7, and now the continued violence that is sure to engulf the region, and world, for the foreseeable future.

Together with the community, the Westport Public Schools stand against all forms of hate and violence, including of course the desecration of human life, the murder and the kidnappings of innocent citizens in Israel.

With the Board, we stand in solidarity in condemnation of these acts, and ready to support all those impacted by these atrocities.

This week I had the fortune of meeting with 4 of our local rabbis: Rabbi Wiederhorn, Rabbi Friedman, Rabbi Kantor and Rabbi Wall. This will be followed by a subsequent meeting with the Interfaith Clergy Association of Westport and Weston

I asked for this meeting in search of wisdom and knowledge … but also in search of thought partners in how to best support our Jewish students, and the Jewish community of Westport.

As Rabbi Kantor pointed out to me, there are 15 million Jews in the world, and 7 million live in Israel.

It is not just a high likelihood … it is a fact that many of our Jewish students have a direct connection to family, friends and loved ones in Israel.

That puts our schools in a position where we must provide necessary school- based supports

As Rabbi Wiederhorn pointed out to me, Israel is at war with the terror group Hamas. Collectively our local rabbis want, and pray for, peace with all neighbors, here, and internationally.

I also had the opportunity to connect with former executive director of the Connecticut ADL, Steve Ginsburg.

I had the chance to work with Steve in confronting a very public issue a couple of years ago. We became friends. And as a friend, Steve shared some wisdom with me that I would like to share with the community.

As the local rabbis cautioned me about historical increases in antisemitism following international incidents such as October 7, they noted concern for all students.

Steve also wisely advised that we remain on high alert for incidents of Islamaphobia. He indicated that historically, incidents of Islamaphobia rise following international incidents such as October 7.

We are a public education system.  We have a lane.  Although I am comfortable expressing my moral clarity on violence directed towards innocent children, elderly, families, etc. anywhere, I am mindful of my professional lane when speaking publicly on these matters. And I am quite confident that my comments will not be received with unanimous support.

That said, in my lane, I am the same exact superintendent for each and every one of our approximately 5,400 students.

Our job as public educators is to support the growth and development of our students.

That work is optimized in an environment marked by physical and emotional well-being, one in which students feel safe, and an abiding sense of belonging and affiliation. This is the foundation of all learning.

As I said in my message to the community, as much as we try, the chaos and evils of the outside world penetrate the walls of our schools. When this happens, we respond to the best of our abilities.

Rather than divide and scatter, as chaos and evil can do, we work to pull closer together as a wider Westport school community to serve our students.

This means every student. We won’t be perfect, but it will not be due to a lack of caring.

Roundup: Lyman Donations, Amazon Fresh, Saugatuck Church …

President Volodymyr Zelensky’s visit to the White House and speech before Congress yesterday reminded Americans that Ukraine’s war against Russian occupation continues, even as media attention has waned.

Westporters don’t need that reminder.

Since we announced our “Building Bridges” campaign with our new sister city of Lyman on Monday, residents (and their families and friends) have raised $105,909. That’s an outstanding outpouring of generosity!

We need less than $145,000 more to reach our goal of $250,000. That will provide 150 homes ruined during the Russian occupation with new roofs, windows and more — plus a generator for every one. And a water filtration system for the entire devastated town.

We hope to reach that goal by Christmas (Sunday). Thanks to our partnership with Ukraine Aid International — a non-profit founded by Westporters Brian and Marshall Mayer — all material can be delivered 3 days later.

Please click here. Click the “I want to support” box; then select “Support for the City of Lyman.” Scroll down on that page for other tax-deductible donation options (mail, wire transfer and Venmo). You can also donate directly, via Stripe (click here). 

Support for the effort comes from Rabbi Michael  Friedman of Temple Israel. He says:

“We are all inundated with requests for charitable contributions at this season of the year. Yet a personal call to help specific people in a specific city — even if it is very far away — gives our heartstrings a special tug. What a fabulous way to directly aid fellow human beings in dire need.”

Rabbi Michael Friedman, Temple Israel

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At least once a week, someone asks “06880”: What’s up with the Amazon Fresh store that was supposed to replace Barnes & Noble? Nothing has happened there for months.

We’re not the only town left in — literally — the dark.

An answer comes from The Real Deal. The New York real estate website says that since September, Amazon has not opened a new Fresh store. At least 7 locations appear to be completely built out, but unopened. Another 26 locations are like ours, with development halted.

There are “zombie stores” in several states.

The Real Deal explains:

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It’s cheaper for the company to keep the stores in place while not operating, rather than ditch the stores altogether. While the company is on the hook for rent, maintenance and taxes, shutting down a store could also force Amazon to pay a fee for a lease withdrawal or severance to hired employees.

Click here for the full story. In the meantime, if you want to give Amazon money for groceries, go to Whole Foods. They have not yet closed that part of their operations yet. (Hat tip: John McCarthy)

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Yesterday’s innovative “Holiday Card” — actually, a series of large images projected on the front of Saugatuck Congregational Church, thanks to the AV team of Craig Patton and Mark Mathias — was even more stunning that anyone expected.

(Photo/Richard Hyman)

The show will be repeated tonight and tomorrow (weather permitting), from 5 to 8 p.m. The best viewing spot is probably the Colonial Green parking lot, across the street.

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Jarret Liotta has many memories from his time in Los Angeles. Once, he attended a Passover Seder with Mel Brooks. The 1983 Staples High graduate quipped, “I didn’t know you were Jewish!”

Now — as Hanukkah collides with Christmas — Liotta is “proud to re-present a shot, low-quality video” he made back in those days.

He thinks Mel Brooks would have appreciated it.

Liotta’s latest film, “Small Town Movie,” is “a light comedy that explores racism, gun violence and the cancel culture.”

He calls this Christmas vs. Hanukkah piece “probably more controversial.”

You be the judge.

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The Westport Police have released arrest reports for the December 14-21 period.

Five people were detained in custody. The charges for each:

  • Conspiracy to commit larceny, interfering with a police officer, assault on public safety personnel.
  • Reckless driving, disobeying the signal of an officer, operating a motor vehicle with a suspended license, larceny of a motor vehicle, possession of a controlled substance, possession with intent to sell a controlled substance.
  • Burglary, threatening, disorderly conduct, criminal mischief.
  • Possession of burglar tools, conspiracy to commit larceny, criminal attempt to commit larceny, disobeying the signal of an officer, misuse of plates, reckless driving, failure to signal properly.
  • Manufacture or possession of burglar tools, conspiracy to commit larceny, attempt to commit larceny.

The following citations were issued:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 12
  • Operating a motor vehicle under suspension: 5
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 5
  • Violation of any traffic commission regulation: 4
  • Stop sign violation: 3
  • Failure to drive in the proper lane: 3
  • Insurance coverage fails minimum requirements: 2
  • Disorderly conduct: 1
  • Traveling too fast for conditions:1
  • Cell phone, 1st offense: 1
  • Failure to yield to a pedestrian: 1
  • Tinting windows: 1
  • Failure to keep plates readable: 1
  • Misuse of plates: 1
  • Failure to display lights: 1

One citation was issued last week for overly tinted windows.

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Speaking of the police:

The license plate on this car may signal “Never Guilty.”

But that looks an awful like a ticket on the windshield.

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At first glance, this looks like a “holiday lights” photo:

(Photo/Tracy Porosoff)

A closer look, though, shows it’s traffic clogging Charles Street yesterday afternoon, coming off I-95.

Eventually of course, everyone got through. It’s just late on a holiday afternoon — and, probably, a bit of Waze action too.

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The photo above provides a great segue to this item: Wheels2U is growing every day. Last month, the door-to-door ride service provided rides for over 2,300 people directly from their homes and offices, to and from the train station.

The service will take 2 brief holidays — December 26 and January 2 — before resuming full steam ahead.

For more information about Wheels2U, click here. For more information about the Westport Transit District’s services for the elderly and people with disabilities, click here.

Santa ditches his sleigh for Wheels2U.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image was spotted yesterday at Sherwood Island State Park, by John Kantor:

(Photo/John Kantor)

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And finally … on this day in 1808, Ludwig van Beethoven conducted and performed in Vienna, with the premiere of his 5th and 6th Symphonies, 4th Piano Concerto and Choral Fantasy.

It must have been quite a show.

 

 

Westport’s Syrian Saga

Last year, Indiana Governor Mike Pence ordered all state agencies to halt the resettlement of Syrian refugees in Indiana. Connecticut Governor Dannel Malloy countered by inviting them here.

Since then, a number of other Syrian families have arrived in our state. They’ve been welcomed, even embraced. And the folks helping them say they’ve gained as much as they’ve given.

Very quietly — but energetically and lovingly — a large group of Westporters has helped provide a new home for one Syrian family. They’ve kept a low profile. But now that Mohamed, Nour, Hala and Yahya feel comfortable, safe and more assimilated, they’re okay that their tale can be told.

The story has its roots in 1993. A Muslim family from Bosnia came to Westport. The Methodist minister housed them, and helped the parents find jobs. An orthodontist fixed their teeth for free. When the mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, a Jewish surgeon operated on her. There was no bill for the operation, chemotherapy and radiation.

A similar effort has borne fruit in 2016. Initiated last fall by Rev. Ed Horne of the United Methodist Church as an offshoot of the Westport/Weston Interfaith Council, it includes St. Luke Parish, Temple Israel, Saugatuck and Greens Farms Congregational Churches, Society of Friends (Quakers) in Wilton, and 15 Muslim families in the Westport area.

Additional support comes from Assumption Church, Christ and Holy Trinity Church, the Center for Humanistic Judaism, Emmanuel Episcopal Church in Weston, and the Al-Madany Center in Norwalk. The coalition is led by John McGeehan of the Methodist Church, Lynn Jeffery of Temple Israel, and Sister Maureen of St. Luke.

United Methodist Church volunteers Ellyn Gelman, Janis Liu and Brenda Maggio help prepare an apartment for the Syrian family's arrival. (Photo/Eva Toft)

United Methodist Church volunteers Ellyn Gelman, Janis Liu and Brenda Maggio help prepare an apartment for the Syrian family’s arrival. (Photo/Eva Toft)

Scores of volunteers make the project work.

Among them: Samer Hiba — owner of the Mobil Self-Serve by Barnes & Noble — who arrived in the US 23 years ago, and is now an American citizen.

The family — including 2 young children — fled Syria 5 years ago. They spent much of that time in temporary housing across Egypt.

The family arrived in mid-July. They live in Norwalk, close to the children’s elementary school.

Finding a home was not easy. A couple of possibilities in Westport were rented to others during the long wait. The Norwalk rental is less expensive than here.

Plus, admitted Rev. Horne, “Norwalk is more multi-cultural. There’s a mosque there. It’s walkable, and public transportation is great.” Neighbors, teachers and many other Norwalkers have embraced the refugee family.

Westporters have flocked to help too. More than 100 help drive the family to medical and immigration appointments; assist with language training and shopping, and provide other types of support like employment, education and translation.

“The goal is self-sufficiency,” says Delores Paoli, a 25-year Westport resident active in the Muslim community. They’re getting there.

But it’s not easy. Mohamed – the father —  is a highly educated man. An Arab literature major in Syria, with experience in the import-export business, he has found work as a chef at Whole Foods in Westport.

The family attended the Interfaith Thanksgiving service, held this year at Temple Israel. Mohamed stood in front of the Torah ark, and in a beautiful voice recited a section of the Koran.

That moment was significant, says Temple Israel rabbi Michael Friedman. He’d been active in interfaith efforts at his previous synagogue, in New York. After talking with Rev. Horne about Westport’s Bosnian resettlement effort, the rabbi felt confident committing his congregation to the project.

The annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Feast draws together many people, with a wide variety of religions.

The annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Feast draws together many people, with a wide variety of religions.

“There is such a strong interfaith sensibility in Westport,” Rabbi Friedman says. “Our work as clergy together, and our trust, allows our congregations to do this.”

He notes, “There are clear principled reasons in Jewish texts, and our history, to care for children, widows and strangers. Vast numbers of Jews have fled persecution and bad situations, and been taken in. Now we want to provide safe refuge for others.

“We see these terrible images of a humanitarian crisis halfway around the world. We feel helpless. This effort is a way to say that while we can’t solve the entire problem, we also can’t absent ourselves from it. We have to try.

“What we’re doing is empowering. We hope it changes some lives, now and for generations in the future.”

“We saw the refugee crisis, and thought about it,” Rev. Horne adds. “As Methodists we welcome all, without restrictions. This is a chance to put that value into practice, with people who are fleeing for their lives.”

After fleeing Syria, Mohamed and his family spent nearly 5 years in different parts of Egypt.

After fleeing Syria, Mohamed and his family spent nearly 5 years in different parts of Egypt.

Both Rabbi Friedman and Rev. Horne say they and their fellow clergy members have heard “nothing but positive things” from congregants.

“Our families who help may be getting more out of this than Mohamed’s family,” Dolores Paoli says. “As we all work together, we realize how much we can do.”

“Human contact is so important,” Rev. Horne concludes. “We see these beautiful children, and engage with the charismatic Mohamed and his lovely wife. It’s transformative. It breaks the Westport bubble. It gives us a new look at the world.”