Town Officials React To Rise In Teen Parties

Teenage parties have long been part of Westport — and American — life.

But several recent ones have caused local leaders to take notice.

An email sent yesterday on behalf of 1st selectman Kevin Christie — and signed by Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice, Police Chief David Farrell, and 4 other town officials who work with youth — said that since September, Westport Police have responded to 7 “large scale” parties, each with over 100 teenagers.

One had “several hundred teens, including middle school students.”

(Stock photo)

When they were shut down, “many teens walked in the dark to reconvene at other homes and local businesses.”

Several young people were hospitalized for “severe alcohol intoxication.” Arrests were made for assault and “social hosting.”

Police and Christie call this “a troubling rise in large, unsafe gatherings of youth where alcohol and other substances are present.”

Police Captain Jillian Cabana adds, “This is a larger problem than just a year ago. Social media like Snapchat can quickly turn a small gathering into a large, unmanageable event. We encourage residents to call us for assistance when a situation is beyond their control.”

Police cite risks, including driving under the influence, walking in streets in the dark, alcohol poisoning, potential for assault, and risk of property damage.

The Westport Prevention Coalition — whose members include parents and professionals, with representatives from the Aspetuck Health District, Positive Directions, the Police Department, Westport Public Schools, and Westport Human/Youth Services — urges “parents to talk with their teens now, and make clear safety plans together.”

Kevin Godburn, director of Westport Youth Services, recommends teaching children “refusal skills” starting at an early age. “It’s also critical to have an agreed-upon exit strategy for risky situations,” he says.

Parents are also at risk. Connecticut’s Social Host Law holds adults responsible when youngsters consume alcohol or use cannabis on their property – even if the adults were unaware that it was happening.

Social hosting is punishable by up to a year in prison —  with fines of up to $2,000 per youth involved.

However, Positive Directions prevention director Margaret Watt says, “It’s not just about following the law. Research shows that early substance use can damage teens’ brain development, and increase the risk of mental illness and addiction.”

The Police and Westport Prevention Coalition encourage parents to “create their own zero-tolerance policies for underage drinking and cannabis use.” The Coalition offers free resources such as Operation Parent books, lock bags for safe storage of prescription drugs and adult-use marijuana, and liquor stickers to deter access to alcohol at home.

For more information, email Watt (mwatt@positivedirections.org) or Godburn (kgodburn@westportct.gov).

In addition to Christie, Farrell and Scarice, the email was signed by:

  • Elaine Daignault, director, Westport Human Services
  • Kevin Godburn, program director, Westport Youth/Human Services
  • Luci Bango, director of health, Aspetuck Health District
  • Margaret Watt, prevention director, Positive Directions — The Center for Prevention & Counseling

In the 1970s, the legal drinking age in Connecticut was 18. This photo appeared in the 1975 Staples High School yearbook.

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Sherwood Island State Park (Photo/John Maloney)

Roundup: Lyman & Drones, Carols & Saugatuck, Craig Melvin & Church …

As Ukraine’s war against Russia nears its 4th year, Gray McGuinness sends harrowing news about Westport’s sister city, Lyman.

The town in the Donetsk region has been covered by drones. The unmanned aerial vehicles use a thin, physical fiber optic cable instead of radio waves for control and data, making them immune to electronic jamming and interference. (Click here for a video.)

Gray writes, “Lyman is now under constant attack by air and land, and has been partially occupied by the Russian army.”

Westporters can help. Ukraine Aid International — founded by Westporters Brian and Marshall Mayer — is a boots-on-the-ground non-profit that ensures donations go directly Lyman.

Click here to contribute. Then click the “I want to support” box; select “Support for the City of Lyman.” Scroll down on that page for other donation options (mail, wire transfer and Venmo.

Fiber-optic cables blanket Ukraine. 

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Singing and strolling through Saugatuck on Saturday, 8 Staples Orphenians serenaded diners at 14 restaurants with holiday songs.

The Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce-sponsored “Caroling Crawl” brought smiles — and applause — from patrons at The Boathouse, The Bridge, Kawa Ni, The Whelk, Tutti’s, The Black Duck, Tarantino, Blu Olive, Romanacci, Riko’s Pizza, Zucca Gastrobar, Rizzuto’s, Viva Zapata, and Little Pub @ Dunville’s.

Staples Orphenians: a menu special on Saturday night.

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To a national audience, Craig Melvin is co-anchor of the “Today Show.” To members of Green’s Farms Congregational Church, he is a fellow parishioner.

Those 2 roles merged last week. Melvin spoke with Rev. Jeff Rider in the meetinghouse about navigating the stressed an joys of the holiday season.

Their chat covered everything from life’s strains to how faith speaks to hope and new life.

It wasn’t a private conversation. The “Today Show” aired it this morning — and will rebroadcast it on Friday. A great way to celebrate Boxing Day!

Rev. Jeff Rider and Craig Melvin, at Green’s Farms Church.

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You may not have gotten the Westport Transit District anything for the holidays.

But they have a gift for you.

From December 26 through the December 31, they’re offering free Wheels2U rides.

The on-demand, shared shuttle service takes riders door-to-train (and vice versa), at the Saugatuck and Greens Farms stations.

But it can also be used by people of all ages to go downtown, with drop-offs and pickups at Jesup Green.

Hours are:

  • Mondays through Fridays (train station): 5:30 to 10:30 a.m., 4 to 9:30 p.m.
  • Tuesdays through Thursdays (Jesup Green/Library Senior Center): 9 a.m. to 1:30 p.m.

Just download the Wheels2U Westport app, to request a pickup about 20 minutes before you need to leave. To learn more, click here.

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The First Amendment and the importance of a free, independent press are topics for the first “Nancy on Norwalk” talk (January 20, 7 p.m., Norwalk Conservatory of the Arts).

Attendees will hear from 2 people deeply involved in the subject: Westporter  Alisyn Camerota, a 2-time Emmy Award-winning journalist and author formerly with CNN and Fox News, and Secretary of the State Stephanie Thomas, who oversees elections and civic processes across Connecticut.

Click here to RSVP. Registrants will have a chance to receive a signed copy of Camerota’s most recent book, “Combat Love.”

Aliysn Camerota

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We’ve posted plenty of photos of entitled parkers in large vehicles.

And plenty of drivers who park as closetothebuilding as possible.

Today, we feature one guy — it has to be a male — who combined both, at Whole Foods.

And no, there was no one in the driver’s seat.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image highlights Sherwood Island State Park.

There may not be many people there this time of year — especially at dawn — but sunrises are magnificent.

(Photo/John Richers)

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And finally … in honor of Wheels2U’s upcoming holiday gift — and with a tip of Santa’s hat to onetime Westporters Edgar Winter and Dan Hartman:

(You may enjoy a free ride. And you may think “06880” is free. But we rely on the support of readers like you. Please click here to send a few bucks our way. Thank you — and happy holidays!

Briggs Cunningham’s Car Comes Home

Judy Szablak was — coincidentally — driving when she heard that Briggs Cunningham’s house was for sale.

She’s a Coldwell Banker realtor “with drive,” she says — and an automobile aficionado.

Cunningham was a sportsman, race car driver, entrepreneur and automotive pioneer. He built beautiful, powerful machines that are still revered, decades later.

Among his designs: the C-3. Just 36 were built, in the 1950s. Eight were race cars. They are among the rarest and most valuable in auto history.

Briggs Cunningham’s C-3  Cabriolet.

He and his wife Lucie Bedford lived at 92 Beachside Avenue. That’s where he drew his ideas, tuned his engines, and turned his dreams — like the C-3 — into reality.

Now that property was for sale.

While her friend, fellow car enthusiast — and C-3 owner — Chuck Schoendorf told her about Cunningham’s house, she drafted a plan.

She knew the listing agent, Cyd Hamer of William Pitt Sotheby’s in Westport. Judy knew the marketing boost that could come if she connected the cultured car world with the luxury real estate one.

How often would a Cunningham owner — and a possible buyer — get the chance to stand inside his home? And drive his classic automobile through those gates?

92 Beachside Avenue: the view from Long Island Sound.

She called Cyd. She asked to show the property. She told Cyd that Chuck wanted to see the house. To him, it was more than just a piece of real estate. It was living history.

“Real estate agents see a lot: enthusiasts, architects, investors, tire kickers, dreamers,” Judy says.

“But a man arriving with one of Briggs Cunningham’s own cars? That doesn’t come along every day.”

Briggs Cunningham, on the cover of Time magazine.

Cyd quickly said yes.

The appointment was set for a Friday. Snow was predicted. Salt on the roads would have been a deal-breaker. Fortunately, the forecast changed.

The day was slightly overcast — perfect for photos. Chuck arrived, in his “work of art on wheels.” If the house had been human, Judy says, it would have smiled.

“The scene looked staged, cinematic — too perfect to be accidental,” Judy says. “It was as though time had folded in on itself.”

Chuck Schoendorf’s C-3 at Briggs Cunningham’s home …

Cyd took them on a tour of the 7,700-square foot 1926 Tudor, with 200 feet of waterfront on 3.55 acres. She had done extensive research on the property.

Chuck did not view it as a typical potential buyer. “He walked it like a curator — like someone reading a chapter of a book he’d studied for decades,” Judy says.

He particularly appreciated Briggs’ study. The room was crafted out of a sailing ship imported from England. It pays homage to his other love — sailing — and the yacht Columbia that he skippered to victory in the 1958 America’s Cup race.

Watching her friend look around with a mix of reverence and joy, Judy realized, “This wasn’t a showing. It was a reunion. The car, the history, the house, the moment — it all braided together. And I got to be the one who tied the ends.”

… and Chuck, with his classic car.

Because Judy lives in two worlds — real estate and car culture — she knows that a a rare automobile deserves a home worthy of it. A collector deserves spaces that honor their legacy.

And sometimes, she says, “If you’re lucky, a house and a car meet each other again, after decades apart.”

In real estate, she says, “we often talk about numbers — square footage, days on market, comps, cap rates, upgrades.

Judy Szablak

“But behind every home is a human story waiting to be honored. Behind every collector car is a lifetime of admiration, mechanics, memories and pride.

“When those worlds intersect, something rare happens. It’s something that can’t be captured on an MLS sheet.

“You can make history feel alive again. You can summon the past into the present. You can give someone a moment they didn’t even know they needed.

“And sometimes, you can make a legendary car feel — just for a second — like it found its way home.”

(92 Beachside Avenue is listed for $19.8 million. Click here for details, and to purchase.)

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Assumption Church (Photo/Susan Garment)

Photo Challenge #573

Where in Westport would you see an official-looking sign that says “Beagle Xing” — complete with the image of an alert, about-to-cross beagle? (Click here to see.)

Fairfield County Hunt Club?

That’s a good guess — and the one favored by most responders to last week’s Photo Challenge.

But it’s wrong.

The location — one that only Jen Fridland knew — is the corner of Redcoat and Cavalry Roads, clear across town from the Hunt Club.

But neither Jen nor I — nor anyone else, it seems — knows the back story to the beagle sign. If you do, click “Comments” below.

And click “Comments” too if you know where in Westport you’d see this sight:

(Photo/Rachel Konstantin)

 

Roundup: Library Reading Challenge, Challenging Children’s Behaviors … And Sammy Davis Jr.

This holiday, kids are surrounded by AI-enabled toys, high-tech devices, and the newest fads and trends.

Reading can seem like an old-fashioned, outdated activity.

The Westport Library thinks others.

They’ve just rolled out a Children’s Winter Reading Program (and a companion Adult Winter Reading Challenge). But are designed to showcase the joys of the written word.

Now through February 23, the Children’s Winter Reading Program invites readers and non-readers alike to warm up with a good book. Open to all children and families, the program is wide-ranging: reading independently, being read to, even deciphering the cereal box at breakfast. Any child can participate, in any way.

Reading is tracked by minutes. Youngsters can log time spent reading novels, picture books, comics, newspapers, magazines and more.

They can also include time spent listening to stories read aloud by caregivers, librarians, or teachers. Creativity counts!

After signing up online, participants can visit the Library to receive an activity sheet and 9 color-coded stickers. Completing 10 activities earns a book from the Library’s prize cart. Every additional 50 minutes of reading unlocks more stickers that will contribute to a community artwork display at the Library.

Children who read 500 minutes can take home another book of their choice.

Meanwhile, the Library’s Adult Winter Reading Challenge runs from tomorrow (December 22) through February 2.

The Library’s reference team has put together 10 categories designed to spark curiosity, and encourage exploration across genres. The categories will be revealed tomorrow.

There are only 2 rules: Each category can only be used once, and each book counts toward a single category. Readers can log their completed books online and track their progress on the challenge leaderboard.

Last winter’s challenge brought 44 readers who read 272 books. Nearly 1/3 completed all 10 challenges.

For more information click here, or check out the Westport Reading Challenge Facebook Group.

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For young children and their families, the holidays can be a challenging and difficult time of year.

Madison Friedman can help.

After graduating from Staples High School 2019, and then college, she earned a master’s degree in special education and human development.

Now she’s back in Westport. She recently opened a business: Elevated Minds Growth Center.

She works with children ages 3 to 10 and their families, helping them understand the root of challenging behaviors, build confidence, strengthen executive functioning skills, and support social-emotional development — all in a practical, play-based way. The goal is to help family life feel a bit more connected and harmonious.

This winter break she’s offering workshops for children ages 5 to 9. With routines disrupted and energy running high, the workshops focus on social-emotional learning and executive functioning. She helps kids stay regulated, and gives parents a little extra support.

Each workshop blends movement, games, imagination and teamwork.

For workshop details, dates and registration, click here.

Madison Friedman

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The recent death of May Britt — the former wife of Sammy Davis, Jr. — at 91 got Adam Stolpen thinking about our “06880” tagline: “Where Westport meets the world.”

The couple married in November 1960. The Guardian says, “At the time, interracial marriage was banned in the majority of US states. The couple received negative press, harassment and death threats.”

So where did they honeymoon?

Westport. Stolpen writes, “For years the Westport Country Playhouse had rented the Frazier Peters house at 1 Spring Hill Road over the summer as a perk for celebrities staring in their productions.

“I was told by someone whose family rented the guest cottage on the grounds that one night neighbors called the Westport Police to complain about noise coming from a party at the house.

“His parents went to the place to see what the trouble was. They found someone playing a piano, as Davis and other celebrities were dancing and singing for each other.

“Needless to say, when Westport’s finest saw the gathering they just said ‘party on.” Davis and Britt did so, for days more.”

Sammy Davis Jr. and May Britt.

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Longtime Westport and Weston resident Dr. Stephen Eliot died Thursday.

He practiced psychotherapy locally for 50 years, and was a supervisor with the Psychoanalytic Association of Westchester Center for the Study of Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy.

He enjoyed playing basketball, baseball, tennis and ping pong, and was a noted youth coach with the Westport Soccer Association. He was also an avid fisherman, who knew every part of Long Island Sound.

Steve is survived by his wife Suzanne; sons Peter (Lana) and Andrew (Sammantha), and daughter Megan (Alex), and grandchildren Clara, Paulina, Hazel, Zoey, Clay, April and Alec.

Funeral services are set for noon today (Sunday) at Temple Israel. Memorial contributions may be sent to the Anti-Defamation League, Temple Israel, or Save the Sound.

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Today’s frothy “Westport … Naturally” image comes from John Maloney.

We may not get to the beach as much in December as we do in July, but Long Island Sound looks the same.

Except for everything else framing the scene.

(Photo/John Maloney)

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And finally … speaking of Sammy Davis Jr., there’s “Candy Man.”

FULL DISCLOSURE: I hate this song. It is on my list of Top 10 Worst Songs of All Time — right down there with “Honey,” and the Christmas kid with his shoes.

(Sure, you can give “06880” candy. Or wine. But we really prefer a tax-deductible contribution, to support our work. Just click here. Thank you — and happy holidays!)

Question Box #13: Why Isn’t The Candlelight Concert Livestreamed?

Yesterday’s “06880” lead story told the tale of 2 sisters from Oklahoma — members of the Staples High School Classes of 1961 and ’63 — who returned to Westport this month, for the 85th annual Candlelight Concert. They sang the closing “Hallelujah Chorus” on the same stage they’d stood on more than 60 years earlier.

In the piece, Lucy Weberling wondered why the music department’s annual “gift to the town” is not livestreamed. Thousands of alumni — and grandparents, relatives and friends — across the country would watch. Many have asked the same question.

I put it to Steve Zimmerman, townwide coordinator of arts for the Westport Public Schools. His response provides an interesting look behind the scenes at Candlelight — and into other areas of modern life we may not always think about. Steve writes:

This question comes up often. The reality is that it is the cumulative impact of many complex factors, rather than any single challenge.

First, and foremost, while our concerts are free to the public, the district currently funds a significant amount each year in production costs to ensure a high-quality in-person experience. We can’t simply raise ticket prices or add a new budget line to add streaming.

The Candlelight Concert is an enormous undertaking. (Photo/Jennifer Petrosinelli)

Since the 75th anniversary, the scope of our program has changed. Candlelight now includes a wide range of student-led small ensembles that vary from year to year, from chamber groups such as the piano, violin and oboe trio, to the 16-member women’s a cappella ensemble, to a full rock band with multiple guitars, keyboards and drums. Each instrument has unique requirements to be miced and balanced.

And these groups appear both before and after the combined choir and orchestra of more than 200 students, which has its own challenges (particularly in amplifying the choir). With performers spread across the stage and hall, managing sound reinforcement for the live audience alone is already extremely complex.

Adding a livestream introduces a separate and substantial technical challenge. The audio mix that works well in the room does not translate cleanly to broadcast. To do this properly, we would need a second audio engineer and mixing console to create a dedicated livestream mix, along with many additional microphones. We would also need a producer to manage camera selection and transitions, as we did for both the 75th anniversary and COVID-era broadcasts.

Student ensembles add technical production challenges. (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

Beyond production logistics and costs, licensing has become a significantly more complex hurdle over the past decade as streaming has expanded all over. Media consolidation and corporate buyouts have placed large catalogs of music, including works by relatively minor composers, under the control of major media conglomerates. As a result, rights decisions that were once straightforward are now handled by large corporate entities whose licensing models are designed around commercial streaming and revenue generation.

We currently pay approximately $1,500 annually for our School Music License, and maintain additional licenses with BMI, ASCAP, and SESAC to cover public performance and audio broadcast. Adding live video streaming would require an additional license, which we estimate would increase annual costs by at least $1,500.

Some works still fall outside these agreements and require individual permissions. In cases involving large rights holders such as Disney, works that originated with relatively minor composers are now owned by major corporations, which often requires extensive outreach to identify the correct contact, and can result in fees of up to $1,000 for a single short choral work.

Music rights add significant costs. (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

Candlelight performances also include original compositions, such as the vignettes created this year. Some composers, particularly those who are mindful of their professional online presence, are not comfortable having these smaller works broadcast publicly under their name, which adds another layer of complexity.

The level of administrative effort needed to secure rights is currently not possible for teachers. More broadly, we are operating in an era when content owners are increasingly attentive to streaming and enforcement. I act cautiously to protect the district and town, particularly given our community’s strong ties to the arts and media industries and the scrutiny that can accompany questions of fair use. Things are changing, but slowly.

In short, while we would absolutely like to explore live streaming in the future, doing so responsibly would require additional staffing, equipment, licensing and budget. Our goal is to pursue this only if it can be done in a sustainable and high-quality way.

The livestream produced for our 75th anniversary was successful in part because it was a one-time expense and a much simpler production. Similarly, the COVID-era Candlelight broadcast was a significant production. and required nearly 2 years to fully absorb financially. Our current program structure and the unique nature of these events make routine livestreaming a far more demanding undertaking.

I appreciate the desire to experience Candlelight from afar and recognize that these challenges are not insurmountable. Over time, this may become more feasible financially and logistically.

For now, the only way to experience Candlelight is to be in the audience — including onstage, for the “Hallelujah Chorus.” (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

(Do you have a question about any aspect of Westport life? Ask us! Email 06880blog@gmail.com.)

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I-95 Saugatuck River bridge (Photo/JD Dworkow)

Roundup: Saugatuck Church Card, Woman’s Club Grant, A&S Gift …

Saugatuck Congregational Church is bringing back its greeting card.

So what, you say?

But this is not any greeting card, sent by mail (or, ugh, email).

It a short video message, projected (weather permitting) on the front of the church, now through Tuesday.

There’s audio too. Just tune your car radio to 89.3 FM as you drive past.

The public is invited to 2 more traditional church events too. Both are Christmas Eve: a pageant at 5 p.m., and a candlelight service at 9 p.m.

Saugatuck Church, and its “greeting card.” (Hat tip and photo/Mark Mathias)

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The Westport Woman’s Club Ruegg Grants are generous gifts, to non-profits that (like the WWC itself) provide important community services.

On Thursday, they honored VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399, with a $10,000 check.

The VFW will use the funds for its monthly free Veteran Benefits and Welfare Check luncheon program.

It reaches veterans facing challenges like PTSD, aging concerns or financial hardship. Many veterans are unaware of the benefits and support services available to them.

In addition to this outreach, Post 399 recently hosted its 66th consecutive monthly American Red Cross Blood Drive, and the Wreaths Across America program that placed American flags on the graves of over 1,200 local veterans.

Other VFW projects include Veterans Day and Memorial Day ceremonies. The post is also helping plan 250th birthday events for the USA.

VFW quartermaster Phil Delgado (2nd from left), and VFW and Westport Woman’s Club representatives, with the $10,000 “check.”

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Building on its Thanksgiving meals for students at Capital Prep Harbor School, A&S Westport and Conlon Amendola did the same for Christmas.

Twenty families received a full meal, each serving 6 people: ham with glaze, macaroni and cheese, lasagna, chocolate and red velvet bûches de Noë

Many Westporters helped with donations. Once again, Dr. John Corino of Norwalk Dental Arts gave a significant gift.

Dr. Joan Miller of Capital Prep Harbor School (center), with honor students who helped distribute the meals.

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Sunrise Rotary Club’s Friday morning speakers are always interesting.

But Rachel Precious — well, aw, shucks.

The 2006 Staples High School graduate, and conservation biology major at the University of Massachusetts, now owns Precious Oysters (I know, right?).

She told the Rotarians  (nearly) everything there is to know about oysters.

Then she gave a shucking demonstration. And — at a time when most Westporters are drinking coffee and eating breakfast — the members sampled some.

Rachel spent 5 years farming oysters in the area, including Sherwood Mill Pond.

Today she runs her own oyster catering business, and is building her own oyster restaurant. She also serves as chair of the Connecticut chapter of the Surfrider Foundation, sits on Senator Murphy’s Long Island Sound Advisory Council, and leads an adaptive climbing club at a rock climbing gym.

Rachel Precious, and an oyster. (Photo/Katie Augustyn)

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The other day, I posted an item about the new trend of bringing large dogs into stores. (Barnes & Noble, to be specific.)

They’re in other places too. Charles Rosoff says, “I would love it if I had a nickel for every time I saw a dog in a grocery store, ice cream store and restaurant. What is wrong with people?”

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Last summer, “06880” gave a shout-out to a unique new business. Kiin Sauna is mobile — it comes to you.

That story showed owner Ginger Richardson, with her portable sauna at the beach.

It’s no longer beach weather. But Kiin Sauna is still a hot ticket. Check out Dave Briggs’ sizzle reel, here or below:

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The water is very shallow — or these guys are walking on it.

Either way, it’s an interesting Saugatuck River photo, for today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo.

(Photo/JD Dworkow)

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And finally … on this date in 1915, he last Australian troops were evacuated from Gallipoli. It was one of the most significant — and consequential — battles of World War I.

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