CastleKeep: Celebrating 25 Years Of Service To Westport

In 2000, the private bank Charlie Haberstroh worked for downsized.  He had 4 college-aged children. The dot-com era was crashing.

“What better time to start a new wealth management firm?!” he laughs.

It may not have been the best timing. But Haberstroh was the right man.

This year, CastleKeep Investment Advisors celebrates its 25th year. And the Westport-based firm is doing it the way they’ve done business for a quarter century: by giving back to the community.

The CastleKeep team (from left): Christy Pasqua, Lauren Quesada, Steve Haberstroh, Charlie Haberstroh, Chuck Haberstroh, Mary Hackett.

The highlight of their anniversary celebration at The Bridge at Saugatuck — a few yards away from their Riverside Avenue office — was the announcement of long-term financial support for 2 local groups: Westport’s Department of Human Services, and Staples Tuition Grants.

Both choices were no-brainers.

Patty Haberstroh — Charlie’s wife, and the mother of Chuck and Steve Haberstroh, 2 of her 4 children who are partners in their dad’s firm — died 2 years ago this month, after a long battle with ALS.

She was (among many other activities)  a beloved family program coordinator for Human Services.

Patty Haberstroh

Patty ran and supported important initiatives like their annual Back-To-School program that offers backpacks, school supplies and shoe store gift cards to children from low-income families; the Westport Mentor program; summer camperships; after-school scholarships; Thanksgiving dinner donations; MLK Day basketball clinics; Minds in Motion, and Prom and Graduation Gowns programs.

In 2000 Steve was a beneficiary of Staples Tuition Grants — the 83-year-old organization that this year awarded $400,000 to over 100 graduating seniors and alumni.

Chuck served for 4 years on STG’s board. Years ago, a friend established a Staples Tuition Grants fund in the Habestrohs’ family name. Charlie continues to support it. Now there will be an additional scholarship, named for CastleKeep.

CastleKeep’s gifts are not their first to the community. In December they supported Human Services’  Holiday Giving Program with a donation that ensures that all graduating seniors who need help will attend college with their own laptops.

Like many small family-owned businesses — albeit on with nearly $1 billion in invstments under management to clients around the world — CastleKeep reflects the values of its founder. In this case, community service is key.

Charlie chairs the Levitt Pavilion Committee. He’s also chaired the Parks & Recreation Commission; been 2nd selectman; served on the Board of Finance and Representative Town Meeting, and was president of the Sunrise Rotary Club.

His children have followed their parents’ lead. Chuck, for example, is very involved in his own kids’ Westport sports program. He also co-founded and co-heads the Lou Gehrig Day Committee, which works closely with Major League Baseball.

Chuck joined CastleKeep soon after graduating from Fairfield University’s Dolan School of Business. At the time, he says, “I wasn’t really sure what I wanted to do, except I wanted to succeed Theo Epstein as general manager of the Boston Red Sox.”

That seemed unlikely.

“I knew my father needed help at CastleKeep,” Chuck says. “I was willing to do whatever he needed. I had seen what my family had done for each other, and for others. I really wanted to treat colleagues and clients as family, which to me means going above and beyond.”

Steve joined the company afer 5 years with a publicly traded financial planning firm. He gained valuable experience and leadership training there. But, he says, the family aspect attracted him — and helps him attract clients.

Over 25 years — through good times and bad — the firm has grown. They’ve added employees. Every partner began as an intern.

The CastleKeep “family” — blood relatives and others — is proud of that quarter century.

They’re even prouder of the role they play in their community. Both Human Services and Staples Tuition Grants agree: They’re a keeper.

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American oystercatchers on the Burying Hill Beach pier (Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

Unsung Heroes #390

We’ve said it before, but it bears repeating: Westport’s fireworks are the best party of the year.

But — like any party — it doesn’t happen without tons of work.

Planning takes months. The day of the event is long, hard and very stressful.

And even when the party is over, the clean-up work continues.

Our annual celebration seems to run like clockwork. This year’s was especially flawless. (A record may have been set: only 2 lost children.)

So how did it happen?

A lot of groups worked a lot of hours. With a lot of collaboration.

Thanks go to:

Parks & Recreation Department. They’re the front lines — and the back room (and everything and everywhere in between). The fireworks are an all-hands-on-deck event, and everyone from director Erik Barbieri (overseeing his first one), deputies Rick Giunta and Carm Roda (definitely not their first rodeos), down to the lifeguards and newest summer employees, pitched in.

From parking assistance and emptying trash all day long, to reuniting those 2 lost kids with their parents, Parks & Rec did it all. Special thanks to the clean-up crews, who went to work the moment the first revelers left after the last firework, leaving behind mammoth piles of chairs, tables, towels, flip-flops, food and other garbage.

By dawn the next morning, it was all gone. A kerfuffle ensued on Westport Front Porch, when a Westporter wondered why the clean-up had been so efficient that when she went back the next day to retrieve her stuff, it was gone. I’m paraphrasing here, but you get the idea. No good dead — or pristine beach — goes unpunished.

An early trash pick-up, long before the big crowds arrive. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Police Department. This was Dave Farrell’s first fireworks as chief, and his men and women nailed it. They too were everwhere — in cars, on bicycles, on foot and on the water — with constant smiles, and an eagerness to help. They were assisted by officers from other towns. And, it seems safe to say, they returned the favor on other days, for those colleagues’ pyrotechnics.

Fire Department. You never know what might happen, at an event that draws 10,000 people. But the presence of so many firefighters — with all their equipment — was reassuring to all. They were not called on for anything major, so they had plenty of time to offer little kids up-close look at their gleaming trucks, and toots on the (very) loud sirens.

Emergency Medical Services. Our paid and volunteer staffs were all over the place too. They are sometimes overlooked — particularly on a day that was as incident-free as possible — but we would be nowhere without them (and their ambulances, parked strategically and ready for everything).

First responders, smiling but ready if needed. (Photo/Laurie Sorensen)

Westport PALThey’re the beneficiaries of the parking permits. The money they raise helps fund sports and scholarship programs that impact thousands of youngsters. But PAL volunteers work hard, before and during the fireworks, to earn their donations. Congratulations to PAL president Corporal Craig Bergamo, and his crew, for their part in the party.

Melissa and Doug Bernstein. They’ve sold their toy company. But as devoted Westporters, they continue to pay for the show — out of their own, personal pockets. If there’s a better way to show your love for this town, I’d like to hear it.

Thanks to all I’ve mentioned (and I sure hope I haven’t missed anyone).

The 2025 fireworks are now now just a memory. But we would not have that memory — or the smiles on our faces — without you.

Doug and Melissa Bernstein. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Roundup: Sarah Jessica Parker, Soundview Stroll, Summer Hoops

This year’s Westport Library “Booked for the Evening” event features Sarah Jessica Parker.

The Emmy Award-winning actor, producer, publisher and businesswoman will be celebrated on September 10. Tickets go on sale August 12.

“Booked” — the Library’s major fundraiser — honors someone whose work reflects Library’s purpose: to nurture a love of learning, and enhance our understanding of the world.

Last year’s recipient was Billie Jean King. Past guests include Tom Brokaw, E.L. Doctorow, Calvin Trillin, Wendy Wasserstein, Pete Hamill, Martin Scorsese, Arthur Mitchell, Doris Kearns Goodwin, David Halberstam, Oscar Hijuelos, Adam Gopnik, Will Shortz, Patti Smith, Barry Levinson, Jon Meacham, Nile Rodgers, Lynsey Addario, Ron Chernow, Alan Alda, Justin Paul, Frederic Chiu, Itzhak Perlman, Shonda Rhimes, and Laura Linney.

Parker — a noted advocate for literature and libraries — has built a career as both an entertainer and champion of the written word. In 2023 she launched SJP Lit, an imprint focused on underrepresented voices. She is a judge for the Booker Prize, and received the PEN/Audible Literary Service Award this year.

She also executive produced “The Librarians,” a film about the fight against book bans which premiered at this year’s Sundance Film Festival.

“To censor a book is to limit imagination, curiosity, connection, empathy and inspiration,” she says.

“Libraries aren’t just buildings with shelves. They are a beacon. They are warm in the winter and cool in summer, and they are sanctuaries of possibility. They are a heartbeat of the neighborhood.”

Parker has won 4 Golden Globe Awards, 3 Screen Actors Guild Awards, and 2 Emmys. She currently stars as Carrie Bradshaw in the HBO series “And Just Like That.” Throughout Parker’s work, her advocacy for intellectual freedom and library access has been unwavering.

She served on the President’s Committee on the Arts and the Humanities during the Obama administration, and is vice chair of the board of directors for the New York City Ballet. Click here for more “Booked for the Evening” information.

Sarah Jessica Parker (Photo/Jem Mitchell)

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Six bands will entertain all day long, at our July 27 Soundview Summer Stroll.

From 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., Soundview Drive — the Compo Beach exit road — will be closed to traffic. There will be kids’ activities and games, food, a photo booth, face painting, community vibing — and plenty of live music.

Bands and solo artists include Rock Paper Soul, Owen Daniel, Deep Valley Road & Friends, Core, Skunk Rockets and Not My Problem.

The entire day is free — courtesy of “06880” and the Compo Beach Improvement Association.

Get ready to rock, while strolling (or Rollerblading or biking) all along the car-less beach! (And be sure to follow the Stroll’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soundviewsummerstroll.)

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Speaking of the beach: After a 5-year hiatus, the Compo Summer Basketball League is back!

Its re-launch on Monday marks a major milestone in Westport’s recreation scene.

There are 95 players. Most are fathers from Westport and Weston. One team includes recent Staples graduates, ages 21-23.

Fun fact: One of the teams is coached by New York Knicks legend John Starks.

All 5 games were competitive and well played, with 2 referees and a scorekeeper.

People passing by stopped to watch. Teams hung around afteward, and had drinks

The league continues over the next 7 Mondays. Semifinals and finals are August 25.

Summertime basketball action at Compo Beach. (Photo/Jordan Schur)

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Yesterday’s thunder ws loud. And the lightning was bright.

It’s extremely difficult to capture a lightning strike. But Meredith Holod did, at Comp Beach:

(Photo/Meredith Holod)

Fortunately, the flash floods we were warned about did not materialize.

But it’s exponentially better to have it that way, than the reverse.

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Among Earthplace’s many important projects, one of the most long-running — and popular — is care for its residential animals.

They include Chatty and Cerena, the bald eagles who arrived more than 20 years ago with injuries that made them non-releasable.

Today those raptors — along with dozens of other species — play a vital role in the environmental center’s education and conservation awareness efforts.

Now — during their fundraising drive — they’ve got a golden opportunity. All contributions made through July 31 will be matched, up to $12,000.

That $24,000 could go a huge way toward caring for dozens of animals. They inspire thousands of visitors each year, and many moroe at schools, libraries, festivals and community events.

“They teach lessons of survival, adaptation and resilience,” notes Veronica Swain, director of nature prograsm.

Recent cuts and losses in federal and foundation grand funding have hit Earthplace hard. Every donation will to toward animal feeding, medical care and enrichment activities.

To contribute and learn more about Earthplace, click here.

How can you resist helping this creature?

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For all its wonderful amenities, the Westport Weston Family YMCA lacks one thing: food.

Since moving from downtown to its Mahackeno site in 2014, several snack bar operators have come and gone.

Now the Y is taking a new route. By the end of July, a “micro market” will offer coffee, fresh deli items, yogurts, muffins and more.

They’re already selling ice cream at the outdoor pool.

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“Laughing Gas” comedy returns to VFW Post 399 this Friday (July 11; doors open at 7 p.m., show at 8).

Steve Rocco, Joe Portillo, Alex Koller and Sharon Simon are the featured comedians.

Tickets are $20 (plus a 1-drink minimum). Click here to purchase, and more information.

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Anyone for tennis?

Grace says yes! She checks in at the Longshore courts … and we check her out, as today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature photo.

(Photo/Cindy Nigro)

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And finally … on this date in 1609, Bohemia was granted freedom of religion, by the Holy Roman Emperor.

(We can’t wait to see you at the Soundview Stroll — a gift from “06880” to the town. To give back though, we rely on readers like you. Please click here to support our efforts. Thank you!)

 

Netta Levy: Westport’s Eldercare Concierge

American adults 65 and older will outnumber children under 18 by 2035, for the first time in history.

70% of people turning 65 today will need some form of long-term care in their lifetime.

Over 53 million Americans are unpaid family caregivers — and 61% of them also work full- or part-time.

23% of US adults are caught in the “sandwich generation” middle. Primarily women in their 40s and 50s, they care for aging parents, while also raising children. The dual caregiving role often leads to financial stress, and burnout.

Who you gonna call for help?

Netta Levy.

Netta Levy

The Westport mother of 3 is herself part of that target demographic. At 51, she and her 2 sisters have faced the very real pressures so many of their cohort already have.

Or soon will.

In early 2021, their father was 92. He worked out every day, was in great health, and relished his independence.

Then, in the middle of the night, he fell.

“We hear it all the time: Families are one fall away from a crisis,” Levy says.

Her father fractured bones in his back. He knew the risks, but opted for surgery. He began rehab by himself, near his Philadelphia home — it was the pandemic, and his family could not see him.

When his recovery faltered, Levy’s mother and sisters worked together to make dcisions. Netta already had power of attorney, and was his healthcare proxy.

“He was clear on the direction he wanted to take. We were clear too,” Levy says. “There were a lot of silver linings.”

Her father died quickly, in hospice care at home, surrounded by love.

Levy’s mother is now 85. She has fallen, and feels lonely. She wants to move to an assisted living facility. Levy and her sisters are figuring out how to balance what she wants, with the financial realities of care. (Medicaid pays for skilled nursing, but not assisted living.)

Netta Levy, her sisters and father on his 90th birthday.

Knowing her own experiences, friends have asked Levy for advice about their own aging parents.

She has always enjoyed helping people. Earlier this year — after a freelance marketing job ended — Levy decided to formalize her work.

She now operates LifeCare Concierge. She provides a single point of contact for all caregiving needs. She helps streamline complex processes, in an unbiased way.

Levy is not affiliated with any care providers, facilities or vendors. She focuses solely on a family’s unique needs.

Among her services: assistance with hospitalizations, transitions, or crises; coordination of home care, assisted living or nursing facilities; and proactive planning (including healthcare directives, legal considerations, and ensuring that wishes are documented before a crisis hits).

Levy also offers guidance on transitioning to a new living environment; evaluations on the safety, functionality and quality of life for aging adults; referrals for attorneys, hospice and palliative care, and Medicaid applications; adjustments, as needs evolve; family counseling and mediation — and support to get through each day with peace of mind.

“Should we bring in an aide? How do we assess different facilities? What do we have to think about next?”

Those are some of the difficult questions that family members must think about — often while managing their own homes and families.

Many individuals and organizations address some of them. Levy covers them all, guiding families through what can be  confusing, overwhelming morass.

The sandwich generation. (Graphic courtesy of Verywell/Adriana Sanchez)

She has learned that “no two situations are the same.” But in Westport, she says, there are often similarities.

For example, aging parents of many residents do not live here. She helps clients assess the best option: Move their parents here? Or look for the right facility near where they already live?

One local woman wondered whether her mother’s assisted living facility in Florida was the right place. Levy explored a number of alternatives, and recommended she stay.

“Downsizing and moving are always complex and hard,” she notes. “Add in finding the right senior living facility, and financial issues, and the challenges multiiply.”

On top of which, Levy says, “some places are already full. We’ll see more of that in the future.

“People are getting older. Assisted living can’t take care of all fo them.”

The result, she predicts, will will be an increase in in-home services. She makes sure homes are properly equipped for aging men and women — and that the aides best suited for care are there too.

We are fortunate, Levy adds, that there are many resources in this area. Yet navigating through and among them is not easy.

Levy is concerned with more than the elderly.

“I want people my age to think proactively about our own care,” she says. “We shouldn’t burden our own kids with questions about decisions and finances. We  have to unburden our loved ones, and save our own legacy.

“No one wants to talk about death, Levy notes. “But we have to talk about uncomfortable things.”

(Click here for more information on LifeCare Conceirge. The website includes a link to Levy’s blog, with stories on topics like hiring a caregiver, understanding dementia and the health risks of loneliness.)

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Longshore entrance road (Photo/Christine Nigro)

Roundup: Soleil Toile Closes, Parking Limits Reconsidered, Mahj Players Meet …

Soleil Toile — the Post Road East lingerie/swimwear/accessories/and more shop — is closing soon.

They started in 1990, with 1,400 square feet specializing in fine lingerie from the US and Europe.

A 1997 move to their 3,400-square foot store enabled them to expand into swim and resort wear.

They opened a second store in New Canaan. It closed last September.

News of the closing — at the end of July — has disappointed many longtime customers.

Until then, many items are 30-60% off.

PS: If you have forgotten your French, Soleil Toile means “sun canvas” or “sun cloth.” (Hat tip/Sal Liccione)

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Of the 6 agenda items for tomorrow’s Board of Selectwomen meeting (Wednesday, 9 a.m., Town Hall auditorium), the one with the most direct impact on most Westporters is a proposal by the Downtown Plan Implementation Committee to lower parking limits on Main  Street, Elm Street, Church Lane, Bay Street and Jesup Road from 3 hours to 2.

The change would affect on-street parking only. Parking lots — including Parker Harding Plaza, the Baldwin lot, and the Taylor and Jesup lots near the Library — would remain at 3 hours.

Parking lot limits would not change. But street parking would.

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Pride Month is over. But Bill Shakos is back, with a podcast focusing on LGBTQ+ youth.

The Westporter — who dives deep into important topics, in his “What Do I Know?” series — speaks in Episode 10 with Kayla Ianetta. The Staples High School science teacher chairs the Westport Public Schools’ Pride Coalition.

GenXer Bill and Millennial Kayla chat explore the world of GenZ queer youth. Kayla discusses her own journey, along with the importance of safe spaces, DEI backlash, and much more.

Click here for various ways to download the podcast.

Kayla Iannetta

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What can be better than a morning coffee and treats, outside at The Blondinit?

How about a chance to play mahjong too?

The Church Lane restaurant has partnered with the Haus of Mahj. They’ll host a “Monday Morning open play” next week (July 14, 10 a.m. to noon; experienced players only).

The $30 fee includes coffee or soft drink (food is available for purchase). Grab your quad or sign up solo. All materials — including tiles, racks and mats — are provided. Click here for more information, and to reserve a spot.

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One last look back at the holiday weekend — specifically, the Levitt Pavilion.

On Sunday, Westport’s outdoor entertainment venue featured Jake Swamp & the Pine.

The Americana/folk/pop/country/and more band was joined by Kaliloops, and emerging folks artists Simon Robert French and Harrison Goodell.

Jake Swamp recently played the Greenwich Town Party — the same festival as Alanis Morissette.

Looking ahead at the Levitt:

  • Tonight (Tuesday, 7 p.m.): Westport Community Band
  • Wednesday (7 p.m.): Children’s Series, with Joanie Leeds
  • Thursday (7:30 p.m.): Richiman and Groove Nice (7:30 p.m.; American-style blues band from South Korea).

All 3 shows are free, but tickets are required. Click here to reserve tickets, and for more information.

Jake Swamp & the Pine, and friends, on the Levitt Pavilion stage.

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Jazz at the Post swings into summer with pianist/composer Sarah Jane Cion. She’s joined in a classic trio with bassist Alex Safy and drummer Mike Camacho.

It’s Thursday (July 10, VFW; shows at 7:30 and 8:45 p.m.; dinner service at 7; $20 music cover, $15 for veterans and students). Click here for reservations.

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Former Westport resident and store owner Michael Nappa III died June 30. He was 75, and lived in Milford.

Michael  helped run the family business, Nappa Sales, with his father Michael Jr. and brother Robert from 1971 to 1981. After their father died, Michael and Robert ran it until they closed their doors in 2018.

They also managed 15 apartments behind the storefront on Main Street in Westport, which served low-income tenants. Some kept in touch even after moving away.

Michael enjoyed movies. He also rescued cats, and nursed them back to health.

He is survived by his sister Marion of Westport; brother Robert (Linda) of Wilton; nieces and nephews Linda and Diana DeMattia, and Katherine and and Robert Nappa Jr. and great-nephews and nieces Daniel Landan, and Emma and Louis Parnes.

The Family will receive friend in the Harding Funeral Home on Thursday (July 10, 10-11 a.m.). A graveside service will follow in Assumption Cemetery, 73 Greens Farms Road at 11:15 a.m.

Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to the American Heart Association. Condolences for the family can be left online here.

Michael Nappa III

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Most “Westport … Naturally” photos are gorgeous, inspiring, cute or fun.

Occasionlly, they’re all of those in one shot.

Today’s image is none of the above.

Spotted lanternflies can be seen all over town.

Tammy Barry “spotted” this scene on Hillspoint Road. Neaby, the invasive bugs can be seen all over the trunks of another invasive species: trees of heaven.

Ugh.

(Photo/Tammy Barry)

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And finally … in honor of Soleil Toile (story above):

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P&Z: No Hamlet Decision Yet. But Soon …

Design. Traffic. Parking.

Those concerns were raised again last night — as they have been for several months — as the Planning & Zoning Commission debated the Hamlet at Saugatuck proposal.

The long process is nearing an end, however. Commissioners meet again on July 21. A vote on the controversial retail/residential/hotel/event space project may come then, or the following week (July 28).

That vote may include outright acceptance or rejection, or approval with conditions.

As the meeting began, 3 commissioners — Michael Cammeyer, Neil Cohn and Breanne Injeski — indicated that they favor the Hamlet.

Four — chair Paul Lebowitz, and Michael Calise, Amy Wistreich and Patrizia Zucaro — said they are opposed.

Artist’s rendering of the Hamlet at Saugatuck project.

The work session was to determine whether developers ROAN Ventures comply with a text amendment, created in 2022 to allow a development like this. Cohn said that it does.

But Wistreich and others cited ongoing concerns, in several areas.

Zucaro spent over 3 hours offering a detailed analysis of how the project does not comply with the text amendment, such as “water dependent uses” (including stormwater management, public access and waterfront parking), along with traffic flow in the area.

Other traffic issues revolved around employee parking, stacked valet parking, and a proposed roundabout.

Traffic plans, submitted by ROAN Ventures.

In terms of density, Cohn noted that the height of the buildings is allowed by the text amendment. Wistreich called it an “urban design.” Cammeyere countered that multiple elements make up a small-town feel, beyond the size of a building.

Cohn reiterated his belief that — because the Hamlet plan complies with the text amendment — the commission cannot reject it.

Cammeyer added that ROAN has done a good job with the environmental aspect — and that the P&Z’s professional staff agrees that it complies.

The 65-day window for a decision continues to tick down.

(Reporting by Catie Campagnino)

NeuroMind: Unlocking Neurodiverse “Superpowers”

For neurodiverse people, “masking” is a way to find acceptance — in social situations, school and the workplace.

Forcing eye contact and making small talk, for example, or hiding repetitive behaviors, enables those on the autism spectrum, people diagnosed with ADHD and others, to navigate a neurotypical world.

But creating a façade, or acting in a way that does not feel authentic, can be difficult, exhausting — even detrimental to emotional health.

Lauren Rosenblum

Lauren Brown Rosenblum and Chelsea Elkind take a different tack. They believe in “neuro-affirmation” — helping neurodivese people of all ages stay true to themselves, and embrace their “superpowers.”

Through individual and group coaching and support, career development, educational consulting, cognitive rehabilitation and more, they do not “improve” clients’ lives.

They prefer to say, “We help get people where they want to go.”

On their own, neurodivergent terms.

The Westport professionals do it through NeuroMind. Their collaboration embraces neurodiversity, prioritizes autonomy, and builds skills and confidence.

Their backgrounds are complementary. Rosenblum — a Staples High School Class of 2010 graduate, who earned a master’s in communication science and disosrders from Columbia University — worked in speech therapy, in New York schools.

Chelsea Elkind

Elkind — a New Jersey native, and competitive gymnast at the University of New Hampshire, where she earned a bachelor’s and master’s in occupational therapy — worked at large hospitals in Chicago and New York.

Both moved to Westport with their families during the pandemic. Rosenblum and her boyfriend (now husband) Jake came to live with her parents for what they thought would be a couple of weeks. They’re still here (in their own home, with one child and another on the way).

Elkind was pregnant. She and her husband had friends and relatives here.

Both have been invigorated by the influx of young families. “It’s like the first year of college,” Rosenblum says. “Everyone is making friends, and doing things together.”

The women met socially a couple of years ago. They share similar interests and work ethics.

Realizing a shared passion, they created NeuroMind.

They and their staff of speech pathologists, occupational therapists and licensed counselors offer a range of services, from executive functioning support for organization and planning, to career coaching, educational readiness, independent living skills and social skills training.

Clients include youngsters to men and women in their 60s and 70s. Some parents of neurodiverse youngsters have realized they may be neurodiverse too.

Neurodivergent “superpowers.”

“There’s a lot of neurotypical ‘projecting'” in today’s world, Rosenblum says.

Children are told, “you need to sit still so you can learn math, and succeed in life.”

But here are many ways to succeed, Elkind notes. Someone obsessed with, say, Dungeons & Dragons can earn a good living as a livestreamer.

“We help them advocate for their diagnoses, and find areas of growth,” Rosenblum explains.

“They often say ‘no one really understands how my brain works.'” The neurodivergent therapists on the NeuroMind team do.

One client, suffering from depression, lived at home with their parents. Eventually they got a job, joined a dating app, found a partner, and moved to Colorado to enjoy the outdoor lifestyle. “All it took was a bit of support to achieve their goals,” Elkind says.

Olivia McGuffog, working with young clients.

A woman in her mid-20s, diagnosed with autism and obsessive-compulsive disorder, was burned out at work — not uncommon for neuro-divergent people.

NeuroMind’s staff helped her find a fulfilling career. Her “superpower” was seeing minute details. She is now a superb professional organizer.

A woman with ADHD — raising 2 children, and working as a New York attorney — struggled to manage her work and home lives.

NeuroMind helped her use an app to take mental rests. She also reduced her nighttime sensory overloads, allowing her to sleep better.

Much of their work is virtual. But they’ve reached out to local groups like Uniquely Mothering and Tilt, and will add more in-person support. In the works: home visits, and perhaps a brick-and-mortar location.

Autism, ADHD and OCD have been stigmatized for years.

Now — thanks to words like “neurodiversity,” and the public embrace of their neurodivergence by famous figures like Elon Musk — that stigma is fading.

“Superpowers” are having their moment. At NeuroMind, Lauren Rosenblum and Chelsea Elkind make sure that everyone gets a chance to show off theirs.

(To learn more about NeuroMind, click here. Their Instagram is @NeuroMindServices.)

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Relaxing at the Westport Country Playhouse, before a show. (Photo/Dan Woog)