Photo Challenge #217

Two weeks ago, our Photo Challenge showed a jetty. It could have been anywhere in Westport — but it was on Saugatuck Shores.

Last week, we posted another waterfront scene. This one — of a mechanical contraption — was a lot less familiar than the jetties. In fact, it stumped everyone.

Except Fred Cantor.

He correctly placed it at Sherwood Island State Park.

As Dave Wilson — who took the photo (click here to see) — explains:

The structure is located inside the Sherwood Island property. It’s behind the maintenance building which is to the right, a few hundred yards near the park entrance. It faces to the west.

Its purpose (so I was told by the head of SI maintenance) is to measure the quality of air coming our way from NYC. He told me there are other units stationed around the area, but I don’t know if he meant Westport or other nearby towns. It’s Managed by the state of Connecticut ( I think).

The only way you would know the unit is there is if you worked at SI or you took a walk off the beaten track and happened upon it. It’s actually 50-100 yards off the back maintenance road and visible, but not a standout unless you walk closer. It just looked very very strange and at first it seemed to be a generator. But then why there, away from everything?

So I wandered into the nearby building, with an open door, ran into head dude (a Staples grad class of ’85 with last name of Frawley who said he has been there since high school days) and asked away.

At first glance, this week’s Photo Challenge seems crazy.

(Photo/Mary Ann Meyer)

Westport is swimming in stop signs. Who could identify this one?

But Mary Ann Meyer — who took the shot — notes, “This is only a 2-way stop. Traffic does not stop going past it.”

She thinks this is the only one of its kind in town.

Is it true? If you think you know where in Westport you’d see this, click “Comments” below. We’ll find out soon if you’re right — and whether Mary Ann is too.

Jim Torrey’s Dry Cleaning Challenge

Alert “06880” reader/frustrated dry cleaning customer Jim Torrey writes:

Several years ago I moved to Westport from Greenwich. I am very happy that I did. But I still have an office in Greenwich, so I am there with frequently.

When I first got to Westport I looked for a dry cleaning outlet, mostly to launder shirts. I like them folded, so they fit in a drawer.

A shirt from Jim Torrey’s dry cleaner.

I tried several, but all gave the shirts back to me with an abundance of plastic — in the collar, the shirt in a bag, everywhere.

I asked that my shirts be returned without any plastic; simply folded, perhaps with a paper band around them and wrapped in paper.

I could not get any place to agree. In fact, they wanted to charge me more for eliminating the plastic!

In Greenwich — where I continue to bring my shirts — I get a piece of paper inside the shirt, a paper band around the shirt to keep it folded, and brown paper wrapping around all the shirts. There is no plastic anywhere.

I would also welcome a dry cleaner eliminating the plastic bag that comes with hung pants and jackets. I can’t stand it. I am fairly certain that your readers don’t welcome all of that unnecessary plastic either.

What do you say, “06880” readers? Is there a dry cleaner in town who will do what Jim asks? How do you feel about all that plastic that comes with your cleaning? What are your Westport dry cleaning experiences? Click “Comments” to reply. 

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Dog day at Old Mill Beach (Photo/Patricia McMahon)

Kelsey Morey’s Catwalk

By day, Kelsey Morey is a beauty pro. The founder of Haus of Pretty on Railroad Place, she’s known for her custom hair color and event styling design — and for showcasing local, sustainable products.

By night, she’s a yoga and barre aficionado.

Every day and night, she deals with type 1 diabetes.

Her daily routine includes morning and mealtime insulin doses; meticulous meal planning, calculating the carbohydrates in each item; blood sugar testing 8 to 10 times a day; snacking in between clients; hydrating; exercising; logging numbers for her doctors, and keeping a medical supply count for future orders.

Kelsey Morey

Balancing diabetes and running a business is challenging. But Kelsey embraces it. She uses her skills to make clients feel great about themselves — and give back to the local and diabetes communities.

On Thursday, March 7 (11 a.m. to 1:30 p.m., Abigail Kirsch at The Loading Dock, Stamford), Kelsey will speak at the 9th annual JDRF Catwalk. The event — which has raised $850,000 so far for diabetes research — includes cocktails, lunch, a professional runway show by Lord & Taylor, pop-up shop and high-end handbag raffle (with a diamond necklace grand prize).

But the keynote speech is always a highlight. Kelsey — who will describe her personal and professional life since her diagnosis at age 15 — should be particularly compelling.

When models walk the runway, she’ll walk the talk. Haus of Pretty will offer Beauty Bar makeup applications for attendees during the cocktail hour.

That’s “pretty” cool. And “pretty” important too.

(Click here for more information and tickets to the March 7 Catwalk.)

Westport, Westwood And 1960s Anti-Semitism

Alert “06880” reader, longtime Westporter — and current Californian — Fred Cantor writes:

A new book, Hollywood’s Eve by Lili Anolik, is generating plenty of media attention. It tells the story of Eve Babitz, a writer, artist and real-life Forrest Gump-type: For years, she crossed paths with many prominent Los Angeles personalities.

Critics now hail Babitz for providing a keen insider’s perspective of the LA scene of the 1950s to ’80s. She grew up there, and spent virtually her entire adult life in LA –except for a short time in Italy, and one year in New York City (March 1966 to March ’67).

What does this have to do with Westport?

In Babitz’s first book — Eve’s Hollywood — she describes visiting Westport on a summer weekend, in 1966.

She had an anti-Semitic experience. She then generalizes about it, comparing Westport to Westwood circa 1960 or 1961. (Many of her high school classmates went to UCLA. Eve chose Los Angeles City College.)

Westwood, where UCLA is, is so insanely crappy you could throw up. It’s so WHITE and it’s so clean and it’s so impervious, and the closest I ever got to that feeling of Westwood was when someone took me out of the Lower East Side in New York one horrible summer day to their mother’s house in Westport, Conn., and their mother was so shocked and repelled by me (she could tell I was Jewish, where her son hadn’t noticed) that she ran slides of his ex-girl friend for 45 minutes after dinner. That’s what Westwood is like.

Eve’s observations about LA back in the day might have been spot on. As for her representation of Westport in 1966, and the comparison to Westwood — well, if you lived in Westport the ’60s, you be the judge.

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Westport Woman’s Club gazebo (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

Lester’s Leaves

Lester’s — the contemporary women’s clothing store opposite Fresh Market on Post Road East, near Dunkin’ Donuts and the UPS Store — will close this spring.

The store began in Brooklyn in 1948. They opened their first Connecticut location — in Westport — 3 years ago next month. However, a spokesman said, the strip mall site proved too small for all of Lester’s departments.

“We have enjoyed being part of the Westport community for the last 2 years, and are filled with gratitude for all of our wonderful customers,” the spokesman added.

A “Best Goodbye Sale Ever” begins tomorrow (February 23), with savings of up to 90% on clothing, shoes and accessories.

When Westport closes, the nearest Lester’s will be in Rye Brook, New York.

This won’t be the only vacancy at 606 Post Road East. Earth Animal moves out soon — but they’re not closing.

They’re relocating to 925 Post Road East. That’s the former site of the notoriously hard-to-park-at Starbucks.

Before that — as Westporters of a certain age remember — it had been the Krazy Vin’s strip club.

 

Friday Flashback #130

Westporters love Nyala Farm.

We admire its vast, open meadows. We marvel at its ever-changing beauty. We take almost as many photos of its iconic well as we do of the cannons at Compo.

We don’t even mind that the enormous expanse of land tucked between Greens Farms Road, the Sherwood Island Connector and I-95 is an office park — one of 2 Westport headquarters for hedge fund titan Bridgewater.

We don’t mind, because we don’t see it.

What many people may not know is that Nyala Farm is not a cute, throwback name. Back in the day, it was an actual, working dairy farm.

(Photo courtesy of Paul Ehrismann)

Generations of Westporters took field trips there. They learned that all 52 acres were bought in 1910 by E.T. Bedford.

His son, Frederick T. Bedford, named the farm in honor of the beautiful nyala (antelope) he’d seen on an African safari.

In 1970, Stauffer Chemical developed their world headquarters there. It was Westport’s first corporate office park.

That put an end to scenes like this:

(Robert Vickrey painting, courtesy of Paul Ehrismann)

The cows and sleds are gone. But the well — and the memories — remain.

Cy And Joyce Brigish Star In A Book

In 1968, Alan and Joyce Brigish had their first child. When Cy was diagnosed with Down syndrome, many people advised them to put him in an institution, then go on with their lives.

Against the prevailing wisdom of the day, the couple decided to keep their family together.

They spent years advocating for a child who was not like most others. They also offered him every opportunity to reach his potential educationally, socially and spiritually.

Cy Brigish

Every day there were challenges, frustrations and triumphs. While raising Cy — and her 2 other children, Hal and Jackie, in Westport — Joyce also worked for the inclusion of all people with disabilities.

She did it with patience, kindness, diligence and fortitude. In doing so, she helped change public sentiment concerning people who, historically, were marginalized.

STAR, Inc. Lighting the Way has long been a big part of Cy’s life. Established in 1952 by parents who believed that children with intellectual and developmental disabilities were entitled to the same basic opportunities as other children, today STAR is a not-for-profit organization with a full array of services for over 600 people from birth to their senior years — and for their families.

STAR helps those individuals live full lives with independence, freedom of choice and personal growth. Services include early intervention for infants and preschoolers; family support; job assessment and training; recreation and leisure activities, and support to adults in group homes and apartments.

The other day, Alan donated copies of a book to STAR. It’s called “Joyce’s Way: Finding Normality Despite Disability.”

Written by Susan Klein, it’s the story of his wife. Klein shows how Joyce and her family helped Cy reach his potential, while helping pioneer a new way of seeing people with disabilities.

STAR, in turn, donated copies of “Joyce’s Way” to local libraries.

Today, Cy — a star STAR client — works 2 jobs: at Garavel Chrysler Jeep and Panera Bread. He lives independently, and recently turned 50.

Joyce was not there that day. She died of cancer in 2016.

But her legacy of inclusion, advocacy and love remains. Now it lives on, in the pages of the book her husband donated to STAR, and which will be passed along, far and wide.

(To order o copy of “Joyce’s Way,” click here. For information about STAR, including how to donate or volunteer, click here or call 203-846-9581, ext. 302.)

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Sunrise at Staples High School — back parking lot and athletic fields (Photo/Colin Neenan)