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Y’s Men: 47 Years Of Action, Friendship And Wisdom

It may be the most accurate club name of all time: The Y’s Men of Westport/ Weston.

Organized in 1977 for the “enlightenment, fellowship and community service” of retired or semi-retired men who live in either town — or once did — the group now includes over 450 members.

Every week, they welcome an interesting speaker. They also support a few dozen special interest groups, ranging from books, boating, bridge, classical music and skiing to global issues, investments, community service and travel.

The Y’s Men organize regular trips to New York for Hudson River cruises, historic district walks, and tours of museums and other venues.

They host a holiday party, summer lobster bakes and other bashes, a Chinese New Year celebration and more.

Every Memorial Day, they build a float that wins the parade’s “Best in Show” award. If the theme is D-Day, for example, the only thing missing is the actual General Eisenhower.

The Y’s Men’s 2021 float continued their award-winning tradition. (Photo/Dan Woog)

As their name implies, the Y’s Men are quite wise. They are also energetic, curious, helpful and fun.

They are not, however, associated in any way with the Westport Weston Family YMCA.

The name harks back to their original meeting site: the Y’s downtown location. (Today it’s Anthropologie.) There is no longer any connection between the Y’s Men and the Y.

The current meeting site — Saugatuck Congregational Church — scarcely holds all the members who gather each Thursday.

After coffee, donuts and announcements, they settle back to hear — and then question — the likes of Governors Ned Lamont and Jodi Rell, Senator Richard Blumenthal, Congressmen Jim Himes and Chris Shays, JetBlue founder David Neeleman, former Madison Square Garden and New York Knicks chief Dave Checketts, former New York Giants star and Monday Night Football commentator Frank Gifford, and University of Connecticut basketball coach Geno Auriemma.

Federal Reserve Board governor Sarah Bloom Raskin, one of many noted Y’s Men speakers.

They hear from noted Westporters too, like CNN anchor Alisyn Camerota, lifestyle guru Martha Stewart, attorney Josh Koskoff, Playtex CEO and philanthropist Joel Smilow, and Jim Nantz. (The sportscaster said he wished his father in Houston could have a club like the Y’s Men — then asked that his dad be made an honorary member.)

E. Bruce Borner is president of the Y’s Men. A Westporter since 2003, he is a typical (if that is possible) member. He earned an MBA, then had a busy professional career in software development and web design.

E. Bruce Borner

The late Bill Meyer got Borner involved with the Y’s Men. Bob Mitchell encouraged him to become a leader, first as speaker’s chair, then vice president.

“it’s not just the speakers, not just the many activities” that kept him coming back, Borner says. “It’s the relationships.”

Though retired or semi-retired, members are “definitely not done,” he notes.

“There are so many people with very interesting backgrounds. They’ve got stories about their lives, and their current hikes and travels or whatever else they’re dong. The camaraderie is great.”

The Y’s Men are starting to skew younger, Borner says, with more members in their 60s.

The many new Y’s Men quickly feel welcomed and comfortable. They get involved, and engaged.

And, in a tradition dating back nearly 50 years, they receive — and offer — wise words of advice, support and friendship.

(For more information on the Y’s Men of Westport/Weston, click here for their website. It’s as vibrant and interesting as they are.)

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Take a hike! The Y’s Men often do. (Photo/Molly Alger)

Rotarians Seek Help For Helene Victims

Westport’s Rotary and Sunrise Rotary are joining other clubs in Connecticut to help another Rotary group in western North Carolina, as it aids victims of Hurricane Helen.

They’re asking “06880” readers to help too.

Two members of the East Hampton Rotary Club have donated a 50-foot semi-truck, and a 26-foot box truck, to transport collected materials.

The collection is set for Tuesday (October 8, 9 a.m. to 1 p.m., Westport Stop & Shop).

Items needed include:

  • Canned or packaged food with a long shelf life (especially cases of ramen, pasta and rice)
  • Paper products (toilet paper, paper towels and plates, plastic utensils, feminine hygiene products)
  • All types of batteries
  • Pet food and cat litter
  • Shelf-stable milk
  • Bug spray
  • Baby food, diapers, formula
  • Hand-held can openers
  • Disinfectant spray
  • Over-the-counter meds
  • First aid supplies
  • Sports drinks
  • Water (low priority)

Other items that are not available at Stop & Shop, but still needed, are:

Tools and equipment

  • Heavy-duty extension cords
  • Small generators
  • Gas & diesel fuel (many residents are using their own equipment to push through roads, and are running out)
  • Bar and chain oil for chainsaws
  • 2-cycle fuel mix for chainsaws
  • Chains and sharpeners

Other essentials

  •  Car batteries
  • Propane
  • Hay
  • Starlinks
  • Cots, tents, sleeping bags

Medical Supplies

  • Tourniquets
  • Medical scissors
  • First aid kits

Once items are collected Tuesday at Stop & Shop, the trucks will be driven directly to Asheville, then distributed by the Rotary Club there.

North Carolina needs help. Westport’s Rotary Clubs are answering the call — with help from the rest of the town.

Roundup: Great Duck Race, Sidewalk Sale, Blood Drive …

Non-ducky weather did not dampen yesterday’s Great Duck Race.

The annual Sunrise Rotary Club fundraiser drew its usual large crowd of bettors, kids, and everyone else looking for a family-friendly, offbeat way to have fun.

Over 3,000 small plastic ducks were dropped from a giant front loader, then raced down a 160-foot sluice course constructed by Rotary members with help from the Westport Fire Department.

Here’s some of the race action:

Before the start. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

The crowd waits. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

And they’re off! (Photo/Mark Mathias)

It’s a very crowded field. (Photo/June Rose Whittaker)

First Selectwoman Jen Tooker provides play-by-play. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

The winner nears the finish chute. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

The big — as in $5,000 — winner was Will Augustyn.

George Masumian’s duck came in second, earning him $1,000.

Eight other winners picked up $500 each: Stephen Pianka, Jim Marpe, David Moore, Michael Paul, Steven Benardete, Jason Rich, Aimee Monroy Smith and Judith McBride.

It was all for a great cause.

Sunrise Rotary will give away 100% of all proceeds to local and international charities. Officials estimate that $70,000 was raised.

Congrats to all Rotarians, for a great day of entertainment and good works.

Congrats to the winners, too. You trained your ducks well.

Meanwhile, there was plenty else to do, before the actual race, like a Nerdy Derby, pin making, bubble machines and more, plus sponsors’ tents and food trucks.

Here are a few scenes:

Cub Scout Pack 39 sponsored a “Rainbow Regatta.” (Photo/James Delorey)

Kids’ activities were bubble-icious. (Photo/Mark Mathias)

In just a few months, Alina’s Cakes & Cookies has become an important part of the community. Owner Alina Dancho got into the spirit, with duck-themed treats.

Ducks know that the earth is nearly 75% water. The Great Duck Race shared Jesup Green with jUNe Day, when guests from around the globe came to town. Many stayed for the Sunrise Rotary fun. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Of course, the Westport Downtown Association Sidewalk Sale was part of yesterday’s fun.

It continues today, on and around Main Street (including Sconset and Playhouse Squares).

It may rain this afternoon. So get there early!

Rhone — and many other downtown merchants — invites you to their sidewalk sale.

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VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399/August Matthias American Legion Post 63 just passed a milestone:  4 straight years of monthly Red Cross blood drives. Over 2,220 donors have participated.

On Friday, the drive sponsored by the Goddard Schools in Westport drew over 80 donors.

VFW quartermaster Phil Delgado says, “thanks to sustained partnerships with other community non-profit organizations, we have become the premier Red Cross Blood donor site in Fairfield County

“Remember: One unit of blood can save up three lives.”

The next blood drive is July 31 (noon to 6 p.m). Click here for an appointment. (use this sponsor code: VFWWESTPORT), or call 800-733-2767.

Four straight years of monthly blood drives.

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On Friday, Lynn Bishop glanced out her dining room window, near Clinton Avenue — and saw this young bear ambling toward her kids’ slide.

“Barely” concealing her surprise, she snapped this “Westport … Naturally” photo:

Other “06880” readers reported seeing it nearby, in Willowbrook Cemetery, and shuffling along that stretch of Main Street.

Yesterday it was seen on Easton Road and then Northside Lane, off North Avenue.

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And finally … Florence Ballard was born on this date in 1943. A founding member of the Supremes, she sang on 10 #1 hits.

Motown owner Barry Gordy removed her from the group in 1967. She struggled with alcoholism, depression and poverty, and died of a heart attack in 1976, age 32.

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Unsung Hero #338

Lynn Abramson writes:

Over her many years with Homes with Hope (formerly the Interfaith Housing Association), Wendy Epstein has quietly helped hundreds of community members and colleagues to grow and thrive.

As a young mother of 4 looking to use her social work degree to help others, she started volunteering with the IHA women’s mentoring program.

Looking to do more, she helped organize Jumpstart, a partnership with Westport’s Department of Human Services that provided parenting workshops (and pizza!) for struggling young mothers and their children.

When the women’s mentoring program needed a new director in 2002, Wendy was the obvious choice. She became a whiz at recruiting and training new mentors, matching mentors and mentees, and facilitating their supportive relationships.

In 2009, when Homes with Hope expanded its mission to provide supportive housing in addition to emergency shelter services, Wendy similarly grew her commitment and added case management for supportive housing residents to her workload.

As Homes with Hope and its services continued to grow, so did Wendy’s commitment to supporting not only the most vulnerable members of our community, but her co-workers.

Wendy Epstein

In 2018 she transitioned to her current role as director of supportive housing, supervising Homes with Hope’s case managers.

Under Wendy’s direction, 3 supportive case managers provide services for more than 50 units of supportive housing, as well as other scattered sites in Fairfield County.

She also provides direct supervision for 3 additional case managers in our Rapid Rehousing programs serving single adults, young adults and families.

Wendy also supervises me — the director of ASAP, Homes with Hope’s after-school program — providing valuable counsel on how to navigate the day-to-day challenges of this fledgling project.

I cannot overstate how much I have learned from Wendy. With her supportive leadership and nurturing manner, she models the power of positivity.

When I am at a loss for how to handle a difficult situation, I can count on Wendy to offer encouragement and concrete suggestions. Her firm yet gentle style deftly motivates me to try to be the best version of myself for the children and volunteers of ASAP.

After 22 years with Homes with Hope, Wendy is retiring to spend more time with family, and start a small counseling practice. Paris Looney, our vice president and chief operating officer, says, “Wendy has been a friend, colleague, and mentor to me for the 20 years we have worked together. I will miss our daily check-ins and moments of laughter. I wish my good friend well as she continues to provide counsel and support to others in need.” 

Here at Homes with Hope we will greatly miss Wendy’s warm presence, steady leadership and disarming sense of humor. But we are thrilled that plenty of others — children, grandchildren and counseling clients — will be the beneficiaries of her wisdom.

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Staples Students Promote Non-Profits

Fairfield County is filled with interesting non-profits, doing important things.

And 4 Staples High School juniors want everyone to know about them.

Zach Gorin and Aaron Varsov are excellent students, and high-level soccer players. They don’t have a lot of free time.

But they wanted to start a business. Their friend Jack Schwartz had the idea of a podcast, to promote non-profits.

They enlisted a fourth other sharp, soccer-playing Staples teammate, Cormac Mulvey.

From left: Jack Schwartz, Cormac Mulvey, Aaron Varsov, Zach Gorin.

The 11th graders already knew a bit about non-profits. Zach is on the junior board of Homes with Hope. Jack is on Yale Children’s Hospital’s junior board.

“A lot of non-profits don’t get much recognition,” Jack says. “We want to tell their stories, the stuff you don’t find on their website. We want people to be inspired by them — especially kids.”

“Non-Profit Promoters” — the name of their venture — chronicles the organizations’ struggles and triumphs.

And it’s done through interviews with the non-profits’ leaders themselves.

Their first guest was George Todorovich. The Weston High School graduate — now at the University of Virginia — uses the power of basketball to help impoverished, war-torn communities in the former Yugoslavia, where his family is from.

Jack and Aaron conducted the 18-minute interview.

They’re just starting their project. But there’s no shortage of non-profits for them to publicize.

If your group would like to be considered, email jackschwartz2007@gmail.com.

(For Non-Profit Promoters’ Spotify link, click here. For their Instagram, click here. For their website, click here.)

Homes With Hope: 40 Years Of Helping

For a place as contentious as Westport — some folks opposed building a playground at Compo, and half the town thought building a nuclear power plant on Cockenoe Island was just ducky — you’d think putting a homeless shelter in the heart of downtown would ignite World War III.

But you would be wrong.

As Homes with Hope prepares to celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Gillespie Center on April 9 with a video and reception, it’s a great time to look back on the origins of one of the first shelters in a suburban town, anywhere in the US.

Sure, there was a bit of debate about the opening of Westport’s first homeless shelter in 1984, at the former Vigilant firehouse (where OKO restaurant is now, in the parking lot between Bartaco and National Hall).

The Vigilant Firehouse on Wilton Road, circa 1977. In 1984, it became the town’s first men’s shelter.

But the moral leadership of Reverend Pete Powell, Reverend Ted Hoskins, Rabbi Bob Orkand and businessman James Bacharach, plus town support from 1st selectman Bill Seiden, human services director Barbara Butler and David Kennedy, tamped much of the controversy.

A few years later, as Arthur Tauck redeveloped National Hall into an inn, moving to Jesup Road — catty-corner from the police station — made sense.

Many hands helped make the new 15-bed home possible. (The toilets were rescued from a Beachside Avenue home that Phil Donohue was razing.)

A 5-bed facility for women — now called Hoskins Place — was built next to the men’s shelter, when the Westport Transit District office moved.

Over the years, the Gillespie Center’s conversion from a beat-up old maintenance shed behind what was then the Fine Arts Theater (now Barnes & Noble) to a well-maintained shelter has enhanced the look of the entire area.

The Gillespie Center and Hoskins Place — Westport’s men’s and women’s shelters. (Photo/June Rose Whittaker)

Less visible is what goes on inside. But the men and women who seek shelter there — and others who use the very active food pantry — know and appreciate the hard work and tremendous care given by Homes with Hope to many in town over the past 40 years.

For 4 decades the Gillespie Center — the name honors Jim Gillespie, the 1st president of Homes with Hope (then called the Interfaith Housing Association) — has provided housing, meals and hope to thousands of men and women.

And many more Westporters than that have contributed food, setup and cleanup help, equipment and funds to keep that hope alive.

Dolores Bacharach and Pete Powell reminisce about the early years of the Gillespie Center.

Several years ago, Dolores Bacharach and Rev. Pete Powell reminisced about the early days of what is now Homes with Hope. Both are featured in the new video, to be shown April 9.

Homes With Hope has grown significantly since 1984. In addition to emergency shelter for men and women, and the community kitchen and food pantry, today the non-profit agency provide supportive housing for individuals and families, rapid re-housing, diversion services, youth development programs na mentoring.

The staff develops individualized case management plans with sustainable solutions, so clients can achieve and maintain independent lives

If you’re looking for controversy — or a story about an affluent suburb that shunned its homeless — stay away from the Gillespie Center. You won’t find it there.

All you’ll see are beds, meals, and Westport’s support for our fellow humans, down on their luck.

(The April 9 celebration of Homes with Hope’s 40 years features a documentary film by Livio Sanchez, including interviews with some of the founders. For more details, contact CEO Helen McAlinden: hmcalinden@hwhct.org.)

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Westport Rotary: 100 Years Of “Service Above Self”

On March 26, 1924, 98 people gathered in a raging snowstorm to celebrate the founding of the 1,658th Rotary Club in the world.

A hundred years later — after raising millions of dollars for charities here, and in Africa and Asia; donating the Compo Beach playground and South Beach grills, and countless more good works — the Westport Rotary Club is poised to celebrate its centennial.

Much has changed. There are now over 46,000 clubs in Rotary International. Meetings are no longer mandatory (or male only). Membership is not restricted to one person per occupation. In Westport, lobster has replaced roast beef as the main fundraiser.

No Rotarian is alive to remember that first dinner, at the Westport (now Birchwood) Country Club. But the organization is excited to honor its century of service.

A gala dinner is set for March 7 — 100 years to the day since the Westport Rotary Club received its charter.

The Inn at Longshore event includes entertainment, and a multimedia look at Westport Rotary’s first century. All attendees will receive a commemorative book, written by Ron Henkoff.

Anson Leary

It’s packed with history, starting with 33-year-old Anson Leary’s dream of starting a Rotary Club. The World War I veteran had come to Westport a year earlier, to help open the fledgling YMCA.

He envisioned a men’s counterpart to the Westport Town Improvement Association (now the Westport Woman’s Club). Charter members included Leonard Gault (son of Gault Company founder Robert), mattress factory owner Austin Wakeman, Charles Kemper (whose tannery had not yet been turned into the Westport Country Playhouse), and ice dealer Edward Nash.

Rotary International was “serious and strict,” for “men from various vocations to exchange ideas and form meaningful friendships.” Meetings rotated between members’ offices (hence the name “Rotary”), and were guided by founder Paul Harris’ motto: “Service above self.”

Westport’s Rotary met every Tuesday for lunch. Attendance was mandatory. Members traveling for business or on vacation were required to attend a local meeting there — and show proof.

Westport meetings included patriotic and popular songs. There was a Rotary band. For gala dances, men wore tuxes. (Their wives, dressed in evening gowns, were called “Rotary-Annes.”)

The Westport Rotary Club’s 1928 band.

The Westport club’s first project — begun in June 1924, just 3 months after their founding — was building a playground behind then-new Bedford Elementary School (now Town Hall). Members cleared and leveled the ground, and installed equipment.

In those early years they raised money for the town’s first ambulance, paid for surgery to save a boy’s eyesight, donated funds to disabled children, equipped the Bedford Junior High fife and drum corps, sponsored twilight baseball, and started a college fund.

Their 10th anniversary celebration in 1934 was at the Open Door Inn on Jesup Road. The party lasted until 1:30 a.m.

In the summer of 1940, the Westport Rotary Orchestra played at the New York World’s Fair. After war broke out the next year members sold war bonds, and raised money for families whose members were fighting overseas. Founder Anson Leary, age 51, served in the Air Force Reserves in the Pacific. Closer to home, founding member Howard Gault was on the town’s Ration Board.

In 1994, Rick Benson gave the first Community Service Awards to Ed Mitchell (standing) and Howard Gault.

Over the years, Rotary evolved. Meetings were held in a variety of restaurants: the Mansion House, Compo Pavilion, Hidden Door, Josie’s Nook, The Townly, La Normandie, New Englander, Andy and Mary Barna’s, 3 Bears, Canterbury, The Inn at Longshore and Bertucci’s.

Most recently they met at Christ & Holy Trinity Church, and now Green’s Farms Church. One thing never changed, though: They’re still on Tuesdays.

President Ed Mitchell — founder of the  eponymous clothing store — initiated Roast Beef Dinners as a fundraiser. Those paid for the Compo grills, a pavilion at Camp Mahackeno, a pool at Easton’s Camp Aspetuck, dugouts at Gault Field, and the education of Sam Luciano’s 3 children, after the police chief died suddenly.

Rotary’s 50th anniversary celebration drew 95 members. Founding Rotarian Chot Kemper was still alive. Fifth-year member Bruce Knowles was there too — and remained a Rotarian for another 45 years.

Chot Kemper (left) and Bruce Knowles were both 50-year Westport Rotary Club members.

A 7-0 Supreme Court ruling in 1987 opened the Rotary door to female members across the US. A straw poll at the Westport club showed 24 in favor — but 32 against.

Five months later, Pat Harrington and Carol Way became the local organization’s first women Rotarians. Five men quit in protest.

The 1989 Westport Rotary Club photo included just 5 female members.

But by 1995 superintendent of schools Judy Rovins was chosen as the first female Westport Rotary president. The story of women in Westport Rotary ever since has been one of tremendous numbers, and tremendous contributions.

Meanwhile, past president Lou Weinstein supported the idea of a second Rotary Club here, for people who could not attend lunch meetings.

Some members opposed the idea — they thought it would be confusing, and make it harder to raise funds — but the Sunrise Rotary Club was chartered on November 22, 1988.

Today, both clubs flourish. There are about 140 members overall. Nearly half are women.

In fact, Westport has more Rotarians per capita than any other town in Zone 32 (encompassing 9 states, parts of Canada, and Bermuda).

1988 also was the year that Westport Rotary led a project to build a playground at Compo Beach. It was led by Jim Bennet. Rick Benson, whose name turns up often over the club’s past 40 years, provided strong support. Benson also worked with Paul Spiekermann to get Westport Rotary involved in overseas projects, in underserved areas of Africa and Asia.

Paul Spiekermann (left) and Rick Benson

The local club now allocates 25% of its funds to international projects. They’ve aided victims of Cambodian land mines, helped battle dengue fever in Indonesia, and contributed to projects in Lithuania, Haiti, Benin, Swaziland, Tanzania and Thailand. Westport Rotary has donated to 27 countries overall.

Rick Benson, Lyla Steenbergen and Leslie Roberts, with local officials, at the dedication of a hospital ICU unit in Uganda.

In 1994, when Connecticut welcomed the World Special Olympics Games, Rotarianns hosted athletes from Cameroon and Panama. They outfitted one athlete with a prosthetic leg.

Five years later, for their 75th anniversary, Westport Rotary led an $82,000 effort to restore the Compo Beach cannons. They also joined with other organizations to give the Westport Fire Department a mobile classroom, to teach children about safety.

The LobsterFest fundraiser began in 2012, under president Julia Broder. (An earlier clambake ended when the price of seafood soared.) Last year’s event brought in $280,000. Overall, LobsterFest has raised over $1.5 million, for local projects like scholarships, meals at the Gillespie Center and Habitat for Humanity houses in Bridgeport, and many more overseas.

(Save the date: LobsterFest 2024 is September 21!)

LobsterFest: One of the best parties in town.

That’s just the first 100 years. As Westport Rotary looks to the next 100, they’ve earmarked $100,000 to join with the Westport Young Woman’s League in renovating the Compo playground they helped build in 1989.

Though no one is alive to remember, it hearkens back to that very first project, in 1924: the Bedford Elementary School playground.

The more things change, the more they remain the same.

Happy 100th birthday, Westport Rotary Club. Here’s to 100 more, helping Westport — and the world.

(Tickets to Westport Rotary’s March 7 centennial gala are $100. (Venmo @Thomas-Carey-73046, or mail checks to Westport Rotary PO Box 743, Westport, CT 06881). Email: rsvp.WestportRotary@gmail.com.)

FUN WESTPORT ROTARY CLUB FACTS: 8 Westport Rotarians have served as 1st selectperson: E.C. Nash, Austin Wakeman, Herb Baldwin, Bill Seiden, Joe Arcudi, Dianne Farrell, Gordon Joseloff, Jim Marpe and Jen Tooker (Sunrise Rotary member).

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RTM Invocation: Museum Director’s Strong Words

By tradition, every Representative Town Meeting session opens with an invocation.

The invited speaker — sometimes a clergyperson, more often not — makes a few remarks about the RTM, democracy, the town, whatever.

They fall somewhere on the scale from uplifting to innocuous. An invocation to a group like the RTM traditionally takes “the form of a prayer, a recitation of an inspirational message or a quiet time of guided contemplation,” a web search says.

Tuesday night’s invocation was hardly innocuous.

Ramin Ganeshram — executive director of the Westport Museum for History & Culture — began the Zoom meeting by noting that her building, Town Hall and the entire town sit on tribal lands of the Paugussett people.

Recognizing that this RTM meeting would discuss funding for a new Long Lots Elementary School, she expressed pride that Westport dedicates resources to a “world-class school system.”

Screenshot of Ramin Ganeshram, from Tuesday’s RTM meeting.

Citing the need for collaboration and “truth in history,” Ganeshram described attacks by “conservatives and liberals” on local committees and institutions during the recent school debate, whether “based on facts or not.”

The Westport Museum for History & Culture is also “no stranger to civil discourse,” she said.

Seven years ago, Ganeshram explained, the board decided to “evolve from aggrandizing the genteel past of Westport’s founding fathers,” to “exhibits and programs that uplift erased narratives.”

The “reward” was “public harassment that ranges from thinly veiled racism and libel on the local gossip blog, to attempts to leverage town agencies to close the museum, or change its management.”

However, Ganeshram said, those efforts were “fruitless,” because the museum is a private institution.

“We are not vulnerable to the tools of the anti-equity playbook: persistent FOIA requests, interruptions of public meetings, or a right to be disruptive on premises,” she said.

The Museum will remain “trustworthy” specifically because it is not beholden to public money. “We can objectively act where town institutions cannot.”

While “parents try to shut down BIPOC (Black, indigenous, and other people of color) social studies classes, or lobby to remove LGBTQ books,” the director said that museum exhibits highlight events like past unfair housing practices.

“A feel-good-only approach to history is not accurate history,” Ganeshram said. “It is not the job of people in the present to seek absolution for deeds of the past.”

Returning to the theme of the RTM meeting — an appropriation for a new school — Ganeshram said that Generation Z “is “not afraid to call out white privilege, antisemitism, misogyny, bias or genocide. They refuse forgiveness for enslaving town fathers because ‘that’s just the way things were.’

“We must be able to act without fear of scapegoating or attack,” she concluded, and urged RTM members to view the Westport Museum as “flag bearers for truth in history.”

“You can’t just ‘like’ the idea of the museum. You have to support it.”

Jimmy Izzo was one of several RTM members taken aback by Ganeshram’s comments.

Yesterday morning, the District 3 representative told “06880”: “I went to bed last night a bit confused by Ramin’s invocation. At first I was a bit angry, that one would use the forum, not inspire but to bash our community.

“I woke up this morning feeling a bit sorry for her. My family on both sides came to the United States with nothing. Like many immigrants, they worked for everything they have.

“My grandfather on my father’s side worked 2 jobs, raised 13 kids. At 14 when he landed in the United States, he worked the railroad for $1 a day. No unions. No vacation pay. Ten hours a day, 6 days a week.

“To him, this was all about ‘opportunity.’ Last night’s invocation could have been about ‘opportunity’ for Ramin and her privately funded museum.

Jimmy Izzo

“History is not always pretty. But it is not all bad either. We can take both the ‘positive’ and ‘negative’ and grow from it. History in a lot of ways is like our democracy: a constant work in progress.

“The founding families of Westport provided my immigrant family the opportunity to provide for their families. The Leeses, Nashes, Gaults, Sherwoods, Bedfords and others all employed Irish, Polish, Italian and other immigrants.

“To bypass the history of our founding families, donors, and people who care deeply about our community and charity, in my opinion is not a good path to take when ‘adding’ a deeper dive of Westport history.

“I love the First Amendment right of free speech. Last night, with a big RTM audience, a great opportunity to utilize ‘free speech’ to include community was missed.

“There is room for all history in our community: the good, the bad, and the ugly.  We should embrace all sides, learn, and grow as a community.

“Being positive at the podium with an open mind of filling up the glass is never a bad thing.”

I asked Ganeshram for a comment, and to explain why she thought it was important to say what she did.

Westport Museum board chair Greg Porretta responded: “On behalf of the board and staff at Westport Museum, thank you for bringing to light the inquiries from our public officials about the RTM invocation delivered by our Executive Director on February 13. We believe it reaffirms the need for our mission to reveal facts of history and encourage inclusion of all those who have gone before — particularly marginalized communities and especially in public forums where they have been historically barred.”

(Click here to view Ramin Ganeshram’s RTM invocation. It begins at 2:16.)

Full Text: Tooker’s State Of The Town Speech

Here is the full text of 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker’s “State of the Town” speech yesterday, at the Westport Library. The event was sponsored by the Westport Rotary Club and Westport Sunrise Rotary.

Welcome ,everyone! I’m honored to share the stage with Board of Education chair Lee Goldstein, and I’m so happy to be here, with all of you, in the beautiful and award-winning Westport Library – the only 5-star library in the state and a true treasure! We are so fortunate to have this incredible asset – and its fabulous staff — in our community.

And speaking of treasures, I want to extend a warm thank you to the Rotary Clubs for hosting our annual State of the Town address- – and for your many valuable contributions to our community. I think I can speak for everyone – and as a fellow Rotarian – -when I say we are grateful for everything you do. You truly make Westport a better place for us all.

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker discusses the State of the Town. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Westport is a special place, with a vibrant and engaged community — just look around at all the people that are here with us today. We’re making great progress on the top 5 priorities I laid out when Andrea and I took office 2 years ago, as well as on many other exciting initiatives.

There’s a lot to talk about.

First and foremost, my guiding principle, and that of my administration, is to ensure that Westport continues to be the best place to live, work, play and learn in the region – a place where everyone is welcome and feels like they belong.

Many of you have heard me say this before and I think it’s incredibly important that we begin there today. As first selectwoman, it’s my north star and the driving force behind everything my administration does.

In a year dominated by issues, whether they be local, national or international, that have put members of our community on edge, it is our job to make sure people feel safe, and seen, and heard. We all want to feel valued. We all want to feel like we belong. This is at the heart of who we are as a community, and it will always be a priority.

We’ve taken steps large and small to accomplish this that I will share with you:

First, we have come together many times as a community – and will continue to do so — to support each other and to show we care about the safety and well-being of our entire community — following the horrific terrorist attack on October 7.

Westporters continue to raise money for vital equipment for our sister city Lyman, thanks to Dan Woog and his efforts. Foti and I visited Lyman to meet their elected officials and residents in person, to show our support and solidarity, and to see firsthand how our contributions were making a difference under the leadership of the non-profit and our partners Ukraine Aid International. Foti and I are in regular contact with our counterparts as they continue to endure a long and devastating war.

Last spring, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker traveled to Westport’s sister city of Lyman, Ukraine. She met her counterpart, Mayor Aleksander Zhuravlov.

We now have 4 full-time school security officers at our schools solely focused on keeping our kids, parents and school staff safe. After a frightening carjacking incident in town, we held a town hall to keep residents informed on what we’re doing – proactively, every day — to protect Westport.

We installed a rainbow crosswalk downtown to celebrate our LGBTQ community.

We invited Jennifer Wallace, author of Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic – And What We Can Do About It to speak to our parents about the high-achieving, and intense, culture our kids face and to help determine what we, as parents, can do to provide a better environment for our kids.

While this is not an exhaustive list, I thought it was important to just name a few steps we’ve taken so you know that we don’t just talk, but we also take action.

As elected officials, we are here to serve you. We’re listening and we’re doing everything possible to ensure that every member of our community feels safe, heard, and valued. Priority #1.

Before I share the progress we’ve made on many other initiatives first, I want to thank our dedicated and talented town staff and my leadership team, the department heads. While we regularly highlight our unparalleled police, fire and EMS departments, I thought it would be fun to show pictures of some of the other departments who work every day to serve you and help ensure Westport remains the best place to live, work, play and learn in the region.

I could stand here for hours recounting all the things that we have accomplished this past year. Don’t worry, I won’t! But I will share some of the highlights, as well as the things we’re working on for the future. I’ll start by commenting on the other 4 stated priorities which Andrea, and I ran on 2 years ago and of course I will address some other important initiatives.

Traffic: The number one quality of life issue continues to be traffic – and we continue to make progress. We receive regular feedback from residents through email, the website form and phone calls, in addition to the 2 in-person public meetings we have committed to hosting, one in the fall and one in the spring.

Discussing traffic, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker showed a photo of a new sidewalk by Willowbrook Cemetery.

The Traffic and Pedestrian Safely Task force works through these issues prioritizing them in the most informed and organized fashion to date, which allows us to take decisive action.

We’ve accomplished quite a bit, from installing new stop signs to building new sidewalks and everything in between. Also, currently we’re tackling one of the most difficult corridors – Cross Highway, between Bayberry and North Avenue. And at a public meeting this Thursday, 2/8 we will share redesign plans for both intersections and for the corridor in between, which will include both short-term and long-term plans.

Running concurrently, Tighe and Bond has been hired to formulate a comprehensive and strategic “safe streets for all” action plan which we are launching now, with the $450,000 federal grant we were awarded. Beginning this month and likely running for the next 6 months, we will be seeking public feedback through multiple platforms. Please make your voice heard.

Thank you to our Police, Fire, Public Works Departments and the operations director for the never-ending work you are doing on this important issue.

The Longshore Capital Improvement Plan: After engaging the public and receiving feedback from residents during months of public meetings and information sessions and numerous on-line surveys, 10- year capital improvement plan was finalized and includes everything from installing pickleball courts to upgrading the pool.

We will also see a multimillion-dollar upgrade to the Inn at Longshore. As part of the amended lease agreement my team and I negotiated with Longshore Hospitality, the tenant at the Inn, they will be funding the upgrades. We are delighted to have such a highly regarded and well-known operator with deep expertise in the leisure business, due to their operational ties to the Delamar in Southport. Plans are being finalized now, and will be presented before multiple boards and commissions over the following months. I want to thank our Parks and Recreation Department and Commission, including chair Dave Floyd, for their tireless work on one of Westport’s most important assets.

Renovations are coming soon to Longshore Club Park, and the Inn at Longshore. (Drone photo/John Videler for Videler Photography)

Let’s talk about Downtown: Downtown Westport is a vibrant destination for families, shoppers and diners. We are near full occupancy. After engaging the public and receiving feedback from residents and business owners during months of public meetings, information sessions and surveys, the plan to improve Parker Harding Plaza will be back in front of Planning & Zoning shortly.

We will be implementing and enforcing 3-hour parking this spring, and electric vehicle chargers in public lots will soon be paid spots. So, the spaces that were previously 1 and 2 hours will become 3 hours. The remainder of the spaces will be all-day parking. In addition, we will be beginning the design process for Taylor Lot, Jesup Green and the Imperial Lot – which is this side of the Post Road. We welcome and want public feedback, and will go through a similar process to ensure that residents and business owners have ample opportunity to share their thoughts. I want to thank the Downtown Plan Implementation Committee — including Chair Randy Herbertson and virtually every department,as this is a complicated project, for their work to ensure our downtown is and will continue to be destination.

Flood Mitigation and Stream Management: This is a high priority, given that the Saugatuck River runs through our community, along with 7 streams, and changing – more intense — weather patterns. The Flood and Erosion Control Board has studied the 7 streams that run through Westport, and hosted multiple public meetings as they’ve worked through this complicated and long-term project.

They have prioritized Muddy Brook and Pussy Willow Brook. Stream channel improvements along with culvert and bridge improvements will be part of the work within these drainage corridors. This work has been decades in the making, and will be decades in the making. So, it’s critical to have a board – along with support from town experts – that’s prioritizing a systematic and strategic method of tackling these issues. I want to thank PW, Conservation and P&Z departments for their leadership, along with the Flood and Erosion Control Board.

We’ll continue to update you on all of these initiatives. You can go to our town website to stay informed and, as I’ve mentioned, please attend the public meetings where these initiatives are discussed. In the meantime, the list of priorities continues to evolve. As new ideas, new issues, new concerns arise, the priority list grows.

Which brings us to Long Lots Elementary School. We have a positive 8-24 report on a schematic plan for the Long Lots campus, which represents a compromise.  It includes a brand new school, multi- purpose fields, and a community garden. I want to thank the Long Lots School Building Committee, Public Works and Parks & Recreation for taking on  this multi-year project with the Board of Education and the school administration, as well as everyone who has contributed to the conversation and helped us to get where we are today.

The next phase will be to secure the funding to hire the architect, engineers and other specialists to design the school. The Board of Finance will vote on the appropriation on Wednesday, 2/7 and the RTM will vote on the appropriation on Tuesday, 2/13. The goal continues to be to start construction before the end of 2024.

Diverse Housing: We are overseeing a complete overhaul of the Gillespie Center, a town-owned property that’s run by Homes with Hope which is located across Jesup Green right in the middle of downtown.  It is an emergency shelter for single men and women, a community kitchen which serves 3 meals a day, and a food pantry. We plan to renovate the entire building, which will allow for more privacy and dignity for the clients. Thank you to building official Steve Smith, director of Human Services Elaine Daignault, Homes with Hope director Helen McAlinden and her team and board, and the Connecticut Department of Housing for your incredible work on this unique project – the only one of its type in Fairfield County. We are also actively looking at other town-owned land and physical assets that we can add to our diverse housing stock by converting to affordable housing.

Startup Westport: Last year at this time, Startup Westport was just an idea. It came from 2 Westport residents, Cliff Sirlin and Stefano Pacifico, who reached out to me separately — they didn’t even know each other — but both had a similar idea: How do we leverage the amount of local talent right here — specifically in Westport – the large number of founders, funders and leaders in the tech and innovation space? One year later, 5 events later, hundreds of event attendees later and over 800 subscribers to our regular newsletter later, we now have a public private partnership and organization which aims to activate and engage Westport’s growing tech and innovation community.

From left: Police Chief Foti Koskinas, Cliff Sirlin, Jay Norris, Connecticut chief innovation officer Dan O’Keefe, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, Stefano Pacifico, Peter Propp. All except O’Keefe are Startup Westport team leaders.

I have a quick story to share about the impact of StartUp Westport. I just received news yesterday from a CEO of a Westport-based cybersecurity firm that they were awarded a large contract with the Air Force as a result of connections made at our  StartUp Westport events. Unbelievable.

Going forward, we have 3 events scheduled in the next 3 months. We are also launching a mentorship program aimed at high school and college students. Please sign up at www.startupwestport.org for more information.  This is our team, and we want to make Westport the tech and innovation start up hub of CT.

Skip the Stuff Campaign: This is a townwide initiative launching now, in partnership with Sustainable Westport, the Westport Farmers’ Market, the Chamber of Commerce and the Westport Downtown Association, to encourage our restaurants and eating establishments to change the way they distribute accessories like utensils, napkins, condiment packs that go unused and are just thrown away in take-out and delivery orders.

In addition to the obvious environmental impact, restaurants spend $19 billion on disposable items, and local governments spend $1 billion annually on managing the waste and litter, based on pre-pandemic data. This will be an education campaign by meeting with our local eating establishments and communicating to the general public through various platforms.  Thank you to the leadership of Sustainable Westport, the Westport Farmers’ Market, the Chamber, the WDA and our town Conservation Department director and operations director for leading the way on this important and impactful sustainability initiative.

I have people from other parts of the state and the region regularly tell me how much they love Westport. We have such a beautiful town, in every season, with absolutely gorgeous natural assets and what I refer to as a great vibe.  My response is always the same … yes I feel so lucky to be the leader of this beautiful town,

But what makes it really special is the people, our residents, our business owners, our non-profit leaders – many of whom I have thanked today. We’re so fortunate to have such an engaged community that cares deeply about our collective future.

Homes with Hope’s dedicated staff and many volunteers was one of many organizations praised by 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker.

It seems very appropriate at this time to recognize Bill Vornkahl, who just passed last week. He was a great example of an engaged, caring resident. For over 50 years, he was Mr. Parade – planning our beloved Memorial Day parade and our Veteran’s Day service. He will be deeply missed but his legacy lives on in both of those events.  And his love for his country and our democracy lives on here in Westport.     

Let’s talk for a minute about democracy.  Have we had very robust debates recently? Yes — and putting aside the acrimonious tone of some of it — that’s democracy in action. A strong, functioning democracy requires all of us to be part of the solution.

It requires compromise – sometimes compromise is the only way for us to keep moving forward – to keep making progress. Is it messy sometimes? And frustrating at times? Sure. But at the end of the day, time and again, our democratic process, as stipulated specifically by our charter here in Westport, yields the best decisions for the future of our community.

And that is the responsibility of your elected leaders, to follow the democratic process and sometimes make compromises to ensure progress. Thank you to my fellow elected and appointed board and commission members – and specifically to Selectwoman Andrea Moore and Selectwoman Candice Savin – for helping me move Westport forward.

It takes all of us working together to ensure that Westport continues to be the best place to live, work, play and learn in the region – a place where everyone is welcome and feels like they belong.

And really, when you get right down to it, that’s what it’s all about. I’m honored to be your leader.

Thank you for your time today. I’m looking forward to answering your questions.

Roundup: Dr. Clarence Jones, Taylor Swift, Joe Tacopina …

Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King famously said: “If you can’t fly, then run. If you can’t run, then walk. If you can’t walk, then crawl. But whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.”

If you missed Sunday’s Martin Luther King Day celebration at the Westport Library, you should run, walk or crawl to this link:

 

Dr. Clarence Jones — King’s 93-year-old speechwriter, personal attorney and friend — delivered an emotional and inspirational master class in history, justice, and the power of one individual to change the world.

Many of those who were there Sunday will want to watch the video too.

And for all of us, Dr. Jones’ words will resonate for years to come.

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Calling all Swifties!

The Westport Country Playhouse hosts a special show, with songs from every Taylor Swift era.

Spoiler alert: The hottest entertainer on the planet won’t be there. But “powerhouse voices” will sing Swift’s songs.

The February 2 event (7 p.m.) is a benefit for the WCP’s Woodward Internship program. Tickets are $55, $65 and $75. Click here to purchase, and for more information.

She won’t appear at the Playhouse on February 2. But “powerhouse voices” singing her songs will be there.

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Donald Trump has lost another lawyer.

This one is our neighbor: Westporter Joe Tacopina.

The New York Times reported yesterday:

Joseph Tacopina, the trial lawyer on Donald J. Trump’s legal team with the most successes defending high-profile clients, will no longer represent the former president in his criminal trial in Manhattan, according to a notice sent to the court on Monday.

Mr. Tacopina also withdrew on Monday from another case in which he was still legally representing Mr. Trump: an appeal of the verdict in a lawsuit brought by the writer E. Jean Carroll. Mr. Trump was found liable for sexual abuse and defamation last year and was ordered to pay Ms. Carroll $5 million.

It was not clear why Mr. Tacopina decided to withdraw, and he declined to comment.

Click here for the full story. (Hat tip: Bill Dedman)

Attorney Joseph Tacopina sat at former President Trump’s left hand, at an arraignment in April. (Photo/Curtis Means for EPA)

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Judy Michaelis of Coldwell Banker sends this real estate report:

“Across the board, 2023 was flat compared with 2022.

“Days on market, 68, is same as the last 2 years.

“The median sales price – $2,000,000 — is the same as last year.

“The list to sales price is just over 1% of asking price, same as last year.

“The only thing that has changed is that our sales are down 24%, and that is because we had a lack of inventory.”


This 6-bedroom, 6 1/2-bathroom, 6,585-square foot house, on 4 acres at 69 Beachside Avenue, is listed for $7,950,000.

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Village Pediatrics has just finished a major renovation.

Their rooms have an outdoor theme (skiing, camping, water activities, biking, outer space). A fun rainbow goes the entire length of the office; it’s an “all are welcome here” shoutout for everyone to see.

To show off their new space, Village Pediatrics hosts an open house this Thursday (January 18, 5:30 to 6:30 p.m., 323 Riverside Avenue). Providers will be there to meet “new patients, and expecting patients.”

They’ll answer questions about their practice, which includes daily walk-in sick visits for acute issues, weekend availability for sick and well visits, late hours on Thursday evenings, Saturday check-ups, 24/7 on-call provider for emergencies, extended time at well visits, in-house lactation consults, ADHD and anxiety medication management, Accutane — and ear piercing.

Questions? Email office@villagepedi.com. Click below for a tour of their newly renovated space.

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Valentine’s Day is next month.

But the Westport Young Woman’s League Galentine’s Bingo is January 31 (7 p.m., Christ & Holy Trinity Church).

Tickets are $30, and include bingo (with prizes from local vendors), and light refreshments. Click here to purchase, and for more information. The event is BYOB.

Proceeds help fun WYWL’s Grants Program. Last year, the organization donated $90,000 to charities and nonprofits.

Questions? Email funddevelopment@wywl.com.

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We never tire of photos of clouds over Compo Beach. They constantly change; we never see the same scene twice.

Jim Hood took today’s “Westport … Naturally” shot a few days ago. It’s another winner.

(Photo/Jim Hood)

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