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Stroller

When you see a baby stroller, do you think: I’ve got to see that cute baby?

Or: That thing is really in my way!

Perhaps: I can’t believe I have to lug this thing in and out of my car.

Amanda Parrish Morgan saw a stroller and thought: Book idea!

Amanda Parrish Morgan

The 2000 Staples High School graduate earned a history degree from the University of Chicago, and a master’s in English literature from American University.

She taught English first at Fairfield Ludlowe High School, then at Staples from 2011 to ’14. (She was a cross country and track coach at her alma mater too, through 2017.)

Morgan also taught writing through Westport’s Continuing Education program and the Connecticut Writing Project. Her current gigs are at the Westport Writers’ Workshop and Fairfield University.

Writers are readers. Morgan was intrigued by “Object Lessons.” The essay (The Atlantic) and book (Bloomsbury) series explores a single object — a driver’s license, golf ball or shipping container, say — through a variety of approaches, often in unexpected ways.

As the mother of 2 young children, Morgan was very familiar with strollers. She also realized that although there are many parenting books, most are either “how-to or cheesy, isn’t-this-so-wonderful.”

Very few look at parenthood from a “cultural, emotional and societal” lens.

Bloomsbury liked the idea. The book — “Stroller” — will be published October 20.

Morgan runs with the idea of a stroller — literally. A runner herself, she examines society’s twin expectations of female athletes: They should be good mothers (running with their strollers), while also getting back to competition as quickly as possible.

Amanda Parrish Morgan, running with Thea.

Morgan also explores the metaphor of pushing a child away in a stroller, while keeping them close. She examines the consumerism and status symbol role of strollers; their history; even strollers in art and literature (who knew?).

Writing about strollers pushed Morgan to think about other mobility-aid devices, like wheelchairs. She realized the similarities between navigating Grand Central and subways with a stroller and in a wheelchair — and then studied other nations’ approaches.

“The US is child-centric, but not child-friendly,” she says. “Germany is the opposite.”

Amanda Parrish Morgan, her kids and a stroller in Grand Central Terminal.

“Stroller” straddles the line between memoir and a research-based study. “Some people may wish it was more of one, or more of the other,” she admits.

But “Object Lessons” is a wildly popular series.

Reviewers like “Stroller” too. One said it “compellingly depicts the history and taxonomy of this most weighty and unruly device, ally, and antagonist.”

Morgan looks forward to area readings and book signings, including Barnes & Noble in Westport November 12.

Strollers are welcome.

(For more information on “Stroller,” including how to order, click here.)

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“Discover Westport” Online

Businesses thinking of starting in or relocating here can “Choose Westport.” That’s the town-sponsored website, with information on commercial space, demographics, lifestyle and more. The goal is to attract retailers, small firms and financial services.

Now there’s a site for everyone else. “Discover Westport” — www.discoverwestportct.com — has just gone live.

Complementing the commercial-oriented website, this one is aimed at current residents, visitors, and anyone planning a move.

In other words: It’s the first comprehensive spot in cyberspace for anyone to “discover Westport.”

The “Discover Westport” home page. Several rotating images share the spotlight.

“Discover Westport” has been a year in the making. The Visual Brand — Randy Herbertson’s downtown creative agency — won an RFP to design and maintain the new site. (They created Choose Westport too.)

Randy didn’t realize how much goes on here until he tried to include it all in one self-contained place.

Over 200 merchants are listed — and that’s just one item, on one dropdown menu.

“Discover Westport”‘s 12 tabs include:

  • Arts, Culinary & Entertainment (Levitt Pavilion, MoCA, Westport Country Playhouse, Westport Farmers’ Market, etc.)
  • Beaches
  • Community (neighborhoods, downtown, Cockenoe Island …)
  • Food & Drink (over 90 restaurants, markets — and liquor stores)
  • Education (public and private schools, preschools, dance academies)
  • Move to Westport (realtors)
  • Nature & Parks (Winslow, Baron’s South, pocket parks, Earthplace …)
  • Outdoor Activities (Wakeman Town Farm, sports, pools, PAL ice rink, etc.)
  • Places of Worship
  • Salons & Services (several handfuls of nail salons — and Harding Funeral Home)
  • Shopping
  • Sports & Fitness (from A [Age of Reason] to almost Z [Winged Monkey]
  • Sports & Fitness (almost as many gyms as nail salons).

6 eateries, 1 market and 2 liquor stores. on the “Food & Drink” page.

“Discover Westport” also features the “Celebrate Westport Community Calendar.” It’s been available on WestportCT.gov — the town’s official website — but buried deep and hard to find.

Now, the Calendar has its own special tab.

The Community Calendar.

Other tabs include “Plan” (Getting Here, Parking, Stay, “For Businesses”) and “History” (which needs work).

“Discover Westport” had a soft launch recently. It launches officially this Monday (October 17, 5 to 7 p.m., Westport Library), with a special ceremony. Several restaurants will offer tastings.

The public is invited. All are invited too to discover — and then bookmark — “Discover Westport.”

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Intimidation Tactic Appalls Residents

Monday’s Board of Education meeting was heated. The Staples High School library’s banned books display was one reason. Another was the board’s vote against adding that issue to their already long agenda.

But residents were allowed to speak during the public session, before the first agenda item. Nine did.

Midway through the discussion, a man in a beige coat moved quickly toward a teenage girl. Lilly Weisz was taking photos for Inklings, the school newspaper.

He stood menacingly over her. “He was really, really intimidating,” one observer said.

Two Westport Public Schools staff members — waiting for a later agenda item — got up, to stand nearby.

Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice saw what was happening. He left his seat, and stood next to the student for several minutes. “He wanted to make sure she was safe,” a meeting attendee said.

Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice stands between an Inklings reporter and a man who had moved intimidatingly toward her. (Contributed photo)

One person at the meeting was so worried, he called 911.

Eventually, the man left.

Lilly says, “As a journalist, we’re trained to expect anything from anyone. There was a lot of tension at the meeting, and there are a feelings about journalists all around the nation.”

She says the man approached her, and asked why she was taking pictures. She explained she was with the school paper. “I’m here to gather as much information as I can, and write an unbiased article.”

She felt “aggression toward me.” However, Lilly says, after other people talked to him, he apologized.

“I don’t think he represents his entire side,” she notes. “People from both sides thanked me afterward for reporting on the issue. Overall, I felt supported by the community. I think people wanted me to succeed.”

Lilly’s story will appear in the next print edition of Inklings.

 

The paper’s co-advisor Mary Elizabeth Fulco says, “I am extremely proud of my Inklings reporter, Lilly Weisz, for her demonstrated maturity, professionalism and courage.”

Several residents contacted “06880” yesterday, saying they had never seen behavior like that. One called it “appalling, and abhorrent.”

We all know that over the past few years, social norms, civility and public discourse have deteriorated.

Up to now, behavior like that has happened in other places.

On Monday night, it was in full display at an open town meeting.

Right here in our town.

Banned Books: The Sequel

Earlier today — in response to this morning’s story on public comments at last night’s Board of Education meeting, about a Staples High School library exhibit of banned books — “06880” commenter Tara Tesoriero wrote:

“Sorry, but some commenters here are misinformed. These books are neither classics nor ‘literature.’ I will send a few examples to Dan that I think he should publish. Let’s see if he does.”

She sent them. Here they are:

“06880” Podcast: Dr. Nikki Gorman

For years, Dr. Nikki Gorman was known as a beloved local pediatrician.

Now she’s helping adults get and stay healthy too.

Dr. Gorman recently opened the Westport Medical and Wellness Center, behind the CVS parking lot. It’s a special place, integrating direct primary medicine with yoga, massage, acupuncture, meditation and other holistic types of care.

How and why did she pivot? What’s the difference between working with kids, and now their parents? How did she end up in the healthcare in the first place?

Those are some of the questions I asked recently, when we chatted in the Westport Library’s Trefz Forum. Click below for an intriguing look into Dr. Niiki Gorman’s world.

Roundup: Mark Blake, Sue Pfister, Consignment Furniture …

Bagpipes played, colleagues saluted, and hundreds of mourners grieved yesterday, as Mark Blake was laid to rest.

Mark Blake leaves St. Matthew Church for the last time …

The beloved Westport Emergency Medical Services crew chief and Weston EMS volunteer died last week, after a long battle with COVID. After a funeral at St. Matthew Church in Norwalk he was buried in Westport’s Willowbrook Cemetery.

“A servant on earth, now a servant in heaven,” one admirer said.

… as friends and colleagues pay tribute. (Photos/Andrew Colabella)

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As soon as Sue Pfister announced her retirement yesterday, after 35 years as director of Westport’s Senior Center, tributes began pouring in.

They’ll continue through the day she leaves the place she loves, on Imperial Avenue.

I was fortunate to interview Sue on my “06880” podcast at the Westport Library last February. To get a sense of what she means to Westport — and to enjoy her energy, wisdom, enormous commitment and lively sense of humor — click here, then scroll down to February 18.

Sue Pfister

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The saga of 233 Hillspoint Road — aka “The Blue House” — may be nearing an end.

For more than 2 years, construction of a large home to replace Positano restaurant has been halted, due to permit violations. The structure has been wrapped in blue construction material ever since.

This summer, the Zoning Board of Appeals reached a settlement with the owners.

This morning, lumber was delivered to the site.

Ah, progress! (Hat tip: Totney Benson)

Lumber at 233 Hillspoint Road (Photo/Totney Benson)

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Speaking of blight … a reader writes:

“The Furniture on Consignment outlet on the Post Road near Izzo’s  and Castle Wine is a junk heap, and a blight on the whole area.

“I believe that residents of Regents Park across the road have tried to do something, without success. I think the same may be  true of Castle Wine, which is next door.

“Surely the town must have regulations on the  books which enable it to address issues like this.”

Furniture on Consignment

Well … click here for a copy of Westport’s “anti-blight provisions.”

Is the consignment store simply showcasing its merchandise? Or is it “dilapidated”?

That’s above my pay grade.

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Positive Directions is taking its October 6 Open House & Wellness Fair in a very positive direction.

The event (3 to 6 p.m., 90 Post Road West) includes free behavioral health and blood pressure screenings, a “sensory café,” prevention awareness activities and more. For more information, click here.

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The next “Andrew Wilk Presents …” is a musical highlight.

The Emmy Award-winning TV, film, music and media producer (and longtime executive producer of Live From Lincoln Center) brings American String Quartet violinist Peter Winograd and celebrated pianist Rohan De Silva to the Westport Library on October 16 (2 p.m.).

They’ll perform — and also answer questions from Wilk. Click here for more information, and to register for a seat in the Trefz Forum.

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There’s something fishy about today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo.

Here it is: from the Ned Dimes Marina, at Compo Beach:

(Photo/Tracy Porosoff)

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And finally … speaking of today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo (above):

 

Roundup: Paving, Compo Beach, Owenoke …

Westport’s fall paving program has begun. It will continue through mid-October, weather permitting.

These roads are scheduled to be paved (though not in this order):

  • Hunt Club Lane
  • Tiffany Lane
  • Imperial Avenue
  • Broad Street
  • Jesup Road
  • Main Street
  • Taylor Place
  • Northfield Drive
  • Bay Street
  • Brooklawn Drive
  • Marion Road
  • Meadow View Drive
  • Hillyfield Lane
  • Cypress Pond Road
  • Oakwood Lane
  • Barbara Place
  • Charcoal Lane
  • Bowling Lane
  • Charcoal Hill Common
  • Avery Place
  • Old Road
  • Broad Street

Questions? Contact the Public Works Department: 203-341-1120.

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What do Connecticut’s Compo Beach, Massachusetts’ Race Point, Rhode Island’s East Matunuck, New York’s Cooper Beach, North Carolina’s Nags Head and South Carolina’s Myrtle Beach have in common?

According to Travel + Leisure, they’re the best beaches in those states. We share that honor with Old Saybrook’s Harvey’s Beach.

The writeup says:

Westport has several beaches ideal for exploration, but one that stands out is Compo. The 29-acre park includes a large sandy beach that looks out onto the Long Island Sound, as well as a wheelchair-friendly boardwalk and pavilion areas, where visitors will also find the concession stand. For those looking to break a sweat and have a little fun, the beach also has two sand volleyball courts.

Fans of other state beaches — from Ocean Point in New London to Hammonassett in Madison, even Sherwood Island a few mini-waves away from Compo — might argue.

But countless leisure travelers now know: We’ve got one of the two best beaches in Connecticut.

And one of its greatest features is its concession stand! (Hat tip: Lisa Gold)

Come to Compo for the volleyball courts. Stay for the concession stand! (Photo/Matt Murray)

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Speaking of Compo Beach: On Saturday night, Mark Laclair saw a strange blue light flying over homes near there:

(Photo/Mark Laclair)

It was there for over a minute. At first he thought it was a helicopter with a search light. As it got closer, it seemed to trail smoke — and there were no helicopter sounds.

Eventually, he says, the light and smoke just stopped.

His wife says there was chatter about it on social media, with speculation that it was SpaceX.

If any “06880” readers know for sure, click “Comments” below.

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Speaking still of that neighborhood: What do you do when you buy a home on Owenoke Park — just off the Compo Beach Road bend, with a view of Ned Dimes Marina — for $3.3 million?

Part of this house dates to 1910. It was so large, it did not all fit in one frame. (Photo/Dan Woog)

You tear it down!

2 Owenoke Park, yesterday. (Photo/Matt Murray)

A newer, bigger house will rise in its place.

With a pool.

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Relly Coleman contributes today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo of black swallowtail caterpillars sharing a bite, and this back story:

“Over 20 caterpillars have made my parsley their nursery, devouring every leaf.  They have now started their ‘walk-about’ journey to find a good place for their next stage: chrysalis. The porch shelves seem to be a favorite choice.”

(Photo/Relly Coleman)

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Pharoah Sanders died Saturday in Los Angeles. He was 81.

The New York Times called him “a saxophonist and composer celebrated for music that was at once spiritual and visceral, purposeful and ecstatic.

His music was “a force of nature: burly, throbbing and encompassing, steeped in deep blues and drawing on extended techniques to create shrieking harmonics and imposing multiphonics. He could sound fierce or anguished; he could also sound kindly and welcoming.”

He played with John Coltrane, then recorded dozens of more albums, and toured for decades. Click here for a full obituary.

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Roundup: Lynsey Addario, Kowalsky Farm, Moon Gazing …

Before next month’s School of Visual Arts solo exhibition, Pulitzer Prize- and MacArthur “genius grant”-winning photojournalist Lynsey Addario sat with NPR’s “The Takeaway” for an interview.

The 1991 Staples high School graduate spoke yesterday about her long career capturing intimate, human moments during devastating wars and disasters.

She discussed too why photojournalism is important, how she keeps her cool in unspeakable danger, and why she is such a positive person (spoiler alert: her parents and sisters help).

Click here for the story. (NOTE: An ad about “quicksand” may precede the interview.)

Lynsey Addario (2nd from left) says sisters Lauren, Lisa and Lesley keep her smiling.

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“06880” has reported on the gradual teardown of 117 Morningside Drive South — the famed Kowalsky farm.

Now it’s complete:

(Photo/Wynne Bohonnon)

Wynne Bohonnon lives nearby. His kids are now grown, but he remembers taking them often to see the goats, sheep and llamas there.

The new owners may not be putting up a parking lot. But, in Joni Mitchell’s famous words: “… ’til it’s gone.’

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“06880” readers sent plenty of moon photos — particularly special full ones, like harvest, wolf or strawberry.

But why watch from your back yard or Compo Beach, when you can gaze at the moon through the Westport Astronomical Society’s powerful telescope?

The public is invited to the observatory for International Observe the Moon Night. It’s next Saturday (October 1, 8 p.m.).

Green cheese is optional.

 

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Westport native James Backiel died last Sunday in Norwalk Hospital. He was 81 years old.

Son of Stanley and Mary Backiel. Jim grew up on Old Road, and graduated from Staples High School.

He was a US Navy veteran, and an avid bowler. In the late 1950s and early ’60s he worked at Westport Lanes and the Westport Batting Cages, which was connected to the Westport Golf Range.

Jim also worked at Nash Engineering in Norwalk.

He was predeceased by his wife Joyce,, and brothers Stanley and Michael. He is survived by his son Christopher, and cousins Jack Backiel, Barbara Cieplinski, Janet McGoldrick and Irene Hubbard.

Calling hours are Tuesday (4:30 to 6 p.m., Edmund Dougiello Funeral Home, 36 South Pine Creek Road, Fairfield). A committal service with military honors are at noon on Wednesday, at Willowbrook Cemetery.

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This guy — or perhaps it’s a gull — posed for a “Westport … Naturally” photo at Sherwood Island State Park.

(Photo/Beth Berkowitz)

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And finally … Wynne Bohonnon reminded us of the prophetic song, “Big Yellow Taxi.” Here are 3 great versions:

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Vanishing Screens Appear To Do Well

Zoom launched in 2012. But it took another 8 years — and a global pandemic — for most people to understand that you don’t need to be in the same room (or even on the same continent) to attend a meeting.

It did not take that long for Mark Motyl’s idea to take off. But it was no instant success either.

Mark Motyl

The longtime Westporter had 2 previous careers — he traded bonds and built spec houses — before starting Vivid-Tek. The company builds customized furniture — credenzas, benches, dressers — that hides the components of a large home theater screen. It emerges when needed with the push of a 6-button Apple remote; when not in use, it retracts back into invisibility.

It was a brilliant, elegant solution to the problem of an enormous black rectangle that would otherwise dominate a living room or bedroom wall.

“We help architects and interior designers deliver on the nice spaces they promise to clients,” Motyl says. “You can hide this TV right underneath really nice artwork, or a big window.”

A credenza opens up into a wide-screen TV.

But in the first year after opening a Post Road showroom in the Greens Farms Spirit Shop/Fortuna’s plaza, sales were slow.

Motyl thought he had” reinvented entertainment.” Instead: crickets.

Now though, he sells a unit a week. Two Bridgeport cabinet workshops are humming. He’s ready to put Westport on the entrepreneurial map.

Part \of the reason is enhanced marketing. But word of mouth is important too. It just took a while for that word to spread.

In February, Julia Marino’s family and friends gathered in the showroom to watch her silver-winning snowboard performance at the Beijing Olympics.

The word is out now about Vanish Media Systems. Motyl changed the name (suggested by a Staples High School intern) when he realized “Vivid-Tek” was hard to explain. The hyphen and odd spelling of “tech” did not help.

Word of mouth means that Vanish units are located in clusters. There’s one in Manhattan; others in areas like Hilton Head, South Carolina and Center Harbor, New Hampshire. Systems are already installed in 8 states.

One cluster is right here, in Motyl and Vanish Systems’ hometown. An installation in a Beachside Avenue room redesigned by Roger Ferris + Partners, transforms the space from one with water views to a high-quality screening room — then back again.

A room with water views on Beachside Avenue becomes a screening center.

There’s more ahead. Motyl also worked with architect Ronni Molinari and technologist Gioel Molinari to create a walnut system on casters, with a 110-inch screen, for Autostrada, the couple’s very cool event space next to Fire Department headquarters,

Motyl is collaborating too with Staples High to develop a mobile unit. In the future: a fleet of installation vans, for the tri-state area.

One area of Vanish Media Systems has not yet taken off: the showroom.

“Very few people stop in,” Motyl acknowledges. But with comfortable seats and plenty of snacks, it’s a welcoming space — and available for private events, like inviting friends for a movie, or watching the World Cup.

“There’s zero sales pressure” when anyone comes, Motyl says. Call ahead, though: 203-246-2011.

Sam Seideman (2nd from left) invited a group to watch his appearance with Gordon Ramsay, in the Vanish Media showroom. The unit vanishes into the seat below.

“I’m not an industry professional,” Motyl notes. “But innovation often comes from outsiders.”

And although he’s not an industry professional, he plays one — very successfully — on TV.

(For more information on Vanish Media Systems, click here.)

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Mark Perlman: “Le Soldat Involontaire”

Mark Perlman spent his career in financial services. In Westport, he served on the Conservation Commission.

But his passion is World War I.

“It was the most cataclysmic event of the 20th century,” the Western Front, World War I Historical Association and Westport Weston Y’s Men member explains.

“Four of the 5 world empires dissolved at the end. There would be no World War II without World War I. And the treaties signed then, with all their man-made geography, have led to so much political dysfunction today.”

Mark Perlman

About 15 years ago, he began research for a historically based novel. He traveled to French museums and libraries, and Virginia Military Institute. He also researched the Harlem Hellfighters, the famous all-black unit.

His plot: A man expatriates himself to Jazz Age Paris. Moving from the late 19th century through the 1970s, Perlman wove together romance, murder, and of course World Wars I, II and the rise of fascism. Wanting to focus on someone who faced plenty of adversity, the author made his protagonist African American.

Working with an editor he found online, he finished the novel and sent it to literary agents and publishers.

One was interested. He asked Perlman: Are you Black?

Why does it matter? the author responded.

There was no answer — but it did. “I was dropped like a hot potato,” he says.

One publisher sent a contract. To prevent any misunderstanding, Perlman told her he is white.

She said, “I can’t publish this.”

“Current cancel culture has something to do with cultural appropriation,” Perlman says.

That’s not a issue in France. A publisher there bought the rights, translated it, and just published “Le Soldat Involontaire” (“The Reluctant Soldier”) in France, Belgium, Switzerland and Canada.

In French, of course.

“I’m one of the few authors who can’t read his own book,” Perlman notes. “I haven’t even gotten author copies.”

He’s not angry or upset that he has yet to find an American publisher. But, he says, “If it’s a good story, why does it matter who wrote what? If you enjoy a book, and don’t know the author’s background, who cares?”

Perlman points to another author who met resistance at the beginning.

“Sixty years ago, Barbara Tuchman wrote ”The Guns of August,'” Perlman says of the spell-binding World War I history.

“She had no military experience. There was a bit of acrimony. But it was a great book, and it won a Pulitzer Prize. During the Cuban Missile Crisis, JFK had his commanders read it, to prevent lighting a spark like with World War I.”

Perlman is not comparing “Le Soldat Involontaire” to “The Guns of August.”

Still, he says: “I found a way to get it published. And that’s what counts.”

(To order the book in French, click here. For more information, or to order a signed copy, email firstdiv@optonline.net)

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