Yearly Archives: 2017

Seniors And Teens Share Stories — And Lunch

One of the Senior Center’s most popular activities is a Writing Workshop. Jan Bassin guides men and women — many of whom have never written for pleasure — through the transformative process of turning their long lives and powerful insights into words that will live forever.

One of Staples High School’s most popular electives is Reading and Writing Fiction. Kim Herzog and David Stockwell help teenagers — many of whom don’t think of themselves as writers — turn their creative ideas into words they can be proud of.

Last spring, Bassin invited Julie Heller — the Westport school district’s grade 6-12 English coordinator — to her group’s final workshop. Heller was awed by the senior citizens’ eloquence and honesty. When Bassin asked if the Center could collaborate with Staples on a writing project, Heller immediately thought of Herzog and Stockwell.

Joining forces was easy. Figuring out what to write about together was not.

Eventually, the instructors settled on food. Senior citizens and high school seniors have something in common: “We all eat, smell and experience food,” Herzog says.

Earlier this month, both groups gathered at the Senior Center. They divided up, a few per table. They introduced themselves, then read their works.

Talking together …

Many older writers told personal stories. Many teenagers chose fiction. But all wrote powerfully, and well.

One woman described growing up in Europe, during World War II. An American soldier gave her a wonderful drink. Years later — now in the U.S. — she tasted it again.

Amazed, she asked its name.

“Coca-Cola,” she was told.

… reading …

Another woman related her first experience with oysters. They were not, she said, as fantastic as she’d heard.

The Staples students “couldn’t believe how honest” the Senior Center writers were, Herzog syas.

As for the younger writers: Their creativity and emotion stunned the older men and women.

It was the first time some of the Stapleites had sat down with senior citizens who were not their grandparents.

“It was great to watch,” Stockwell says. “The kids couldn’t stop talking about their experiences. And the seniors raved about the students.”

“Their collective writing skills were surpassed only by their good manners, self-confidence and the ease with which they made conversation,” one Senior Center member wrote afterward.

… and listening. (Photos courtesy of wanderinginwestport Instagram)

“The shortest distance between two people is a story,” Herzog notes.

And the quickest way to share experiences is through food.

So — naturally — both groups ate together too.

Westport Pizzeria, Trader Joe’s and Stew Leonard’s all donated lunch.

That’s something else to write home about.

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Saugatuck River, from Grace Salmon Park (Photo/Patricia McMahon)

I Couldn’t Improve On This New York Post Headline. So Here’s The Story.

You gotta hand it to the New York Post. Only they could come up with a headline like: “Jewish Family Pulls Off a ‘Toys for Tots’ Christmas Miracle.”

And you gotta hand it to the Rizacks: The Westporters did exactly that.

But let the Post tell the tale, as only it can:

A Jewish family from Connecticut has pulled off a Christmas miracle for 2,200 needy kids in New York City.

The family sprang into action when Toys for Tots was overwhelmed by demand and didn’t have enough toys to go around.

Within 24 hours, Gabriella Rizack, 22, her dad, Joshua, and brothers Reid and Emmet came to the rescue by raising $17,000 to deliver gifts to the waiting children — including kids in domestic violence shelters.

Reid, Emmet,, Gabriella and Joshua Rizack. Ho ho ho! (Photo courtesy of New York Post)

Gabriella volunteered after seeing an appeal for the toy charity online, persuading her father to overcome his reservations about wearing a St. Nick costume.

“What’s a Jew doing putting on a Santa Claus suit?” Joshua quipped.

“Think about all the Christians who died liberating the [concentration] camps and how we can set an example to people of all religions, dad,” Gabriella responded.

Joshua — a financial consultant — and his family raised $17,000 in just 24 hours. Money is still coming (or, in Post-talk) “pouring” in.

Merry Christmas!

Happy Hannukah! 

L’chaim!

(Click here to read the whole story. Hat tip: Lisa Marriott.)

 

Unsung Hero #28

Everyone knows Patty Kondub. And everyone loves Patty Kondub.

But she’s one of those people who everyone kind of takes for granted.

We shouldn’t. Which is why Patty Kondub is this week’s Unsung Hero.

Patty is many things. A 1981 Staples High School graduate — and proud University of Connecticut alum — she’s worked for the Westport Weston Family Y for 30 years.

Members flock to her Aquafit classes. She works hard at researching and preparing lessons. But she always welcomes members with a smile, then makes every class fun. One day she’ll wear a costume; the next day she’ll announce a game.

Patty Kondub, in her Aquafit Halloween costume.

When someone is sick, she brings a card for the class to sign. She sings “Happy Birthday” (a lot!). Whenever she sees a news story about a class member — a new book they’ve written, a promotion, or just a brief mention — she tells everyone (and posts its on the bulletin board).

As soon as Ellen Gilbertson joined Aquafit — because of a stress fracture in her foot — Patty called her doctor, so she could design the best workout. If someone is laid up at home, Patty visits (and brings food)

Every day she picks out great music, which puts everyone in a great mood. (For Halloween it was “Monster Mash.” For the Olympics, elections and many other events, she finds something appropriate. On St. Patrick’s Day, she’s got an Irish playlist — and an Irish quiz.)

Patty is no slouch. Her Aquafit students work hard. But she’s such a good teacher, they don’t even realize they’re getting a fantastic workout.

A motivational message from Patty Kondub. (Photo/Barbara Wiederecht)

Her classes get together outside the Y, to celebrate special events. (Ask about her vegetarian chili!)

Colleague Ruth Sherman says, “Patty works so hard to make aging fun. They say our community is getting younger every day, and for this we thank Patty.”

Gilbertson adds, “She goes above and beyond any teacher I’ve ever known, in so many ways.”

Sandra Long says, “Whether it’s your first class or you’ve come for 20 years, Patty knows your name and helps you. She looks out for everyone — it doesn’t even have to be related to the pool. She does whatever she can to help anyone at the Y who’s in need.”

Elsewhere at the Y, Patty helps coordinate indoor triathlons and special needs swim instruction.

Patty Kondub offers hydration tips.

Out of the water, Patty helped organize the Spin Odyssey that over 15 years raised hundreds of thousands of dollars for cancer research. Some of her Aquafit fans were involved.

In her spare time (!), Patty is the much-loved coach of the Staples girls golf team. She’s a past president of the Longshore Women’s Golf Association.

And on Saturday mornings, she teaches a class for cancer survivors at CT Challenge.

Patty Kondub always has a smile on her face. The next time you see her, smile back — and congratulate our latest Unsung Hero.

BONUS FUN FACTAs a field hockey player, Patty was part of the first University of Connecticut team to win a national championship — in any sport.

(Do you know an Unsung Hero? To nominate him or her, email dwoog@optonline.net)

Indulge “06880”

Indulge by Mersene is my favorite store in Westport.

The Railroad Place shop — directly across from the train station — is chock full of eclectic, intriguing and ever-changing unique finds.

And Mersene — the owner — is the sweetest, warmest (and coolest) store owner anywhere.

Mersene, looking great in her wondrous store.

Now she’s gotten even more amazing.

Allow me to indulge in this slight bit of promotion: Tomorrow (Thursday, December 21, 10 a.m. to 8 p.m.), 10% of all proceeds will benefit “06880.”

We should all support independent-owned shops, all the time.

Especially Indulge by Mersene tomorrow!

(Indulge by Mersene is located at 20 Railroad Place. Click here for more information.)

An “06880” pillow at Indulge by Mersene.

Nora Guthrie: “Woody Sez” …

Nora Guthrie cannot remember when her father was not sick.

From when she was 2 until he died 15 years later, Woody Guthrie battled Huntington’s disease. It robbed the legendary singer/songwriter of his ability to walk, swallow and speak.

Nora went on to a career in modern dance — her mother’s medium. But around 1990, more than 20 years after Woody died, Harold Leventhal — a Weston resident, and Woody Guthrie’s longtime manager — gave Nora boxes full of material.

They were Woody’s archives.

Nora Guthrie (Photo/Tina Tschirch)

Harold was retiring, and he’d retrieved them from storage. “You should look at these,” he told her.

Unlike other relatives — including her older brother Arlo — Nora had not followed in her father’s footsteps. Her main connection with his legacy was signing legal papers a couple of times a year.

She picked a piece of paper from one of the boxes. It was written by Woody — and seemed to be aimed directly at her.

“He was sick my whole life. So I never had any deep conversations with him,” Nora recalls.

“But I pulled out this wonderful poem he’d written, called ‘I Say To You Woman and Man.’ It had lines like ‘Go dance’ and ‘I go up to your office.’

“I’m a dancer. I was sitting in my office. This was a man I never knew, speaking in a language I never heard. This was a father I never had.”

Woody Guthrie (Photo/Al Aumiller, courtesy of Woody Guthrie Publications Inc.)

As Nora delved into the boxes, she discovered — for the first time — her “healthy father.”

The impact of her discovery soon went far beyond her own life.

The boxes were filled with 3,000 lyrics Woody had written in the 1930s and ’40s — the prime of his career. Some were complete; others unfinished. Some were one or two lines; others ran up to 85 verses.

Nora showed them to Pete Seeger, one of Woody’s oldest friends and most cherished collaborators. He’d never seen them — or heard of them.

No one else in the American folk music world had, either.

There was other remarkable material, like a letter to Woody from John Lennon. Each box offered a previously unknown look into Woody Guthrie’s life.

In 1996, Nora co-produced the first Rock and Roll Hall of Fame tribute series honoring Woody. Bruce Springsteen headlined a star-studded concert. There was also a scholarly symposium.

Listening to the presentations, Nora realized that “80% of what people were saying was incomplete, or incorrect.” Even Woody’s closest friends and fellow musicians had not seen the archival material.

Fred Hellerman

For instance, Fred Hellerman — a Weston resident who as a member of the Weavers helped lead an American folk song revival — said that Woody “hated love songs.”

“But Fred hadn’t seen Woody’s 150 love songs,” Nora says.

She knew she had to get the story right.

“Not everyone wants to hear songs about unions or boycotts,” she says, invoking some of her father’s most famous causes. “He wrote 100 songs about Hanukkah and Judaism. I wanted to find a way to bring everyone into the fold.”

Nora has spent the past quarter century “connecting various spokes to the hub.”

She produced 3 groundbreaking Billy Bragg/Wilco collaborations of previously unknown lyrics.

She curated “This Land Is Your Land: The Life and Legacy of Woody Guthrie,” in collaboration with the Smithsonian Institution. It toured for 3 years at major museums throughout the country, displaying previously unseen notebooks, diaries, artwork, lyrics, photographs, instruments and memorabilia.

And for several years, “Woody Sez” has provided audiences with one more way to understand and appreciate the life and music of “America’s greatest troubadour.”

Part of the cast of “Woody Sez.”

From January 9 to 20, the show will be here. It’s the next big event at the Westport Country Playhouse. Nora is excited.

“It’s unbelievable how true Woody’s music is for our world today,” she says. “There’s every major issue: immigration, refugees, tax reform, religion, greed, freedom of speech, politicians, the environment.

“But there are also love songs, and songs about family. It’s all delivered from Woody’s point of view: personal, friendly, funny, familiar and accessible. You come out feeling empowered and exhilarated — not depressed. You feel your own little self is important.”

It’s family-friendly too. “Woody cut his teeth on Will Rogers’ humor,” she notes. “Children will chuckle.”

Nora has seen “Woody Sez” 100 times. Each time, she is inspired.

Nora Guthrie discovered her father’s “lost” material, and shined a light on a man she — and America — never really knew.

Now “Woody Sez” is doing the same.

“In dark times like these,” Nora says, “I don’t believe the American spirit is dark. Even after all these years, Woody’s light humor, light wisdom and light spirit is important.

“This show reminds us that there have always been amazing people, all over our country. It wakes up the part of you that wants to feel — and do — good.”

(For more information on “Woody Sez” — including tickets — click here.)

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Candlelight Concert decorations, in the Staples High School auditorium (Photo/Lynn U. Miller)

Tina’s Cousins Come To Town

A year ago, Westport said goodbye to Tina Wessel.

Over 150 people gathered in Christ & Holy Trinity Church to mourn the homeless woman who for years had limped around town. She died — alone — in a shed she frequented near the Senior Center.

Photos of Tina Wessel, from her memorial service.

A few days ago, Westport welcomed Cornelia Kunzel and Rolf Rabe. They live in Germany, and are Tina and Ludy Wessel’s first cousins. Ludy — Tina’s brother — died in 2012.

Cornelia and Rolf came to see where their cousins had lived. They wanted to meet Tina and Ludy’s friends and acquaintances; thank Human Services, and give a donation to Homes With Hope.

Cornelia Kunzel and Rolf Rabe at Christ & Holy Trinity Church, where Tina Wessel’s ashes are interred.

Accompanied by Ellen Naftalin (who helped Tina) and Larry Ritter (a close friend of Ludy’s), they traced Tina’s frequent routes through town.

They saw the shed she called home, and toured the Senior Center nearby.

They had lunch at Rye Ridge Deli — the new downtown spot that replaced Oscar’s. Late owner Lee Papageorge always fed and looked out for Tina.

They visited Christ & Holy Trinity Church, where Tina’s ashes are interred.

And they drove all around Westport. At the end of their meaningful day, they watched the sun set — crimson red — over Long Island Sound.

Cornelia, Rolf and Tina.

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Santa shops at Stew’s (Photo/Lynn U. Miller)

Lynsey Addario: Fox News “Power Player Of The Week”

Chris Wallace says that Lynsey Addario takes “riveting photographs that bring the savagery of the front lines into your home.”

The Pulitzer Prize and McArthur grant winner claims she is “not brave — just committed.”

Those quotes — and stunning examples of her work — were shown yesterday. The Westport native and Staples High School graduate was named Fox News’ Power Player of the Week.

Wallace listed the places Addario has worked: Afghanistan. Iraq. Libya. Darfur. South Sudan. Somalia.

She goes there, she says, because it is “fundamental to document” what occurs in those war-torn places.

After photographing skeletons and devastated villages, Addario goes home. There, she tries to explain war — and her work — to her 6-year-old son.

For the full feature, click here.

(Hat tip: Neil Brickley)