Monthly Archives: March 2016

Furniture On Consignment On The Move

Westport is awash in women’s clothing stores.

We don’t need another nail salon.

But we do need stores like Furniture on Consignment.

Jim Klinko’s shop has been in town for 35 years. Featuring “black Friday pricing” every day for home decorations, artwork, furs and other goods, it was located for over 2 decades near the Big & Tall shop.

Twelve years ago — due to rising rent — Furniture on Consignment moved down the Post Road, next to J&J Auto near Super Stop & Shop.

Furniture on Consignment's current home.

Furniture on Consignment’s current home.

Now Klinko is moving again. Once again, the reason is rent.

Furniture on Consignment heads back across Route 1. The new location is 1435 Post Road East — the former Leonce Antiques. (Back in the day, it was Tirreno Buick — before he moved across the street.)

“I’m just a local business trying to stay alive,” Klinko says. “I work hard to make a living — 7 days a week.”

Like a lot of mom and pops, he adds, “landlords are squeezing us out.”

Much of his merchandise is marked down, from its already low prices. He hopes to move much of it before April 1 — when he makes his next move.

The new location of Furniture on Consignment.

The new location of Furniture on Consignment.

 

Leslie Brake: It’s A Wrap!

As a labor, delivery and neonatal registered nurse, Leslie Brake knows newborns.

The 2004 Staples High School graduate — she was Leslie Webster then — understands that besides sustenance, the thing infants need most is the warmth and security of their caregivers.

“Tiny beings instantly go from being carried 24 hours a day for 9 months to a fraction of that outside the womb,” she says.

For millennia, mothers have carried their babies in various forms — many continuously, until they are at least 3 months old. This allows babies to smell and feel their mothers’ warmth, and learn to adapt to the new world.

Leskie Brake

Leslie Brake

When her daughter Charlotte was born on July 4, 2014, Brake immediately fell in love. She stared at her new child the entire first night, despite 24 hours without sleep and the exhaustion of labor.

“She instantly became my whole purpose for being,” Brake recalls.

When Charlotte was 5 weeks old, the family flew to Nantucket to visit Brake’s parents. Brake had always loved the island. But she soon realized that the cobblestone streets and uneven sidewalks made navigating a stroller impossible.

At the airport, she’d struggled with the stroller too. And finding a good way to breastfeed frustrated her to tears.

Dissatisfied with the monotony of baby carriers on the market, she searched for a better option. She could not find one. Finally, she made her own carrier, from fabric that matched her style.

The first ACK Wrap was born. (ACK is the airport code for Nantucket — now you know what those oval bumper stickers are all about.)

The versatile, comfortable and fashionable ACK Wrap.

The versatile, comfortable and fashionable ACK Wrap.

Charlotte loved the wrap. She cried less and slept better — and Brake could even breastfeed while wearing it.

Friends loved it too. Brake made wraps for them — and then, for friends of friends.

Her husband — a firefighter with a flexible schedule — took over the logistics of the blossoming business. It operates out of their Austin, Texas home.

The ACK Wrap allows a parent to wear her baby hands-free — while accenting each person’s unique style.

Brake believes a parent should feel “great and beautiful (or handsome)” while carrying their baby. (Hey — it’s 2016! Carrying a baby is not just for mothers anymore.)

Leslie's husband sports an ACK Wrap too.

Leslie’s husband sports an ACK Wrap too.

Her wraps complement outfits, while being lightweight and breathable. (The secret: modal and cotton blends, with classic patterns. There are 100% organic options too.)

It took a lot of work to create the right fabric combination for strength and softness from an American mill — Brake’s husband, a Marine veteran, insisted the product be American-made — but she believes they’ve succeeded.

“We’re in Texas. We know the importance of a carrier that doesn’t make you or your baby hot,” she adds.

Leslie Brake has created a business the right way: by identifying a need, and fulfilling it with creativity and passion.

But she’s gone one step further. For every wrap sold through her website (click here), she and her husband donate another to a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) family.

It doesn’t get warmer or cozier than that.

You have to look closely to spot this ACK Wrap.

You have to look closely to spot this ACK Wrap.

“Drowsy Chaperone”: Wake Up! Just 2 Performances Left!

It’s one thing for Staples Players to sell tickets to shows like “A Chorus Line,” “West Side Story” and “Guys and Dolls.”

Everyone knows the high school troupe will knock those familiar shows out of the park.

It’s a lot tougher to try to sell a musical few people have heard of — and with a sleep-inducing title.

Trust me: “The Drowsy Chaperone” will do more than keep you awake.

It’s laugh-out-loud hilarious. It’s superbly entertaining.

And it’s as Broadway-quality as every other Players production you’ve ever loved.

Drowsy Chaperone - Christian Melhuish, Aaron Samuels, Charlie Zuckerman - Kerry Long

Aaron Samuels (center) breaks theater’s “4th wall.” Playing “Man in Chair,” he also interacts with actors Christian Melhuish and Charlie Zuckerman. (Photo/Kerry Long)

The premise is a bit odd — a “Man in Chair” imagines an entire 1920s musical in his apartment — but trust me: It works.

Without knowing anything about 1920s musicals, you’ll get both the spoof of the genre — and the homage. The cast and crew clearly have fun. They straddle past and present — and their joy is infectious.

“The Drowsy Chaperone” features superb performances from — among others — Aaron Samuels (Man in Chair), and Jacob Leaf (Tevye in “Fiddler on the Roof,” this time nailing a Latin lover in a performance that would make Rudolph Valentino swoon).

There’s tap dancing, show-stopping songs, and Players’ signature professional sets, costumes and pit orchestra.

Trix the Aviatrix descends onstage, in a memorable number. (Photo/Kerry Long)

Trix the Aviatrix descends onstage, in a memorable number. (Photo/Kerry Long)

Directors David Roth and Kerry Long have been bombarded with emails from fans who — like me — surprised themselves at how much they loved a play they knew nothing about.

Roth and Long knew when they chose “Drowsy Chaperone” that it would be a tough sell. They took the challenge anyway.

They’re happy to see that — thanks to word of mouth — tickets are going fast for Friday and Saturday’s final performances.

Consider this your wakeup call.

(“The Drowsy Chaperone” will be performed this Friday and Saturday — March 18 and 19 — at 7:30 p.m., at Staples High School. Click here for tickets.)

Does God Hate Fags? Find Out March 28.

I am not Mexican. I can only imagine how Mexicans felt when Donald Trump called them “killers and rapists.”

I am not Muslim. So I can only imagine how members of that religion felt when Trump said “they’re not coming to this country if I’m president.”

I am not disabled. I can only imagine, then, how anyone with a disability felt when the Republican front-runner mocked a journalist born with deformed hands.

But I am gay. So I do not have to imagine what it is like for someone to call me a “fag,” spit in my face, and say that God sent 9/11, Hurricane Katrina and many other disasters to America because of me.

"Reverend" Fred Phelps, and some of his signs.

“Reverend” Fred Phelps, and some of his signs.

Even though “Reverend” Phelps was batshit crazy — and is probably right now burning in the same hell he roared I’m headed for — it’s pretty scary to know that someone, somewhere, despised a group of people so much he spent his life spewing vile garbage about them.

About me.

He was not alone. He had an entire “church” — well, mostly relatives he’d brainwashed — behind him.

But some of those church members began to think for themselves.

“Rev.” Fred Phelps’ granddaughters Megan and Grace Phelps-Roper questioned the Westboro Baptist “Church”‘s vitriolic protests against gays (and Jews, members of the military, and so many other groups). Eventually, they fled.

And on Monday, March 28 (7 p.m.) they’ll be at the Westport Country Playhouse, giving an inspiring talk about their journey from hatred to love.

Megan and Grace Phelps-Roper

Megan and Grace Phelps-Roper

The event is sponsored by the Anti-Defamation League. The moderator is ADL national director of civil rights Deborah Lauter.

She was a frequent target of Megan — and the rest of the “church” — on social media. The sisters will discuss what it was like to love their family, but be raised in such a hate-filled environment.

Yet it was social media — specifically, Megan’s engagement with an unlikely source on Twitter — that opened their eyes to broader perspectives. Today, they’re active allies in the war on hate.

“God Hates Fags” has special meaning for me.

ADL logoBut so does “Thank God for Dead Soldiers.” “Your Pastor is a Whore.” And any other sign that Fred Phelps and his clan — including, not long ago, his granddaughters — hoisted.

Those signs should have special meaning for all of us. Singling one group out demeans everyone.

That’s why I am sure every seat will be filled on March 28, at the Westport Country Playhouse.

Our town — and our country — are better than the hateful rhetoric we hear too much these days.

We are one nation, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.

Under — or without — any god you like.

(For tickets to the March 28 event, click here. For a fascinating, in-depth New Yorker story on Megan Phelps-Roper, click here.)

New Principal Named At Staples High

After a nationwide search for the next principal of Staples High School, the top candidate turned out to be a very familiar face.

A few minutes ago, the Board of Education approved the selection of James D’Amico. He was one of 3 finalists for the position.

James D'Amico

James D’Amico

D’Amico is intimately familiar with Staples. A highly regarded social studies teacher there from 2001-2009, he also served as grade 6-12 social studies department chair from 2005-2014.

In 2014, D’Amico was named assistant superintendent for secondary education. His office was in Town Hall, but he remained a familiar presence at the high school.

Superintendent of schools Dr. Elliott Landon made the decision after weighing several factors. They included understanding “the very complex culture of Westport”; experience in a large high school with excellent academics, arts, athletics and extracurriculars; experience as a department chair and district administrator, and respect from colleagues.

D’Amico’s “knowledge of our high school is incredible,” Landon said. “And his background and record are exciting. He has intelligence, patience, a reflective mind and an incredible vision for the future.”

Board of Education chair Michael Gordon echoed Landon’s praise.

Staples sealD’Amico is “brilliant academically, but also very human. He has a big heart, is a great listener, and is balanced and thoughtful,” Gordon said. “He’s a strategic thinker, but also willing to make hard decisions. Staples will be lucky to have him, now and for the long term.”

Accepting the position, D’Amico called Staples “our crown jewel. We will do extraordinary things. This is great honor — and responsibility.”

He pledged that the high school will be “a role model for what public education can be.”

D’Amico certainly knows the school he’ll be leading. As a faculty member, he earned high ratings — 4.35 out of a total of 5 — on a sometimes-snarky teacher rating website. Among the comments:

  • Cool teacher. Cool guy.
  • Really cool teacher, lets you be yourself in class and does not attempt to steer the class dynamic….He thinks of really fun activities for the class. He is a good grader and he will always listen to you for your opinions or thoughts.
  • awesome. hes funny, clear, fair grader.
  • Mr. D is AWESOME. hes really funny and a good teacher
  • Mr. D is pretty cool and does fun activities with class
  • HE IS SO AWESOME…really good at explaining things…just sometimes the test questions are tricky
  • He’s really funny and an excellent teacher. Follow directions and you’ll do really well in his class.
  • Mr. D is awesome. Ask him to sing you his song, it rules. AP US is unreal…everyone should take it…

D’Amico majored in educational leadership and administration at the University of Connecticut. He worked in the office of orientation services, as a resident assistant, and was active in the marching band.

After graduating in 1998, D’Amico earned a master’s degree in secondary education and a 6th year in education administration, both also from UConn.

At Staples he was advisor to the Junior Statesman Association. He is also an assistant den leader for his son’s Cub Scout pack.

D’Amico succeeds his former boss, John Dodig, who retired last June after 11 years at Staples’ helm. Mark Karagus has served as interim principal for this school year.

D’Amico assumes his new post on July 1.

In its 132 years, Staples High School has seen many principals. James D'Amico is its newest.

In its 132 years, Staples High School has seen many principals. James D’Amico is its newest.

Youth Groups’ Hoops

A bunch of Catholics and Jews walked onto a basketball court.

No, it’s not the start of a joke.

It’s what happened last night, at the Westport YMCA.

Full Court for Kindness — an “interfaith basketball tournament” — pitted Staples students (and a few middle schoolers) from Assumption Church, the Conservative Synagogue, St. Luke Church and Temple Israel in a round-robin format. Players came from their respective youth groups.

Play ball!

Play ball!

The event honored Chris Lanni, a Staples High School freshman (and St. Luke’s youth group member) who died last year. A moment of silence was held before the first whistle. All proceeds went to the Make-a-Wish Foundation.

The victorious team came from the Conservative Synagogue (with the help of a couple of Israeli Emissaries ringers).

Really though, everyone there was a winner.

(Hat tip: Andres Marmelo)

Harvest Is Here, But Mario’s Remains Too

Well, at least the sign on top of the building is still there.

Harvest and Mario's signs

The Hidden History Of 18 Indian Hill Road

In 1901, Gershom Bradley built a handsome house at 18 Indian Hill Road. He owned a massive onion farm, extending to Norwalk and Treadwell Avenue, and nearly to the Saugatuck River.

The turret on his new Queen Anne Victorian was flat. Gershom stood there, and watched onion barges come and go along the river. The original stone wall still stands, up and down Indian Hill.

18 Indian Hill Road, back in the day.

18 Indian Hill Road, back in the day.

In 2000, the house — with 5 bedrooms and a large porch — came on the market. The developer next door wanted to tear it down, and subdivide the lot. But the property was sold within a week, before his financing was in place.

So this is not a typical vanishing-old-house story. Over the next 16 years David Loffredo — a Westport native who moved “home” — spent tons of time and energy researching the home’s history.

He worked with the Westport Historical Society and former owners to find old pictures and blueprints. He recreated what had been stripped and scarred in in the 1970s, when the house was covered in aluminum siding.

But that’s not the real story either.

Shirley Jackson - The LotteryEveryone knows Shirley Jackson. Her short story “The Lottery” — first published in 1948, about brutal events in a seemingly normal village, and perhaps an inspiration for “The Hunger Games” — is an English course staple. I read it at Staples.

Shortly after her story appeared in The New Yorker, Jackson and her husband Stanley Hyman — a famous literary critic — rented 18 Indian Hill, for $175 a month. Jackson described Westport as “a nice fancy rich arty community.” Eventually, Ralph Ellison joined them.

In Private Demons: The Life of Shirley Jackson — which Loffredo owns — author Judy Oppenheimer writes:

It would be many years before (their son) Laurence would appreciate how rare it was to live in the kind of home where the guy pitching the ball to you might well be J.D. Salinger and the man yelling out the window for you to pipe down so he could work was often Ralph Ellison. “The Invisible Man” was finished with help from Stanley Hyman in this house.

Dylan Thomas: poet, drinker, smoker, sexual partner.

Dylan Thomas: poet, drinker, smoker, sex partner.

Dylan Thomas was another visitor to 18 Indian Hill. Oppenheimer says that after “liquor and smoke and endless rhetoric,” Jackson and he “met alone outside on the enormous porch that wound around the house….She confided to me that, yes, she was one of those women Dylan Thomas screwed on the back porch.”

But Jackson found Westport “too suburban for her taste, too many picnics and Cub Scout outings, a few too many self-conscious artists around. The elementary school itself could be annoyingly casual, she thought — at the slightest excuse (hurricane warnings, for instance) the children were sent home.”

Jackson also hated “these progressive nursery schools where hitting another child over the head with a block is regarded as a sign of extroversion.”

In October 1950 — 2 days before his 8th birthday — Laurence rode his bike out of the driveway. He was hit by a car. The accident, and lawsuit that followed, “turned Shirley against Westport for good,” Oppenheimer says. The family moved to North Bennington, Vermont.

David Loffredo — the current owner of 18 Indian Hill Road — thought this was a story worth telling.

Indeed it is. And Shirley Jackson herself could not have told it better.

18 Indian Hill, today.

18 Indian Hill Road today.

(18 Indian Hill Road is on the market. For details on this historic home, click here.)

Actually, Those Striped Blue Lines Mean NO Parking

And it’s not as if there weren’t enough open spots yesterday in the Westport Country Playhouse lot…

(Photo/Roger Wolfe and Lisa Pelletier Jones)

(Photo/Roger Wolfe and Lisa Pelletier Jones)

Another Amazing Weekend For Henry And Hannah

Henry Wynne and Hannah DeBalsi — quite possibly the 2 best runners in Staples history — have done it again.

Yesterday, Wynne — a 2013 Staples grad — won the NCAA Division I national indoor mile championship. The University of Virginia junior held off a challenger at the end of the very tactical race, finishing in 4:06.63 at Birmingham, Alabama.

Cavalier distance coach Pete Watson said. “Nine months ago, he left Oregon after his first trip to the NCAA Championships and committed himself to being great. He matured (and) became focused….We mapped out the race plan this morning and Henry followed it perfectly.”

His championship race was several seconds off his best time — a sub-4:00 mile — but the winner’s medal hanging around his neck says it all.

Henry Wynne - national champion

Meanwhile, Hannah DeBalsi shattered Connecticut’s 5,000-meter record, with a 16:32.26 race at the New Balance Indoor National Championship at the New York Armory.

Staples’ Stanford-bound senior finished 4th overall. The winner set a new US record.

Hannah DeBalsi, waaaayy out in front in a race earlier this season. (Photo/Ed Martin)

Hannah DeBalsi, waaaayy out in front in a race earlier this season. (Photo/Ed Martin)

And what did you do this weekend?

To read more on Wynne’s race from Cavalier Insider, click here. For details on LetsRun.com, click here. Click here for DeBalsi’s post-race interview. For a YouTube interview with Wynne, click below:

(Hat tips: Jeff Mitchell and Peter Gambaccini)