Strange Days

The Doors had a busy September 1967.

Just a few weeks after “Light My Fire” blazed to #1, they toured New Jersey, Texas, Utah, New York, Ontario, Ohio, Rhode Island, Iowa and Colorado.

They appeared on “Ed Sullivan.”  They released their 3rd single, “People Are Strange.”

In between, they played Staples High School.

On September 21 — nearly 43 years ago to the day — the hottest band in America came to Westport.

According to DoorsHistory.com, which seems as amazed that the group played here as today’s teenagers must be reading about it, Staples was:

a very cool place to play considering it’s a high school auditorium and the music department’s rehearsal room is used as the dressing room, which the Doors turn into a party room!

Others that will make the trip here are the Animals, Cream, the Rascals, Louis Armstrong, Phil Ochs, and Sly and the Family Stone.  It sure would of (sic) been cool to go to this high school in the sixties!

The show goes well with the Doors playing material straight off their first two albums.  This show is promoted by the school’s student council!

Mark Groth — who sent “06880” the link to the Doors history website — was a Staples student then, and he was there.  He remembers “standing backstage under the light board talking to Morrison, wearing his leather outfit and smelling a bit like a wet goat.”

I was there too — though I was only in 8th grade.  I did not get close enough to Jim Morrison to smell him, but I do recall thinking he was by far the coolest human being I had ever seen on earth.

I don’t recall being surprised that the Doors were spending a Thursday night in Westport.

But they sure set the night on fire.

More Doors/Westport trivia: The back cover of "Strange Days" -- released 4 days after their Westport show -- featured model Zazel Wilde. She had graduated from Staples a few years before.

A Rising Tide

Unless you live in a cave — or a 20th century classroom — you know that one of the goals of Staples High School is to infuse critical thinking into everything students do.

Whether it’s analyzing environmental issues or connecting the health class curriculum with rising rates of obesity, principal John Dodig’s mission is to ensure that every graduate has the knowledge, confidence — and skills — to compete in the fast-changing, terrifying, challenging and exciting world they’ll soon inherit.

Actions, of course, speak louder than words.

Last week, Dodig spent 15 minutes of “Communication Time” to introduce a schoolwide goal.

Every student watched a sophisticated, inspiring TED.com video featuring Hans Rosling.  The Swedish professor described his own youth in the 1960s, when there was an enormous gap between “the West and the rest.”

Since then, the world population has increased by 4.6 billion.  Using simple boxes and props, Rosling showed the difference between then and now.

In 1960 the developed world wanted cars; the undeveloped world, clothes.

Today, China — the symbol of the newly developed world — has cars; the country owns Volvo, the ultimate Swedish symbol.  Most of the world population, Rosling said, is now found in the middle, between the poorest and the wealthiest people.

Projecting to 2050, Rosling said that 4 billion people can leave poverty — provided the world avoids climate change, and energy remains cheap.

How could this happen?  By raising the living standards of the world’s poorest people.

Rosling showed a fascinating graph.  In it, child survival rates lead to greater wealth; this creates smaller families, which in turn leads to slower population growth — and ultimately, sustainability.

What does all this have to do with Staples?

As Dodig explained in a televised address, over the next 50 to 60 years, today’s students will form the foundation of the world.  To build a firm foundation, they’ll need real-world skills.

The problems they’ll face may be ill-defined.  But tomorrow’s leaders will need to:

  • Know where to find information
  • Know how to synthesize and evaluate that information
  • Be able to collaborate across many disciplines.

“If all Staples students can master those skills,” Dodig said, “you will be successful.”

They’ll be able to handle the economic, environmental and other global challenges they face — and they’ll make the entire planet a better place.

Dodig then asked each classroom teacher to lead a discussion of the video.  Among the questions:

  • Why was the video shown?
  • How did the video relate to Staples students, and what you learn in school?
  • What part will you play in the future?

Dodig asked for feedback.  Teachers told him the video sparked insightful discussions; students said it made them think, and posed questions of their own.

Much has changed since 1960, as Rosling pointed out.  But a button from that decade remains true:  “If you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.”

Staples High School has challenged its students to make sure, 50 years from now, that the saying is a long-forgotten relic of a dim, dusty past.

(Click here to view the Hans Rosling Ted.com video.  Click here to see the video that Staples students saw, including Dodig’s introduction and conclusion.)

Driving Dogs

Out West, “drive ’em, dogie” means moving motherless calves along the trail.

Here in Westport it refers to a new trend:  people driving cars with their dogs on their laps.

An alert “06880” reader emailed us about this disturbing development — one we’ve noticed too.

What is it about our town that turns normally intelligent people into spectacularly poor decision-makers?

(Photo courtesy of Dogster.com)

Are folks here so attached to their pooches that they can’t bear to leave home without them?  Do they think their pets will be so bereft sitting in the passenger (or, worse, rear) seats that they need to plop them (the dogs) in their (the drivers’) laps?

We’ve already seen an epidemic of texting, reading, nail clipping and mascara applying while driving.

What’s next?

We’re afraid to ask.

Staples’ (Michaels) Cup Runneth Over

“We’re Number One!”

High school sports fans yell that loudly and proudly whenever their team wins a league or state championship.  Over the years, Staples teams in a broad range of sports — soccer, football, track, volleyball, golf, tennis, you name it — consistently win titles.

Now the entire Staples athletic program is officially Number One in the state.  And all 33 varsity sports — plus the trainers, administrators and spectators — have contributed to the “victory.”

Staples was named winner of both the “LL” (extra large schools) and overall Michaels Cup awards this afternoon.  The “LL” honors come regularly, but this is the school’s first overall Michaels Cup since 1989.

Wins and losses by all varsity teams is part of the criteria — but only part.  A well-rounded athletic program is also important.

Judges look at participation numbers and rates; programs addressing academic support, sportsmanship and substance abuse; development of non-CIAC sports (like rugby and sailing); medical education and coverage, and participation in Unified Sports for athletes with special needs.

Athletic director Marty Lisevick thanked his entire coaching and support staff, along with Staples and town administrators, for their contributions in helping win the 2010 Michaels Cup.

Not Just Another High School Reunion Story

High school reunions are like medical operations.   Everyone has them, but no one wants to hear about yours.

Still, a 50th reunion is special.  50 is the new, well, 50.  So when Staples’ Class of 1960 gathers this weekend, it’s worth noting.

And the story of how that class — raised at a time when transistor radios were considered amazing — used 21st century technology to find long-lost classmates, and get nearly half of them to come, is both instructive and inspiring.

For their previous gathering 10 years ago, they hired a professional planner.  But once he hit the 75 attendees he’d promised, he stopped working.

This time the graduates vowed to do it themselves — and better, and for less money.

From right: Bev Cens, Joann Hornsleth and an unidentified girl pose at Bev's house. The shot was taken by someone doing advertising for Bigelow Tea. Note the Staples book covers at bottom.

They gave themselves a year’s lead time.  They learned that even though online “white pages” might give hundreds of results, filtering by age made searching much easier.

They called relentlessly.  A Westport family named Shornick was not related to James from 1960.  But the local Shornicks remembered that someone — okay, me — once asked if they knew my former classmate Cathy.  They told organizer Linda Gramatky Smith that story; she found Cathy Shornick in Washington state, and Cathy led Linda to her brother James.

Few people have heard of the search engine Pipl.com.  But Alan Konigsberg uses it in his law practice, and the site provided plenty of good matches.

Committee members pored through old directories, and called current Westporters to ask about neighbors who moved away years ago.  “I must sound really trustworthy,” Linda says.  “Everyone gave me lots of information.”

Steve Mechlin seemed impossible to find.  But one day Skip Shaeffer looked at the “Class Wills” section of the 1960 yearbook.  There he saw Steve’s last name, spelled “Maechtlen.”  Sure enough, the Steve Maecthlen who now lives in Albuquerque was the same one.  He was delighted to be found.

Similarly, a classmate’s last name was spelled both “Cowishaur” and “Cowishaw.”  In his “Class Will,” he left something to someone with a famous Westport name.  When a committee member called the Westporter, he talked about Jim “Cowlishaw.”

The organizer heard the pronunciation, searched online — and found Jim Cowlishaw in Nebraska.  His wife answered the phone and said, “He always wondered why no one ever told him about a reunion.”

“I must have found 20 names misspelled in the yearbook,” Linda says.  “I’m appalled.  Come on – these were our classmates!”

Junior high friends Anne Sharnoff, Jane Smith, Sherri Yellen and Jennette Currie in 1956.

The more they dug, and the more old photos they looked at, the more the Class of ’60 remembered friends who had not gone to Staples.

“The people you hold dear are the ones you played ball with, or went to your first parties with,” Linda says.  “They might have gone to prep school or moved away, but we wanted them.”

The committee found many non-graduates.  They’ll be part of the 175 reunion-goers (including spouses) this weekend.

Three former faculty members will join them:  English instructor (and founder of Staples Players, during their years there) Craig Matheson; social studies teacher Gordon Hall, and physics instructor Nick Georgis.

(Members of the Class of ’60 are now 67 and 68 years old.  You do the math…)

Barbara Picorello Wanamaker (Staples '60) and husband Charlie today.

Tomorrow (Friday) night they’ll meet at Arcudi’s — owned by classmate Joe.  They were originally scheduled for Cobb’s Mill Inn — owned by another classmate, George Guidera — but it closed in July.

(In addition to being restaurateurs, Joe and George share another distinction:  both were first selectmen, of Westport and Weston respectively.)

On Saturday morning returnees will tour the new Staples (deja vu — they entered Staples as sophomores in 1958, the same year the new North Avenue campus opened.)

Tomorrow night there’s dinner at the Norwalk Inn — complete with ’50s music — while Sunday morning features breakfast by the Compo cannons.

So once they found (nearly) everyone, how did the Class of 1960 pass along all the info on their reunion — and provide private email links so everyone could communicate with everyone else?

They set up one of the best reunion websites I’ve ever seen, for any class.

Who knows what they’ll think of for their 75th.

Don’t Cross At The Green

For decades, pedestrians have reached Main Street from the Post Road by crossing to the YMCA from — first — Colgan’s and Thompson’s Pharmacy; then Ships, and now Tiffany.

No more.

The crosswalk was  recently erased — poorly, but officially.

The Board of Selectmen believed that intersection was dangerous — the Post Road is wide there, 2 lanes of traffic diverge, and well, why not?

The lone (legal) way to cross now is a few yards away, from the west corner of Taylor Place to what was once the library.

Any bets on how long it will take Westporters to stop crossing the Post Road by the Y?

I say never.

Another One Bites The Dust

Jasmine is closing.

October 1 is the restaurant’s last day of business.  A note directs Chinese food and sushi customers to the new takeout location a short distance away:  67  Saugatuck Avenue.

“06880” reader Chip Stephens put it best:  “Bring back the Arrow.”

Joan Schine’s Legacy

Joan Schine — the former Board of Education chairman who died Saturday at 87 — is being lauded for her strong commitment to Westport, and education in all forms, during a lifetime of service.

WestportNow.com‘s James Lomuscio wrote a fond remembrance, citing her courageous stand in 1970 in favor of Project Concern.  That program — proposed here in 1970 — allowed 25 Bridgeport students to be bused to Westport, from elementary through high school. 

Outraged opponents threatened a recall drive, which ultimately failed.  The  Board of Ed — with the backing of Schine and prominent Republican Allen Raymond, and buoyed by the support of well-respected citizens like Lou Nistico — voted 3-2 in favor of Project Concern.

It lasted for a decade, and brought dozens of Bridgeport youngsters here to study and socialize.  It is fondly recalled today, by schoolchildren from both towns who are now well-established adults.

Joan Schine’s legacy has lasted far longer than Project Concern’s decade.  The values established by that program — and fought for so fervently by her — have underpinned much of Westport’s educational philosophy in the years since.

We have mostly — though not always supported — those values with Board of Ed votes, and with tax dollars.  But they’re still there.  We still believe that education is vital; that we must involve ourselves with surrounding communities, and that our students must be part of something larger than themselves.

I’m not sure what kind of school system Westport would have today had Joan Schine not prevailed in that decisive 1970 vote.

And I’m even less sure what kind of town this would be.

The Interfaith Amigos

A pastor, a rabbi and an imam walk into a room…

No, it’s not a joke.  It’s what takes place at the Saugatuck Congregational Church this Sunday (Sept. 26, 4 p.m.).

The Interfaith Amigos. Can you guess which one is the imam, pastor and rabbi?

Pastor Don Mackenzie, Rabbi Ted Falcon and Imam Jamal Rahman — all from Seattle — were brought together by 9/11.  They shared mutual respect, and a willingness to question the teachings of their own faith traditions.

Then they took their show on the road.

Their message — of deep hope and profound possibilities for healing — has been delivered to audiences in the U.S., Israel-Palestine (hey, that’s what the press release says), and Japan.

The Interfaith Amigos promise “insightful dialogue, discussion of the sameness and differences within each faith, wisdom and of course, a sense of humor.”

Neither shy nor timid, they discuss religious teachings and actions contrary to the core teaching of their faiths in areas like violence, gender inequality and homophobia.

They’ll address — with spiritual wisdom and humor — “awkward” parts of each tradition.  Is Jesus the only way?  Are Jews really the chosen people?  And what’s up with the Koran, anyway?

Sunday’s event includes a 90-minute discussion, and 30 minutes of questions.  There will be refreshments.

The event is free.

Just bring an open mind.

(“The Interfaith Amigos” is sponsored by the Westport/Weston Interfaith Council, with generous donations from the George Mangold Lecture Series and Temple Israel.)

Fighting Words

Growing up in Westport, Addison Freeman didn’t fight much.  The son and grandson of dentists — Adam and Stan, respectively — he didn’t fight a lot at George Washington University, either.

“Bar and street fights are foolish, childish,” he says.

But like many young men, Freeman watched boxing and mixed martial arts on TV.  “You wonder what it’s like,” he notes.  “You idolize the warrior mentality.”

Addison Freeman, at his fighting weight.

Which is how, last week, Freeman found himself locked in a Denver cage, punching and kicking a man he’d never met.  A crowd of 1,500 roared its lusty approval.

Freeman does nothing partway.

At Staples he was a 2-year wrestling captain.  He graduated in 2004 with the 2nd highest number of wins in Wrecker history.

At GW he majored in pre-med, then moved west to install IT systems in hospitals.  He’d done Ju-Jitsu in college, and in Colorado realized he wanted to learn more about martial arts and hand-to-hand combat.

Freeman gravitated to Muay Thai — an aggressive form of kick-boxing (kicks to the leg are allowed).  He was good at it, but after months of training he felt the urge to kick it up a notch:  Cage fighting, in front of fans.

He worked for months with coach Jason Lee, and was nearly ready.  But a knee injury set him back.  Five months of rehabilitation, followed by 3 more months of brutal training, were rewarded when Lee recommended Freeman for a “Rising Stars” card.

He was scheduled for 160 pounds — just below his normal weight. But his opponent backed out.  Freeman had already told friends about the bout — and his parents were flying out from Westport to watch.  His only chance was at 150 pounds.

For 2 weeks, Freeman worked with a nutritionist to cut weight.  The night before the bout, he stripped to his underwear at a bar to weigh in.  He made it — by 1 ounce.

Addison Freeman's headgear and mouthguard being checked by the athletic commission. (Photo by John Burkard)

A week ago Friday, Freeman entered the National Western Complex.  He wore headgear, but shin pads are optional — both fighters wear them, or none.  He and his opponent, Josh Martinez, decided against the guards.

“The point is to not be safe and protected,” Freeman says.  “I wanted to feel everything.”

Thirteen other fighters stood on Freeman’s side of the gym.  Some had 20 bouts under their belt; others, like he, had none.

“I didn’t expect all that camaraderie,” Freeman marvels.  “As bad a reputation as these guys have for being aggressive thugs, they treat themselves as athletes.  And they really want to help each other out.”

Muay Thai is “not easy to watch,” Freeman admits.  “People get hurt.  But it’s completely voluntary.  You can stop at any time just by falling on your back and tapping out.”

All of a sudden the music Freeman had chosen — Lupe Fiasco’s “Solar Midnite” — came on.  Tumultuous cheers accompanied him into the ring.

Immediately, a surge of adrenaline kicked in.

Handlers removed his shirt.  He hugged his coach.  Lee told him he was ready, and urged him to have fun.

Suddenly the cage door closed behind Freeman.

“What the hell did I get myself into?” he wondered.  “I’m a rational person.  I went to a good school.  And I was about to get kicked and hit inside a cage.”

But he couldn’t back down.  The referee called the fighters into the center.  The bell rang; they touched gloves — and instantly battled.

Addison Freeman keeping Josh Martinez against the fence with a punch-kick combination. (Photo by John Burkard)

Freeman’s strategy was to throw combination punches.  Martinez stayed on the outside and kicked.  At the end of the 1st round Martinez connected low — men, you know what that means — and Freeman went down.  He did not know it, but the blow had broken Martinez’s foot.

In the 2nd round Freeman used his shin to block Martinez’s own shin kicks.  The debilitating strikes caused Freeman to lose feeling in his leg.  He felt no pain though, and thought his own punches were finding their mark.

The final round exhausted both men.  Martinez’s nose bled badly — it was broken — and Freeman kept attacking his head.

“It’s a weird emotional mix,” Freeman says.  “I took pride in doing damage, but I didn’t want Josh to be in pain in the end.”

Both men, of course, were in plenty of pain.  Martinez broke his other foot too, and when it was over each fighter needed help leaving the cage.

The judges awarded Martinez the match, 2 rounds to 1.  “They liked his kicks more than my punches,” Freeman explains.  “Most people thought it was a draw.  But his strategy worked.  I should have been more aggressive.”

The men spoke briefly before Martinez went to the hospital.  Later, on Facebook, they congratulated each other on a great fight.

Addison's leg, post-fight.

Meanwhile, Freeman’s leg swelled to twice its normal size.  His head was having issues of its own.

“It was just this incredible emotional dump,” Freeman reports.  “After that insane adrenaline rush, I had so much to deal with.

“At first I couldn’t believe what I’d just done.  Then I couldn’t decide whether to be sad or mad at the outcome, or what.

“But the professional fighters told me not to worry.  They said some of them bawled after their first fight.  They all congratulated me and said it was a great fight.  But it was a real rollercoaster of emotions.”

Within a few days, Freeman “discovered a lot about myself.  This was pure 1-on-1.  There’s no one to bail you out.  You find out if you’re a coward, or if you go after someone else.”  He realized he is definitely not a coward.

His friends and family “think this is a litte crazy,” he admits.  His mother was “not thrilled” — probably an understatement — but watched nevertheless.

“She was nervous, but she knows this is what I do,” Freeman explains.  He’s competed in an Ironman, and run with the bulls in Pamplona.

Freeman was invited back for another match at the end of the month.  “I respectfully declined,” he says.  “I need a bit of time.”

So how does he feel now?

“A lot of people think about doing this,” Freeman says.  “But most of them don’t step into a cage.

“That’s the rational decision.  I don’t think it’s wrong, but I don’t think my decision is wrong either.  I followed through with something that’s important to me.”

He had “an incredible workout.  I found a level of respect with other competitors that was inspiring.  This is a sport I love.”

Now, though, “it’s time to get serious about my future.  It was never my goal to be a fighter.  I’ve done the irresponsible things.  Now I have to take care of the responsible ones.”

He hopes to attend Columbia University dental school.  He’d like to be a maxillofacial surgeon — and return to Westport to practice.

That’s good.  He’d join the family business.

Having a 3rd Dr. Freeman in town would be quite a kick.

(Click here for a video of the fight.)