Category Archives: Westport life

O Christmas Tree! Scouts Ready To Haul Yours Away.

Christmas is in the rear view mirror.

Your tree is still up. It still smells fresh. But pretty soon, it will meet its expiration date.

Getting rid of a Christmas tree is nowhere near as fun as getting one.

No problem!

As they do every year, Scout Troops 39 and 139 can help.

Their annual Christmas tree pickup is Saturday, January 4. Just fill out this form. (Do it ASAP – there are a limited number of spots!)

Put your tree by your mailbox by 6:30 a.m. that morning. The suggested donation is $20 per tree (of course, you can give more!). Put it in an envelope (cash or check made payable to “Troop 39”); tape it to you front door.

All trees will be mulched into wood chips, and donated to the town for landscaping projects. Funds raised help pay for Scout activities all year long, and for chipping expenses.

NOTE: Scouts cannot take wreaths or garlands. The wires ruin tree chippers.

The Scouts add: “We are not perfect. If we don’t pick up your tree by 5 p.m. Saturday, January 4, please send an email with your name, address and phone number to troop39westport@gmail.com by 8 p.m. We will pick up your tree Sunday morning January 5, before we return the rental trucks.

Scouts in action.

NOTE: If  you miss the Scout pick-up — or for some reason don’t want their help — you have a couple of other options.

You (or your trash hauler) can bring your tree to the yard waste facility (180 Bayberry Lane). Be sure to remove all tinsel and decorations (duh) first.

You may not take your tree to the Sherwood Island Connector transfer station. Christmas trees — even dead ones — are not trash. They cannot be recycled. (You can, of course, take your fake tree there.)

Another option is “Trees for Trout.” Donating a clean tree helps create new habitats in the Norwalk River. There is a $10 donation fee. Click here for details.

(Photo/Amy Schneider)

Charlotte’s Christmas: Let’s Keep It Going!

Tuesday’s celebration of 93-year-old beloved Balducci’s cashier Charlotte — and the presentation of a $28,950 check, donated by generations of grateful customers — was one of Westport’s best stories of the year. (If you missed it, click here to read.)

But Charlotte was not the only star of the day.

The idea came from — and was executed by — Dan Frank. He knows, and loves, Charlotte through his job as an Instacart shopper.

In just 4 days he posted it on social media, helped it spread, coordinated with Balducci’s managers, arranged for a check, and ensured that a large crowd was on hand (on one of the busiest days of the year) to honor and toast Charlotte.

Charlotte, with Dan and her check at Balducci’s. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

So who is Dan Frank?

A Weston High School graduate, he studied finance and entrepreneurship at Syracuse University. He earned a master’s in education from the University of Minnesota, then studied sports broadcasting at Sacred Heart.

Sports is his true love. He was a lead agent at a player management firm and a play-by-play announcer for the University of New Haven.

His favorite gig was at his alma mater, Weston High. There, he did a number of jobs for the athletics department. He was best known for creating highlight videos of the previous day’s games and matches. Students and staff loved them, and him.

Dan Frank, at work.

Christine Marra — the woman who told me about Dan Frank’s gift project for Charlotte — did not know him.

Before contacting me, she checked him out. The comments from his Facebook friends — about his fundraising and other activities — assured her that Dan was not only legit, but loved.

She helped him get one of those big fake photo-op check at the Staples store. He lives 5 minutes away, and met her there.

As soon as he walked in, someone high-fived him. Christine realized Dan is nearly as admired as Charlotte.

Dan Frank, at the Balducci’s ceremony. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Dan’s brief speech at the Balducci’s ceremony was heartfelt and humble.

“I come here for work several days a week,” he said.

“I come in thinking about my own needs. But every interaction with you lifts me up. You make every day better.”

Growing emotional, he continued, “Charlotte, you have an extraordinary impact on people. You restore my faith in humanity.”

He handed her a large copy of the large check, “with love and gratitude.” Giving, he concluded is “the best way to give back.”

Speaking of giving: “06880” can give back to Dan Frank, too.

After leaving Weston High, he spent a couple of years in Aruba. Instacart is not his career goal. He’s trying now to get back into the field he loves.

Dan Frank and friend.

Sports media, sports marketing, sports broadcasting — that’s where he wants to be.

Dan’s work this week raising nearly $30,000 for a cashier who inspires him shows his energy, commitment, skills and savvy.

It’s time for one more Christmas miracle. If there is an “06880” reader out there who can hire Dan for a sports position — or has a lead on one that might align with his background — click “Comments” below. Or email 06880blog@gmail. com.

Dan Frank paid it forward. Let’s keep the good work going!

BOXING DAY BONUS: Click below for Josh Allen’s video, with Dan and Charlotte from Tuesday’s ceremony.

Charlotte’s Christmas

Christmas came a day early for Charlotte.

The 93-year-old Balducci’s cashier — perhaps the most beloved store clerk in Westport — was honored by several dozen people this morning, for her warm smile, her kind words, and her long service to generations of shoppers. (She began in the bakery, back in the Hay Day days.)

There was a brief speech. There were flowers.

And there was a check.

Boy, was there a check!

In just 3 days, grateful customers responded to a social media post by one of her biggest fans: Instacart driver Dan Frank.

Charlotte, with her $28,950 check.

Donations poured in from all over town — and beyond. Current and former customers and former colleagues contributed, from across the country.

Some gave a few dollars. An anonymous donor sent $3,000. All added best wishes, and love.

The total came to a whopping $28,950.

The ceremony began as Charlotte left her register, and was escorted to a chair near the back.

“What did I do wrong?” she asked mischievously.

Dan Frank spoke for many.

“I come here for work several days a week,” he said.

“I come in thinking about my own needs. But every interaction with you lifts me up. You make every day better.”

Growing emotional, he continued, “Charlotte, you have an extraordinary impact on people.”

He handed her a large copy of the large check, “with love and gratitude.”

“I love everyone!” Charlotte replied. “I love you all.”

An overflow crowd honors Charlotte.

Someone in the crowd began singing, “For she’s a jolly good fellow.”

Dozens of voices joined in.

“This is the best way to give back,” Dan concluded.

Dan Frank thanks Charlotte.

Enjoying the warm glow in the cold air, Charlotte’s friends and admirers agreed.

Still, they knew, there was no way — even with a check — they could ever repay what she has given them, with a simple smile day after day, year after year, in her very special grocery store checkout line.

One 93-year-old honors another.

The woman of the hour (day) (year). (All photos/Ryan Allen)

Joy To The (Westport) World

2024 has been quite a year.

From the fractured national political landscape to fraught local controversies, folks are on edge.

But hey — it’s the holidays!

Let’s put aside our differences. Let’s slow down. Let’s appreciate, with delight and gratefulness, all the brightness in our lives.

Including our neighbors, who go out of their way to light up the lives of all who pass by.

Whatever their views, on whatever we will argue about after the new year.

West Parish Road (Photo/Kristen Habacht)

North Avenue, across from Staples High School. (Photo/Jennifer Kobetitsch)

Timber Lane. off Roseville Road. (Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

A special message, on Compo Road North. (Photo/Eric Bosch)

This 18th-century one-horse open sleigh was a gift from A.E. Hotchner’s wife, when Rick Benson bought the author’s family home. Rick restored it to its present 21st-century beauty. It’s parked now on Compo Hill. (Photo/Rick Benson)

Green’s Farms Congregational Church. (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

Main Street. (Photo/Andrew Colabella)

Vani Court, off Compo Road South. (Photo/Andrew Colabella)

Bridge Street (Photo/Andrew Colabella)

Hillandale Road. (Photo/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

 

A Christmas Gift For Charlotte. But Don’t Say A Word!

If you shop at Balducci’s, you know Charlotte.

She’s the 93-year-old woman who works — joyfully, but hard and full-time — as a cashier. (In 2023, she was honored as an “06880” Unsung Hero. Click here for that story.)

Among her many fans is an Instacart shopper named Dan. He writes:

“I deliver groceries for a living, while I’m in the process of looking for a job more aligned with my background. But there must be a bigger reason that I have this job, because it put me in a position to truly bless somebody.

“I pass through Balducci’s several times a week, and I always say hello to Charlotte. She’s so warm and friendly, and always has a positive attitude.

“It breaks my heart to see a 93-year-old woman who reminds me of my grandmother, working so hard at her age.

Charlotte, everyone’s Balducci’s friend.

“I took a video of her and uploaded it to my Facebook profile, alongside a GoFundMe link in case people would want to donate.

“I was fearful that nobody would respond, but hopeful we would raise enough money to give her a nice surprise for the holidays.”

As of yesterday afternoon, over $3,400 was raised. There were many heartwarming messages too.

Dan continues: “I’m filled with gratitude. My faith in humanity has been restored.

“I will present Charlotte with 100% of the donations on Christmas Eve, at 11 a.m.”

Yes, she’s working the day before Christmas.

But — thanks to Charlotte’s many friends and fans — this may be one of the most special, in her nearly full century of life.

(To contribute to Charlotte’s Christmas gift, click here.) 

Downsizing? Moving? Organizing? 2 Jens Ease Stress

Jenny Bentley and Jennifer Dewis have a lot in common, beside their first names.

They moved to Westport on the same day in 2008. They met while dropping off their 3rd graders at Greens Farms Elementary School. (The girls became longtime friends.)

Both women were good at helping friends’ parents downsize their homes. As their organizational skills grew, their separate reputations spread.

Inevitably, they joined forces. Today, their business — 2Jens Organizing — thrives. Empty nesters themselves, they fill a great niche: taking the stress out of moving from a large house to a smaller one.

Jenny and Jennifer take on side tasks too with gusto, like bringing small items to Goodwill, calling auction houses and hanging art. They’ve been hired to organize young children’s rooms, too.

Jenny Bentley (left) and Jennifer Dewis take on many tasks with smiles.

But their bread and butter is the daunting task of helping older folks downsize.

The process begins with questions: What should I bring? What should I donate, and where? What can I throw out?

Well-meaning adult children cannot always help. Sometimes they hurt. They’re too close to the situation.

The Jens provide 2 sets of objective eyes. And years of experience in helping folks make plans, then carrying them out. (The plans, not the clients.)

“A lot of this is intuitive. We’re very good listeners,” Jenny says. “We consult. We advise. But we’re very respectful of people’s wishes.”

The women know it can be hard to part with memorabilia. Gently, they help sort through it. If there are 75 pieces of artwork from elementary school, perhaps 10 are enough to keep? 

Much of that memorabilia is all over the place too: refrigerators, mantels, basements, attics. The Jens are geniuses at sorting it, putting it in bins, and labeling it.

Setting up a new, well-organized space.

Moving can be a fraught experience. Clients invite Jenny and Jennifer into their personal space. But they don’t want to feel criticized or judged.

“Whatever works for them is fine,” Jenny says. She leaves out the second part: Even if we don’t like it ourselves.

What they do is largely “problem-solving,” she adds. “We have independent eyes, we come up with a game plan, we communicate it with them, and then we work on the timing of everything.”

Once a client has moved into a new home, the Jens are there. They’ll organize, say, a kitchen. They bring their expertise, but stop often to ask: Does this work for you?

A recent client (though probably gratis) was Jenny’s mother, Nina Bentley.

A noted assemblage artist, she did not want to part with anything in her garage. So the 2 Jens emptied, swept and vacuumed it, then put everything back in an orderly way.

Now her tools, paints and skulls (!) are organized. “It doesn’t look Instagram-perfect, but that’s the reality of how an artist work,” Nina’s daughter says.

A 2 Jens garage: before and after.

Some of the kitchens and laundry rooms they work on do look tidy. But not every room.

“Not every client wants then,” Jennifer explains. “They want to live their lives in a way that works for them.”

The women’s expertise comes from their own lives. Both women have moved often. They’ve set up their own homes, and helped their 6 children (combined) move into new bedrooms, dorm rooms and apartments.

Deciding what to sell or donate — or whether to have an estate sale, or send items to consignment — is challening.

“Clients can be overwhelmed,” says Jenny. “We have a lot of patience, and a deft touch to make them feel at ease, every step of the way.”

The women charge by the hour. Clients can stop the clock any time, and not feel locked into a contract.

However, Jenny notes, “jobs tend to get bigger as we go. Once we get started, people realize they need more things done.”

Downsizing is never easy. There’s a lot of stuff in those closets, basements and attics.

The 2 Jens are ready to help make sense — and well-organized, clearly labeled bins — of it.

(For more information on 2Jens Organizing, click here.)

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Lynn Untermeyer’s Downtown

Growing up in Westport, Lynn Untermeyer Miller loved downtown.

She’s never lost that affection.

And — in her years as a professional photographer (as was her father, the beloved Larry Untermeyer) — she often trains her eye on the sights and scenes we sometimes miss on Main Street.

The holidays are a special time for downtown, and for Lynn.

The other day she headed there, for the “06880”/Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll.

Here are a few images, perfect for the season.

(All photos/Lynn Untermeyer Miller)

 

Holiday Stroll: Westport Flocks To Winter Party

The Staples Orphenians sang carols.

Kids roasted s’mores, posed with Santa (and Buddy the Elf and the Grinch), petted piglets, made ornaments, got their faces painted, sent letters to the North Pole, and had a holiday blast in hundreds of other ways.

Nômade’s s’mores are a new Stroll tradition. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Their parents enjoyed Champagne, shopped, snapped photos of their kids with Santa (and Buddy the Elf and the Grinch), met friends and neighbors, and had their own holiday blast.

Sorelle Gallery: fine art and more. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

A DJ blasted Christmas songs (with a bit of Motown and other popular music thrown it). Many people donated toys, to the Westport Police drive.

All your favorite holiday classics, from the Holiday Stroll DJ. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Merchants up and down Main Street — and across the river, even in Saugatuck — added their own unique promotions, for even more fun.

Many merchants offered special Stroll deals. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Yesterday’s 4th annual “06880” Holiday Stroll was the biggest and best yet. The Westport Downtown Association kicked it up many notches this year, adding dozens of activities, bringing in artisans and vendors, and making sure the 2,000 attendees had a holiday blast.

Even the weather cooperated. The air was brisk, but hey, it’s December. Winter is hot chocolate time, and there was plenty to go around.

The kettle corn guy had a busy night. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Thanks to all the stores, restaurants, vendors and others who participated. Thanks too to the Westport Downtown Association, whose partnership with “06880” is invaluable (and greatly appreciated).

And of course, thanks to all who attended. Seeing downtown sidewalks filled with strollers (the walking kind, and the kind with infants strapped in) makes all of us realize what a truly great community this is.

Direct from Staples Players’ production of “Elf”: Buddy (left, Seamus Brannigan), with castmates Yusef Abdallah and Chloe Carson. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Face painting is always a Stroll hit. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Everyone — including 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker — loves a holiday piglet. (Photo/Cathy Malkin)

Kids dropped off letters to Santa at Savvy + Grace. He promises to reply to all. (Photo/Terry Brannigan)

Staples Orphenians sang on Main Street … (Photo/Ryan Allen)

… and in the acoustically great tunnel of love. (Photo/Shobana Mani)

Dylan Curran helped direct traffic. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Main Street glistened … (Photo/Ryan Allen)

… and the Main and Elm Street parking lot hopped. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Her first Holiday Stroll. Hopefully, there will be many more. (Photo/Ryan Allen)

Classic Santa pic … (Photo/Ryan Allen)

… but he’s not just for kids. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Thankful For …

What are you thankful for?

That’s the question I posed recently.

“06880” readers responded. Family, friends, community, health — the emails came in.

When we all sit down today for Thanksgiving dinner, we’ll give thanks for many things. Among them:

I’m thankful for the 40 years I lived in Westport, and the connection that remains to this day because of “06880.” It’s very special. As the Eagles say: “You can check out any time you like. But you can never leave.” (And also thankful for the brilliant selection of songs in the daily Roundup.)  — Tom Feeley

I’m thankful for old friends — especially as the various health issues Debbie and I have dealt with have limited our in-person contacts with people — so we have far more interaction online or by phone. 

And I’m thankful to the town of Westport for creating the lovely picnic area by the Longshore Marina where, on a couple of occasions, we as out-of-towners have met other out-of-town friends (there is no parking fee!). Having worked summers at the tennis courts more than a half century ago, I can affirm that the creation of this picnic area is just one example of the variety of improvements at Longshore since we were growing up.— Fred Cantor

This holiday season, I am thankful that my cancer continues to be contained … yeah! Very thankful!Sue Galati

Thankful for my childhood, and the memories of Thanksgiving on Green Acre Lane in the ’60s.Mike Mills

Among the joys of Green Acre Lane: Haskins Preserve. (Photo/Wendy Cusick)

I am thankful for my church, St. Paul Lutheran. There, over the past 30 years, I have made lifelong friends who are loving and supportive of me and my family. We don’t agree on everything, but we love each other always. 

I am also thankful for all of the people at Maplewood Southport who have supported my mother and my family during this hard journey of dementia. At the top of my list is my beloved family: Pietro, Tomaso and Lucia. — Janine Scotti

So thankful to have wonderful children who have equally wonderful spouses, and expecting first grandchild in the new year. — Debbie Solomon

I’m thankful for health, my husband and children, a peaceful and safe community, and so thankful for the ability to do and appreciate the small things in life without taking anything for granted. — Stephanie Mastocciolo

It feels so counterintuitive to express thanks for a Facebook group, but Westport Gift Economy has brought new friends into my life. Who knew? Sure, I’ve been the lucky recipient of new furniture, small appliances, and even charming ceramics. And sure, I’ve felt great giving away my own items to people who will use and enjoy them. But the surprise — perhaps the more meaningful “gift” — has been the lasting friendships formed along the way. Kudos to the volunteers who administer the site, creating a truly supportive and fun Westport experience. — Kerstin Rao

I want to show my gratitude to Cia, Jersy and Hetty Marion. My husband, daughter and I moved to Westport from San Francisco about 6 months ago. The move was significant, and not just in mileage. The Marions (my in-laws) helped make the transition as smooth as possible. Cia and Jersy attended kindergarten orientation at Saugatuck as our proxies. All 3 ensured the house we were soon to occupy was cared for. They went so far as to set up a little card table in our home with placemats and flowers to welcome us upon our entry, while our furniture made its slow trek east. While I miss San Francisco, I feel so fortunate to have had a soft landing in Westport, thanks to the unconditional love and support of Cia, Jersy, and Hetty.Jordan Paxhia Marion

(Photo/Seth Schachter)

I’m thankful that I have enough. Enough money that I don’t have to worry about the price of milk or groceries or gas. Enough to be able to buy extra turkeys for those who might not have them otherwise at Thanksgiving. — Leigh Gage

On behalf of my eternally sexy wife, Jo Ann Miller, we give thanks this year for our love, our good health, Spanky the Wonder Dog, and the ability to still laugh in the midst of turmoil and tragedy in the past 10 years of our lives.  And, of course, the Kansas City Chiefs.  For those of you who cannot be with family this Thanksgiving, please resist the urge to brag. Scooter Swanson, III

This year I am thankful I do not have to cook dinner.  In the past, my extended family thought Thanksgiving was a commemoration of Pearl Harbor Day when I did cook. – Jo Ann Miller

I‘m thankful that my parents, Ruth and Larry Sherman, chose to move to Westport in 1965. It is something that my entire family is grateful for every day. – Suzanne Sherman Propp

Let Us Give Thanks …

On Thursday, Americans will sit down to Thanksgiving feasts.

There will be turkey, football and naps. There should also be thanks. That’s kind of the whole idea.

Next week, “06880” will share some of the things our readers are thankful for.

Individually, they’re important. Taken together, they can provide a broad picture of “06880” — both our community here Westport, and our extended online one around the globe.

Please email 06880blog@gmail.com. Let us know what you’re thankful for this year. (NOTE: Do not post your thanks in the Comments section; just email them to us.)

Big or small; concrete or abstract; individually or as a family; here in town or anywhere else — we want to hear from you. And please let us know whether we can use your name, or if you prefer anonymity.

We’ll post your “06880” thanks next week.

Thank you!

This guy is thankful he’s roaming the streets of Westport, not stuck in a supermarket case. (Photo/William Webster)