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Roundup: Hamlet Application, Seniors’ Writing Contest, #EndJewHatred …

Posted on March 6, 2025 | 19 comments

Tonight’s (Thursday) boys basketball state tournament quarterfinal between Staples and St. Bernard has been moved to Fairfield Warde High School. Tip-off is 7 p.m.

The Wreckers — ranked #4 in Division I — are the host team, against the #5 easterners. The site was changed because Warde’s gym is larger than Staples’.

Staples and St. Bernard have developed a great rivalry. In 2023, #1 ranked St. Bernard-Uncasville topped the #7 Wreckers 63-50, in the state Division II finals at Mohegan Sun.

Earlier this year, in a non-league game, St. Bernard beat Staples 63-56 in Uncasville.

The Wreckers are betting that the third time the charm — especially at “home.”

The FCIAC champion Staples boys basketball team hope to advance in the state tournament tonight.

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Discussions about The Hamlet — the new Saugatuck project — begin Monday (March 10, 6 p.m.; Zoom).

The Planning & Zoning Commission will hold a public hearing on a request for special permit/coastal site plan approval for 601, 606 and 609 Riverside Avenue, 91 and 96 Franklin Street, and 2 and 16 Railroad Place, for “a mix of non-residential, hotel and residential uses as part of an integrated site development, for property located in the General Business District/Saugatuck Marina.”

The public may observe and participate in the hearing.

Part of the land under consideration for The Hamlet at Saugatuck.

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You’ve heard of the TEAM Westport Diversity Writing Contest, open to local teenagers. And the Farmers’ Market Young Shoots photo contest, also for kids.

What about older residents?

If you’re 60 or older: You’re in luck.

The Westport Library, the Westport Center for Senior Activities, and Meryl Moss Media Group have just announced the first-ever Jackie Robinson Essay Contest.

Organized by the Library’s Common Ground Initiative, it invites submissions (800 words or less) based on this prompt: “Jackie Robinson stands as an icon of equality and civil rights. What does that say about the power of his legacy, of the place of sports in our culture, and about our modern-day society?”

Click here to submit essays. The deadline is March 24. A panel will choose the winners, to be announced on April 15 — Jackie Robinson Day.

Winners will receive Jackie Robinson memorabilia, a chance to be featured by the Jackie Robinson Museum, and tickets to a New York Mets game at Citi Field — home to the Jackie Robinson Rotunda.

Jackie Robinson. He was a longtime resident of Stamford.

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Earthplace continues to have a full calendar, for children, adults and families. They include:

  • Garden Planting & Seed Starting (tonight, March 6, 6 p.m., $35)
  • Family Campfire: Spring Equinox (March 22, 1 p.m.; member family $30, non-member $40)
  • Rain Gardens 101 (March 20, 7 p.m.; free)
  • Parents’ Night Out (March 28, 6 p.m.; member child $50, non-member $60)
  • New drop-off programs for kids
  • Vacation days and summer camp.

Click here for details.

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If you wonder what lies beneath your property or under your floorboards, check out “Hidden History in Your Backyard.”

The Weston History & Culture Center hosts Instagram-famous Maryclare Roos for a March 30 presentation (3 p.m.; $5).

It’s followed by a wine and cheese closing reception of the exhibit, “Weston…What Lies Beneath.” The show features many treasures excavated by Roos on her antique property. Click here for more details.

Maryclare Roos

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Human rights attorney Brooke Goldstein — founder and executive director of The Lawfare Project — is the special guest at a March 27 fundraiser (6:30 p.m., private home).

Called “An Evening of Impact to #EndJewHatred,” it benefits that Lawfare Project program of the same name.

Yale University student Sahar Tartak will be there too, discussing a recent antisemitic attack she experienced,  and how The Lawfare Project is fighting to protect her and the rights of Jewish students across the country.

Click here for tickets, and more information.

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Donna Disch dished on her role as Westport poet laureate, at Tuesday’s Westport Rotary Club lunch meeting.

She described initiatives like the poetry box on Soundview Drive (there’s a new poem every day), and a weekly poetry workshop. \

“If I didn’t have poetry, I’d feel quite hemmed in,” Disch said. “Poetry offers a focus, a refuge, a respite. It gives me a great deal of contentment.” She encouraged Rotarians to open their minds to the benefits of verse.

The laureate also read poems by Homer Winslow, Wendell Berry, Robert Frost and others.

Donna Disch, at the Westport Rotary Club meeting. Her poetry box is on the slide in the background. (Hat tip and photo/Dave Matlow)

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The Stradivarius Chamber Orchestra — a Staples High School elite musical ensemble — entertained the Y’s Men of Westport and Weston at Saugatuck Congregational Church on Tuesday. The concert was arranged by the Y’s Men Classical Music Society.

Carrie Mascaro conducts the group. The program included music by Mozart, Telemann, Copland, Joplin and others.

Stradivarius Chamber Orchestra, at Saugatuck Church. (Hat tip and photo/Dave Matlow)

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Coming soon to Westport: Everything But Water.

The women’s swimwear and resort wear retailer will move into Elm & Main (formerly called Brooks Corner) downtown.

Everything But Water has been in business for over 35 years. They currently operate over 85 stores across the United States. The closest location now is in Greenwich.

“One piece wonder,” from Everything But Water.

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State Senator Tony Hwang delivered the invocation at Tuesday’s Representative Town Meeting session.

He said “we are better together,” and expressed the importance of community involvement and public service.

State Senator Tony Hwang (right) and RTM moderator Jeff Wieser, before Tuesday’s meeting. (Photo/Jimmy Izzo)

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Coleytown Middle School’s Company is hard at work on their spring production.

“Matilda The Musical” — inspired by the beloved Roald Dahl novel — runs for 4 performances, April 4-6.

Coleytown Company promises “colorful characters, rousing songs, and an inspiring storyline.” The show will entertain audiences of all ages — especially elementary school, with its “relatable and magical” story.

Tickets go on sale tomorrow (March 7). Click here to order, and for more information.

Coleytown Company presents “Matilda The Musical.”

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Westport native and 1961 Staples High School graduate Jonathan Jaeger died peacefully on Tuesday, at the VA Hospital in West Haven. He was 81, and had been in failing health for several months. He was very grateful for the wonderful care and heartfelt attention he received from excellent doctors and nurses there.

Jon attended Greens Farms Elementary and Assumption Schools before Staples. After graduation he joined the Air Force. He served from 1961 to 1965 in New Jersey and Newfoundland.

Jon then spent 8 years working at Norden Systems in Norwalk. In 1973 he joined his father Andre in the family business, Greens Farms Cut Flower Exchange. In 1981 Jon and his sister Sara bought it from their father, and operated it for the next 28 years. They sold their business and Hyde Lane greenhouses in 2003, and moved to a new location in Norwalk. With changes in the sourcing of wholesale flowers, they closed it in 2009.

Jon loved everything about flowers. He was a passionate gardener, and he enjoyed the fascinating people he met through business.

After retirement, Jon continued to work with East Coast Wholesale Flowers of
Norwalk and at the Fort Hill Farmer’s Market Stand, until shortly before his death.

He is survived by 3 of his 8 siblings: Rene of Woodinville, Washington; Sara of Fairfield, and Jalna of Norwalk.

Jnathan Jaeger

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During the pandemic, many Westporters discovered the beauty of Sherwood Island State Park.

It continues to draw plenty of residents every day — all year long.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo shows one of many intriguing scenes, at this jewel in the heart of our shoreline.

(Photo/Molly Alger)

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And finally … in honor of Westport’s first-ever Jackie Robinson Essay Contest (story above):

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Roundup: Native Gardens, Westport Swim Club Tryouts, Egg News …

Posted on February 23, 2025 | 3 comments

Audiences are loving “Native Gardens.”

The Westport Country Playhouse show dramatically — and humorously — captures a culture clash, when 2 sets of well-intentioned neighbors fued in a backyard dispute over property lines.

The play runs through March 8.

(From left): Paula Leggett Chase, Lined Genao, Anthony Michael Martinez and Adam Heller head the cast of performers. (Hat tip and photo/Dave Matlow)

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Tryouts are near for the very popular Westport Swim Club.

The WSC provides developmental training for youngsters in grades 2 through 8. They build foundational skills, while preparing them for competitive swimming in all 4 strokes.

Practices take place at the Staples High School pool, in a supportive, growth-oriented environment for swimmers of all levels.

Tryouts are:

  • February 28 (7 to 7:30 p.m.)
  • March 2 (11:30 a.m. to 12 p.m.)
  • March 3 (5:30 to 6 p.m.)
  • March 5 (6:30 to 7 p.m.).

Click here for more information. Questions? Email swimwestport@gmail.com

Westport Swim Club members

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A reader writes: “Our elderly neighbor’s car was egged last night. I’ve just been there with another neighbor, helping clean it off.”

This would normally not be “06880”-worthy.

However, given the price of eggs recently — and the outsized role they’ve played in the political debate — it’s worth noting.

Apparently, at least one vandal in Westport has — almost literally — money to throw away.

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30-year Westport resident Bob Goldstein died peacefully February 17, with his wife Candy and dachshund Bruno by his side. He was 84, and had battled pancreatic cancer.

He was a magna cum laude graduate of Texas Christian University. Years earlier, at 8 years old, Bob decided he would someday be a bank president. He got his first banking job at TCU, in a mailroom, and quickly advanced to management.

He spent his early years as a banker in various parts of Texas. His career then took him to the Northeast, as a CEO and chair of a series of banks.

Bob’s knowledge of risk management, regulatory requirements and asset quality helped him turn around troubled banks, grow community banks and create value for shareholders. He held leadership roles in 20 financial institutions in 11 states.

Bob also served in the Texas National Guard, and played druns in a rock/jazz/country band at Fort Worth clubs. He loved spending time with his family and dog.

Civic engagement was also important. He served as a director on community boards including the Norwalk Hospital Foundation, the Jewish Home for the Elderly, Honey Hill Care Center, Texas Christian University Association, Hermann Hospital Steering Committee and the Children’s Miracle Network.

He was a member of the New York Real Estate Board of Governors and served as a faculty member of the Graduate School of Business at Southern Methodist University.

His family says “he will always be remembered for his personal integrity, sense of justice, sparkling smile, great sense of humor and love of animals.”

In addition to his wife Candy (Koizim), Bob is survived by his children Sandra Tanner, Robbi Russey Goldstein (Kevin), Griffin Goldstein (Laurie) and Amy Goldstein (Jenn); grandchildren Wesley Holt, Sam Holt (Kelsey), Ben Holt, Daniel Tanner (Ellen), Keith Goldstein, Jake Goldstein, Lexy Campos Goldstein and Coty Campos Goldstein, and great-grandchildren Jane and Mabel Tanner.

The family is grateful to Regional Hospice for the exceptional care they provided. Special thanks go to his wonderful caregivers, especially Jessica Floissac and Adriano Lima.

Funeral services will take place on February 28 (11 a.m., Spear Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield). Interment will follow at Willowbrook Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Westport Volunteer Emergency Medical Service or the TCU General Endowed Scholarship Fund (Office of University Advancement, TCU Box 297044, Fort Worth, TX 76129).

Bob Goldstein

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We haven’t had too much snow. But it’s come regularly. And for days, the temperatures have struggled to get above freezing.

That’s winter in our town, 2025. Howard Edelstein captured the view from Harbor Road, looking toward Longshore, for today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Howard Edelstein)

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And finally … Johnny Winter was born on this date in 1944. When he died in 2014, I wrote this story about his time in Westport.

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Roundup: Shonda Rhimes, Old Dominion, Selma Miriam …

Posted on February 13, 2025 | 4 comments

Shonda Rhimes has stepped down as treasurer of the John F. Kennedy Center for the Performing Arts.

The Emmy-winnng producer/director/screenwriter/author/CEO of Shondaland — and a Westport resident — resigned after President Trump fired the longtime president of the Washington arts institution, and was named chairman of the board by new members he had appointed.

Opera star Renée Fleming also stepped down from the board. And Ben Folds said he would resign as an adviser to the National Symphony Orchestra, which operates under the Kennedy Center umbrella.

Shonda Rhimes, at the Westport Library. (Photo/Jerri Graham Photography)

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Chairs of 4 major Westport bodies have written a joint letter.

Lee Caney (Board of Finance), Lee Goldstein (on behalf of the Board of Education), Paul Lebowitz (Planning & Zoning Commission) and Jeff Wieser (moderator, Representative Town Meeting), express their “disgust at the creation of the antisemitic snowman which appeared recently.

“That might be the act of one very misguided person, or it may be the view of other Westporters who do not respect the diversity of our vibrant community.

“We want to state as representatives of every member of this wonderful community, however, that the snowman has no place in Westport and is a despicable act. It is shameful that anyone would harbor such hate, and we hope it will never occur again in the town we love.”

Town leaders reacted to this snowman, built last Sunday at the Newman Poses Preserve.

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How do you celebrate winning 7 straight Country Music Association Group of the Year awards?

If you’re Old Dominion, you play 7 shows at Nashville’s historic Ryman Auditorium.

And you give the money to charity.

The band — which includes guitarist/vocalist Brad Tursi, a 1997 Staples High School graduate — raised a cool $1.25 million.

They gave it (of course) 7 charities: MusiCares, Save the Music, Backline Care, Opry Trust Fund, CMA Foundation, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Ramsey Foundation.

And — this really shouldn’t be a side note — the “7 for 7 Residency” the band set a record for most consecutive shows in Ryman’s history.

“06880” reader Tricia Summers — who went to 2 of the shows, and loved them — sends along this photo of Tursi, at the Ryman:

(Photo/Tricia Summers)

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A memorial service for Selma Miriam — the co-founder of Bloodroot vegetarian restaurant, and a longtime advocate for feminism and social justice who died earlier this month at 89 — has been set.

It will be held at 6 p.m. Sunday, March 9, at the United Congregational Church of Bridgeport (2200 North Avenue).

Selma’s many friends and admirers are invited.

Selma Miriam

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Last Saturday’s food drive to stock the Homes with Hope pantry was a huge success.

As they do every year just before the Super Bowl, the Sunrise Rotary Club and Westport Police Department collected over 500 bags of food and supplies, and more than $1,500 in cash, outside Stop & Shop.

But it was not the only drive held that day.

Addison Moore — a 2023 Staples High School graduate, winner of the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce’s Young Entrepreneur award, and now a pre-law student at Lafayette College — ran his own effort.

He organized it quickly, out of concern that a predicted snowstorm would impact the Gillespie Center’s stock.

He set up near the Westport Library, and in just a few hours collected a couple of hundred pounds of food.

It takes a village. Congratulations, Addison — and all who donated, to either food drive — for being part of ours.

Addison Moore, with his food collection.

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Susie Kowalsky read yesterday’s Roundup story on compostable cups and containers with interest.

She writes: “Rizzuto’s and Casa Me both use compostable containers for takeout and doggy bags. I’m sure there are more in town, but these are two I frequent.  They are sturdy, and do not leak.”

Details on a Casa Me compostable container.

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Presidents Day is known not for celebrating presidents, but for deals.

Mattresses, TVs, cars … they’re all on sale this weekend.

So are 25% 2-play subscriptions to the final shows of the Westport Country Playhouse’s “Season of Laughter.”

“Native Gardens” (February 18 through March 8) and “Theatre People” (March 25 through April 12) are the shows. Click here to learn more about them.

To access the discount, click here. A code will be provided beginning Saturday at westportplayhouse.org, and on Facebook (Westport Country Playhouse) and Instagram (wcplayhouse).

(In addition to the Presidents Weekend special promotion, the Playhouse regularly offers discounts on single tickets to students, senior citizens, educators, military and first responders, Indigenous peoples, professional playwrights, and groups, as well as options for pay-what-you-will and library passes.  Click here for details.

Playhouse seats are 25% off, this Presidents Day weekend. (Photo/Robert Benson)

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It’s not always easy for senior citizens to live in the suburbs.

Fortunately, Westport’s Department of Human Services has resources for residents who need help with outdoor tasks like yard work, snow removal and other light chores.

The office has a list of middle and high school students who want to help. The recommended fee is $16 per hour, but both sides are welcome to negotiate a different agreeable amount.

Seniors who require assistance with outdoor chores can call the Department of Human Services at 203-341-1050, or email humansrv@westportct.gov.

Middle and high school students who want to help can use the same contact information above. Written permission from a parent or guardian is required.

Local teens are eager to help seniors.

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A large crowd packed Riko’s Pizza last night, for a combined social event of the Westport and Fairfield Chambers of Commerce.

It was an introduction to the new Saugatuck restaurant for some, and a chance to network for all.

Chambers of Commerce, at Riko’s Pizza. (Photo/Matthew Mandell)

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Jolantha — Weston’s favorite pig — gets dressed up for every holiday.

She especially loves Valentine’s Day.

(Photo/Hans Wilhelm)

“06880” has chronicled Jolantha’s many intriguing costumes. Now you can see them all, in one place.

Her friend Hans Wilhelm has created a website — with photos, and her story.

It is quite a tail — er, tale.

Click here to see, and read.

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Daniel Purcell III — co-owner of Purcell Moving Inc., with his brother Larry, and former owner of Westport’s Sportsman’s Bar — died February 10. He was 82.

He enjoyed playing softball, boating with his family, tinkering with cars and trucks, long car rides, flea markets, and time with family and friends.

He played shuffleboard with his daughter Sandra at the Ukrainian Club in Southport on Monday nights He was also president and lifetime member of the Screwballs

Daniel is survived by his wife Stacy; daughters Laura Romano (Rob) and Sandra Scotto (Rob); granddaughters Ashley Gorkin (Elliot) and Kaitlyn Scotto; great-granddaughter Olivia Barbara Gorkin; 2 sisters, 4 brothers, sisters-in-law and brothers-in laws, nieces and nephews, and a great-nieces and great-nephews.He was predeceased by his first wife Barbara, and son Donald.

A celebration of life will be held at the Eagles Club (6 Mott Avenue, Norwalk) on June 10 (3 to 7 p.m.). Condolences may be left online. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the American Heart Association or the American Cancer Society.

Daniel Purcell

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Geese obey the sign. They refuse to land, and just skim the surface in today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature image.

(Photo/Carl McNair)

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And finally … let’s hear it again for Westport’s own (sort of) Old Dominion (story above):

(From the Kennedy Center to Ryman Auditorium — if there’s a Westport angle to a story, “06880” finds it. If you appreciate our hyper-local, worldly coverage, please click here. Thanks!)

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Selma Miriam: Obituary

Posted on February 8, 2025 | 4 comments

Selma Miriam — the long-time Westporter, co-founder of Bloodroot vegetarian restaurant, ardent feminist and crusader for social justice — died Thursday at her Saugatuck home. She was 2 weeks shy of her 90th birthday.

“06880” posted a tribute to her life yesterday. Here is her obituary.

Selma was born in Bridgeport on February 25, 1935.

She graduated from Jackson College (Tufts University) in 1956, with a joint degree in psychology and biology.

Selma Miriam

She was a landscape architect, rock gardener and orchid cultivator.

A feminist political activist, she was friends with many thought leaders including poet Audre Lorde, novelist Rita Mae Brown, philosopher and theologian Mary Daley,  folk singer Alix Dobkin, artist Judy Chicago, and many more.

In the 1960’s, Selma and her then-husband Abe Bunks became involved with the National Ethical Youth Organization. They hosted teenagers in their home, to discuss important issues of the day.

Selma felt privileged to be around deep-thinking teens, and they opened up to her.

She also was integral in bringing Project Concern to Westport. The program brought Black youngsters from Bridgeport into Westport schools, and changed many lives.

She was a creator of the Bloodroot collective in the late 1970s. It became the Bloodroot restaurant, which embraced seasonal vegetarianism as a feminist ideal.

Selma Miriam and Bloodroot co-founder Noel Furie. (Photo/Penny de los Santos for the Washington Post)

Bloodroot has published a half dozen cookbooks  It has been covered extensively in the media, including the New York Times, Washington Post and Edible CT East. Documentaries include Bloodroot and A Culinary Uprising: The Story of Bloodroot.

Selma was active in the League of Women Voters and the National Organization for Women.  

Selma Miriam

Her daughter Sabrina says, “Selma was an amazing woman. She was the rarest of people: someone who lived her life authentically without compromise. Smart as hell. She figured out how to create a world that reflected what was important to her regardless of obstacles. What a role model!”

She is survived by her children, Sabrina and Carey, and longtime partner, Carolanne Curry.

A celebration of Selma’s life will be held at a date to be determined.

Selma Miriam, with her children Sabrina and Carey Bunks.

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Roundup: Senior Bowl Super Bowl Party Canceled; TCS Honors Police Chief …

Posted on February 8, 2025 | 4 comments

Tonight’s predicted snowstorm has thrown tomorrow’s Super Bowl party — scheduled for the Westport Senior Center — for a loss.

Officials have already canceled the event.

Snow is expected to start this evening, and continue through tomorrow morning, with perhaps a mix of sleet. Five to 8 inches are expected.

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Speaking of the Super Bowl: This week the Kings Highway Elementary School PTA, staff, students and Caring Council members hosted their first-ever SOUPer Bowl collection.

Throughout the week, students and staff donated soup (and other canned goods) in their favorite team’s collection box.

Yesterday, all donations were given to the Gillespie Center’s food pantry.

Nearly 500 cans were collected. And the winner was …

Philadelphia Eagles 271 cans, Kansas City Chiefs 214.

Kings Highway PTA member Ellen Mondshine, with her sons Nathan and Owen.

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Hail to the chief!

At their annual gala March 15, TCS The Community Synagogue will honor Westport Police Chief Foti Koskinas.

“He and the entire Westport Police Department have provided consistent support to our synagogue and the entire Jewish community over the years” says Rabbi Jeremy Wiederhorn.

“This past year, following the events of October 7, that support has been stronger than ever. We are truly blessed to know that Chief Koskinas and the WPD are always there for us.”

TCS will also honor Dick Kalt, long-time leader of TCS’s Security Committee, and his wife Lydia for their ongoing dedication to the synagogue. The rabbi says, “Dick has played a vital role in ensuring the safety and well-being of the congregation for many years.”

Formerly known as The Conservative Synagogue, TCS recently changed its official name to The Community Synagogue to better reflect its mission and values. while retaining the TCS initials.

“Our membership felt that The Community Synagogue better represented what we strive to be — a wide tent of congregants who grew up secular, Reform, Conservative, Orthodox, or not Jewish at all.” Rabbi Wiederhorn says.

“We are an inclusive, egalitarian yet traditional synagogue that is proud to support the people, land and state of Israel. We open our doors to partners and friends throughout the community to celebrate interfaith work, adult education, social action, youth programming, and more.”

For more information about the March 15 gala, and to purchase tickets, click here.

Police Chief Foti Koskinas

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After 3 months of intensive work, Hansen Marine Contractors is nearing completion of dredging operations at Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 399, Bridgebrook Marina, and Saugatuck Rowing Club.

The company’s Erik Hansen told VFW quartermaster that they found 2 unexpected challenges in the dredging area near the Saugatuck Rowing Club: a discarded mushroom anchor, and over 30 cubic yards of clam shells.

Hansen says he never saw so many clam shells in his lifetime. “It was like digging up solid concrete.”

Years ago, the site adjacent to the Rowing Club was Mansion Clam House. Delgado wonders if they dumped their clam shells into the river throughout the years.

The source of 30 cubic yards of clam shells?

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The Westport Library rocked its Winter Dance Party last night.

Christine Ohlman & her band Rebel Montez entertained a large and appreciative crowd.

Ohlman — rhe platinum blonde “Beehive Queen,” and “Saturday Night Live” regular —  is no stranger to the Library. She collaborated with Mark Naftalin — the Westport resident and Rock & Roll Hall of Fame musician — on his “Blue Sunday” series, and has appeared at VersoFest.

She’ll return to VersoFest this year, in a conversaton with Paul Shaffer.

Ohlman’s career includes appearances with Bonnie Raitt, Keb Mo, Smokey Robinsons, Graham Nash, Steve Miller, the B52s and Elvis Costello. She has sold out the New Orleans Jazz & Heritage Festival’s David Bowie tribute and the WC Handy Festival in Muscle Shoals.

She has recorded with Al Green, Bruce Springsteen, the Blind Boys Of Alabama, George Harrison, Sting, Ian Hunter, Bonnie Bramlett, Ronnie Spector, Charlie Musselwhite, Irma Thomas and Chrissie Hynde, among others.

Christine Ohlman and her band, at the Westport Library. (Photo/DinkinESH Fotografix)

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Longtime Westport resident Timothy Walker died peacefully on Tuesday. He was 94.

A Boston native and avid sailor, he was a lifelong Red Sox fan.

After graduating from Phillips Exeter Academy in 1949, Tim attended Union College. His studies were interrupted when he was drafted into the Army Signal Corps during the Korean War. He spent much of his time on the Korean Peninsula.

He returned to Union, where he earned a degree in civil engineering. Tim helped design and build telephone offices for New York Telephone, followed by a long career in management at AT&T.

He left corporate America at age 55 to his own consulting business.

Tim married his wife Betty in 1977. Their partnership lasted almost 50 years. They shared a love of travel, music, friendships, their children and animals.

Tim was an expert in tree care. He climbed and pruned large trees, fought fires as a volunteer. He also participated in disaster relief as a ham radio operator.

Tim was a captain in the Greenwich volunteer fire department, and chief of the Mountain Lakes, New Jersey volunteer fire department.

A Westport resident since 1988, he served on the Flood and Erosion, and Conservation Commissions.

His golden retriever, Clyde, was his constant companion. Tim was a supporter of animal rescue, adopting his beloved great Pyrenees Casey and Bonnie, who were daily visitors to Winslow Park.

Tim is survived by his wife, Betty, daughters (Don Cawrse) and Laurel Risom (Allen Cyr), sons Timothy and Andrew (Sydney), stepdaughter Ruth (Rob Ayles), 9 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren; his sister, Sarah Thomson; many nieces and nephews, and his canine companion, Murphy. He was predeceased by his brother, Thomas Walker.

A celebration of lfe will be held later this spring. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Greater Norwalk Amateur Radio Club, 304 Main Avenue, Suite 115, Norwalk, CT 06851.

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Becky Keeler shot today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo a couple of days ago, at Sherwood Island State Park.

At this time tomorrow, the scene will look quite different.

(Photo/Becky Keeler)

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And finally … if James Dean were still alive, he would turn 94 years old today. The now-legendary actor died in 1955, at 24, after appearing in just 3 major films: “Rebel Without a Cause,” “East of Eden” and “Giant.”

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Remembering Selma Miriam

Posted on February 7, 2025 | 11 comments

Selma Miriam — a longtime Westporter, co-founder of Bloodroot vegetarian restaurant, and a lifelong advocate for feminism and social justice — died yesterday, at her Saugatuck home. She was 2 weeks short of 90.

Carolanne Curry calls Selma “my friend, my love and my life partner for the past 37 years. She was pain-free after so much pain.

Selma Miriam

“Hospice helped honor her wish to be at home with a deep and caring kindness.

“Noel, her partner at Bloodroot for the past 47 years, was here to help navigate through this overwhelming experience.

“For the moment I have no other words to share, except to say I am one incredibly lucky woman to have been part of Selma’s life.”

Selma’s son Carey adds: “Some really do march to the beat of a different drum, remaking the world to their own vision.” He calls her a “landscape architect, weaver, feminist, political revolutionary, and founder of the storied Bloodroot Vegetarian Restaurant.”

A full obituary will be posted when available.

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Without Selma Miriam, there would be no Bloodroot.

And without Bloodroot, social justice in Connecticut would be very different indeed.

In March of 2017, when Bloodroot celebrated its 40th anniversary, “06880” posted this story.

In January, hundreds of local women protested the new president. Earlier this month, some skipped work to demonstrate the impact of “A Day Without a Woman.”

If they wanted a place to organize, strategize — and eat a delicious, healthful meal — they could have headed to Bloodroot.

For 40 years, the Bridgeport restaurant/bookstore has been a feminist hangout and outpost. It was there at the start of the women’s movement. It nurtured the hearts, minds and stomachs of generations of activists.

It’s still there. But how many people know of Bloodroot’s Westport roots?

In 1961, Selma Miriam was a self-described “mama with 2 kids.” A landscape designer working with the famed Eloise Ray, her one requirement for a house was that it have a garden.

She found a perfect spot on Hiawatha Lane. Nearly 60 years later, it’s still home.

During her first decade in Westport, Selma got involved in the burgeoning women’s movement. She was president of Westport’s NOW chapter. So was Noel Furie.

It was the 1970s. Women’s bookstores were opening around the country. Selma and Noel liked the idea.

They also liked to cook. The idea of a vegetarian restaurant/bookstore was born.

She and Noel looked at locations along the Post Road, and in Wilton. Everything was ugly.

Then they heard about a plot of land in Black Rock, right on Burr Creek. There was room for a garden. Birds flitted. The light was natural.

Bloodroot is tucked away, off a residential street in Black Rock.

Selma went to nearly every bank in Fairfield County. None would give a woman a mortgage — though they never said it quite that way.

Finally, Harvey Koizim — the founder of Westport’s County Federal Bank — agreed to a 10-year balloon mortgage.

Bloodroot opened in 1977, on the spring equinox.

Selma liked the idea of women working together, sharing common wisdom. She did not like the idea of women serving anyone. To this day, diners give their orders at a window by the kitchen, then pay. When meals are ready, their names are called. When they’re done, they bus their own dishes.

The menu, the kitchen, and Noel Furie.

It took a while for people — especially men — to understand Bloodroot. Salesmen would arrive, look at Selma, and ask for her husband.

Irene Backalenick wrote about Bloodroot for the New York Times. When an editor called to arrange a photogapher, Selma asked for a woman.

The paper sent a man. He used a fisheye lens, which Selma says “made all our heads look swollen.”

The other day — for a story on Bloodroot’s 40th anniversary — the Times sent another photographer. She was all over the place, taking hundreds of shots. Her husband — a Times opinion page editor — simultaneously served as her assistant, and held their 8-month-old baby.

“What a difference!” Selma says. “And it all seemed so natural.”

Selma Miriam, during a quiet moment at Bloodroot.

During its 40 years, Bloodroot has employed countless people: high school and college students, dropouts, middle-aged, part-time and full-time. All are women.

Several current employees come from Mercy Learning Center, Bridgeport’s literacy and life skills center for low-income women. They’re Haitian, Ethiopian and Congolese. “Such wonderful people,” Selma says. “They have great cooking knowledge. And an incredible work ethic.”

Bloodroot’s Ferris Avenue location — in the middle of a residential neighborhood — is not easy to find.

“We don’t get walk-in trade,” Selma says. “People have to find us.”

But find Bloodroot they did. They came for the food and/or the books. They stayed for the community.

One big change has been in the bookstore. In the beginning, Bloodroot played a huge role helping women find feminist books and magazines.

Over the years, two factors — Barnes & Noble, then Amazon — have destroyed women’s bookstores. (Including, ironically, the Amazon Cooperative in Minneapolis, the first feminist bookstore in the country.)

The bookstore section of Bloodroot.

Now, Selma says, she sells one book every couple of weeks. She took up the slack by publishing cookbooks. There have been 4 so far, plus a 2-volume “Best of Bloodroot.” There are calendars too, with 13 new recipes a year.

Of course, you don’t have to buy her recipes. Ask, and she’ll tell you. “The more we share with each other, the better we’ll all be,” she says.

At 82, Selma still loves Bloodroot. She is especially excited about the menu.

She continues to develop new dishes. She’s using more plant-based food, and has introduced vegan cheese, butter and whipped cream to diners.

The warm, welcoming interior of Bloodroot.

Three things keep Selma going. “The place is beautiful. I love to cook. And I love the diversity of people,” she says.

Her customers are loyal. (And — despite her initial belief that men would  not come — they include both genders.) The staff, in turn, feels a strong connection with their diners.

Selma has big plans for Bloodroot’s 40th year. She’s looking back by playing women’s music from the 1970s and ’80s.

And she’s looking ahead by inviting vegetarian restaurants from around the state to her place.

They bring their best dishes, to show Bloodroot customers the wide variety available. “I don’t cook Indian food or Jamaican food,” Selma says. “But that’s vegetarian too.”

She invites them for another reason too: to bring people together, in a warm, beautiful place.

That’s the community Selma Miriam created.

That’s Bloodroot.

(Click here for more information on — and directions to — Bloodroot.)

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Roundup: Fashionably Alisyn, Startup Special Interests, Van Leeuwen’s Lines …

Posted on February 7, 2025 | 1 comment

Fashionably Westport just got even more fashionable.

Alisyn Camerota — the award-winning journalist, and former CNN anchor and host — will join fellow TV personality Dave Briggs as co-emcee.

They’ll make this the liveliest “Fashionably” event ever. The Westport Downtown Association-sponsored show (February 28, 7 p.m., Westport Library) — a benefit for Homes with Hope — features the latest styles, from the town’s mot sophisticated and fashion-forward retailers. Models are local friends and celebrities.

Click here for tickets, and more information. To donate silent auctiono items, or become sponsors, email events@westportdowntown.com, or operations@westportdowntown.com.

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Startup Westport — our town’s public/private partnership for tech and entrepreneurial founders and funders — has spawned 2 intriguing special interest groups.

“Women in Tech & Innovation” is led by Tanaz Mody, an experienced venture capitalist and tech startup leader. The group welcomes all women, from experienced pros to those just getting started. Click here for more information.

The “Investor” special interest group is led by Dan Zuller, a VC investor and former entrepreneur. The group is for experienced founders and investors looking to connect, share insights, and engage in high-level discussions on emerging trends, market dynamics and the future of innovation. Click here to sign up for the first event, in March.

Meanwhile, last night’s inaugural first-Thursday-of-the-month social gathering was a smash.

Over 100 people gathered at Nômade for a high-energy night of networking, idea-sharing, drinks and fun.

Enjoying last night’s Startup Westport social event (clockwise from lower left): Jay Norris, Josh Guttman, Paige Parker, Ted Parker, Bari Schrager.

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Who opens an ice cream store in February — on a snowy day?

Van Leeuwen.

It was a great move.

Their new Church Lane shop was packed yesterday.

After all, every day is a good day for ice cream.

It didn’t hurt that they offered $1 scoops, and free totes.

Or that kids were home from school.

Because of a snow day.

(Photo/Doris Ghitelman)

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The next step for the proposed Sherwood Mill Pond project walkway project — including discussion of the gate and properties — is Tuesday (February 11, 7 p.m., Town Hall Room 201).

The Representative Town Meetingi Planning & Zoning, and Environment, Committees meet jointly to review plans.

Sherwood Mill Pond tidal gates (Photo/Judith Katz)

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A reminder: Tomorrow (Saturday, February 8, 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., Stop & Shop), is the Westport Police Department and Sunrise Rotary Club food drive.

All donations support the Homes with Hope, and Westport Department of Human Services food pantries.

Police officers and volunteers will accept non-perishable food items and cash donations.

Suggested items include breakfast bars, baking goods, BBQ sauce, macaroni & cheese, canned vegetables and fruit, coffee, canned meats, canned stew, noodles, cereals, gluten-free foods, granola and protein bars, grated Parmesan cheese, hamburger and tuna helper, hearty soups, instant mashed potatoes, ketchup, mayonnaise, mustard, oatmeal, cooking oil, pancake mix and syrup, pasta and sauce, peanut butter and jelly, rice, spices, salad dressing, shelf-stable milk, and snacks. (No glass jars.)

Suggested personal care and household items include body wash, Clorox wipes, deodorant, dish soap, laundry detergent, toilet paper, paper towels, razors, shampoo and oothpaste.

To volunteer, or offer a large pickup, call Anna Rycenga at 203-763-9656.

Volunteers, at a previous Sunrise Rotary Club and Westport Police Stop & Shop food drive.

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There are anecdotal stories that more Westporters are commuting back to New York City offices.

And then there’s photographic evidence:

(Photo/Bob Weingarten)

This was the scene Wednesday underneath the I-95 bridge, by the Greens Farms train station.

Scenes like this — from folks who don’t have a sticker, or find the parking lot full — have not been seen since before the pandemic.

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Emily Teall’s new “Tulip Bulb” sculpture has added a bit of whimsy to Grace Salmon Park.

The sculptor is one of many folks who have fun with it. Here she is: the artist, and her creation.

(Photo/Mary Schwartzman)

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Bonnie Bradley — the descendant of a famed Westport family, and who retained a lifelong love for this town — died Wednesday in Brentwood, Tennessee. She was 86, and lived in Roxbury, Connecticut.

Born in Bridgeport Ina Trivers Bradley and J. Kenneth Bradley, she grew up in Westport. Bonnie attended the Bolton School and Smith College.

She raised her children in Westport, and was deeply involved in the community. In 1999 she moved to Roxbury, where she continued her lifelong passion for service.

Bonnie was president of the Junior League of Greater Fairfield County, a board member of the Roxbury Senior Center and Friends of the Library, and a docent at the Glebe House in Woodbury.

She was predeceased by her sister, Deborah Donnelly. She is survived by her brother James Bradley; her children Brad Colby of Boca Raton, Florida, Stuart Weise of Brentwood, Tennesse, and Wendy Bradley of Woodstock Valley, Connecticut, and her granddaughter, Ainslie Bradley Tschamler.

A funeral service will be held on Thursday February 13 (10 a.m., Roxbury Congregational Church; click here for the livestream, and to leave online condolences). Burial will follow at Willowbrook Cemetery in Westport.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to Friends of the Roxbury Library.

Bonnie Bradley
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Sand, snow and Sound combine to form today’s intriguing “Westport … Naturally” image:

(Photo/Pam Docters)

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And finally …Gene Barge died Sunday in Chicago. He was 98.

The New York Times calls him “one of the last surviving saxophonists of the golden age of R&B, whose career ran the gamut of 20th-century Black popular music.” Click here for a full obituary.

Among the hits he played on:

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Roundup: Charrette Postponed, Library Delayed, Eversource Property …

Posted on February 6, 2025 | 2 comments

Tonight’s charrette for the proposed Westport public safety complex has been postponed, due to the weather forecast.

The new date is February 25 (7 to 9 p.m., Westport Senior Center).

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In addition, the Westport Library will delay its opening today until 2 p.m. — unless conditions warrant a closing.

Click on the Library’s website for updates.

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In yesterday’s story about the 2024 Grand List, “06880” included a list of Westport’s top 10 taxpayers.

As it always does, Connecticut Light & Power (aka Eversource) was in first place.

We noted that much of their property consists of utility poles.

It does. But that’s not the full story.

Chris Swan — Eversource’s now retired director of transmission siting (and 1967 Staples High School graduate) — says that the largest item in their property portfolio is the double set of underground 345,000-volt transmission cables, installed in 2009.

They run from the Fairfield border, mostly  under the Post Road, traversing town into Norwalk across from Whole Foods, en route from Bridgeport to the Norwalk substation at the junction of Routes 7 and 123.

Eversource also owns the 4 substations in town. The newest (the Sherwood Substation) was built on New Creek Road adjacent to the Greens Farms train station in 2009.

Chris adds: “Most of the company’s facilities are overhead poles and wires. But the biggest taxable valuation is in the underground transmission lines and substations.”

Eversource’s Main Street substation, behind Coffee An’.

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Flood mitigation is an issue of importance to nearly every Westporter.

We can always learn more about it.

This month, the Western Connecticut Council of Governments (WestCOG) hosts two Flood Mitigation Assistance information sessions.

The first is in person: February 11 (6 to 8 p.m., Stamford Government Center, 888 Washington Boulevard; click here to register.

The second is virtual (February 27, 6 to 8 p.m.; click here for the Zoom link; click here to register).

Questions? Email jreelick@westcog.org.

Floods like these are becoming more prevalent. (Photo/Geralyn Rella Breig)

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“Native Gardens” — the Westport Country Playhouse comedy that runs February 18 to March 8 — is about fences and neighbors.

In the spirit of community-building, several special events are planned. They include:

Taste of Tuesday (February 18, 6 p.m.): Reception pairing food from Harvest Restaurant,plus wine. Exclusive for “Taste of Tuesday” season ticket holders. Click here for information.

Together at the Table (February 19, 5:30 p.m.): For $15, a family or group* enjoys a communal pizza dinner and casual conversation before the 7 p.m. show. Call 203-227-4177 for reservations.

 Pride Night (February 20, 6 p.m.): Pre-show cocktail party for the LGBTQ+ community and friends, including a limited open bar and appetizers from Gruel Britannia. Use code GARDENSPRIDE online or call 203-227-4177 for reservations.

Opening Night Post-Show Reception (February 22): Celebrate with the cast, crew and creative team.

Sunday Symposium (after the February 23 3 p.m. show): No ticket necessary  — open to all.
Stay tuned for an update on the speakers! No ticket necessary — open to all.

Open Caption (March 2, 3 p.m.): Deaf and hard of hearing audiences enjoy the performance while watching a digital screen with actors’ dialogue.

Backstage Pass (after the March 5 2 p.m. performance): Learn how the technical staff brought “Native Gardens” to life. No ticket necessary — open to all.

Thursday Talkback )after the March 6 7 p.m. performance: Q&A with cast members. No ticket necessary — open to all.

For more information on “Native Gardens,” click here.

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Youngsters interested in sailing — and parents who want their kids to learn – are invited to a “Junior Sailing Bagel Bash” (March 1, 9:30 to 10:30 a.m., Cedar Point Yacht Club).

No experience is necessary. The Cedar Point program is open to all junior sailors — members and non-members, beginners to experienced.

Questions? Email emelnichok@gmail.com.

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Speaking of kids: Long QT Syndrome — a potentially life-threatening heart condition — affects 1 in 2,000 children. Early detection can help prevent serious complications.

Connecticut Children’s and Hearts in Harmony are sponsoring free EKG screenings this Saturday (February 8, 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., Westport Specialty Care Center, 191 Post Road West).

Children with abnormal EKG results will receive expedited follow-up appointments with Connecticut Children’s cardiologists.

The event includes kid-friendly activities, a fashion show, food and more.

For more information, contact Dr. Robyn Matloff at 917-439-8941.

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Attention, Westport Library e-book and audiobook users: With a transition from CloudLibrary to Libby, patrons can access more digital titles than ever.

The transition takes place March 18. CloudLibrary. The last date for holds to be placed through CloudLibrary is February 15. (See below for important dates and FAQs.)

The Library will offer online and in-person tutorials from March 18 to March 21 (3 to 4 p.m), to help users with the transition. An “Anyone Can Use” class focused on the Libby app is set for the Library on March 19 (11 a.m. to noon).

For more information, click here.

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The Westport Board of Education Policy Committee’s next meeting is February 12 (9 a.m., Town Hall Room 201A).

Discussion items include:

  • Second reading of possible revisions to the suicide prevention and intervention policy.
  • First reading of possible revisions to existing policies involving the Americans with Disabilities Act, non-discrimination, and sex-based discrimination and harassment.
  • First reading of a possiible new policy on transportation.
  • Discussion of a policy on survey of students/student privacy.

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Westport police made no custodial arrests between January 29 and February 5.

Police issued these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 8 citations
  • Speeding: 6
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehcile: 3
  • Failure to renew registrations: 3
  • Texting while driving: 2
  • Failure to obey stop sign: 2
  • Failure to obe traffic control signals: 2
  • Reckless driving: 1
  • Failure to yield to pedestrian: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle under suspension:
  • Failure to obey state traffic commission regulations: 1

Pedestrians have the right of way in crosswalks. Even those pedestrians (and crosswalks) that are less visible.

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Longtime Westporter and noted writer Barry Tarshis died peacefully at home Tuesday, with his family by his side. He was 86.

His obituary says, “He endured 2 years of brutal health challenges by drawing on a bottomless wellspring of optimism, charm, kindness, generosity, and a weak spot for mediocre jokes. Five days before he died, confined to his bed and afflicted with late-stage Alzheimer’s disease, he was asked by his hospice nurse if he was comfortable. ‘I make a decent living,’ he replied.”

He grew up in Pittsburgh. His father Max was a musician who instilled in Barry a lifelong love of music. Even into his final months, Barry retained his ability to play Bill Evans on the piano, sing along with Pavarotti, and harmonize with Elton John and Jim Croce.

Barry overcame his childhood shyness to star in his high school production of “Guys and Dolls,” play basketball, and capture the heart of his future wife, Karen Ross, who he began dating at the age of 15.

After leaving University of Pittsburgh 1 credit short of graduation, Barry traveled across Europe on a motorbike, appeared as an extra in “La Dolce Vita,” lived on an Israeli kibbutz, and moved into a Greenwich Village hovel to embark on a career as a writer.

After marrying Karen and serving in the U.S. Army in New Mexico, he settled into a 30-plus year career as a freelance author. He wrote a dozen books and hundreds of articles for the New York Times, Playbill, Playboy, Town & Country, and Tennis, among other publications.

Herallied with Chris Evert, walked on hot coals with Tony Robbins, traveled to India, Russia, Colombia and Micronesia, and interviewed a mystic who specialized in casting love spells.

He taught writing, led communications seminars for business leaders, and created the grammar and writing website Communications Fitness.

His family said, “The shaping forces of Barry’s career were an eagerness to learn and his genuine curiosity about and respect for all kinds of people — from tennis champions to the students who took his writing classes at public schools in the South Bronx. He brought these same qualities into his most prized creative endeavor, his family.

“While most fathers dream of their children achieving fame and fortune, Barry’s oft-stated parenting goal for Lauren and Andrew was to ‘raise children he would want to hang out with when they were older.’ They wanted to hang out with him, as often as possible.

“Well into his last weeks, he woke up each day with a renewed sense of life’s possibilities, deep gratitude, and an eagerness to uplift his family, his friends, and anyone lucky enough to cross his path.”

Barry is survived by his wife of 62 years, Karen; children Lauren (David Dreyfuss) and Andrew; grandchildren Leo Dreyfuss (Rebecca Goldman), Jeremy Dreyfuss (Shira), Dylan and Valerie Dreyfuss; Lily, Evi, and Ruby Tarshis, and his sister Carole Cohen.

A private celebration-of-life is planned. In lieu of flowers, consider donating to the Alzheimer’s Foundation, or tell someone a mediocre joke.

Barry Tarshis

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Right after Monday’s snowfall, Pam Kesselman captured these Soundview Drive runners, for our “Westport … Naturally” feature.

Snow, sleet and rain is predicted today.

(Photo/Pam Kesselman)

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And finally … in honor of the upcoming flood mitigation workshops (story above):

(“06880” would love to be flooded with contributions. But even a trickle helps. Please click here to join the torrent. Or be the first. Thank you!

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Remembering Christian Trefz

Posted on February 2, 2025 | Comments Off on Remembering Christian Trefz

Christian Trefz — a longtime resident and philanthropist whose generosity included the Westport Library, Westport Country Playhouse and the Westport Weston Family YMCA — died on Wednesday. He was 88.

His obituary says:

Christian was born in New Haven in 1936. He was a U.S. Army veteran, serving in Germany between 1957 and 1959.

He was executive vice president of Trefz Corporation, along with his late brother Ernest C. Trefz. They opened their first McDonald’s restaurant in Waterbury in 1964. During his 60 years of operation, the business grew to over 50 stores across Connecticut and New York.

The brothers received numerous awards for outstanding restaurants and community service, including the Golden Arches Award (earned by fewer than 1% of McDonald’s owner operators world-wide.

Christian Trefz

Chris was kind, compassionate, and generous. He felt tremendous need to give back. Chris was a big supporter of Norwalk Hospital, where he established the family endowed chair in Global Health.

He also helped fund the operation of the Americares free health clinics Bridgeport and Norwalk, providing healthcare for people without health insurance.

Chris also loved the town of Westport, where he lived for over 50 years. He was committed to supporting the Westport Library transformation project, and in 2023 he helped to reignite the operation of the Westport Country Playhouse.

Chris found great pleasure in his gardens. Whether at home in Westport or Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, he found peace sitting by the water.

He enjoyed traveling the world, boating, and was an avid car collector. He was a member of the New York Yacht Club and Mill River Country Club.

Chris loved entertaining, and found every opportunity to organize family gatherings. It was important for him to pass on his values of hard work, education, and respect for others to his children and grandchildren.

In addition to his wife, Chris is survived by his son James, daughter Tara Locke, and stepson Winston Janusz; grandchildren William (Emma), Daniel and Kathryn, and step-grandchildren Jonah, Connor and Sage.

Additional survivors include his sisters-in-law Joan Trefz, and Margaret Bartlomowicz, nephews Christian and Paul Trefz, niece Linda Trefz, and nephew Michal Bartlomowicz. He was predeceased by his brother Ernest.

Funeral services will take place on Wednesday (February 5, 10 a.m., Green’s Farms Church).

Relatives and friends may greet the family on Tuesday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Abriola Parkview Funeral Home, 419 White Plains Road, Trumbull.

In Lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Ronald McDonald House of Connecticut, 860 Howard Avenue, New Haven, CT 06519, Website link. To leave an online condolence, click here.

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Roundup: Tiffany, Van Leeuwen, Dick Button …

Posted on January 31, 2025 | 4 comments

The Post Road storefront facing Main Street is perhaps Westport’s prime location.

It’s been many things: Colgan’s and Thompson’s drug stores. Ships restaurant. Eddie Bauer.

Now it’s Tiffany.

But for how long?

Admiral Real Estate Services is marketing the property, under the headline: “The BEST Locations in Downtown Westport! Current Tiffany & Co. Site!”

The listing reads: “New for lease: Prime ground floor retail space in Westport, CT. Current Tiffany & Co. End-cap corner retail with exceptional visibility at signalized intersection.”

The 5,580-square foot location offers “ample natural light, parking directly in rear, corner building with massive frontage … various uses permitted.”

In bold letters, it adds: “Parking is free, nearby, and vast. A large municipal lot can be found adjacent to the building on Jesup Road and in the Parker Harding Plaza located across the street behind Starbucks. Street parking is also available around the building.”

Tiffany & Co.

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Sure, it’s mid-winter.

But ice cream is always in season.

Van Leeuwen — the New York-based, national made-from-scratch dairy and vegan brand — opens its Church Lane scoop shop next Thursday (February 6, noon).

Their 4th Connecticut location marks a return for co-founders Ben and Pete Van Leeuwen. The Fairfield County natives’ ice cream journey began here 20 years ago.

To celebrate, Van Leeuwen Westport will offer $1 scoops on opening day from 3 to 5 p.m., and free totes to the first 100 customers beginning at 3.

The shop will also showcase a special limited offering created by Westport cookbook author and creator Julia Dzafic. The vegan sundae features scoops of strawberry shortcake ice cream and banana pudding ice cream, topped with sprinkles, hot fudge and sugar cone.

Other flavors include honeycomb, brown sugar cookie dough brownie, Earl Gray tea, praline butter cake, marionberry cheesecake, black cherry chip, Sicilian pistachio, bigface coffe affogato and sour cherry creamsicle.

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With a month to go before Fashionably Westport kicks off, over 30 fashion retailers and hair salons have already signed on.

The entertainment list grows too. Westport’s own Drew Angus — now a national perform — will join the fun.

This year’s 5th annual event is Friday, February 28 (7 p.m., Westport Library). Sponsored by the Westport Downtown Association, it’s a benefit for Homes with Hope. The evening includes a silent auction.

Models are local friends and celebrities. The emcee and runway director are neighbors too: Dave Briggs and Carey Price, respectively.

Click here for tickets. Click here for more information.

Veteran Fashionably Westport model (and 1st Selectwoman) Jen Tooker offers a reminder: Tickets are now on sale.

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Americans of a certain generation remember Dick Button fondly.

Some recall his illustrious. double Olympic gold-winning figure skating career. Far more known him as the sport’s foremost television commentator, honed over 6 decades of Olympics and other high level competitions.

Totney Benson has more intimate memories. Button — who died Tuesday in North Salem, New York at 95 — was her uncle.

His full name was Richard Totten Button — named in honor of his grandmother. The longtime Westporter’s name is Totney Button Benson.

Dick Button visited the Bensons’ Compo Hill home for holiday celebrations and other events over the past 45 years.

Click here for a full New York Times obituary.

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The curtain rises tonight for the 3rd show of Westport Community Theatre’s 2025-26 season.

“Pride and Prejudice” runs Saturdays (7:30 p.m.) and Sundays (2 p.m.), from January 31 through February 9, plus Thursday, February 6 at 7:30 (Town Hall; tickets are $30).

This adaptation captures the spirit of Jane Austen’s 1813 masterpiece with a lively, modern rhythm that stays true to the heart of the original.

Click here for more information.

(Rear) Tony Moreno and Westporter Dana Chiapparelli. Front: Maggie Frattaroli, Sawyer Peduto in “Pride and Prejudice.”

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Also tonight: an evening of jazz (“and java”), at Staples High School (7 p.m.).

It’s an informal event, in the cafeteria. Several groups will perform, including the Bedford Middle School jazz band. Admission is free.

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Paul Newman would have been 100 years old this week.

To honor the actor/race car driver/philanthropist/longtime Westporter’s legacy, Newman’s Own launched “Paul Newman Generosity Day.”

As part of the celebration at Newman’s Own offices on Morningside Drive North, Andy Ortega created a 4-foot tall cake. It was decorated with a replica of the original salad dressing bottle.

Paul Newman’s cake.

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Westport Police made 2 custodial arrests between January 22 and 29. Both were for failure to appear: a 56-year-old Westport man and 44-year-old Bridgeport woman.

Police also issued these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 22 citations
  • Failure to obey stop signs: 11
  • Speeding: 9
  • Driving while texting: 6
  • Operating a motor vehicle while under suspension: 6
  • Failure to renew registration: 6
  • Operating a motor vehicle without a license: 5
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 4
  • Improper use of markers: 3
  • Passing a standing school bus: 1
  • School zone violation: 1
  • Following too closely: 1
  • Failure to drive in proper lane: 1
  • Improper turns: 1
  • Failure to obey traffic control signals: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle without minimum insurance: 1
  • Illeal operation of motor vehicle — limited license: 1

This bus driver makes sure no one will pass. Passing a standing school bus is a definite no-no. (Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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Westport resident Sophie Coquaz died peacefully on Tuesday, surrounded by family and friends. She was 52.

She was born and grew up in southeast France. She studied economics at the University of Lyon, and the University of Reading, in the UK.

In 1994 she pursued a master’s degree at the University of Delaware. She moved to New York and Connecticut to start her professional life, and met her husband Emmanuel.

They married in 2001, with weddings in France and Greece. In 2005 they relocated to London for career opportunities. They spent 5 years there, where their 4 children were born, before returning to New York.

Sophie worked for Thomson Reuters in commercial and legal operations positions for 24 years. She joined Estée Lauder in 2020, and served as vice president in the office of general counsel and legal operations.

She enjoyed travelling to France and Greece for summer holidays. Years after her classes of classic dance, she retained the grace of a ballet dancer.

Sophie is survived by her husband Emmanuel Saounatsos; children Zélie, Madeleine, Aurel and Sidonie; mother Danielle; brother Régis; nephews Mahel and Antoine, and niece Alice.

A wake will be held at Harding Funeral Home this Saturday (February 1,  2 to  6 p.m.). In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the Regional Hospice in Danbury,

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Christmas is pretty far in the rear view mirror. It’s amost February, believe it or not.

But a small vestige of the holiday remains at Grace Salmon Park. Johanna Keyser Rossi captured the colorful contrast, in a fir tree, for today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … Marianne Faithfull, whose life included years as a singer, “muse and girlfriend of Mick Jagger,” homeless heroin addict, actor and cabaret performer, died yesterday in London. She was 78.

Her first hit, “As Tears Go By,” is often said to be the first original composition by Rolling Stones Jagger and Keith Richards (now a Weston resident). (Stones’ manager Andrew Loog Oldham — who formerly lived in Westport — was attracted by her beauty, and asked her if she could sing.)

Click here for a full obituary. (Perhaps the most interesting line: “Her mother, Eva von Sacher-Masoch, was a Viennese baroness, an ex-ballet dancer and a descendant of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, author of the erotic novel Venus in Furs,’ which spawned the term masochism.”)

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