Category Archives: Obituaries

Roundup: Tiffany, Van Leeuwen, Dick Button …

The Post Road storefront facing Main Street is perhaps Westport’s prime location.

It’s been many things: Colgan’s and Thompson’s drug stores. Ships restaurant. Eddie Bauer.

Now it’s Tiffany.

But for how long?

Admiral Real Estate Services is marketing the property, under the headline: “The BEST Locations in Downtown Westport! Current Tiffany & Co. Site!”

The listing reads: “New for lease: Prime ground floor retail space in Westport, CT. Current Tiffany & Co. End-cap corner retail with exceptional visibility at signalized intersection.”

The 5,580-square foot location offers “ample natural light, parking directly in rear, corner building with massive frontage … various uses permitted.”

In bold letters, it adds: “Parking is free, nearby, and vast. A large municipal lot can be found adjacent to the building on Jesup Road and in the Parker Harding Plaza located across the street behind Starbucks. Street parking is also available around the building.”

Tiffany & Co.

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Sure, it’s mid-winter.

But ice cream is always in season.

Van Leeuwen — the New York-based, national made-from-scratch dairy and vegan brand — opens its Church Lane scoop shop next Thursday (February 6, noon).

Their 4th Connecticut location marks a return for co-founders Ben and Pete Van Leeuwen. The Fairfield County natives’ ice cream journey began here 20 years ago.

To celebrate, Van Leeuwen Westport will offer $1 scoops on opening day from 3 to 5 p.m., and free totes to the first 100 customers beginning at 3.

The shop will also showcase a special limited offering created by Westport cookbook author and creator Julia Dzafic. The vegan sundae features scoops of strawberry shortcake ice cream and banana pudding ice cream, topped with sprinkles, hot fudge and sugar cone.

Other flavors include honeycomb, brown sugar cookie dough brownie, Earl Gray tea, praline butter cake, marionberry cheesecake, black cherry chip, Sicilian pistachio, bigface coffe affogato and sour cherry creamsicle.

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With a month to go before Fashionably Westport kicks off, over 30 fashion retailers and hair salons have already signed on.

The entertainment list grows too. Westport’s own Drew Angus — now a national perform — will join the fun.

This year’s 5th annual event is Friday, February 28 (7 p.m., Westport Library). Sponsored by the Westport Downtown Association, it’s a benefit for Homes with Hope. The evening includes a silent auction.

Models are local friends and celebrities. The emcee and runway director are neighbors too: Dave Briggs and Carey Price, respectively.

Click here for tickets. Click here for more information.

Veteran Fashionably Westport model (and 1st Selectwoman) Jen Tooker offers a reminder: Tickets are now on sale.

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Americans of a certain generation remember Dick Button fondly.

Some recall his illustrious. double Olympic gold-winning figure skating career. Far more known him as the sport’s foremost television commentator, honed over 6 decades of Olympics and other high level competitions.

Totney Benson has more intimate memories. Button — who died Tuesday in North Salem, New York at 95 — was her uncle.

His full name was Richard Totten Button — named in honor of his grandmother. The longtime Westporter’s name is Totney Button Benson.

Dick Button visited the Bensons’ Compo Hill home for holiday celebrations and other events over the past 45 years.

Click here for a full New York Times obituary.

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The curtain rises tonight for the 3rd show of Westport Community Theatre’s 2025-26 season.

“Pride and Prejudice” runs Saturdays (7:30 p.m.) and Sundays (2 p.m.), from January 31 through February 9, plus Thursday, February 6 at 7:30 (Town Hall; tickets are $30).

This adaptation captures the spirit of Jane Austen’s 1813 masterpiece with a lively, modern rhythm that stays true to the heart of the original.

Click here for more information.

(Rear) Tony Moreno and Westporter Dana Chiapparelli. Front: Maggie Frattaroli, Sawyer Peduto in “Pride and Prejudice.”

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Also tonight: an evening of jazz (“and java”), at Staples High School (7 p.m.).

It’s an informal event, in the cafeteria. Several groups will perform, including the Bedford Middle School jazz band. Admission is free.

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Paul Newman would have been 100 years old this week.

To honor the actor/race car driver/philanthropist/longtime Westporter’s legacy, Newman’s Own launched “Paul Newman Generosity Day.”

As part of the celebration at Newman’s Own offices on Morningside Drive North, Andy Ortega created a 4-foot tall cake. It was decorated with a replica of the original salad dressing bottle.

Paul Newman’s cake.

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Westport Police made 2 custodial arrests between January 22 and 29. Both were for failure to appear: a 56-year-old Westport man and 44-year-old Bridgeport woman.

Police also issued these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 22 citations
  • Failure to obey stop signs: 11
  • Speeding: 9
  • Driving while texting: 6
  • Operating a motor vehicle while under suspension: 6
  • Failure to renew registration: 6
  • Operating a motor vehicle without a license: 5
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 4
  • Improper use of markers: 3
  • Passing a standing school bus: 1
  • School zone violation: 1
  • Following too closely: 1
  • Failure to drive in proper lane: 1
  • Improper turns: 1
  • Failure to obey traffic control signals: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle without minimum insurance: 1
  • Illeal operation of motor vehicle — limited license: 1

This bus driver makes sure no one will pass. Passing a standing school bus is a definite no-no. (Photo/Bob Weingarten)

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Westport resident Sophie Coquaz died peacefully on Tuesday, surrounded by family and friends. She was 52.

She was born and grew up in southeast France. She studied economics at the University of Lyon, and the University of Reading, in the UK.

In 1994 she pursued a master’s degree at the University of Delaware. She moved to New York and Connecticut to start her professional life, and met her husband Emmanuel.

They married in 2001, with weddings in France and Greece. In 2005 they relocated to London for career opportunities. They spent 5 years there, where their 4 children were born, before returning to New York.

Sophie worked for Thomson Reuters in commercial and legal operations positions for 24 years. She joined Estée Lauder in 2020, and served as vice president in the office of general counsel and legal operations.

She enjoyed travelling to France and Greece for summer holidays. Years after her classes of classic dance, she retained the grace of a ballet dancer.

Sophie is survived by her husband Emmanuel Saounatsos; children Zélie, Madeleine, Aurel and Sidonie; mother Danielle; brother Régis; nephews Mahel and Antoine, and niece Alice.

A wake will be held at Harding Funeral Home this Saturday (February 1,  2 to  6 p.m.). In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the Regional Hospice in Danbury,

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Christmas is pretty far in the rear view mirror. It’s amost February, believe it or not.

But a small vestige of the holiday remains at Grace Salmon Park. Johanna Keyser Rossi captured the colorful contrast, in a fir tree, for today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … Marianne Faithfull, whose life included years as a singer, “muse and girlfriend of Mick Jagger,” homeless heroin addict, actor and cabaret performer, died yesterday in London. She was 78.

Her first hit, “As Tears Go By,” is often said to be the first original composition by Rolling Stones Jagger and Keith Richards (now a Weston resident). (Stones’ manager Andrew Loog Oldham — who formerly lived in Westport — was attracted by her beauty, and asked her if she could sing.)

Click here for a full obituary. (Perhaps the most interesting line: “Her mother, Eva von Sacher-Masoch, was a Viennese baroness, an ex-ballet dancer and a descendant of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, author of the erotic novel Venus in Furs,’ which spawned the term masochism.”)

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Roundup: Library, Old Mill Grocery, Motherhood Swaps …

The good news: The Westport Library reopens today at its normal Sunday time: 1 p.m. It was closed Friday and Saturday, due to a burst pipe.

The equally good news: The cold weather has ended. Today’s high is predicted to be 41 degrees. On Wednesday, they could climb to near 50.

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Brava for Liana Sonenclar!

The 2014 Staples High School graduate is a New York playwright. Her latest work, “Before This New Year” begins previews at the Duke on 42nd Street off-Broadway theater on March 19. Opening night is April 4.

The play follows a high school track star, who is forced to confront old feelings and life-changing decisions when she reconnects with a former teammate after her first semester of college.

Press materials say, “sharp, funny, and poignant, ‘Before This New Year’ is a powerful exploration of love, loss, identity, and coming-of-age in today’s relentlessly high-pressured world.”

Click here for more details, and tickets.

Liana Sonenclar

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Sure, beach residents could head downtown for coffee and conversation.

But they don’t have to.

This was the scene yesterday morning, at Old Mill Grocery & Deli.

The community table was filled. The vibe was warm and welcoming. And breakfast was very, very good.

Old Mill Grocery & Deli, yesterday morning. (Photo/Jim Hood)

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“Shoulder check” is an ice hockey term.

It’s also the name of an initiative that inspires people to commit to supporting each other through small acts that have big impacts. Put simply: “‘being there’ is as simple as a hand on a shoulder.”

It’s as simple as reaching out, checking in and making contact.

On February 1 (6 p.m., Milford Ice Pavilion), Staples High School’s Stormac co-op boys hockey team will play Wilton in a “Shoulder Check Game.”

The goal is to raise awareness of mental health issues.

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This Friday (January 31, 10 a.m. to noon, 15 Myrtle Avenue), Jenni Kayne hosts a panel on “Better Swaps for Motherhood.”

Sorette founder Lanning Ardente, clean beauty expert Rachel Northway and Westport mom Becca Potolsky will offer insights.

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Former Staples High School athlete Jason Stever died peacefully earlier this month in Seneca, South Carolina, with his wife and daughter by his side. He was 50 years old.

A member of the Class of 1993, Jason captained both the soccer and lacrosse teams. He won the soccer Alumni Award for his dedication to the program, and was noted for his intelligence, athleticism and leadership. As a senior, the Wrecker lacrosse team qualified for its first state tournament ever.

At Clemson University Jason was president of the Pi Kappa Psi fraternity, and became passionate about the Tigers football team.

A skilled handyman, he often helped friends and family. His smile and generous spirit lifted all those around him.

Jason is survived by his parents, Jacqueline and Jay Stever; his wife, Tracy Stever; daughter Addison Stever and stepson, TJ Barranger; sister Jennifer Vaughn (Craig Vaughn); brother-in-lawMarty Duncan (Diana), and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and lifelong friends.

A celebration of Jason’s life will be held in Hilton Head, South Carolina at a date to be determined.

Jason Stever, in the 1993 Staples yearbook.

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As ice melts at the Sherwood Island State Park beach, it looks almost like mid-summer foam.

Pamela Docters captured the scene, for our daily “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Pam Docters)

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And finally … on this date in 1863, Massachusetts Governor John Andrew received permission from the Secretary of War to raise a militia for men of African descent.

The 1989 film “Glory” depicts the soldiers of the 54th Massachusetts Infanatry Regiment, from their formation to their heroism at the Second Battle of Fort Wagner.

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Roundup: Public Safety Complex Charette, WFD Cold Weather Training …

The new Westport Public Safety Complex is still in the conceptual and feasibility stage.

The public is invited to learn more about the $90 million project, and offer feedback, at an open house charette. The event is February 6 (7 p.m., Senior Center).

An architectural presentation will be followed by interactive discussions.

The aim of the project, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker says, is to “ensure that our first responders have the resources and infrastructure they need to serve Westport effectively for generations to come.”

Fire Chief Nicholas Marsan, who also serves as the town’s emergency management director, adds, “This would be more than just a building; it’s a commitment to the people of Westport. Modernizing our facilities will enhance our ability to respond quickly and efficiently in times of emergency. A new complex will also allow for better coordination of resources and planning, ensuring that our community is well-prepared for any situation. We look forward to hearing from our community and working together to bring this vision to life.”

Police Chief Foti Koskinas notes, “This is a much-needed facility that will greatly benefit our community. Housing police, fire, and EMS under one roof fosters better collaboration, faster response times, and more efficient operations. A project of this nature will strengthen public safety and ensure that we are well-equipped to serve Westport now and into the future.”

For more details on the charette, call Marsan (203-341-5000) or email nmarsan@westportct.gov.

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Meanwhile, while you were warming up with hot cocoa yesterday — or at least staying inside — the Westport Fire Department was outdoors.

Very much outdoors.

They used the cold weather to train on cold water rescue.

And they offer this advice:

If a pet falls through the ice, do not attempt a rescue. Call 911 or Westport Fire immediately. First responders are trained and equipped with cold-weather rescue suits tho handle those situations safely.

When in doubt, stay off the ice! Err on the side of caution. Avoid risk!

Westport Fire Department’s cold weather training, yesterday. 

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Speaking of first responders: Westport Police report that the man reported as missing in yesterday’s “06880” Roundup has been found, safe and sound.

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VersoFest 2025 just got even bigger.

Henry Rollins will headline the Saturday evening (April 5) event, at the Westport Library.

The harcore punk legend will be in conversation with author and Beggars Grou president Nabil Ayers.

Rollins has held many titles in the past 45 years: singer, writer, spoken word artist, actor, producer, radio host, and outspoken frontman for Black Flag and the Rollins Band.

VersoFest is The Library’s 4-day music and media festival and conference (April 3 through 6). It’s a forum for media creators, artists and fans, with panels, workshops and performances.

Tickets are $35. Click here to purchase. Click here for more details on VersoFest.

Henry Rollins

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MoCA CT celebrates Black History Month with a series of events focusing on the rich cultural contributions and creativity of the African diaspora.

They include:

Film Screening & Q&A (February 13, 7 p.m.): “DELA” is a documentary about Ghanaian sculptor El Anatsui. Filmmaker Oyiza Adaba will host a post-screening Q&A, tying the film into MoCA CT’s exhibitions on the role of recycled materials in art and climate issues. Click here to register.

Soulful Expressions (February 15, 7 p.m.): An evening of poetry by Sahmra Sawyer, music by pianist Joe Bush, dance by Jeffline Saint Louis, and food by Jamaican chef Dré Sawyers. Artist Erika McGhee will do live sketches of visitors, followed by a dance floor open for classics like the Electric Slide, Wobble, and more. Click here to register.

Upcycling Sculpture Workshop & Exhibition Tour (February 22, 1 p.m.). Local artist Remy Sosa will lead this. He’ll start with a guided tour of the current exhibit “On Fire: Energy, Climate, Infrastructure and Human and Nature: A Changing Relationship,” focusing on the environmental impact of recycled materials. Click here to register.

Yo learn more about MoCA CT’s Black History month offerings, click here.

Remy Sosa

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February also includes Valentine’s Day.

And at the Westport Country Playhouse’s intimate Lucille Lortel White Barn Center.

“An Evening to Celebrate Love” (Saturday, February 15, 8 p.m.), features  Playhouse alum Rodolfo Soto and Carrie Lyn Brandon. They’ll highlight music from “Once,” original songs and more.

Alll tickets are just $20. Click here to purchase, and for more information.

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Pamela Docters spotted this yesterday, at the Senior Center:

“Let’s ‘hope’ that spring is on its way!” she says.

From her (and the Senior Center’s) lips, to …

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Longtime Westport resident James Masiello Jr. died unexpectedly on Tuesday, surrounded by his family. He was 65.

His obituary says, “A man of many passions, Jimmy had a special place in his heart for old mob movies, homemade Italian meals (especially when he was cooking), the beach and golf. He loved spending time with friends on the course, often boasting about his handicap, and he had a talent for making every round feel like a good time. A fantastic cook, he always enjoyed preparing a delicious meal for family and friends to enjoy, but also loved visiting his favorite restaurants to spend time with special people.”

Jimmy had a 28-year career in sales and marketing, where he formed long-lasting business relationships worldwide. Most recently he was self-employed as a retail liquidator, renowned for his salesmanship.

Jimmy was predeceased by his brother Mark, and his beloved chocolate labs Winston and Duke. He is survived by his children Michele, Alexandra and James (Buddy); his sister Marnie; many cousins, extended family and friends.

A wake will be held at Harding Funeral Home on February 7 (4 to 7 p.m.). The funeral is set for St. Luke Church on February 8 (11 a.m.), followed by a celebration of life at BJ Ryan’s East, 1 Cove Avenue, Norwalk at 12:30 p.m.

Donations can be made in his honor to the Mark Masiello ’83 Memorial Scholarship at Fairfield College Prep, or to World Central Kitchen.
Condolences for the family may be left online at www.hardingfuneral.com.

Jimmy Masiello

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo is suitably wintry. Mark Laclair took this shot not long after a boat drove down the channel, cutting through the ice.

(Photo/Mark Laclair)

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And finally … on this day in 1964, The Beatles reached the top of the US Cashbox chart for the first time. “I Want to Hold Your Hand” became the group’s best-selling single worldwide. Two weeks later, they performed the song on the Ed Sullivan Show.

The world was never the same.

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Roundup: State Of The Town, Board Of Ed Agenda, Wildfires Aid …

What’s the state of the town?

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker and Board of Education chair Lee Goldstein will offer their “State of the Town” thoughts on Sunday, February 2 (2 p.m., Westport Library).

The leaders will review town and school accomplishments during the past year, and preview some upcoming initiatives and challenges. A question-and-answer session will follow.

The annual event is sponsored by Westport Sunrise Rotary and the Westport Rotary Club.

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker and Board of Education chair Lee Goldstein.

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The Board of Education agenda for its meeting this Thursday (January 23, 7 p.m., Staples High School cafeteria), includes

  • Staples auditorium sound system
  • Transportation efficiencies study
  • 2025-26 proposed budget
  • First reading of Board of Education policies: Creation of a policiy on civility; amendment of student discipline policy
  • Second reading of Board of Education polices: Amendment of admission to public schools at or before age 5; amendment of policy on attendance, truancy and chronic absenteeism; proposed repeal of policy on attendance excuses and chronic absenteeism.

The Board of Education will also hold a Zoom meeting that morning (January 23, 9 a.m., Zoom; meeting ID 857 3959 1723; passcoade 405790) to discuss procedures for conducting non-renewal hearings of employees.

Among the agenda items for Thursday’s Board of Education meeting: transportation efficiencies. (Photo/Amy Schneider)

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On Friday, Sam Clachko scored his 1,000th point as a Staples High School basketball player.

And he’s only a junior! (Click here for the full story.)

Ryan Allen — Staples’ superb photographer/videographer — was there to record the milestone.

Sam has a great future ahead, on the court. Ryan’s future is equally bright — behind the lens.

(Photo/Ryan Allen)

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Jeff Matlow was one of many Los Angeles residents affected by the recent fires.

The 1985 Staples High School graduate reports: “The Palisades fire started on the hill behind the school where my wife works, and our daughter is in 6th grade.

“They were the first people to evacuate, even before there was an official evacuation notice.

“At least half of the school is in ruins, if not more. The library is gone (along with all the books). All of the admin buildings, the preschool, kindergarten and elementary school are all gone.

“We are still not allowed in Pacific Palisades to see everything. But we know it will be a long rebuilding process.

The school just launched a fundraising campaign. “06880” readers can click here to read more, and contribute to help a fellow Westporter reconstruct his daughter and wife’s school community.

 

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Westport’s representatives in Hartford — State Senator Ceci Maher, and Representatives Jonathan Steinberg and Dominique Johnson — invites residents to Mrs. London’s Bakery on January 30 (5:30 p.m.).

They’ll discuss issues impacting Connecticut residents, review goals and priorities for the legislative session, and answer questions.

From left: State Senator Ceci Mahr; Representatives Jonathan Steinberg and Dominique Johnson.

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Speaking of politics: Tomorrow is Inauguration Day.

Jolantha — Weston’s favorite pig — is ready.

(Photo/Hans Wilhelm)

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The next full production at the Westport Country Playhouse is less than a month away.

The curtain rises for “Season of Laughter” on February 18.

The Playhouse says: “When expecting parents move next door to longtime suburbanites, a dispute over their yard’s property line spirals into an epic, flower-flinging war over taste, class, personal identity — and gardening. Can these couples ever learn to love their neighbor and mend the fences that separate them?!

The show runs through March 8. Click here for tickets, and more information.

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The Brian Torff Group headline the next Voices Café show at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport, on February 1 (8 p.m).

They’re “a band driven by a desire to capture the complexity of the American story ‘through American roots music with an updated twist.’”

The concert will blend Torff’s Southern music and race research with original songs, and new interpretations of artists like Bessie Smith, Robert Johnson, B.B. King, Mose Allison and Elvis Presley.

Torff — a professor of music at Fairfield University since 1993 — says, “we’ll honor Black History Month by taking a close look at the profound contributions of African Americans to our nation’s music culture.”

Click here for tickets, and more information.

Brian Torff

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Suznne (Suzy) Fiore — a Westport residence since 1951 — died peacefully at home on January 13. She was 86.

In 1972 Suzy began teaching at the Green’s Farms Preschool, became the director in 2001 and retired in 2009. She cared deeply for the children, their families, and teachers she taught and worked with over the years.

Suzy was a long-time member of Green’s Farms Congregational Church and the Westport Women’s Club. Since 1978 she was very active member in the PEO, Chapter B in Westport, serving as chapter president and holding several other officer positions.

She enjoyed traveling, caring for plants, being the family historian, and watching birds.

Suzy was predeceased by her husband Anthony Fiore Jr, daughter Cynthia Ann Watson, step-son Michael Fiore, and brother Charles Kline, Jr.

She is survived by her sons John Watson III (Deborah) of Summerville, South Carolina, Charles Watson of Westport, and William Craig Watson (Shery) of Redding; step-son Paul Fiore of Fruita, Colorado; nephew Charles Kline III (Christy); grandchildren Lynsay D’Aiuto, Jennie Moon (Josh), Rebecca Watson, John Watson IV (Molly), Charles Watson, Sadie Watson and Chase Alexander Watson, and 5 great-grandchildren

A memorial service will be held February 10 (1 p.m., Green’s Farms Church).

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo shows Grace Salmon Park.

A few hours from now, it may look quite a bit whiter.

(Photo/Alison Lee)

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And finally … on this date in 1901,  Queen Victoria was stricken with paralysis. She died 3 days later, at 81.

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Roundup: Flood Preparations, Freezing Temperatures, Safe Streets …

Los Angeles is nearly 3,000 miles away.

But fires on the West Coast are a huge concern here too. Many Westporters know relatives and friends affected by the blazes.

And disasters like these can lead to increased insurance premiums nationwide.

Realtor Judy Michaelis says, “it’s essential to take steps now to understand and mitigate risks where possible.”

She assesses property risks through Risk Factor, a tool from the non-profit First Street Foundation.

While wildfire risk in Westport is very low, flooding is a more pressing concern. Judy says that 3,074 properties in Westport — 35% of all properties — risk flooding within the next 30 years.

Enter your address on the site to access a free, detailed flood risk report. This resource is invaluable for understanding and addressing your property’s vulnerability.

Even if your risk is low, Judy adds, you should check in with your insurance agent to ensure your coverage is adequate for replacement costs. They’ve increased significantly recently.

Floods are increasingly frequent in Westport. (Photo/Matt Murray)

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Governor Ned Lamont has activated the state’s Severe Cold Weather Protocol, in anticipation of upcoming plunging temperatures.

It’s in effect from tomorrow (January 19, 6 p.m.) through Friday, January 24, noon).

Westport has several warming centers. They include:

Westport Senior Center: Tuesday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Westport Library: Tuesday through Thursday, 9 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Friday, 9 a.m. to 6 p.m.
Westport Museum for History & Culture: Tuesday through Friday, 11 a.m. through 5 p.m.
Westport Weston Family YMCA: Monday through Friday, 5:30 a.m. to 9 p.m.
MoCA Westport: Thursday, 12- 8 p.m.; Friday, 12-4 p.m.
For assistance, contact Westport Human Services at 203-341-1050 Tuesday through Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.

The Y is one of Westport’s 5 warming centers.

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Another topic of interest for all residents is traffic.

The Safe Streets for All (SS4A) draft of the Westport Safety Action Plan, prepared by consultants, is now available for review and public comment. Click here to read it.

Comments can be sent to SS4A@westportct.gov online or by attending the public meeting scheduled for January 29 (not yet on the town calendar).

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Westporters love to read.

Now, readers can help select the winner of the third annual Westport Prize for Literature.

Voluneers are needed to help vet manuscripts for the 2025 honor. It will be awarded this fall at the Library’s StoryFest.

Readers must be Westport residents. They will read 2-3 manuscripts, then submit feedback online.

Results will help determine which finalists advance to an independent jury. Click here for more information, and to apply as a reader.

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Meanwhile, across the green from the Library, Pause + Purpose — the Jesup Road yoga and meditation center — is closing its studio.

However, gatherings will continue to be held elsewhere.

A note to clients says, “Pause + Purpose is not a building; it’s us. It’s the spirit we’ve created together. This evolution is not an ending but a continuation—an opportunity to serve not only this cherished community but many others in deeper, more impactful ways.

“Our mission, our heart, is not confined to walls. Wherever we gather, Pause + Purpose will remain a place for healing, connection, and belonging.”

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Orin Ganz’s daughter Eden Zechariah was murdered by Hamas, after the terror group invaded Israel.

Since then, she has dedicated herself to “defeating the darkness.”

Tomorrow (January 19), the Schneerson Center for Jewish Life CT (11:30 a.m., 228 Saugatuck Avenue) presents a “lunch and listen” event.

Ganz will speak via Zoom from Israel about “Flying with Broken Wings; Tools for Coping with Life’s Challenges, and Developing Mental Resilience.” Click here for more information.

Eden Zechariah

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Former Westport resident Madeleine Conway died recently. She was 87, and lived in Delray Beach, Florida.

A native of the Netherlands who moved to Long Island in 1940, she graduated from Bryn Mawr College, and Columbia University’s School of International Affairs.

Madeleine helped artists launch their New York careers in the 1970s. She wrote
prominent in the art world She co-wrote “The Museum of Modern Art Artists’ Cookbook” and “Gourmet to Go: The New York Guide to Dining Out at Home.”

She was a trustee emeritus of The Perez Art Museum in Miami. Her family, art, reading and travel were her biggest passions.

Madeleine was predeceased by her husbands Paul Conway and Stanley Rubenfeld, and her good friend Victor Rubino. She is survived by her son Andrew Conway (Jill), daughters Victoria Newman and Alexandra Conway Marks (Steven), 7 grandchildren, and sisters Dorothy Bennett (Richard)
and Jacqueline Walker (Arthur).

Donations may be made in Madeleine’s name to Colorectal Research Foundation
at Memorial Sloan Kettering (c/o Dr. Lagunes Reidy or eheald@pamm.org at the
Perez Art Museum.

Madeleine Conway 

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As temperatures are set to drop, let’s not forget our feathered friends.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo shows the importance of keeping everyone — and everything — fed and healthy.

(Photo/Molly Alger)

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And finally …  A. A. Milne was born on this date, in 1882. The English author, poet, and playwright died in 1956.

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Roundup: Media & The Election, Fashionably Westport, Rach’s Hope …

The state of democracy and the media’s impact on it, globally and locally — plus AI, TikTok, fact checkers and more — were debated for nearly 2 hours yesterday.

A capacity crowd filled the Westport Library, to hear the Y’s Men of Westport and Weston-sponsored discussion.

Senator Richard Blumenthal; television journalists Alisyn Camerota and Dave Briggs of Westport, and John Berman (all now or formerly with CNN), along with “06880”‘s own Dan Woog answered questions from moderator John Brandt.

Staples High School Inklings advisors Mary Elizabeth Fulco and Joseph Del Gobbo, with editors Nina Bowens and Lily Hultgren, added student perspectives.

Click below to view the full event. It was fascinating.

Then again, I’m a biased media participant.

From left: Dave Briggs, Dan Woog, John Berman, Alisyn Camerota, Senator Richard Blumenthal. Inklings representatives Mary Elizabeth Fulco, Lily Hultgren and Nina Bowers stand in back. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

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In just 4 years, Fashionably Westport has become one of our town’s most popular — and lively — fundraisers.

This year’s event is set for Friday, February 28 (7 p.m., Westport Library). Sponsored by the Westport Downtown Association, it’s a benefit for Homes with Hope.

The 5th annual Fashionably Westport show features the latest styles, from the town’s mot sophisticated and fashion-forward retailers.

The models are local friends and celebrities. The emcee and runway director are neighbors too: Dave Briggs and Carey Price, respectively.

Click here for tickets, and more information. To donate silent auctiono items, or become sponsors, email events@westportdowntown.com, or operations@westportdowntown.com.

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Last year, Rach’s Hope Walk the Extra Mile raised more than $20,000. The funds helped the non-profit that supports families with critically ill children in the ICU with an additional 100 nights of hotel stays, so parents can rest and recharge while staying close to their kids.

Rach’s Hope — which honors Rachel Doran, the Staples High School graduate and rising Cornell University senior, who died after developin a rare reaction to common medications — is getting ready for their 6th annual Rach’s Hope PJ Gala.

(Rachel was a talented Staples Players costume designer, and founded a pajama company.)

The date is Saturday, March 29 (7 to 11 p.m., FTC, Fairfield).

Festivities include an open bar with Tito’s cocktails, beer, wine and prosecco; heavy appetizers and desserts by AMG Catering; live music kicked off by Westport’s own Michael Cantor and Frog Salon, plus Rach’s Hope’s signature band, Ellis Island — and live and silent auctions too.

Tickets are on sale now (with early bird pricing through January 31). Click here to purchase, and for more information.

Enjoying the 2022 Rach’s Hope gala.

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Taking nature photos with your phone is easy.

But your images can be even better if you know what you’re doing.

Noted photographer Alison Wachstein leads a “Nature Photography with your Smartphone” event on February 23 (10 a.m. to noon).

She’ll do it at the perfect place: Sherwood Island State Park.

Attendees should meet at the main pavilion. There is an optional donation of $10 per family, to support the Friends of Sherwood Island garden team.

For more information on Friends of Sherwood Island, click here. To become a member, click the “Get Involved” tab.

Nature photo, at Sherwood Island State Park. (Photo/Deb Krayson)

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You can’t celebrate Valentine’s Day with Elvis. The “Love Me Tender” dude is booked. (And dead.)

But you can enjoy the day after with him.

“Love is in the Air” — which calls itself “Connecticut’s #1 Elvis Show” — comes to VFW Post 399 on February 15 (6:30 p.m.).

The Riverside Avenue club invites you to “celebrate the love of your life with the love songs of the King of Rock ‘n’ Roll.”

Tickets ($35 member, $40 non-member) include a buffet.  Click here to purchase. Questions? Call 302-312-3774. (Hat tip: Andrew Colabella)

Elvis was in the (VFW) building last month, with radio personality Matt Zako and VFW Auxiliary vice president Patty Kondub.

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Speaking of music: The New York Times says, “Ringo Starr maintains his perpetual optimism in ‘Look Up,’ the title track of his new, Nashville-centered album.

“Written by T Bone Burnett and Daniel Tashian, the song posits, ‘There’s a light that shines in the darkest days,’ bolstered by richly twangy guitars and an unmistakable Ringo backbeat.”

What makes this “06880”-worthy is that Tashian is the son of Barry and Holly Tashian. The Staples High School Class of 1963 graduates have made their home in Nashville for many years, where they wrote and recorded.

Barry also played with Emmy Lou Harris and the Flying Burrito Brothers. Before that, he played guitar and sang lead vocals with the Remains.

The Boston-based band were called “how you told a stranger about rock ‘n’ roll” (by Jon Landau), along with — had they not broken up — a contender with the Rolling Stones for the title of “World’s Greatest Rock ‘n’ Roll Band.”

In 1966 — after appearing on “The Ed Sullivan Show” and “Hullabaloo” — they opened for the Beatles, on their final US tour.

Nearly 60 years later, Barry’s son and Ringo have kept the Remains/Beatles connection alive.

Daniel Tashian

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If you were like most Westporters (including me), you spent yesterday indoor.

There were football games to watch, cups of cocoa to drink, cold to stay out of.

If you were this woman named Tanya, however, you headed to Compo Beach, took off most of your clothes, and walked right into the water.

(Photo/Patricia Auber)

Patricia Auber — who was there, though presumably dressed a bit more warmly — reports that Tanya stayed in, up to her neck, for at least 5 minutes.

Hopefully, hot cocoa was waiting at home.

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Marie Wilson of Gloversville, New York — a frequent visitor to Westport, where her daughter Diane Bosch lives — died January 5 after a brief illness in Saratoga Springs, New York. She was 93.

She majored in retailing at Lasell College. She was proud of her internship at Bergdorf Goodman in New York during college, and her lifetime membership in the PTA.

Marie was predeceased by her husband William E. Wilson after 60 years of marriage.

She is survived by her daughter Diane Wilson Bosch (Eric) of Westport; sons William (Joni) of Gloversville, and Paul (Sondra of Long Lake, New York; grandchildren Brett Wilson (Amanda); Greg Bosch and (Renee); Jenelle Wheeler (Ryan); Kate Boundy (Geoff); Nick Wilson; Emily Hunter (Ben); great- grandchildren Amelia and Theo Bosch; Ryder and Piper Wilson; Calvin and Beckett Wheeler; sister Barbara von Kreuter-Adams; many nieces and nephews, and even more friends.

A memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made to a local Parent Teacher Association.

Marie Wilson

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Saturday’s snowfall was gorgeous — but not enough to ski on.

Unless you’re Regan, hitting the “slopes” for the first time ever, at Burying Hill Beach.

Clare Madden sent along this way-too-cute “Westport … Naturally” photo.

(Photo/Clare Madden)

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And finally … Happy Stephen Foster Memorial Day!

Today commemorates the death of “the father of American music.” Foster died on this day in 1864. He was just 37 years old — perhaps by his own hand — but had already written more than 200 songs.

Among them:

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Roundup: Betty Lou Cummings, Bridgewater, Wakeman Town Farm …

First Selectwoman Jen Tooker issued this statement, following the death of Betty Lou Cummings:

It was with great sadness that I learned of Betty Lou Cummings’ passing. Westport has lost an exceptional member of our community, and she will always hold a place alongside the great contributors to our town. Her cheer, her infectious happiness, and her love of life and community were unmatched. She will be remembered and appreciated forever.

Betty Lou’s involvement and generous commitment to Westport was unquestioned and steadfast, beginning with her participation in the resistance to having a nuclear power plant built on Cockenoe Island. She was one of the leaders of that movement. Today we have Betty Lou, among others, to thank for helping to maintain the natural beauty of that town asset.

She was a pioneer in female representation in Westport. After she served roles as second selectwoman and as an RTM member, she continued to actively and passionately champion for programs and civic issues that affected the entire community.

This included, but certainly was not limited to, volunteering and fundraising for the Westport Library and the Westport Center for Senior Activities, and organizing events for CLASP Homes. For decades, and with an enthusiasm that was unrivaled, Betty Lou proudly judged the Memorial Day parade floats and organized Super Bowl parties at the Senior Center.

I have so many personal fond memories of Betty Lou at many of these special events. With her pom-poms and pigtails, she unabashedly exuded joy. I so enjoyed her laughter and her company, but mostly, I respected her ability to engage everyone and make an entire room a bit brighter with her presence.

The town of Westport has been fortunate to have had Betty Lou as one of its leading citizens. I extend my deepest condolences to her family, friends, and the many residents whose lives she enhanced and touched.

Betty Lou Cummings and 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, at the Memorial Day parade. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

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Bridgewater is cutting 7% of its workforce.

That’s about 90 employees, out of the 1,200 or so at the company’s Nyala Farm headquarters adjacent to I-95 Exit 18.

The firm — one of the largest hedge funds in the world — once had 2 sites in Westport. The other was in the Glendinning building on Weston Road.

An office on Fifth Avenue, to “complement” the one here, will open this winter.

Bridgewater’s Westport headquarters.

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How you gonna keep ’em down on the farm, after they’ve seen the alpacas?

Or bought an alpaca mug?

That’s just one of the many offerings from Wakeman Town Farm this winter. They include:

Alpaca mugs: $14.95; proceeds help fund the WTF barn renovation.

Winter seed sowing class (January 7, 7 p.m.), with advanced master gardener Alice Ely.

Learn to cook family-friendly weeknight meals (January 23 and 25, 6:30 p.m.; $100, BYOB), with chef Laura Weinman.

Valentine’s cake decorating class (February 10, 7 p.m.; $85), with Jessica Leventhal.

Valentine’s dinner with wine pairings (February 13, 6:30 p.m.; $135 per person), with chef Alison Milwe Grace.

Kids’ Valentine’s cooking class (February 14, 4:15 p.m., ages 6-12; $60).

Click here for details, and for more Wakeman Town Farm activities.

Wakeman Town Farm alpaca mug.

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Earthplace Summer Camp registration is now open.

Youngsters of all abilities ages 2-15 are welcome to enjoy nature-based activities, and experience over 50 “animal ambassadors.” There are weekly sessions, from mid-June through mid-August.

Click here for more information. Questions? Email summercamp@earthplace.org.

Having fun at Earthplace summer camp. (Photo/Jaime Bairaktaris)

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Many times, the Westport Astronomical Society’s lecture series guests appear via Zoom, from around the galaxy (or at least the planet)

On January 21 (8 p.m.), the WAS welcomes their own board member Dr. Kevin Green, to the observatory classroom.

The University of New Haven Physics Department member will discuss the ongoing work of observing asteroids at WAS, and surrounding telescopes. The talk includes short presentations from his team of young, talented observers.

Dr. Green spearheads observations of asteroid occultations at the Westport Astronomical Society and University of New Haven, among others.

For those who can’t be there live, the talk will be livestreamed on YouTube and Zoom.

Dr. Kevin Green

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As the nation focuses its attention on Washington — in the aftermath of the January 6 insurrection, and the inauguration on January 20 of Donald Trump — the National Mall plays a prominent role.

Who knew there are stables there?

And if you did know, it’s unlikely you realized they were designed by a Westport architect.

In early 1976, in preparation for the Bicentennial, a small group of simple wooden stalls were erected for horses of the US Park Police. Though designed to be temporary, they have been used ever since.

A few years ago, a new building was constructed with stables and support spaces, administrative facilities, and a public information and education gallery. The public can now see the police horses in their stalls, and in paddocks in front.

It was designed by Tasos Kokoris. For many years, he has lived and worked in town.

Add that to your list of “must-sees,” the next time you’re in our nation’s capital. (Hat tip: Morgan Mermagen)

Tasos Kokoris’ horse stables, on the National Mall.

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Judith Voss — a Westport resident for 50 years — died December 16. She was 83.

The Wisconsin native was valedictorian of her high school class in 1959. After earning a BA in education from the University of Wisconsin – Oshkosh, Judy taught middle school English in suburban Milwaukee.

Six years later, on a blind date, she met her future husband Ted, who had just finished law school and would soon be drafted into the Army.

After their wedding in 1968 Ted returned to Heidelberg, Germany where he was stationed. After finishing teaching for the school year, Judy joined. She saved love letters from their time apart.

After returning to the US in 1970, the couple lived in Milwaukee and Indianapolis. They settled in Westport in 1974.

Judy was an avid tennis player, and became a bridge bronze lifetime master. She also took great joy from cooking, baking, gardening, and looking after her home.

Other pastimes included running, yoga and The New York Times crossword puzzles. A voracious reader, Judy was an enthusiastic supporter of the Westport Public Library.

Judy is survived by her daughter, Trista Soh (Edward), and granddaughters Evelyn and Madeline. Her husband Ted died in 2020.

Gifts in Judy’s memory can be made to the Westport Library, Westport Senior Center or Westport Volunteer Emergency Medical Service.

Judy Voss

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo features this freezing creature. He (or she) tried to warm up yesterday, near the Library.

(Photo/Elisabeth Levey)

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And finally … Peter Yarrow — one-third of the legendary Peter, Paul & Mary trio — died yesterday in New York. He was 86, and suffered from bladder cancer.

Mary Travers — the golden-voiced contralto, with several ties to Westport — died in 2009, in Danbury.

Click here for a full obituary of Peter Yarrow.

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Betty Lou Cummings: Full Obituary, Funeral Service Information

Betty Lou Cummings — a Westport resident for over 58 years, who made her mark on town in innumerable ways — died suddenly from an accident on January 3. She was 90.

Pennsylvania native Betty Lou Lundstedt recently celebrated her 69th wedding anniversary with her college sweetheart Thomas. She was a graduate of Michigan State University, with bachelor’s and master’s degrees in physical education and dance.

At MSU. she was one of the first 6 females cheerleaders. She later taught at MSU, and Vassar College.

Early in their marriage the Cummingses lived in Waco, Texas and Poughkeepsie, New York, where she became the YMCA director.

Betty Lou Cummings

Her family says, “Encouraging others to achieve higher goals through cheerful interactions was a mark of Betty Lou’s enduring presence. This was the continuing gift she brought to everything she did.”

Her many achievements include Connecticut state champion for sewing, president of the Staples High School PTA (1981), Sportsmen of Westport (1991), YMCA Faces of Achievement (1998), and the Rotary Club’s Paul Harris Award (2003).

In midlife her interests and leadership expanded into politics. She was elected as Westport’s second selectwoman, and served from 1993 to 1997.

During her years as a community leader, she supported many important projects, including founding the Apple Festival, fundraising for CLASP, and the Westport Library’s Riverwalk and River of Names projects.

She was instrumental in the town’s purchase of Cockenoe Island, preventing construction of a nuclear power plant.

She helped organize Random Acts of Kindness Days, and will be remembered as a joyful presence in her role as a judge for Westport’s annual Memorial Day parade.

Other public service included selection as a delegate to Russia and China for Bridges for Peace.

Betty Lou Cummings (left) and Joanne Nistico, advertising the Apple Festival.

She and Tom were ardent world travelers, visiting over 100 different countries. She loved seeing cultures and wild animals, and viewed the world as a miracle.

The Cummings family spent 50 memorable years skiing at Okemo, and 13 with fun-filled gatherings at Ocean City.

Her family adds, “She made sure every holiday was a full experience of love, recognition, and her delicious homemade cakes. She developed a deep skill as our historian and chronicler of activities with her newsletters and holiday cards.

“Betty Lou will be remembered as a generous, deeply caring and compassionate person of principle. She spent her life advancing the positive whenever she could with enthusiasm, hard work, her laughter and her winning smile. Along the way, Betty Lou met any challenge head-on, was resilient, constructive and always optimistic.”

Betty Lou and Tom Cummings, at their 69th wedding anniversary last month.

Betty Lou is survived by her husband; sons Mark (Lisa Livingston) of Modesto, California; Mathew (Michele Grether) of Trumbull, and Todd (Kate Francek) of Fairfield; grandchildren Mathew Jr., Ella, Caroline, Zoe and Toby; sisters Janet Hanes and Diane Martin, and brother Roy Lundstedt. She was predeceased by her son Edwin, and brothers Jack and Bob.

Visitation is set for Friday (January 10, 4 to 8 p.m., Harding Funeral Home). Her memorial service is Saturday (January 11, 10 a.m., Saugatuck Congregational Church). Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Betty Lou’s name may be made to CLASP Homes, Friends of the Westport Center for Senior Activities, or the Saugatuck Congregational Church.

Roundup: CT Bites, VFW New Year’s, Club203 Party …

The editor-in-chief of CTBites, Stephanie Webster, lived in Westport for many years.

But only 2 restaurants make the foodies’ webiste list of “Staff Picks for Top Eats of 2024.”

One is Casa Me. Webster writes:

Casa Me recently launched Sunday Brunch. If you don’t live in and around Westport you could miss this spot, but it’s quietly the hardest rez to get in Fairfield County.

One of my faves is a brunch item, Pane Dorato, made with Pandoro, the sweet Christmas bread from Verona. The sweet bread is perfect for french toast and he pairs this with cannoli creme, frutti di bosco compote and olive oil maple syrup. It’s what everyone needs on a Sunday morning.

Pane Dorato, at Casa Me.

The other is Allium Eatery. Managing editor Andrew Dominick says:

Michelle Greenfield’s French-ish, seasonal, creative menu is not to be missed. After a CRAZIES nomination for Best Chef, you best make a reservation, because the word is out about this once best kept secret.

Click here for the full story.

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Looking to celebrate New Year’s Eve before midnight?

Spacecat Brewing Company is sponsoring a “Beer & Burger Night.” It’s 5 to 8 p.m. tonight, at VFW Post 399.

There are Spacecat swag giveaways too. The perfect thing to bring to your midnight event. (Hat tip: Andrew Colabella)

Happy New Year! (From 5 to 8 p.m., anyway).

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Yesterday’s Roundup reported that J. Crew is moving from 145 Main Street space, to 27 Main Street (former Pottery Barn).

However, the move is temporary. They’ll be there only during the renovation of their current store.

27 Main Street.

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The new year has not yet begun. But Club203 is ready.

Their first event of the season is Friday (January 3, 6:30 to 8 p.m.), at the Westport Dance Academy.

The evening includes martial arts with Sensi Pilardy and Club203 member Bella Rizzi; dancing with Judy Samuels; TikTok moves with Shea and Carly; ballet with XX, and art by MoCA.

Click here for more information on Club203, including registration information.

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Chris Marcocci — the former owner of Local to Market, and a noted and passionate Westporter — died at his home on Sunday.

After a career as a vice president of non-traditional revenue for iHeart (formerly Clear Channel) Radio in Tampa, he embarked on an entrepreneurial journey.

In 2005 Chris founded Streetmarc Advertising and Marketing in South Norwalk. He later moved the office in Westport, and adde branches in Florida and Pennsylvania. Streetmarc helped brands grow market share at the retail level, through consumer promotions and events.

Chris was also an adviser to the Food’N Bev Connect group. That inspired him to launch Local to Market, a concept retail store on Main Street, in the former Talbots and Remarkable Book Shop space.

Local To Market showcased Connecticut farms and food products, and local artisans and local musicians.

Chris enjoyed all that Westport offers, from beaches and sunsets to fishing and hanging out with friends.

His annual trip to Italy with his wife Rita was the highlight of his life.

He was also an avid scuba diver. and enjoyed live music events with his wife and friends.

A celebration of Chris’ life will take place in the next few weeks.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Chris’ name to Mission Iconic Reefs, an underwater reef preservation entity; MoCA CT, or Homes with Hope.

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I know, I know: It’s New Year’s Eve, and there’s no snow on the ground.

But just a week ago was Christmas Eve. Here’s a very cool (and warm) “Westport … Naturally” shot, from outside Rick Benson’s window:

(Photo/Rick Benson)

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And finally … hit it, Guy!

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Roundup: Don Siegelaub, Bob May …

Longtime Westporter Donald Siegelaub died peacefully on Thursday. His children Susan Katz and Steven Siegelaub were with him. He was 99 years old.

After graduating from Midwood High School in his native Brooklyn in 1943, Don enlisted in the Army on his 18th birthday. He was part of the 4th Infantry Division during the D-Day assault on Utah Beach. Don saw heavy combat duty in the hedgerows of Normandy. In late July 1944, he was seriously wounded in action. He was evacuated to England and then the US for treatment and recovery. He was awarded the Purple Heart for his heroism.

After his discharge, Don attended Texas Christian University on a basketball scholarship. But he missed his family and friends, and at 21 he enrolled at Brooklyn College.

Don was the star center on Brooklyn’s famed basketball team, and met 16-year-old Marcia Jaffe. Though offered an NBA contract, Don moved on from basketball after graduation.

However, he stuck with and married his soulmate Marcia in 1950. They were inseparable for 62 years, until Marcia’s death in 2012.

During the 1950s, Don and 2 partners began a construction business in New York City. Recognizing an opportunity with the post-war housing boom in the Connecticut suburbs, Don relocated to Westport. He and Marcia put down roots and raised their young family.

Throughout the 1960s Don and his partners built hundreds of homes in Westport and surrounding communities in southern Connecticut. Don went out on his own in the early ’70s. He expanded his business to commercial construction, then built high-end single family homes in Westport and Weston.

Don and Marcia were early members of Rolling Hills Country Club, and founding members of Temple Israel in Westport. As avid supporters of the Anti- Defamation League, they opened their home each summer for fundraising events.

His family says, “Don will be remembered for his devotion to country, family, friends and community, as well as a life of honor, integrity and generosity.

He is survived by his children Susan Katz (Michael Ian) and Steven Siegelaub, grandchildren Adam Katz (Natasha), Sophie Katz (Brandon Williams), Jonathan Siegelaub (Kathy) and Tracy Siegelaub, and great-grandchildren Sila, River, Jacob and Estella.

Don’s funeral will be held at 1 p.m. today (Sunday), at Temple Israel.

Don Siegelaub

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Robert May — a 35-year special education teacher in Westport — died peacefully at his Southport home on December, surrounded by family. He was 77.

After his long and well-respected career in education, Bob turned toward gardening and other outdoor activities.

He was known for long daily walks along the beaches of Westport and Southport, during which he collected treasures. Bob turned everything from driftwood to discarded toys into intricate, whimsical and beautiful pieces of art.

Bob was also an avid photographer. With a keen eye for color and contrast, he captured the natural world. He shared his pieces and photographs widely with friends and family.

Bob spent many years volunteering with the Operation Hope food pantry, building friendships and providing support and laughter.

His family says, “his gentle spirit and presence meant Bob was also a chosen favorite of many dogs over the course of his life, as though they could sense that they had found a kindred spirit. Bob delighted in simple pleasures: hot and (very) sweet coffee, a well-crafted wooden slotted spoon, the skittering of shorebirds along the beach, a long and meandering conversation with a loved one, and an ice-cold vodka martini, extra dry.”

Bob was predeceased by his younger brothers Bruce, Werner and Daniel. He is survived by his older brother Richard; children Morgan May and Whitney Buckley, and their spouses; 4 grandchildren; his ex-wife and dear friend Kaye May, and a wide circle of family and friends.

Visitation is set for January 11 (10 a.m. to noon), followed at noon by a service to celebrate Bob’s life at Spear Miller Funeral Home in Fairfield. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Bob’s honor to Operation Hope.

Bob May

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo shows a serene holiday scene on the Saugatuck River, behind Richmondville Avenue.

Everything was just ducky.

(Photo/Michael Pearl)

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And finally … happy 78th birthday to Marianne Faithfull.

Her first hit single was written by Mick Jagger, Keith Richards (a current Weston resident) and Andrew Loog Oldham (a former Wilton resident who spent a lot of time in Westport):

Jagger and Richards were said to have written this song about her:

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