Monthly Archives: March 2013

From Afghanistan, Sam Goodgame Inspires Staples

A few weeks ago, “0688o” posted a request from Sam Goodgame. The 2007 Staples grad — and West Point appointee — is now a platoon leader in Afghanistan. He hoped a couple of Westporters could send a few things to his troops.

Boy, did they.

The response — from individuals and organizations throughout town — was overwhelming.

And Sam’s high school alma mater led the charge.

Staples English teacher Dan Geraghty — a former Army Ranger and National Guardsman — took a special interest in Sam’s mission. Dan enlisted his entire department to help. (Members of the math, world language, physical education, library and culinary departments pitched in too.)

1st Lieutenant Sam Goodgame (right), with one of his soldiers in Afghanistan.

1st Lieutenant Sam Goodgame (right), with one of his soldiers in Afghanistan.

Last week, Sam emailed Dan. Sam’s deep gratitude shines an important light on many things: the amazing work our military men and women do, day in and day out. The importance of a community coming together, to do a tiny bit to help them. The fact that those tiny things mean so much.

And the role that a school like Staples played, in developing a leader like Sam.

Sam talked about every teacher when he said:

Thank you for the profound displays of support that you’ve shown my platoon. They communicate quite effectively to my men that they are valued and remembered by their American community.

After conducting missions in snowy remote provinces, Sam added, the Staples notes meant as much as the packages. “A flourish of personality connects with a soldier better than platitudes. Your letters struck chords with our men.”

Two of Sam Goodgame's men, reading letters from Staples students.

Two of Sam Goodgame’s men, reading letters from Staples students.

Sam attributed his “love of truthful, clear expression — in literature, writing, and in life generally” — to the Staples English department.

“Words are the only thing that last forever, and each of your lessons lives on in me daily.”

Next, Sam turned to the letters the English classes had written. They generated

a lasting sense of comfort (and laughter) with my guys. Perhaps they wouldn’t choose the same words that I do, but your notes do much to close the gap between the US civilian population and its military….The fact that none of you have met my soldiers, yet support them all the same, makes the message stronger.

Then he addressed certain students individually.

He told a girl in Staples Players, “put your whole heart into theater, if you’re passionate about it. It turned out so well for my friends who did the same.”

One boy wondered about weapons. Sam said, “I remember playing Counterstrike as a kid in middle school and thinking the same thing you do.” He described his M4 carbine with an ACOG 4x-power scope, infrared laser, magazine full of tracer rounds and bipod pistol grip.

But then, referring to night vision devices, Sam added, “the guys we fight can’t see anything in the infrared slice of the electromagnetic spectrum. In Afghanistan we actually use a lot of the concepts that you learn about in physics and chemistry to our advantage.”

Letters and packages from Westport have buoyed Sam Goodgame's platoon, thousands of miles away in snowy Afghanistan.

Letters and packages from Westport have buoyed Sam Goodgame’s platoon, thousands of miles away in snowy Afghanistan.

Switching gears, Sam described the importance of writing in his life. “It’s how I persuade people when I want them to do certain things; how I communicate with people I care about, and how I reflect on what’s happening around me and come to understand my own opinions more clearly.”

Sam tried to reach every teenager. To a boy dreaming of the Olympics, he wrote:

If you don’t give up, you have control over what happens to you. I failed Army Ranger school twice before I finally graduated. If I hadn’t passed, I’d be sitting behind a desk right now planning meetings about meetings. I wasn’t going to fail.

And to a boy who had described his upbringing in Asia, Sam wrote, “if I ever visit, I’ll keep your advice about Singapore girlfriends in mind.”

Dan Geraghty ran a half-marathon to support the Wounded Warriors Project. He wore combat boots, and carried his rucksack along the way.    Dan Geraghty ran a half-marathon to support the Wounded Warriors Project. He wore combat boots, and carried a rucksack.

Dan Geraghty ran a half-marathon to support the Wounded Warriors Project. He wore combat boots, and carried his rucksack along the way. 

Sam was thrilled that several students are involved in the Wounded Warriors Project (as is Dan Geraghty).

One is considering West Point. Sam offered help and advice:

Be a good dude. Help people with no expectation of reward. Work out every day, and run 5 miles frequently. Get good grades, but more importantly, pay attention to your best teachers and learn everything you can from them.

Sam’s experience at the Academy was powerful. It exposed him to gifted mentors and world travel, and allowed him to share “conversations, meals and drinks with foreign diplomats and generals, the most powerful CEOs and bankers, and academics whose names will live for centuries.”

More importantly, Sam said, his teachers at West Point helped him learn about academics, the military and life in general. Though “an extremely unpleasant place to live for 4 years,” he wrote, “I wouldn’t trade my time there for anything.”

Sam’s time at West Point was — like his time at Staples — extremely well spent.

And the time that Staples students spent corresponding with Sam Goodgame is time that he gave right back to them.

In ways that will resonate for years to come.

(Sam’s platoon can always use more cards, letters and care packages. Send to:
1LT Sam Goodgame
PSD  PLT,  HHC 1-187 IN, 3BCT, 101 ABN DIV (AASLT)
FOB Gardez, Afghanistan
APO AE 09339
)

Sweet Frog Hops Into Town

Sweet Frog is Westport’s newest entrant in the self-serve, all-natural, pick-your-flavors-and-add-your-toppings yogurt bar wars. (They say they have a “secret ingredient,” though. They call it “fun.”)

Sweet Frog hopes to open tomorrow (Friday), just down from Fresh Market in the space previously occupied by Xenia Mediterranean restaurant.

Sweet FrogThe Virginia-based franchise prides itself on giving back to the community — particularly through youth sports, clubs and arts.

Even before opening, they bought an ad in the Westport Soccer Association‘s program book for the March 16-17 tournament. And threw in 2 free frozen yogurts for a year to the tourney prize list.

Then they said that for anyone bringing in the ad from the program book, 25% of their purchase will be donated to the WSA.

I assume Sweet Frog has a pretty good product — after all, they’re wildly successful in other places.

But I do know for sure that they’ve “kick”-started their presence in Westport in a big, friendly way.

Fulfilling Families

In 2003, Mark and Kim Mathias celebrated their 1st year in Westport. They loved the town, but missed the racial diversity of Los Angeles.

ABC logoFriends Ivan and Sharon Fong listened with interest. Both were on the board of A Better Chance of Westport. They described ABC’s mission — “giving motivated, outstanding minority youth the opportunity to achieve their dreams through education” — and suggested the Mathiases be a host family.

It was a great idea. A decade later, the family remains passionately involved.

(Host families provide a home away from the North Avenue residence every Sunday, and 1 weekend a month. ABC scholars participate in regular family activities —  meals, movies, even chores.)

“We were very impressed by the courage these 13- and 14-year-old young men showed, leaving the comfort of their families to strive for a better education and opportunity in Westport,” Kim says.

“I was particularly intrigued by the culture shock I was sure these youth would feel, and how they handled it. ABC offers impressive support, but not everyone can handle the academic rigor, the congregate living, the rules, the fish bowl, the standing out in a high pressure community.”

The current ABC scholars (from left): Adrian, Christopher, Ruben, Rhyse, Khaliq, Luis and Thomas.

The current ABC scholars (from left): Adrian, Christopher, Ruben, Rhyse, Khaliq, Luis and Thomas.

Savion Agard was 13 he when arrived as a freshman in Westport. The Mathiases’ daughter Nicole was 6.

“We knew there would be adjustments, but Savion was to be treated as a member of the family — not a guest we entertained,” Kim recalls.

“In our family we say grace before meals. At the end of the prayer we give each other a light kiss. I was concerned about how Savion would feel.”

Nicole defused any discomfort when she blew him a kiss across the table. The ice was broken.

Savion proved a great fit for the family.

“He was easy-going — probably too easy-going when it came to his studies in the first year or so,” Kim reports.

Eventually, he found his way academically and socially.  An older ABC scholar introduced Savion to rugby, which gave him a great group of friends and plenty of confidence.

When Savion Agard graduated from Cornell, the Mathias family was there. From left: Kim, Nick, Savion, Nicole and Mark.

When Savion Agard graduated from Cornell University in 2011, the Mathias family was there. From left: Kim, Nick, Savion, Nicole and Mark.

“We watched Savion mature from a somewhat overwhelmed freshman trying to figure out how to manage his studies and all the ABC expectations placed on him, to a sophomore more comfortable with his ‘I’m not from here’ persona, to a junior who was comfortable at Staples, to a senior who had made friends and found a place for himself in the Class of 2007,” Kim says.

When a 2nd-grade friend saw a family photo and asked who Savion was, Nicole said, “That’s my big brother Savion.” The little girl wondered why he was a different color.

Instantly, Nicole replied, “You don’t have to be the same color to be a family.”

Kim was thrilled. “Neither Mark nor I had ever said those words to Nicole. She just knew it, because that was what we were living.”

A year after Savion became Nicole’s big brother, she became a big sister to her foster (now adopted) brother Nick. He and Savion developed a special relationship. It deepened after graduation.

When Savion returned to Westport to visit or work, he lived with Mathiases. The kids treated him as a rock star, racing to tackle him as he walked through the door. He calls every birthday and Christmas. Email and Facebook enable constant communication.

Some of the ABC alumni gathered for a reunion. Many visit Westport whenever they can.

ABC alumni gather for a reunion. Many visit Westport whenever they can.

After Savion went on Cornell — he’s now an IT headhunter in California — the Mathiases tried to adjust to not having a high school student in the house. (Helping him move to college, and visiting him regularly, proved to be great practice for when the Mathiases own kids are that age, Mark noted.)

In 2010, ABC asked if the Mathiases would again be a host family. They asked Savion what he thought. “Being part of your family was the highlight of my experience with ABC,” he said. The Mathiases were thrilled.

Their closeness with Savion made them concerned about replicating the experience — until they met Khaliq.

“We realized he would be a wonderful addition to our family too,” Kim says. “What a testament to ABC that they find such fine young men.”

Khaliq joins Nick, Kim, Nicole and Mark Mathias for an Easter family portrait.

Khaliq joins Nick, Kim, Nicole and Mark Mathias for an Easter family portrait.

Like Savion, Khaliq is strongly motivated.

“I attended one of the best middle schools in Georgia. I could probably go to one of the best high schools in Georgia too,” he told friends of the Mathiases.

“But when you realize that Georgia’s education system ranks 47th in the nation you think ‘big deal, my best-ranked school is  still in a school system that’s 47th in the US.  That’s when I thought maybe I should look elsewhere for my education.”

Kim says, “That’s impressive thinking at any age. It’s really impressive when you consider Khaliq was 13 years old.”

Khaliq’s academic transition to Westport was smooth. As a freshman he  dropped his free period, to add  Algebra 2.

By sophomore year Khaliq knew everyone, and everyone knew him. He was in a variety of clubs, played volleyball and  had an active social life.

This year, as a junior, Khaliq is a leader in student government and other school and extracurricular activities, while juggling what many would finding a crushing load of AP classes. Through it all, Kim says, “Khaliq maintains his balance, his cool, and his warm smile.”

When Savion Agard returned for last year's A Better Chance of Westport Dream Event, he visited the Mathiases -- and Khaliq.

When Savion Agard returned for last year’s A Better Chance of Westport Dream Event, he visited the Mathiases — and Khaliq.

The Mathiases’ journey with Khaliq continues to unfold. Nicole and Nick both call him their brother – sometimes still confounding classmates.

But there’s no confusion among the Mathiases, or anyone at ABC House. They know there are many ways to be a family.

(And many ways to be a host family — including substitutes, when the regular host family is away. ABC House is always on the lookout for more volunteers. For information, email radydian@optonline.net or nyates@post.harvard.edu.)

Happy Anniversary To Us!

Today, “06880” turns 4.

When I hurled that 1st post into cyberspace on March 6, 2009 — click here for that trip back in time — I thought I had a few things to say about Westport.

My biggest fear was not finding enough material to fulfill my goal: posting once a day.

I shouldn’t have worried.

"06880" helps Westport weather good times and bad.

“06880” helps Westport weather in good times and bad.

I did not foresee windstorms, hurricanes and blizzards. Great Cakes. Church Street. Newtown.

I knew there were amazing Westporters, doing incredible things. I didn’t realize I’d find so many of them. They paint and preach and run 86 flights up the Empire State Building. They run for office, and run our town.

They drive too.  Though not very well.

Four years ago, I envisioned an ongoing “06880” conversation. I hoped there would be some interesting back-and-forth. I had no idea dudes like The Dude would wade in with such gusto, commenting and opining and inciting near riots.

It’s been a wild ride. In 4 years I’ve posted over 2,600 times — an average of well over twice a day.

Commenters on "06880" have called this man a socialist and a bully.. Whatever.

Commenters on “06880” have called this man a socialist and a bully.. Whatever.

You’ve made more than 30,000 comments — an average of more than 10 per post.

For me, it’s a labor of love.

And time.

As “06880” has grown, so have the hours I spend on it.

There’s writing, sure. But also interviewing, researching, responding to comments (public and private), taking and sizing and framing photos, and scouring the web for appropriate (and occasionally inappropriate)  graphics.

I spend a few bucks, too. I pay to keep “06880” ad-free. I pay for domain mapping. I pay for photo-editing software.

So, once a year — on my anniversary — I put out my tin cup.

If you like what you read, please consider supporting “06880.”

A suggested donation to "06880."

A suggested donation to “06880.”

Am I worth $1 a month?  $1 a week?  Perhaps (my choice!) $1 a day.

If you think “06880″ deserves 10 cents a day, that’s only $36.50. (If you think it’s worth more — and you can afford more — well, who am I to argue?)

I hope if “06880” has ever

  • made you  laugh, cry, think or wonder
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  • kept you up to date in a blizzard, hurricane, windstorm or power outage
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— you will considering tossing something my way.

Can't we all just get along?

Can’t we all just get along?

Republicans: Think of me as a small (ho ho) businessman doing his best.

Democrats: Help a non-union worker get some benefits.

Libertarians: You won’t find a “Comments” section like ours anywhere else in the world.

Thanks for 4 great years.  I’ll keep doing what I’m doing, whether anyone sends an anniversary gift or not.

But it would be nice.

You can donate by PayPal: click here, then click “Transfer” and select “Send Someone Money” from the drop-down menu, and enter this email address:  dwoog@optonline.net.  You don’t even need a PayPal account!

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Full-Day K Back On The Table

The always contentious issue of full-day kindergarten is back.

At yesterday’s Board of Education meeting, the topic of moving to 5 full days of kindergarten rose up during a discussion of K-5 instructional minutes, and special area scheduling.

There were passionate comments on both sides of the issue.

Kindergarten kidA 2nd meeting for further Board discussion — including public comment — is set for March 18 (7:30 p.m., Staples High School cafeteria). A vote will be taken April 8.

This is a hot topic, particularly among parents of young children. Click “Comments” to add your thoughts, in advance of the Board of Ed meeting.

Baayork Lee Helps Staples Players At The Ballet

Staples Players strives to offer audiences Broadway-quality productions.

To do that, director David Roth gives his actors Broadway-quality experiences.

Two years ago, before “Curtains,” Tony Award-winner Rupert Holmes told the cast how he wrote the play.

Last year, for “Into the Woods,” Tony winner Joanna Gleason described her role in that Stephen Sondheim show.

Last week — with rehearsals for “A Chorus Line” kicking into high gear — Roth welcomed Baayork Lee to the stage.

Talk about one singular sensation!

Baayork Lee, hard at work with the Staples Players. (Photo by Kerry Long)

Baayork Lee, hard at work with the Staples Players. (Photo by Kerry Long)

Lee first danced professionally at age 5, in Yul Brynner’s “The King and I.” She gained fame in “Flower Drum Song,” “Golden Boy” and “Promises, Promises.”

But “A Chorus Line” was — and still is — her true love. She was assistant choreographer to Michael Bennett; he based the character of Connie Wong on her, after she participated in the development workshops.

Lee danced in the original Broadway company — where she met Bradley Jones, the 1975 Staples grad who co-choreographs Players’ current spectacular production. She also toured with it, in Europe and South America.

In the high school auditorium last week, she sat with the cast and crew to talk about the show that remains so dear to her heart.

Baayork Lee (center), surrounded by appreciative and enthralled Staples Players. (Photo by Kerry Long)

Baayork Lee (center), surrounded by appreciative and enthralled Staples Players. Bradley Jones kneels in front, next to her. (Photo by Kerry Long)

“I care deeply about passing along the ‘Chorus Line’ tradition, with integrity, passion and care,” she told 100 or so high school students

“You are a very special group. This show changed the face of theater. Now you too will be able to pass on Michael Bennett’s legacy, to a new generation that watches you perform.”

Lee told the teenagers about the New York of the 1970s — the cradle from which “Chorus Line” grew. She described the 2 taping sessions Bennett held, gathering tales of 52 prospective dancers.

She talked about disco dancing every night, then coming back with new steps to incorporate into the show.

It took a lot of hard work — but “A Chorus Line” made history.

If your browser does not link directly to the YouTube video below, click here.)

Before dancing with the cast on stage — and giving them Broadway-and-Bennett-style critiques — Lee told the enthralled teenagers:

“When you’re a pioneer, you don’t know you’re blazing a trail. At the time, we did not realize the difference we made in theater.

“Appreciate everything you do,” Lee concluded. “Appreciate the moment you are in. You never know when it will end.”

For Staples Players, the moment begins March 15. It ends March 23.

But thanks to people like Baayork Lee and Bradley Jones, they’ll carry “A Chorus Line” with them the rest of their lives.

Their audiences will, too.

(“A Chorus Line” shows are Friday and Saturday, March 15, 16, 22 and 23, at 7:30 p.m.; Sunday, March 17 at 3 p.m., and Thursday, March 21 at 7 p.m. Click here for tickets and more information.)

If You See This Driver — Well, He Won’t See You

Spotted in the Westport Library parking lot yesterday:

Westport car

And if you’re wondering: Yes, the driver’s side of this almost new car was filled with just as much crap stuff as the passenger side.

Westport Arts Center Eyes Jesup Green

You may have missed this, because the Westport News story came out during schools’ February vacation.

While you were off in Aspen or Anguilla, Paul Schott wrote that the Westport Arts Center wants to move from its 3,600-square-foot Riverside Avenue home, to a 10,000-square-foot building next to the Westport Library.

Where exactly?

To the only space available there: Jesup Green.

The gallery and classrooms would create “a cultural campus” downtown, on the river. The WAC has hired architect Henry Myerberg, who is also designed the library’s “transformation” renovation.

The arts center would like a 99-year lease of Jesup Green, Schott reported. The project would include “burrowing” Taylor parking lot into part of the green. That current riverside lot would be replaced with “greenery.”

The new WAC — which officials hope to begin constructing in 2015 — would cost between $5 million and $7 million. Three donors have already pledged several million dollars, Schott reported.

In the summer, the Westport Public Library lends croquet, bocce and badminton equipment, for use on adjacent Jesup Green.

In the summer, the Westport Public Library lends croquet, bocce and badminton equipment, for use on adjacent Jesup Green.

It’s an exciting concept — and it comes at a time when major redevelopment plans are afoot for the entire downtown area.

But a number of questions have been raised.

  • Aesthetically, how will the area change? Will a new “green” on the flat current parking lot look as nice as gently sloping Jesup Green — with mature trees — does now? What happens when a 10,000-square-foot building — and “burrowed” parking — gets added to the mix?
  • How about traffic flow? What happens to parking when the library and WAC have big events simultaneously?
  • Speaking of the library, where will its major fundraiser — the Summer Book Sale — go?
  • What other options has the WAC looked at? (I already know what certain commenters will say: “Winslow Park!”)

This is the 1st major change to Jesup Green in years — since the library moved next door, in fact. (And eliminated a road that sliced directly through the green — who remembers that?)

Once upon a time, Jesup Green was bordered by a Little League field — and the town dump. Controversial landfill — and construction of the library, Levitt Pavilion and Riverwalk — have enhanced that area immeasurably.

Will a new Westport Arts Center do the same?

Let the debate begin.

Vote For Westport; Win $10,000

Congress might be unable to decide what to do about $85 billion in sequestration funds. But Westporters — and Westport fans — don’t have to dither about money.

In fact, just by clicking here, you can help us win $10,000. If When we win, those funds go straight to a charity of our choice.

Make a  Difference DayIt’s part of the Make A Difference Day National Award. The prize money comes from the Gannett Foundation, and USA Weekend.

We’re up against communities in Pennsylvania, Florida,Texas and Colorado.

Here’s what USA Today says about Westport, and our participation in the local Make A Difference Day:

In their 17th year of participation, 1,500 residents from this town of 26,000 rallied to help struggling neighbors. A total of 19 projects — ranging from clearing nature trails to packing “comfort bags” for abused women — were carried out that day.

Make A Difference Day “has become part of our culture,” says project chairwoman Barbara Pearson-Rac. “It’s what Westport does in October.”

The town won the National Make A Difference Day Award in 2006. This time around, Girl Scouts crafted toys for guide dogs. Boy Scouts hauled debris off an island in Long Island Sound. A crew of SLOBs, the Service League of Boys, planted flowers to beautify a women’s shelter. Builders Beyond Borders created a community garden in a poor area of neighboring Bridgeport.

Making a Difference in the Memorial Day parade.

Making a Difference in the Memorial Day parade.

Halloween was happier for needy kids served by the Family & Children’s Agency of Norwalk — including six siblings whose home was flooded by Hurricane Sandy — thanks to a collection of at least 150 costumes by Westport elementary schools. Volunteers also donated 600 pairs of socks for the agency’s homeless clients.

Food was a special focus because “pantries were empty,” says Pearson-Rac. Stationed outside a Stop & Shop market on Make A Difference Day, Sunrise Rotary Club members asked shoppers to buy peanut butter and canned goods for the Homes With Hope homeless shelter. Five SUV loads were delivered, amazing CEO Jeff Wieser. “Boy, did that move the needle at our pantry!” he says. “This was the biggest single-day food drive I’ve seen. Westport is a small town with a huge heart.”

Inspired? Here’s the link again to help us win $10,000, to be given away as we choose:  click here.

One vote per person per day is allowed.

Tickets For Bill Meyer Tribute Still Available

A number of “06880” readers were so inspired by reading about Bill Meyer in this morning’s post, they want to attend his tribute next Sunday (March 10, 3 p.m., Christ & Holy Trinity Church).

Tax-deductible tickets are $25 each. They are available from Pat Scully at the Selectman’s Office in Town Hall, and Sue Pfister at the Senior Center, as well as online at http://thankyoubillmeyer.eventbrite.com. Any funds left after expenses will go to charities of Bill’s choice.