Monthly Archives: March 2011

Take A Chance On A Better Chance

US Open tickets.  A penthouse at Steamboat.  A chauffeured limo ride to, and backstage tour of, Z-100’s “Morning Show.”

Admit it.  You’ve always wanted at least one of those things.

No?  How about 4 house seats to Blue Man Group — anywhere in the US.  A sunset cocktail cruise on a 50-foot boat on Long Island Sound.  A 3-course meal, cooked personally at your house by chef Pascal Fuchs.

Come on.  You know you want it.

Now you can get it (or them) — perhaps without leaving home.

They’re just some of the dozens of items offered at the ABC House online auction.  It’s a major fundraiser for A Better Chance — one of Westport’s major organizations — and it’s a major way to do good while having a good time.

A party with a live band, plus hors d’oeuvres for 50.  Publishing professionals to read your work and offer editorial comments (no more than 500 pages).  VIP tickets to live TV shows like “Regis and Kelly” and “Late Night With Jimmy Fallon.”

Online bidding is now underway; it ends at 11:59 p.m. on March 25.  The next night, all high bids become the starting bid at ABC’s “Dream Event” annual gala.  To bid, click here.

Shadow chef Matt Storch for a day in his Match restaurant kitchen.  Be coached by jazz/gospel singer Chris Coogan — and record a demo in his studio.  Artwork.  Three 1-hour sessions with college consultant Amy Schafrann.

And the big one:  Hire the Staples boys soccer team for a birthday party, group or individual lessons, or anything else you want.



Baking For Japan — En Espanol

If you needed a reminder of how interconnected the world has become, try this:

When 3 Staples freshmen planned a bake sale to aid Japan — 1 of the girls is half-Japanese, and lived there for years — CNN decided it was an excellent story.

The international news network sent a camera crew to Westport, filmed a story on the importance of teenagers taking relief efforts into their own hands — and conducted the interview in Spanish.  It ran Tuesday on CNN Español. The girls sounded great.

[cnnvideo url=’http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/spanish/2011/03/15/hauser.us.cookies.4japan.cnn’ inline=’true’]

Alice McDonald is the 9th grader whose family recently moved here from her mother’s native Japan.  Alice left behind many friends and relatives.

Shortly after the massive earthquake and tsunami hit, she and  classmates Rachel Paul and Jennifer Mastrianni knew they had to do something.

They designed a series of bake sales — and more.  They named their project AidJapan 2011.  They created a website and Facebook page, and asked friends and family members to bake.  Many have already volunteered.

The first bake sale is this Saturday (March 19) in front of People’s United Bank (1790 Post Road East) from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. The girls will deliver the money directly to the Japanese Consulate in New York, for immediate distribution to the Japanese Red Cross.

Congratulations, girls.  Felicidades, las niñas.

Or, as they say in Japan:  おめでとう、女の子

(The trio is also accepting checks, written to the Japan Society of Fairfield County and marked “Earthquake Relief.” Checks can be mailed to the Japan Society of Fairfield County, c/o 140 Field Point Road #8, Greenwich, CT 06830. All gifts are tax-deductible.)

Breaking News — Tyler Hicks And Lynsey Addario Missing In Libya

Westport natives Tyler Hicks and Lynsey Addario are  missing in Libya.

The 2 photographers were in a group of 4 New York Times journalists whose last contact with editors was yesterday.  Executive editor Bill Keller said that Libyan authorities are trying to locate the group.

“We are grateful to the Libyan government for their assurance that if our journalists were captured they would be released promptly and unharmed,” Keller said.

Also missing  are Pulitzer-Prize-winning reporter Anthony Shadid — the newspaper’s Beirut bureau chief — and Stephen Farrell, a reporter and videographer.

Both Tyler (Staples Class of ’88) and Lynsey (Staples  ’91) won Pulitzer Prizes for their Times work.  Lynsey also received a MacArthur “genius” award.

“Their families and their colleagues at The Times are anxiously seeking information about their situation, and praying that they are safe,” Keller said.

The Westport (Ireland) Country Playhouse

Did you know there’s a Westport Country Playhouse in Ireland, too?

Amazingly, it looks just like ours here in Westport — except it’s green, not red:

Okay, that’s a bit o’ blarney.

The special effect was created by Alysia Miller of the Westport Country Playhouse patron services staff.

The one in Connecticut, to be sure.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

Senior Moments

Daylight Savings means several things:  Time to turn the clocks ahead.

Time to change smoke detector batteries.

In Westport, time for Staples seniors to change those batteries for senior citizens, as a public service.

And — at least as importantly — time to make human connections between high school seniors and demographic seniors.

This year’s event — part of Staples’ Senior Cares community service project — was a huge success.  To see how seriously the high schoolers took it, understand that more than 2 dozen of them got up — on a Sunday — at the ungodly-for-teenagers hour of 9 a.m.  (Really, it was 8 a.m. — Daylight Savings started that day.  Duh.)

Adam Yormark helped organized Staples Cares...

They met at Staples, got their assignments (plus t-shirts and breakfast — thanks, PTA!), and moved into action.

The action included changing clocks as well as smoke detectors, and attending to other small  tasks.  But this was one time when actions did not speak louder than words.  The students spent quality time at each house — while working, and afterward — talking, listening and connecting.

Junior Bieling was one of the hosts.  Over the course of nearly an hour he talked about his own time at Staples, many years ago.  He spoke with pride of not having missed a high school football or basketball game since 1947 or so — until this year, when illness kept him away.

At another stop an artist talked about her career.  When it was time to leave she gave Adam Yormark — the Senior Cares founder — a copy of one of her watercolors.

Adam created the project last spring.  Spurred by principal John Dodig’s request that juniorsreach out to the community, he recalled a recent visit to his grandmother in Florida.

Adam had done the usual things — moving furniture, pulling weeds — but had an “aha!” moment when he reset and hung a clock high up on a wall.  It was easy for him — but something his grandmother could not even attempt.

Adam got names of senior citizens through Town Hall.  He gathered friends, made a trial run, then got rolling for real.  The reaction of a woman with Parkinson’s — who was overcoming her illness with tenacity and grace — convinced him he was on to something important.

...and Freja Andrews, Gwen Moyer and Jenna Chusid all joined in.

Staples English teacher Dan Geraghty got involved when Dodig described his goal for the Class of 2011:  to develop a “legacy project” that would begin a new tradition for all senior classes.

“Through public service, students truly apply all of the core lessons they’ve learned about being a member of a community,” Geraghty says.

“Staples students care about the world beyond the walls of the school.  I am amazed by the students here — they are kind, confident, and ready to have a positive impact on their world.”

Sunday was a great display of the willingness with which Staples students give back to their community.

But, Geraghty says, “I think the senior citizens gave the volunteers so much more.”

(Staples participants included Freja Andrews, Andreas Bub, Jay  Cawley, Jenna Chusid, Francisco Delgado, Ben Freeman, Sabrina Friend, Madeline Gelfand, Ross Gordon, Augustine Gradoux-Matt, Emily Harris, Kelly Harris, Madison Kashetta, Ksenia Krichevsky, Farrel Levenson, Mario Lisanti, Eryn Lorberbaum, Perry Lorberbaum, Britt Mooney, Gwen Moyer, Andrew Myers, Caroline Nantz, Molly Rudinger, Jack Smith, Alex Soderstrom, Briyana Theodore and Adam Yormark.)

Happy Birthday, Esta Burroughs

Esta Freedman’s mother left Poland for Ellis Island at 17.  Esta’s father worked in the gold mines of South Africa as a teenager.  He stowed away on a US-bound ship, but gambled away his nest egg before it docked.

Esta Freedman at 17...

Esta was born in Cambridge, Mass. in 1913.  She and her 4 siblings shared a room.  At 17, she left home for New York.

A chance meeting in the subway led to a meeting with Bernie Burroughs, an illustrator.  They hit it off.  Soon they eloped.  They lived in Greenwich Village, then Neptune, N.J.  In 1946 their son Miggs was born.

Bernie’s artist friends were moving to Connecticut.   The Burroughses followed:  to Stamford in 1948, then Westport in 1950 when their 2nd son Tracy was born.

Bernie and Esta quickly joined the local artists and writers’ circle, making friends with the likes of Howard Munce, Tracy Sugarman, Max Shulman, Evan Hunter, John G. Fuller and their families.

Bernie played poker; Esta, bridge.  They entertained often, and went to parties.  At some, couples put car keys in a bowl, and drove home with the owner of whichever set they pulled out.  Esta says she and Bernie always left before that happened.

She wrote articles for local newsletters.  Then she met Sidney and Esther Kramer.   They were opening a bookstore, called Remarkable — the name included “Kramer” spelled backwards — and asked her to join them.

The Remarkable Book Shop. Today it's Talbots. (Photo/Fred Cantor)

Esta stayed in the iconic pink building on Main Street — working in the warren of rooms, loving the tall stacks of books, sloping floors and comfy chairs — until the day it closed.

She also partnered with Pat Fay — running tag sales as “Those 2 Girls” — but her Remarkable work really defined Esta Burroughs for generations of Westporters.

She waited on Paul Newman, Liz Taylor, Bette Davis, Keir Dullea, Christopher Plummer and Patty Hearst.  She also massaged the egos of many local authors, who visited constantly to check on sales of their books.

An avid reader, Esta enjoyed meeting writers.  The opportunity to read any title was a great perk — and a huge advantage for customers.  They asked countless questions about books.  She answered them all.

After Remarkable closed, Esta worked at the Save the Children Gift Shop.  Until recently she volunteered at the Westport Historical Society.

Today, Esta Burroughs turns 98.  The Remarkable Book Shop is long gone.  So are Paul Newman, Bette Davis — and key parties.

But Esta remembers them all, quite clearly.  Those memories are all part of her 6 decades in Westport — and her much-loved, seldom-acknowledged contributions to our town.

...Esta Burroughts, almost 98.

Once On This Island

Leave it to Staples Players to produce “Romeo and Juliet” — with a Caribbean twist.

“Once on This Island”takes over Toquet Hall this Friday (8 p.m.) and Saturday (5 and 8 p.m.).

It’s an intriguing show — there’s catchy music, great dancing, dynamic characters, amazing costumes, and of course the age-old question:  love or death?

Senior directors Kathryn Durkin and Greg Langstine had to work within the tight confines of Toquet Hall.  It wasn’t easy squeezing a cast of 23 (and an 8-person pit orchestra) on a small stage, then making music and magic happen.

But they did it.  Players always does it.  Check out the sneak peek below:

(Tickets will be sold at Toquet Hall 30 minutes before each show.)

Westport’s Own Boys In The Band

When Doug Tirola grew up in Westport, an early video store — The Video Station — sat behind Carvel.  Pickings were slim, so he rented just about everything.

Including “The Boys in the Band.”

The groundbreaking 1970 film — like its predecessor, a 1968 Broadway play, it brought gay characters and situations to a mainstream audience — may not have been completely understood by young Doug.

But he loved it.  Over the years he saw it several more times.  The friendships and relationships between the men stayed with him; the writing was funny, intelligent and memorable.

Fast forward (ho ho) to today.  Doug and fellow Staples graduate Susan Bedusa head up a New York company — 4th Row Films — producing documentaries and TV series.

A few years ago at the Tribeca Film Festival, they met Crayton Robey.  He was pitching something to be included with the 40th anniversary DVD release of “Boys in the Band.”

Susan knew very little about “Boys in the Band.”  However, she understood the challenges and struggles involved in making a movie.  Crayton’s passion for the project sold her.

The next day, Susan and Doug called Crayton.  They said they’d help him get the movie made — but as its own film, not a DVD extra.  The result — “Making The Boys” — opened in New York last Friday.

Tomorrow Wednesday (March 16, 7:30 p.m.), there’s a special showing at Stamford’s Avon Theatre.

Though gay issues — same-sex marriage, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” California’s Prop 8 — are all over the news, Doug and Susan were not trying to seize the political moment.  They saw an important movie to be made, and they made it.

In between its 1968 stage debut and its 1970 release as a film, the world underwent seismic change.  Smack in the middle, in 1969, came the Stonewall riots — the 1st roar of the gay rights revolution.

Some of the same people who praised the play picketed the movie.  They said it reinforced stereotypes of gay men.

“Making the Boys” meets that controversy head on.  It’s rich with interviews with gay culture icons like Larry Kramer, Terence McNally and Tony Kushner.  (Edward Albee is also interviewed.  He hated the film from the start.)

The film also explores the impact — a few years later — of AIDS.  Several “Boys in the Band” cast members succumbed to the disease.

It could sound like “Making the Boys” has a niche audience.  But the producers don’t think so.

Besides gays and lesbians, and Broadway and film buffs, Doug and Susan say they’ve made a film for anyone interested in American history.

“The surprise of our film is how much it’s about the struggle to get out there and pursue a dream,” Susan says.

More than 4 decades ago Mart Crowley — a kid from Mississippi, with no connections to anyone in the entertainment business — wrote a play that still commands attention.

Crowley himself — along with Doug, Susan and Crayton — will be in Stamford for Wednesday’s showing.  Afterward they’ll host a Q-and-A with audience members.

“The love that dare not speak its name” will be spoken about, loud and clear.

(Tickets for Wednesday’s “Making the Boys” showing and  post-film discussion are $10 general admission, $8 for seniors and students.  To purchase tickets, call 203-661-0321.  For more information, click here.)

One Year Ago Today

What a difference a year makes!

 

 

Where were you a year ago this weekend?  How have you fared since the storm?  Click “Comments,” and let us know!

Coffee Shop Courtesy

So this guy at the near-the-diner Starbucks spreads all these documents and notebooks one comfy chair.  He sits in the other nice one, working on his laptop.  From the looks of things he’s been there a while, like since he first started his consulting project or novel or whatever.

Serene on the outside. Inside, it's every man for himself.

I ask if I can move his junk stuff Very Important Research.  He gives me that look that intimidates women and children.  But I’m a guy, so I just glare back.  I move his crap portable desk, and sit down.

I whip out my iPhone, check headlines and weather and e-mail, drink my coffee and leave.  Mr. Big Tough Guy keeps tapping away.  He’s probably still there.

Which brings me to today’s “06880” civility questions.  The topic is: “What is proper Starbucks etiquette?”

  • Is it okay to turn the place into your own office?
  • If so, can you commandeer one of the few comfortable chairs, or should you cede those to customers who don’t nurse 1 small regular coffee through 3 consecutive barista shifts?
  • When you take a bathroom break, can you save your (nice) seat by leaving your laptop on it, and strewing other personal possessions around it?
  • If the music is too loud for you to concentrate, are you within your rights to ask an employee to turn it down?  How about telling people at the next table to pipe down — thumbs up or not?
  • If you settle in to Starbucks every day for hours at a time, is there a moral obligation toss money in the “Tips” jar?  If so, how much and how often?

These are important questions, as every Starbucks-going Westporter knows.  Click “Comments” to add your 2 cents.