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Fairfield County Aid, From Near & Far

Connecticut leads the nation in income inequality. The top 1 percent of our residents earn average incomes more than 48 times those of the bottom 99 percent. In Fairfield County, the figures are undoubtedly even more skewed.

Quietly — but very effectively — Near & Far Aid helps those on the lowest rungs.

NearFar_logoSince 2000, the unassumingly named, all-volunteer organization has donated more than $14 million to men, women and children living in poverty right in our midst.

Grants go to services providing emergency food, shelter and clothing; economy security programs like job training, financial literacy and affordable housing, and of course education.

The funds come from neighbors who contribute generously — very generously. But raising money is never easy. With tremendous competition from many worthy groups for donations, Near & Far Aid works hard to solicit funds.

They’re helped greatly by the generosity of the Mitchells. The  family — who offer up their store for nearly every charity that asks — holds a special place in their hearts for Near & Far Aid. For 20 years, they’ve hosted an amazing Spring Gala.

Sara BareillesThis year’s event is Friday, March 6. The highlight: an intimate concert with 5-time Grammy nominee Sara Bareilles. There are also live, silent and fine wine auctions; a spring fashion show, plus cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and supper.

As usual, Bob Mitchell — co-CEO of Mitchells and Richards — will be a “silent” event chair. He lends support, ideas and resources, but takes no credit.

“We truly cherish our 20-year partnership with Near & Far Aid,” Mitchell says. “Our family shares the same mission to give back to the less fortunate, particularly here in our community. We are so excited for this year’s 20th anniversary. We’re confident it will raise a record amount of funds, bringing relief, assistance and hope to those living in poverty.”

The “wealth gap” in this area is enormous. The consequences are real.

But the opportunity to help is priceless.

(For information on Spring Gala tickets, or to volunteer or make a donation, click here.)

The Mitchell family

The Mitchell family

 

Dave Elgart: “Southern Hospitality Exists In Westport”

Most Fridays starting at age 7, Dave Elgart took a taxi — by himself — to Grand Central. He’d buy a ticket, and board a train. His father — divorced from Dave’s mother — would meet him in Westport. They’d spend the weekend here; then Dave would return — alone — to New York.

The routine continued from 1955 to 1962. That year Dave’s dad moved away. Soon, Dave’s mother moved to West Virginia.

Dave joined the Navy, earned a master’s, became a partner his 1st year at Bear Stearns, and moved way up the financial services ladder.

But — more than 50 years later — the pull of Westport is strong. A couple of weekends ago, Dave found himself at an industry conference in Greenwich.

David and Barbara Elgart.

David and Barbara Elgart.

He lives in Atlanta now. Except for a trip to a Turtles concert at the Westport Country Playhouse, he had not returned. His wife Barbara had never even been to New England.

So they drove up the Merritt, to revisit the town of his youth.

One of the first places Dave wanted to see was a store his father had once co-owned. Called the House of Buys, it sat next to a gas station he remembered was owned by Joe DeMattia.

The House of Buys lasted only a few years. The spot is now occupied by Torno Hardware. DeMattia’s service station was in business much longer — until just a year or so ago. It’s now being renovated into a Wheels store, next to Target Training.

As a teenager, Dave bought his first suit at a new men’s shop called Ed Mitchell’s. That tiny spot — now a People’s bank near Planet Pizza — has grown into the the luxury Mitchells of Westport store. Dave found Jack, Ed’s son.

The original Ed Mitchell's, on the corner of the Post Road (State Street) and North Compo Road.

The original Ed Mitchell’s, on the corner of the Post Road (State Street) and North Compo Road.

They talked for a long time. “He was a font of history,” Dave says. “And the store is amazing. They fawn over you, even if you don’t buy anything.”

Dave’s visit here was filled with similar propitious encounters. “The people could not have been nicer,” he says. “Everywhere we turned, they were so wonderful and kind. Southern hospitality definitely exists in Westport.”

Some places remain the same. The railroad station — where he spent so much time — looks no different (though the pot-bellied stove is gone).

Other places have changed. The state police barracks near the Sherwood Island Connector is now a Walgreens. There was no sign of a doctor he remembered, named Eldridge.

But the new Westport is as welcoming as Dave remembered the old. They ate dinner at Arezzo, where the owner “couldn’t have been nicer.”

Even Westport’s infamous drivers are “no crazier than in Atlanta,” Dave says.

“The roads aren’t great” here, he notes. But they’re “charming.” In fact, he calls the entire town “bucolic.”

Despite new construction, Westport looked "bucolic" to Dave Elgart.

Despite new construction, Westport looked “bucolic” to Dave Elgart.

Westport was “gorgeous,” Dave adds. “It’s even more beautiful than I remember it. It’s so much fun.”

Dave’s visit was so great, he and his wife will return this spring — with friends. They’ll tour the area, and take the train to New York to see a show.

It will be a reverse route than the one Dave was so used to taking, more than half a century ago. Of course, Metro-North has replaced the New York, New Haven & Hartford.

But sometimes, it seems, you can go home again.

Bill Mitchell’s Birthday Surprise

Every Saturday is “showtime” at Mitchells.

A steady stream of customers – from Brian Williams, Jack Welch and Jim Calhoun to your basic, everyday Joe Hedge Fund Manager and CEO — drops in. They grab a bagel, schmooze, and buy a suit or three.

Today was extra special. Bill Mitchell — son of founders Ed and Norma, father and uncle of the 3rd generation to run the store — turns 70 tomorrow.

The store was packed with well-wishers (and stocked with champagne and cake).

In the midst of all the A-Listers and heavy hitters, it was easy to overlook one older man.

But Walt Melillo was there too. He’s 90 now, but in 1958 he was the 1st non-family member hired by Ed and Norma.

Bill Mitchell (left) and Walt Melillo.

Bill Mitchell (left) and Walt Melillo.

Walt worked Friday nights and all day Saturdays . His real job was as an elementary school teacher (Saugatuck, then Burr Farms). In fact, both Bill and I were Walt’s students.

Today was a great day for Bill Mitchell. He was especially happy to share it with one of Westport’s most important — but seldom recognized — big, big names: Walt Melillo.

Finding Self-Esteem Through Fashion

It’s fashionable to tell teenagers: “Find and follow your passion.”

Zoe Cohen’s passion is fashion.

Over the past few years, Zoe — now a Staples senior — has taken 8 courses at the Fashion Institute of Technology. She’s studied fashion design, business, sewing and “inspiration.”

Zoe Cohen

Zoe Cohen

She’s worked at Mitchells. Most of her time is in customer service, but during an internship with the women’s buying office she went to New York, visiting Prada, Jimmy Choo and other high-end labels.

Zoe also interned at J. McLaughlin’s headquarters. Every Thursday, she took a train and 3 subways to Brooklyn.

This spring, her senior internship will be with Brunello Cucinelli.

Her main activity in Staples is the Teen Awareness Group. TAG raises awareness of the many compromising situations young people may face, and promotes healthy social decision-making.

One of the most persistent teenage problems is low self-esteem in girls.

Zoe realized the power that fashion holds over girls — positive as well as negative. She wondered how — with her interest in fashion — she could help.

She came up with a great idea: an interactive blog.

Then she taught herself how to create one.

The result is FashionEsteem.com.

A great pair of sunglasses "can make an outfit and lift your spirits," Zoe writes.

A great pair of sunglasses “can make an outfit and lift your spirits,” Zoe writes.

The site allows users to post photos of their favorite clothing, shoes, handbag or accessory, and describe how it makes them feel beautiful and confident. There is a question box, and “Tips of the Week” to help anyone dress in style.

“I feel so accomplished and confident after completing each inspiration board and design,” Zoe says.

“I want every female to feel this way. I believe that wearing something that you love has the power to make you feel special.”

A "Tip of the Week" describes scarves as the perfect accessory for any outfit.

A “Tip of the Week” describes scarves as the perfect accessory for any outfit.

On her blog, someone described a quilted jacket:

I like it because I can wear it any time of the year,especially when I’m feeling lazy and don’t want to put a whole outfit together. This coat makes me feel glamorous without a lot of effort!

It’s perfect to throw over any sweater, and the color is just dark enough to go with pretty much anything in my closet. It adds a little preppy-ness to any of my outfits, which is a huge part of my style. I love how chic the quilted looks makes me feel!

Feedback has been good. “People love learning new ideas for their wardrobe, and how to have fun,” Zoe says.

FashionEsteem.com is hard work — and Zoe works hard.

Hopefully, she feels very, very good about all she has done — and about herself.

Gault Barns Make History

In its 3 decades of existence, Remarkable Book Shop made a remarkable impact on Westport.

As Mitchells celebrates its 55th anniversary, we marvel that the 4th generation of family members waits in the wings.

But those 2 town institutions have the life spans of fruit flies, compared to Gault.

Westport’s oldest family-owned  business is 150 years young this year.

You want a historical reference? It was founded two years before Abraham Lincoln won his battle to pass the 13th Amendment. You know — that ancient event Steven Spielberg is about to win multiple Oscars for.

Gault logoOn Thursday, the company will kick off a year-long anniversary celebration. They’ll find many ways to honor their heritage — moving from a one-horse and wagon hauling enterprise, through freight hauling, grain threshing, seed supplies and lumber to coal, masonry supplies, home heating oil, and now biofuel, propane, electricity and standby generators — along with their century and a half of commitment to Westport.

While the details of the “150 Years of Community” celebration are hush-hush, one item is significant. The press event will be held at the Gault family’s historic Compo Road South barn.

That’s where the Connecticut Trust for Historic Preservation will announce that the Gault Barn — actually 3 barns, built from 1890 to 1913 — will be added to the State Register of Historic Places.

You’ve driven past the barns a jazillion times — they’re on the right, a half mile or so from the Post Road as you head to the beach.

The Gault Barns today. (Photo courtesy of Connecticut Trust for Historic Preservation)

The Gault Barns today. (Photo courtesy of Connecticut Trust for Historic Preservation)

But you may not know — I sure didn’t — that they are historic structures. Their timber frame construction reflects the building traditions of American farming.

A Connecticut Trust researcher says, “the Gault family showed uncommon ingenuity by integrating a variety of materials from their lines of business, including brick and stone masonry, into the barns to create a truly unique complex.”

The barns have endured since the time when wagons gave way to automobiles. That was the early 20th century — and the Gault company had already been around as long as Mario’s has now been a Westport fixture.

Beef steers in front of the Gault barn, winter of 1930.

Beef steers by the Gault barn, winter of 1930.

While many Westport barns have, um, bought the farm, the Gault family used theirs in evolving ways — to “support and take advantage of changes in the community over time, from dairy farming to lumber and feed grain, to coal and home heating delivery.”

The Gault barns are prized by historians and curators for their architectural bones and historical narrative. They’ve been lovingly preserved and maintained.

In fact, says the Connecticut Trust, they’re among the Top 10 historically significant barns in the state.

Big deal. The Gault family — and their company — have been #1 in service to Westport for decades longer than those barns have even existed.

A Long-Overdue Thank You

Bill Mitchell grew up in Westport. All his life, he’s seen Westport’s first responders do what they do best: respond.

Whatever the emergency — at the store his parents Ed and Norma founded; at the schools his 3 children attended; anywhere in town — he watched with appreciation as these men and women served our town.

For years, Bill has wanted to say “thank you.” Tonight, he did.

Bill Mitchell (left) greeted many first responders tonight, including police officer Ned Batlin.

Bill Mitchell (left) greeted many first responders tonight, including police officer Ned Batlin.

His store — Mitchells of Westport — hosted a small reception, honoring everyone who helped out during Hurricane Sandy. And Irene. And the windstorm. And every other emergency, large and small, that hits our town.

First selectman Gordon Joseloff noted that first responders include not only police officers, firefighters and EMTs. During the hurricane, we were served by Public Works, the Health District, Human Services, the library, and  CERT.

“This was not our first rodeo,” Joseloff said. “And there will be another.”

In the middle of the speeches, an emergency radio cackled.

Those guys are always on the job.

Stop And Shop Here

Here is what I did not do on (aptly named)  “Black Friday”:

  • I did not pepper-spray fellow shoppers to keep them from an Xbox I wanted.
  • I did not get into fistfights, or stab anyone.
  • I did not shoot anyone in a parking lot.

All that happened at Walmarts, from Milford, Connecticut to California.

Thank god we don’t have a Walmart in Westport.  Though, Lord knows, the soon-to-be vacant YMCA would be a great spot for one.  Talk about bringing action to downtown!

While Westport stores did not open at 10 p.m. Thanksgiving Day — we may be crazy about shopping, but we’re not lunatics — Main Street was mildly to moderately packed this weekend.  I didn’t see anyone I knew, though.  Maybe Yogi Berra was right:  Nobody goes there anymore.  It’s too crowded.

Thanksgiving weekend in downtown Westport.

I’m not sure what attracts out-of-towners to downtown Westport.  Banana Republic, Eileen Fisher, The Gap, J. Crew, Pottery Barn — those are not exactly unique stores.

Of course, there are plenty of local businesses.  And just as the farmers’ market focuses attention on home-grown bounty, this shopping season should spotlight Westport merchants.

No, Mitchell’s doesn’t weave its own cloth.  But here’s what they do:  They always step up to support Westport organizations.  Buy an ad for our program book?  Donate something to our auction?  Help out a kid in need, with no public recognition?

Sure!  Just tell us what you need! says Bill, Jack or any of the 3rd-generation Mitchells now running the store.

When was the last time — to pick a name out of a hat —  Brooks Brothers did something like that?

Steve Silver, in the store that bears his name.

Same with Silver’s.  And Silver Ribbon.  And Sally’s Place.  Think of how many times you’ve seen their ads in programs.  They support school plays, sports teams, every fundraising effort imaginable.

The farmer’s market supports local, sustainable agriculture.  This holiday season, let’s support local, sustainable businesses.

We don’t do all our shopping at farmer’s markets, of course.  Sometimes we go Stop & Shop.

You won’t find every gift at a locally owned store.  If you were to get me, say, a gift certificate for books, I’d recommend Barnes & Noble — it’s close, convenient, and we long ago drove every independent bookstore out of town.

All I’m saying is, stop before you shop.  This month, think about supporting the Westport merchants who, month after month and year after year, support Westport.

Just stay away from Walmart.  You may not make it out alive.

Vivek Nagrani Will Knock Your Socks Off

Ah, the job of an “06880” blogger.  One day it’s talking about dog poop; the next, it’s interviewing a sock and underwear designer to the stars.

Last Saturday, Vivek Nagrani was at Mitchells .  That’s the day the store buzzes with A and A+ celebrities — TV anchors, CEOs, UConn basketball coaches.  Nagrani was there to meet and greet.

Vivek Nagrani

Mitchells shoppers — plus movie stars, professional team owners and several US presidents — swear by Nagrani’s socks and underwear.  They’re pricey, sure  — but they also look and feel like no socks or underwear you’ve ever worn before.

Or so I’m told.

Nagrani — who was born in India, moved to Brooklyn as a young child, and graduated from USC in 1994 with a degree in business administration — is more than a supplier to Mitchells.  He is, he says, their #1 sock and underwear vendor.

And he and the family are good friends.

“Our philosophies are similar,” Nagrani says.  “We enjoy each other’s company, as well as business.”

Nagrani’s socks are orange, pink, red and teal.  They come in funky, whimsical patterns, like paw prints or flowers that are revealed only when a man sits and crosses his legs.  They have names:  Astaire, Villalobos, High Tide.

He makes only 312 pairs in any one color.  (The number is not mystical.  It’s all he could afford when he was starting out, and he’s not about to change.)

Nagrani is passionate about socks.  He is proud, he says, to have “changed the way men view a product they never really thought about, or even disregarded.”

Back in the day — the pre-Nagrani day — socks “always slid down,” he says.  “Now you can wear socks, and feel good.”

Former president George H.W. Bush wears Nagrani’s socks to the gym, he says.

He — Nagrani, not Bush — thoroughly enjoys hanging out at Mitchells.  “There’s an easy-going atmosphere here,” he says.  “An open-minded attitude about trying something new.  Red, green, pink socks — people thought they were ridiculous.  Now some of them own over 100 pairs.”

Many Mitchells customers work in “conservative environments,” Nagrani notes.  His socks serve as “a great ice-breaker.  They change the energy of meetings.”

Mitchells customers — and his own — are “the Joneses other people look up to.”  When men take off their shoes at airport security checkpoints, showing their Nagrani socks, presumably the Riffs and Raffs are impressed.

Throughout Saturday, Nagrani chatted with Mitchells’ Joneses.  He discussed upcoming  lines, got feedback, and learned from them about socks and underwear.

He had plenty of praise for the entire Mitchell family.

“The whole family has been so embracing to a guy like me,” Nagrani says.  “They’re so reflective of this community.  And they make a small vendor like me want to do as much as I can for them.”

So — I had to ask — what is Nagrani’s favorite sock?

“I can’t answer that,” he says.

“A man will match his sock to his trousers.  A gentleman will match his sock to his mood.

“The idea is to always have fun.  Getting dressed should be an experience.

“Small things make a big difference.  We remember the little things in life.”

Like socks.

Husky Hoops And Mitchells Suits

Jim Calhoun in a well-tailored suit...

When the UConn men’s basketball team takes on Kentucky tonight in the NCAA Final 4 — and the Husky women play Notre Dame tomorrow, in the Elite 8 — hoops fans around the country will watch the action closely.

When TV cameras zoom in on UConn coaches Jim Calhoun and Geno Auriemma, we’ll watch them jump up, gesticulate, shout and diagram plays.

Bill Mitchell will watch their suits.

He’s friends with both men.  And his store — Mitchells of Westport — is their clothier.

...Geno Auriemma also looks sharp...

Calhoun and Auriemma are regular customers at the Post Road shop — when they can get here.  This week, though, the Husky men were leaving for Houston.  Their coach needed to look sharp, so Mitchell hustled up to Storrs with a few new suits.

Then he took off for Texas too.  Thursday night, Mitchell joined another friend and customer — Westport’s Jim Nantz — at the CBS announcer’s fundraiser for an Alzheimer’s wing he contributed, in his father’s memory, at Methodist Hospital.

Westport joins the rest of Connecticut in wishing the UConn men and women good luck in their tournament runs.

Win, lose or draw though, we know their coaches will be the best-dressed men in the entire NCAA.

...and so does Jim Nantz. He has to. He's a sportscaster.

Mitchells, Stew Leonard’s Form “Strategic Partnership”

It’s not a merger, exactly.  But 2 of the area’s most famous — and successful — business families are entering into a “strategic partnership.”

The move — by Mitchells of Westport and Stew Leonard’s — may galvanize the local clothing and food scenes.

The agreement — “I guess ‘alliance’ is the best thing to call it,” Bill Mitchell says — is intended to cross-promote the 2 brands.  It will allow for innovative marketing techniques too, Mitchell explains.

It is not intended primarily to save money, though there may be some cost savings, Mitchell notes.

“We’ve known each other for years,” says Stew Leonard, Jr. — like Mitchell, the son of his company’s founder.

“We admire the way Mitchells has evolved and grown, while remaining true to its family and community roots,” Leonard adds.  “It became clear through casual conversations over the years that they feel the same way about us.”

Mitchell points to some of the possible cross-branding opportunities:  “We’ll have Stew’s bagels available every morning in our store, along with plenty of other treats from their bakery.

“Over there, although they already sell things like cashmere sweaters, we think we can provide a higher quality item.”

Certain details of the partnership remain to be worked out.  For example, whose shopping bags will be used?

Though plastic bags are illegal in Westport, Stew’s provides paper bags upon request.  Mitchells bags are fancier — but more expensive.

As for logos, Mitchell and Leonard batted around several taglines — “Silk with milk,” “Socks and lox”  and “A suit plus fruit” — but in the end opted for a simple redesign of the stores’ names.

In a nod to their shared “community spirit,” they’d like “06880” readers to weigh in.  The 2 new logo ideas are below; click here to register your vote — or comment on the exciting new partnership.