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Roundup: Synthetic Turf Fields Meeting, Pepperidge Farm Neglect, Jimmy Smits Fans …

One of the hot topics this summer will be synthetic turf fields.

Tonight (Tuesday, 7 p.m., Zoom), 2 Representative Town Meeting committees — Environment, and Health & Human Services — meet jointly, to discuss the topic.

It is the first of at least one or two similar meetings.

Members will not present or vote on an ordinance. The focus tonight will be on artificial turf, but they will also hear from someone with success working with grass fields.

Click here for materials that are part of the official agenda.  And click here for the Zoom link.

Wakeman Field (center) is one of 3 synthetic turf fields in Westport. The other athletic fields surrounding it are grass.

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Speaking of sports: The FCIAC (league) champion Staples High School boys lacrosse team is aiming now at a state championship. That double has not been accomplished since Darien did it in 2017. It’s never been done by the Wreckers.

Tomorrow (Wednesday) they take on New Canaan, in the “LL” semifinals. The game begins at 5 p.m., at Fairfield University.

Staples’ opponent is Darien — a team they’ve beaten 3 times already this year, including a nail-biting 10-9 FCIAC championship win.

The Wreckers are ranked 5th in the state tournament. In an odd twist — thanks to power rankings and records — the Rams are 1st.

Tickets are $11.25, and must be purchased online in advance. Click here for the link.

The Staples game is the first of the double-headed. The 7:30 pits Darien against Fairfield Prep. So no matter who wins either contest, an all-Fairfield County final is assured.

Staples celebrates their FCIAC title. (Photo/Greg Raymond)

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From 1947 until fairly recently, the Pepperidge Farm property on the Westport/Norwalk line was a magical place.

Some of America’s best loved treats were made there. And if you drove by at the right time, the smell of fresh-baked bread was intoxicating.

These days, the scene is quite different.

One of the most beautifully maintained and recognizable landscapes in the area has fallen into a state of neglect.

It has not been maintened for months. Trash, debris, weeds and overgrown grass and plants have taken over the lot. A king mattress and box spring sat in the parking lot for months.

Neighbors are concerned about ticks, and rodents burrowing in the tall grass.

One view of the old Pepperidge Farms property …

The Campbell’s Company⁠ (formerly Campbell Soup Company) owned the property for over 60 years, after acquiring Pepperidge Farm in 1961.

Last year they sold the property to a New York developer, TVG Partners, through an entity called 595 Westport LLC, for approximately $11 million. The developer has proposed redeveloping the site, while retaining some office space.

Westport Auction leased the front of the property in January 2026. The back of the property remains vacant.

Meanwhile, instead of closing eyes to luxuriate in the aroma of just-baked bread, folks close their eyes to avoid an unsightly mess.

… and another.

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Last night’s Westport Country Playhouse Script in Hand reading of “A Tailor Near Me” featured the popular actor Jimmy Smits.

How popular?

Playhouse and “06880” photographer Dave Matlow reports that after shooting the play’s rehearsal yesterday afternoon, he met twin sisters on the WCP steps.

Sharon Lowe and Norma Leyden are a few days away from their 74th birthday. For years, they have traveled throughout the US — including California, Chicago, Washington and Broadway — to watch Smits perform.

Sharon Lowe (left) and Norma Leyden. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

They live in the Boston area, and were vacationing on Nantucket. That’s where they first met Smits, 20 years ago.

They drove to Westport yesterday, to watch their favorite actor in the script reading. They were there after the show too, waiting for him to leave.

From the reviews we’ve heard, the sisters — and everyone else in the audience — got their money’s worth.

Matlow reports the comedy was completely sold out. It was written by Michael Tucker, best known as an “L.A. Law” actor. He was part of the reading last night, joined by 2 others from that TV show: Smits and Tucker’s wife, Jill Eikenberry.

This was the last Script in Hand production of the spring. The series resumes September 14.

Curtain call (from left): Jimmy Smits, Michael Tucker, Jill Eikenberry. (Photo/Dave Matlow)

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Two of Westport’s most interesting people are on stage tonight, at the Westport Library.

Journalist Dave Briggs chats with former Navy SEAL commander and White House fellow Mike Hayes. They’ll explore how to navigate life’s transitions with purpose. The starting point is “Mission Driven: The Path to a Life of Purpose,” Hayes’ practical, inspiring guide to building a more meaningful life.

Click here for details on this sure-to-be insightful conversation.

Mike Hayes

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Also today (Tuesday, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.): The Exchange Project presents a “Swap Day: Summer Edition.”  The host is Abby Jaramillo.

The Exchange Project “redefines luxury resale through thoughtful curation, conscious consumption, and timeless style. (They) extend the life of exceptional clothing by editing the best pieces already in circulation—creating a refined, sustainable marketplace where style never comes at the planet’s expense.”

Fresh pieces are updated hourly, including new arrivals from Balenciaga, Zara, Alo, Frame, L’Agence and more. Click here for tickets; address given upon purchase.

Carly Ridloff of The Exchange Project.

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The closure from June 18 through August of Cross Highway near the entrance to Wakeman Town Farm — for replacement of the Deadman Brook bridge — has already been announced.

But it will also be closed this Thursday and Friday (June 11 and 12) from 8:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m., for gas line and utility work. Cross Highway will be open, however, from Bayberry Lane to Wakeman Farm Drive.

To accommodate graduation ceremonies, the road and bridge will be open on June 15 and 16 for events at Staples High School and Bedford Middle School.

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Sara Caswell and Ike Sturm headline this Thursday’s Jazz at the Post (7:30 and 8:45 p.m. shows; dinner at 7 p.m.; VFW Post 399).

She is a Grammy-nominated, classically trained string player; he’s a noted bassist.

They’ll be joined by guitarist Jesse Lewis and drummer Michael W. Davis. Click here for tickets, and more information. 

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Longtime Westport resident Linda Volckmann died peacefully on June 6, surrounded by her family. She was 88.

A native of Yakima, Washington, she earned a bachelor’s in economics and a master’s in teaching, both from Stanford University.

She married Carl Volckmann in 1965. His career with IBM took the family throughout the Northeast. They settled in Westport in 1974.

Here Linda developed a love of sailing alongside her Navy husband, formed lifelong friendships, and devoted countless hours to supporting her children’s athletic, music and academic pursuits.

She attended many swim meets, tennis matches and horseback riding competitions. Later, she was on the sidelines for soccer, lacrosse games and wrestling competitions.

Linda loved to travel, and enjoyed adventures throughout Asia and Africa.

When their children were grown, Linda and Carl found a second home in Stuart, Florida, where many friends from graduate school had settled. For nearly 2 decades they enjoyed life as “snowbirds.”

After selling their Westport home of 43 years, they divided their time between Park City, Utah, and Florida.

Linda is survived by her  husband, Carl; daughter Karin Goodman (Nick) and their children Kendall, Hayden and Camden; her aughter Tina Perala (Matthew) and their children Kai and Teo; her son Eric and his children Evelyn and Emmett.

Linda is also survived by her brother and sister-in-law, Jim and Lynne Terril, and their children Christopher and Laura; sister, Lila Nielsen and her children Gretchen and Vicki, and nieces Kristen Doerrer, Eryn Cusic and Micheal Cusic .

Her family says, “Linda will be remembered for her intelligence, generosity, quiet strength, and unwavering devotion to family and friends. She had a remarkable gift for making people feel welcome, valued and loved.

A memorial service will take place at the end of the year. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Green’s Farms Congregational Church, CT, Mariner Sands Chapel Benevolence Fund, or Make-A-Wish of Seattle (Alaska & Washington chapter).

Linda Volckmann

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Great light makes today’s “Westport … Naturally” image — showing Sherwood Mill Pond — extra special.

(Photo/Judith Katz)

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And finally … speaking of the Pepperidge Farm property (story above), this seems like an apt song:

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“06880” Podcast: Mike Hayes

Mike Hayes spent 20 years as a Navy SEAL. He served in South America, Europe, the Middle East and Asia — including the conflicts in Bosnia, Kosovo, Iraq and Afghanistan. He received 2 Bronze Stars.

Mike was also a White House fellow, in the Bush and Obama administrations.

After 2 decades of military service, Mike worked for Bridgewater Associates here in Westport, as chief of staff to the CEO and COO. He is currently managing director of Insight Partners, a global software investment firm.

Mike is a lifetime member of the Council on Foreign Relations, and a founding board member of the National Medal of Honor Museum. He is fluent in German and Spanish — and is the author of 2 books about leadership. All profits go to the 1162 Foundation, a non-profit he started that pays off mortgages for Gold Star widows and children.

There is much more — and you’ll hear all about it in the podcast below. The time I spent last week with Mike at the Westport Library was educational, inspirational, and impactful.

I don’t guarantee many things. But I am certain you will also be inspired and motivated by his insights, passion and positivity.

Mike Hayes: “Mission Driven” To Help Others

As a freshman at Holy Cross, Mike Hayes attended a memorial service for John Connors. The Navy SEAL had been killed in Panama, after graduating the prior spring.

Hayes did not know Connors. But the event changed his life.

Hayes earned a spot in the very elite SEALs program. He spent 3 years in Iraq, then became a White House Fellow. On the National Security Council, he worked directly with Presidents Bush and Obama.

Mike Hayes (center), with his men on a mission.

After 20 years in the military — where he was held at gunpoint, jumped out of a building rigged to explode, and helped amputate a teammate’s leg — Hayes retired. He joined private industry, working as chief of staff to Ray Dalio, and COO, at Bridgewater Associates.

Hayes now serves as managing director at Insight Partners, a global software investor and venture capital firm.

Thirty years after his life was altered by a man he never met, Hayes spoke at a black-tie event, raising funds to build a statue honoring Connors in his home town.

Connors’ mother was there. Hayes thanked her, for raising a son who influenced Hayes’ life so profoundly.

That ideal — making an impact on someone you do not know — resonates deeply with Hayes. It’s the heart of his second book, “Mission Driven: The Path to a Life of Purpose.”

A practical guide for finding purpose and meaning in life, it focuses on self-discovery, and helps readers translate their purpose into actionable steps.

The target audience includes young adults, recent graduates, professionals seeking a new direction — anyone, really, who is going through a transition point in life — or will, one day.

Soon after publication in September, “Mission Driven” debuted at number 4 on USA Today’s list of all best-sellerss in the country. 

Hayes never thought he’d be an author. But after the success of his first book — “Never Enough: A Navy Seal Commander on Living a Life of Excellence, Agility, and Meaning,” offering lessons from both the battlefield and boardroom — Hayes realized there was more to say.

He’d provided a blueprint for readers. But now he wanted to offer practical tools, to go beyond living a life of meaning. The next step was making an impact on others — including strangers.

 “Mission Driven” has made its own impact. The author has heard from people who made important personal and professional decisions after reading it.

And someone texted him: “Mike, you’ve saved another life. Mine.”

Mike Hayes

Hayes certainly walks the talk. As he did with his first book, he is donating all profits to the 1162 Foundation, supporting Gold Star families. Through it, Hayes has paid off the mortgages of 12 women whose husbands were killed in action.

Hayes emphasizes, though, that the military is not the only way to impact people you’ll never meet. When people thank him for his service, he counters, “Everyone serves, in whatever way we can.”

His book, he says, helps everyone find their way to serve. For someone, it might be “taking particles out of the ocean.” For others, Teach for America, volunteering at their place of worship, or stopping in at a retirement home to spend time listening to residents’ stories.

All of us, he says, can “take action to make our great nation even better.”

Hayes’ grandfather was in the Navy at Pearl Harbor, on the day that will live in infamy. He told Hayes, “Whenever you’re having a hard day, find someone having a harder day.”

Hayes also lives by these words: “Helping others helps us more.”

Serving others is not easy, he acknowledges. The busyness of daily life can intrude on our ability to reach out, and act.

But “Mission Driven”‘s mission — and Hayes’ personal mission — is to reach people he does not know, and provide the tools so that they, in turn, can help others they may never meet.

(For more information and purchase information on “Mission Driven,” click here. Hat tip: Marshall Kiev)

Jamie Dimon rarely provides book blurbs. But he knows Mike Hayes. He put the author’s previous book on JPMorgan Chase’s summer reading list.

 

Roundup: School Reopening, Seed Exchange, Leadership, More

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Westport’s elementary and middle school open for full in-person on February 1.

A new Westport Public Schools website offers information on the transition. it includes details on schedules, specials, health and safety, lunch and recess, mitigation and hygiene strategies, classroom cohorts, special education, transportation, technology and more.

Click here for the elementary school page. Click here for the middle school page.

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Talented Westport photographer Ted Horowitz posted this photo to his Instagram this morning:

He took the shot years ago at sunrise, in the Lincoln Memorial.

“In the silence of dawn, with golden light reflecting on the statue, the  the sense of gravity and majesty was overwhelming,” he says.

“It was a hopeful moment, as morning light poured in and a  day dawned once again. I felt that this image was appropriate for today, as we seeking relief from the past 4 years, and are hopeful for the new day which is about to begin.”

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Next Thursday (January 28) is National Seed Exchange Day.

Stumped for a celebration? Head to the Westport Farmers’ Market. It’s (no coincidence) their annual seed exchange.

People can bring seeds saved from their gardens — or take home a few saved by others.

WFM farmers will donate seeds from their favorite crops for the community to try at home. All seeds except invasive species are welcome, but the market urges people to bring and take home heirloom or organic varieties. (Click here for a list of invasive plants.)

Heirloom seeds are critical to reclaiming the food system. They’re open-pollinated plants passed down from generation to generation, without human intervention or manipulation. They taste better, are more nutritious, and help protect plant diversity.

“Collecting, sharing, and growing seeds saved by our very own shoppers, farmers and vendors – especially heirloom varieties – involves the community personally in the promotion of local food and flora,” says Farmers’ Market executive director Lori Cochran-Dougall.

“This year more than ever we want to seed the year with love and health.”

The seed exchange runs from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. — or until all seeds are shared —  on January 28th at Gilbertie’s Herbs & Garden Center, 7 Sylvan Avenue.

Experts will be on hand to informally discuss the importance of seed saving.

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Yesterday’s mention of Capuli — the new restaurant in the old Westport Pizzeria location across from Bank of America — may have left the impression that it’s a pizza place.

It’s not.

The California-Mediterranean fusion menu — filled with healthy options — includes appetizers like chimichurri shrimp skewers and grilled octopus, and entrees like eggplant polenta Napoleon, pansotti, classic New York steak and California hamburger.

Click here for the mouth-watering lunch and dinner menus.

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Mike Hayes is a 20-year veteran of the Navy SEALs, with service in Bosnia, Kosovo, Iraq and Afghanistan. He had defense policy and strategy roles in the Bush and Obama administrations.

He’s got a master’s in public policy from Harvard, and is the author of an inspirational book, “Never Enough.”

Hayes is also a Westporter. And on February 4 (7 p.m.), he’ll share his thoughts on leadership with former Westport Library trustee Maggie Mudd.

He’ll talk about how decisions get made, particularly under duress; crisis management, conflict resolution and more. Leadership lessons are applicable to every walk of life, Mudd notes.

Click here to register for the free virtual program.

Mike Hayes

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And finally (and I do mean “finally”) …

Mike Hayes: Lessons Learned From A Lifetime Of Service

Mike Hayes was born into the Navy.

His grandfather was at Pearl Harbor on the day that lives in infamy. His father served too. The family moved often.

After high school in Portsmouth, Rhode Island, Hayes entered College of the Holy Cross on a ROTC scholarship.

Navy SEALs were less well known than today. But the more he learned, the more eager he was to join. After graduation in 1993, he was one of only 12 ROTC candidates nationwide selected for the elite unit.

His SEALs training class started with 120 members. Just 19 graduated.

After 10 years, Hayes applied for a Navy program at Harvard’s Kennedy School. He was the first SEAL accepted.

In 2005, 8 SEALs were killed in a helicopter crash. Hayes took over for the survivors. He spent 3 years in Iraq, rising to second in command of SEAL Team 10. That culminated with 8 months as the number 2 man for special operations in Anbar Province.

In his mid-30s, Hayes applied for a fellowship. He became a White House Fellow. In 2 years as director of defense policy and strategy at the National Security Council, he worked directly with Presidents George W. Bush and Barack Obama.

It was quite a time. Just 10 days in, he ran meetings in the White House Situation Room about the START Treaty. He helped negotiate in Russia, and handled Obama’s first foreign policy showdown, with John Brennan: a hijacking off the coast of Somalia.

In 2012 he was asked to take over SEAL Team 2, running operations in Afghanistan.

After 20 years in the military — where he was held at gunpoint, jumped out of a building rigged to explode, and helped amputate a teammate’s leg — Hayes retired. He joined private industry, working as chief of staff to Ray Dalio, and COO, at Bridgewater Associates.

That brought Hayes to Westport — to work and live.

Mike Hayes

In 2017 he pivoted again. A friend started Cognizant, a company offering digital, technology, consulting and operations services. Hayes is now senior vice president and head of strategic operations.

In the military, Hayes always wrote. In emails to his family, he said how much he loved them — in case those were his last words they’d ever read.

Now he’s written a book. Encouraged by feedback after public speaking — another of his talents — he decided to share his dramatic stories, and high-stakes lessons learned about excellence and leadership.

Never Enough: A Navy Seal Commander on Living a Life of Excellence, Agility, and Meaning offers lessons from both the battlefield and boardroom. Hayes focuses on what it means to do work of value, live a life of purpose, and stretch yourself to reach your highest potential.

Not everyone can be a Navy SEAL — or work with presidents and hedge fund titans. But, Hayes says, everyone can always try to be a better person.

“Each person has unique gifts,” he explains. He is guided by a Jesuit principle of service to community and planet taught at Holy Cross: “men and women, for and with others.”

Hayes puts his money — literally — where his mouth is. When Never Enough is published next February, he’ll donate all profits to a non-profit he began. One of Hayes’ longtime passions is Gold Star families. He’s already paid mortgages for some. Now, he’ll be able to cover even more.

Hayes’ book is aimed at an international audience. But — since moving to Westport in 2013, after a lifetime of moves — his feet are firmly planted in this community.

He was energized by the town’s spirit during Westport’s run to the Little League World Series final that summer. His children were athletes here, and Hayes has spoken to Staples High School teams about leadership. He’s also addressed the annual “Sticks for Soldiers” lacrosse event.

Our town is less familiar with the military than many others, Hayes notes. But Westporters serve and sacrifice in other ways.

“Everyone has something to offer,” he says. In his new book, he hopes to inspire readers — his neighbors here, and strangers everywhere — to ask themselves: “How can I do better? How can I do more?”

After a lifetime of service to others, Mike Hayes knows that is still never enough.

(To preorder Never Enough, click here.)