Last year at Adam J. Lewis Academy‘s annual fundraiser, I met the teachers who work their magic at the Bridgeport school.
Their talent, energy, passion and pride blew me away.
This year, the stars of the spring party will be the students themselves.
Adam J. Lewis’s founders promise the kids will be even more remarkable than the adults.
The school — named for a local man killed on 9/11, and nurtured ever since by his wife and friends — has changed the lives of hundreds of Bridgeport youngsters and their families.
Adam J. Lewis grew up poor, in the Bronx. But he seized the educational opportunities he was given — scholarships to Dalton and Hamilton College — and made a great, successful and fulfilling life for himself.
Adam J. Lewis and his wife Patty.
His death at his World Trade Center desk sparked a superbly fitting tribute.
His wife Patty Lewis and Westporter Julie Mombello — friends from their days working together at Greens Farms Academy — knew the importance of pre-school education.
In Westport, pre-school — where children explore the world using all their senses, and learn letters, numbers, scientific observation, music, art, language, problem-solving, cooperation, coordination and many other skills — is a given. That’s far less true in Bridgeport, where the cost of preschool can be daunting.
Patty and Julie vowed to do what they could to give little children just a few miles from Westport the same advantages their own kids had.
After reading “Balloons Over Broadway,” students created their own balloons. A parade followed.
The goal was to provide youngsters from every background with an intellectually, socially and personally transformative educational experience. Students would leave empowered, ready to make a difference in the world.
The Adam J. Lewis Pre-School was born. And — despite daunting obstacles including fundraising, site selection and city bureaucracy — it has thrived since opening in 2013.
From its start — with just 12 children — it has grown steadily. In 2018 the school relocated to a downtown Bridgeport campus. Realizing there is more to education than just pre-K, they’ve added one grade each year.
The faculty/student ratio is 8:1. 90% of the teachers have advanced degrees. 100% of students receive financial aid.
Now, as a pre-K through 8th grade independent school of more than 160 youngsters, AJLA is ready to graduate its first middle school class.
Those boys and girls have been there since the day the academy opened. They’ve moved from a small building into a large, better-equipped one.
They’ve impressed their teachers, and surprised their parents. Now they’re ready to inspire all who attend the May 3 event.
Adam J. Lewis teachers offer a warm welcome on opening day.
The school is a true community. Families are embraced, and supported. A scholarship program at Housatonic Community College enables parents to take certification classes at no cost to them, often leading to high-demand, higher-paying jobs and careers.
A staff psychologist bridges the gap between home and school — just like a private boarding school.
From the start, Westporters have supported Adam J. Lewis Academy, with donations, board service and sweat equity.
And from the start, Patty Lewis and Julie Mombello have been AJLA’s heart and soul.
The other day, they talked about some of the independent projects the students will show in May.
Every grade has a year-long theme. This year, every middle schooler has worked on an independent “sustainability” project. They’ve conducted interviews, written papers, created models.
“They become little experts in areas they feel excited about,” Julie says. Among them: solar cars, osprey nests, and the the dangers of plastics in oceans.
Guests at the fundraiser will tour the new STEAM (Science, Technology, Enigneering, Arts, Math) room.
From its small beginning, Adam J. Lewis has grown substantially.
The event will also honor 5 families who believed in AJLA’s mission from the start, and gave generously for many years. Among them: Elwood and Catherine Davis. and Jim and Roberta Conroy. Both couples live in Westport.
“At the beginning we were just 2 women who wanted to open up a school,” Patty says.
“We had no data, nothing. But they believed in us. Without them, we would not be where we are today.”
And without them, that first 8th grade class would not be where they are today: ready to awe their guests with proof of what any child can achieve, as long as someone gives them a chance.
(The Adam J. Lewis Academy spring party is May 3, 6 p.m., at the school: 500 State Street, Bridgeport. Click here for tickets, and more information. To learn more about Adam J. Lewis Academy, click here.)
Westporter Julie Mombello and her longtime friend Patty Lewis — former colleagues at Greens Farms Academy — have done spent a decade creating, building and growing Adam J. Lewis Academy.
The Bridgeport pre-K through 6th grade school honors Patty’s husband, who was killed on 9/11. He grew up poor in the Bronx, and never forgot the educational opportunities he was given at Dalton School and Hamilton College.
Adam J. Lewis Academy serves as a similar beacon of hope for 250 youngsters, who thrive in its child-centered, small-class, joyful and discovery-based environment. It is a shining example of the power of education to change lives, one youngster at a time.
Many Westporters support the school. A number of them were at Bridgeport’s Hartford HealthCare Amphitheater Friday night, for a fundraiser celebrating AJLA’s 10th anniversary.
Funds raised will help add one more grade each year, so students can continue to explore, learn and grow under the guidance of a superb staff.
To learn more about Adam J. Lewis Academy — including how to help — click here. For a 2021 “06880” story on Julie, Patty and their work, click here.
There’s always something going on at Wakeman Town Farm.
Westport’s sustainability center offers educational workshops for all ages, internships, after-school environmental clubs, children’s summer camp programs, a farm stand and much more.
Evenings are packed with programs too. Many take place in Tim’s Kitchen, the homey, versatile space created in memory of Liz Milwe and Peter Wormser’s son.
One of the lesser-known, but not-to-be-missed, events there are “chef farm dinners.”
Noted local chefs cook fantastic meals, often using produce and herbs straight from WTF. Guests enjoy them at communal tables. In good weather, they stroll around the farm.
She should know. The founder of AMG Catering is one of the most popular of all Town Farm chefs.
She was at it again last week, offering a 4-course meal highlighted by bucatini with asparagus, pea shoot Meyer lemon pesto and local buratta, or lamb chops with fennel slaw and spiced yogurt. (No, the lamb did not previously live at the farm.)
Several students of one of Alison’s cooking classes came together. Two people who are in the same (non-Farm) woodworking class were surprised to see each other. Conversation was lively at the long tables, with folks who had just met.
“Food brings people together,” Alison notes. “For 3 hours, in beautiful surroundings, you can just enjoy yourself.
And, of course, the food is terrific.
There will be more chef farm dinners soon. Allison is already planning for her next ones — including October.
“There’s so much available then, right at the farm,” she says. “Kale, squashes, tomatoes, fresh herbs …”
Yum!
Alison Milwe Grace, with za’atar roasted carrots, served over whipped feta with mint-date “jus.”
Over 40 parents have reacted to recent incidents of antisemitism and racism in Westport schools by looking at codes of conducts and restorative justice practices in other districts.
They’ve launched a website — Kind WPS — as the Board of Education examines revisions to its own policies, suggesting stronger measures than already planned. Click here for details.
There’s plenty of great art on the walls of the Westport Woman Club’s annual art show.
At Friday night’s opening reception, and yesterday, there was also a Rock & Roll Hall of Famer providing piano music.
Mark Naftalin — inducted as the Paul Butterfield Blues Band’s keyboardist in 2015 — made the show even more special.
He won’t be there this afternoon. But you can still see this excellent show today (Sunday), from 2 to 5 p.m., at the WWC’s Bedford Hall (44 Imperial Avenue).
Mark Naftalin, at the Westport Woman’s Club piano. (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)
A proposal to develop 125 Riverside Avenue — the site of the historic Crossman-Coley house at the foot of Burr Road — will be explained this week.
Tomorrow (Monday, May 6, 7 p.m., Zoom), the Planning & Zoning Commission meeting begins with a pre-application by Vita Design for their plans. There will be no public comment, or vote.
The next night (Tuesday, May 7, 7 p.m., Zoom), a joint meeting of the Historic District Commission and Architectural Review Board will review and discuss the plans, including the notice of intent to demolish the house.
125 Riverside Avenue.
=================================================
The beaches are open for residents with stickers. Memorial Day, Camp Compo, REC-ing crew and the fireworks are around the corner.
Westport’s Parks & Recreation Department welcomes summer with a special Compo Beach family event on Saturday, May 25 (11 a.m. to 3 p.m.).
Activities include touch-a-truck, bouncy house, obstacle courses, food vendors and more. Everyone there gets a free raffle ticket too!
MoCA Westport is gambling that Westporters will love its new fundraiser.
“Gallery of Games Night – Deal Yourself In to Support the Arts” (May 17, 7 to 11 p.m) includes gaming tables, live music by the very talented Staples High School graduate Michelle Pauker, silent auction prizes. and drinks from Sono 1420. Click here for tickets, and more information.
Club 203 — Westport’s social group for adults with disabilities — continues its fun schedule a with a night at Nutmeg Bowling in Fairfield (May 14, 6:30 to 8 p.m.).
Shoes and pizza are provided. As always, MoCA Westport will supply an art table.
Parents and guardians are welcome to stay at Nutmeg. A cash bar is available.
For more information, click here. Club 203 is on Instagram: @club203_ct.
=================================================
Sure, it’s early May. But that means the Sunrise Rotary Club’s Great Duck Race is less than 2 months away.
This year’s event is June 29. As always, it’s family friendly, fun and free. Of course, you can’t win the $5,000 first prize (or any other) if you don’t have “race” tickets.
Proceeds help fund a variety of important projects, here and abroad.
They’re available from any Sunrise Rotarian, and online here.
So how do you know who’s a Rotarian? They’ll be wearing special shirts, all around town. Check out the models below:
Looking ducky (from left): Mark Mathias, Pete Wolgast, Katie Augustyn, Ron Holtz, Bruce Paul.
Missed Startup Westport’s Innovator of the Year award last week?
Interesting in finding out what ESPN CEO Jimmy Pitaro and ESPN host Mike Greenberg had to say about their network, the future of sports and the media, innovation, and Westport (the town they live in and love)?
Congratulations to Westport’s newest Eagle Scouts!
Jackson Cregan and Dylan Kurpiel of Troop 36 were honored yesterday, with a Court of Honor at Saugatuck Congregational Church.
Guest speaker Michele Sorensen, president of Friends of Sherwood Island, spoke about the importance of volunteerism and protecting the environment — both of which the new Eagle Scouts embody every day.
Eagle Scouts Dylan Kurpiel and Jackson Cregan. (Photo/Dan Woog)
Congratulations too to Frank Murgalo. The Marine Corps veteran (aka Santa Claus for the “06880”/Westport Downtown Association Holiday Stroll) organized and hosted a very successful fundraiser Friday night, at Joseph J. Clinton VFW Post 399.
The dinner and comedy show, featuring Rodney Norman, Howie Mason and Andrew Alfredo, was completely sold out.
Frank continues to work tirelessly for veterans. That’s no laughing matter!
“This male house finch has Darwin written all over it. Look at that beak!”
(Photo/Lou Weinberg)
=================================================
And finally … happy May 5th!
(Every day is a holiday at “06880” — or at least, a chance to celebrate our hyper-local blog. We rely on reader support, so please click here to donate. Thank you!)
Julie Mombello and Patty Lewis met at Greens Farms Academy, where they worked.
When Patty’s husband Adam — who grew up poor but, helped by scholarships and access to education, became a successful Wall Street executive — was killed in the Twin Towers, the women vowed to pass his legacy on to others.
They founded Adam J. Lewis Academy in Bridgeport. Begun as a pre-school — now including kindergarten through grade 4, with plans to increase through 8th grade — it offers a high-quality experience so that curious youngsters can explore, discover and develop their full potential.
It is a remarkable place, full of compassion, passion and energy — and plenty of opportunities. It is nurtured by many caring Westporters.
The other day, I chatted with Patty (now head of school) and Julie (a longtime Westporter who is now the director). We talked about Adam J. Lewis — the school, and its namesake — as well as education in Bridgeport and Westport, wealth inequality, American culture and much more.
It was an eye-opening half hour. Click below, to see and hear our conversation.
It’s late August. That means school starts sooner than anyone realizes.
And it’s 2021. That means next month marks the 20th anniversary of 9/11.
Both events are significant for a sizable number of Westporters. They’re part of the heart and soul of Adam J. Lewis Academy.
Adam J. Lewis
The Bridgeport elementary school — named for a local man killed that horrible day, and nurtured ever since by his wife and friends — has been a life-changer for hundreds of Bridgeport youngsters and their families.
Now it’s expanding — charting an even more important path than ever.
Adam J. Lewis grew up poor, in the Bronx. But he seized the educational opportunities he was given — scholarships to Dalton and Hamilton College — and made a great, successful and fulfilling life for himself.
Then, on September 11, 2001 he was killed at his World Trade Center desk.
That tragedy sparked a superbly fitting tribute.
His wife Patty Lewis and Westporter Julie Mombello — friends from their days working together at Greens Farms Academy — knew the importance of pre-school education.
In Westport, pre-school — where children explore the world using all their senses, and learn letters, numbers, scientific observation, music, art, language, problem-solving, cooperation, coordination and many other skills — is a given. That’s far less true in Bridgeport, where the cost of preschool can be daunting.
Patty and Julie vowed to do what they could to give little children just a few miles from Westport the same advantages their own kids had.
A well-equipped Adam J. Lewis Academy room.
The goal was to provide youngsters from every background with an intellectually, socially and personally transformative educational experience. Students will leave empowered, ready to make a difference in the world.
The Adam J. Lewis Pre-School was born. And — despite daunting obstacles including fundraising, site selection and city bureaucracy — it has thrived since opening in 2013.
From its start — with just 12 children — it has grown steadily. In 2018 the school relocated to a downtown Bridgeport campus. They’re adding one grade each year. They’ll serve over 200 students through grade 5 by 2023, over 400 as a pre-K through grade 8 independent school by 2030.
Adam J. Lewis Academy pre-K class, 2018-19.
Including middle school is important. Adam J. Lewis Academy will be able to provide a link between elementary and high school, at a challenging time in life that’s already difficult for many.
The school is a true community. Families are embraced, and supported. A scholarship program at Housatonic Community College enables parents to take certification classes at no cost to them, often leading to high-demand, higher-paying jobs and careers.
A staff psychologist bridges the gap between home and school — just like a private boarding school.
From the start, Westporters have supported Adam J. Lewis Academy, with donations, board service and sweat equity.
The other day, co-founders Patty Lewis and Julie Mombello — still deeply involved as ex officio board members — talked excitedly about the school’s direction.
They offered stories, like a girl with a turbulent home life whose mother took advantage of resources to support her child — now confident and proud — and turned her own life around too.
“The 20 years since 9/11 have gone both fast and slow,” Lewis says.
“The idea that we’re going vertically means we can have an even bigger impact — just like his schools had on Adam. We’re looking at nearly 10 years of a student’s life in one school.”
Adam J. Lewis’s football jersey hangs in the school office. Students learn about, and understand, his story.
Nearly 20 years after an unspeakable tragedy, his name — and impact — live on.
(For more information on the Adam J. Lewis Academy, click here.)
Adam J. Lewis grew up poor, in the Bronx. But he seized the educational opportunities he was given — scholarships to Dalton, then Hamilton College — and made a great, successful and fulfilling life for himself.
Then, on September 11, 2001 he was killed at his World Trade Center desk.
In his memory, the people who loved Adam — his wife and many friends — built a superbly fitting tribute.
Adam J. Lewis
Patty Lewis and Westporter Julie Mombello — friends from their days working together at Greens Farms Academy — knew the importance of pre-school education.
In Westport, pre-school — where children explore the world using all their senses, and learn letters, numbers, scientific observation, music, art, language, problem-solving, cooperation, coordination and many other skills — is a given. That’s far less true in Bridgeport, where the cost of preschool can be daunting.
Patty and Julie vowed to do what they could to give little children just a few miles from Westport the same advantages their own kids had.
The Adam J. Lewis Pre-School was born. And — despite daunting obstacles including fundraising, site selection and city bureaucracy — it has thrived since opening in 2013.
From its start — with just 12 children — it has grown steadily. This year there are 70 students, in pre-K3, pre-K4, kindergarten and 1st grade.
Last year the school relocated to a downtown Bridgeport campus. Its new name is the Adam J. Lewis Academy. They’ll add one grade each year. Ultimately they’ll serve 150 students, as a pre-K through grade 5 independent school.
The goal is to provide children from every background with an intellectually, socially and personally transformative educational experience. Students will leave empowered, and ready to make a difference in the world.
Westporters continue to play a key role in the Adam J. Lewis Academy. Lee Bollert is a longtime board member; 2nd Selectman Jen Tooker joined 4 years ago. Mombello remains a driving force.
Saba Pina — an original teacher 7 years ago — is still there. A new 1st grade instructor came from the Greens Farms Academy internship program.
Many other Westporters help too, volunteering their time and donating funds. (Fully 100% of school families receive need-based financial assistance.)
9/11 was one of the darkest days in American history. Out of those ashes though, a wonderful story of hope and dreams continues to rise.
(For more information on the Adam J. Lewis Academy — and to help — click here.)
An early class of very happy Adam J. Lewis preschoolers.
It was around 10:15. The Mombellos have an invisible fence, but somehow Louie — a 10-month-old puppy — escaped.
Julie Mombello was about to pick up her husband Michael at the train station. She left a frantic voicemail: Find a ride home. She was looking for Louie.
The doors didn’t open at the Green’s Farms platform. Several people missed the stop. Amy Harris and Michael Cohen, who live around the corner from the Mombellos, gave Michael Mombello a ride home. He told them the puppy was missing.
They dropped Michael at his home, on the corner of Long Lots Road and Turkey Hill. Quickly, they returned. They said they thought they’d just seen Louie, running up Linda Lane.
Louie
Amy dropped her husband at home, then drove back. She wanted to keep looking.
Julie and her husband searched the streets off Long Lots: Linda Lane, Elmwood, Moss Ledge.
Amy — now accompanied by her son — kept looking too.
Julie Mombello with her other dog, George, at a charity walk in Bridgeport. She is a director of the well-respected Adam J. Lewis Preschool in that city, where she also teaches.
Around 11;45 p.m., Julie’s cell phone rang. A woman on High Point Road thought she had Louie.
As Julie pulled into that street, a car came down. It was Amy and her son — still searching for Louie.
Julie told Amy she thought they’d found him. Amy pulled over to wait.
When Julie walked out of the High Point house, holding Louie in her arms, Amy and her son came over. They told her how happy and thankful they were he’d been found.
By then it was midnight. Amy — a stranger to Julie a couple of hours earlier — had been out with friends in New York. Julie is sure the last thing Amy wanted to do was look for a lost puppy that wasn’t even hers.
But she did.
Louie and George, the Mombellos’ other dog. They’re best friends.
Julie was overwhelmed by her perseverance, and the kindness of the woman on High Point who got up to see why a dog was barking in her yard at 11:45.
It was cold last week. Louie is little. Julie shudders to think what might have happened.
“This whole experience made us feel like we were living in a small town again, where people actually care about their neighbors,” Julie says.
The next day, she dropped thank-you notes in both families’ mailboxes.
But it was such a feel-good story, she wants to share it with the “06880” world.
PS: A couple of days later, Julie received a note in the mail. The woman on High Point Road thanked Julie for her note, adding that as a life-long dog person, she knows “all about the feelings enmeshed with our canine family members.”
Moshe Aelyon — one Westport star — will be dancing with another.
On Saturday, October 18 (6:30 p.m., Patterson Club), the Westport-based youth development and counseling service offers “A Chance to Dance.” There’s the familiar format, sure: 6 local celebrities (including Westport designer Moshe Aelyon, Safe Rides co-founder Julie Mombello and graphic designer Miggs Burroughs) pair with professional dancers for a very entertaining segment, and are judged by a panel including Bill Mitchell.
But everyone else can shake their booty too. There’s also a contest to find the happiest dancer(s).
Anyone can submit a short video of dancing anywhere, any way, to Pharrell Williams’ “Happy” song.
You can dance by yourself, with a partner (or more). You can dance well or poorly. You can dance seriously or funnily.
Just dance! Make the Positive Directions folks happy.
(And pay $100. It’s a fundraiser, after all.)
Here’s Liz Beeby’s effort:
The entry deadline is Monday, October 6. The top 40 entries will be shown during the “A Chance to Dance” gala.
The winner will receive “Serenity,” an original artwork by — who else? — Miggs Burroughs.
But, of course, if you pay your $100 and submit your video to help Positive Directions, you’re already a winner.
(For more details on submitting your video, and ticket information for the event, click the “A Chance to Dance” website.)
Adam J. Lewis grew up poor, in the Bronx. But he seized the educational opportunities he was given — scholarships to Dalton, then Hamilton College — and made a great, successful and fulfilling life for himself.
Then, on September 11, 2001 he was killed at his World Trade Center desk.
Out of the ashes of his life, the people who loved Adam — his wife and many friends — built a superbly fitting tribute.
Adam J. Lewis
Patty Lewis and Westporter Julie Mombello — friends from their days working together at Greens Farms Academy — knew the importance of pre-school education.
In Westport, pre-school — where children explore the world using all their senses, and learn letters, numbers, scientific observation, music, art, language, problem-solving, cooperation, coordination and many other skills — is a given. That’s far less true in Bridgeport, where the cost of preschool can be daunting.
Patty and Julie vowed to do what they could to give little children just a few miles from Westport the same advantages their own kids had.
The Adam J. Lewis Pre-School was born. And — despite daunting obstacles including fundraising, site selection and city bureaucracy — it has thrived since opening last December.
The Bridgeport building before (left) — and now that it’s the Adam J. Lewis Preschool.
Many folks — including Westport board members Nancy Aldrich, Lee Bollert and Trish Tweedley, and fundraisers Carolyn Cohen, Tracy Fincher and Anne Hardy — worked tirelessly to make the pre-school a resounding success. Earlier this month, they celebrated their 1st year.
There were 12 kids, all 3 and 4 years old. Everyone received need-based financial aid. (It costs $7,000 a year to educate each child. Sometimes, Julie says, parents pay what they can “literally in quarters.”)
Several boys and girls entered speaking no English. “We saturate them all in language,” explains Julie. “There is constant talking and reading. There are books and letters all over the place.”
The very happy Adam J. Lewis preschoolers.
Julie is an administrator and teacher. Westporter Saba Pina is one of the other teachers.
Earlier this month, a “graduation” ceremony was held for the youngsters moving on to kindergarten. The school worked hard to make sure each has an appropriate placement. Some are heading to charter schools; others to the Greens Farms Academy Horizons program.
The 1st graduation was quite a moment.
“When you sign up for a project like this, you realize it’s all about the kids,” Julie says.
“You can make a difference — one child at a time. You try to give them an opportunity they otherwise would not be exposed to.”
The preschool takes great advantage of the outdoors. There’s a fantastic playground too.
But, she realizes, beyond teaching children to count and learn their ABCs, Adam J. Lewis has given them “self-confidence, resilience and perseverance, so they can handle whatever life throws at them.” In Bridgeport, Julie knows, “you face a lot of curveballs.”
In the beginning of the school year, she recalls, a little boy always said, “I can’t do this.” Now, he never says that.
“That’s 90% of the battle,” Julie says. “If you believe in yourself, you have a much greater chance of success.”
She — and all the other folks associated with Adam J. Lewis — feel a tremendous amount of pride. They’ve launched what already is a wonderful institution.
But Julie can’t help noticing something.
“Literally 5 miles from Westport, things are so dramatically different. The need can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to think, ‘How can I make a difference?'”
She answers her own question.
“For some reason, the education of young children makes you feel like you are making a difference.”
Next year, Adam J. Lewis welcomes 16 pre-schoolers, up from 12 this year. They’ll add another teacher. And they’ll keep making a difference.
One child at a time.
(Adam J. Lewis Preschool administrators, educators and board members hope Westporters will continue to support them with money, time and energy. To learn more, click on the Adam J. Lewis Preschool website.)
For years, the Westport Youth Commission tried to develop a Safe Rides program. Members knew it’s a very effective way to keep teenagers out of cars after they — or their friends — have been drinking. But organizers could never overcome thorny insurance questions.
In 2009 Alex Dulin solved the problem. The Staples junior had just moved from Mercer Island, Washington, where she was deeply involved in a SafeRides program. They ran it through Boy Scouts. Voilà!
Julie Mombello
Julie Mombello — head of volunteers for the Staples PTA — was inspired by Alex’s passion. Julie, Alex and a host of others became driving forces (ho ho) behind Westport’s SafeRides program.
Five years later, it’s thriving. Every Saturday night at 9:30, a team of student dispatchers (and 1 adult volunteer) gathers at Christ & Holy Trinity Church. They eat food donated by Westport Pizzeria.
And every Saturday — until 1:30 a.m. — 4 cars are constantly on the go. Each has a backpack with a first aid kit, rubber gloves and water.
There’s also a bucket. Westport Wash & Wax has offered to split the cost of an interior wash and detail, if someone gets sick and misses the bucket. That’s happened once in 5 years.
Giving up a Saturday night is a huge commitment. But this year 46 seniors, 59 juniors, 28 sophomores, 11 freshmen — and 28 adults — did it at least once.
Every volunteer must pay to work with SafeRides. Additional funds come from the Staples and middle school PTAs, and some elementary schools’, and the PAL.
SafeRides volunteers, before the calls come in.
The calls offer a (confidential) window into Westport life. Some come from teenagers who know they have drunk too much, and should not drive home. Some come from their friends.
Some come from babysitters, who do not want to get in a car with a father (or mother) who has been drinking.
SafeRides tries not to be a taxi service. Sometimes, though, it is.
“We brainstorm all the time how to avoid it,” Mombello says. “We can’t come up with a way. But we can’t limit the people who use SafeRides. It’s okay to be a taxi service once in a while, so long as we’re saving lives.”
A criticism of SafeRides — before it began, and now — is that it promotes teenage drinking.
“I can’t believe someone drinks because of SafeRides,” Mombello counters. “What SafeRides does is keep someone who has been drinking from getting behind the wheel — and it keeps their friends out of the car too. If we save one life, it’s worth it.”
SafeRides drivers and navigators will not leave until they’ve seen their rider get safely inside the home. A few times, Mombello says, drivers have rung the bell, to make sure their rider was met by an adult.
Occasionally calls are made to parents, to say their child is being delivered home by SafeRides. Drivers have waited in the driveway until the adults arrived.
“Parents have been incredibly appreciative of that,” Mombello says.
No one has ever had to call 911. But every member trains for that eventuality.
“SafeRides has really established itself,” says Mombello. “Our feet are firmly on the ground.”
After 4 years as director, she’s stepping down. Mark Dulsky — a longtime volunteer with Service League of Boys (SLOBs) and baseball — takes over.
Tomorrow is the final night of the school year for SafeRides. In September — when school begins — they’ll start again.
And they’ll continue saving lives, even if no one ever knows whose.
With the holiday season near — hark! the herald angels are singing already! — it is time to turn our attention to mistletoe. Menorahs. And men and women who drive drunk.
A recent story in Inklings — the Staples High School newspaper — is worth noting.
The paper often covers important topics, like teen drinking. But — as editor-in-chief Katie Cion points out — nearly every Staples student today knows the perils of drinking and driving. Years of health education — and work by organizations like Safe Rides and the Teen Awareness Group — have hammered home the dangers of combining the two.
Adults — well, not so much.
“Personally, I have never stopped a teenage drunk driver,” a Westport police officer told Cion. “It is much more common for the operator to be an adult.”
Cion’s story opens with a student describing a trip home from a family wedding.
Her father had had too much to drink. Her mother offered to drive, after “only” a couple of glasses of Champagne.
“The car was swerving, and we were going way too fast,” the student recalls. “She was straddling the line in the middle of two lanes. It really freaked me out because I didn’t know what to say because she’s my mom, but I was terrified the entire time.”
Both Safe Rides member Will Haskell — a Staples senior — and adult director Julie Mombello say that students can be smarter, and less embarrassed, than their parents about admitting they are too drunk to drive.
So, as we get set for a few weeks of spirited joy and parties and peace-wishing, let’s give each other, and all Westporters — especially our impressionable kids — one special gift.
Click here to help support “06880” via credit card or PayPal. Any amount is welcome, appreciated — and tax-deductible! Reader contributions keep this blog going. (Alternate methods: Please send a check to “06880”: PO Box 744, Westport, CT 06881. Or use Venmo: @blog06880. Or Zelle: dwoog@optonline.net. Thanks!)
GET THE “06880” APP
The “06880” app (search for it on the Apple or Android store) is the easiest way to get “06880.” Choose notifications: whenever a new post is published, or once or twice a day. Click here for details.