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Max Orland: Staples Grad’s Inclusive Success

True to its name, the Private Club Radio podcast usually covers issues of interest to the golf and country club world.

Tax regulations. Membership retention. The threat from pickleball.

But episode 307, which dropped a few days ago, tackled a subject even more challenging than those: the importance of inclusion, for people with disabilities.

Host Denny Corby’s guest is an expert on the subject. Staples High School Class of 2006 graduate Max Orland has a speech and language disability.

Today — after a career that includes positions with the New York Mets, US Open (center court, for Federer and Serena Williams), Philadelphia Phillies, Boston Red Sox and Northeastern University, plus retail experience (with many awards) at Legends @ Yankee Stadium, J. Crew, Under Armour, Vineyard Vines and Nike — he’s working in golf operations at the prestigious Tiburón Club in Naples, Florida.

Max Orland, at home on the range.

It’s an inspiring story, and Max tells it well.

It all began at Staples, where he was student manager for the baseball team.

At the University of Delaware he studied sport management, and assisted the baseball and basketball teams.

Max’s recent country club experience includes 3 years in charge of the driving range at Winged Foot in Mamaroneck. then Ibis in Palm Beach.

Inclusion — in the classroom, sports and employment — has been a hallmark of Max’s career.

Many people have helped him get his foot in a door. Once it opens, he walks confidently through.

Very quickly, he wins over customers, clients, colleagues and managers.

Max Orland

As Max has climbed the corporate and country club ladders, he’s been eager to pay his success forward. That message is the heart of the Private Club Radio podcast.

Interestingly, Max’s sister’s father-in-law, Bobby Silverstein, was a national authority on disability policy. While working in the Senate, he was the behind- the-scenes architect of the Americans with Disabilities Act.

Silverstein helped Max navigate through the twists and turns of his journey. He died suddenly a year ago, but Max proudly carries on his legacy.

On the podcast Max describes his early struggles, his pursuit of inclusive education, his rise in the sports industry, and the importance of seizing every opportunity that presents itself.

“Max shares his personal experience on how being a part of mainstream classes and activities empowered him as an individual with an intellectual disability,” the Private Club Radio website says.

“He also discusses the importance of a supportive community, and how being open to change can pave the way for growth.”

“His resilience, determination and unique perspective of focusing on abilities rather than disabilities will leave you inspired and enlightened.”

(Click here to listen to Max Orland’s podcast: “The Power of Inclusion.”)

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Max Orland, with the University of Delaware baseball team.

Not All Disabilities Look Alike …

Alert “06880” reader Nathalie Jacob writes:

I have been disabled for 8 years. Before that, I did not have much knowledge or awareness about the different types of disabilities.

For the first time since I became disabled, these last months I’ve had 2 people in Westport come up to me at different times when I’m parking in a disabled spot, with my disabled parking permit hanging, to say “Hey, you’re not disabled!”

I politely answered, “Yes, I am. And you can see my disabled parking permit hanging in the car.” One man insisted, “No, you’re not.” Then he laughed, thinking he was being sort of funny.

The second person was a woman. She said, “But you look so normal, young, healthy and fit. You can’t be disabled!”

After explaining to them that I don’t need to share my medical records, I decided to explain why I am disabled. Once they heard the reason, they understood and apologized. They felt terrible after hearing the story.

I want to take this opportunity to remind people that not all disabilities come with a wheelchair. There are many different types.

None of us chose to be disabled. It’s a sensitive topic for us. Being disabled is probably the biggest trauma in my life. Having strangers laugh or diminish this is painful. Please be kind to us. We have been through enough.

Saying things like “you don’t look disabled” or “you look normal” doesn’t make us feel better. It actually makes us feel worse. Comments like those come from a good place — but they don’t work.

If you don’t know the person, don’t say anything. If you do know the person, just listen to them. There’s no need to reply.

There’s no need to tell us we “look normal” when we know we are not. It’s not a compliment.

It’s not easy to post this. But by sharing my story, I might help you all understand a little about how we feel.

#invisibledisability #partiallyblind #braintumorawareness

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