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Janine Scotti: Playhouse Show Defines “Community”

Janine Scotti has lived in Westport since 1998. The former owner of S.C.R.U.B.S Cleaning, and Da Pietro’s Restaurant and Zest Café and Restaurant with her husband, chef Pietro Scotti, she is now a special education paraprofessional in Darien. Her children, Tomaso and Lucia, are Staples High School graduates, and University of Connecticut Huskies. 

On Thursday night Janine was very moved by “Tuesdays with Morrie,” the Westport Country Playhouse production kicking off the 2025-26 season. She writes:

Janine Scotti

My heart broke open, deeply touched and moved by this play. Deeply touched and moved by the 2 men on the naked stage. I don’t think I can use the word actors, because to me it was just Mitch and Morrie — a student and a professor. 

As the final moment arrived and Mitch played the piano, I thought about my own piano — the one I just played again after many, many months.

On top of my piano in the entrance of my home are photos of people who have been very special and dear to me. They are people from my community here in Westport, who have died this past year or so.

Also on the piano are my mother’s and aunt’s ashes, and a photo of the gravestone my mother had made in the last years of her life for a grave where her 5-day old baby Paul, my brother, was laid to rest years before I was born.

Janine Scotti’s piano.

Those people have taught me many things, but a common thread ties them all together.

They were selfless when it came to giving to their community.These photos stay in the center of my home, because their faces bring me joy and inspire me daily. I will share who they are with you. 

Bill Vornkahl: my dear friend from my church. Bill could tease me at the drop of a hat, but we shared a passion: parades and marching bands. Bill shared his talents with us all. For decades he organized our Memorial Day parade — a year-long task he loved.

Bill Vornkahl (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

Betty Lou Cummings: the first person I volunteered with in Westport. She filled my heart with joy every time I had the pleasure to be by her side. Her list of service to Westport is endless. I am grateful to see her smiling face every day as I pass my piano.

Betty Lou Cummings (Photo/Doris Ghitelman)

Carolyn Kramer: my quiet friend, my mentor on the altar guild at my church. I watched her ramp up her service to others every year of her life. Her presence in my life, watching her serve with kindness and gentleness, lives in my heart. 

Carolyn Kramer

Tim Lewis: From the first moment I met him at Kings Highway School, I saw his generosity towards others. When he died I went back to look at texts from him. He showed me how to see other people. He let me use his back yard to throw a surprise party for a 9-year-old missing her mom; he asked me to lead a commission, which blew me away, and he texted me when we closed Da Pietro’s, with kind words of acknowledgement and wishing us good luck in the future. He showed me how to see others in my community.  

Tim Lewis

The piano top is flanked by my parents and grandparents, who also dedicated their lives to their communities.

What are we without community? I feel blessed to be here in Westport, meeting people like you.

Mitch was lucky to meet Morrie. I was blessed that this play came to the Playhouse. It made me think about all of you: my community.

The 2 final performances of “Tuesdays with Morrie” are today (Saturday) at 3 and 8 p.m. Click here for tickets, and more information.

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Roundup: 600 Bags Of Groceries, A Day With Staples Hoops …

The Super Bowl drive led by Westport Sunrise Rotary and the Westport Police Department at Stop & Shop  brought in 600 bags of groceries, and nearly $1,200 in donations.

The food will last for several months at Homes with Hope’s pantry.

Homes with Hope CEO Helen McAlinden thanks all who participated, on behalf of the many recipients.

Presenting a symbolic check at the recent Sunrise Rotary meeting (from left): Liz Wong, Sunrise Rotary president; Officer Craig Bergamo, Westport Police; Rob Hauck, Sunrise Rotary; Helen McAlinden, Homes with Hope CEO; Paris Looney, Homes with Hope vice president; Officer Scott Thompson, Westport Police.

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As the FCIAC (league) finalist Staples High boys basketball team prepares for the first round of the state tournament this week, they invite Westporters to the school gym today (Sunday, March 3).

From 9:45 to 11:30 this morning, the Wreckers’ practice is open to the public.

From 4 to 5:15 p.m., shooting coach Dave Hopla will offer one of his legendary clinics.

From 5:15 to 6 p.m., Staples coaches and booster club representatives will discuss the team’s program. Future Wreckers will have a chance to play games, and shoot with current varsity stars.

The cost is $50 per family (Venmo: @staplesboysbasketball). Youth players receive a Staples basketball March Madness t-shirt.

Meanwhile, the team’s silent auction continues through 8 p.m. tonight. Click here to bid on sports and Broadway tickets, Staples “fan experiences” and more.

Proceeds help fund program improvements, including a shooting machine, strength and conditioning program, game jerseys, etc.

Staples boys basketball team.

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Speaking of sports: Congratulations to the Staples girls hockey team.

The co-op squad (with Westhill and Stamford) upset #1 seed/defending champion Darien 2-0, in the state tournament semifinal yesterday.

They’ll face the New Canaan-East Catholic winner in the final at Quinnipiac University, this Wednesday (March 6, 7 p.m.).

The Staples-Westhill-Stamford co-op team celebrates their quarterfinal win.

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A small crowd honored the late Bill Vornkahl yesterday at VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399, at a heartfelt ceremony.

A Citation of Service was issued from the Connecticut General Assembly, Selectwomen’s office, and Lt. Governor Susan Bysiewicz.

Bill Vornkahl’s ceremony yesterday, at the VFW. (Photo/Andrew Colabella)

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Diners at Jeera Thai got an extra treat the other day.

Joining them at the popular downtown restaurant were members of Lyyra. The 6-woman ensemble pushes the boundaries of treble choral, jazz. pop and folk music, as they redefine the entire genre of treble music.

They’ll perform at Christ & Holy Trinity Church on April 21 (5 p.m.; click here for tickets), and the Westport Library April 23 (7 p.m.; click here for tickets). The Library performance is a partnership with local high schools, and feature a mass choir with all students singing alongside Lyyra, and plus a solo set for Lyyra.

Meanwhile, click here for a video of Lyyra entertaining the surprised, but grateful, diners at Jeera Thai.

Screenshot of Lyyra, at Jeera Thai. 

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Earthplace’s spring calendar is full of activities, for all ages.

Elementary school-age offerings include Animal Hall Adventures, Nature Art Club, Li’l Naturalists, and April Vacation Day Camp.

Middle and high schoolers can participate in Junior Staff and Teen Volunteer Club.

Adults can enjoy Environmental Learning Series, Bees and Blossoms ID, Tea Time Book Club, and Craft & Sip.

Family activities include Themed Campfires, Group Canoe Paddles, Nature Journaling and Woodland Egg Hunt.

Click here for details.

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Club 203 — Westport’s social club for adults with disabilities — never misses a holiday.

Up next: St. Patrick’s Day.

They’ll celebrate a wee bit early: March 13 (6:30 to 8 p.m., VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399).

The event includes “green-themed fun,” food and festivities — including a chance to learn Irish dancing with the Lenihan Dance Troupe.

Attendees are encouraged to wear green. Parents and guardians are welcome to stay at the VFW (cash bar available).

For more information, click here.

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Seen on Facebook: A man who placed a takeout order at Pink Sumo was told it was “under the Patagonia building.”

“May I have clearer instructions?” he asked.

Most people responded with reasonable directions: just past Spotted Horse on the left side of the one-way part of Church Lane.

But a couple of folks couldn’t help themselves.

“The basement level of Westport Bank & Trust,” one said.

“Directly across from the old YMCA,” another added.

What a bunch of comedians!

Does this help? (Photo/Betsy P. Kahn)

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Dogs and tennis balls go together like hot dogs and mustard.

Vuori — the downtown clothing store — knows that.

They put out a tennis ball-filled box at Winslow Park, near the drinking fountain.

Mark Mathias’ dog Loki was one of many who enjoyed a free sample.

(Photo/Mark Mathias)

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It was bath time the other day, at the Library Riverwalk (and now as our daily “Westport … Naturally” feature).

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … on this date in 1923, Time magazine published its first issue.

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Obituary: Bill Vornkahl

William “Bill” Frederick Vornkahl III died Friday. He was 93.

Born in Norwalk on August 14, 1930 to William F. Vornkahl, Jr. and Alice Gerrish and a lifelong Westporter, Bill remembered playing his trombone along the Post Road to celebrate the Allies’ victory in Japan in August 1945.

In 1948 he graduated from Staples High School. He worked as a bank teller before joining the Army and serving as a high-speed radio operator in the 1st Cavalry Division, 13th Signal Corps from 1952–54.

Bill spent 14 months on Hokkaido, Japan. He wrote letters to Linnea, his future wife, who he met on a blind date just prior to his overseas service.

Bill Vornkahl at last year’ Memorial Day parade ceremony. It was the 54th, and final one, he organized. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

After returning to Westport Bill married Linnea on May 15, 1954, and returned to work at Westport Bank & Trust. He retired as a branch manager in 1987. Bill spent the next 30+ years, until spring 2020, driving people to and from airports.

Bill spent countless hours serving Westport and the veteran community. He was a member of American Legion Post 63 and VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399 for over 60 years.

He was a member/treasurer of Westport’s War Monument Committee from 1996–99, and of Westport’s Representative Town Meeting.

He was a Little League coach for both baseball and softball, and a volunteer on the sideline crew for the Staples High School football team for over 20 years.

Bill was secretary/treasurer of the Greens Farms Volunteer Fire Company since 1950, vice president/treasurer of Saugatuck Hose Company #4 since 1999, and president of Westport Volunteer Fire Company from 1973–93.

Bill was inducted into the Connecticut Veterans Hall of Fame in 2013.

Bill Vornkahl, at the 2022 Memorial Day parade. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

In Westport, Bill is best known for being chair of the Westport Memorial Day Parade since 1970. Westporters who attend the parade remember him walking, then riding, at the end of the parade, in addition to hosting the post-parade ceremony.

Bill also ran the Westport Italian Festival Parade.

Bill and Linnea attended parades and went to national parks across the country. Highlights included the Rose Parade in California and Theodore Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota. Bill visited all 50 states and drove in 49 of them, missing only Alaska.

He was an avid sports fan, particularly of the New York Giants, Rangers and Mets. Bill also enjoyed car racing, and took his family to the Danbury Fair Race Arena many Saturday nights.

Bill is survived by his children William Vornkahl IV (Diane), Susan Meineke (Richard), Ed Vornkahl, and Diane Malone (Joe), and grandchildren Allison, Kelly, Billy, Jennifer, Karalyn, Brian and Jamie. They will remember summers at Compo Beach, hamburgers on the grill, Super Bowl score prediction cakes, carving the Thanksgiving turkey, cats named Inky, and countless other  memories.

Bill was predeceased by his wife of 67 years, Mary Linnea Vornkahl, sister Margaret Troll, and brother George Robert Vornkahl.

Calling hours are Thursday, February 1 (4-8 p.m., Harding Funeral Home). Funeral services will be held at St. Paul Lutheran Church, 41 Easton Road, on Friday, February 2 (11 a.m). Interment will follow at Willowbrook Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Paul Lutheran Church.

Bill Vornkahl talks with a veteran, at the 2018 Memorial Day parade. (Photo/Kat Soren)

Remembering Bill Vornkahl

William F. Vornkahl III died Friday. He was 93 years old.

Westporters knew — and loved — him as “Bill.”

His other nickname was “Mr. Memorial Day.” For 54 years — ever since 1970 — he organized, orchestrated and led Westport’s annual parade.

It was an enormous undertaking. The moving parts — the marchers, the floats, the route, the ceremony on Veterans Green — were many, and daunting.

But it was a labor of love.

Bill Vornkahl was many things: a Korean War veteran, member of the Westport Veterans Council, volunteer firefighter, Little League coach, member of Staples High School football’s sideline crew.

He was a proud veteran, and an equally proud Westporter. He will be deeply and lovingly missed.

Bill Vornkahl, at last year’s Memorial Day parade. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

Visitation is set for this Thursday (February 1, 4 to 8 p.m., Harding Funeral Home). Bill’s funeral is Friday (February 2, 11 a.m., St. Paul Church, Easton Road).

In 2018, “06880” honored Bill Vornkahl as our Unsung Hero. Here is that story:  

On Monday, Westport celebrates Memorial Day.

We do it with one of the town’s most popular and beloved events of the year: a fun, wonderful and wide-ranging parade, followed by a solemn yet uplifting ceremony across from Town Hall.

It’s a huge undertaking. Hundreds of town employees and volunteers pitch in to make it all work. It seems effortless, but it’s anything but.

None of it would happen, though, without the leadership of Bill Vornkahl.

This will be the Westporter’s 49th year at the helm. When he started in 1970, the parade may have included Spanish-American War veterans. Today there are only a few who served in World War II.

Vornhkahl — now 88 years old — is a Korean War vet. He spent 14 months on the island of Hokkaido, Japan, working as a high-speed radio operator in the 1st Cavalry Division.

In 2013, he was inducted into the Connecticut Veterans Hall of Fame.

Bill Vornkahl

Vornkahl has been a member of the Westport Veterans Council even longer than he’s run the parade: 57 years.

From 1996 to ’99 he was treasurer of Westport’s War Monument Committee, helping place memorials to various wars on Veterans Green.

He joined the Greens Farms Volunteer Fire Company in 1950. He’s served as secretary/treasurer of both that company and Saugatuck Hose Company #4, and as president of the Westport Volunteer Fire Company from 1973 to ’93.

He coached Little League for more than 20 years, and for over a decade was part of the Staples High School football sideline crew.

Vornkahl has dedicated his life to Westport. Of all he’s done, the Memorial Day parade is his special passion. He makes sure it all happens flawlessly.

In 2015, Bill Vornkahl and 3 Girl Scout Daisies recited the Pledge of Allegiance.

Of course, the one thing he can’t control is the weather. The last 2 years, predictions of rain have canceled the parade, and moved the ceremonies indoors.

You may have seen him inside Town Hall, introducing the color guard, bands and speakers.

This Monday, we all hope he’ll be outdoors on Veterans Green, doing the same.

He’ll be busy — as he has been every Memorial Day since 1970. So now is the best time to thank him for all he does.

Veterans usually don’t like honors. But Bill Vornkahl is a true Unsung Hero.

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In 2020, COVID canceled Westport’s Memorial Day parade.

But our town did not forget its veterans — or Bill Vornkahl. “06880” That day, “06880” reported:

This might have been a lonely Memorial Day for Bill Vornkahl.

As “06880” reported this morning, the 90-year-old Korean War veteran recently lost his wife of 65 years.

And this year — for the first time in the 50 years he has organized Westport’s annual parade and tribute to fallen service members — the entire event was canceled, due to COVID.

But his family arranged a socially distanced cookout in the driveway of his Cross Highway home.

And in mid-morning — just like every year at Town Hall — Vornkahl heard “The Star-Spangled Banner” and “Taps.”

Nick Rossi sings the national anthem.

The national anthem was sung stirringly by Nick Rossi. The 2019 Staples High School graduate — now a student at Boston College — is a veteran of Veteran’s Green. He played and sang at last year’s ceremony.

The mournful brass notes were sounded by Sam Atlas. The 2018 Staples grad is a trumpet major at the Oberlin Conservatory of Music, where she plays in the orchestra, wind ensemble and chamber groups.

Sam Atlas plays “Taps.”

It was a fitting tribute for the man who is Westport’s “Mr. Memorial Day.” And he responded as any soldier would:

(Photos/Janine Scotti)

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It was a Bill Vornkahl tradition to close every Memorial Day ceremony with “It Is The Soldier,” a poem by Charles H. Province. “06880” is honored to post this, in honor of “Mr. Memorial Day,” Bill Vornkahl.

It is the soldier, not the minister
Who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the soldier, not the reporter
Who has given us freedom of press.

It is the soldier, not the poet
Who has given us freedom of speech.

It is the soldier, not the campus organizer
Who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the soldier, not the lawyer
Who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the soldier, not the politician
Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the soldier who salutes the flag,
Who serves beneath the flag,
And whose coffin is draped by the flag,
Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

“06880 On The Go”: Memorial Day Parade

“06880” intern Colin Morgeson headed downtown yesterday, for the Memorial Day parade.

Why do people go? he wondered. And what keeps them coming back?

Colin intercut those interviews with parade scenes, and the stirring conclusion to Rabbi Greg Wall’s invocation.

Click below to see. Then scroll down further, for a few extra-special photos from noted Westport photographer Ted Horowitz.

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Grand marshal Ben Pepper earned a Purple Heart at the Battle of the Bulge. The former paratrooper turns 100 years old in July.

Korean War veteran Bill Vornkahl has organized over 50 Westport Memorial Day parades.

Another Memorial Day tradition: The Y’s Men of Westport and Weston’s float wins the judges’ top prize.

Former 2nd Selectwoman (and current float competition judge) Betty Lou Cummings.

Miggs Burroughs, Revolutionary War hero.

Proudly marching with Westport’s Community Emergency Response Team.

A small part of the large crowd. (All photos/Ted Horowitz)

 

Bill Vornkahl’s Memorial Day: The Sequel

This might have been a lonely Memorial Day for Bill Vornkahl.

As “06880” reported this morning, the 90-year-old Korean War veteran recently lost his wife of 65 years.

And this year — for the first time in the 50 years he has organized Westport’s annual parade and tribute to fallen service members — the entire event was canceled, due to COVID.

But his family arranged a socially distanced cookout in the driveway of his Cross Highway home.

And in mid-morning — just like every year at Town Hall — Vornkahl heard “The Star-Spangled Banner” and “Taps.”

Nick Rossi sings the national anthem.

The national anthem was sung stirringly by Nick Rossi. The 2019 Staples High School graduate — now a student at Boston College — is a veteran of Veteran’s Green. He played and sang at last year’s ceremony.

The mournful brass notes were sounded by Sam Atlas. The 2018 Staples grad is a trumpet major at the Oberlin Conservatory of Music, where she plays in the orchestra, wind ensemble and chamber groups.

Sam Atlas plays “Taps.”

It was a fitting tribute for the man who is Westport’s “Mr. Memorial Day.” And he responded as any soldier would:

(Photos/Janine Scotti)

There’s No Parade. But We Still Have Bill Vornkahl’s Poem.

For decades, Memorial Day in Westport has meant one thing: Bill Vornkahl.

For half a century, he’s run one of our town’s most beloved traditions. Now 90 years old, he spent 14 months in Japan during the Korean War as a high-speed radio operator.

He joined Westport’s American Legion Post 63 in 1953, and the Westport Veterans Council a few years later. He first organized the parade in 1970. In 2013 he was inducted into the Connecticut Veterans Hall of Fame.

From 1996 to ’99 he was treasurer of Westport’s War Monument Committee, helping place memorials to various wars on Veterans Green.

Bill Vornkahl, at last year’s Memorial Day
parade. (Photo/Carmine Picarello)

Today has always been the most important day of the year for Bill Vornkahl. This year, it’s especially tough. Instead of a community-wide parade, Westporters are forced to remain apart.

His wife died a short while ago too, just before what would have been their 66th anniversary.

So as we think of all our veterans, let’s give special thanks to Bill Vornkahl. And what better way to honor him — and all service members — than with the poem he always recites at the Veteran’s Green ceremony after the parade.

It is the soldier, not the minister
Who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the soldier, not the reporter
Who has given us freedom of press.

It is the soldier, not the poet
Who has given us freedom of speech.

It is the soldier, not the campus organizer
Who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the soldier, not the lawyer
Who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the soldier, not the politician
Who has given us the right to vote.

It is the soldier who salutes the flag,
Who serves beneath the flag,
And whose coffin is draped by the flag,
Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

(Poem by Charles H. Province. Hat tip: Janine Scotti)

 

Staples High School bugler plays “Taps.”

A Drive To Revive American Legion Post 63

Once, Westport’s August Matthias American Legion Post 63 had over 100 members.

One of America’s original posts — it was chartered in 1919, a few months after the Legion was formed in the wake of World War I — the veterans’ organization thrived after the 2nd World War.

Now, however, Westport has only a dozen or so members on its rolls. Some spend much of the year in Florida.

Many are World War II and Korean War vets. They won’t be around forever.

The good news: Bill Vornkahl — Westport’s indefatigable veterans’ advocate, and a Post 63 member since 1954 — has pledged to build the post back up.

Bill Vornkahl

The American Legion is one of 2 veterans’ organizations in Westport. Named for World War I soldier and Westport native August Matthias, it — like the rest of the Legion — is open to anyone who served in the military in the United States.

The VFW — whose Joseph J. Clinton Post 399 is also named for a Westport veteran, and unlike the American Legion has an actual physical building, on Riverside Avenue — is open to veterans who served outside the US.

For many years, Legion meetings were held at the YMCA downtown. Then Leo Nevas gave part of Birchwood Country Club property to the organization. Eventually Nevas bought back the land. The American Legion used the proceeds for scholarships.

Over the years it also sent Staples High School students to Boys and Girls State, a summer government program; sponsored youth sports teams, and contributed funds to other civic organizations.

American Legion posts around Connecticut also support Boy Scout and Girl Scout troops, and send students to State Police Youth Week.

This year marks the 100th anniversary of the end of World War I.

Here’s hoping it’s also the beginning of the revival of American Legion August Matthias Post 63.

(To learn more about Westport’s American Legion post, or to join, call Bill Vornkahl: 203-227-3512.)

Unsung Hero #49

On Monday, Westport celebrates Memorial Day.

We do it with one of the town’s most popular and beloved events of the year: a fun, wonderful and wide-ranging parade, followed by a solemn yet uplifting ceremony across from Town Hall.

It’s a huge undertaking. Hundreds of town employees and volunteers pitch in to make it all work. It seems effortless, but it’s anything but.

None of it would happen, though, without the leadership of Bill Vornkahl.

This will be the Westporter’s 49th year at the helm. When he started in 1970, the parade may have included Spanish-American War veterans. Today there are only a few who served in World War II.

Vornhkahl — now 88 years old — is a Korean War vet. He spent 14 months on the island of Hokkaido, Japan, working as a high-speed radio operator in the 1st Cavalry Division.

In 2013, he was inducted into the Connecticut Veterans Hall of Fame.

Bill Vornkahl

Vornkahl has been a member of the Westport Veterans Council even longer than he’s run the parade: 57 years.

From 1996 to ’99 he was treasurer of Westport’s War Monument Committee, helping place memorials to various wars on Veterans Green.

He joined the Greens Farms Volunteer Fire Company in 1950. He’s served as secretary/treasurer of both that company and Saugatuck Hose Company #4, and as president of the Westport Volunteer Fire Company from 1973 to ’93.

He coached Little League for more than 20 years, and for over a decade was part of the Staples High School football sideline crew.

Vornkahl has dedicated his life to Westport. Of all he’s done, the Memorial Day parade is his special passion. He makes sure it all happens flawlessly.

In 2015, Bill Vornkahl and 3 Girl Scout Daisies recited the Pledge of Allegiance.

Of course, the one thing he can’t control is the weather. The last 2 years, predictions of rain have canceled the parade, and moved the ceremonies indoors.

You may have seen him inside Town Hall, introducing the color guard, bands and speakers.

This Monday, we all hope he’ll be outdoors on Veterans Green, doing the same.

He’ll be busy — as he has been every Memorial Day since 1970. So now is the best time to thank him for all he does.

Veterans usually don’t like honors. But Bill Vornkahl is a true Unsung Hero.

A Staples Senior Looks At Veterans Day

Every year, Bill Vornkahl — organizer of Westport’s Veterans Day ceremonies — asks Staples High School assistant principal Rich Franzis to recommend a senior to speak.

Franzis — a veteran himself — always finds an outstanding 12th grader. This year was no exception.

Spencer Daniels — a Staples soccer team captain who has earned a nomination to the US Military Academy — delivered these remarks yesterday.

“The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.”  -G.K. Chesterton

Serving one’s country, motivated by patriotism, is the most honorable commitment one can make. Willingly accepting the negatives of war and battle in order to defend the freedoms we have been blessed with is, honestly, incredible.

Spencer Daniels delivers Veterans Day remarks at Town Hall.

Spencer Daniels delivers Veterans Day remarks at Town Hall.

All those who have dedicated their lives to serving our country know one thing for certain. While in service, as well as civilian life, the primary list of priorities, and the basis for nearly all vital decisions, is Mission, Men, Me, or “M.M.M.”

Soldiers, and thus veterans, have a different set of values from others. Typically, individuals are motivated to help themselves. Soldiers cannot have this mentality.

As a United States Military Academy commit, I have already begun applying this to my own life. I began to understand the true meaning of MMM after speaking with Sean Gallagher, a graduate of the United States Naval Academy, who also happens to be a former Staples soccer player. He guided me through everything he experienced that led him to follow the Mission, Men, Me structure. He did this in order to help me lead our soccer team in the best way possible.

He helped me understand that the mission, which is winning the state championship, matters most. Everything that our team does must help us achieve our mission.

The next most important thing on the priorities list is my teammates. Unhappy, lethargic and disappointed teammates would hurt us, so my second priority was to ensure that all players were happy, respected, and valued.

Finally, if there is room, I can worry and focus on myself. However, mission and men always come before me.

 

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Spencer Daniels (3rd from right) gives everything he has on the soccer field in a pre-season scrimmage. The back of Staples’ t-shirts say “MMM.” (Photo/Frances Rowland)

After learning more about MMM, we decided to order Staples soccer preseason jerseys that had no numbers, but merely just MMM. This allowed us to focus more on our mission. Instead of everyone with their own numbers, we decided to represent our team as unified. With these preseason shirts, we showed that we were not a bunch of individuals playing together, but rather a team.

Now, enough about myself. The main message of my speech to you is that the patriotism, as well as the commitment to service, that was alive in all of your generations, is still much alive today. Although it may not always seem like it, commitment to service and country, as well as patriotism, are qualities present in my generation.

We have these qualities embedded in our roots due to the brave men who served before us. Our generation still feels the immense patriotism that many of your generations have passed onto us, and that will never fade for Americans.

We still feel, although it is not tangible, the struggle and pain you went through in order to ensure our freedom, protection, and the American way of life.

Spencer Daniels with Bill Vornkahl, longtime organizer of Westport's Veterans and Memorial Day celebrations.

Spencer Daniels with Bill Vornkahl, longtime organizer of Westport’s Veterans and Memorial Day celebrations.

So many teenagers still feel the obligation to serve, and I am proud to call myself one of these people. I, just like every other individual who chooses to serve, have service and patriotism embedded in my bones.

When I was 5 years old, I decided to have a military birthday party. I found doing PT and fighting invisible enemies far more interesting than a magician. I believe that my decision to serve our country began when I was just a little boy. One great influence on me was my great-grandfather, an Air Force veteran, who ran my birthday party.

On top of just myself, many of my classmates, even in a school with incredible wealth like Staples, choose to serve. Instead of following the “normal” path of going to college, becoming a banker, and making a ton of money, there are many individuals who want to join the military. Currently we have 5 applicants to service academies, and 7 individuals who are committed to enlisting immediately after high school graduation.

Memorial Day - Town Hall flag - 2016Service and patriotism run through all servicemembers’ blood, and is passed down from generation to generation. Those of you who have served have passed down, through your service, undeniable traits of patriotism and commitment to service.

While many of my classmates decide to compare cars, wealth, and other material possessions, we 12 have committed to serving our country. Without previous generations and their commitment to protecting our country, that number would be zero, and we would see those traits fade with every generation.

So for those who served, I would like to personally thank each and every one of you. Without you, I would not have to opportunity to serve. I am truly blessed, and proud to call all of you veterans of the United States Armed Forces.

Veterans such as my great-grandfather have had a significant impact on my choosing to serve. Without veterans, I would not have made the decisions that I have made.

I look forward to following in your footsteps as a leader in the armed forces. I appreciate the time you have given me, and I hope I will make all of you proud. Thank you.