Scarice Quells Rumors About “Appalling, Distressing” Video

Last week, Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice sent a message to the community about videos being shared by students on social media.

Federal privacy laws prevented him from providing details.

Rumors swirled, as adults then took to social media. A number of readers contacted Scarice and “06880,” asking why the local media was not covering an incident that was offered as “fact,” but was actually based on misinformation.

Yesterday, Scarice offered this follow-up message:

Over the weekend, I heard from a number of school community members who expressed serious concerns about a video, created outside of school, that has been circulating among families and over social media.

Today, I have reached out and spoken to most of those community members who contacted me. I will not be able to call each one so I will provide the following information.

I cannot share specific information about student matters because of federal student privacy laws. However, given the circumstances and level of anxiety, I will share the following:

Superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice.

First, I want to reiterate what I stated in community messages on October 9 and 13: “Categorically together with you, the Westport Public Schools stand against, and condemn, all forms of hate and violence.”

Without question, the Westport Public Schools condemns antisemitism and all other forms of hate.

The circulated video in question was created before October 7, 2023. It was not a re-enactment of the atrocities in Israel that began after its creation.

It was an appalling, distressing video that was addressed swiftly and firmly by the administration, in collaboration with the Westport Police Department, after it was brought to our attention.

The school administration, and the Westport police, in consultation with the state’s attorney’s office, investigated the video in question and could not substantiate any threat directed to specific Jewish people or to the Jewish population more generally, nor that the video targeted any Jewish person.

These points do not minimize that the video in question is disturbing and has caused hurt and upset to those who have viewed it. Its circulation at this moment in time is especially painful.

I want to assure the community that we do not tolerate this behavior, that we are addressing this matter, and that we address all matters in ways that are appropriate and sensitive to all students and community members involved.

As always, if you have any information of hate-based conduct, please make a report to the building administration.

Write-In Candidate: Uphill Path To Creating Awareness

The road to victory for a write-in candidate is daunting.

First, voters have to know he or she is running. They must learn how to fill in the ballot. At the polling place, they have to remember to do it.

Meanwhile, the candidate must somehow get his or her message out — without relying on traditional party machinery.

There’s a reason why Westporters cannot recall the last time — if ever – such a candidate won office here.

But Jill Dillon is undaunted. She’s running a write-in campaign for the Board of Education.

Jill Dillon

And she thinks she has a shot.

The long-time unaffiliated voter decided to run when she realized that because the Town Charter limits one party to no more than a bare majority on the BOE, one of two Republican candidates — Camilo Riano or Jamie Fitzgerald — seemed guaranteed a seat.

Their views worried Dillon, who served as PTA president at both Kings Highway Elementary and Coleytown Middle Schools, and generally supports the Westport Public Schools’ administrators and teachers (and the current Board of Ed).

Without speaking with Democratic Town Committee representatives, her hope was that voters would circle the names of Lee Goldstein and Neil Phillips — the 2 incumbent Dems in the race — and also bubble in the bottom of the ballot, then write “Jill Dillon.”

Her decision to run was solidified by support from friends — and strangers.

But “thank you for running” comments don’t translate into action. So Dillon and a dedicated corps of volunteers have been hard at work. They’re using social media, word of mouth, meet-and-greets and more.

Like all candidates, Jill Dillon has plenty of lawn signs.

Besides the usual challenges — including not appearing in the League of Women Voters’ guide — she has had to answer questions about why one of her 2 daughters attends private school. (The other is at CMS.)

“It was the right decision for her,” Dillon explains. “People assume we thought Staples was deficient.

“Not at all. As parents, we all make the best decisions we can. We thought that environment was the best fit. It’s been very good for her.

“I love our schools. I am 100% committed to Staples, and the Westport Public Schools.”

Criticism has not bothered her.

“I know who I am, and who I am not,” Dillon says. “Name-calling doesn’t bother me.”

She does not engage in back-and-forth on social media. “It degenerates quickly” into personal attacks, she says.

“It’s ironic. We don’t want our kids to be bullies. But adults bully all the time.”

Democrats Goldstein and Phillips have been called names. So have Republicans Fitzgerald and Riano.

“You can disagree strongly with what they says,” Dillon notes of the GOP candidates she is running against. “But calling them names takes away from their arguments.

“I don’t think I’ve smeared Camilo. I’ve stated his positions, and where I disagree. I think I’ve provided factual evidence to back up my claims.”

As her campaign heads toward the November 7 election, Dillon has been surprised by support from people she does not know.

Wearing a t-shirt with her name at CVS, she was approached by a woman with young children. “Thank you for giving us a choice,” she told Dillon.

Jill Dillon with supporters, at the Westport Farmers’ Market.

It’s one thing for a write-in candidate to forage for votes in areas where she’s known — like parents with children in schools. But Dillon realizes she must get the word out to other groups, including older voters, empty nesters, and younger voters without children.

So she and her volunteers continue to post on social media. They hand out yard signs.

And they keep hoping that voters know there’s a bubble at the bottom of the ballot that must be filled in, with a name they remember.

Pics Of The Day #2386

Halloween is tomorrow!

This weekend, Rowene Weems strolled around Old Hill. Here’s what she found:

(Photos/Rowene Weems Photography)

Meanwhile, over on Oak Street … (Photo/Amy Unikewicz)

 

Parker Harding Plan Withdrawn From P&Z

In a terse, 2-sentence note this morning, the town officially withdrew its applications to renovate Parker Harding Plaza.

Department of Public Works director Peter Ratkiewich emailed Planning & Zoning Department director Mary Young:

In consultation with the First Selectwoman, and in light of the commentary offered on the above referenced applications, we have decided to withdraw both applications so as to focus on addressing some of the issues.

We will resubmit at a later date.

For over a year, the Downtown Plan Implementation Committee has worked on a multi-pronged plan.

The first part — reconfiguring the lot behind Main Street to add green space by the river, improve traffic circulation and aesthetics, and bring it in compliance with ADA standards — initially removed the cut-through from Main Street to the Post Road. It also eliminated dozens of parking spaces.

Vehement opposition from retailers, restaurant owners and residents led to a second plan. The cut-through was returned, but for a variety of reasons — including widening of parking spots to meet current regulations — it resulted in the loss of 45 spaces.

The most recent Parker Harding Plaza plan.

Last Monday, Pete Ratkiewich and DPIC chair Randy Herbertson presented the newest iteration of the plan. Officially, it was an “8-24” review at the request of 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker.

P&Z commissioners and members of the public praised parts of the plan. But other elements — especially the elimination of nearly 4 dozen parking spots, along with traffic patterns, perpendicular rather than angled parking, sustainability, flooding, and the location of the dumpsters at one end of Parker Harding, near the river — drew intense scrutiny. (Click here for that “06880” story.)

P&Z members also questioned the sequence of steps. The DPIC has reimagined all of downtown, including the Taylor (“lower library”) lot by Jesup Green, and the lot on Imperial Avenue now used by the Westport Farmers’ Market.

Since the Taylor/Jesup Green plan adds parking (and a playground) downtown, commissioners asked, why not do that work prior to Parker Harding?

If town officials do not want to add parking there before eliminating it behind Main Street, they suggested the plan be reconsidered to improve fire safety, add the 4 ADA-compliant handicap spaces the lot currently lacks, spruce up landscaping and the current boardwalk — but also retain more parking.

After 3 hours of discussion, at Ratkiewich’s request the P&Z agreed to continue the proposal to November 6.

Now, it’s back — literally — to the drawing board.

(“06880” reached out to DPIC chair Randy Herbertson. He was not immediately available to comment.)

Artists’ renderings for the Parker Harding plan show 2-way traffic and perpendicular parking, with a pedestrian walkway from the Main Street tunnel (right) to the Saugatuck River. The backs of the stores are stylized; they would not look like that.

 

[OPINION] Impartial Review Panel Could Aid Long Lots Process

Ken Bernhard knows Westport. He’s lived here for decades, and seen a lot.

He spent 8 years representing our town in Connecticut’s General Assembly, rising to assistant minority leader. He was 3rd selectman from 1987 to ’89, then served on the Zoning Board of Appeals.

Ken Bernhard

The longtime Westporter has been a board member of the Westport Library, Visiting Nurse & Hospice of Fairfield County, Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce, Norwalk Human Services Council, Earthplace, Westport Historical Society, Levitt Pavilion, Aspetuck Land Trust, Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation, and Connecticut League of Conservation Voters,

Further afield, he has worked with Syrian refugees, and in Ukraine. Ken writes:

I believe Westport is confronting a critical issue that requires the immediate attention of our town leaders — specifically, the divide between those supporting the preservation of our Community Gardens, and those who want to construct a new Babe Ruth playing field.

Advocates for both sides agree that there is a need for a new school. But the necessity for and, more importantly the location of, another ball field is debatable.

The hyperbole on both sides undermines us as a community.

Unquestionably, the Long Lots School Building Committee did its work thoroughly and honestly. But the allegations that it did not adequately involve some of the stakeholders soon enough, that it exceeded the scope of its mission, that the recommendation to remove the gardens was preordained, and that the process was possibly flawed, are resonating among Westport residents.

If we don’t address this directly, and before the political approval process commences, we will have failed to maintain the sense of fair dealing and honest brokering that defines how Westport manages its affairs.

Please recall instances where compromise and good governance prevailed in years past: resolving the Arts Center lease at Green Farms Elementary School, dogs at Compo Beach, the acquisition and then use of Winslow Park, construction of the Senior Center, creation of the Wakeman Farm complex, and building the Compo Beach playground, to name a few.

I recommend that the administration appoint an impartial, respected group of citizens to review the process; listen to LLSBC members, neighbors, and community garden advocates, and hopefully render an opinion regarding gardens vs. a playing field that everyone can accept, and that will help the approval process to proceed with minimum rancor and distrust.

It would not take a great deal of time, might speed up the hearings, won’t cost anything, and could avoid possible litigation.

Construction of the Compo Beach playground began in 1986 only after a court injunction was lifted.

Roundup: Israel Signs, PAL Auction, Crowdsourcing …

Yesterday,”06880″ reported on antisemitic signs in Weston.

Yesterday morning too, a sign with an Israeli flag was found defaced at the corner of Coleytown and Lyons Plains Roads — just a few yards from Temple Israel.

The message is clear: “Israel has blood on its hands.”

The incident was reported to the Westport Police, FBI and Secure Community Network.

At the same time, Weston Police learned that one Israel sign was stolen from a resident’s property, and 2 other flag signs were defaced similar to the one in Westport.

Weston Police are conducting neighborhood canvases and checking residential security cameras. They ask anyone with information to call 203-222-2600.

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The Westport PAL online auction now open contains the usual great local items, like gift certificates and sports tickets.

But there are a few special items too that we haven’t seen anywhere else, including a 3-month membership to the private Autostrada club, 5 hour-long boxing sessions with Rich Dean, and the chance to be police or fire chief for the day.

Click here for the full list, and to bid. Funds help build the new PAL clubhouse at PJ Romano Field. The auction ends this Thursday (November 2) at 9 p.m.

The Autostrada lounge overlooks the private car collection.

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The National Charity League fosters mother-daughter relationships through a 6-year program of community service, leadership development and cultural experiences.

The Westport chapter has more than 275 members — women and their daughters in grades 7-12 — and provides volunteer support to over 30 non-profits.

Mothers of 6th grade girls are welcome to apply. Click here for more information, or email nclwmembership@gmail.com.

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After graduating from Staples High School in 2009, Cronin Cullen became an actor, filmmaker and producer.

His latest project, “12 Hours,” is about a single mother’s desperate night-long search for her fentanyl-addicted son. It is based on true events from the writer/ director, Kelly Stanphill.

The issue is close to Cronin’s heart. He has lost Westport friends to substance abuse.

A crowdsourcing campaign launched last week. All donations are tax-deductible. Click here for more information, and to contribute.

Cronin Cullen

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature shows Axel. He dressed up in Hawaiian garb this weekend, to enjoy a day at the beach.

(Photo/Melissa Sobil Zitomer)

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And finally … When I was a kid growing up in Westport, Halloween Eve was called “Mischief Night.” Fortunately, the statute of limitations is long past. (Don’t ask about the time I tossed my own parents’ mailbox into the pond across the street.)

In some parts of the country, it’s called Devil’s Night. Enjoy!

(Be an angel! Please support “06880.” Click here to make a tax-deductible contribution. Thank you!)

 

All Are Welcome At Staples Players’ “Prom”

Sure, it’s mid-autumn. But Staples High School is putting on a prom.

And the entire town is invited.

‘The Prom” is Staples Players’ fall musical. It’s a hilarious, clever, dance-filled show with great music, high energy, and an important message delivered in a delightful way, without an ounce of preachiness.

The young actors, dancers and musicians are having a great time. Their only concern is that theater-goers are unfamiliar with “The Prom.” (It was a Broadway Drama Desk Award winner for Best Musical, and a Netflix film starring Meryl Streep, James Corden and Nicole Kidman, but for some reason people don’t recall the easy-to-remember name.)

Henry Carson (center) and “The Prom” ensemble. 

Players had a similar situation last spring, with “Twelfth Night.” After the first week, word-of-mouth inspired a rush for tickets. Soon, they were sold out.

“The Prom” follows 4 fading Broadway actors. They head to a conservative Indiana town to help a lesbian student forbidden from bringing her girlfriend to a dance. They go for the wrong reasons, but along the way learn important life lessons.

The show — based on a true Mississippi story — “appeals to everyone,” says co-director David Roth.

“It’s a great show to take your kids to. It’s all about inclusion, compassion and love.”

“Plus, it’s very, very funny.”

Imogen Medoff 

“The Prom” recently made headlines when an Illinois school postponed the show (scheduled for next April) because, the superintendent said, “the building is not ready to handle the amount of negative attention that would be put on the kids” for taking part in the musical.

Following an uproar, the district backed down. The show will go on.

Nothing close to that has happened in Westport. Everyone involved in “The Prom” embraces it.

“Our kids were talking about that Illinois story,” Roth says. “A lot of them say they’re so thankful to live here, and not in that environment. Players is their safe space. They really understand what’s going on.”

Yusef Abudullah, and the ensemble. (All photos/Kerry Long)

Several actors say this is their favorite show ever at Staples. The cast is diverse, with both familiar names and students stepping into larger roles. The freshman class has brought “great energy” to Players, Roth notes.

“The Prom” is almost here. Opening night for the 2-week run is Friday, November 10.

And no one has to worry about a date. Bring whoever you want!

(“The Prom” performances are November 10, 11, 17 and 18 at 7:30 p.m., with matinees November 12 and 18 at 3 p.m. Click here for tickets, the cast list and more information. 

(Players will raise money at the show for the Westport Public Schools Pride Coalition, to create a mural and install a bench celebrating Staples’ LGBTQ+ community. A block of seats has been set aside for the November 18 matinee, for members of the LGBTQ+ community, their allies, families and advocacy groups to enjoy the show together. Click here for special tickets.)

 

 

 

 

Pic Of The Day #2385

Classic Gault barn, Compo Road South (Photo/John Videler for Videler Photography)

Pics Of The Day: Special Weekend Edition

Between yesterday’s July-like weather, and today’s back to normal weekend/stay indoors rain, “0688o” readers have showered me with photos.

Many are great. And because the seasons are changing so rapidly (and the full harvest moon will, as it always does, wane), it would be dumb to save these for a week or two.

So here’s a special edition of “Pics of the Day.”

Enjoy! Stay warm! Happy almost November!

Longshore by La Plage … (Photo/Lauri Weiser)

… and the golf course (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

Haskins Preserve (Photo/Jennifer Kobetitsch)

Earthplace (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

Sherwood Island State Park (Photo/Pamela Docters)

One view of Ned Dimes Marina … (Photo/ RoweneWeems Photography)

… and another (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

… and a third (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

Pumpkin carving at Old Mill Beach (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

Moonrise at Compo Beach … (Photo/Stephanie Tang)

… with a crowd (Photo/Rowene Weems Photography)

Full moon over Staples High School (Photo/Jennifer Kobetitsch)

 

 

Photo Challenge #461

It’s one thing for folks who grew up here in the 1960s and ’70s to remember the small plaza at the corner of Post Road East and Main Street — next to the original site of the Westport Public Library — as “Needle Park.”

The nickname came because. for a while, it was where “hippies” (who, erroneously, were synonymous with heroin users) hung out.

But what’s truly impressive is the number of Westporters who were not here then, who nonetheless know it was called “Needle Park.”

The little spot of concrete — well, a plaque there reading “Deeded open space/ The public is welcome to this park and terrace” — was last week’s Photo Challenge (click here to see).

Of course, the “open space” deed that owner Drew Friedman gave to the town  in perpetuity actually lasted only a few years. Today it’s the non-park entrance to what has been — since the library moved across the street — a café, clothing store and art gallery.

Congratulations to all the “06880” readers — townies and newcomers alike — who knew “Needle Park”: Andrew Colabella, John McCarthy, Richard Stein, Michael Simso, Jonathan McClure, John Brandt, Seth Schachter, Nancy Axthelm, Todd Tracy, Jack Backiel, Harry Brady, Scott Brodie, Sal Liccione, Amy Schneider, Bobbie Herman, Mary Ann Batsell and Seth Braunstein.

Let’s all hang out there one day!

Today’s Photo Challenge — less than a week after UN Day — is clearly a shot of the then-new United Nations headquarters in New York.

It hangs somewhere in Westport. If you know where, click “Comments” below.

And if you know who personally signed it, add that too. It was a pretty well known name, back in the day.