Mike Kulich Makes His (XXX) Mark

As a Staples junior, Mike Kulich got suspended for selling Playboys out of the trunk of his car.

Recognizing all the sales Mike had made, a staff member joked, “Maybe you can make a career out of this.”

Mike did.

Today he is one of the biggest names in the porn adult entertainment industry.

Based in California, he is the owner and CEO of Assence Films. He also owns OGEE Studios. Hustler Magazine calls Mike a “veteran (who knows) how each segment of the business works and how to best apply effective strategies.”

Not bad for a 25-year-old.

Like many teenage boys, Mike was fascinated by porn. Unlike many, though, he decided to make a career of it.

“I read books about the ‘golden era’ — Marilyn Chambers (a fellow Westporter), the Mitchell Brothers,” he says. “It was an industry where I could swear on the phone, do something interesting, and still make a lot of money.”

After graduating from Staples in 2004, Mike spent a semester at John Jay, studying criminal justice. But the lure of his youth was strong. He soon headed west, got an apartment in Marina del Ray, and knocked on the door of industry kingpin Howard Levine.

“I was 18 or 19, a cocky kid,” Mike says. “He told me to get out.”

Today, Levine is Mike’s distributor.

Mike Kulich

The dogged Mike landed a job with International Video Distributors. He made cold calls, selling videos to adult stores, liquor stores — and, memorably, Westport’s Merritt Country Store.

As the growth of internet porn slowed sales of videos, Mike started a company that printed and replicated videos for big studios. After a big payout, last year he began producing his own films.

What does “producing porn” mean?

“I choose the girls and the story lines. I write the scripts, and shoot them,” Mike says. “Everything is done in-house.”

Mike is happy to explain that his success — and he is huge — is a result of hard work.

“I knew from high school on that this is what I wanted,” he says. “I researched the industry, went with reputable companies, reached out, and built my reputation.”

Many people have misperceptions about the adult entertainment industry, he adds. “They think porn stars are hookers. But people here are really monogamous. Being on set is like another day at the office. People work, then they go home to their significant other. It’s just one niche in the entertainment world.”

His family, he says, is “very supportive.” (Well, he’s “not sure” that his grandmother knows what he does.)

“I’m a studio owner at 25,” he says proudly. “For me to get to this position in banking or marketing would have taken most of my career.”

As for his Staples classmates, “the guys think this is the coolest thing in the world.”

The girls? “Not so much.”

Sasha Grey

Though adult entertainment is a multi-billion dollar industry, Mike calls it surprisingly tight-knit. “Everyone knows everyone. We see each other all the time. We pass along leads, and help each other out.”

This winter, Mike and his studio made headlines. Assence’s debut film featured Sasha Grey‘s final scenes. She had gone mainstream — including a stint on “Entourage” — but a public uproar arose last November after she read to a Los Angeles classroom.

Assence announced it would donate a portion of the film’s proceeds to the National Education Association’s “Read Across America” program. The NEA refused the gift. That caused an uproar of its own, covered by CNN, Fox News, the Huffington Post and TMZ, among others. So Mike offered the funds to a UC-Davis institute that studies and supports sexually positive media portrayals.

Mike understands he has a chosen a path that’s not for everyone — and that not everyone understands.

“A good portion of society thinks the adult industry is taboo, and/or controlled by the Mafia,” he says. “We’ll, it’s completely legal, it’s taxed — it’s just another industry.”

And, like most industries, it has its rewards. No, I’m not talking about titillatingly close encounters with very naked women.

The Xbiz Awards -- just another day at the office.

Every year, the Xbiz Awards honor the “the Oscars of porn.” There are presentations for Best Actor, Best Actress — and Best New Studio.

Mike Kulich thinks he has a shot at that last award.

If he wins it, he may even give a shout-out to the Staples staff member who, less than a decade ago, jokingly suggested he make XXX-rated movies his career.

A Fond Farewell To Lee Bennett

The recent move of the Westport Post Office from the Post Road to Playhouse Square jarred many Westporters.

But we adapted. We’re survivors.

Much more traumatic will be the loss of Lee Bennett.

This Friday marks the last day here for the popular, ever-positive, always-helpful desk clerk. Next week she transfers to Bridgeport, much closer to her home in Stratford.

She’s served — and served with a smile — Westport for 26 years. She began her working life as an elementary school special education teacher in Stratford, but took the US Postal Service test, passed — and never regretted it.

Lee Bennett proudly displays her memory book.

“I love it! I love my job!” she said earlier this week. “The people — they’re my friends. Every day I get to express my feelings toward them.”

Lee expresses those feelings in a variety of languages. German, Swedish, Spanish, Danish — she’s learned how to say “hello” in all of them. “It makes them smile,” she explains. “And that makes me smile.”

Though she will miss working in Westport (“we rise to the challenge” is all she’ll say about the cramped Playhouse Square facility), she will not forget the many customers who love her.

They won’t let her forget them. For a couple of weeks, they’ve been signing a memory book for Lee.

The pages are filled with sentiments like “Thank you!” “Good luck!” And, of course, “Keep smiling!”

She points to several messages, written in Spanish and other languages.

“It’s not how many friends you can count — it’s how many you can count on,” she said.

For 26 years, Westporters have counted on Lee Bennett.

As our interview ended she opened her drawer, and gave me a candy.

“I do that for all my friends!” she said.

With a smile.

(The Bayview Post Office is at 115 Boston St., Bridgeport. Click here for information — and directions, so you can visit Lee there.)

Happy Anniversary To Me!

Three years ago today — March 6, 2009 — “06880″ was born.

The first post described what this blog would be:  open-ended conversations with a Westport angle, no matter how tenuous.  I invited comments, feedback, tips — anything.

No one responded.

Things picked up soon — my 2nd post, on a Staples PTA “Risky Behaviors” panel, drew 5 comments.  “06880″ was off to the races.

Time flies when you’re having fun.  Exactly 3 years later, my blog and I celebrate our 3rd anniversary.

Thinking of a gift?  That’s sweet.  The traditional 3rd-year gift is leather. (Ahem.)

I’d prefer money.

Donate as much as you'd like to "06880"

For the past 3 years, “06880″ has published over 1,900 posts — nearly 2 a day.  Some have been international in scope — the ones on porn star Marilyn Chambers, “Paranormal Activity” star Micah Sloat and supermodel twins and “Amazing Race” stars Derek and Drew Riker still draw viewers, years later.

Others are intensely local:  the departure and return of Mike Aitkenhead to Wakeman Town Farm. Drivers who leave the Robeks parking lot by going directly over the curb onto the Post Road.  Tributes to remarkable people like Esta BurroughsRich Rollins and Manny Margolis.

When snow -- and trees -- fell in October, "06880" was there.

I cover all our crazy weather: windstorms, hurricanes, a freak October snowstorm. When the power goes out — yeah, it happens — “06880” keeps publishing. With photos, updates on what’s open (the library and Y, usually), and we’ll-all-get-through-this-together tales.

I’ve given shout-outs to Westport kids — international science fair winners, an 8-year-old future hotel owner, even a beloved kids’ librarian.

I’ve looked back at the history of the Mill Pond, chronicled the changes on Church Street, and peered into the Twilight Zone of Westport’s own Rod Serling.

"06880" has gone Down Under for stories -- well, to the Down Under kayak shop in Saugatuck, anyway.

I’ve covered the ABC House, the Tea Party, the environment, education, restaurants,  artists, oystermen, fires, the movement for a new movie theater, the movement of the Y, the demise of downtown and the rise of Saugatuck.

I’ve provided a forum for wide-open discussions of anything and everything — on-topic, a bit tangential, and way, waaaaay off.

And it’s all been free.  A public service, if you will.

Of course, even servants like to eat.  So in honor of my anniversary, I’m making an NPR-style plea.  If you like what you read, please consider supporting “06880.”

Am I worth $1 a month?  $1 a week?  Perhaps (my choice!) $1 a day.

You can turn the page -- or you can help this man eat for a day.

If you think “06880″ deserves 10 cents a day, that’s only $36.60 (2012 is a leap year 🙂 ).  If you think it’s worth more — and you can afford more — well, who am I to argue?

Unlike Channel 13, you won’t get a Peter, Paul and Mary DVD.  Or a tote bag.  Donations are not even tax-deductible.

What you will get is the chance to help me recover a bit of the cost of registering domains, keeping “06880″ ad-free, and spending 2 hours every day interviewing, researching, writing, responding to comments (public and private), taking and sizing and framing photos, and scouring the web for appropriate (and occasionally inappropriate)  graphics.

Thanks for 3 great years.  I’ll keep doing what I’m doing, whether anyone sends an anniversary gift or not.

But it would be nice.

You can donate by PayPal: click here, then go to “Send Money” and enter this email address:  dwoog@optonline.net.  You don’t even need a PayPal account!

Or checks may be mailed to:  Dan Woog, 301 Post Road East, Westport, CT 06880.  Put “06880″ on the memo line.  It won’t do anything for the IRS, but it may help you remember at tax time why you sent me something.

Let The Games Begin

File this under whichever category you want: “Signs of the Apocalypse,” or “Meeting Kids Exactly Where They Are Today.”

Back in the 1940s this was a typical scene at Mahackeno, the Westport Y’s long-running summer camp:

Here’s a photo from last summer:

(That’s laser tag, for those of you not down with modern games.)

Building on last year’s success, Camp Mahackeno introduces special “theme weeks” this year — 1 for each of the 8 weeks camp is in session.

They include Olympics, space week, sports of all sorts, science week, travel around the world, holiday week, and arts week (in conjunction with the Westport Arts Center).

Traditionalists, take heart: One of the sessions is called “Water Week.”

Hey, it’s still summer. No one’s changed that.

Yet.

“A Decade Of Dreams” For ABC

Twelve years ago, several Westport citizens had a dream. They wanted to bring A Better Chance — a national program that since 1963 has provided educational opportunities to students of color from economically disadvantaged areas — to Westport.

The challenges were daunting. Where would the students live? Who would provide supervision, meals, transportation, medical care? How would they spend weekends, holidays, school vacations? What about college prep, applications, SAT tests?

And, of course: Where would the money come from?

The founding directors — Barbara Butler, Dave Driscoll, Lisa Friedland, Peggy Kamins, Ann Pawlick — never doubted they would succeed. Their only concern was doing it right.

They certainly did.

Westport’s first ABC scholars arrived at Glendarcy House on North Avenue in 2002. Since then, nearly 2 dozen young men have benefited from the chance to study at Staples High School, and participate in extracurricular activities. Along the way they’ve been helped by hundreds of Westporters, who have volunteered their time, energy and money in areas ranging from fundraising, academic support and hosting, to renovating the residence.

At the same time, the ABC scholars have contributed greatly to the school and town. They’ve given their time, energy, unique talents and outsize personalities to countless classes, projects, organizations and causes.

On Saturday, March 31 (6:30-10:30 p.m., Unitarian Church), ABC honors itself and its scholars — and raises important funds — with a “Decade of Dreams” event. In addition to great food, exciting entertainment, and a wide-ranging live and silent auction, the evening will honor ABC’s founding fathers and mothers.

ABC of Westport founders (from left): Lisa Friedland, Dave Driscoll, Peggy Kamins, Barbara Butler, Ann Pawlick.

Dave Driscoll was the man who visualized what ABC could do and be in Westport. His roots were in the corporate world, but he worked tirelessly to make this non-profit a reality.

Barbara Butler‘s intimate knowledge of town agencies was invaluable in navigating the labyrinth of permits, permissions and other red tape necessary to make ABC House a reality.

Lisa Friedland — who knows just about everyone in Westport — was one of the program’s early, and most energetic, guiding lights.

Ann Pawlick gave ABC its “look,” through newsletters, holiday cards, invitations, gift cards, and tons of other creative, handsome graphic material.

Peggy Kamins spent her time in the back rooms, figuring out computer issues, working on spreadsheets, organizing mailings and completing monumental tasks.

Though not a founder, 2-time president Steve Daniels‘ passion for the program, and sensitivity to the challenges faced by the scholars as well as the volunteers, helped make ABC House what it is today.

None seek the spotlight. All will take deserved bows at the “Decade of Dreams.”

Current ABC of Westport scholars (from left): Emerson Lovell, Stephan Patterson, Isaiah Nieves, Luis Cruz, Khaliq Sanda, Ruben Guardaro, Rhyse McLean.

But the evening will really be about the entire town — those who live at Glendarcy House, those who make it what it is, and those who want it to succeed.

To help it continue, a “wish list” is already online (click here). Covering items like computer supplies, yearbooks for seniors, prom expenses, cap-and-gown-fees, sports logowear, snacks like Subway and Chinese food, and Netflix rentals, this allows Westporters to help out with extra costs that help the ABC scholars share the same experiences as other Staples students.

It’s easy to forget what it’s like to be 13 or 14 years old and leave home, friends and school, move hundreds or thousands of miles away, enter a new culture and school, and live in a group home with resident directors.

And we sometimes forget what it’s like to do all the hard work necessary to make such a program succeed — far beyond  its modest beginnings.

March 31 is a fantastic chance to remember.

(Online bidding for the auction begins Thursday [March 8]. Live auction items can be previewed at the website too. Tickets to the “Decade of Dreams” event can be purchased by clicking here.)

0.2% Interest? You Bet We’ll Complain

The headline above was stolen directly from today’s New York Times.

Gretchen Morgenson’s story begins:

Stop your bellyaching.

That was the message delivered last Thursday to Americans who today make almost nothing on the savings in their bank accounts.

Sarah Bloom Raskin

It came from Sarah Bloom Raskin, an insider at the Federal Reserve. Ms. Raskin, one of the governors on the Fed board, made the usual disclaimer that her comments reflected her own thinking. But Fed watchers said her remarks probably mirrored views inside the central bank.

The remarks, Morgenson noted, came “during a speech in Westport, Conn.”

The event was a Westport Y’s Men meeting, in the jam-packed Unitarian Church.

The next day Morgenson asked Raskin — a former commissioner for financial regulation in Maryland who also spent time as a managing director at a regulatory consulting firm in Washington, and whose parents live in Westport — for an on-the-record interview. A spokeswoman said she was not available.

So it’s clear: When it comes to discussing the economic future of the United States, the Westport Y’s Men trump the New York Times.

(To read the entire Times story, click here.)

Kevin Strong Dunks The Junk

At Staples and Duke University, Kevin Strong was an elite swimmer. Now — 20 years out of college — Kevin is a pediatrician in Maine.

Neither swimming nor treating babies up north screams “hip hop” and “graffiti art.” But Kevin has combined both those mediums with his fervent conviction that junk food is killing our kids. The result: a grassroots “Dunk the Junk” campaign that he hopes will slash childhood obesity, improve health, and make a major impact on the lifelong eating habits of young and old alike.

Dr. Kevin Strong

Kevin is not a rapper or graffiti artist himself. After med school at UConn and residency at UC San Diego, he joined the solo pediatrics practice of Dr. Charles Hemenway Jr. in Fairfield. They worked together for 7 years — a “great experience,” Kevin says — but as the medical model moved toward seeing more patients for less time, he made the tough decision to move.

Three years ago he and his family found Camden, a Maine town on the ocean that he calls “like dreamland.” He’s working now as a pediatric hospitalist at Lewiston’s Central Maine Medical Center.

That’s where he sees an inordinate number of youngsters who are morbidly obese, and/or have Type 2 diabetes.

About half of Maine’s children are overweight — in some counties, a third are obese — and that’s both a health and economic hazard. Compounding the issue: Many of the parents — and doctors — in these kids’ lives are overweight themselves.

Simply saying “exercise more” doesn’t work, Kevin says. Many youngsters are already active. Nor does adding salad bars to school cafeterias. Kids need to be engaged on their own terms.

Kevin is convinced that reducing sugar — particularly soda consumption — is the key. He’s always loved graffiti art, so he hunted down Portland’s leading street artist Too Rich — (real name: Mike Rich)– and enlisted him in the project.

The program is supported by private donations, healthy-food companies and foundations.

The campaign’s name —Dunk the Junk — draws on the image of “dunking” junk, the way a basketball player dunks a ball.

A Dunk the Junk video shows 10 of the worst junk foods — energy and sports drinks, fruit snacks and fruit juice, gerasy chips, sugary cereals, chocolate milk and the #1 offender, soda — being dunked into oblivion, replaced by healthier alternatives.

Hip hop music plays; the graphics are street art. A web module is being prepared for doctors’ offices; an illustrated children’s book will be given to mothers of 6-month-olds, to entertain their kids while teaching the parents how to avoid introducing processed foods that instill in infants a craving for junk food that could persist throughout their lives.

The project will move from Maine to Philadelphia this summer, with a major event at an outdoor basketball court. Big-name entertainers and athletes will show up; Mike Rich will paint a graffiti mural that becomes the city-wide symbol of dunking junk food.

The Roots — Jimmy Fallon’s house band — have gotten involved too.

Kevin Strong sees too many kids like this in Maine. (Photo/www.foodfacts.info/blog)

And Kevin is taking his show on the road to healthcare workers. On March 21 he’ll present his program during pediatric grand rounds at Bridgeport Hospital. In May he’ll do the same at Norwalk Hospital.

Kevin says he’s using his own entrepreneurial spirit to try to do something good. He is harnessing creative artists to help deliver “a powerful, captivating message” for kids.

There was once a saying in politics: “As Maine goes, so goes the nation.”

Kevin Strong is betting it’s true for fresh fruit and vegetables, plain peanut butter and whole milk too.

Καλώς ήρθατε και πάλι, Elvira’s!

The extended Elvira’s family threw a party this afternoon, to celebrate their re-opening after an extended remodeling.

But it was hard to tell who was smiling more: the Yiozanakos family, who have owned the popular deli/grocery store/pizzeria/community center for 15 years, or the hundreds of Old Mill/Compo Beach residents who rely on it for breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks, conversation, gossip, and a “Cheers”-type ambience where everyone knows your name (and and knows everything important about you).

Welcome back, Nick, Nicki, John, Stacey. And congratulations — the place looks better than ever!

Nick and Nicki Yiozanakos are all smiles in the new Elvira's.

Gyros, kebabs, pizza -- it was all there and more for the Elvira's crowd. Note the handsome new cabinets!

Elvira's fans of all ages enjoyed today's party.

Stacey Yiozanakos waves to one of her many customers/friends, from behind the counter.

Federal Style Meets Urban

You can’t tell from this photo, but the gas lamps flickered today outside the Spotted Horse, the almost-ready-to-open restaurant in the Federal-style Sherwood House on Church Lane. The lamps lend a great touch to a loving restoration of the 1802 building in the heart of downtown.

Meanwhile, Urban Outfitters plans to open Thursday. One entrance is on the Post Road, next to Patagonia. A 2nd entrance is on Church Lane — next to the Spotted Horse.

Being able to walk through the store — as well as the new configuration of the parking lot and parking garage separating it from the new restaurant — will add a different dynamic to downtown. The sum of this redevelopment may be greater than its parts.

The Library’s Post-Apocalyptic Moment

If you’re not a teenager, you may not have heard of The Hunger Games.

But Jaina Lewis and Bill Derry have. And that’s good news for Westport’s youth.

Jaina (the Westport Library‘s young teen librarian) and Bill (the much-0lder but quite savvy “assistant director for innovation and user experience”) are collaborating on a unique, and very cool, event — for 12- to 18-year-olds only.

On Friday, March 9 (7:30-10 p.m.), the 74th Annual Hunger Games take place in the stacks.

No, you did not miss the first 73.  The 74th Games are where The Hunger Games — the 1st novel in a young adult trilogy by Ridgefield author Suzanne Collins — begins.

Set in a post-apocalyptic world in the country of Panem — the former North America — the dark story portrays 12 districts, all slaves to the capital, where citizens are kept hungry and isolated.

In the Hunger Games, 2 “tributes” — 1 boy and 1 girl from each district — compete in a televised fight to the death in a dangerous arena. Eventually, only 1 remains.

The books — translated into 26 languages — are a worldwide phenomenon. A movie of the same name will be released on March 23.

Seizing on the intense interest — and, in Bill’s words, “showing an experiential side of the library, supporting reading and learning, by really moving inside of it” — Westport’s Hunger Games are set to begin.

The publicity is as stark as Collins’ Games themselves. “Food rations will be given,” the flyer says. “Only Tributes in grades 6-12 are eligible to attend. Parents will not be in attendance: parents must entrust their children to the Capitol.”

Tributes can earn prizes for themselves and their District by training in survival skills, testing their Hunger Games trivia, and competing in a Tribute costume contest (it’s important to look great before the battles).

Plenty of planning has gone into the event. Many high school and middle school students have helped with sets and lighting. Local vendors have donated food. Two bands — Disabled Time and Amplitude — will play.

The library’s Hunger Games are attracting a wide range of participants, Bill says. Some were avid readers of the trilogy; others found out about it from friends.

A gladiatorial battle to the death in a post-apocalyptic world. Costumes, food, music — all in the library stacks.

What’s not to like?

(Registration costs $18, and ends Tuesday, March 6. Click here to register. For more information, email jlewis@westportlibrary.org)