Category Archives: Obituaries

Roundup: Early Voting, Lead Pipes, Masquerade Ball …

Early voting continues to draw steady crowds to Town Hall.

Balloting runs through Sunday, November 3, from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. in the Town Hall auditorium. Tomorrow (October 31), hours are 8 a.m. to 8 p.m.

Voting on Election Day (Tuesday, November 5), is from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m., at regular polling places. Click here to view a district map.

(Photo/Frank Rosen)

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In response to the recent mailing from Aquarion to water customers about possible lead pipes, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker asked Public Works director Peter Ratkiewich to contact the utility. Aquarion told him: “The water has been and will continue to be safe.”

First Selectwoman Jen Tooker adds, “I encourage residents with questions and concerns to contact Aquarion directly, or research online at Aquarion Water Company.”                                                                       

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Congratulations to Ben Casparius!

The 2017 Staples High School graduate did not pitch in last night’s 7-6 Los Angeles Dodgers victory over the New York Yankees.

But he’s a World Series champion — the first-ever former Wrecker baseball player to earn that feat.

The champs will be honored with a parade in LA tomorrow, and an event at Dodger Stadium.

Then — at some point, when he returns here — Westport will no doubt throw a party for our newest hometown hero.

Los Angeles Dodgers celebrate, at Yankee Stadium.

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Content Studio — Chirag Shah and Jay Norris’ Saugatuck Avenue production studio that’s earning raves as Westport’s newest, most versatile party/meeting/ media location — hosted a great pre-Halloween masquerade ball last night.

A diverse, intriguing crowd celebrated with DJ Marcello, enjoyed excellent food and drinks — and raised money for A Better Chance of Westport.

There were no tricks at all. But plenty of treats.

 

From left: Dan Woog, 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, Jay Norris, Noah Fenn, Crystal Norris. (All photos/Ryan Allen)

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Westport’s Parks & Recreation Department has announced new programs for youngsters.

Better Babysitting: This class teaches teens and young adults how to be a successful babysitter. It includes infant and child CPR, how to handle emergency situations and child development. Participants will leave this course as certified babysitters ready to work. (November 7, December 5, January 2, February 13, March 6, April 3, May 1; 4 to 6 p.m.; ages 11+).

Crafty Kids Art Classes: A fun space for children to grow creatively and socially through process art, DIY crafts and sensory play. (Tuesdays, November 12-December 10; 4 to 5 p.m.; grades K-5).

Food Explorers: Children make new food each week. Fridays, November 15-December 13; 4:30 to 5:30 p.m.; grades 2-5). 

Exploring food encourages children to learn through sensory experiences, hands-on activities and working together to create delicious results. Children will have the freedom to explore food thanks to our unique “food neutral’ approach to teaching about food. During this class, children will learn to make a new food every week.

Water Polo: (Fridays , November 12-February 6; 5:30 to 7 p.m.; ages 8-13). 

Click here to register.

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Speaking of kids: The Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce has announced the winners of this year’s Halloween Window Painting Contest, sponsored by Village Pediatrics.

Over 50 children painted 40 windows throughout town, thanks to the generosity of local businesses.

Winners received gift certificates for ice cream, thanks to Momu.

Winners in the 2 school levels and 3 painting categories are:

ELEMENTARY SCHOOL

“Scariest Window”: Misha Mendelson, 4th grade Kings Highway, Momu window

“Most Halloween”: Margaux Chang, Cora Comprelli, Maddy Chang, 1st Grade Kings Highway, Naturino Shoes window

“Most Original”: Lila Boyd, 5th Grade Saugatuck, Naturino Shoes

MIDDLE SCHOOL

“Scariest Window”: Mia Suchotliff, 6th grade Bedford, Cycle Dynamics

“Most Creative”: Penelope Whitbourne, 8th grade Bedford, Cycle Dynamics

“Most Halloween”: Chloe Robbin, 6th Grade Bedford, Cycle Dynamics

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Balloons are pretty.

They’re also atrocious for the environment — especially marine life.

This past summer, Saugatuck Harbor Yacht Club’s Fishing Committee ran a competition. The goal: Who could “catch” the most Mylar and plastic balloons.

The results far surpassed chair Maggie Carey’s expectations. Nearly 2 dozen families collected 431 balloons — plus plastic bags full of cans, pool floats, a beach ball, soccer ball and more.

On Sunday, prizes were awarded to winning families.

Evan, Lorraine and Kendall Berger (age 9) of Weston finished first, with 191 balloons (plus other items).

Second place went to Hannah and Eric Peck of Fairfield with 102 balloons (and assorted trash).

Rowayton Seafood found out about the competition, and doubled the value of gift cards SHYC purchased as awards.

Kendall also received a pair of Grudens fishing bibs, to help catch more balloons next year.

The balloons were collected in bunches, and solo. They represented R2D2, dinosaurs, pineapples and Spidermans.

Saugatuck Harbor hopes to repeat the contest next year. They may challenge other local yacht clubs to see who can collect the most.

And, Maggie notes, members — and everyone else — can continue collecting balloons they find on the water and washed up on shore, all year long.

The Berger family in action, on the “Saugy Dog.”

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Tim Romano and Trump signs are back in the news.

This summer, the longtime Westporter and Longshore-area resident — provoked a debate by driving his golf cart, festooned with a large political banner, around the golf course and Compo Beach. Residents thought the private citizen was a town employee.

A heated confrontation with an irate anti-Trumper was caught on video.

Now, the Connecticut Centinal reports:

A female jogger running south on Compo Road South intentionally tipped over two Trump lawn signs before she turned right into the Longshore complex. The signs had been placed between the sidewalk and the roadway.

Romano contacted police and an officer met him to review video footage he had taken of the jogger. The footage did not show the jogger tipping over the signs.

But while speaking to Romano, the jogger coincidentally reappeared.

The police report indicates the jogger identified herself as a doctor, specifically a gynecologist. She told the officer she felt that the Trump signs were “offensive” to her “as a taxpayer in the Town of Westport” and she “doesn’t want to see” Trump signs on public property.

The officer reminded the doctor that regardless of one’s political views, everyone had a right to free speech, and that includes voicing their support for candidates in the election.

The officer asked the doctor to remain patient considering the election is only a week away, and gave her a warning. Meanwhile, Romano replanted the Trump signs.

Click here for the full Centinal story.

Screenshot from Connecticut Centinal video.

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Y’s Men of Westport and Weston member Mario Ottaviano died Sunday, surrounded by his family. He was 91.

He was born in Stamford to parents who immigrated from Italy. Mario graduated top of his class from the RCA Institute. For 27  years he owned and operated Economy TV, a television and audio sales and service company.

He received a BS in business from the University of Connecticut. He later earned a real estate broker’s license, a graduate certificate from the University of Georgia Real Estate Management program, and an ICSC Shopping Center Manager CSM degree.

Mario founded Ottaviano Associates, which owned properties around Stamford. He also owned and maintained properties in Bristol. He was knowledgeable about engineering, architecture and electronics. With his keen eye for craftmanship, he oversaw the restoration of two historic family homes.

An avid boater, Mario and his wife Marilyn enjoyed living by the water in Westport for 30 years. His interests included squash, handball, skiing, square dancing, theater, and biking with his children and grandchildren.

He played guitar and ukelele, and gardened and canned what he grew.

With the Y’s Men he spearheaded the Cooking Club, and was a member of the Hiking Club and Classical Music Society.

Mario was pre-deceased by his sister Angelina Concetta Lionetti. He is survived by his wife of 66 years, Marilyn Lovallo Ottaviano; children Susan of New York, John (Cindy) Stamford, Christy (Kevin Ohe) of Fairfield, and David (Jessica Bruck) of Albuquerque; and grandchildren Casey Ottaviano, Francis Ohe, Vincent Ohe, Henry Boone, Craig Ottaviano, Elena Ohe and Antonia Ottaviano.

A celebration of life ceremony will take place November 30 (10:30 a.m., Harbor Lights, 82 Seaview Avenue, Norwalk). Remembrances can be shared in the memory book on Cognetta Funeral Home’s website.

Mario Ottaviano

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Greg Manty says “Sherwood Island is the best this time of year!”

“06880” readers love Connecticut’s first state park in all 4 seasons. This is just one view, for our “Westport … Naturally” series.

(Photo/Greg Manty)

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And finally … if you’re tired of hearing “Monster Mash” played as the iconic Halloween song:

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Roundup: 39 Steps, Brooks Corner, Window Painting …

For the first time in over a year, the Westport Country Playhouse is staging a play.

The iconic 93-year-old American theater survived a near-bankruptcy last year. Since then, it has presented a wide variety of entertainment, including concerts by the likes of Bernadette Peters and Judy Collins, revues, and shows for Taylor Swift and “Pinkalicious” fans.

As part of a new strategy to recapture play audiences, the Playhouse has shifted that schedule from summer to fall/winter/spring.

The first of 4 comedic series — because we all need to laugh — is now on stage.

Despite competing with Game 2 of the World Series (involving the hometown New York Yankees), most Playhouse seats were filled last evening. It was opening night for the hilarious production of Alfred Hitchcock’s “39 Steps”.

The fast-paced show of espionage and mayhem — based on Alfred Hitchcock’s classic 1935 film, with a dash of Monty Python — runs through November 9.

It is directed by Mark Shanahan, WCP artistic director. Click here for more information, and tickets.

“39 Steps” cast takes their Westport Country Playhouse bows. (Hat tip and photo/Dave Matlow)

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The Brooks Corner parking lot is looking a bit emptier these days.

It’s still filled to capacity. But that capacity is now slightly less.

A half dozen spots were removed during recent re-striping.

Yes, there’s someone in that gray car. It’s not parked. (Photo/Dan Woog)

That may mean inconvenience a few shoppers.

But it makes the once-crowded lot exponentially less difficult to navigate.

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Windows throughout Westport were transformed this weekend.

The annual Halloween window painting contest returned yesterday.

Elementary and middle schools painters worked their magic at stores and other buildings, in 3 categories: Scariest Art Work, Best Halloween Theme and Most Original. The prizes are gift certificates, courtesy of the Westport Weston Chamber of Commerce.

Hard at work, at the Senior Center.

That’s just the start. On Tuesday (October 29), the Parks & Recreation Department’s annual Halloween Parade begins at 3:30 p.m., at the Post Road East/Main Street intersection.

Costumed kids will walk to Avery Place, then enjoy festivities on Veterans Green across from Town Hall.

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Westport Sunrise Rotary Club joined Rotarians from Fairfield and Bridgeport to celebrate Read Aloud Day on Friday, at Luis Munoz Marin Elementary School in Bridgeport.

Books were selected by the school, and purchased by the Rotary Clubs. The volunteers were assigned a book and a class from pre-K to 5th grade to read to. After the reading, the books were donated to the class.

From left: Rotarians Dennis Wong, Bruce Fritz, Bruce Paul, Marin principal Judy Swenton, Katie Augustyn, Rob Hauck and Aimee Monroy Smith.

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The Y’s Men’s Thursday meetings often feature intriguing speakers.

This past week, an SRO crowd heard a talk — and a concert.

Professor/musical interpreter/performer Orin Grossman gave a history of George Gershwin and Duke Ellington, then played selections from their music.

he Y’s Men heard — among others — “Someone to Watch Over Me,” “Looking for a Boy,” “Swampy River” and “Single Petal of a Rose.”

Now you can hear it all too. Click the link below:

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As the Staples field hockey team roars through the post-season, they’re feeling confident.

And comfortable.

New shelters and benches have just been delivered to Jinny Parker Field. They’re courtesy of 6 organizations, all of which use the turf: Staples Field Hockey and Girls Lacrosse, Westport PAL girls lacrosse, Westport Youth Field Hockey, the Gridiron Club, and Westport Parks & Recreation.

The Wrecker field hockey team did not use them yesterday — but they continued to roll. The girls — top-seeded in the FCIAC (league) tournament — shut out Greenwich 3-0, in the semifinals.

Staples is in the finals — again. The game is set for Tuesday (October 29, 6:30 p.m., Wilton High School).

The state tournament follows. The Wreckers will begin at home.

The benches will be ready.

The Staples field hockey team, with their new bench and canopy.

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The Westport Library continues its Wednesday 11 a.m. “Anyone Can Use …” educational series. Sessions include:

Genealogy Resources (November 6)

Pronunciator (November 20)

LinkedIn Learning (December 4)

Google Slides (December 18).

Classes are free, but registration is required. Click here for more information.

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Westport-based Christmas Lake Press has published “Voices of Our Children” — and there is a strong local connection.

The illustrated poetry anthology features the work of children in the HEAL Community Service Program — part of Homes with Hope

The small, moving volume include youngsters’ heartfelt work. The official launch is set for the Westport Book Shop on November 14 (4:30 p.m.).

Organized by different forms of poetry, like haiku, odes, colors and Renga, the book showcases poets ranging from kindergarteners to high school seniors, along with HEAL volunteers.

The back of the book includes blank lined pages where readers — from children to adults— are encouraged to write their own poems.

The program that generated the poems in the book was created and run by Westport resident Sylvie Middleton, with Jennifer Lyn Amon, HEAL program director.

All proceeds will help further HEAL members’ creative and artistic aspirations, through Homes with Hope’s programming. Christmas Lake published the book pro bono, as a contribution to the community.

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Former Westport educator Karley Meltzer died peacefully on October 14 in the presence of her daughter, Killian Higgins, in San Mateo, California, where she moved 8 years ago to be closer to her family. She was 84.

Daughter of US Congressman Thor Tollefson of Washington, Karley earned a BA in music from Sarah Lawrence College, a master’s degree in education from Wesleyan University, and a doctorate in education from Columbia University.  

At Staples High School she served as dean of the Class of 1986 — the first class to enter as freshmen, during Westport’s transition from junior highs to middle schools.

She helped develop the Alternatives interdisciplinary program for high school students at Staples High, initiated the Ropes course, served as vice president of the Westport Education Association, and was a board member of Project Return.

Former student (and WEA board member) Karen DeFelice was a student in Karley’s Psychology class at Staples. Karen calls her “an amazing teacher. She had so much energy and passion. She also had a deep appreciation for diverse learners.”

She had taught social studies before moving on to administration, first as vice principal in New Fairfield and then as principal of a magnet middle school in Stamford.

In addition to her daughter Killian, she is survived by 3 step-children and 6 grandchildren.

A celebration of Karley’s life is set for November 16 (2 p.m., the Peninsula Regent, San Mateo). To contact her daughter , email  killianhiggins@gmail.com.

Karley Meltzer

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Cary Peterson sends today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo — and these words:

“This is only one of the animals we’ve seen at our small pond in central Westport.

(Photo/Cary Peterson)

“They are all thirsty. Fresh water is hard to find. People might want to put out water.

“Even though temperatures have been warm, the raccoon’s coat seems very thick. It may bode for a colder winter.”

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And finally … Jack Jones — described by the New York Times as “a crooner who beguiled concert fans and stage, screen and television audiences for decades with romantic ballads and gentle jazz tunes that even in large venues often achieved the intimacy of his celebrated nightclub performances” — died Wednesday in California. He was 86, and suffered from leukemia.

Click here for a full obituary.

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Roundup: Warm-up Fund, Wine Tasting, Constitution …

Sure, the weather is unseasonably warm for late fall.

But winter will come. So will heating bills.

The Westport Warm-Up Fund helps income-qualified households handle those expenses. The program is essential for residents whose earnings fall narrowly above state income guidelines. Though ineligible for state or federal assistance, they still need help with utility costs.

Funds come from individuals, businesses and community organizations.

Westport Department of Human Services Elaine Daignault says, “Warm-up donations allow our department to assist our ‘invisible; neighbors in need. Despite a wealth of resources, many neighbors quietly struggle to keep the lights on and their houses warm.”

Tax-deductible donations can be made online (scroll down to top item), or by mail to Westport Warm-Up Fund, Department of Human Services, Town Hall, 110 Myrtle Ave., Westport CT 06880. Questions? In need of assistance? Call 203-341-1050.

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Westport Sunrise Rotary’s 33rd annual “Westport Uncorked” — an international wine tasting — packed The Inn at Longshore last night.

Over 100 sustainable, organic wines were served, along with plenty of hors d’oeuvres.

Proceeds aid Sunrise Rotary’s charitable work, locally and abroad. It’s one of 2 major fundraisers (the other is the Great Duck Race).

We’ll drink to that!

Wine importer David Squires’ table was one of 18, serving a wide variety of sustainable, organic wines.

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The Constitution is a huge topic of national conversation, in the run-up to this year’s presidential election.

On Monday (October 28, 7 p.m.), the Westport Library hosts Akhil Reed Amar.

The Yale University law and political science professor, and noted Constitutional scholar, will discuss his book “The Words That Made Us: America’s Constitutional Conversation, 1760-1840.”

He’ll also cover a wide range of topics, including the Electoral College, the pardoning power of the presidency, presidential immunity, and the role and shaping of the judiciary. After the talk, Professor Amar will answer questions about the Constitution.

Also at the Library: a display of campaign buttons and other  presidential memorabilia (including a metal button from George Washington’s inauguration!).

It’s a fascinating exhibit. We vote that everyone should see it.

Professor Akhil Reed Amar, with author Stephen Bowling.

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Speaking of the Library: Their huge book sale begins next Friday (November 1). Click here for details.

But those books don’t just fall from the sky. It takes volunteers — lots of them — to make it happen.

Who can volunteer? You!

The Library needs help October 29-31 unpacking and shelving books; sorting; moving tables, and opening boxes.

During the sale, help is needed. And then more picking up, packing and cleaning up.

Click here to sign up, and for more information.

Set-ups like this don’t just happen.

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The United Methodist Church of Westport and Weston has an exciting weekend ahead.

Tomorrow (Saturday, October 26, 1 to 3 p.m.), kids up to age 12 enjoy “Trunk or Treat.”

The public is invited. Admission is free; donations of cash or 3-5 food items for local pantries are a “treat” for neighbors.

Youngsters can wear costumes, for a fun, safe, “non-scary” Halloween event. To host a trunk, email george.hanze@gmail.com.

On Sunday (October 27, 4 p.m.), Jazz Vespers brings together live music, inspiring poetry and Scripture. Musicians include: Malin Carta (saxophone), John Hoddinot (guitar), Matthew Munzner (bass) and Conor Brennan, drums.  A free will offering for the music program will be received.

Trunk or Treat, at the United Methodist Church.

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Cheryl Wheeler and Kenny White headline the next Voices Café (November 2, 8 p.m., Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport).

Wheeler is a gifted singer-songwriter, and a storyteller with a great sense of humor. Her songs are often emotional portraits of people.

White has a deep career as a singer-songwriter, pianist and guitarist,

Voices Café concerts support the church’s social justice programs. Click here for tickets, and more information.

Cheryl Wheeler and Kenny White.

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Here’s a “snapshot” of last weekend’s Photography Fine Art Fair, at MoCA CT:

The wide variety of talented photographers and subjects drew over 250 attendees. Many Westporters were showcased — and enjoyed the show.

Westport photographers at the MoCA CT show (from left): Larry Silver, Tom Kretsch, Art Nager, Ashley Skatoff.

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Longtime Westport resident Bryan Alix died October 3. He was diagnosed with sarcoma cancer last year. He was 69.

Bryan represented many ocean shipping lines. His family says: “He always found a way to deliver the most logistically difficult cargo, ranging from food aid to turbines to houses to locomotives, to ports from Egypt to Tajikistan and everywhere in between. It was impossible to stump him on questions of geography and geopolitics. His stories of shipping on the high seas are legendary.”

Bryan earned a BA in economics from Columbia University, and an MS in international transportation management from SUNY Maritime College. He served on the Maritime Association NATO Panel of Ocean Shipping, as a US delegate.

Bryan played softball with the Westport Boys of Summer, and was a member of the Y’s Men of Westport and Weston. He was a soccer coach for Westport teams, an umpire for Westport Little League, and he continued his college passion of ice hockey by coaching at Wonderland of Ice.

His family says, “Bryan was the most reliable friend to anyone in need, and the person everyone wanted at their dinner table with stories and laughter guaranteed.”

He is survived by his wife Jane, sons Daniel (Michelle)  of Redondo Beach, California, and Andrew (Allie Gluck) of Seattle; grandson Liam; sister Suzanne Lockhart (Jim), sister Maryann Finn (Dan); brother Charles Alix (Julie), and nieces and nephews.

A memorial will be held November 2 (1 p.m., Westport Woman’s Club). Donations in his name may be made to Westport Emergency Medical Service; Wonderland of Ice, Bridgeport; and Paula Takacs Foundation of Sarcoma Research.

Bryan Alix

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Today, acorns make their first appearance in our “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Jerry Kuyper)

Jerry Kuyper spotted these nuts on his deck. He notes: “Some of these acorn caps appear to have small clocks inside of their cupules, to time their launch.”

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And finally … in honor of Westport Sunrise Rotary’s great “Uncorked” event last night:

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Roundup: World Series, Push-ups, Compo Dogs …

Ben Casparius is headed to the World Series.

The 2017 Staples High School graduate — believed to be the first former Wrecker ever to reach baseball’s Major Leagues — now goes to the ultimate games.

And he’s one reason they’re there.

Called up from the minors in August, Casparius has proven to be a reliable relief pitcher. Last night he threw 1 1/3 innings, allowing 2 hits, walking 1 but giving up no runs, as the Dodgers beat the New York Mets 10-5.

And Casparius — one of 7 LA pitchers — was credited with the win. It was his first in MLB.

Jeff Mitchell explains: “If the starting pitcher does not complete at least 5 innings and leaves the game with a lead that the team maintains, the official scorer will decide which relief pitcher is credited with the win.

“The scorer typically awards the win to the relief pitcher who was the most effective in preserving the lead during the game. Because no relief pitcher pitched more innings than Ben (1 1/3) nor had a better ERA (0.00), Ben was awarded it.

“I highly doubt any pitcher in the history of baseball has won a post-season game with fewer regular season appearances. Ben had appeared in just 3 regular season games, and now has appeared in 4 post-season games.

“However, rumors are that Dodger relievers Brusdar Graterol and Alex Vesia might be well enough to return for the World Series. That means they would need to replace 1 or 2 relievers currently on the roster.

“Ben is not assured to be back on the starting roster. But I think he’ll be in the dugout to be used in case of injury.”

Here’s the clubhouse scene, after the game:

 

Meanwhile, as the California team battled to reach the World Series — against the New York Yankees — most folks assumed the Connecticut native had grown up rooting for either the Yanks or the Mets.

Nope.

Yesterday’s Boston Globe reported:

Dodgers rookie righthander Ben Caspariusgrew up in Westport, Conn., which is Yankees territory. But he was a Red Sox fan.

“My father is from Maine and he and my mom went to Northeastern,” Casparius said. “So I always liked the Sox.”

The Globe added:

Casparius was a two-way player at North Carolina then transferred to UConn to focus on pitching.

It was a good decision. He had a 3.36 ERA as a starter in Triple A this season, made his major league debut as a reliever, and worked 3 scoreless innings in his first 2 postseason games, striking out 4 and not allowing a hit.

His message from manager Dave Roberts?

“Just be myself,” Casparius said. “It’s just another day in baseball, nothing needs to change, or reinvent the wheel or try anything new. And really just to soak it all in and just take in every moment. Enjoy it.”

Casparius hit 97 miles per hour with his fastball against the Mets in Game 3 of the NLCS. While his work has not been in high-leverage spots, Casparius picking up outs has helped the other relievers get some rest.

(Hat tip: Jeff Booth)

Ben Casparius (screenshot courtesy of Dave Briggs)

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Speaking of sports: Members of the Staples High School boys and girls soccer teams, and the field hockey squad, joined many other Westporters yesterday morning, at the annual Push Against Cancer event.

The giant push-up festival raises funds to support The Hole in the Wall Gang Camp, aiding children with serious illnesses.

First selectwoman Jen Tooker was there to support the cause, and event founder Andy Berman.

Literally, as the photo below shows:

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, and Andy Berman.

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A gentle reminder, from Westport’s great Parks & Recreation Department: From now through March 31, dogs are welcome at Compo Beach.

There are leashed and unleashed areas on the sand.

Dogs are not allowed on the sidewalk or boardwalk. Please keep them free for humans!

(Photo/Carm Roda)

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Gail Bernstein — who in her more than 30 years as benefits coordinator for the town of Westport solved many problems, made life better for countless employees, and earned great respect — died peacefully at her Fairfield home on Thursday, surrounded by her family. She was 89.

She is survived by her sons Paul (April) and Douglas; sister Judy (Dan); nephews Jeffrey (Jo), Matthew (Paloma), Rob (Jennifer), Peter (Scott), David (Linda); niece Martha; step-grandchildren Michael, Emily and Jason; grandnieces Sabrina and Nicole; grandnephew Michael, and other extended family and friends.

A funeral service will be held Tuesday (October 22, 12 noon, Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield). Burial will follow in Lawncroft Cemetery. F

Friends and family may visit at the funeral home from 10 a.m. to noon on Tuesday. Click here to leave an online condolence note.

Gail Bernstein

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Bees do it.

Cooperate, that is.

Nancy Vener provides an up-close-and-very-personal look, in today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Nancy Vener)

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And finally … in honor of Ben Casparius’ Boston Red Sox fandom:

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Remembering Tom Carey

Longtime Westporter, former Conservation Committee chair and avid Rotary Club member Tom Carey died Monday at his home, after battling cancer. He was 68. His family sends this obituary:

He was surrounded by love.

A Newtown native, it was at Newtown High School where he met the love of his life and his wife of 47 years, Patricia Honan Carey.

They married on June 18, 1977, shortly after he proudly graduated from Williams College cum laude in economics. At Williams he made lifelong friends and cultivated his passion for learning.

He joined the Citibank training program upon graduation. He and Pat moved to the Bronx just in time for the 1977 New York City blackout. He had a 40-year career in finance and commercial real estate investing at Citigroup, Trian Group, Morgan Stanley and Apollo Global Real Estate.

Tom and Pat started their family in Norwalk, moved to Plano, Texas in 1983, and settled in Westport in 1985.

Tom and Pat traveled the world together. They especially loved frequent trips to Italy, where the entire family celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary in a beautiful Tuscan village in 2017.

Tom Carey

Upon retirement in 2019, Tom became active in the local community, joining and later chairing the Conservation Committee. He was a proud member of Rotary, where he made great friends and served as treasurer.

His work with the Conservation Committee enhanced his lifelong love of gardening. He created beautiful native organic gardens at his home, bringing birds, butterflies, and bees to the yard.

Tom loved sports, and was a statistics nerd. At Williams he served as men’s basketball play-by-play announcer for the college radio station. He was a lifelong Yankees fan, and hoped to celebrate one more World Series.

He coached youth teams for all 3 children, and attended most of their sporting events, including Union College soccer games and track meets, and Williams College swim meets. He was a certified soccer referee and swimming official. He served as co-president of the Westport Weston YMCA Water Rats Parents’ Club.

He loved cooking, and prepared elaborate restaurant quality dinners each Sunday night for the family. Especially beloved was his paella, cooked over an open fire. He and Pat hosted an annual 4th of July party for  extended family. It included a very competitive pool basketball game, from which he retired only after becoming a grandfather.

He took his Beefeater martinis so dry that he preferred for the vermouth to remain in the bottle, his scotch Dewars on the rocks (always taken from his Waterford decanter), and his wine a robust Italian red.

His favorite role was that of Papi to his 5 grandchildren to whom he told elaborate stories with made up characters, just as he did for his own children when they were young.

He is survived by his wife Pat; daughter Meaghan Carey of New York City; sons Michael of Fairfield nd Brian of Westport; daughters-in-law whom he loved like his own children, Lapde and Abigail; grandchildren Liam, Louie, Eliza, Jude  and Maeve; siblings Sas, Jason (Carolyn), Carey (Andy Baron) and Julie Petro; sisters- and brothers-in-law, and nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews, with whom he shared close and loving relationships.

The Carey family thanks the nursing and medical staff at Memorial Sloan Kettering for providing excellent, supportive care, and to the nurses and social workers from Regional Hospice for helping keep him comfortable in his last days.

Check www.thomasdcarey.com in the coming days for information concerning a Celebration of Life.

Donations in Tom’s name can be made to the Westport Rotary Club.

Roundup: Library Book Sale, Waxing The City, Kings Highway Pink Day …

A true fall highlight — the Westport Library’s book sale — returns November 1-4.

The event includes thousands of gently used books for children and adults in over 50 categories, plus antiquarian items, vinyl records, CDs (music, movies and TV), plus more.

This year’s highlights include:

  • Contemporary novels and poetry from the personal library of former Publisher’s Weekly editor Sybil Steinberg — signed by their authors
  • Library of America volumes, first editions, in slip cases
  • An extensive collection of history books, especially military, with many scarce titles
  • A broad assortment of fiction, nonfiction and collectible books in more than a dozen languages, including Turkish and German
  • A large assortment of framed art, from small desktop pieces to large wall
  • “Fiction for $1 Room” — mystery, science fiction, fantasy, young adult fiction, etc., with new copies of Jane Green’s novels (many of them in foreign languages).

Hours: Friday, November 1 (12 to 6 p.m.); Saturday, November 2 (9 a.m. to 5 p.m.);  Sunday, November 3 (11 a.m. to 4 p.m.; half-price day); Monday, November 4 (9 a.m. to 4 p.m.; fill the Library’s logo bag for $10, or yours for $8; individual items half-price). For more details, click here.

NOTE: 125 early-access tickets will be sold, for $35 each (Friday, November 1, 8:45 a.m. to noon); click here for tickets.

Westport Library Book Sale.

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Most businesses wax and wane.

Westport’s newest one will always wax.

Waxing the City opens on Halloween Day in Playhouse Square, between The Granola Bar and Innovation Luggage. The previous tenant was, interestingly, Kennedy’s All-American Barber.

Studio manager Destani Station says, “We are a premium waxing studio dedicated to providing expert hair removal services with a focus on comfort, care and personalized experience.

“We specialize in a full range of waxing services for both men and women, from brows to full-body, ensuring top-quality results with our highly trained cerologists. Our studios feature cutting-edge techniques and products that leave clients feeling confident and refreshed after each visit.

“What sets us apart are our enhancements: from customized brow shaping to skincare treatments that elevate the post-wax glow, we offer tailored services that go beyond the basics.

“We chose to open in Westport because the community here thrives on mutual support, and we felt our services were genuinely needed in the area. Westport’s close-knit vibe made it the perfect location for a Waxing the City studio, and we’re thrilled to be part of such a dynamic community.”

Bookings (now 50% off) are available via the website or phone: 203-293-4401.

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Kings Highway School recently celebrated its annual Pink Day. And they did not mess around.

The entire campus was decorated. Ribbons fluttered all around, and students and staff proudly wore pink attire.

The Westport Police Department joined in, providing fire safety talks to all classes.

As part of the event students placed dollars in pink boots.

The highlight: everyone created a stunning ribbon garden, symbolizing unity and hope.

It was a powerful demonstration of the importance of making a difference, raising awareness, and donating funds to support breast cancer research.

Aerial view: Kings Highway students form a pink ribbon.

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Every Staples High School (and every other school) reunion class says the same thing: “I can’t believe it’s been [insert number of] years!”

For the SHS Class of 2004, the number is 20. Yikes!

On Friday, November 1, all grads are invited to watch the Wrecker football team play Danbury, 7 p.m. at home. Members of the class and their families will be admitted free.

On Saturday, November 2 (5:30 p.m.), there’s a guided tour of the “new” Staples (the one under construction while the ’04 class was there).

They’ll follow with a celebration at Little Barn (7 to 10 p.m.). Alumni and guests can RVSP here.

In 2004, the Homecoming pep rally was held in the gym.

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Save the Children’s Fairfield County Leadership Council hosts a cooking demonstration, cocktails and conversation with Chef Fariyal Abdullahi (October 30, 6:30 p.m., The Patterson Club, Fairfield).

It’s a benefit for STC’s Emergency Fund. Fariyal will discuss her work with Save the Children, including a recent visit to Ethiopia.

The Ethiopian-born chef earned a degree in clinical child psychology, before pursuing her passion for cooking at the Culinary Institute of America. She has traveled the world, and worked at renowned establishments on several continents.

Fariayal’s Ethiopian-inspired dishes have been showcased at the Met Gala and in Vogue. She is the executive chef at Hav & Mar in New York, and a judge on Food Network’s “Chopped” and “Alex vs. America.”

For tickets, click here or email mleffel@savethechildren.org.

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Jazz vocalist Alma Micic first came to Jazz at the Post with her husband — guitarist Rale Micic’s — ensemble. She tore the place apart.

She returns this Thursday (October 17), as part of a monthlong celebration of female bandleaders.

Alms is joined by her husband Rale, bassist Peter Slavoy and drummer Jason Tiemann. Tenor titan Eric Alexander fills in for Greg “The Jazz Rabbi” Wall.

There are 2 shows at VFW Joseph J. Clinton Post 399: 7:30 and 8:45 p.m. Dinner service starts at 7. The music cover is $20; $15 for veterans and students. Click here for tickets.

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Fred Hunter III of Wilton died unexpectedly on October 2. He was 80.

He moved several times during his youth, as his father was a minor league coach with the Cincinnati Reds. He graduated from Heidelberg University in 1966, married his wife of 48 years, Carole Sue (Harper), in 1967, then embarked on s sales career in the paper industry, starting in Dallas. He spent many years in Centerville, Ohio before settling in Westport in 1982.

Fred was an accomplished golfer. He won club championships, recorded holes-in-one, and recently shot his age or better several times.

He was involved with the Longshore Men’s Golf Association and Y’s Men of Westport and Weston for many years. He was also a youth baseball coach, and a fan of the Reds and Dallas Cowboys.

Fred is survived by his sons Paul (Wendy) and James (partner Courtney Bauknecht), grandchildren Lauren and Chase of Hinsdale, Illinois, and dear friend and companion Kathleen Lala of Wilton. He was preceded by his wife Carole and brother Edwin.

The family will receive friends at the Harding Funeral Home on October 24 (3 to 7 p.m.). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Y’s Men of Westport, Box Box 167, Westport, CT 06881.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” photo is a bit, um, unusual.

(Photo/Christen Worobec)

Look closely. That’s something very natural, but gross: A pile of dog poop.

Yes, on Compo Beach.

And tied next to it — perhaps as a warning, perhaps making a diamond out of dung — is a pretty bow, tied to a pick-up-poop bag.

We don’t know the back story. But we do know this: Clean up after your dog, people. The beach belongs to all of us. We don’t need anyone acting like a piece of —-!

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And finally … on this day in 1878, the Edison Electric Light Company began operation.

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Roundup: Rick Giunta, Westport 10, Uncorked …

When Jen Fava resigned as Parks & Recreation Department director this spring, deputy director Rick Giunta — a native Westporter — took over as interim director. The transition was smooth and productive.

Giunta tells “06880”: “It has been both an honor and a privilege to serve as the interim director over the past 5 months. However, due to personal reasons, I have chosen to step back into my role of deputy director.

“I’ll continue to support the department to the best of my ability, as the search for a permanent director continues. I’m looking forward to working with and supporting the future leadership of the department as we move forward.”

A new director has not yet been named.

Rick Giunta

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Westport 10 — the town’s networking and social organization for Black men and their families — met yesterday, at Jay Norris and Chirag Shah’s Content Studio in Saugatuck.

Guests includes State Representative Jonathan Steinberg, and Police Chief Foti Koskinas.

Westport 10 — whose numbers are far more than that — has an active fall planned.

Among the activities: a meeting with merchants through the Westport Downtown Association (October 23), Halloween masquerade ball (October 30), holiday party and more.

 

At yesterday’s Westport 10 meeting (from left): Ted Parker, Adam Moore, Trey Ellis, Gene Massie, Jay Norris, Chirag Shah, CD Glin, Rene Hart, Anil Nair, Police Chief Foti Koskinas.

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We’ll drink to this!

“Westport Uncorked” — the Sunrise Rotary Club wine tasting event (with great food, and non-alcoholic beverages) that has become one of our town’s most popular events, returns to The Inn at Longshore on October 24 (6 to 9 p.m.).

Attendees can taste 100 wines, curated by The Fine Wine Company of Westport. (Well, there will be 100 wines available, anyway.)

Fine Wine Company experts will be on hand to answer questions. Any of the wines can be ordered for delivery.

Every dollar raised goes to charities supported by Westport Sunrise Rotary. Tickets are limited. Click here to purchase, and for more information.

In other Sunrise Rotary news, the club hosted 1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker yesterday morning.

She asked members what issues they were most interested in hearing updates about. Among them: affordable housing, traffic, downtown plan, schools, handicapped access, Longshore upgrades, the Community Gardens and Long Lots Preserve, Cribari Bridge, Saugatuck River dredging, and road and sidewalk construction in town.

1st Selectwoman Jen Tooker, at the Sunrise Rotary Club.

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The Westport Library has launched its 2024-25 annual appeal. The fundraising goal of $325,000 would secure full funding for the Library’s operations, and allow it to continue to provide the vast majority of programming for free or low cost.

The town of Westport funds 77% of the Library’s operating budget. The remaining 23% is raised through special events and private donations, like those provided during the annual appeal.

The Library welcomes 350,000 visitors a year. The theme for this year’s appeal is “Invest in Lifelong Learning.”

Click here to donate to the appeal, and for more information.

Westport Library

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The 1st anniversary of Hamas’ terrorist attack on Israel will be honored with a community gathering tomorrow (Sunday, October 6, 12 to 3 p.m., Compo Beach).

The event includes words and songs (1:30 p.m.). 101 chairs will represent the hostages still held in Gaza.

The public is invited.

These chairs at Compo Beach represented the hostages held last November, a month after the Hamas attack. (Photo/Mia Bomback)

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Long time resident Jo Ann Miller has put away her paint brushes and is pounding away at the keyboard.

Her initial novella. “Terrorist Vengeance,” is doing so well that she is out with another short story. “Eulogy” describes the passing of a wannabe billionaire who is hardly praised by his 4 wives and 4 children at his funeral.

“Funny, witty and a super read,” praises the Houston Chronicle. It will be available on Amazon soon.

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Today (Saturday, 11 a.m to 1 p.m.), the Westport Weston Family YMCA celebrates its 10th anniversary of the Bedford Family Center at its Mahackeno site.

The family event includes bounce houses, crafts, live entertainment with a magician, refreshments including birthday cake, and giveaways.

Westport Weston Family YMCA: 10 years old!

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Now that the presidential and vice presidential debates are over, you can watch another one, live and in person, right here at Town Hall.

On Thursday (October 10, 7 p.m),, Westport’s League of Women Voters hosts candidates for State Senate District 26, and State Representative District 136.

Questions can be sent in advance to lwvwestportct@yahoo.com.

The debate is co-sponsored by the PTA Council, Westport Sunshine Rotary Club, Y’s Men, Y’s Women and Westport Rotary Club.

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The Joggers Club has moved back to Compo Beach.

All members are welcome; no beach sticker is needed.

The group meets every Saturday at 8 a.m. Weekly runs can be found on their Strava, Facebook and Instagram pages.

Dues are $50 a year. New members get a free Lululemon shirt ($68 retail). Click here for more information.

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Longtime Westport resident Barbara Macieski died peacefully at home on Wednesday. She was 89.

The Bronx native earned a degree in history at the University of Bridgeport, where she met her future husband Ford Macieski.

They were great dance partners. Barbara was also known for her excellent taste in shows to stream and books to read.

Barbara had a career in commercial lending, but her true joy were her 6 children, 10 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren.

Her family says, “She guided us, nurtured us, healed us, admonished us, and cheered with us our individual and collective good fortune. A confidante, a therapist, a financial advisor, and an ear to hear our trials and tribulations. We all checked in with her daily.”

Barbara was predeceased by her husband Ford and daughter Katy. She is survived by her children Lisa Mann (Russ), Robert, Daniel (Karen), Joanne Carpenter (husband Rick) and Jessica Aysseh (Alex); grandchildren Katy Mann (Ben Bien-Kahn), Samuel Macieski, Kevin Carpenter (Maggie Rogers), Benjamin Macieski, Becky Wiezik (Don), Maggie DelPresto (Jeff), Ellie Mann, Maddy Mann, Coco Aysseh and Lilly Aysseh, and great-grandchildren Ford Wiezik, Leo Mann, Theo DelPresto and Ford Carpenter.

Memorial contributions may be made to LIV IT UP, which provides support services and programming for neuro-diverse adults.

Barbara Macieski (4th from left), with her children.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image shows a birdhouse surrounded by cardinal vine, at the Westport Community Gardens.

“Hummingbirds love cardinal vine,” says photographer Lou Weinberg.

(Photo/Lou Weinberg)

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And finally … in honor of Westport Sunrise Rotary’s “Uncorked” fundraiser October 24 at The Inn at Longshore (story above):

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Remembering Frank Henrick

Francis “Frank” Henrick — a longtime Staples High School educator and coach, and civic volunteer — died August 23 in Florida, of complications from Alzheimer’s disease. He was 88.

He grew up in Andover, Massachusetts. After graduating from Phillips Academy and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, he earned a master’s degree at Colby College.

He spent two years in the US Army.

Though Frank’s career plan was  to become a doctor, when a teaching job became available at Bristol Eastern High School, he was encouraged to apply by his in-laws.

Frank found his true calling to be teaching. He was enthusiastic about impacting young people’s learning. After 3 years in Bristol, he began his 35-year tenure at Staples, teaching chemistry, physics and math.

He also coached baseball and soccer. In 1969, serving as boys soccer interim head coach when Albie Loeffler was on sabbatical, he won a state championship. Twenty years later, as head coach of the girls soccer team, he won another state crown.

He was an avid tennis player and semi-pro pitcher but enjoyed all sports.

Frank Henrick

Frank volunteered countless hours to different organizations, including the Monroe Jaycees; Assumption Church in Westport, St. John’s Church in Old Saybrook, and St. Thomas More in Sarasota, along with Emmaus, Cursillo, Danbury Prison Ministry, Hospice, the Connecticut Club of Sarasota, and the Little Venice Theater.

He and his first wife, Barbara “Bobbee” had 5 children. They shared 44 years raising their family, and building friendships and fellowship. They retired retired to Old Saybrook and Vero Beach, Florida. Bobbee died in 2003.

Frank was then reunited with, and married, his high school sweetheart, Patricia “Patsy” Doyle in 2004. They spent 20 years together, in Sarasota.

His family says: “Of all the accomplishments in his life, he was most proud of and grateful to God for his wife, family and friends. This is where he truly felt alive, or ‘terrific’ as he so often exclaimed.

“Whether hanging with his ‘kids’ and their families, at a Red Sox spring training game with his brother and the ‘old gang’ from New England, at the CT Club with his ‘old’ teacher friendships and newly formed friendships, playing 45s, dining at his favorite restaurants, or simply working in the yard, he couldn’t help but display a magnificent smile.”

Frank is survived by his wife, Patricia Doyle Henrick; sons Michael (Katrina), Jon (Justine) and Stephen (Gail); daughters Cheryl Henrick and Karen Tedeschi; stepson Lyden (Araceli) Anderson; sister Janemarie Henrick; sister-in-law Marilou Petroff; brother and sister-in-law Steve and Carla Petroff; sister and brother-in-law Eileen and Warren Hastings; 16 grandchildren, 6 great- grandchildren, and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins. He also leaves his long-time best friend Jim Noonan.

In addition to his first wife, Francis was predeceased by his brother George, sister Ann Mulrooney; sister-in-law Sonya Petroff, and stepson Mark Anderson.

A celebration of life will be held Saturday, November 2 (1 p.m., Mill River Country Club, Stratford).

Donations in Frank’s memory may be bade to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Roundup: Roxane Gay, ABBA, Christian Siriano …

StoryFest ’24 opened with a bang last night.

Author and activist Roxane Gay chatted on the Westport Library stage with writer Oliver Radclyffe. His memoir, “Frighten the Horses,” will be published this fall by Roxane Gay Books.

In just 7 years, StoryFest — the Library’s annual celebration of reading, writing, ideas and community — has become the largest literary festival in Connecticut.

Every genre of storytelling is covered, along with live podcast recordings, a special tribute to longtime and beloved Library friend Sybil Steinberg, the 2024 Westport Prize for Literature, a pitchfest and more. Click here for today and tomorrow’s jam-packed schedules.

Oliver Radclyffe and Roxane Gay share a moment.

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Meanwhile, a few yards away, a packed lawn enjoyed ABBA.

Well, not exactly the legendary Swedish group. This was a tribute band. But they sure sounded the same.

Getting ready to enjoy the festivities — with appropriate glasses and neckwear — were (below, left to right) Gwen Tutun, Judy Burke, Toni Essertier, Ellen Bowen and Cathy Colgan. Mamma mia!

The entertainment continues tonight at the Levitt, with Tower of Power. The ticketed show begins at 7:30 p.m. Click here for more information.

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You (probably) watched the first 2 debates of the election season, on CNN and ABC.

You can watch the third one live — right here at Town Hall.

On October 10 (7 p.m),, Westport’s League of Women Voters hosts candidates for State Senate District 26, and State Representative District 136. (The Norwalk LWV will host one for State Representative District 143; details to come.)

Questions can be sent in advance to lwvwestportct@yahoo.com.

The debate is co-sponsored by the PTA Council, Westport Sunshine Rotary Club, Y’s Men, Y’s Women and Westport Rotary Club.

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The Wall Street Journal calls it “‘Shark Tank’ meets Home Shopping Network.”

A new TV show next week features Amazon sellers pitching their products to a studio audience and judges. Among the panelists: designer (and Westport resident) Christian Siriano.

Finalists will have their inventions sold in a new Amazon “Buy It Now” online store. The winner of each episode will earn $20,000.

Click here for the full story. (Hat tip: Dave Briggs)

Christian Siriano

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What a blessing!

Everyone is invited to the Saugatuck Congregational Church lawn on Sunday, September 29, for a 10 a.m. blessing service. All pets are welcome — but on leashes or in carriers.

Photos are fine too. Even “stuffies”!

At 11 a.m., rescues and shelters will offer pets of all ages at a special adoption event. There will be food trucks too, and surprises for kids.

The Great Lawn of Saugatuck Congregational Church is well suited to a Blessing of the Animals.

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Westport author Diane Parrish launches her new book, “Something Better,” at Westport Library on October 8 (6:30 p.m.). She’ll chat with her daughter, fellow author Amanda Parrish Morgan

In the book — set largely in Connecticut — Parrish pulls back the façade of carefully cultivated suburbs. With flashes of humor and insight, she examines notions of forgiveness and faith. Click here for more information.

Diane Parrish (center), and Amanda Parrish Morgan.

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The Weston History & Culture Center offers history experiences for all every Thursday and Sunday (1 to 4 p.m.), from now through November 24.

Visitors can:

Explore “Weston…What Lies Beneath.” The exhibit looks at one of Weston’s oldest homes, the Peter Thorp House. Through objects, rare photographs, videos and hands-on activities, discover what lies beneath and who lived above. Youngsters can dig for artifacts in the Kids Corner.

Take a guided tour of the Coley House, learning how the Coley family lived, worked and played during the 1940s. Kids can play with toys and games from that era, build with Lincoln Logs, and type on a typewriter.

Enjoy autumn with a stroll through the Daniel E. Offutt III Sculpture Garden.

Tickets at the door are $5 for adults, $3 for children; free for members of the Weston History & Culture Center.

Sculpture garden at Weston History & Culture Center.

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Former Westport resident Kathleen Elliott died peacefully on September 4. She was 73, and lived in Charlestown, Massachusetts.

An honors graduate of Northeastern University in economics, Kathy then earned an MBA from Boston University,

She had a long career at David L Babson, including vice president on the investment council. She was the first woman elected to the board of directors.

After leaving David L Babson, Kathy became interested in angel investing. She mentored several women-led companies. The experience led her to co-author a book, “The Old Girls’ Network.”

Kathy spent many hours enjoying tennis at Longwood Cricket Club, golfing at Turner Hill in Ipswich, Massachusetts, and skiing and golfing in Telluride, Colorado.

Her family says, “She had many friends, and was known for her kind-hearted, humble and upbeat nature, especially her creative wit and intelligence. Her excellent athletic skills and gracious sportsmanship made her everyone’s favorite tennis and golf partner.”

She is survived by her partner of 26 years, Ann Beard of 26 years; sisters Margaret Markovic (John) of Trumbull and Mary Sikorski (Brian) of Westport; brother Robert Elliott of Fairfield; niece Kathleen Haimoff and her children, James, Maya and David of Fairfield, and nephews Joseph Sikorski of Norwalk, and James Sikorski (Adrienne) of Brooklyn, and their son Charles.

Services will be private. Donations may be made to Angel Memorial Animal Hospital in Boston, and the Kaplan Family Hospice House in Danvers, Massachusetts.

Kathleen Elliott

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Flamingos are known for standing on one leg.

Other birds: not so much.

But here is this guy (or maybe gal) gull, posing for today’s “Westport … Naturally” shot at Compo Beach.

Try as he/she might though, they’re just not stately.

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And finally … “06880” did not get a chance to see the Levitt tribute band last night. But who doesn’t love a good ABBA song or two (or five)?

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Roundup: Dog Run, Harvest Moon, Wakeman Town Farm …

NOTE: This morning’s dog run story was published mistakenly. It should have been scheduled for later this week. It will be posted then. My apologies.

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If you think this harvest moon is particularly stirring: You’re not alone.

Saugatuck Church invites the community to “celebrate the harvest and abundance, while drumming to the full moon’s energy and its strong pull of the tide.”

The Harvest Moon Drum Circle is tomorrow (Wednesday, September 18, 7 to 9 p.m., Compo Beach cannons).

Attendees are encouraged to bring a drum or percussion instrument. Tell the gate attendant you are with the church. Rain location: Hoskins Hall, at Saugatuck Church.

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Band Central — the CLASP house group, specializing in classic tunes — headlines the non-profit’s “Music Through the Decades” benefit.

The October 18 show (Fairfield Theatre Company) will raise funds to support CLASP’s clients, with intellectual and developmental disabilities.

A 6:30 p.m. pre-party includes light bites from Blue + Berries and Little Pub. The main event kicks off at 7:30.

Guests are encouraged to dress in the fashion of their favorite decade.

Tickets are $45 in person at the FTC office, $54 online or by phone (203-319-1404).

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Wakeman Town Farm is a place for everyone. And that means everybody.

The environmental center has just announced a farmer program for neuro-diverse children.

Designed for youngsters of all abilities, the farm-based program offers a hands-on, sensory-rich experience that encourages exploration, creativity and learning, in a natural setting.

Wakeman Town Farm provides a safe, welcoming environment where kids can connect with animals, engage in gardening activities, and explore the outdoors at their own pace.

The staff is trained to support neuro-diverse learners

There are 2 age groups: 3-10, and 11 and up. Activities like feeding animals, planting seeds and observing nature are outdoors, and tailored to accommodate various sensory, social and communication styles.

The program promotes social interaction, emotional regulation and physical activity, while nurturing a love for nature.

There are 4 Saturday morning sessions, from October 5 through 26. The fee is $180.

Each attendee needs an adult buddy (18+) — a parent, paraprofessional, babysitter, grandparent, or someone else who knows the child well and can support them as an instructor leads the program.

Click here to register. Questions? Email education@wakemantownfarm.org.

Wakeman Town Farm animal ambassador Judy Panzer and special education professional Leann Duggan helped develop the curriculum and activities for the program.

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As CEO of New York Road Runners, Westporter Rob Simmelkjaer is closely associated with the New York Marathon.

But on September 29, he’ll be in Germany, running the Berlin Marathon.

Across the ocean though, his heart will be here. He’s running fo  NYRR Team for Kids, the premier charity of New York Road Runners and the New York Marathon.

Since its inception in 2002, NYRR Team for Kids has raised more than $110 million, in a variety of races. Rob’s personal goal is $10,000.

The Funds serve nearly 200,000 youngsters locally and nationally, through NYRR’s free youth running programs.

For more information, and to donate to Rob’s team, click here.

Rob Simmelkjaer

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Many Westporters shop at The Pantry, on the Post Road in Fairfield.

There was a fire there yesterday. All food was thrown out or given away, to churches and Operation Hope.

Owners hope to reopen soon. (Hat tip: Mary  Condon)

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The Girl-Power Squash program — an introductory program for kids — got off to a rousing start on Sunday.

All 20 spots were taken, at Intensity Squash.

The program continues for the next 11 Sundays.

A similar one is planned for winter.

Westport elementary school girls, with former Staples High School boys squash coach Eddie O’Rourke (top left) and, in the front row (7th-9th from left), Staples  players Rhiya Anand, Rebecca Schachter and Sophie Smith.

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Longtime Westport resident Tommy Greenwald and his son Charlie’s “Beginning Reader” series for children ages 5-8 began with a hit.

The first book — “The Rescues Finding Home,” about 2 shelter dogs awaiting adoption was named a 2023 School Library Journal Best Book of the Year.

The second in the series — “The Rescues Best Day Ever” — is published today. It’s about 3 new adventures with adopted pet friends Moose, Bear and Tiger. Click here for details.

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Longtime Westport resident Joyce Netherton died peacefully last week at Norwalk Hospital, of natural causes. She was 86.

She graduated as salutatorian of Henry Clay High School in Lexington, Kentucky. At the University of Kentucky she continued to play violin and was in Alpha Xi Delta sorority. She earned a bachelor’s degree in mathematics in only 2 1/2 years.

She met Elliott, her husband of 58 years, there.  After living in Louisville they moved to Westport in 1973, with their 3 children.

Joyce was an avid tennis player. When her children were older, she became a computer programmer analyst with AC Neilsen and Dun & Bradstreet, rising quickly to management positions.

After retirement she served in numerous local leadership roles, for the Westport Woman’s Club, League of Women Voters, Medical Serve Corps and Staples Tuition Grants. Treasurer was her favorite.

An enthusiastic reader, she was a devoted supporter of the Westport Library.

Joyce was known for her sewing skills. She created clothes and household items for her family, and even made her own wedding gown.

She and Elliott enjoyed trips in their motor home, visiting nearly all 50 states.  After retiring, they traveled with friends around the world.

Joyce is survived by daughter Cynthia Lipe (Joe) of Point Blank, Texas; son Hank (Wendy) of Woodland Park, Colorado; grandchildren Kelly (Richard) Deleon, Tracy (Dustin) Bowling, Jonathan Lipe, Miranda (Jerek) Bickford, Mallory (Austin) Nuss, Henry (Candis) Netherton and Wyatt Netherton; and great-grandchildren Lillian and Mason Sarvis, McKenzie, Victoria and Aubrey Deleon, Eleanor, Abigail and Caroline Bowling, Brynley and Emmit Nuss, Conall and Roderick Bickford.

She is also survived by her brother David Beals, and nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husband Elliott, daughter and son-in-law Paige and Tom Totilo, and brothers Ralph and Philip Beals.

Services will be held outside at the Memorial Garden of Christ & Holy Trinity Church on Friday, September 27 (11 a.m.). Her ashes will be interred in the Memorial Garden during the service.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Westport Library or Westport Woman’s Club.

Joyce Netherton

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Johanna Keyser Rossi offers today’s “Westport … Naturally” image, taken at the Senior Center, and explains:

“With summer’s end, and fewer and fewer flowers, the bees are looking to stock  up for winter. They’re finding the flowers with the most nectar and pollen.”

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … on this day 101 years ago, Hank Williams was born in Alabama. He died just 29 years later, in the back seat of a car.

But he left behind quite a legacy.

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