When Lou Kitchner — the beloved Bedford Middle School band director — lost his son in an automobile accident 7 years ago, the community rallied around.
Once again, others are trying to help him.
His 3-year-old niece has been diagnosed with strabismus in both eyes. Her condition is progressing quickly. Without corrective surgery, she risks losing her vision.
A GoFundMe page has been set up, to help pay for surgery. Click here for details, and to contribute. (Hat tips: Andrew Colabella, Lauren Karpf)
Lou Kirchner’s granddaughter.
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As the year winds down — and restaurants are packed — CTbites serves up its staff picks, for “Top Eats of 2025.”
Westport choices include:
- Stephanie Webster, editor-in-chief: Sushi Jin, Kawa Ni
- Andrew Dominick, managing editor: Kawa Ni
- Noah Schwartz, contributor: Sushi Jin, Casa Me, Massi Co
- Kendall Arkay, contributor: Kawa Ni
To read the full statewide list, click here.
(Photo/Sal Liccione)
Massi Co (Photo/Jenae Weinbrenner)
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On the day before Christmas — as kids everywhere were thinking of reindeer — 2 Westport deer got entangled together, with soccer netting, around Burr Farms Road.
It could have been tragic. But Wildlife in Crisis intake director Peter Reid arrived, and assessed the situation in his typical calm, knowledgeable way.
As he planned his strategy, the bucks did a thrust away from each other, freeing one deer.
However, netting was still wrapped around the leg and antlers of the other. Hopefully, he will free his leg, and that his antlers will soon fall off.
Julie Loparo, president of Westport Animal Shelter Advocates, urges Westporters to be aware of the hazards to wildlife presented by soccer and other outdoor nets.
Meanwhile, Reid — in his other role, as Westport’s animal control officer — is pursuing a tranquilizing program, for use in situations like this.
Deer, entangled in soccer nets.
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Susan O’Brien is a social worker, with a private practice in Westport. She writes:
“I regularly observe the heightened level of stress parents experience during this busy time of year. Calendars quickly fill with school events, social obligations and holiday preparations, often leaving parents feeling stretched thin. While these activities can be meaningful, it is important to remember that children value undivided attention far more than any gift or perfectly planned experience.
“I often encourage parents to focus on fostering meaningful connections with their children. One simple yet powerful recommendation is to spend just ten minutes a day in uninterrupted time together—free from phones, distractions, and schedules. During this time, allow your child to lead the play or activity. This creates a space for genuine interaction, emotional attunement, and connection.
“Quality, not quantity, is what matters most. Choosing one intentional activity—such as taking a quiet walk, reading together, or visiting the library—can have a profound impact. These moments communicate to children that they are seen, heard, and valued. Ultimately, what children need most is not more doing, but more presence.
“By prioritizing quality time and meaningful interactions, parents can strengthen their bond with their children and create lasting memories, even amid the holiday hustle.”
Susan O’Brien
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Among the Christmas Eve traditions observed last night in some Westport homes: the Feast of the 7 Fishes.
But those fishes don’t magically appear on plates. The meal takes plenty of preparation … including this, captured by Molly Alger yesterday at Superior Seafood:
(Photo/Molly Alger)
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All over town yesterday, families and friends gathered for Christmas Eve.
At Compo Beach, a flock of seagulls did the same.
Jeff Chasnow spotted them all — and sends along today’s “Westport … Naturally” image.
(Photo/Jeff Chasnow)
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And finally … there are only a squintillion holiday songs to choose from.
Everyone has their favorites.
Here — in very different genres — are 2 of mine.
