Yearly Archives: 2023

Unsung Heroes #298

In what seems like warp speed — because wasn’t it just yesterday that camp began? — we’ve already reached the end of the season.

Campers have grown enormously. They’ve learned new skills, made new friends, tested themselves physically and emotionally.

They’ve laughed a lot, and only cried once or twice.

Much of that growth comes thanks to their counselors. They pushed, pulled, prodded, encouraged and empowered youngsters — in some cases only a few years younger than themselves — to try test their limits, and try new things.

They’ve been role models, big brothers and sisters, friends, and also teachers, coaches and substitute parents.

Camp counselors play many roles. 

It takes a special type of teenager or college student to be a camp counselor. While their friends are at the beach, traveling to concerts or Europe, or sleeping in, counselors must show up — on time — every day.

They must be creative and clever; flexible and adaptable; cheery, calm, and always “on.”

At the same time, they’re the adults in the room (or the great outdoors). They’re constantly counting heads, scouting danger, supervising scamperers and scamps.

Even at play, camp counselors are always on duty. (Photos courtesy of Westport Weston Family YMCA)

When your child comes home — whether from day camp or overnight — they’re likely to have stories. More likely than not, those stories involve counselors.

If you were a camp counselor this summer — or any summer — you’re our Unsung Hero of the week.

Sure, your job was fun. But it was also stressful, tiring, and non-stop.

And — for helping the next generation of kids grow and develop — it was very, very important.

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Roundup: Caroline House, YMCA Boxing, Greens Farms Train Station …

Karen La Costa — a Westport Community Gardens gardener — also volunteers at Caroline House in Bridgeport.

They help women and children “reach the fullness of their potential through education in English language and life skills.”

On Monday, Karen invited co-worker Francisca, her children and Caroline House students for an afternoon in the garden.

They enjoyed identifying squash, eggplant, watermelon, peppers and all types of flowers. They were amazed at the size of Karen’s soon-to-bloom giant sunflower.

Donations of potatoes and onions from a fellow gardener were turned into Welcome Home Soup for Francisca’s mom, who arrived that night from the Dominican Republic.


Caroline House visitors, with sunflowers.

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A year ago, Bob Levy and his wife Doree joined the Westport Weston Family YMCA. They swim up to 5 times a week, and love it: the welcome at the front desk, the lifeguards, all the staff.

Six months ago, Bob noticed a woman teaching someone how to box. She introduced herself as Brenda Waldron,  the instructor for a class of people with Parkinson’s.

Despite never having hit anyone (or been hit) in his 77 years of life, he told her he’d love to volunteer.

“The class has a great group of people,” Bob says. “It’s filled with  positive energy and camaraderie. Boxing makes people stronger, gives them better balance, even helps with memory.” He has witnessed its benefits for people with Parkinson’s first hand.

A couple of weeks ago, he gave shirts to the group. He gave Chalk Talk Sports of Norwalk a slogan — “Knock Parkinson’s Out”; quickly, they provided a design.

On Monday, Bob handed out the shirts. Members were delighted.

“This class is a perfect example of of when one gives, they receive much more,” Bob says.

The “Knock Parkinson’s Out” class, and their classy shirts.

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The Metro-North Transit Museum — next to the stationmaster’s office in Grand Central Terminal — has a new exhibit.

This one includes a photo and writeup about the Greens Farms station:

It’s guaranteed to stop local travelers in their, um, tracks. (Hat tip: Peter Gold)

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Two officials from the Bridgeport Rescue Mission were guest speakers at the Westport Rotary Club’s lunch meeting yesterday.

The organization  provides meals, safe housing, clothing, free health care (including mental and dental), and access to other human services organizations.

Volunteer coordinator Sarah McDonagh was particularly impactful, as she discussed her personal experiences as a resident in the Addiction Recovery Program.

Bridgeport Rescue Mission development director Craig Adler and volunteer coordinator Sarah McDonagh at yesterday’s Rotary Club lunch.

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Yesterday’s “06880” Roundup noted a potential new Bravo show, following “rich Connecticut families” and their children.

Among the potential stars: Westport’s actress/blogger Eva Amurri and comedian Courtney Davis.

We missed one other cast member from Westport: Kate Freeman.

Apologies for not being on top of all the local gossip!

The cast includes Westporters (center) Eva Amurri and (right) Kate Freeman. 

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The Joggers Club is warming up for the fall season.

They start with (of course) a party on Saturday, September 2 (7 p.m.).

Then they’ll begin their fun runs (which, as always, end with coffee, bagels and muffins). The season “runs” every Saturday (8 a.m. at the Greens Farms train station — “all weather, all seasons, all good”).

Track Nights are held every Thursday (6:30 p.m., Staples High School). The season “runs” from September 9 through June 29.

The Joggers Club is for all paces, distances and levels. All are welcome. Their motto is: “If you’re not having fun, you’re not doing it right.”

The cost is $50 for the season. New members get a free custom Brooks racing shirt ($32 value).

For more information, including membership, click here.

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“Quiet Places” — the new show at Amy Simon Fine Art — opens Saturday (August 19), and runs through September 23.

Featured artists are Barry Katz, Paul Shakespear and David Skillicorn.

“No. 6,” encaustic over plaster (Barry Katz)

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Patricia Burrows died Monday, at her home Weston home. She was 77.

A psychotherapist for more than 50 years, she was very involved in her communities of  New York, Weston, Mendocino, California, and Mount Holly, Vermont. She was also a highly regarded “surrogate mother.”

She is survived by her husband of over 50 years, Milton Wolfson; children Jordan, Jessica, Jody Emmet and Tracy; brothers Jonathan (Annie) and Kenneth (Erica Jong), and grandchildren Maximiliana Warburg, Henri Emmet, Hana Zeramby, Dylan Zeramby, Lucas Lovelace and Naomi Lovelace, and puppy Lucy.

A memorial service will be held tomorrow (Thursday, August 17, noon, Abraham L. Green and& Son Funeral Home, Fairfield, CT). Visitation with the family begins at 11 a.m.

A reception will be held immediately following the service at the family home in Weston.

Shiva is planned for Weston (Friday and Saturday August 18-19, 2 to 6 p.m.) and New York (Sunday, August 20, 2 to 6 p.m.).

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Homes with Hope.

Patty Burrows

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We sometimes think of May as “flower time” around here. That’s certainly a month of riotous colors.

But — as Susan Garment’s “Westport … Naturally” photo reminds us today, there’s plenty of vibrancy in mid-August too.

(Photo/Susan Garment)

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And finally … in honor of Bob Levy’s gift to his YMCA class (story above):

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Jacob Kitchner: Soldier Squares Your Lawn Away

When Jacob Kitchner was growing up in Westport, a good friend died by suicide. He had always wanted to be an Eagle Scout. Jacob vowed to earn that rank, in his friend’s honor.

As a Staples High School senior, he achieved his goal.

That same year, shortly before Christmas, Jacob’s older brother Brian Anderson was killed in an automobile accident. Jacob pledged he would do something that would have made Brian proud.

Two months before graduation ceremonies in 2019 — with his Staples degree in hand — Jacob enlisted in the US Army. He served as a military police officer. Four years later, he’s in the Army National Guard.

Jacob Kitchner

Jacob — a football, wrestling, ice hockey and rugby athlete at Staples, and who played euphonium in the Staples and Western Regionals band (his father Lou Kitchner is the very popular band director at Bedford Middle School) — has led a life that surely honors his brother and friend.

In addition to his National Guard service, he now has 2 full-time jobs. He’s a front-of-the-house team member at Tacombi, the new Post Road taqueria.

He has a 4.0 and has been invited to the National Honor Society at American Military University, where he is studying criminal justice on a pre-law track.

In addition Jacob has his own landscaping business, which he started from — well, the ground up.

Jacob got experience with a company in Bridgeport. “It was very hands-on,” he says. “I could really see the results of my work. There was immediate gratification.”

He learned as much as he could, and researched how to start a business.

A man from a Scag Mowers dealership mentored him on equipment: what to buy new, what to look for used.

When Jacob was searching for a truck the Farahona family brought him home, fed him dinner, and gave advice on starting an LLC.

Jacob Kitchner, with his truck …

With a credit union loan he bought commercial mowers, leaf blowers, snow blowers, and equipment for mulching, weed control, pruning, waste disposal and more.

At 22 years old, he was a business owner.

But Operations Lawns Landscaping is more than just a business to Jacob.

“It’s run by an American soldier. That means there’s fast response time, and a high level of responsibility,” he explains.

He posts his values on his website: duty, loyalty, respect, honor and integrity. He is dedicated to “finishing every mission” the right way, he says.

“Being a soldier is about a lot more than serving,” Jacob notes. “It’s fulfilling every task, the right way. I won’t leave a property until everything is A-OK.”

… and spreading hay.

At his very first job, his lawnmower broke. Jacob apologized, went to Home Depot, spent $600 on a new machine, then returned to finish the job.

“There’s a saying in the military: ‘We will square you away,” Jacob says. “It means ‘making everything right.’

“That’s my saying too. Your lawn is like a square. I’ll square it away for you.”

(To learn more about Jacob Kitchner’s Operation Lawns Landscaping, click here.)

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Longshore wedding (Photo/Bruce McFadden)

Roundup: Bravo Westport, PAL Hoops, Black Business …

“Real Housewives of New York” star and “Apprentice: Martha Stewart” runner-up Bethenny Frankel is pitching Bravo on a new show.

According to the New York Post‘s Page 6, it “would follow rich Connecticut families — including, a source pointedly notes, their children.”

Sources tell “06880” that potential stars could include 2 Westporters: actress/blogger Eva Amurri, and comedian Courtney Davis, controversial MC of this past spring’s Fashionably Westport benefit.

Despite several issues, Page 6 says that Bravo remains “theoretically interested in the comings and goings of Westport’s most delectably nepo-licious residents.”

Sources say the show has already begun filming, though that has not been confirmed.

Eva Amurri

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After 24 years, Westport PAL basketball has a new president.

Jordan Schur — a former Staples High School Class of 2001 hoops and soccer star — will continue the program that longtime head Howie Friedman brought to great heights.

Schur’s plans include off-season programs, and increased youth engagement and synergy between high school and youth players.

To start, PAL is endorsing fall clinics for boys and girls in grades 3 to 8. Click here for details, and follow on Instagram: westport_palhoops.

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August is National Black Business Month.

Jay Norris — the Westport entrepreneur and CEO of Guesst, the creative leasing platform — shared his insights into his work with News12 Connecticut. Click here for his interview.

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Picnic on the 4th of July!

No, that’s not a late announcement (or a very early one).

It’s the name of the band providing entertainment this Friday (August 18, 6 to 9 p.m.), as part of the Westport Downtown Association’s “Summer Music on Church Lane” series.

The string band — which specializes in traditional American roots and bluegrass, with a dose of rock, folk, jazz and blues — features guitars, banjo, harmonica, bass and vocals.

They’ve been together 10 years, playing bluegrass festivals, farmers’ markets, porch fests and private events.

Plus — now — the streets of Westport.

 Picnic on the 4th of July (from left): Martin Daniels, Louis Fuertes, Pat Blaufuss, Jeff Carroll. (Photo/Amy Daniels)

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Westport firefighter Peter Nichio is also a veteran. After serving in Afghanistan, returned home from Afghanistan with severe Post-Traumatic Stress Injury.

He has amazing resilience. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy has helped him deal with traumatic situations on the job.

Peter is the perfect choice as MC and auctioneer for the Fairfield County Trauma Response Team’s first-ever benefit.

“Beyond the Call: Supporting the Mental Health of First Responders” is set for New Canaan’s Waveny House on October 12 (6:30 p.m.).

There’s the usual food and drink. But attendees can also chat with public safety professionals from fire, law enforcement, EMS and animal control.

Trauma therapists will answer question, and describe the intersection of trauma therapy and emergency response.

Keynote speaker and professional athlete Todd Blyleven — son of Hall of Fame pitcher Bert Blyleven — will discuss his experience as a survivor of the 2017 Las Vegas shooting that killed 60 people, and injured more than 400.

Blyleven will also moderate a panel of local first responders.

Click here for tickets and more information on the event. Questions? Email Linda Rost: lrost0411@gmail.com.

 

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Eileen Ivers brought her electric fiddle to the Levitt Pavilion Sunday night.

She wowed the crowd — including 3-year-old Mira Wolfe.

Can you say “mesmerized”?!

(Photo/Phil Keane; hat tip/Nikki Gorman)

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We’ve run several photos of bees, in our daily “Westport … Naturally” feature.

And we’ve run many pictures of flowers.

This time, they’re together. Tracy Porosoff sent along this vibrant image:

(Photo/Tracy Porosoff)

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And finally … on this day in 1939, “The Wizard of Oz” premiered at Grauman’s Chinese Theater in Los Angeles.

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Lynda Bluestein’s Wind Phone

Lynda Shannon Bluestein’s fight against fallopian tube cancer — and her battle to end her life on her own terms — has inspired many people.

Earlier this year, the longtime member of the Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Westport reached a settlement with the state of Vermont. She will be the first non-resident to take advantage of a law that allows people with terminal illnesses to end their own lives.

She is now in hospice care. Time is short. But Lynda continues to inspire friends and strangers, in many ways.

Her creativity and generosity will be celebrated at the Unitarian Church’s worship service this Sunday (August 20, 10 a.m.).

Lynda will be joined by former endorsed community minister Dr. Debra Haffner in a conversation about life, death and joy. Then, Lynda will share her gift: the first wind phone in Fairfield County.

Rev. Debra Haffner and Lynda Shannon Bluestein.

Wind phones are physical objects, but also very spiritual. Originally from Japan, they are disconnected phone booths — a way to stay connected to loved ones who have died.

Garden designer Itaru Sasaki created the first wind phone in 2010, to help him cope with his cousin’s death. “Because my thoughts could not be relayed over a regular phone line, I wanted them to be carried on the wind,” he explained.

It was opened to the public the following year, after an earthquake and tsunami killed over 15,000 people. It has received over 30,000 visitors.

Since then, wind phones have been created in several US states, from parks to front lawns.

Lynda’s son constructed her wind phone.

Wind phone at Salve Regina University in Newport, Rhode Island.

They are in public places, because they help normalize grief — which Western culture often considers private.

Sunday’s service will be both in person and livestreamed.

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This will be a busy weekend for Lynda. On Saturday (August 19), she’ll be honored as the first-ever recipient of the Completed Life Initiative‘s Pioneer Award.

The Initiative is an advocacy and educational organization that promotes end-of-life self-determination and dignity. The award honors “an individual who has successfully advocated to expand a person’s ability to direct their end-of-life care, and who has, by their courageous example, empowered all indivduals to live a full and complete life.”

Lynda will receive her honor at at the group’s New York Film Festival. She was profiled in the New York Times last March.

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Clamming off Cockenoe Island (Photo/Ken Yormark)

Possible Pennsylvania Senate Candidate Rents $16 Million Westport Mansion

Next fall’s Pennsylvania’s Senate race could determine which party controls that chamber.

Republican David McCormick — who narrowly lost to Dr. Mehmet Oz in a primary last year, then watched him lose to John Fetterman in the general election — is weighing a race against 3-term Democratic incumbent Bob Casey.

David McCormick

McCormick — the former CEO of Bridgewater Associates, and an Under Secretary of the Treasury George W. Bush’a administration — is an attractive candidate.

But an AP story today suggests that the same issue that helped defeat Oz may dog him: residency.

Oz lived largely in New Jersey. And though McCormick owns a home in Pittsburgh, where he was born and raised, the AP says “a review of public records, real estate listings and footage from recent interviews indicates he still lives on Connecticut’s ‘Gold Coast,’ one of the densest concentrations of wealth in America.

Specifically, Westport.

McCormick “rents a $16 million mansion” here, according to AP. It “features a 1,500-bottle wine cellar, an elevator and a ‘private waterfront resort’ overlooking Long Island Sound.”

The West Point graduate and 1991 Gulf War veteran’s spokeswoman “would not say how much of his time he spends at his Connecticut mansion, which also boasts a spa, pool and heated pavilion nestled in an area that real estate listings describe as a ‘summer playground of America’s wealthiest families,'” AP reports.

She said “he maintains a residence in Connecticut as his daughters finish high school,” but that for the last 10 years he has owned a working farm in his hometown of Bloomsburg.

“Dave has called Pennsylvania home for 30 years and served our country outside of Pennsylvania for an additional 13,” she added.

Last year, AP says, McCormick and his wife Dina Powell McCormick, a former Goldman Sachs executive, had a net worth of “between $95.7 million and at least $196.7 million.” They also owned homes in Dallas and Colorado.

He has not received a tax exemption for his $2.8 million Pittsburgh home, which is reserved for a primary place of residence, AP says.

Though he said “This is my home. This is our home” after losing to Oz by just over 900 votes in last year’s primary, AP says that “his children continued to attend a $53,000-a-year Connecticut private school.” One is still there.

Official documents list his Westport home as his address, as does a $5,000 campaign contribution made this spring.

The story about McCormick’s residency follows reports last week that Alabama Senator Tommy Tuberville lives almost full time in a $3 million home in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida.

(Click here for the full AP story. Hat tip: Allan Siegert)

Roundup: Maui, Saugatuck Shores, Compo Beach …

It’s nearly 5,000 miles from Westport to Lahaina.

But the distance does not matter to the Westport Downtown Association. The non-profit is collecting donations for Maui United Way, to help support relief efforts from one of the worst wildfires in American history.

Click here to contribute, and for more information.

To show our appreciation for donors, the WDA will randomly select 4 people to receive a pair of tickets to the annual Westoberfest New England Craft Beer and Family Fun event (Saturday, October 14).

In other Maui news, 2 former Westporters have told “06880” that their homes on the island were not affected by the blazes. Both, however, note the immense suffering by their neighbors.

Maui wildfire.

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There’s no such thing as a free lunch.

There is, however, free excess garden produce.

At least, there was yesterday on Bermuda Road.

Pam and Mike Dedona set out their bounty, with a simple sign, for their Saugatuck Shores neighbors.

(Photo and hat tip/Denise Paul)

Their simple gesture made a sunny day even more beautiful.

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Speaking of a great beach day: Yesterday might have been the nicest of the entire summer.

The temperature was Goldilocks: not too hot or cold. Humidity was low.

And it was a Sunday!

Pam Kesselman captured this everyone-into-the-water scene, at Compo:

(Photo/Pam Kesselman)

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Speaking of beach scenes: If you like our new header (the photo at the top of every “06880” story), thank William Weiss.

He submitted the wide-angle shot yesterday.

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The recent near-death experience of the Westport Country Playhouse focused attention on the perilous state of live theater.

Next Monday (August 21, 7 p.m., Westport Library), the Y’s Men of Westport and Weston host a public meeting on that subject.

They’ve enlisted 2 experts: Broadway actors/local residents/WCP friends James Naughton and Carole Schweid.

They’ll discuss the background of live theater, its current condition, and what lies ahead.

It’s a double feature. Guests will also see a 16-minute fictional drama film, “Not the Same Clarence.” The film features Jim and his son Greg Naughton depicting the realities of caring for a parent with dementia, and its impact on their lives.

Carole Schweid and James Naughton.

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Fleet Feet’s weekly “Zoomerangs Kids’ Fall Program” starts this Sunday (August 20).

Meet-ups are from 1 to 2 p.m. at the Staples High School Laddie Lawrence Track, through October 1. The cost is $99.

Geared to youngsters ages 5 to 14, the program teaches the “fun”-damentals of running, with running drills and light-hearted competition.

Demo shoes from Diadora will be available at the kickoff session.

Click here to register, and for more information.

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Wakeman Town Farm is one of the best spots around for our “Westport … Naturally” feature.

Today’s colorful image comes courtesy of Susie Klau.

(Photo/Susie Klau)

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And finally … John Gosling, the Kinks’ keyboardist and vocalist from 1970-78, died last week. He was 75.

He joined the band after auditioning on the song “Lola.” Not a shabby start, at all. Click here for his obituary.

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“My First Job”: Mahackeno Mentors Teenage Staff

The 16-year-old applied to be a Camp Mahackeno counselor.

But he struggled when Westport Weston Family YMCA officials — who run the popular summer camp — asked for online forms.

Then he had difficulty getting to, and through, training sessions. He was about to lose his job.

When Y human resources director Brian Kuzmiak sat with the boy, he learned the full story. The teenager had a difficult home life. He had no ride to and from work, and the only time he used a computer was at the library.

Kuzmiak took a chance. He and Mahackeno director Emily Regan mentored him.

“He turned out to be one of our best and most energetic counselors,” the HR head says. “Kids always surrounded him.”

He returned this year, for a second summer. Again, he bikes to and from work every day.

That’s one success story among dozens. With 175 staff members — 35% of the Y’s total employees — the organization is one of Westport’s largest employers of young people.

175 young people work at Camp Mahackeno. Many are teenagers; nearly all are under the age of 25.

More than half of the counselors are 16 to 18 years old. For many, it’s their first job ever. They’ve never applied for work; never sat for an interview; never been entrusted with work responsibilities.

And at Mahackeno, those responsibilities include the safety and well-being of hundreds of younger kids.

So Kuzmiak, Regan and Westport Y CEO Anjali McCormick have responsibilities of their own, as they hire and supervise camp staff.

They take that aspect of their roles very seriously.

“The Y’s mission is ‘youth development, healthy living and social responsibility,'” McCormick notes.

“So we develop the whole youth. We prepare children for life, for being mature, contributing adults. We are there as they move from playing sports and doing our programs, to being in many cases their first employer.”

A young person’s first job is an important life milestone. 

That means not just hiring young people. It involves teaching life skills like punctuality, dressing respectfully, communicating with supervisors, treating others well, and being role models.

“It’s really leadership training, without being an official leadership program,” McCormick says. (That training includes helping staff members in college mentor those still in high school.)

Those are big challenge. But, she adds, “it’s great when kids excel and shine. We’re serving the community — and adding to the labor pool.”

The application process begins online. That’s the first hurdle for many teens: They’re not used to checking email.

“There’s a lot of ghosting” — no further communication — “after the application,” Kuzmiak says. “We try to make contact, but at some point we assume the kid is not interested.”

The hiring process weeds out those who really want to work, from those whose parents want them to.

Then — for those who follow up — comes an in-person interview.

“Kids are usually nervous,” Kuzmiak says. “We try to put them at ease, with a casual conversation. At the same time we look for things like, are they making eye contact?

“Eventually we want to know ‘Why are you applying? What are you looking for in a job?’ Most of them genuinely want to work, and they like kids. Some are doing it because their parents are making them.”

Parents can be an issue in other ways too.

“When a mom or dad asks me why their child wasn’t hired, I say, ‘Tell them to call us,'” Kuzmiak explains. “They’re the ones who applied for the job.”

How often do parents involve themselves in their child’s application (or eventual work, with questions about — for example — their pay)?

“More than you think,” Kuzmiak says.

Once hired, there are forms to fill out — contracts, information on sexual harassment and social media policies, direct deposits — and training sessions.

The most important element, McCormick emphasizes, is safety.

“We are a child-service organization. We’re licensed by the state. We have to train 175 people about counting heads, bathroom policies, you name it. It’s a mammoth exercise.”

Counting heads is an important part of camp policy.

And, of course, many of them are still teenagers.

“There’s a lot of hormones. Some of them have their own issues. It’s a lot,” McCormick says.

Most counselors quickly assume responsibility, and grow in the job. “I’m surprised at the number who ‘get it,'” Kuzmiak says. “Punctuality and professionalism has been great.”

Many counselors are only a few years older than their campers.

Of course, Y leaders must spend “a lot of time on those who don’t.”

“Emily really bumps them up,” McCormick says. “She makes sure they show up on time, dressed appropriately, and work as a team.”

But when late summer hits — and it’s hot, and their friends are at the beach — the “I don’t want to be here” feeling hits a few of the staff.

It’s Kuzmiak’s job to deal with those kinds of matters.

He’s an HR professional. But most of his career was spent with adult workplaces. This is only his second year at the Westport Y.

“Anjali has taught me to be patient with teenagers,” he says. “I’m not as quick as I would be to let them go.

“I don’t have a trigger finger for firing,” McCormick adds. “I have to show our older staff that these are not 50-year-olds. These are kids, who may not have been in certain situations before.

“There is an ‘acceptable level’ of mistakes — except for serious safety violations. We could never put kids, or the Y, at risk.”

Waterfront safety is a key concern.

For common issues — leaving a group to talk to a friend, disagreeing loudly with another counselor in front of children, speaking harshly to a camper — Kuzmiak, Regan or an assistant will speak privately with the teenager. They’ll explain ways to improve the behavior — and they document it.

In 95% of the cases, Kuzmiak says, “that’s enough.”

The Y’s approach seems to work. Staff retention is very high.

And campers must like their counselors: They too return year after year.

After all, they get a chance to hang out with counselors like the boy who almost did not get hired.

But Kuzmiak reached out to him, and took a chance. The Y mentored him, helping him grow.

Now he bikes to Camp Mahackeno every day.

Where he is a star.

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Happy campers (and staff members). (All photos courtesy of Westport Weston Family YMCA)