Monthly Archives: February 2012

RSVP To The Doctors

Several years ago, when the local chapter of the Red Cross decamped for Norwalk, a popular program — driving Westporters to medical appointments — vanished with it.

But members of RSVP — the Retired & Seniors Volunteer Program — knew it was needed.

So did Westport’s Department of Human Services. The 2 organizations partnered, added Weston’s Social Services Department — and now all Westport seniors, and anyone with a disability, has access to free and friendly transportation to see their doctors in Westport, and all bordering towns.

Users register by phone. Volunteer dispatchers — working from home — match requests with drivers.

Drivers use their own cars, and pay for their own gas. They stay throughout the appointment (though if it will be a while, they can run errands or go home, and return at the end).

Most of the 50 or so drivers are RSVP members (the organization covers drivers under an umbrella policy).

There are 270 registered users, says Human Services senior program coordinator Sue Lebrija. Some use it once or twice — if, say, a broken leg curtails driving. Others use it frequently — even for regular dialysis appointments.

There are other driving services in the area — ITN, Norwalk Transit, even private drivers — and Human Services gives out that information too, to make sure every need can be met.

“Our volunteers are fabulous,” Sue says proudly. “They’re very community-conscious. Some also drive for ITN, and deliver meals.”

Clients say the service gives them “a new lease on life,” Sue adds. “In this day and age, adult children can’t drive their parents to the doctor all the time. This is something that’s really needed, and really works well.”

RSVP’s program operates weekdays — except Thursday. Why not then?

That’s the day the Y’s Men meet. Most RSVP drivers also belong to that senior group. They are indeed an active — and community-minded — bunch.

Eileen Ogintz Checks Bag Check Fees

On Sunday, travel writer Eileen Ogintz made “06880” for shepherding 7 ABC House boys on a weekend trip to the Hilton New York Penthouse.

This morning it’s for her crusading work against airline baggage fees.

Today’s New York Times Business section “Itineraries” column highlights the Westporter’s experience with one of air travel’s most nagging issues:

Eileen Ogintz

Mrs. Ogintz was helping her daughter, Melanie, move to Colorado for college in the fall of 2009 and quickly discovered that the price of hauling the baggage across the country was almost as much as buying another ticket. “I would have easily spent hundreds of dollars” getting six bags from Westport, Conn., to Denver, Mrs. Ogintz said. That was when she discovered that Southwest Airlines did not charge for the first two bags.

So rather than fly out of La Guardia Airport in New York, as she originally planned, Mrs. Ogintz, her husband and daughter drove an extra 25 miles to fly out of Hartford. “We were able to check all six bags for free between the three of us,” she said.

Mrs. Ogintz, a blogger who specializes in travel, has been writing and campaigning against the fees ever since.

After describing other creative ways to surmount baggage fees — and congressional proposals to alter them — the Times story concludes:

Mrs. Ogintz said many passengers had become so frustrated that they would be willing to pay a higher fare to avoid the fees.

“It’s not a question of money,” she said. “People are just fed up with being nickeled and dimed.”

Channeling Westport Teachers

Last fall, Teaching Channel — an initiative to videotape inspiring teachers giving challenging lessons, then put the results on TV and the web — came to Westport.

Over a dozen Staples and middle school teachers — in math, science and English — were taped. The 1st lesson has been posted, and is drawing rave reviews.

Ali Krubski — a young Staples biology instructor — is shown teaching 9th graders how to design and conduct a lab that examines carbon cycling.

Pretty standard stuff — unless you’re a biologist — but Krubski makes it sing. Rather than “teaching” the lab, she encourages students to think about science, think critically, collaborate and communicate.

It’s exactly what Teaching Channel — whose tagline is “Inspired Teaching. Inspiring Classrooms” — hopes to highlight. The idea is for educators across America — the world, even — to click on the 5-minute video, get ideas and resources, adapt lesson plans, and maybe even chat online with Krubski and other biology teachers.

That’s already happening. And, according to Dr. A.J. Scheetz, it’s exactly where education should be headed.

“Getting students to think about science as an active process — not just a series of steps in a textbook or worksheet — is really important,” says Westport’s science department chair, grades 6-12.

“Students need to develop their own procedures and questions, then use the information they get from their labs to support their ideas. That’s a change in emphasis from a lot of science classes.”

It’s a change Ali Krubski embraces. And a change that — thanks to modern technology — teachers everywhere can see, and emulate.

(Click here to see Ali Krubski’s Teaching Channel video.)

Mark Potts: CNN And Facebook’s Reliable Source

Journalists interviewing journalists about journalism might sound like an Escher nightmare to some, but CNN’s “Reliable Sources” makes it work.

Part of the reason is interesting guests. Yesterday, Westport native and Staples grad Mark Potts was on.

A former technology correspondent for the Washington Post, now a media consultant and journalism professor at the University of Maryland, he and host Howard Kurtz discussed whether Facebook — on the eve of its behemoth IPO — is overtaking traditional media as a source for news.

It’s a great question. To see Mark’s insights, click here.

Mark Potts

John Glenn: American Hero, Next Door Neighbor

This month marks the 50th anniversary of John Glenn’s historic orbit of the earth. For a few days, the spotlight will shine again on the heroic astronaut — and, later, US senator — who helped usher in the Space Age.           

 For many Americans, John Glenn is a distant memory. For Westporter Jo Ann Miller, he is a lifelong friend.

Jo Ann — a realtor, marathon runner and author (“A Marathon of Changes:  The Radical Transformation of a Baby Boomer“) — is the daughter of Lieutenant General Thomas H. Miller, the former head of Marine Aviation. Miller and Glenn attended flight school together, flew at Midway during World War II, and served in the same squadron in Korea (alongside Ted Williams). 

The Glenn and Miller families were so close, they built houses next to each other in Arlington, Virginia. Jo Ann was there during those exciting days in 1960s. She recalls:

There were 5 postponements over a month leading up to the February 20 liftoff date. Each time, my parents, brother, sister and I got up at 4 a.m. to get our house ready for the press.

John Glenn in his capsule. The inscription on the right reads: "To Joannie -- A great 20th anniversary party! Uncle Johnny."

My father, granted special permission from the Marine Corps to be off during the flight, would get donuts. The rest of us set up tables and made coffee.  By sunlight, hundreds of reporters and news trucks invaded our quiet neighborhood across the street from Williamsburg Middle School.

We Miller kids were allowed to be off from school, while our house turned into a media station. Meanwhile my parents and the Glenn family, along with the local pastor, stayed at their house next door watching television.

Dave and Lyn Glenn, the 2 children, occasionally visited us via the backyard. The press stampeded toward them, trying to get a story.  Nancy Dickerson of NBC interviewed me at our house during the delays. It never aired, but I felt very important.

Despite the hoopla, by the 5th delay the routine got tiresome.

John and Annie Glenn.

In The Right Stuff, Tom Wolfe said that Vice President Lyndon Johnson also attempted to visit the Glenn house, but Annie Glenn refused access due to  shyness about her stuttering. That was a total fabrication. Not only did LBJ never visit but “Aunt Annie,” while nervous in front of the press, never refused any interview. (Thanks to a 1973 intensive program at Hollins University she now speaks freely, and has her own school of speech pathology at Ohio State).

The delays took a toll on “Uncle Johnny” too.  On January 30 and February 15 he was in the capsule waiting for a countdown. He said, “I got so bored up there that I figured I might as well have some fun. So I started rocking back and forth. The rocket started to shake and it started the engineers on a mad chase to find out what was going on. It was one way to pass the time.”

Finally on February 20, with the fuel tanks fixed and the weather clear, the MA-6 rocket lifted off from Cape Canaveral. We all sat glued to the Glenns’ black and white television, excited but with obvious trepidation. My mother held Annie’s hand the entire time; my father paced the living room. It became especially dramatic and nerve-wracking when we were told that NASA had decided to cut the flight short due to a faulty heat shield. Finally, after over 4 hours in space, the capsule fell gently to the sea. We all relaxed.

President Kennedy; Lyn, Annie and John Glenn; Vice President Johnson, in Florida soon after the orbital flight.

Uncle Johnny wanted to go up into space again, but President Kennedy denied any future missions. “America needs a hero, John, and we aren’t about to lose you!” he said.

He got another chance, however, 36 years later — during in his 4th term in the Senate. At the tender age of 77, he once again flew in space. This time, the entire Glenn and Miller families were in Florida to watch liftoff. My father added commentary for NBC News. They didn’t ask me for an interview.

Last July, John celebrated his 90th birthday. He still flies his own plane, and with help from Annie helps run the John Glenn Graduate School of Public Affairs at Ohio State. He calls often, to remind me that you are only as young as you feel!

Jo Ann Miller and John Glenn in June 2010, just prior to his commencement address at Ohio State University.

 

 

 

 

 

From ABC House To The Penthouse

The world knows Westporter Eileen Ogintz as a talented travel writer. Her  popular blog, Taking The Kids, chronicles the challenging/funny/eye-opening experiences taking her own 3 kids everywhere from Disney World and Yosemite to Alaska and Europe.

Last week, 2 posts described her travel adventures with 7 other Westport kids: residents of A Better Chance‘s North Avenue home.

The 7 teenage boys — outstanding students from economically disadvantaged areas across the country — attend Staples. Scores of Westporters augment the program in many ways, from tutoring to driving to offering “host homes” on weekends.

Eileen decided she’d share a prize — winning a weekend stay at the Hilton New York‘s 5-bedroom penthouse — by showing off the city’s many treasures to the ABC kids.

The ABC House students at the 9-11 Memorial.

The 2 days included Alicia Key’s Broadway play “Stick Fly“; a family-style dinner in the theater district, and visits to the 9/11 Memorial, Chinatown and the Lower East Side Tenement Museum.

Also along: a 9-month-old (the houseparents’ younger child), and a 60-plus chaperone. But the itinerary had something for everyone. And staying in the Penthouse — with a library, living room with a baby grand piano, and access to the Executive Lounge — certainly helped.

“Stick Fly” — about an upscale African American family gathering for a weekend on Martha’s Vineyard — discussed family issues like parents playing favorites, children unable to live up to parents’ expectations, girlfriends’ difficulties assimilating and class issues — that “can play out in any family,” Eileen writes.

Because the family is black, the play had special resonance, she notes. The ABC students were treated to a special behind-the-scenes tour afterward.

In Chinatown, with housemother Desisree and her 9-month-old daughter.

The Tenement Museum also resonated with the ABC House teens. The 1863 apartment building was home to nearly 7000 working-class Irish, German, Italian and Jewish immigrants who, Eileen notes, “faced challenges we understand today: making a new life, working for a better future, starting a family with limited means.”

She tells her blog readers:

Every one of our boys’ parents are immigrants — from Africa, Mexico, Jamaica and Trinidad, from other places….What makes this museum so interesting is experiencing the apartments of those who lived here and hearing their stories. The saddest, we agreed, was the young German mother whose husband went to work one day and never returned — just as her great grandson failed to return on the day the Twin Towers fell.

It was a long but exciting weekend. The boys passed on the offer of a movie at night, preferring to hang out in a Penthouse in the middle of Manhattan.

ABC House students relax on the "Stick Fly" set, with Westport program co-founder Lisa Friedland.

What a memorable experience for the A Better Chance students. Westporters embrace these outstanding young men. And — thanks in part to this remarkable program — ABC graduates will one day be in a position to provide similar opportunities to the next generation of bright, curious, talented teenagers lucky enough to be in programs like this.

No Wonder They Call It “Super” Stop & Shop

On the eve of the Super Bowl, alert “06880” reader Kelly Crisp snapped this photo of a sign at Stop & Shop:

She notes: “Unfortunately, it seems the manager is a Giants fan — while at least some of his customers like the Pats.”

Enjoy the game. May the best team Patriots win!

Chabad Lubavitch Makes An Unorthodox Move

After more than a century as a restaurant — and with parts of the building dating back over 200 years, to its days as a stagecoach stop — the former 3 Bears will turn into a Chabad Lubavitch synagogue.

Or not.

A January 23 Norwalk Hour story said that the 9,180-square foot property, on 2.73 acres at the corner of Wilton Road and Newtown Turnpike, was “poised to change hands and become the new home of Chabad Lubavitch of Westport.”

The Three Bears was a famed restaurant/inn — with 6 fireplaces — from 1900 until February 2009. It reopened for about 5 seconds as Tiburon restaurant, but the property was soon abandoned. Weeds sprouted on the once-stately site.

The Three Bears, after abandonment.

According to the Hour, John Zervos of DVB Commercial Realty said that Chabad — an Orthodox sect based in Brooklyn, and by some estimates the largest Jewish organization in the world — was “not planning on changing the outside, and the inside works really well for them with the big open spaces of the dining rooms.”

The Hour paraphrased Zervos as saying that while the group had already moved their offices into the new space, they had not yet applied for permits with town officials “to use the space as a religious institution in order to officially close the deal.” (They appear to be leasing, not buying, the building.)

The Three Bears, in its heyday. (Postcard/Cardcow.com)

The story noted that Westport’s Planning and Zoning Department received a complaint on January 4 from a neighbor “regarding activity taking place at the former restaurant.” A January 11 inspection revealed work being done on the premises without permits.

A letter sent January 13 cited violations of zoning regulations, said P&Z director Laurence Bradley. Chabad’s attorney requested a 30-day abeyance for more time to submit paperwork. It was granted, giving the group until February 23 to file its application.

Bradley noted, “they have been working and doing things without a permit. It’s been a restaurant since probably before there was zoning, so if they want it to become a synagogue, they will have to go through an extensive review and public hearings.”

Chabad attorney Ken Gruder told the Hour that the space will be used for an outreach group that includes prayer services, educational programs and religious discussions.

“It’s not a synagogue in the traditional sense, it’s so much more,” Gruder added.

But the story does not end there, with applications simply pending.

Yesterday afternoon, I received an email from a longtime Westporter. Attached was a letter the resident sent a day earlier to Bradley.

The interior of the Three Bears, also from its glory days. (Postcard/Cardcow.com)

It said: “Without proper permits for use of the premises as an office or house of worship, the group appears to already be working in the building, often at night, although the nature of their activities are unclear.” Apparently, there are 6 to 10 cars there each night.

The resident added that an “extremely bright outdoor security light in the parking area” was infringing on neighbors.

The writer expressed concern about traffic, parking and wetland impacts, and noted that the building — currently enjoying a “pre-existing approval for non-conforming use as a restaurant in a residential area” — would need a new P&Z approval process for any change of use.

One more concern: exterior alterations to historic building.

Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson (1902-94), famed Chabad leader.

In the email to me, the resident added more information: Several years ago Chabad was embroiled in a lawsuit in Litchfield, over proposed renovations that would turn a Victorian house in the town’s 1st synagogue. At one point, according to the Register-Citizen newspaper, Chabad filed suit against the town in federal court, alleging anti-Hasidic prejudice.

Right now, Chabad occupies a house on Kings Highway North that faces the medical complex.

Will they apply for permits by February 23? Will there be hearings — and if so, how contentious will they be?

Will Chabad move a mile or so up Wilton Road? Will the site of what was once Westport’s oldest restaurant become our town’s newest synagogue-or-something-like-it?

And why — despite a story last month in a Norwalk paper — is no one talking about this in Westport?

Hanging Out Downtown

There was a bit of action today on Church Lane:

I don’t know if the well-hung sign was for the new Spotted Horse restaurant, or Urban Outfitters next door.

As of early afternoon, the sign had not yet been erected.

But I’m sure it will be impressive.

Size matters.

Sharing Haggis With Robert Burns

In 2006, Neil and Morag Grassie family moved from Scotland to Westport. They lived there for a few years, eventually opting for more space and a wee bit of a rural lifestyle in Redding.

Soon after arriving in Westport, they started their own version of the long-established, worldwide tradition of celebrating Robert Burns’ birthday: January 25.

Robert Burns

“It was a great excuse to have a party during the post-holiday lull, when everyone is feeling a bit down,” Morag says.

Burns suppers range from a few men sitting around the fire reading poetry — “very boring,” Morag admits — to the other extreme: “full revelry and Scottish dancing.”

Most of the Grassies’ events include dancing, plus lively speeches and performances of poetry and song.

Burns suppers everywhere feature “the ceremonial piping in of the haggis” by a piper and bagpipes; the “Address to a Haggis” (a lively Burns poem about the virtues of haggis-eating), and of course, eating haggis.

Never had haggis? Here’s what you’re missing: a savory pudding of a sheep’s or calf’s offal, suet, oatmeal and seasoning, boiled in a bag.

Mmmmmm good!

The Grassies’ had a smae challenge when they first arrived in the States: it’s illegal to import haggis. (“The logic of this still defeats the intelligent mind,” Morag laments.)

Haggis.

After much sourcing and testing, they found a butcher in Maine who makes an authentic haggis under license from a butcher in Glasgow — the Grassies’ home city.

There are 3 other producers in the US, Morag reports — in New Jersey, Florida and Texas — but “none are a patch in the beans meat haggis from Maine.” Whatever that means.

This was the 5th year for the Grassie Burns supper. Many friends attend, but only 3 have made it to every one. All are from Westport: David and Sherry Jonas, and Roy Marmelo.

Roy’s wife Maite missed one. Jonathan Ewert is another active Westport participant.

What 3 well-dressed Westporters wear to a Scottish dinner.

“The biggest challenge for Neil and me is clearing out the house so we can get all 44 people seated, with room for the piper to move around, and then serve the 5-course dinner,” Morag says.

She cooks it from scratch, with help from friends who “peel potatoes and turnips for the traditional haggis, neeps and tatties course.” Of course.

Contributors this year included Sherry Jonas, with Heather Lyons (a Westporter originally from Glasgow) and Jane Morrison (a Westporter from, of all places, England) preparing shortbread for dessert.

This year’s program promised — right there, between one course of haggis, neeps and tatties, and another of poached Scottish salmon, wild race and salad — “intercourse entertainment.”

I can’t believe I missed that!

Little bits of Burns poetry are interwoven throughout the night. “You’ll be surprised how many you know,” Morag says.

There are speeches about poems like “Immortal Memory” (it tells a little about his 13 children, many of whom were illegitimate and/or called Margaret). Guests also talk about his socializing and death at age 37 (the two are linked).

Poetry, bagpipes, dancing and haggis. It doesn’t get any better than that.