Monthly Archives: July 2009

Foodbytes

No one eats like a teenager.

So who better to blog about food than 4 teens?

A quartet of recent Staples grads — Jordan Kessler, Sanders McNair, Frankie Rende and Stephen Revelli — have collaborated on FCFoodBytes, a clever name for a clever concept.  They stick mainly to what they know — cheap eats — and they do it in zesty, readable prose.

Best line:

I examined the sandwich I was eating (at Fairfield’s Falafel Inn), and noticed that the inside of the falafel balls was green.  I don’t know if this is normal or not, so I dove right in and enjoyed my first bite.

“We were thinking of places we hadn’t eaten at, and wrote down everywhere we wanted to try for our last summer before college,” Sanders explains.  “Blogging seemed like a cool idea.”

They scoped out the competition, found no one reviewing small restaurants, and voilà — a blog was born.

The FCFoodBytes boys have already reviewed 6 places, including the granddaddy of cheap eats:  Rawley’s Drive-In in Fairfield.  But though the 4 guys are Staples grads, only 1 Westport spot has been reviewed.  It’s The Dressing Room — hardly Exhibit A for budget dining.

That may say a lot about cheap eats in FCFoodBytes’ home town.

Or else the bloggers have taken to heart the old adage about not doing you-know-what where you eat.

An identified dish from Rawley's Drive-In, as shown on FCFoodbytes.com.

An identified dish from Rawley's Drive-In, as shown on FCFoodbytes.com.

A Modest Proposal

Soundview Drive, Westport CT

This weekend, Soundview Drive was filled with bikers, joggers, walkers, gawkers, Rollerbladers, skaters, scooter riders, lemonade sellers, gals and their fellers — and cars.  Plus motorcycles, trucks and !@#$%^&* Hummers.

It was a different story Friday.

From late afternoon on, Soundview turned into a pedestrian mall.  With traffic shut down — everyone headed to the fireworks; no one left — the quarter-mile strip of prime beachfront property became the coolest place in town.

People meandered, then stopped in the middle of the street to chat.  Music played, and did not compete with cars to be heard.  Little kids turned cartwheels.  Older kids made out.

I wondered — as I do every fireworks day — why this happens only once a year.

How hard would it be to shut Soundview down2 or 3 Sundays each summer?  Folks could stroll to their heart’s content.  A reggae band could perform; maybe a juggler and mime too.  Joey could send his ice cream trucks down, and fire up a grill out by the Hillspoint jetty.  Who could argue with a street party like that?

Well, residents of Compo Beach Road could.  They’d complain of increased exit traffic on their street.

To which I’d say:  Leave your house, and hang out on Soundview too.

Bring your cooler and your kids.  Trust me:  You’d have a blast.

A Smash Birthday Bash

What do fife and drum members do before marching at the Compo fireworks? Have intense discussions, apparently.

What do fife and drum members do before marching at the Compo fireworks? Have intense discussions, apparently.

It’s Westport’s best party of the year — by far.

Thousands of men, women and children — especially children — descend on Compo like Patton’s army:  well-organized, disciplined, fully in control.

They trudge off several hours later like Lee’s troops after Appomattox — carrying what they can, leaving the rest behind.

In between is a festival, a happening, an all-American event — with, of course, a Westport touch.  Flags and bunting fly from multimillion-dollar homes.  Sushi and champagne share picnic tables with hot dogs and soda.

Beachgoers enjoy the post-cloudburst sun and sky.

Beachgoers enjoy the post-cloudburst sun and sky.

For more than a month, Westport had been trapped in an endless “Annie” loop.  The sun would always come out tomorrow.  Yesterday, the sun really did come out — mostly.  It was a fine day — until 6:15, when a drenching rain blew in from nowhere.  The sun never stopped shining — it was an almost cartoonish cloudburst — but thousands of folks covered their sushi and hot dogs, then ran for shelter.

It was all over in 5 minutes, followed by the obligatory rainbow.  Five minutes later, everyone was dry.

The Balloon Man -- Steven Marcinuk -- wows young fireworks-goers.

The Balloon Man -- Steven Marcinuk -- wows young fireworks-goers.

Back in the day, the fireworks were simply that:  20 minutes of noise and color.  Over the years it’s morphed into a show.  There’s entertainment galore — including, this year, a group of teenagers singing show tunes.  They performed by the cannons, which is where long ago the fireworks were fired from.  That must have been before someone realized fireworks can be lethal, and moved them onto a barge.

The barge now bobs scenically offshore, surrounded by 5 or 6 squintillion boats.  It’s a lovely scene, joined this year by a lighted sign saying “Lydian.”  They’re the official fireworks sponsor, perhaps the least demanding sponsor in corporate history.  All they ask is 1 little sign.  All of Westport should say “thanks” to Lydian Asset Management.  I suppose it wouldn’t hurt if we handed all our investments to them either.

I’m not sure whether Lydian, Westport PAL or town officials were in charge of providing the spectacular near-full moon backdrop for the fireworks.  Some of the pyrotechnics seemed to actually frame the moon, or explode from within it.  Whoever took care of that — it was a great touch.

Andrew Lott and Riley Andrews fly patriotic colors on their Sportster.

Andrew Lott and Riley Andrews fly patriotic colors on their Sportster.

Then it was over, and the great migration began.  Thanks to that nearly full moon, it was clear to see the beach was a pig sty.  Polite people hauled their trash to the overflowing barrels.  The rest left blankets, umbrellas, tables, chairs and mountains of food right where they were.

But an amazing thing happens each year.  Parks and Rec immediately deploys an army of workers.  Patton-like, they get the job done.  And if you go down to Compo this morning, it will look like nothing at all happened last night.  The sand will be swept; the cans emptied.

And Westport can start partying all over again.

Happy 4th of July!

A Westport 3rd

These are not Westport fireworks. I found this image on the web. If I didn't tell you, though, you'd never have known.

These are not Westport fireworks. I found this image on the web. If I didn't tell you, though, you'd never have known.

Happy 3rd of July!

As Westport readies our own unique celebration — we shoot off fireworks any time between the 1st and the 6th, but never the 4th — here are a few thoughts, tips and reminders for tonight:

  • Plan ahead! Want a coveted South Beach picnic table?  Get there early.  A rule of thumb is a couple of hours earlier than whatever you think is reasonable.  Be a good do-be, and designate (or hire) an actual human being to hold the fort.  “Reserving tables” with ghost tablecloths, balloons and flower vases is not cool.
  • Be ready to move. In mid-afternoon, a well-choreographed vehicular ballet takes place.  All cars must vacate the beach at 4 p.m.; only folks holding fireworks tickets can drive back in at 5.  Some people try nefarious tricks to avoid paying the $30 per car fee.  That’s just wrong.  Fireworks cost money — these don’t come from some roadside stand in South Carolina — and all proceeds benefit the Westport PAL.  NOTE:  Tickets must be purchased in advance, at the Longshore Parks and Rec office during business hours, and at police headquarters any time.
  • Enjoy the show. And by “show” I mean entertainment and people-watching.  There is usually a marching band, and an imported fife-and-drum corps.  This year’s added attraction:  For the Heart, a group of show tune-singing teenagers, performs at the cannons at 6:45 p.m.  Wherever you plant yourself, take time to meander along the beach, seeing and being seen. The street scene on Soundview Drive is particularly lively. This is Westport “community” at its best.
  • Let your children go. Unless your kids are 2, don’t worry if they wander off with friends.  Independence Day is all about freedom.  There’s nothing better for a Westport child than to roam the beach with buddies, surrounded by (but blissfully apart from) other happy people of all ages.  And in today’s cellphone and GPS-enabled age, it’s not like anyone can get lost.  NOTE TO TEENAGERS:  When the fireworks start, sit down and watch.  Making cell calls — and texting — is not an appropriate way to honor our country.
  • Forget the weather. Face it:  Summer will arrive in June of 2010.  Pack an extra layer; throw some rain gear in with the watermelon and Pampers, and chill (ho ho).  A couple of years ago clouds rolled in at exactly 9:15, and the fireworks were less than fiery.  Most people took it in stride; a few boneheads demanded their money back.  After what we’ve been through the last year, a bit of rain on our 3rd of July parade is the least of our worries.
  • Stick around when it’s over. Yeah, leaving the beach makes I-95 look like the Indy 500.  But it lasts for only an hour.  Don’t race to your car as the last firework explodes.  Stay where you are; relax; enjoy the evening.  Your kids don’t need to get to bed (tomorrow’s the real 4th), and you don’t need to stress out in the parking lot.  If you’re not driving:  Open that extra bottle of wine!

Happy birthday, America.  At 233, you’re better than ever!

And Thank You, Too…

Crabtree & EvelynWhen I heard that Crabtree & Evelyn — the go-to place for specialty soaps, body butters, that kinda stuff — has filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection, my first thought was for Westport.

Some of the 126 Crabtree & Evelyn (pronounced “EVIL-in”) stores in 34 states will close.  Would ours survive, or will we soon see a gaping hole in that prime Brooks Corner corner?

I called the local number.  A perky voice asked how she could help.

“I’m Dan Woog.  I write a blog about Westport.  I heard about the bankruptcy, and was wondering if….”

“I can’t comment,” she said sharply.  “Thank you.”  And then — very thanklessly — she hung up.

I’ll start stockpiling body lotions, foot creams and mousses today.

’77 Celebrates 50

Michael Jackson and Billy Mays died last week, both at 50.  This month — the year they reach the same age — Staples’ Class of 1977 will party.

Not content to wait another 3 years for their reunion — and perhaps mindful of what happens once AARP find you — a couple hundred former Stapleites will celebrate old and new friendships all day on July 11.  And, they promise, long into the night.

The gathering — just 2 years after their 30th reunion — is a tribute to Staples and Westport.  And to the realization that growing up here — no matter what they thought at the time — is truly special.

Was it really just 37 years ago that Dave Early, Missy Alward and Trim McNell graduated?

Was it really just 32 years ago that Dave Early, Missy Alward and Trim McNell graduated?

“I moved away right after graduation,” says Eileen Drager.  “But what draws me back over the years is the people.  It seems the bond we have now is even greater than when we were in school.

“The beauty and charm of Westport is obvious — the beaches, Green’s Farms, the gorgeous homes and scenic, twisty roads.  But the people really make it beautiful, and keep drawing me back.”

“Westport was obviously a great town to grow up in,” adds Missy Alward.  “We must have been pretty happy, for the most part.  I think the drinking age being 18 helped a lot.  We were always having parties, and going out to the bars.  We had plenty of opportunities to get together.”

That tradition continued at the 30th, with parties at the Saugatuck Rowing Club, Westport Woman’s Club, Compo and Black Duck.  But, says Dawn McCabe, both shared memories and the current milestone of “50” are more important than where the class hangs.

“We’ve found that as grownups, we just enjoy each other’s company,” McCabe explains.  “The boundaries and cliques that were so evident at Staples disappeared.  We’re just the Class of ’77, united by the amazing education we received together, the beauty of our hometown, and the joy of celebrating and laughing about our life’s experiences then and now.”

McCabe is pleased that “conversations are rarely reduced to the trivial sizing up of relative accomplishments.  I still have no idea what many of my classmates do for a living.  But I do appreciate who they are as people.”

Congratulations to the Class of ’77 on your upcoming group 50th birthday, and day-long gathering.  I’m sure AARP joins me in extending best wishes to all.

(Several Staples classes celebrate 5-year reunions this year.  The Class of ’79 will gather on July 11; the Class of ’84 gets together July 18; the Class of ’74 in October.   The Class of 1944 recently enjoyed their 65th reunion [!] at the Red Barn.  For more details on the Class of ’77 party, click here.)

Enjoying themselves at the Class of '77's 30th reunion are (from left) Steve Monahan, Mary Lou Davis, Joanne DeLuca, Steven Weirich, Adam Wilson, Donna Rizzi, Jenny Flaxman and Janet Markoff.

Enjoying themselves at the Class of '77's 30th reunion are (from left) Steve Monahan, Mary Lou Davis, Joanne DeLuca, Steven Weirich, Adam Wilson, Donna Rizzi, Jenny Flaxman and Janet Markoff.

Edible Garden Grows

I’ve never understood the phrase “edible garden.”  Isn’t that the point?

Whatever.  Staples is getting one.  The point of an “edible garden,” I’m told, is to teach students and the community how food is made, and where it comes from.  Various departments, including culinary and science, have made suggestions about what to grow in the new space.

Construction is underway right now — a large plot behind the main building, not far from the soccer and field hockey fields.

It was supposed to be finished last month.  But according to a worker for Teich Gardens of South Salem, NY, “there’s been a lot of rain, and rocks.”

Unpredictable weather and rocky soil in New England.  Who knew?

Cory takes a break from constructing Staples' edible garden.

Cory takes a break from constructing Staples' edible garden.

The Perfect Wedding Dress

Nah. It'sFresh didn't like this one.

Nah. ItsFresh didn't like this one.

I know squat about wedding dresses.

But I do know blogs, and customer service.  So when I saw, buried in the blogosphere, a random entry by some anonymous bride-to-be about her search for the perfect gown, my interest was piqued.

Not because I give a you-know-what about wedding dresses.  This just had a Westport connection.

Here’s the post, by a woman calling herself ItsFresh.  After a bad experience in Stamford…

Misty (my maid of honor) and I then went to Sukran’s Bridal in Westport, CT.  I walked in and Misty mumbled, “Oh no, Candace.  I don’t know about this place.”  All around us was MESS. Receipts, pieces of fabric, dresses with pins in them, bridesmaid dresses on racks and mannequins piled in corners. There were tuxedos everywhere, with measuring tapes hanging off furniture like cobwebs.  Shoe boxes littered the floor.  ‘Oh my goodness,’ I thought.  I almost walked out….

“Hi hi! Come in!” yelled a friendly voice.  From behind a mountain of clutter appeared a girl who couldn’t be much more than 18 years old. The young girl, Tatiana, helped me find a few dresses in the style I wanted.  Tatiana knew where everything was.  In this showroom of clutter, she pulled six dresses that were all mermaid styles from various racks and worked her way over the shoe boxes and bow ties and hangers that littered the floor.  She ushered me into a spacious dressing room where I tried on exactly six.  With each one, I felt indifferent.  They were nice, but maaaan, I don’t know….

Tatiana, the pint sized gorgeous sales girl, told me in her thick mysterious accent, “It’s ok.  You will find your dress… and when you do, you will know.”…
“You know,” she said, “Sukran can make you a dress if you don’t find one you like but know what you are looking for.  She’s very good, and she can make it to fit any budget.”

ItsFresh wasn’t buyin’ it.  But suddenly…

Sukran, the Turkish owner came over to my dressing room.  She is in her early fifties and has unmanageable jet black hair.  She said, “So vat, you don’t like zee dress? I make for you any dress you like.”  She continued to tell me that she can make me a dress that is fitted throughout and flares at the bottom like i wanted.  I told her that I wanted some sort of ruching across the stomach so that you won’t see the outline of my belly button, and she said curiously, “Vell, vait here, I sink I have one dress you vill like the bodice of.  I show you, and I make you a similar dress.”  She came back with a dress in tow and slipped it over my head.

The details of that dress mean nothing to me.  Click here if you need to know.

I walked out, turned, looked in the mirror and promptly burst into tears. This was The Dress and I was so overwhelmed with happiness thinking about the day that I will walk down the aisle to meet my fiance and say our vows to one another.  Sukran played with the train, showing me how she would cut here, nip there, pin there, take this part off, etc.  Excitedly, she told me this was her last dress of this style in her store- that she stopped carrying it because it was too expensive for people and she likes to keep her prices reasonable.  Well, since she had discontinued this dress. she gave me 50% off which made the price less than any other dress I had tried on.

I am so happy, and the dress is AMAZING.  But sadly, I will not be posting picture of the dress until after the wedding.  You will have to wait and see!!
Well, okay.  Check out ItsFresh’s blog if you want.  As for me, I’ve done my Westport-customer service-blog duty for the day.

Judging Judge Sotomayor

“Sonia Sotomayor:  Good Nomination or Bad?”

Sounds like Fox News or MSNBC, reducing a complex, important question to a sound bite.

Nope.  It’s the title of last night’s lively discussion at the Westport Library.

TEAM Westport — our town’s diversity council — sponsored the forum, its 4th in a series on race and politics.

In small groups, over 2 dozen men and women debated topics like the political factors that led to Sotomayor’s nomination; her qualifications and temperament, and her potential impact on the Supreme Court.

Among the conclusions:

  • Sotomayor’s judicial record is not “pro-Hispanic”
  • There is no such thing as a completely objective decision — life experience and background always play a part
  • She has more judicial experience than most justices
  • Her selection is Obama’s payback to Hispanics
  • Stereotyping women, Catholics, Hispanics, liberals, conservatives — or anyone else — is  counterproductive
  • As a Hispanic and a woman, Sotomayor’s “persona” could change the dynamic on the court, and impact other justices
  • Her ability to deal with diabetes is a sign of strength and discipline
  • Sotomayor shows her “human-ness” — and may take heat for that

After lively discussion, the question — good nomination or bad? — was unanswered.  Opinions were divided.

Just like — hey! — the Supreme Court itself.

Library-goers debate the nomination of Sonia Sotomayor to the Supreme Court.

Library-goers debate the nomination of Sonia Sotomayor to the Supreme Court.