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UPDATE: Y Purchases Red Barn

Confirming a rumor that has circulated for months, the Westport Weston Family Y announced this morning that they have purchased the Red Barn property.

Update: “06880” reported this morning that earlier this year, the Y denied buying the property. CEO Pat Riemersma says that “whenever talking about the Red Barn, we have indicated no comment because of a confidentiality agreement in the purchase agreement.”

Early this afternoon, she said that the sale became official late Friday afternoon. She added that the purchase agreement pre-dated her arrival as CEO. She assumed that role on June 8.

The landmark Wilton Road site abuts the Y’s new Mahackeno campus.

The 3.2 acre parcel purchased by the Y includes the restaurant building and a separate house. It was owned by members of the Nistico family, who operated the Red Barn Restaurant from 1983 until July 2015.

Lining up for a sale of Red Barn items and artifacts, last June.

Lining up for a sale of Red Barn items and artifacts, last June.

“This is a unique opportunity for our YMCA — a long-term investment that allows us to preserve neighborhood values and, ultimately, utilize the property for the benefit of our members and the community we have served since 1923,” said Y CEO Pat Riemersma.

The Y’s announcement added:

The volunteer leaders who govern the Family YMCA, a charitable nonprofit organization, are in the process of developing a plan that will provide guidance as to the future use of the property. The Y has established a Limited Liability Company, known as 290 Wilton Road LLC, as part of the transaction.

Unsubstantiated rumors over the past many months have offered many potential reasons for the Y’s purchase of the property, including additional parking, use for its preschool, and to tie its septic system in with the Red Barn sewer line.

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Red Barn — Revisited

Last week — based on a phone call to the Red Barn — I reported that the rumors of the restaurant’s closing were wrong.

I said — based on what I’d been told — that the kitchen was being revamped. New ovens and a natural gas hookup were on the way. Re-opening was set for today (Wednesday, July 8).

A number of readers suggested — publicly and privately — that I was wrong.

A woman said that one of the owners called to tell her that her group’s annual luncheon — held every year in late July — would not happen, because the restaurant had been sold.

A salesperson described going to the Red Barn at midday to pick up a check. No renovation work was underway. In fact, no one was there at all.

Red Barn painting

I called this afternoon — the day I was told they’d reopen. The phone rang and rang and rang. Finally, I hung up.

Just in case, I checked the website.

It still touts itself as “a unique, rustic place for your next event or function.”

But even more prominently, it still advertises its Mother’s Day specials.

Meanwhile, the Westport Family Y — which everyone in Westport thinks has bought the property, though no real estate transaction has been filed — is not talking either.

The out-of-date (and strangely dark) Red Barn website.

The out-of-date (and strangely dark) Red Barn website.

  

 

Red Barn Is NOT Closing

The rumors have swirled for weeks: The Westport Family Y bought the Red Barn. It will be torn down, and used for parking.

The Y is not talking. But the lights were off last night, the parking lot deserted — and Westporters got even more worried.

Red Barn restaurant

You can keep worrying — but only if you wanted to dine there before Wednesday.

The Red Barn is closed because the kitchen is being revamped. They’re adding new ovens, and a natural gas hookup.

It reopens July 8.

At the same place its been all these years: next to Merritt Parkway Exit 41.

You know: Right near the new Y.

New Y CEO: A “People Person” Moves Forward

Pat Riemersma likes to tell stories.

There’s the one about the 300-pound woman in Minnesota. She came into the YMCA where Riemersma was a top executive, and could not even stand up to fill out forms.

Riemersma connected her with a good personal trainer. The woman lost 180 pounds. Now — in her 70s — she leads a life she never dreamed of.

Or the story about the father whose wife had just entered a psychiatric hospital. Riemersma quickly found Y after-school programs for his 3 children, so the man could concentrate on his work during the day.

“I know there are tons of stories about positive impact in Westport too,” Riemersma. “I just don’t know them yet.”

Pat Riemersma

Pat Riemersma

She will. The new Westport Weston Family Y CEO is still settling into her job. But she does not seem like the type of person who spends much time behind a desk.

Riemersma (pronounced REE-mers-mah) is a Midwesterner. Born in Iowa, she entered Central College with the idea of teaching elementary school phys. ed., and coaching high school sports.

But teaching jobs were scarce in 1982. After working at a Girl Scout camp, she got a job as program director at the Siouxland YMCAs. She’s been with Ys ever since.

Much of her work has been in Minnesota. Riemersma has served in a variety of capacities, including vice president of youth development, vice president of operations, and executive director.

From 1989 to 1994 she came east, as program and executive director of the YMCA of Greater Hartford.

“I enjoyed exploring a new part of the country,” she says of her Hartford days. “I met so many wonderful people, and had a chance to help change lives.”

Now — 21 years later — she’s back in Connecticut. She was ready to advance in her career. CEO seemed the next logical step.

She jumped at the Westport opening, and never looked back.

Pat Riemersma, a few days into her new job as CEO of the Westport Weston Family Y.

Pat Riemersma, a few days into her new job as CEO of the Westport Weston Family Y.

“The stars are aligned,” Riemersma says. “My house in Minnesota sold before it went on the market. I found a house in Southport in 1 day. I know I’m in the right place here.”

Her welcome so far has been warm. Y members and Southport neighbors are very friendly. She attended Westport Library director Maxine Bleiweis’ retirement sendoff earlier this month, and met a ton of people.

She made 2 trips to Westport before accepting the position. Driving around, she was struck by the area’s beauty. She also is thankful for GPS. “The roads are a lot straighter” in the Midwest, she laughs.

But she knows that this town — and its Y — present challenges.

She spoke with former CEO Helene Weir, who described the back story involving the long process of moving from downtown to the Mahackeno site.

“I’m aware of the past,” Riemersma says. “But I don’t want it to bog me down moving forward.”

So what does “moving forward” mean?

YMCA logoRiemersma will examine programs and internal processes, to see what needs expansion, revision or tweaking. She plans no immediate major overhauls, but she knows that small changes can yield big results.

“Right now I’m focusing on the positive,” she says. “I’m excited about working with this staff, and this community. In 6 months I’ll have a better understanding of the challenges.”

One final question: What’s the new CEO’s own Y workout routine?

“Cardio and weights in the fitness center,” she says. “And I like to work out once a week with a personal trainer.”

Y Announces $5 Million Social Responsibility Fund

Pat Riemersma has been CEO of the Westport Weston Family YMCA for only a week. But her 1st announcement was a big one.

The Y’s 91st annual meeting yesterday was highlighted by the formation of a new Bedford Family Social Responsibility Fund.

With $5 million from the estate of Ruth Bedford — out of $40 million in total she bequeathed to the Y that her grandfather, Edward T. Bedford, founded — as well as from past president and longtime trustee Allen Raymond, the fund will provide grants in areas like child welfare, substance abuse, community service and military outreach. It will also work with faith-based organizations, and serve residents of Westport, Weston, Norwalk and Bridgeport, in cooperation with neighboring Ys.

The first funds will be distributed in June 2016.

Riemersma’s announcement was made at a fitting site: the Y’s Bedford Family Center is on Allen Raymond Lane.

The Westport Weston Family Y hosted its 1st annual meeting at its new home yesterday.

The Westport Weston Family Y hosted its 1st annual meeting at its new home yesterday.

Mahackeno Y Opens August 29; Long Journey Ends, New Road Begins

The new Westport Family Y at Mahackeno faced years of approval and litigation delays.

But once construction began 17 months ago, the Y raced ahead.

Now — ahead of schedule — the new facility is almost ready for prime time.

The final touches are underway. The cardio and weight machines are rolling off the truck. Next month, the pool will be filled.

On the evening of Thursday, August 28, a ribbon will be cut. The next day — at the usual bright-and-early start time of 5:30 a.m. — the Wilton Road building opens for business. Throughout that Labor Day weekend, the community is invited to use the new Y, for free.

The view of the new Y, from Mahackeno.

The new Y, as seen from Mahackeno.

It’s just 2 miles from the 90-year-old Bedford facility downtown. But measured another way, it’s a world apart.

The old Y — which includes the Weeks Pavilion, shoehorned in 36 years ago next to a former fire station — had 17 different elevations on the 1st floor alone. The Mahackeno building has 2 normal stories.

Westport Y CEO Rob Reeves stands proudly by the nearly completed front entrance.

Westport Y CEO Rob Reeves stands proudly by the nearly completed front entrance.

It’s also got:

  • The Gault Welcome Center, including tables and seats.
  • A 10-lane pool — with lanes wider than the current Y’s — and an adjacent 20-yard warm water/family therapy pool.
The pool is scheduled to be filled in mid-August.

The pool is scheduled to be filled in mid-August.

  • The Vince and Linda McMahon Gymnasium with 4 adjustable basketball hoops, and scoreboards. It’s also lined for badminton, pickleball and volleyball.
  • A cafe serving healthy food.
  • A “Fort Mack” play space featuring slides and other fun equipment, to be used when siblings are in the pool or parents are taking classes.
Youngsters admire the light and airy new Y.

Youngsters admire the light and airy new Y.

  • A cycling room, with 21 new bikes.
  • 3 studios for dance, cardio and Zumba classes, and small-group personal training.
  • Adult locker rooms with steam and saunas. There are youth lockers too, plus a special one for families and dependent adults.
  • A large cardio and weight room — the Robin Tauck Wellness Center — filled with all new equipment. Large windows look out onto woods and the Saugatuck River.
Cardio machines are delivered to the Robin Tauck Wellness Center.

Cardio machines are delivered to the Robin Tauck Wellness Center.

It’s a serene setting — if you ignore the traffic speeding by on the nearby Merritt. (Every part of the building is oriented away from that side.)

The Y has planted 300 trees. They’ve regraded some of the Mahackeno land — and upgraded much of what was in the old Y.

The road from downtown to Mahackeno is fairly straight. But the route the Y has traveled had countless twists and turns.

Next month, they’ll unveil a new map. They hope it will guide them for the next 90 years.

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Y No Childcare At Mahackeno

Last week, families with children in the Westport Y’s Early Learning Programs received a letter from Tasha Dennison, senior director of child care.

In September, she wrote, the Y had “great hopes” of signing a lease for an “ideal location” to house its Early Learning Programs. That would be a “temporary home,” because a child care wing at the new Mahackeno facility must wait for the 2nd phase of construction to be completed. No official timetable has been set for Phase 2. Phase 1 will open next fall.

Dennison’s letter says “with extreme sadness” that the alternate site — believed to be St. Luke Church — “is no longer an option. The circumstances are unfortunate and beyond our control.”

While the Y continues to search for a new home for its Early Learning Programs, Dennison wrote that finding a suitable location — one that meets state and national Y standards — is “quite challenging.” She warned that if a new site is not found by January 1, the program will end July 1.

YMCA logoParents are devastated. They worry where their children will go. They claim the Early Learning Program — which serves approximately 100 children, ages 6 weeks to 6 years, and is beloved for its dedicated teachers, engaging curriculum and community engagement — was not in the 5-year plan for the Y. And they are saddened that staff — some of whom have been with the program for over 16 years — will lose their jobs.

Y leaders held a meeting last night with parents. The Y outlined its challenges: securing a large enough space, at an affordable cost (both rent and converting it to meet licensing requirements); overcoming aversion to childcare programs by neighboring tenants; providing outdoor space.

They also discussed the problems of finding or redesigning space in Phase 1 now under construction, including a modular unit and the Sunny Lane home the Y owns.

Other alternatives proposed included the Kemper-Gunn House (currently located next to the Y on Church Lane, it’s slated to be moved across Elm Street to the Baldwin parking lot), and asking other childcare programs not currently offering full-time sessions, such as Earthplace, to expand their offerings.

A rendering of the new YMCA at Mahackeno.

A rendering of the new YMCA at Mahackeno.

A woman who attended the meeting, and contacted “06880” this morning, said she left “with a disappointed heart and very low expectations” for the future of the programs. She called the meeting “raucous and contentious from the beginning,” with “heated discussion from parents.”

She said that each alternative proposed by parents was met with “derisive comments that dismissed options as untenable, even with offers to fundraise, offers to facilitate public outreach and generate community awareness of the plight, and all other manners of assistance….Our offers to assist in any capacity, speak on behalf to elected officials, town representatives, and various boards of oversight were brusquely rebuffed.”

Westport Y CEO Rob Reeves was in a meeting this morning, and unavailable for comment.

Meanwhile, another meeting is set for tonight. This one will address the concerns of another set of parents: those concerned that the long-running gymnastics and dance programs will also no longer be offered at Mahackeno.

Those spaces too are scheduled for inclusion in Phase 2.

Y Sets Groundbreaking, Demolition And Construction Plans

The new Westport Y at Mahackeno is moving much closer to reality.

The Y emailed a press release minutes ago. They’ve announced a February 5 groundbreaking — and included photos of prep work that’s already begun.

Tree removal is expected to begin around Thursday. Replacements will be planted by the end of the building process, along with nearly 1,000 bushes, shrubs and other plants.

A worker installs an erosion and sediment fence to prevent runoff into the Saugatuck River and Poplar Plains Brook. The large tree will be protected during the construction process.

A worker installs an erosion and sediment fence to prevent runoff into the Saugatuck River and Poplar Plains Brook. The tree will be protected during construction.

Another view of the erosion and sediment control barrier, just south of the Merritt Parkway bridge.

Another view of the erosion and sediment control barrier, just south of the Merritt Parkway bridge.

The Y expects to receive a building permit in early February, at which point excavation of the foundation will begin. Demolition of 2 homes on Sunny Lane, and work around the Merritt Parkway, will follow shortly.

The 54,000-square foot building is expected to open in November 2014.

Looking north at the Camp Mahackeno arts and crafts building. It will be demolished early next month. It stands on the southern edge of the new Y facility, which will be built into the hillside behind. The stairs to the right lead to the parking lot adjacent to the Merritt Parkway, and roughly represent the easternmost wall of the new building.

The Camp Mahackeno arts and crafts building will be demolished early next month. It stands on the southern edge of the new Y facility, which will be built into the hillside behind. The stairs to the right lead to the parking lot adjacent to the Merritt Parkway, and roughly represent the easternmost wall of the new building.

(For more information on the Y’s building plans, click here. The Y is also holding an informational Q-and-A session on Thursday, February 7, 7:30 p.m. in its 2nd floor boardroom.)

Minding The (Y’s Funding) Gap

“No one wakes up in the morning and asks, ‘How much money should I give the Y today?’ People don’t walk into the lobby with bags of money.”

Too bad. If they did, Paul Bernetsky’s job would be a lot easier.

The 51-year-old Watertown native is the Westport YMCA‘s new chief development officer. His job is to raise the $3.2 million still remaining to build a 54,000-square foot facility at Mahackeno.

When he’s done, he’ll start raising money for Phase 2 of the new building — the 50,000 or so square feet that were deferred when the Y’s initial campaign fell short.

All along, he’ll oversee the Strong Kids Campaign — the Y’s annual fundraising effort.

Fortunately, Paul is a big believer in the importance of non-profits.

Paul Bernetsky, with the Y’s capital campaign slogan.

He’s spent his career in that world. He began with the Boy Scouts, then served as executive director of Youth for the Third Millenium, a Catholic youth missionary organization. Most recently, he managed St. Joseph High School‘s development campaign and marketing program.

About the only thing the Y shares with those organizations is its non-profit status.

“It’s been a long process, I know,” Paul says, referring to the many years the Y has spent trying to build a new facility — and of donor fatigue.

“Some people wonder if it’s every going to happen. When we get shovels in the ground, people will really start to believe what we’re doing.”

Paul adds, “I’m a glass-is-half-full guy. If I can bring my passion for this great, exciting facility, we’ll bring more volunteers forward. The staff can’t do this alone.

Plans for the new YMCA facility at Mahackeno.

So far, the Y has solicited funds from “folks with means,” Paul says. The next step is smaller donations, from families and individuals. Many, he said, have not yet been solicited.

“I’m not naive,” Paul notes. “I know it will take hard work.”

He took his new post with eyes wide open. CEO Rob Reeves and fundraising consultant Jon Simons sent him background material dating to 1995.

“I know folks are disappointed the Y is moving out of downtown,” Paul says.

“Change is difficult. I’m a traditionalist too. But this facility will serve the 21st century. We’re thinking ahead, to the next 50 years.

“We’re at a crucial point in the history of this Y. It’s a privilege for me to be part of this organization.”

Was there any hesitation in accepting the position?

“A little,” Paul admits. “But as I dug deeper, I saw that most questions and concerns have been addressed, time and time again.

“I have faith in the goodwill of the people in Westport and Weston. It takes courage to tackle something new like this. I give lots of credit to the board. They’ve made some tough decisions, and stood by them.”

His job, he says, is to “educate, inspire and invite people to be part of this project. I’m not going to be walking around with a club, hitting them over the head.”

He looks forward to building confidence, opening doors, helping people feel comfortable donating money, and asking others to do the same.

The dicey national economy does not help. But, Paul says, after the sharp drop in philanthropy in 2008-09, people are starting to donate again.

“If there’s a cause you believe in, you’ll give year after year,” he notes. “That’s the great thing about our country.”

He calls it a “blessing” that Westporters and Westonites have the means to help the Y. Of course, they do not wake up every morning planning to donate. And they sure don’t walk through the door offering bags of money.

So Paul Bernetsky will ask.

Y Moves Closer To Mahackeno

The fat lady may not have sung — yet.

But her spotlight is on.  She’s warming up her vocal cords.  And she’s ready to step onstage.

A Stamford Superior Court decision seems to have removed the last major impediment to the Westport Weston Family Y‘s move from downtown to its 32-acre Camp Mahackeno property.

On Thursday, Judge A. William Mottolese rejected an appeal filed by Y Downtown, a grassroots organization hoping (duh) to keep the Y downtown.  The sigh of relief heard in the 87-year-old Tudor building on the corner of the Post Road and Main Street could be heard — well, all the way up Wilton Road, to Mahackeno’s hills, dales and river.

The Westport Y in downtown Westport -- until 2014, it now seems.

Yesterday, Westport Y CEO Rob Reeves reflected on what the decision means.

“We didn’t have to wait for this decision to move forward with our plans, but because I was new to the job 2 years ago, and there was so much uncertainty (about the court case), we decided to wait,” he said.

“Now that the judge has spoken, we’re going to refocus our efforts.  We’re going to talk to the community and the media.  We’ve been quiet for a while.  Now we look forward to reminding people of what we do, how we connect to the community, and how we’ll make this the best move it can be.”

Y Downtown has 20 days to request an appeal before the Connecticut Appellate Court.  There is no certainty that request would be accepted.

Y Downtown has not announced whether it will appeal.  As of yesterday afternoon, its website did not have news of Thursday’s court decision.

Though a major impediment to the Y’s move has been cleared, another obstacle remain$.

A capital campaign will be announced sometime this year.  Y officials have not yet re-priced the Mahackeno building, but the fundraising environment is clearly different than when planning began in 2002 — nearly 10 years ago.

Reeves — who combines FDR-like optimism with a healthy dose of pragmatism (he came to Westport from Maine) — sees an upside in the economic downturn.

“If we’d started a capital campaign 4 years ago and then ran into the recession, people might not have been able to make good on their pledges,” he said.

“Now, people might contribute less.  But they’ll be more realistic about what they say they can give.

“We have to go beyond the typical big donors,” he added.  “They can’t carry this.  Whatever we do has to be much broader based.”

Nationally, Reeves noted, non-profits are initiating fundraising campaigns — and money is coming in.

He said that the Y will soon reassess “what we can realistically build.  We won’t commit to a building we can’t afford.”

An artist's rendering of the Westport Y at Camp Mahackeno.

So — as the fat lady prepares to walk on stage — Reeves is readying the Westport Y for its own next steps.

“We have to position ourselves as an asset to the community,” he emphasized.  “We have to explain why this took so long, and what we plan to do.

“If this community wants the Y to be an integral part of Westport — and that’s what we hear, over and over — we have to make sure people understand that we have to move.

“We have an agreement to be out of the (downtown) building by the end of 2014.  We can’t change that.”

Though he supports keeping the Y where it is, Matt Mandell is not a Y Downtown leader.  He’s chair of the RTM’s Planning and Zoning Committee — and an astute observer of the way the political winds blow.

In an e-mail to like-minded Westporters after the judge’s decision, he seemed to acknowledge that the fight was over.

He said that Y Downtown “put up a great fight.”

The Y folks too, he said, “fought well.”  He congratulated his foes, and acknowledged that over the past few years there were “some tough moments and at times bad blood.”

But in the end, Mandell said, “we are all one community and continue to live among each other.  While I might not like the new location, I’m sure it will be a great place to use.  One thing Y folks, please do right by your neighbors, you owe at least that much to them.”

Reeves agrees with his former foe.

“We’re hopeful we can put everything that’s gone on behind us,” the CEO said.  “We want to be a good neighbor, even for those people who might have been uncertain about us.”

The fat lady couldn’t have sung said it better herself.