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The Religious Institute Keeps The Faith

Since 2001, the Religious Institute has been a staunch advocate for sexual health, education and justice in faith communities and society.

Based in Westport, it works tirelessly to assist clergy, congregations and denominational bodies nationwide in addressing sexuality and reproductive health. It also helps sexual and reproductive health organizations  address religious issues, and reach out to faith communities.

Its existence was severely threatened recently — but not by conservative politicians or anti-abortion evangelicals.

In February, 64-year-old Rev. Steven Clapp of Fort Wayne, Indiana told the Religious Institute that The Christian Community Inc. — the non-profit he’d run since 1996, and which managed the Religious Institute’s money — was broke. Nearly $425,000 was gone.

On March 18, the Fort Wayne Journal Gazette said that Clapp attributed the loss to “bad financial decisions.”

Rev. Steven Clapp

Now, however, the paper reports that Clapp’s criminal record has “come to light.” In 1988 he was convicted of fraud, and sentenced to 13 years in prison. He was also ordered to pay more than $2.1 million in restitution.

After serving 56 months, Clapp was released. His probation ended a year before he took over the Religious Institute’s finances, the Journal Gazette said.

The Religious Institute does not have tax-exempt status. That’s why Christian Community was a “fiscal sponsor,” taking donations and paying bills and staff.

Rev. Debra Haffner — the Religious Institute’s executive director, and community minister at Westport’s Unitarian Church — described herself as “disbelieving. It felt very difficult to reconcile that to the person I had known since 1998,” she told the paper.

“The initial news was horrible, but the extent of the betrayal and how long it’s gone on is even more difficult.”

She added, “If we were the only victim, I would really be questioning my own judgment at this time. But there are many organizations and many victims … He was obviously very good at what he did in a way that’s horrifying.”

Rev. Debra Haffner

Clapp’s audits showed that Christian Community’s finances were sound. However, the Journal Gazette said, a 2009 audit was signed with a Chicago name that does not match any licensed accountants in Illinois or Indiana.

Yet despite its enormous financial loss, the Religious Institute survives. According to an email sent by Rev. Hafner, 2/3 of the annual budget was raised in just 5 weeks, and several foundations are considering emergency grants. The organization is applying for non-profit status.

On the Institute’s website, Rev. Hafner wrote:

Our 2012 work will continue because it must. Even during this crisis we have continued to speak out on reproductive justice, LGBT equality, and sexuality education on television, radio, and in print media.

In a few weeks we are convening an amazing group of theologians to develop a new Open Letter to Religious Leaders on contraception. We are moving ahead with our plans for the Rachel Sabbath Initiative on Mother’s Day weekend, and I’m back to co-writing our new guide for congregations on the internet.

And, while waiting for IRS non-profit approval, Westport’s Unitarian Church has stepped up to serve as temporary fiscal agent.

Last weekend, both the Christian and Jewish faiths celebrated renewal. Now — after a frightening few weeks — the Religious Institute is doing the same.

Westport's Unitarian Church

Remembering Jeanne Kimball

Jeanne Kimball — the longtime Westport musician, music teacher and music lover who died at 96 on December 30 — was a much-loved woman.

Her obituary lists the dates and accomplishments of her life:

  • She moved here in 1953 with her husband Fred.
  • In the mid-’50s she founded the Westport Madrigal Singers and Unitarian Church choir.  She served on the board of the Connecticut Alliance for Music, and was very involved in their annual Young Artists Competition.
  • In 1998 she was honored with Westport’s Arts Heritage Award.

But facts are only one part of someone’s life.  Memories mean much more.

Joy Kimball Overstreet — one of Jeanne’s 3 daughters — sent these thoughts along:

Jeanne Kimball at 95.

“Mom adored Fred (and was adored by him) from the time they met at 17 at a Unitarian church camp, till the day he died 63 years later.  His return from work was the highlight of her day.  She changed into ‘something nice’ just for him.  While dinner (and we kids) waited, they retreated into the living room for cocktails together.”

After he retired, if he wanted to sail for the weekend she put aside her own plans, packed food, and “happily poked around the Sound with him on his tiny boat.”  They slept in sleeping bags alongside the centerboard.

She managed most of Fred’s care during 2 years of cancer treatments.  After he died in 1994 she took on more singing students, and kept up her garden.  She loved arranging fresh flowers and greens, and putting up fruits and vegetables.

Her students cherished their time with her.  Her vocal coaching style was direct.  For her, singing was communication.  She was a vocal coach practically to her last breath.  Two days before she sank into unconsciousness,  when her nephews sang her carols, she weakly waved her hand.

“Not ‘happy new YEAR,'” she whispered.  “It’s ‘happy NEW year.’  Emphasize what’s most important.”

“Her ambitions were modest,” Joy said.  “She was content to be a homemaker and ‘hobbyist’ musician.  Still, the upcoming concert had to be the best it could, and enough tickets needed to be sold to pay the director’s small salary.

“Now and then there would be talk of making the Madrigals professional, with concert tours and a recording contract, but she was perfectly happy staying local and amateur.”

Jeanne Kimball at 84, making flower arrangements for her granddaughter's wedding.

A few years ago, in failing health, she moved into an addition built onto her daughter Holly and son-in-law Barry Tashian’s home in Nashville.  (Both have enjoyed long and successful careers as professional musicians.)

Almost to the end, she chopped carrots and celery.  She did daily vocal warmups at the piano.  Family, neighbors, visitors, the dog — “whoever was around” — participated.

“She never let go of her manners, her sense of humor and her delight in the wonders of being alive,” Joy said.  “She always expressed interest in visitors’ lives and asked appropriate questions, even when the answers mystified her and were instantly forgotten.”

Despite a drastic decline in her thinking abilities, she remained “cheerful, grateful and happy to be wherever she was.”

And thousands of Westporters — touched by her music teaching, promotion or playing — remain grateful and happy to have had Jeanne Kimball in their lives.

(A memorial service will be held Sat., April 2 at Westport’s Unitarian Church.  In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Unitarian Church, 10 Lyons Plains Rd., Westport CT 06880, or the Unitarian Universalist Association, 25 Beacon St., Boston, MA 02108.  Condolences and remembrances can be emailed to Faith Lyons: faith1943@verizon.net.)

When Cool Was Hot — And Not

High Point Road — where I grew up — was a street of 70 nice homes.  Colonials, Capes, split-levels, custom-designed houses — all melded together in a handsome streetscape.

Unfortunately, there were 71 houses on the road.

The 71st — even more unfortunately, it was #6, meaning everyone drove past it every day — was hideous.

Imagine my surprise to see it featured in the Westport Historical Society’s Little Gallery, as part of the current exhibit “Westport Modern:  When Cool Was Hot!

The show pays homage to mid-20th century modern architecture.  There are photos galore, of Westport and Weston homes designed by Mies van der Rohe and Paul Rudolph, and local architects like Larry Michaels and Joseph Salerno, along with tons of informative text.

Opening day last Sunday was packed.  Perhaps it was the novelty of a historical society shining a light on Modernist architecture — or maybe Westporters wanted to show their enthusiasm for a piece of town that is fast disappearing.

The Modernist movement’s record is mixed.  It gave us beautiful buildings like Victor Lundy’s Unitarian Church (below), which stood the test of time

Westport's Unitarian Church (Photo by Nancy Burton)

and his less-than-celebrated Hillspoint Elementary School, which — with its decibel-producing gym in the center of the building, and windows that fell into classrooms soon after it opened — did not.

The Historical Society exhibit is comprehensive, educational and fascinating — all that something like this should be.  It even includes original examples of mid-20th century furniture, which made me think I’d wandered onto the set of “Mad Men.”

But back to that Victor Civkin house on High Point.

A Russian refugee, he designed 900 projects independently — residences, stores, theaters, synagogues, office buildings, restaurants, community centers — and hundreds more for GE, including the 1939 World’s Fair GE Pavilions, FDR’s White House kitchens, and futuristic model homes.

The guy was no slouch.

But that house on High Point was not one of his high points.  I know a family that rented there for a year and — I am not kidding — said they were so embarrassed by it, they never wanted anyone to visit.

Anyone who reads “06880” knows I deplore the Westport hobby of knocking down normal-sized homes, to build houses on steroids.

Yet no one cheered louder than I when the house at #6 High Point went to that great dumpster in the sky.

Until this week I had no idea the architect was so revered, he’d have his own Little Gallery at the Historical Society show.

As the great mid-20th century modernist Lawrence Welk  might have said, “There’s no accounting for taste.”

A surprisingly flattering photo of the Civkin house on High Point Road. Trust me -- 10 minutes after this shot was taken, the house looked gruesome. It did not wear well.

350

What’s 350?  According to scientists, the safe upper limit for carbon dioxide in the atmosphere.

Right now, our concentration is — ta da! — 390 parts per million.

This Saturday at 7 a.m., Westporters are invited to join the International Day of Climate Action.  A sunrise gathering at the Compo Beach cannons will help raise awareness of, and take a stand for, a safe climate future.

Bring blankets, chairs and musical instruments.  The Environmental Action Group at the Unitarian Church is supplying coffee.

Thankfully, no one needs gas masks.

Yet.

(For more information, click here.)

A vision of the future?  (Photo copyright Peter Dennen, www.peterdennen.com)

A vision of the future? (Photo copyright Peter Dennen, http://www.peterdennen.com)