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Unsung Hero #378

On any Wednesday, it would be a no-brainer to nominate Bill Mitchell as “06880”‘s Unsung Hero.

For over 60 years — since working in his parents Ed and Norma’s small men’s clothing store, through overseeing its expansion to 9 upscale locations around the country, and now in retirement — he has been much more than a “clothier” (his self-description).

Bill’s generosity, mentorship, friendship, openness and kindness has changed countless lives. His impact on Westport, Fairfield County — and far beyond — is immeasurable.

Bill would not want to be singled out. He would be embarrassed by a longer list here of his good deeds and great works.

Bill Mitchell

But this is my blog, not Bill’s. So I’m proud to pass on the good news about 3 upcoming events at which he will be honored for his leadership, service, and deep commitment to our community.

(That’s Bill: Most people get one function. He gets 3.)

The Pioneer Scholarship Gala (April 26, 6:30 p.m., Sacred Heart University) is the school’s premier fundraiser. Bill is chair for the evening. The guest speaker is his longtime friend: NCAA president and former Massachusetts governor Charlie Baker. He’ll be joined by his wife, Staples High School graduate Lauren Schadt Baker.

The evening includes a cocktail hour, dinner, program and dancing. For more information, click here.

The RAM Council is a New Canaan-based non-profit that empowers youth to make healthy, substance-free choices.

Their 9th annual Gala (May 3, 6:30 p.m., Country Club of New Canaan) will fete Bill for his decades of work, helping young people lead lives with purpose and confidence. For more information, click here.

Then on May 22 (7 to 9 a.m., Sacred Heart University), Bill and the Mitchell family will receive the Joe Mulcahy Award for their decades-long dedication to the community, at the Thomas Merton Family Center’s 31st annual Celebrity Breakfast.

Keynote speaker Darryl Strawberry — baseball legend and 4-time World Series champion — will share his inspiring journey of recovery and faith. The fundraiser will help TMFC provide food, housing assistance and stability to thousands across the Bridgeport area. For more information, click here.

Congratulations Bill, on these 3 great honors. They are small thanks indeed, for the large mark you have made on all of us.

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Trump’s Thunder

Alert “06880” reader JP Vellotti graduated from Sacred Heart University in 1994.

When he heard that Donald Trump would speak at his alma mater — just 9 miles from downtown Westport — he decided to attend. His role, he says, was solely as “an observer.”

The rules were strict: No posters, banners, signs, professional cameras with detachable lenses, tripods, monopods, selfie sticks or GoPros. There was also “no dress code,” whatever that means.

JP was impressed with the professionalism of the Westport Police Department, part of the very tight security detail.

He also was surprised at the diverse demographics represented — including many folks he knows from Westport.

As Trump finished, JP says, thunder boomed. An announcement urged attendees to stay inside. JP took his chances with the weather, and sprinted through the downpour.

Here’s some of what he saw:

Plenty of vendors sold wares outside the Sacred Heart arena. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

Plenty of vendors sold wares outside the Sacred Heart arena. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

Part of the crowd, estimated at 5,000. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

Part of the crowd, estimated at 5,000. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

A Donald Trump -- and Israel -- supporter. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

A Donald Trump — and Israel — supporter. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

The Republican presidential candidate speaks. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

The Republican presidential candidate speaks. (Photo/JP Vellotti)

This woman's shirt reads "HIllary You Suck." (Photo/JP Vellotti)

This woman’s shirt reads “HIllary You Suck.” (Photo/JP Vellotti)

Despite the sign, there was not a lot of respect inside Sacred Heart's William H. Pitt Health & Recreation Center, says JP Vellotti.

Despite the sign, JP Vellotti says there was not a lot of respect inside Sacred Heart’s William H. Pitt Health & Recreation Center.

Meanwhile, outside the Sacred Heart arena, a small “Love Trumps Hate” demonstration took place. Roy Fuchs took this photo:

(Photo/Roy Fuchs)

(Photo/Roy Fuchs)


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I Scream, You Scream…

Who’d ever think the birth of McMansions would lead to the death of the ding-a-ling ice cream truck?

Phil Topalian would.

In 2002, just before his senior year at Fairfield Prep, the Westport native needed a summer job.  Searching the papers, he spotted a tiny ad.  Blue Sky Bar was looking for ice cream truck drivers.

Phil called.  He was intrigued, and gave it a shot.

Did Blue Sky have any qualms renting a truck to a 17-year-old?

“I guess not,” he says.

After all, the teenager committed to the standard deal.  He paid a rental fee — about $500 a week in the peak July-August season.  He bought all the ice cream — another $500 or so a week.  And he paid for all his gas.

“I had to clear more than $1,000 a week to make a profit,” he recalls.

He did.

For the 1st couple of years Phil — and his younger brother Tom, who helped out even before he had his drivers license — learned the business.

By the 3rd year the Blue Sky owner was in debt.  He was selling his trucks cheaply.  Phil — who had saved most of his money — jumped at the chance.  He bought a truck for $15,000.

Phil & Tom Ice Cream was born.

Tom (left) and Phil Topalian, and their much-loved truck.

They realized that taking their truck to special events was a lot more profitable than driving randomly around town looking for customers.  They began “ice cream catering” — for parties, cookouts and corporate functions.

They took out ads, and posted flyers around town.   They now have a customer list of 1,000.

“Driving around is archaic,” Phil says.  “These days Westport doesn’t have small, intimate neighborhoods with houses close to the street and kids playing outside.

“Now, with triple pane glass, you can’t hear the ice cream truck.  There are no set schedules for people to be home.  And people just aren’t outside.”

Far better to spend every  Thursday at 3 p.m. at Tauck World Discovery — something Phil and Tom have done for 6 years — and be hired for events like last week’s Coleytown Elementary 5th-grade social.

There is 1 place Phil and Tom can’t go, however:  the beach.  Joey’s by the Shore has that concession contract.

“If I can see the beach from my truck, I’m too close,” Phil says.  “Even the side streets, that’s pushing my luck.”

But Phil likes Joey, and the 2 have a good relationship.  Phil sells Joey his overstock at the end of each season, and Joey refers inquiries about private parties to Phil.

“He pays a lot of money for his exclusive right to vend there,” Phil says.  “I understand.”

One site Phil has moved into is the Levitt Pavilion.  At the invitation of director Freda Welsh, he and Tom brought freezers, coolers and refrigerators.  They painted the once-dilapidated concession shack, and made it inviting.

Wednesdays — kids’ nights — are particularly popular.  “What a blast,” Phil says.  “We’re mobbed to the point I can’t move.”

The most popular flavors for kids, he notes, are Fruity Shots, SpongeBob SquarePants, and a giant Cookies and Cream cup.

Adult tastes are more prosaic:  toasted almond and chocolate eclair.

His ice cream truck put Phil through John Jay College — both undergrad and masters.  He’s looking for a job in law enforcement.

Tom is a nursing student at Sacred Heart.  This summer he’s doing a hospital rotation in South Carolina.  For the 1st time since he and Tom rented that Blue Sky Bar truck, he won’t be selling ice cream.

But Phil is.  And ice cream lovers all over Westport — well, everywhere except the beach — think that’s very, very cool.