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Fashionably Westport Struts Its Stuff

Forget Milan. The hell with New York.

In 3 weeks, the place for fashionistas to be is Westport.

Our 2nd annual “Fashionably Westport” event kicks off March 31 in the Westport Library, with a high-end runway show (7:30 p.m.).

The next day (Friday, April 1), there’s a full day in-store activities and promotions, at downtown and Playhouse Square retailers and salons

It’s not just about beauty. The Westport Downtown Association event is a fundraiser for Project Return, the facility on North Compo Road that provides housing and support to young women.

But attendees will have plenty of fun. The Library runway show includes
cocktails by Don Memo, Tito’s, Tuck Gin, Don Julio, Gerard Bertrand wine from The Grapevine and light bites courtesy of Winfield Deli. Everyone gets a goodie bag too.

Spring and summer looks from 20 local retailers and salons will be featured. Models include Westport’s 3 selectwomen: Jen Tooker, Andrea Moore and Candice Savin.

Jenn Falik

The MC is Jenn Falik, the “Today Show” style and beauty expert — and a 1997 Staples High School graduate who has returned home to raise her family here.

Click here for tickets ($75, or $125 for VIP seating)  

The in-store events and promotions the next day features pop-ups, trunk shows and giveaways.

Participating merchants include Middlemarch, WEST, Noya Jewelry Design, FRED, Marine Layer, Splash of Pink, Southern Tide, Cotelac, Barbour, Stephen Kempson London, Express Edit, Winged Monkey, Fleet Feet, The Plumed Serpent, Bobbles & Lace, Brochu Walker, 7 For All Mankind, Splendid, Scout and Molly’s, Great Stuff, Pure Salon and Artistex.

Hank Aaron: The Westport Connection

In death, Hank Aaron has been treated with respect, admiration, even reverence.

Hank Aaron

Yet in life, the Black man who broke Babe Ruth’s home run record was hounded by racist attacks, including death threats.

He heard them again nearly 4 decades later, when he defended Lebron James and President Obama.

Carla Koplin Cohn knows exactly what was in those letters thousands of letters.

She lives in Florida now, after more than 25 years in Westport. But in the early 1970s she was a young secretary, working in the basement of Atlanta Stadium. Aaron asked for help with his correspondence. She became his full-time secretary — a first for any baseball player.

The next year, she handled his 900,000 pieces of mail. She sent a form letter for fans. Aaron kept the hate mail in his attic — after Carla reported the threats to the FBI.

One of the thousands of pieces of hate mail received by Hank Aaron — and read by Carla Koplin.

Those letters were nasty. Some included KKK hoods.

Carla got some herself. “They knew I was white, Jewish, and working for a Black man,” she told Slate.

She remained Aaron’s personal assistant for the next 10 years. Cohn sat in the stands and taught Aaron’s second wife Billye all about baseball.

After he retired, they stayed close. Aaron was a guest at her wedding.

He was a frequent guest too at the Cohns’ Punch Bowl Drive home, including her 40th birthday party. Carla ran the annual Bargain Fest; one year, the star helped raise funds by signing baseballs and books.

Hank Aaron and his wife Billye, with Jenn, Carla and Al Cohn, at Carla’s 40th birthday celebration in Westport.

Carla, her husband Al and daughter Jenn visited the Aarons every Christmas, in West Palm Beach.

Carla and Aaron last spoke a few days before his death. He’d just gotten his COVID shot, and hoped to see her soon.

Though he was 86, his death came as a surprise. Cohn’s daughter Jenn Falik — who graduated from Staples High School in 1997, is an on-air trend reporter for “The Today Show” and “Rachael Ray,” writes the “Ultimate Edit” newsletter and moved back to Westport in 2012 — is gaining a new appreciation for the achievements and life of the man she calls “just he nicest, warmest, humblest and low-key person.”

Her children — in 4th grade and kindergarten — are learning too. “They recognize all these celebrities saying great things about him,” she notes. “To them, he’s just Uncle Henry.”

Hank Aaron with Goldie Fralik, 5 years ago at Christmas in Florida. Goldie is now a kindergartner at Greens Farms Elementary School.

Aaron was Uncle Henry to Jenn too.

Which leads to a story the Hall of Famer told at her wedding.

In his toast, Aaron said that when Jenn was a Coleytown Elementary School 1st grader, students had to write biographies on either Helen Keller or Hank Aaron. All the girls chose Keller — except Jenn.

Surprised, the teacher asked why. “He’s my uncle,” she replied.

Worried that Jenn had a problem, the teacher and guidance counselor called her parents for a conference. They explained that yes, Jenn really did call Hank Aaron “Uncle Henry.”

Because to her, he was.

(Click here for a great Slate story: “The Woman Who Read Hank Aaron’s Hate Mail.”  Click here for an in-depth New York Times story on him.)

Hank Aaron, at Jenn Cohn and Brian Falik’s wedding in 2005. The Presidential Medal of Freedom winner spoke right before Brian — “a daunting lead-in for the groom,” Jenn notes.

Driving Miss Jenn

If there is a hell on earth these days, it’s La Guardia Airport.

For Jenn Cohn Falik, a flight there the other day turned exponentially worse than even most travelers’ nightmares.

But then an unlikely hero emerged.

Joe Biden compared La Guardia to an airport in a third world country. He should apologize to all those nations. La Guardia is much worse.

The 1997 Staples High School graduate — who moved back here 5 years ago — and her family had just finished a 5-night cruise, celebrating her mom’s birthday. (Read all about it here, on Jenn’s great blog!)

Arriving at the Orlando airport “ridiculously early,” they found their flight was delayed 3 hours. So Jenn and her girls made the best of the next 7 hours in the terminal.

When they finally boarded, they endured a very rough flight. The plane circled for an hour over Virginia, trying to wait out a storm and heavy traffic at LGA.

Fuel was getting low. Controllers wanted to divert the flight to JFK. (I know; don’t ask.) But bad weather there caused a diversion to Bradley, in Hartford.

Jenn was in constant contact (“yay for JetBlue’s WiFi!”) with Frank Pataky. He owns the airport driving service that was supposed to pick her up.

“In between hyperventilating and trying not to cry in front of my kids every time we hit a bump, I was texting Frank with updates, and he was communicating with his driver,” Jenn reports.

Jenn Falik communicates calmly when she is not on a flight from and to hell.

“When I told him we were going to Hartford, he knew his driver would never make it. He could probably tell from my doomsday texts that I was in a fragile state, and 3 hours waiting at Hartford would not have turned out well.”

So Frank went to Jenn’s house, got their 2nd car, put car seats in and headed north himself.

The plane landed. But — this is the state of air travel in the US these days — passengers were told they had to stay on the plane. It was being refueled — for a flight back to La Guardia.

Jenn texted Frank. She said there was NO WAY!!!! she was staying on the plane for another minute.

He pulled off in New Haven, to see if she could talk her way off the plane.

She could. And she did.

Her girls and she were escorted onto the tarmac. They rode to the terminal in the truck bringing fuel and paperwork to the pilot.

Jenn texted Frank from the runway. He drove to Bradley, and picked up 3 very tired, very cranky girls (“one age 2, one age 6, one age 38”).

Goldie and Alexa Falik, somewhere between Orlando and Hartford.

He offered to stop so they could get dinner. They just wanted to get home.

Finally — one bathroom stop, and one frantic call to Jordan’s to order a large salad pizza, later — they were in Westport. It was 9:30 p.m.

But Frank’s day was not done. He helped Jenn get the girls and bags inside.

“We were all in one piece. And we felt much more relaxed, thanks to his understanding and patience!”

You go, Frank!

(Jenn didn’t ask, but I’m happy to provide contact info for Frank Pataky. His phone number is 203-767-1083.)