Billie Jean King Aces Her Evening

With over 600 attendees — and many more watching the livestream — it was the best-attended “Booked for the Evening” ever.

With over $750,000 raised, it was the most successful too.

And with special guest Chris Evert and Westport’s own ESPN star Chris McKendry adding to the luster of superstar Billie Jean King, it was certainly the most warm, intimate and inspiring in the Library fundraiser’s illustrious 25-year history.

A small portion of the large crowd, before “Booked for the Evening” began. (Photo/Dan Woog)

The 80-year-old honoree is a tennis icon. She won 39 Grand Slam titles, in singles and doubles. She is an International Tennis Hall of Famer, was ranked #1 in the world 5 times, and launched both the first pro tennis tour for women, and the Women’s Tennis Associaition.

She may be the only athlete in the world to have a venue named after her, while still alive. (And not just any one: The Billie Jean King National Tennis Center in Queens, where the US Open concluded a few days ago, is the premier facility in the country.)

But — as was noted often, by a wide variety of speakers, on stage and in a loving tribute video by Westporter Doug Tirola — King is much more than an athlete.

She has spent her life fighting against injustice, and for the rights of everyone: women, minorities, the LGBTQ community, and anyone else denied their rights, on the tennis court or in life.

King’s admirers filled the Library’s Trefz Forum. They were there in Tirola’s film, too: Serena Williams, Pam Shriver, John and Patrick McEnroe, James Blake, Stan Smith, Julie Foudy, Christiane Armanpour.

All spoke with humor, respect and awe of King’s impact — on their own lives, on sports in general, and the world at large.

Billie Jean King (left) and Chris McKendry. (Photo/Dinkin Fotografix)

McKendry — an admirer from her early days at ESPN — got King to talk about her early life, and career highlights (including how and why Elton John wrote “Philadelphia Freedom” about her; the song was sung on stage by Westporter Sophie B. Hawkins, and a group of talented young girls).

But King’s insights into her use of the platform sports provided, to shine a light on issues like unequal pay for female athletes and the importance of Title IX, were the most compelling parts of the night.

Her character shone through in stories like her friendship with Bobby Riggs. After their much-hyped “Battle of the Sexes” — the 1973 exhibition she won in straight sets — the two grew close. She called him the night before he died; each told the other “I love you.”

Evert — now 69 — made a surprise appearance. Calling King “the 8th wonder of the world,” she recounted the older woman’s mentorship — including King’s delight at Evert beating her, heralding the next generation of great female players.

Chris Evert (left) joins Billie Jean King and Chris McKendry. (Photo/Dinkin Fotografix)

“She even helped me during my breakup with Jimmy Connors,” Evert noted, underscoring the fact that King — who has been in a 40-plus years relationship with South African player Ilana Kloss — is wise in many areas.

Or, as Evert noted, “Billie Jean has more wisdom than anyone I’ve met in my life. And I’ve met a lot.”

“Lots of therapy,” King quipped.

King talked about how much has changed in women’s tennis. Players today have “teams” of coaches (“all men,” King noted sadly), trainers, psychologists, nutritionists and more.

In her day, King traveled alone, and with only 2 racquets. (“Now they have 3 bags for them.”)

But, she said, “I’m thrilled for them. That’s what I fought for.”

When McKendry asked what King is most proud of, she demurred.

“I don’t think that way. I think forward. Maybe when I’m older …”

Near the end, McKendry asked, “All over the world, women’s sports are now having a moment. What’s that like for you?”

Like a great tennis player, King found the best angle.

“I’m the first athlete you’ve had here” as a “Booked for the Evening” honoree, she said.

It’s a star-studded list of writers, artists and others: Tom Brokow, E.L. Doctorow, Calvin Trillin, Wendy Wasserstein, Pete Hamill, Martin Scorsese, Doris Kearns Goodwin, David Halberstam, Patti Smith, Jon Meacham, Nile Rodgers, Lynsey Adddario, Alan Alda, Justin Paul, Frederic Chiu, Itzhak Perlman, Shonda Rhimes and more.

“Tonight, your first athlete was a woman. You have no idea what that means to me,” King said.

She was also the first female athlete to get the Presidential Medal of Freedom, her wife — who joined her onstage — said.

“You are the OG, and you helped build it,” Kloss added proudly.

Ilana Kloss, Billie Jean King’s wife. The couple were married in a small ceremony, by former New York Mayor David Dinkins. (Photo/Dan Woog)

The evening ended with Library director Bill Harmer noting that King’s father, Bill Moffitt, was a firefighter.

Westport Fire Chief Nick Marsan announced that King — who “embodies the department’s core values of courage, resilience and a desire to serve every person” — is now an honorary Westport firefighter.

He gave her a Westport firefighter’s hat, inscribed with her initials.

She looked as delighted as if she held the Wimbledon trophy.

Westport Fire Chief Nick Marsan hands Billie Jean King a plaque, and a firefighter’s hat. Library director Bill Harmer looks on proudly. (Photo/Dan Woog)

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Grappling With A Community Loss

Westport has been lucky.

It had been a while since we lost a young person.

Accidents, cancer, suicide — those are the tragedies that, from time to time, touch every town.

Over the years, we’ve had our share.

Yet teenagers have gotten the message about drinking and driving. Medicine has made great strides. All of us are much more aware of mental health.

Still, no place is immune to everything. No teen is invincible.

Nor is any town.

Max Harper

As Westport mourns the death of Max Harper — the 18-year-old Staples High School senior killed Wednesday afternoon on a dirt bike on Old Hill Road, not far from his home — we search for words of comfort.

Parents and teachers want to help Max’s friends and fellow students make sense of what they’re going through. For many, this is their first experience with death.

Adults want to assure each other that our kids will be okay. Of course, we’re trying reassure ourselves of the same thing.

The counseling that Staples provides is important.

So is the physical presence of each of us.

Yesterday, as school was delayed 2 hours for staff to prepare, a group of students organized a gathering at Compo Beach.

“In terms of grievance, it is crucial that you spend time with loved ones,” the teens told each other by text, and on social media.

“Regardless of your relation to Max, we encourage everyone to join the community and face this difficult time in unity.”

Those are impressive, empathic words from teenagers. It’s clear they have been raised lovingly and well.

At 9 a.m., hundreds of students gathered.

Several people — including Max’s father, Max’s and family friends, Staples’ school resource officer and the assistant principal for the Class of 2025 — spoke.

But mostly, it was a time for quiet reflection. Boys and girls took flowers, and placed them gently in the water. A student led a prayer, for those who wanted to join.

(Photos/Luca Caniato)

Westport is lucky to have avoided a teenage tragedy for so long. We are lucky to have school personnel and other adults to support our kids, as they support each other.

At times like these, words are difficult to find. They often sound hollow, or trite.

But actions are important.

Staples students have shown one way to act.

Tom Scarice offers another.

In his message to parents Wednesday night, the superintendent of schools said: “As you say goodnight to your children and loved ones, remember this moment and how precious our time together truly is.”

Then, give them a hug — from yourself, and from the community.

Pic Of The Day #2704

Hours after this morning’s memorial ceremony for Max Harper, flowers and petals remain at Compo Beach (Photo/Trey Ellis)

Staples Administrator: “We Have Lost Someone Special”

Pat Micinilio is Staples High School’s assistant principal for the Class of 2025.

That’s the senior class Max Harper was part of.

In the aftermath of his tragic death yesterday, in a dirt bike accident, the assistant principal offers these thoughts. He incorporates some insights from Max’s counselor, Mattie Sokoloski.

Max was a beloved student at Staples High School.

I know this is said too often, but Max truly did have a larger-than-life personality.

He had only been at Staples for a little over a year, but he made his presence known from the moment he stepped onto campus.

Max Harper

He had an engaging and warm personality, filled with enthusiasm and happiness. Because of his genuine warmth, he quickly made friends here, and had so many of them.

Students were drawn to him, as evidenced by all of the kids who sat with him at lunch, walked with him in the hallways, or worked out with him in the fitness center after school.

He was such a bright spot in so many people’s day. And he had, perhaps, the best manners of any teenager with whom I have ever worked.

He was a “please” and “thank you” kid. No matter what kind of conversation we had in my office, he ended every one of those conversations with “I appreciate you.”

In fact, those were the last words he said to me.

Max loved to chat it up with many of us about his future plans. He had so many dreams and ambitions.

He often talked of wanting to start up new and unique businesses. From a clothing line to a construction business to working on automobiles, he had his sights high.

With Max’s personality, there was no doubt he would have had an amazing future in whatever avenue he decided to explore.

Max truly discovered his true self here at Staples, and flourished. He helped to make our school a brighter place by his sheer presence.

Staples assistant principal Pat Micinilio (right), speaking about Max Harper at this morning’s Compo Beach memorial. (Photo courtesy of Inklings)

Max was strong-willed and passionate about the people and things that were important to him. His ability to connect with others, no matter who they were, was unmatched.

He never shied away from a conversation or meeting someone new.

Even if you only met Max once, he was a friend for life. He greeted everyone in the hallway, no matter if he knew them or not.

His kind, laid back and fun-spirited nature made his peers gravitate to him. To know Max was to love Max.

His love for life and his big dreams were an inspiration to all. His impact on our school and our community is a true testament to how special a person Max is. He was one of a kind.

The loss we are feeling now is because of how special Max was, and how much he meant to so many at Staples.

Staples Community Honors Max Harper

Hundreds of Staples High School students gathered this morning at Compo Beach, for an emotional memorial to senior Max Harper.

The 18-year-old was killed yesterday on his dirt bike, in a collision with a truck near his Old Hill Road home.

The event — organized by students, and held an hour before a delayed school opening — included words from Max’s father, several friends of Max’s, and family friends; Ed Wooldridge, Staples’ school resource officer; and Pat Micinilio, assistant principal for the Class of 2025.

Many students brought flowers. Somberly, they placed them in the water, then watched them bob gently in the quiet tide.

Max Halper’s father embraces a memorial attendee. (All photos/Luca Caniato)

(Photo/Andrew Colabella)

 

Roundup: Bear, Car, Witch …,

Superfans is a group of Staples High School students. They use social media to draw attention to upcoming athletic events.

Yesterday — as the school mourned the death of Max Harper, the 18-year-old killed yesterday in a dirt bike accident — they sent out a different message.

With school delayed today by 2 hours for staff to prepare, the teenagers organized a gathering at Compo Beach.

“Anyone and everyone is welcome” at 9 a.m., texts and social media messages said. “Feel free to bring flowers to pay your respects.”

They planned a moment of silence. They would put petals in the water.

“In terms of grievance, it is crucial that you spend time with loved ones,” the teens told each other.

“Regardless of your relation to Max, we encourage everyone to join the community and face this difficult time in unity.”

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Barbara Innamorati writes:

“It is bear season. This big boy spent 20 minutes at our house in the Charcoal Hill neighborhood, in 2 separate visits today (Wednesday).

(Photo/Barbara Innamorati)

“I reported it to the police.

“Bring your bird feeders in — it is like bear bait.

“There seem to be a lot of bear sightings these days. And they are more brazen than ever.”

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Think the Grand List assessment for your Maserati (or Kia) — or, this being Westport, Tesla — is too high?

The Board of Assessment Appeals meets Thursday, September 19, 2024 (Town Hall Room 201, 6 to 7 p.m.), to hear motor vehicle appeals.

The board says: “Be sure to bring the vehicle you are appealing with you.”

We assume that means to the parking lot, not Room 201 itself.

What’s the assessment on this bad boy? (Photo/Karen Como)

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The Westport Country Playhouse Script in Hand series continues October 7 (7 p.m.) with “Witch.”

Written by Jen Silverman — author of “The Roommate,” now on Broadway with Patti LuPone and Mia Farrow — it’s about a “charming devil” who arrives in a quiet village. He bargains for the souls of its residents, in exchange for their darkest wishes.

“This sharp, subversive fable debates how much our souls are worth when hope is hard to come by,” the Playhouse says.

Click here for more information, and tickets.

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What’s cooking at Wakeman Town Farm?

These classes should whet your appetite.

Kids’ Apple Delight Baking Bonanza (Ages 7-12; September 27, 4:15 to 5:30 p.m.).

Fall Cooking with the Minis (Grades K-2; Mondays, October 14 through November 11; also November 18 through December 16; 4:15 to 5:30 p.m.).

Autumn Bites & Delights — Kids’ Cooking Series (Grades 2-6; Wednesdays, October 10 through November 13; also November 20 through December 18; 4:15 to 5:30 p.m.).

Halloween-Inspired Adult Cooking Class (October 22, 7 p.m.).

Click here for more information, and to register.’

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Westport Police report no custodial arrests between September 4 and 11.

Police issued these citations:

  • Traveling unreasonably fast: 7 citations
  • Operating a motor vehicle under suspension: 2
  • Improper turn: 2
  • Evading responsibility: 1
  • Disorderly conduct: 1
  • Traveling too fast for conditions: 1
  • Following too closely: 1
  • Failure to drive right: 1
  • Failure to obey traffic control signals: 1
  • Operating a motor vehicle without a license: 1
  • Operating an unregistered motor vehicle: 1
  • Failure to reinstate license within 60 days: 1
  • Failure to renew registration: 1
  • Failure to insure a motor vehicle: 1

(Photo/Carl Addison Swanson)

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The protective fence is gone from the American oystercatcher nesting area at Compo Beach.

We don’t know where this pair was hatched. But they drew an admiring crowd the other day at Burying Hill Beach.

And they are the perfect subjects of today’s “Westport … Naturally” feature.

(Photo/Johanna Keyser Rossi)

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And finally … on this day in 1959, “Bonanza” — the first regularly scheduled TV show presented in color — begins.

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Bottoms Up! Craig Melvin Tees Off On Colorectal Cancer

Craig Melvin has accomplished a lot in 45 years.

The “Today” show anchor and co-host has covered political conventions and presidential inaugurations. He has interviewed Bill Clinton, Joe Biden, Nikki Haley, John Kerry, Mike Pompeo and Condeleezza Rice. He has reported on mass shootings and police shootings. He has covered 6 Super Bowls, and 5 Olympics — including the most recent, in Paris.

But, the Westport resident says, nothing in his professional life compares with the honor and satisfaction he feels from the Bottoms Up Invitational.

That’s the 2-day entertainment and golf event he and his wife, Fox Sports NFL and NASCAR reporter Lindsay Czarniak, organize and host each year.

Craig Melvin and Lindsay Czarniak (right) with “Today” colleagues Carson Daly and Dylan Dreyer. at last year’s Bottoms Up Invitational.

This year’s 3rd annual concert/tournament/and more is set for this Sunday and Monday (September 15-16).

It’s dedicated to Craig’s brother, Lawrence Meadows. He died 3 years ago, less than 3 years after being diagnosed with colorectal cancer. He was 43 years old.

How great is the Bottoms Up Invitational?

Sunday night (6 p.m., Total Mortgage Arena, Bridgeport) features Branford Marsalis, Kristian Bush (Sugarland), Emerson Hart (Tonic), Drew Copeland (Sister Hazel), Edwin McCain (singer, songwriter and guitarist), and Javier Colon (“The Voice”), plus Ray Boudreaux, Eric Paslay, Chris Barron, Perston Pohl, Dan Tyminski, Sean Mackin, Patrick Davis and Lauren Jenkins.

There’s a full concert, plus dinner, an open bar, celebrity mingling, a live auction, and an after-party.

Great music, at Bottoms Up.

That’s just the warm-up.

On Monday (Brooklawn Country Club, Fairfield), golfers spend a day on the course, with a group of celebrities.

They include — in addition to all the performers — Westport actor Stephanie Szostak, Willie Geist, Hilton Carter, Debbe Dunning, Corey Miller, Rutledge Wood, Tyrone Corbin, Alex English, Jimmy Roberts and Dylan Dreyer.

Plus, of course, Craig Melvin and Lindsay Czarniak.

All proceeds go to the Colorectal Cancer Alliance. The non-profit advocates for screening, helps patients navigate treatment, and funds research. Craig is a proud board member.

In its first 2 years, Bottoms Up has raised over $2.1 million.

Raising awareness of colorectal cancer is not easy. “People don’t like to talk about colons, rectums, or blood in their stool,” Craig says.

But it’s the second most common cause of cancer deaths for men and women are combined. It’s expected to cause over 53,000 deaths this year alone.

(I should note here that “Bottoms Up” may be the best name ever for a colorectal fundraiser that also involves an open bar.)

When his brother died, Craig did a couple of segments on “Today.” But he and his wife wanted to do more.

A South Carolina native, Craig knew of Darius Rucker’s “Monday After The Masters” celebrity pro-am golf tournament. Hosted by Hootie & the Blowfish in Myrtle Beach following the annual golf event, it raises millions of dollars for children’s educational programs, and the state’s junior golf program.

“It’s a great idea. I ripped it off,” Craig admits.

The same people who run Rucker’s show do this one.

It’s a win-win, on so many levels. Everyone has a ton of fun — including the post-party karaoke, when “people who think they can sing, actually try to.”

It’s a reunion of sorts for Craig. Plenty of family members attend. This year, for the first time, his brother’s 2 children will speak.

Craig Melvin, Lindsay Czarniak and their children, in their Westport home. (Photo courtesy of WestportMoms)

It even gives an economic boost to Bridgeport. “We wanted to keep this local,” Craig notes. “This is a great venue, and we’re giving back to the community.”

The community is sure giving back to Craig, and the Colorectal Cancer Alliance.

“I’m amazed at the generosity of friends, strangers, and corporations large and small,” Craig says.

Impressively, nearly everyone who signed on the first year returned last year. Now they’re back for the third event.

The concert, reception and golf outing is more important than anything he’s done on the air, Craig says.

“I know I couldn’t do this without my professional career,” he says.

“But when I’m dead and gone, people won’t talk about a 7:30 a.m. segment I did on the ‘Today’ show.

“I hope they’ll talk about what kind of dad I’ve been, what kind of husband and brother, and what I’ve done with my life.”

And if they drink a toast to Craig Melvin, they’re sure to say: “Bottom’s Up!”

(Click here for tickets, and more information on the Bottoms Up Invitational.)

Westport Mourns Staples Senior Killed In Motorbike Accident

An 18-year-old riding a dirt bike was killed this afternoon, in a collision on Old Hill Road.

Maximilien Harper, a Staples High School senior, was riding south on Old Hill Road, just south of Partrick Road, shortly after 3 p.m.

The driver of a loaded dump truck traveling in the other direction tried to avoid the dirt bike, on a sharp corner. The truck veered off the road, hit several trees and rolled on its side.

Max was fatally injured in the collision.

The dump truck driver was transported to the hospital with non-life threatening injuries.

The crash is  under investigation by the Westport Police Detective Bureau and Westport Police Accident investigation Team, assisted by Fairfield Police Accident Investigation Team.

Westport Police Chief Foti Koskinas extends the condolences of the department to Max’s family.

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Superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice says:

“I truly don’t know how to start this message. These are among the hardest messages to deliver and process, as both a father and a member of the WPS community. Tonight, as I embrace and say goodnight to my 16-year-old son, my mind will be miles away.

“Max Harper’s loss is heartbreaking for our school and extended community. I know many of you will feel its impact in the days ahead.

“In moments like these, words just fall short. But what we can offer is our unwavering support to those affected by this tragedy, beginning with Max’s family. Please come together during this difficult time. Lean on one another, and extend compassion to those who are grieving.

“In order to ensure that our faculty and staff are fully prepared to appropriately receive our students tomorrow, Staples High School will operate on a 2-hour delay.  All other schools will open at their normal times.

“The entire faculty will come together, grieve, and be provided guidance and language on how to support our students when they arrive, when they see them in Connections, and also throughout the day.

“For any students needing support prior to the opening of school, the Staples counseling staff will be available to provide support to individuals and small groups of students.

“Staples principal Stafford Thomas will send a follow up email this evening to the Staples families and staff outlining the plans for the day, beginning with the early morning support, and the measures put in place to support students.

“All athletic games will be canceled Thursday, but teams will be permitted to meet for light practices or team meetings in order to provide students a place to be with one another after school.

“Finally, as you say goodnight to your children and loved ones, remember this moment and how precious our time together truly is.”

With heartfelt sympathy,
Thomas Scarice
Superintendent of Schools

 

 

Pics Of The Day #2703

Every year on September 11, Westport Representative Town Meeting member Andrew Colabella attends the memorial service at Ground Zero.

He was there today with John Ryan. In 2002 the New York detective found Andrew’s cousin’s headstone — a memorial to the 1993 World Trade Center bombing victims — while cleaning the grounds. Andrew and John have been friends ever since.

The Ground Zero ceremony is always intensely moving.

This morning’s event was particularly poignant.

At the site were a number of dignitaries, from both parties. In the midst of a heated campaign — and just 12 hours after last night’s debate — the mood was “peaceful, cordial, friendly and respectful,” Andrew reports.

At Ground Zero this morning (from left): Governor Kathy Hochul, Senator Kirsten Gillibrand, Senator Chuck Schumer, Vice President Kamala Harris, President Joe Biden, former Mayor Michael Bloomberg, former President Donald Trump, Senator JD Vance (Photo/Andrew Colabella) 

Connecticut’s 9/11 Memorial, Sherwood Island State Park, on September 11, 2024. (Photo/Ted Horowitz)

Westport Weston Family YMCA, today … (Photo/Dan Woog)

 

… and Compo Beach (Photo/Cindy Nigro)

Part Of Old Hill Road Closed

Old Hill Road is closed between Tall Trees Drive and Partrick Road.

Police are investigating a very serious accident there.

Drivers should avoid the entire area.