Scott Sharkey: Cutting Risks For Israeli Kids

There’s a new hair salon in Israel.

But there’s a lot more to the story than just cutting and styling.

And it’s got an important Westport connection.

Talpiot Village serves 1,000 at-risk children and families in the Hadera region. There’s foster care, daycare, a therapy center, a zoo with animal petting, sports facilities and a synagogue. Programs include homework assistance, choir, dancing, photography and drama.

Talpiot Village gives at-risk kids a reason to smile.

Now there’s a Sharkey’s Children’s Hair Cutting Vocational School too. The innovative space offers special activities for parents and children; recreational and creative arts programs; birthday parties, and joint activities with the community.

The salon is the brainchild of Scott Sharkey, founder and owner of the franchise operation Sharkey’s Cuts for Kids. It’s headquartered in Westport, and there’s a thriving Post Road location here too.

Sharkey learned about Talpiot in 2008, on a trip with Chabad to help dedicate a playground donated by Westport’s Kaner family. He was so moved by the children’s stories that he decided to do something to help.

He had no idea what. But he kept in contact with the director of Talpiot Village. Together they came up with an idea: Sharkey’s would donate a children’s hair-cutting vocational school.

It would be an exact duplicate of a Sharkey’s kids’ salon. But this would have no sales. It would exist as a vocational school — to teach teenagers a trade.

Sharkey devised a fundraiser — the first he’d ever done — hoping for $150,000. Two months later, the stock market crashed.

So did Sharkey’s dream of helping the children of Talpiot.

Eight years later — in May of 2016 — his daughter Julia visited some Westport friends studying in Tel Aviv. Sharkey met her there.

The first stop was Talpiot Village. He wanted her to experience the same emotions he felt, 8 years earlier.

He and the director talked about rebooting the project.

Two years later, it’s now a reality.

Scott and Julia Sharkey with Talpiot Village director Simona Kedmi, at the vocational school’s ribbon-cutting ceremony.

The ribbon-cutting ceremony came almost 10 years to the day from Sharkey’s first visit. He was there with his father-in-law, and Chabad members who had been there on his first trip.

The Sharkey’s vocational school is already training youngsters to become cosmetologists. The director proudly adds, “It’s the best-looking salon in the region.”

Sharkey encourages his franchisees to donate a percentage of each cut to charity. Kids get tokens, then choose their favorite charity from an ever-changing list like the Humane Society, Make-a-Wish Foundation and St. Jude Children’s Hospital.

By donating an entire salon, he’s set the bar high. Scott Sharkey is clearly a cut above the rest.

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Compo Beach bathhouses (Photo/Jack Farrell)

It Takes A Village To Beautify A Town

Town officials perform tons of thankless tasks.

They read mind-numbing reports. They sit through mind-numbing meetings. They put up with a lot garbage.

Today, they had enough of that trash.

In the wee hours of Westport’s Green Day, RTM member Andrew Colabella and his friend Franco Zaffina — a 2003 Staples graduate — headed to Grace Salmon Park.

The popular pocket park off Imperial Avenue attracts tons of visitors. Sometimes, some forget (ahem) to pick up after themselves.

You can’t see it here, but Grace Salmon Park attracts plenty of garbage. (Photo/Patricia McMahon)

By 9 a.m. Westport Rotarians, residents of Gault Park and Marvin Road, Homes With Hope founder/RTM rep Jeff Wieser, Parks and Recreation director Jen Fava, 1st selectman Jim Marpe, assistant town attorney Eileen Lavigne Flug and the Westport Garden Club were there too.

Clad in gloves and boots, armed with trash pickers, and roaming the high tide line and marshlands, they filled over 25 garbage bags.

Among the loot: styrofoam cups, bottles, cigarette butts, and — mostly — dog droppings.

A small part of the big haul. (Photo/Andrew Colabella)

It took 2 hours to clean the entire park.

But Garden Club members were not done. They hauled out shovels and edgers. Magically, their green thumbs beautified the garden beds.

That’s just one of the many spots benefiting from today’s Green Day. All across town, other groups, families and individuals did their part to Make Westport Green Again.

Colabella could think of no better way to celebrate his 29th birthday.

“Westport is my home — along with 27,000 other residents,” he says.

“There’s about 34 square miles of land and water. We are responsible for every inch of our environment. Please clean up after yourselves — and your dog — and dispose of waste properly.

“There are garbage cans at every park. Don’t throw trash into the marsh, where animals live.”

 

Noticing The P&Z

Zoning is a hot button Westport issue.

Homes on the old Daybreak property off Main Street. 81 housing units on Post Road West. Medical marijuana dispensaries from Southport to Norwalk.

Now, there’s a hot button to click on.

The Planning & Zoning Commission has spent months figuring out how to alert more Westporters — in a more timely manner — about upcoming hearings.

The traditional — and state-mandated — methods are legal notices in newspapers, and snail mail sent to neighbors. A while ago, Westport added email alerts.

But legal notices are hard to find (besides, no one reads newspapers anymore); mail is not exactly a 21st-century tool, and few people know about the email option.

A typical legal notice.

So the P&Z added a button on the official town website home page. It links to each legal notice, with further links to all applications. No more clicking through multiple tabs to find P&Z, then searching for  notices — or visiting Town Hall to review materials.

But the P&Z wants to do even more.

A subcommittee meeting this Tuesday (May 1, 12:30 p.m., Town Hall Room 201) will explore other ways to spread the word about upcoming meetings and issues. The public is invited to attend, and offer ideas.

Of course, not everyone can make it Town Hall on a Tuesday afternoon. Proposals for new communication methods can also be sent to pzdept@westportct.gov (put “Improving Public Notice” in the subject line).

The P&Z wants to hear especially from Westporters who feel they’ve been left out of the process in the past.

Scammed!

A longtime Westporter — and avid “06880” reader — wants her story told.

“I’m not a stupid person,” she says. But when she got a phone call saying her grandson had been arrested for possession of drugs — and the caller used the teenager’s first name — she panicked.

“I knew the man on the phone was saying strange things,” she says. “He said my grandson had one phone call that would keep him from going to jail — well, why wouldn’t he call his mom or dad? I asked for a number to call back, but he wouldn’t tell me.

“I should have hung up. But I couldn’t stop myself from talking to him.”

The man gave her several tasks to do — one at a time.

The first was to get $12,500 in cash. If the bank asked why, she was told to say she was having construction work done; the contractor did not want a check.

The woman went to the bank she always uses. “I could tell the woman there was trying to help me,” she says. “But like a good girl, I recited the contractor story.”

On the next call, the man told her to put the bills inside a magazine. He gave her the nearest UPS store — the one opposite Fresh Market — and told her to mail it to an address in Miami. It must arrive before 10:30 the next morning, and be marked “Drop at door. No signature required.”

All along, the woman wanted to call her son. Finally, she did. She learned — as she’d always suspected — that her grandson was fine.

Her son found a fraud number for UPS. By this time it was night. The woman planned to call first thing in the morning.

Unable to sleep at 1 a.m., she realized it might be a 24-hour hotline. Soon, she was speaking with a helpful woman. The mail would be intercepted before delivery.

That morning, the scammer called again. He asked for the tracking number. The woman hung up.

UPS did stop delivery. The $12,500 was returned.

Despite her embarrassment, the woman called the Westport Police Department. “A very nice officer took copious notes,” she says.

She knows the man in Miami will not be found — this time. But the officer told her he often goes to the Senior Center, warning people of scams like this. “He praised my son and me for how we handled this,” she says.

This is not the first time a Westporter has almost fallen victim. An older woman I know well was told a similar story about her grandson’s arrest. Her instructions were money wire it via Western Union at Stop & Shop.

Fortunately, the clerk behind the counter was suspicious, and asked the woman to call her grandson. She was relieved to hear his voice. Sheepishly, she explained she had almost sent money to a scammer.

“I’m not a stupid person,” the woman with the UPS story says again. “But I did a stupid thing. I don’t want anyone else to do the same.”

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East bank of the Saugatuck River, from the Westport Arts Center parking lot. (Photo/Lynn U. Miller)

Friday Flashback #88

If you were a 2nd grader in Westport between 1959 and the early 1970s, you remember the Jennings Trail field trip.

Bessie Jennings (Courtesy of Greens Farms Living magazine)

Bessie Jennings — a native Westporter who traced her ancestry here to the 1650s — conceived, developed and led the tour after retiring as a history, government and civics teacher at Roger Ludlowe High School.

It included the Beachside Avenue site of the 5 founding Bankside Farmers; the Machamux boulder; the old Greens Farms Church meeting house; the Compo Cove tide mill; the Minute Man monument, and the Compo cannons, among many others.

She told stories about the Sherwood triplets, the tar rock signals sent when the British landed, and much more.

After Bessie Jennings died in 1972, the Westport Young Women’s Woman’s League worked with the Westport Historical Society to create 23 markers, at historic sites throughout town.

Of course, it was called the Jennings Trail.

One of the plaques on the Jennings Trail marks the Elmstead Lane home where Bessie Jennings was born, and died. (Photo courtesy of Greens Farms Living magazine)

(Hat tip to Bob Weingarten, Westport Historical Society house historian, who published a longer version of this information in Greens Farms Living magazine.)

Remembering Paul Green

Paul Green — one of Westport’s most beloved and inspirational citizens — died yesterday. He was 94.

More than 6 years ago, I chronicled Paul’s long — and strong — battle against a deadly disease. He continued fighting long after those words appeared. I wrote:

Nineteen years ago, Paul Green was diagnosed with Parkinson’s.

His 1st reaction was to fight back.

His 2nd was to figure out how.

His 3rd was to apply what he’d learned: that movement like exercise and dance can slow the progression of that torturous disease.

Last night at the Saugatuck Rowing Club, Paul — 88 years young — was the star attraction. A video highlighting his avid, ongoing work was shown. It serves 2 purposes: educating Parkinson’s patients about the benefits of exercise, and raising funds for a foundation Paul started.

Paul Green, hard at work at the Saugatuck Rowing Club.

The non-profit is called Nevah Surrendah to Parkinson’s. The name honors Paul’s always-optimistic attitude — and pays homage to his hero Winston Churchill’s legendary exhortation. (And his accent. Paul also pronounces it “nevah surrendah” — he’s from Boston.)

The site was perfect. Rowing is one of the many activities that keeps Paul’s Parkinson’s in check. The Saugatuck club has been his home away from his Old Mill home for years.

The rowing community is a close and very friendly one. Paul is one of its true idols — and a real favorite. (Particularly with the ladies.)

Last summer, the Saugatuck Rowing Club was the site of another tribute to Paul, and his Nevah Surrendah foundation. Scenes from that event — and a July dance-and-exercise session at the Senior Center — have been incorporated into the compelling  video that premiered last night.

Paul Green, keeping active in the boathouse he loves.

The video begins with scenes of reggae artist Mystic Bowie and Zumba instructor Eddie Calle leading at the Senior Center. The music is infectious; the smiles are heartfelt, and the scenes of older men and women — some with caretakers, others with grandchildren — moving slowly but rhythmically to the sounds of ska are inspiring.

Paul hopes that the video will show others with Parkinson’s — or any movement disorder — how to exercise for improved balance, a positive attitude and a healthy lifestyle.

Interviews with Paul’s neurologist, Dr. Amy Knoor; his physical therapist, Tara Maroney and his chiropractor Dr. Joshua Lander prove that Paul has not only nevah surrendahed — he’s thrived.

And as he’s done for nearly 2 decades, he’s helping others thrive.

“Paul is such an inspiration,” one of the rowers interviewed on the video says. “We think we’re working hard. Then we see him out on the water — with such a smile on his face!”

The same smile he wore all last night, as he greeted and danced his way through a throng of family members, friends and fans.

Paul Green and his son Peter.

Color War For A Cause

For many Westport youngsters, summer camp is a rite of passage. They spend weeks in the woods, doing fun stuff and forming lifelong friendships in an environment far different from suburbia.

A few spend only 1 week at Experience Camp. But for them — and the 550 boys and girls ages 9 to 16, who attend one of 4 sites in New York, California and Georgia — it is a profound, even life-changing, time.

Experience Camp is for youngsters who have lost a parent or sibling.

Most of the time is spent in typical camp activities — swimming, arts and crafts, campfires.

But with the guidance of licensed clinicians, campers find opportunities to share their life stories with kids who are just like them. They learn that grief, isolation and loss is not theirs alone.

A week at Experience Camp is filled with fun.

Experience Camp is directed by Westporters Jon and Sara Deren. It’s headquartered right here in Westport.

The national organization has kept a low profile in town. But on May 20 Experience Camp holds its first-ever fundraiser. Money raised will keep camp free, for every youngster who attends.

The “Day of Champions” is set for Camp Mahackeno — a perfect choice for this camp-like color war/field day. Twenty teams of 10 to 15 people each (kindergarten through adult) compete in sponge races, an obstacle course, toothpick pickup contest with oven mitts, archery and others activities.

Points are awarded for spirit, fundraising, cheering and more. It will be a day of laughter and fun.

Of course, it’s bittersweet. Many members of the planning committee lost a parent, sibling or spouse at an early age.

Rory Murray’s husband was killed in the Twin Towers on September 11, 2001. Their daughter Aly was 5 months old.

Five years later, she attended Camp Better Days. The 1-week program on Lake George brought together scores of children of 9/11 victims.

Enjoying life at Camp Better Days.

Aly went back the next year. And the next, and next.

She’s now a Staples High School junior. She’ll head back this summer, for the final time. The friends she’s made there — the youngest group that began at the camp — head to college next year. Camp Better Days has served its purpose, and will close in August.

“This has become her family,” Rory says. “It’s a safe haven, where they can be and say anything. Aly moves heaven and earth to go there.”

As she thought about the end of Camp Better Days, Rory learned about Experience Camp. Immediately, she volunteered to help.

“The Day of Champions will help provide all the wonderful things Aly had,” Rory says.

“For kids who lost a sibling or parent, having a place to go is magical. There’s implicit trust, and lots of love. Realizing you’re not alone, that you’ve got other people to lean on, cry and laugh with, is so powerful. This 1-week escape is a gift for these children, and their families.”

Rory and Aly Murray

Rory, Aly and her family will be one of the 20 teams participating in the Day of Champions. Many slots are already filled.

But there’s still room for a few teams. So be a champion! It’s a “camp experience” that’s even sweeter than a s’more.

(The Day of Champions is set for Sunday, May 20, 9 to 11 a.m., at Camp Mahackeno behind the Westport Weston Family YMCA. To register a team, or for more information, click here. To donate without participating, click here.)

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Who doesn’t love Westport Wash & Wax? But someone should tell them that no one has retractable radio antennas anymore — or “car phones.” (Photo/Sandy Rothenberg)