Remembering Sheila Keenan

Sheila Keenan — a longtime, well-known Westport realtor and civic volunteer — died September 17. She was 88.

The Massachusetts native graduated from Boston College. She launched her career as an elementary school teacher in Charlottesville, Virginia while her husband Tod Keenan pursued a law degree at the University of Virginia.

In 1964 the couple settled in Westport, and raised 3 children. Tod built his law practice, while Sheila built a career of her own. She was a founding partner of KMS Partners, which grew into the number one real estate team in Connecticut. Honors included the Coldwell Banker Vision Award, and many President’s Elite designations.

Sheila spent much of her life advocating for children with special needs and their families. She co-founded both Pegasus Therapeutic Riding and CLASP, and served on the board of the Bethel Recovery Center, where her efforts earned a citation from the state Attorney General.

She served as secretary of the United Way of Westport/Weston for 5 years. As a longtime member of Sunrise Rotary Club, she took on roles of membership chairman and social chairman with enthusiasm.

She was active in the Westport Young Women’s League and the Junior League of Fairfield County, and for 12 years answered calls as an emergency medical technician with Westport Emergency Medical Service.

Most recently, she was involved with PEO International, an organization that helps women re-enter the workplace.

Sheila Keenan

Her obituary says, “To her family, she was simply ‘Didi,’ known and adored for her kindness, her generosity, her enormous heart, boundless energy and a deep and abiding faith in God. She loved nothing more than gathering people, and she connected people, for work, for love, or just for friendship.”

A devoted member of St. Luke’s Church, she also belonged to the Gaelic American Club, Fayerweather Yacht Club, the Yale Club, and the Fairfield County Hunt Club.

A skilled card player, she co-founded a bridge group that recently celebrated their 61st year. She also enjoyed mah jongg, tennis and paddle tennis.

She loved travel, and proudly wore silly hats.

Sheila is survived by her children, Maura Keenan (partner Peter Teed); Kerry Keenan (Michael Jarvela), and Sean Keenan; grandchildren Olivia Firstenberg (Anthony Terlizzi), Maggie Teed, Franny Jarvela and Lucy Jarvela; great-grandchildren Owen Madigan and Rosie Sally Terlizzi, and a wide, devoted circle of friends.

Sheila had the joy of meeting Rosie, born September 14, just days before she passed. She was preceded in death by her husband, Thomas “Tod” Keenan, and her brother Francis Forziati.

A service and celebration of her life will be held at St Luke Church on December 18 (11 a.m.). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Special Olympics Connecticut soct.org and Our Vision in CT.

“Students Speak”: Disagree With Me. Just Don’t Threaten Me.

A Staples High School student offered some thoughts on a podcast last week — and ignited an online firestorm. Today, he describes the aftermath of that podcast.

I am a junior at Staples High School, and over the last week my life has been turned upside down. 

I am escorted to class every day by school administrators. Classmates I sit beside have told me, in writing, that they wish to gang rape and kill me. My retail job has let me go, claiming of course that it was entirely unrelated.

My home address along with my father’s phone number have been posted online. He now fields a near endless stream of calls from strangers detailing their perspectives on his son.

I have loved ideas my whole life. I launched a newsletter my freshman year, and a podcast over the past summer. I gave my perspective on the situation at Cornell last Tuesday, which was similar to voices as politically opposed as what “The View”’s Sunny Hostin and “The Daily Wire”’s Ben Shapiro both espoused: that under New York state law, and with the evidence given to the district attorney in 2024, the decision not to prosecute was not unreasonable.

My tone may have been too cold, my wording imprecise, but nothing that could possibly merit what happened over the course of the week.

Let’s be fully clear: Rape and sexual assault are among the most disgusting things that occur in our society. The video itself labeled what occurred as “morally wrong” and “disgusting.”

My intention was never to minimize or denigrate anyone who falls victim to these situations. Yet the people who ostensibly claim to share that position were willing to threaten me with becoming a victim of it myself.

I have handled the backlash the best I am able. I cooperated fully with law enforcement and the administration at Staples High School. I have ignored the streams of texts and calls, and deleted Instagram off my phone to avoid obsessing over the situation.

I have attended my classes and walked into school despite being told not to go, both by those looking out for my best interests and bad actors seeking to intimidate me.

My current situation has become untethered from the Cornell case itself. It is a story of a 16-year-old kid who expressed an opinion that, whatever issues in presentation may have precipitated the response, was not outside the Overton Window.

The response was not counter arguments. It was hardly anyone seeking to educate me, understand me, or engage in the sort of discourse that only serves to help make our communities better.

The response was doxxing and death threats. 

What has stuck with me most this week is the gap between the unflinching vitriol of the online mob, and the everyday good of the people who know me. What has stuck with me are the friends who have stood by my side, despite facing immense judgment for such a stance.

What has stuck with me are the people who, in the days since the night the clip was posted, have come to me to apologize for their threats and harassment. 

I have a teacher I expected to disagree with on nearly every political issue, and I probably do. But I would now say I agree with her on everything that matters. Before class, she spoke to me privately to make sure her classroom would be a safe space for me, too.

It is those people who expressed a commitment to integrity, values and principles, concepts steadier and more important than partisanship. It is a commitment to how you treat people, your peers and neighbors, including those you disagree with.

I have seen people who vehemently disagree with me show more integrity than those who stand by every word I have said. And to say I am forever grateful to those people would be an understatement. 

I am not asking everyone to agree with what I said in the video, or any political stances I hold at all. The beauty of living in a town, and a nation, where people have such a diversity of opinions and are allowed to speak their minds freely, is exactly what drew me to being so enamored with ideas at such a young age.

What I would ask is simpler: Let dissent be accompanied by an explanation, not a threat of violence or a doxxing. 

Westport is a town that prides itself on being a place that values education and civic participation. If that is true, then it should be the place where a 16-year-old kid can make an argument, however unpopular or poorly expressed, without having his family doxxed, and his little sister living in fear, over it.

That is an entirely apolitical ask, and the bare minimum for a town that wishes to call itself a community. 

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Wakeman Town Farm (Photo/Celia Campbell-Mohn)

Newest 8-30g: 18 Units On Compo Road North

A new 8-30g housing proposal has been filed with town officials.

This one — for 18 units in 9 duplexes, all “affordable” based on state statutes — is planned for 96 Compo Road North.

The homes would be built by Eagle River. They produce manufactured and modular homes in Pennsylvania, for delivery anywhere.

96 Compo Road North is now vacant land, between Brookside Drive and the Town Farm tennis courts and Little League fields.

96 Compo Road North (Photo courtesy of Google Maps)

On the other side of the street, the site is between Tamarac Road and Gorham Avenue.

The 9 duplexes would be built on land (white) inside the pink area. The Town Farm tennis courts and baseball fields are at top. 

The developer is familiar. Garden Homes Fund — the philanthropic arm of Stamford-based Garden Homes Management — engaged in a lengthy court battle to develop 122 Wilton Road.

Those 19 units of affordable housing, on the corner of Kings Highway North, are managed by Homes with Hope. The Westport non-profit is not affiliated with the Compo Road North project.

In its application, Garden Homes says that the new housing would consist entirely of 2-bedroom units. It would “provide housing in Westport for low and moderate income families with school-aged children.”

Rendering of 1 of the 9 proposed duplexes. 

The application adds, “While the need for affordable housing is dire in Connecticut, it is most needed in neighborhoods of high opportunity. Neighborhoods play a central role in upward mobility and are where children experience socioeconomic development, form social ties, and access resources and life opportunities.”

The Fund would develop the property, then sell it to “an area housing non-profit at below cost on completion.” The project would generate 14 points, toward an 8-30g moratorium.

There would be 24 parking spaces. Residents would be limited to 1 car per unit, “strictly enforced as a condition of the lease.”

No date has yet been set for hearings by the Planning & Zoning Commission, or other town bodies.

Site plan. Compo Road North is at left.

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Tonight: P&Z Meeting Canceled; Tom Hanks At Playhouse

There will be no decision on athletic field lights tonight.

The Planning & Zoning Commission — which was scheduled to discuss a proposal for both Wakeman and PJ Romano Fields — canceled its public hearing. Not all members were able to attend.

The next meeting is scheduled for October 19.

That frees up commissioners and interested residents to attend tonight’s Westport Country Playhouse Script in Hand reading of “Portrait of a Woman in Repose.”

Earlier today, it was announced that Tom Hanks will join Wendie Malick and Tony Shalhoub at the event. It’s a milestone: the 100th show in the series.

Unfortunately for the P&Z, and anyone else thinking of attending: It’s already sold out.

Tom Hanks

Fall Foliage: A Westport Gallery

Peak foliage is still a couple of weeks away. The air is not yet autumn crisp.

But we’ve been treated to a great fall so far.

John Maloney was one of many Westporters out this weekend, soaking in the scenery.

He brought his camera. Here are a few shots, to remind us of the beauty that surrounds us.

And for our ex-pats, living now in places where nature does not put on a show like this: Enjoy New England, vicariously.

Saugatuck River, west bank.

Outside Bartaco.

One view of the Library Riverwalk …

… and a close-up …

… and another.

 

Parker Harding Plaza.

Saugatuck River. (All photos/John Maloney)

Roundup: Water Testing, Public Dock, Volunteer Fair …

This morning, “06880” posted a story about Kevin Nealon’s appearance at this Friday’s “Stand Up For Homes with Hope” benefit at Fairfield University. The event is now sold out.

Great news for the non-profit that addresses homelessness and food insecurity. Bad news for the comedian’s many fans who missed out on tickets!

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Most Westporters seldom think about our water.

We turn on the tap. We drink it. We cook with it. We shower in it.

Ignacy Nieweglowski think about our water, though.

He’s not a hydrologist. He doesn’t work for Aquarion, or the town.

He’s a senior at Staples High School. He and classmate Sahil Vora co-founded the Health Tech Initiative. The entirely student-run public research organization tracks the state of lead contamination in Connecticut. Recently, they won a President’s Environmental Youth Award.

This Saturday (October 10, 9 a.m. to noon), the group will host a free Water Drive. It’s in the main lobby of Staples High.

Residents can bring water samples from their homes. Ignacy, Sahil and their club will screen it — free — for lead and heavy metals.

The results come back in just 3 minutes. They are then added to the Health Tech Initiative Lead Watch database.

For the most accurate results, do not run any water in the house for 8 hours (usually that’s overnight). Then collect a sample, after that stagnation period.

Along with the testing, the Health Tech Initiative will raffle off an automatic flushing system on behalf of their partner, Noah Systems. It automatically clears lead from home pipes.

Any money raised or donated will help fund the group’s project: testing every Westport public school and many public facilities for lead.

Sahil Vora and Ignacy Nieweglowski, with the Presidential awards.

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Speaking of water: Westport’s first public dock is almost ready to open.

The wooden structure extends from Arezzo restaurant’s patio into the Saugatuck River, just south of the Ruth Steinkraus Cohen Bridge.

There’s still plenty of great fall weather left. And next spring, this will really be exciting.

(Photo/Ken Warren)

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Looking for an organization to get involved with? A group to volunteer for? More information on Westport’s non-profits?

Teens and adults are invited to the town’s annual Volunteer Fair. It’s this Saturday (October 10, 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., Westport Library).

It’s a great chance to connect, learn, and find an opportunity that matches your interests, skills and schedule.

Something for everyone, at last year’s Volunteer Fair.

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A reminder: The first event in “06880”‘s newest venture — community celebrations of local businesses — is set for this Saturday.

And everyone is invited.

On October 10 (5 to 7 p.m), “06880” and Kiin Sauna host “Community, Connection and Contrast.” KiiN is at 1555 Post Road East, next to Sherpa, Longevity, Zion and CT Sports Recovery — all wellness businesses too.

You’ll see friends and neighbors. Enjoy complimentary beverages. Meet KiiN founder Ginger Richardson, who will tell you all about the benefits of a sauna and cold plunge.

Ginger Richardson

If you feel adventurous, you can try a sauna and cold plunge yourself. (Sauna and plunge space is limited; click here to sign up.)

Ginger and her crew are great hosts. It’s a fun way to learn about a new spot in town.

Dave Briggs and I will host more events soon, all over town. We look forward to this new series. If your business would like to collaborate with us, email us: 06880blog@gmail.com.

Kiin Sauna

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Chili time is near.

A highlight is always the VFW’s Chili Cook-off.

This year’s event — the 4th annual fundraiser, supporting Westport’s first responders and veteran community — is Saturday, October 17 (6 to 8 p.m. VFW Post 399).

Greg Gunter of the Westport Police Department is the defending 3-time champion. Can he make it 4 straight?

Attendees vote for their favorite, among a wide variety of homemade recipes. There’s plenty of other great food, a 50/50 raffle, and a healthy heaping of community spirit.

Tickets are $25, at the VFW in advance or at the door. Proceeds benefit the VFW, Fire Department, Police Department and Volunteer Emergency Medical Services.

Questions? Email vfw399ct@gmail.com, or call 203-227-6796.

(Photo/Andrew Colabella)

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Here in District 4, it’s been a low-key race for US Congress.

On October 19 (7 p.m., Westport Library), the Lower Fairfield County Leagues of Women hosts a debate. The 3 candidates — Democratic incumbent Jim Himes, Republican Michael Ted Goldstein and Independent Benjamin Wesley — will participate.

Click here to register. To access the livestream, click here.  To submit questions, email  LWVCongress4Debate@gmail.com.

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Paula Morgan is the Westport Book Shop’s guest exhibitor for October.

She works primarily in oils, exploring the quiet moments and enduring light of coastal New England.

Paula has been a visual arts educator for over 2 decades. She is a member of The Artists Collective of Westport, and her work is exhibited in galleries throughout New England.

A reception is set for this Thursday (October 8, 6 to 7:30 p.m.

Paula’s work will be on display all month, and available for purchase.

Paula Morgan, with her work.

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Lots of stuff floated downstream, in 2 recent weather events.

Susie Kowalsky spotted this near Grace Salmon Park: a very handsome, largely undamaged chair.

(Photo/Susie Kowalsky)

She wonders if it belongs to Casa Me.

She left it under a tree at the park.

No report on whether it’s still there.

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Today’s “Westport … Naturally” featured photo is not from the jungle.

Jamie Walsh and his wife Grayson Braun spotted this bobcat 10 feet from the Riverside Avenue sidewalk, in brush next to Birchwood Country Club.

They watched for a few minutes, before it retreated slowly into the woods.

Be careful out there!

(Photo/Jamie Walsh)

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And finally … in honor of both the new dock at Arezzo, and the chair that made its way downstream to Grace Salmon Park (stories above):

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Kevin Nealon Stands Up For Homes With Hope

When Kevin Nealon takes the stage Friday for “Stand Up for Homes with Hope” — the non-profit’s annual fundraiser — the Los Angeles-based comedian will be returning, well, home.

Nealon — the “Saturday Night Live” veteran who also acted in TV series like “Weeds,” and now concentrates on stand-up — grew up in Bridgeport.

He graduated from Trumbull’s St. Joseph High School, and Sacred Heart University. He remembers rowing out to Cockenoe Island in Westport’s wacky Great Race, and performing at the old Treehouse Comedy Club here.

Nealon also quarterbacked Fairfield University’s club football team, while taking night courses.  And he played rugby for the Connecticut Yankees.

He may or may not reference — or make jokes about — those places and times on Friday. The event at Fairfield University’s Quick Center is sold out.

But he’s sure to put on a memorable show.

Kevin Nealon

And it’s absolutely for a great cause. Founded in 1983, Homes With Up provides emergency shelter for men and women, supportive housing for individuals and families, rapid re-housing, diversion services, a community kitchen, food pantry, youth development programs and mentoring.

The other day, Nealon chatted with “06880” about his local roots, his career and his life today.

His father spent nearly 4 decades as a Sikorsky engineer. He drew up plans for the family’s home, then built it with 2 off-duty firefighters.

Nealon worked at Dunkin’ Donuts, and Herman’s Sporting Goods in the Trumbull Mall. He was a lifeguard at Seaside Park.

He does not get back to this area much. (He did receive an honorary degree 4 years ago from Sacred Heart. “I make other people call me doctor,” he says.)

So Friday night will be special. It will also be less stressful than a corporate gig he did for Microsoft. Bill Gates was there — and several executives had to vet Nealon’s material beforehand.

The world of comedy has changed since Nealon anchored SNL’s “Weekend Update” with Dana Carvey. Social media has opened up opportunities for anyone — “doctors, lawyers” — to be comedians, and have their acts seen by millions.

But, he notes, “funny is still funny.”

Kevin Nealon will be very funny on Friday. It will be a fun evening at the Quick Center.

And — quite seriously — all the money raised will help relieve homelessness and food insecurity.

That’s nothing to laugh at.

[OPINION] Jonathan Steinberg For Westport’s Water Czar

Marc Lemcke is a Westport resident, and a close observer of Aquarion. He writes:

On Tuesday (October 6), the Representative Town Meeting will vote on Jonathan Steinberg’s appointment as Westport’s representative to the new Aquarion  Water Authority.

It should vote yes — but that should be the beginning, not the end, of the decision.

The first selectman should give Steinberg a broader mandate: become Westport’s water czar and build, for the first time, a comprehensive strategy for
drinking water, fire protection, flooding, land use, water quality, conservation — and the costs residents will increasingly be asked to bear.

Jonathan Steinberg

The recent flood was not the first selectman’s fault. But it exposed what his administration has failed to address: Westport still manages water as a collection of disconnected problems.

Flooding goes to one board, sewers to another, land use rules somewhere else, while drinking water and fire protection are left to Aquarion.

For too long, Westport has treated water as someone else’s problem: Aquarion’s, the state’s, or the next storm’s.

But the water flooding our streets and the water in our pipes are part of one system, and the town’s own choices affect both.

Flooding last month at Pumpkin Hill and Colony Roads. (Photo/Kimberly Paris)

Development standards that increase impervious surfaces, zoning decisions that fill flood-prone land, and public assets managed without regard to drainage (including the Longshore golf course, which draws heavily on public water at
subsidized rates), all belong in the same conversation.

The consequences are no longer abstract: rapidly increasing costs, Westport’s PFAS remaining above the contamination threshold beyond Connecticut’s 2029 compliance deadline, and an intolerable public safety risk from inadequate
fire flow.

Westport needs a water czar: one official, answerable to residents, responsible for every part of the problem.

No one holds that job today. The first task would be simple and overdue: put
the town’s water records, spending and plans where residents can see them.

That opportunity arrived when the new public Aquarion Water Authority completed its acquisition at a cost to ratepayers — including transaction fees — of $2.6 billion.

Westport went from being a customer of a private monopoly to one of 59 communities represented in the governance of a public authority.

But Aquarion’s equity investors have been replaced by debt investors with even stronger contractual rights, and public ownership is no guarantee of public
benefit.

Westport holds only one seat among 59. Unless Steinberg enters with a clear mandate and builds coalitions before voting blocs harden, the authority could repeat the failures of what it replaced — under a public seal.

Fire protection shows what deferred accountability looks like. In 2008, the Westport Fire Department warned Aquarion about inadequate fire flow, meaning not enough water reaching hydrants to fight a serious fire, in the Rayfield Road and Turkey Hill Road areas.

On September 9, 2008, the company replied. It had replaced pressure regulators but “only realized a minor increase” in fire flow. Meeting the requirements of the town’s recent Insurance Services Office evaluation, it said, would take improvements “more extensive than a retrofit of existing infrastructure.”

In 2014, six years later, the ISO, which rates towns’ fire protection for insurers, tested 15 hydrants across Westport. Fourteen fell short of Aquarion’s own
standard.

As far as the public record shows, no one has retested since. This is what it looks likewhen everyone is responsible, and no one is accountable.

Fire hydrant, Parker Harding Plaza.

PFAS presents the same failure, but its consequences are harder to see. In a regulatory filing, Aquarion disclosed that Westport’s wells exceed the federal limit for PFAS. and that treatment will not be ready by the 2029 state deadline.

Yet residents have no way to tell which source reaches their homes, or what their own exposure might be. Westporters have been left to piece together the risk on their own.

A lawsuit now in Waterbury Superior Court goes further. The amended complaint in Vincent v. Aquarion Water Company alleges that the company knew about the contamination and pushed treatment spending into”later capital-plan periods.”

These are allegations, not findings. No court has ruled on them.

But one thing is not in dispute. By Aquarion’s own account, Westport’s water will not be in compliance when the state deadline arrives.

The formal Aquarion position for Jonathan Steinberg comes with only an honorarium. The expanded role proposed here does not.

Building coalitions across 59 communities, overseeing a comprehensive town plan, and challenging a powerful utility will require serious time, expertise,
and access to technical assistance.

Jonathan Steinberg has spent many years dealing with this state regulatory agency.

Westport should compensate its water czar accordingly and provide a modest operating budget. Becoming a model town for 21st-century water management
may be the smartest investment Westport can make.

Mr. Steinberg is unusually qualified. During 16 years in Hartford — and as House chair of the Energy and Technology Committee — he has dealt directly with utilities, regulators, and the lawyers surrounding them.

He understands that Aquarion has often behaved like a law firm with a water business attached, and he is not naïve about the resistance meaningful reform will encounter.

He also knows how to build coalitions, which will be essential if Westport is to turn 1 seat among 59 into real influence.

Inside the authority, Steinberg should organize communities with shared interests. He should demand a strategic review of Aquarion’s service territories, built under an entirely different assumptions, and capital priorities — asking whether ratepayers can afford golden tanks and silver pipes while basic risks remain unresolved — and press for a credible PFAS compliance schedule, reliable fire flow, and affordable rates.

Aquarion has a large presence in Westport — including the North Avenue storage facility. (Photo/Richard Fogel)

He must also prepare Westport for Aquarion’s steadily declining payment in lieu of taxes before it becomes another surprise.

In Westport, his mandate must connect that work with everything the town has kept separate: drinking water, fire flow, PFAS, flooding, stormwater, land use regulation, conservation, and public assets.

Longshore alone warrants a review: its irrigation demands, rain capture, drainage footprint and flood exposure make it a test case for what 21st-century management of a public waterfront asset should look like.

He should convene responsible officials and civic groups, establish shared priorities, and produce Westport’s first comprehensive water plan — one that
assigns responsibility, sets deadlines, and measures results.

That requires transparency the town has long withheld. Steinberg should press the authority to end unnecessary redactions, and disclose rate and capital decisions before they become irreversible.

In Westport, he should establish a public water dashboard — tracking PFAS
progress, fire-flow testing, infrastructure investment, flood initiatives, and Aquarion’s declining tax contribution — and hold an annual public reckoning.

After years of hidden filings and decisions made beyond public view, residents should not have to investigate their own government to learn whether they are safe.

On October 6, the RTM should confirm Jonathan Steinberg. The first selectman must then give him the mandate, authority and resources to do the job properly.

Steinberg, in turn, should accept the challenge and tell residents what he will demand from Aquarion and from the town itself.

It is late to act. Hopefully, not too late.

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Breezy at Compo Beach this morning (Photo/Molly Alger)