An alert “06880” reader — and disappointed middle school parent — writes:
I am grateful every day to raise my children in our wonderful town. They go to public schools staffed by caring, enthusiastic teachers.
Yet something happened this past Saturday at Bedford Middle School that made me ask myself, “What can we do to make our town even better?” I’m asking “06880” readers that question too.
During the 7 p.m. performance of “Alice in Wonderland,” several 6th grade students in the audience heckled the actors. They gave them the L “loser” sign, the middle finger, and booed.
Several actors were in tears. One would not get back on stage. Another missed his lines.
I hope the heckling students get more than a central detention. I would like to see them get a lesson in kindness, and make amends.
As with other school performances in town, the students and teachers of BMS spent months working on and rehearsing “Alice in Wonderland.” Teachers Karen McCormick and Lynne Karmen, assistant stage director Ryan Smith and parent volunteers spent days, nights and weekends coordinating the many aspects of the show: teaching students the fine points of acting, creating and setting the stage.
In addition, 8th grade actors and stage crew dedicated up to 60 hours of their time, helping younger students learn about lighting and sound, memorize lines and gather the courage to get on stage.
They deserved applause and support, not heckling.
I hope there will be a truly sincere apology directed to the actors and teachers. Each heckler could write a letter to an actor, and read it on stage as actors and teachers sit in the seats.
Or perhaps those apology letters could be printed out and posted on the auditorium doors.
Hecklers could also pick up trash for a few days in the school cafeteria after lunch, or after the next school performance.
No one is looking for harsh punishment for those hecklers. Kids make mistakes. We all make mistakes.
We as a community need to build up our children when they make mistakes, not break them down. We as a community need to help each other find solutions that help our youth adopt kinder behavior, make proper amends and learn from their mistakes.
To BMS actors: You had the courage to be on stage. You did a great job at the show. Don’t let detractors get you down. We hope to see you at the next performances!
To BMS teachers, parent volunteers and 7th and 8th grade volunteers: Thank you for giving our 6th graders a chance to grow and shine, each in their own way. Thank you for your dedication!
To Westport: What can we do better to teach our kids and our friends to be kinder to one another?