Monthly Archives: June 2010

All That Westport Jazz

How do young Westport musicians get to Lincoln Center?

They take the train.

Oh, and practice, practice, practice.

Four local youngsters may not know that twist on the old joke.  But they’ll be smiling anyway — through nerves, of course — this Sunday (June 20).

Alex and Jessica Liu.

They’ll perform in the Allen Room at Jazz at Lincoln Center.  The concert is a collaboration between JALC and Westport-based Connecticut School of Music — now celebrating its 10th anniversary.

Jessica Liu — age 15 — is a flutist; her 12-year-old brother Alex plays violin.  Both will play at Lincoln Center.

Another pair of siblings will also perform:  Jarred Poliner (trombone) and Jake Poliner (clarinet).

So maybe the answer to “How do you get to Lincoln Center” should be:  Take the train.  Practice, practice, practice.  Go to the Connecticut School of Music.  And come from a family with great musical genes.

(The June 20 concert begins at 4 p.m.  Tickets — $100, $75 and $50 — are on sale at the Connecticut School of Music, 1242 Post Rd. E., Westport.  For more information call 203-226-0805, or email info@ctschoolofmusic.com.)

Helping Billy Palladino

Billy Palladino — a 1968 Staples graduate — has had a very tough year.

Last fall he was diagnosed with throat cancer.  Surgery robbed him of his voice.  He’s undergoing chemo and radiation treatment at Danbury Hospital.

In February, while he was hospitalized, his wife — 1983 Staples grad Janice Ann McClenathan — died in her home of a massive heart attack.  She was 45.

She had meticulously prepared meals that were injected through Billy’s feeding tube, and monitored his medications.

Just as important:  Her full-time job at a small manufacturing company provided health insurance that covered most of Billy’s medical bills.

The Palladinos have no income — and 2 daughters in college.

Billy Palladino

“They were just your everyday hardworking couple, trying to put two kids through college,” Kathleen Bullard — a friend for 15 years — told the Danbury News-Times.

“They would never say they were having trouble, and before he got sick Billy had worked two jobs as long as I’ve known him.”

During the day he was a bus driver for Greens Farms Academy. He worked nights at a Sunoco gas station in Danbury.

“He’s always been a real sweetheart of a guy,” added Martin O’Grady, his friend since they were teenagers and a softball teammate on state tournament teams in the 1970s.

“I’ve never known him to be mean to anybody.”

Billy recently returned to Danbury Hospital, with pneumonia.  On the upside, he is nearly ready to start swallowing small amounts of soft food.

Billy has always been known as a “giver.”  So was Janice.  Several years ago she cut her hair for Locks of Love, a program that collects hair and makes wigs for children who have lost their own because of medical problems.

Now his friends and neighbors are giving back.

John Voket — associate editor of the Newtown Beeorganized 2 volunteer weekends.  Dozens of folks painted his house and cleaned up the yard, improving the home’s curb appeal to put it on the market.

Among the helpers:  Tom Hedges, Shelby Pike, Kathy Kopp Sabo, Alex Shook and Lorrie Besser Ward, all Staples grads.

Shelby says:  “Please help however you can.  We can all make a difference.”

(A trust fund has been set up for Billy and his family at Newtown Savings Bank.  Donations may be sent to:  “Billy Palladino Trust,” 30 Main St., Danbury, CT 06810.  For information, call 203-205-0080. Get-well cards can be sent to:  Bill Palladino, 7 Overlook Knoll, Sandy Hook, CT 06482.)

Room To Write

Westport is crawling with writers.

Some write at home.   Others use the library or Starbucks.

Soon, they’ll have an actual writers’ room.  Or, to be grammatically correct:  The Writers’ Room.

Tish Fried and Patrick McCord relax in the Writers' Room.

That’s the name of the brainchild of Tish Fried and Patrick McCord.  Writers themselves — and editors and teachers — they’ve been giving under-the-radar workshops for adults and kids (most recently in Black Rock).

But they always coveted Westport.  Finally they’ve found a spot:  a cozy red clapboard building in Colonial Green.

With wooden beams, walls freshly painted in soothing yellow and green, and plenty of light, it’s the perfect spot for writing.

Add wooden tables, comfy lounge chairs, an espresso machine, wi-fi and trade magazines, and writers may never want to leave.

An added attraction:  Cell phones are prohibited.

A pre-launch party is set for this Friday (June 18, 7 p.m.).  Writers will be welcome gratis for a couple of months; beginning in September, Tish and Patrick will charge a small fee.  (Hey, they’re writers, not billionaires.)

Tish and Patrick envision The Writers’ Room as a place for book signings, poetry readings, story-telling, meetings with agents and editors, parties and other special events.

They’ll offer small-group workshops upstairs — everything from screenwriting and poetry to college essays.

It’s a welcome addition to Westport.  And — if writers ever get tired of writing — the Colonial Green location is perfect.

They can walk to the library or Starbucks.

(For more information, click on www.writeyourselffreenow.com; email tish@theeditingcompany.com, or call 203-557-4614.)

Yankee Doodle Comes To Town

Back in the day, the Westport Woman’s Club’s Yankee Doodle Fair raised money to build sidewalks on Main Street, install toilets at Compo Beach, and bring hot meals and health care to our schools.

That day was 100 years ago.

Today we’ve got sidewalks (some in retro red brick).  There are toilets at Compo (both permanent and portable).  And our schools serve plenty of hot meals (though at least Two Angry Moms think they’re not exactly healthful).

But the Yankee Doodle Fair still raises money for local causes.  Last year, the Woman’s Club donated $200,000 to community groups.

That would pay for a lot of Port-a-Potties.

Yankee Doodle Fair-goers try their hand at an arcade game. (Photo by Laura Buckman)

This year’s Fair opens tomorrow (Thursday, June 17, 5-11 p.m.).  It continues through Sunday at the Woman’s Club on Imperial Avenue.

There’ll be a Ferris wheel, flying Dumbo, kiddie cars, basketball toss, bumper cars, tower drop, giant slide, scrambler, and the “brand new and breath-taking Zero Gravity.”

For the less adventurous, there’s face painting, sand art, and plant and bake sales.

The Westport Woman’s Club downplays their civic contributions.  Few Yankee Doodle Fair-goers — little kids enjoying the rides; middle schoolers primping and preening; adults reliving a relic of their youth — even realize they help the organizers support dozens of worthy charities.

That’s fine.  The last thing you want to think about — hanging upside down on the banks of the Saugatuck River, your change falling out of your pockets — is where your money is going.

Well, let me rephrase that…

Happy Birthday, Minuteman Statue!

Every Westporter worth his salt knows the Minuteman statue.

It’s how we give directions to the beach.  We put ski caps on its head, and flowers in its musket.

It commemorates Westport’s most historic only wartime exploits: 2 Revolutionary War battles.

It’s as much a part of this place as stone walls and Long Island Sound.

So it may surprise you to learn that the Minuteman statue is just 100 years young.

Tomorrow (Thursday, June 17) at 4 p.m. the Westport Historical Society is sponsoring a centennial celebration of H. Daniel Webster’s statue.  It takes place at Compo Beach.

Which makes today a perfect time to look back, and learn exactly what the Minuteman commemorates.

As Woody Klein recounts in his book Westport, Connecticut:  The Story of a New England Town’s Rise to Prominence, on April 25, 1777 a fleet of British warships anchored off Compo Beach.  The Redcoats were headed to Danbury, a colonial supply center.

The landing of 1,850 men was virtually uncontested.  A group of 18 men gathered behind a stone wall near the corner of Compo and Post Roads.  They killed a British major and wounded 3 others.

But the British pressed north.  In Danbury they demolished an ammunition depot; burned 19 houses, 22 stores and barns; and destroyed food, clothing, medical equipment, tents, candles and a printing press.

On the way back, the colonists offered more resistance.  In Ridgefield General Benedict Arnold — before he became a bad guy — rallied the local militia, and had his horse shot out from under him.

The next day, a Tory named Deliverance Bennett warned the British about an ambush planned here, on Old Hill.  They doubled back, crossing the Saugatuck River at Ford Road.

Benedict Arnold rushed to intercept the redcoats near the Kings Highway Bridge.  He led a charge — but none of his 200 militiamen followed.

“Arnold then rushed to the foot of Compo Hill where a full-scale battle was fought,” Klein wrote, “forcing the British to fight their way back to their ships in the harbor.”  The colonial troops, led by Colonel John Lamb, forced the British into a shoulder-to-shoulder charge, with fixed bayonets.  The maneuver demoralized the colonial forces, and the British made it to their ships.

The British lost 300 men, while more than 100 Connecticut militiamen were killed.  According to Klein, the British later claimed the resistance they met was more severe than what they faced at Lexington and Concord.

Two years later — on July 6, 1779 — the British returned to the area, with up to 3,000 men.  At Green’s Farms they torched 15 homes, 11 barns, several stores and the second Green’s Farms meetinghouse.  (Deacon Ebenezer Jesup and his wife Abigail did manage to save the Green’s Farms Congregational Church’s silver Communion set, by lowering it down a well.)

Which brings us back to the Minuteman statue.  Symbolizing the Connecticut Militia under the leadership of Colonel Lamb, it was sculpted by Webster from a composite of militia descendants.  Former first selectman Lewis P. Wakeman reportedly also sat as a model.

The dedication took place in 1910 — 9 years after two cannons were placed at Compo Beach, on the exact spot where the British landed.

So why does the Minuteman face away from the beach?

He’s looking north, toward Compo Hill — where the final, most successful battle took place.

The Minuteman statue in 1912 -- 2 years after its dedication.

The Brook Bites The Dust

Once upon a time, Westport had both a gay bar and a strip club.

Right next to each other.

The gay bar was The Brook.  It sat on the Post Road near the Exit 18 connector — directly across from the state police barracks.

The strip club — Krazy Vin’s — was next door, directly across Cedar Road.

Today the state police barracks is Walgreens.  Krazy Vin’s is Starbucks.

The Brook — now called the Cedar Brook — is still there.  The gay bar outlasted them all.

But it won’t last much longer.  A closing party is set for June 26.

The building has been sold.  The new rent is out of bar owner Clem Bellairs’ reach.

I’m sure whoever owns it will tear it down.  It’s a ramshackle old building — scary, almost — and whatever is erected there will be much more profitable than a gay bar.  (I don’t pray often, but please God, don’t let it be a bank.)

Before it goes, let’s pay our respects to a bit of Westport lore — and, believe it or not, a nationally historic place.

At 71 years old, the Cedar Brook has been called the oldest continually operating gay bar in the United States.  (The former record holder, it’s said, was in New Orleans — and demolished by Katrina.)

For 7 decades, every gay boy growing up in Westport has told the same story.  Knowing there was a gay bar right down the street created both tremendous excitement (there are people like me!) and abject fear (what if someone sees me looking at it?). Wondering who — and what — lurked behind those ramshackle walls consumed gay teenagers.  (Straight kids wondered too.)

One summer in the 1970s, a college friend visited.  To show off my town, I decided to take her to every bar from the Norwalk line to Fairfield.

(Note to young readers:  Yes, Westport had many bars.  Still, don’t try this today.  The world was a different place then.)

By the time we made it to the Brook, it was 1 a.m.  The place was packed.  The music was loud; the dance floor looked amazing.  This was my chance to finally get inside!

A bouncer blocked the way.

“I’m sorry,” he said.  “You’re fine” — he pointed at me — “but the lady can’t enter.”

What?

“The lady cannot come in,” he replied.  “This is a gay bar.”

So we went next door, to Krazy Vin’s.

The view from Starbucks.

Like an aging drag queen, the Cedar Brook is now past its prime.  Crowds are down; even the traditionally huge Wednesday-before-Thanksgiving party — when newly out college guys discovered with glee who else had recently come out — lost its luster in recent years.

The crowd became mixed — lesbians “integrated” the Cedar Brook in the ’80s, and a few straight people (drawn by the powerful sound system and large dance floor) followed.

But it was hard to sustain a gay club in suburban Fairfield County in the 2000s.

Times change.  Westport no longer has a police barracks — or a strip club.

Soon it will no longer have a gay bar, either.

The disco ball will spin for the last time.

The bartenders will put on their shirts.

And some other place, somewhere, will say with pride:  “We’re the oldest continually operating gay bar in America.”

I Scream, You Scream…

Who’d ever think the birth of McMansions would lead to the death of the ding-a-ling ice cream truck?

Phil Topalian would.

In 2002, just before his senior year at Fairfield Prep, the Westport native needed a summer job.  Searching the papers, he spotted a tiny ad.  Blue Sky Bar was looking for ice cream truck drivers.

Phil called.  He was intrigued, and gave it a shot.

Did Blue Sky have any qualms renting a truck to a 17-year-old?

“I guess not,” he says.

After all, the teenager committed to the standard deal.  He paid a rental fee — about $500 a week in the peak July-August season.  He bought all the ice cream — another $500 or so a week.  And he paid for all his gas.

“I had to clear more than $1,000 a week to make a profit,” he recalls.

He did.

For the 1st couple of years Phil — and his younger brother Tom, who helped out even before he had his drivers license — learned the business.

By the 3rd year the Blue Sky owner was in debt.  He was selling his trucks cheaply.  Phil — who had saved most of his money — jumped at the chance.  He bought a truck for $15,000.

Phil & Tom Ice Cream was born.

Tom (left) and Phil Topalian, and their much-loved truck.

They realized that taking their truck to special events was a lot more profitable than driving randomly around town looking for customers.  They began “ice cream catering” — for parties, cookouts and corporate functions.

They took out ads, and posted flyers around town.   They now have a customer list of 1,000.

“Driving around is archaic,” Phil says.  “These days Westport doesn’t have small, intimate neighborhoods with houses close to the street and kids playing outside.

“Now, with triple pane glass, you can’t hear the ice cream truck.  There are no set schedules for people to be home.  And people just aren’t outside.”

Far better to spend every  Thursday at 3 p.m. at Tauck World Discovery — something Phil and Tom have done for 6 years — and be hired for events like last week’s Coleytown Elementary 5th-grade social.

There is 1 place Phil and Tom can’t go, however:  the beach.  Joey’s by the Shore has that concession contract.

“If I can see the beach from my truck, I’m too close,” Phil says.  “Even the side streets, that’s pushing my luck.”

But Phil likes Joey, and the 2 have a good relationship.  Phil sells Joey his overstock at the end of each season, and Joey refers inquiries about private parties to Phil.

“He pays a lot of money for his exclusive right to vend there,” Phil says.  “I understand.”

One site Phil has moved into is the Levitt Pavilion.  At the invitation of director Freda Welsh, he and Tom brought freezers, coolers and refrigerators.  They painted the once-dilapidated concession shack, and made it inviting.

Wednesdays — kids’ nights — are particularly popular.  “What a blast,” Phil says.  “We’re mobbed to the point I can’t move.”

The most popular flavors for kids, he notes, are Fruity Shots, SpongeBob SquarePants, and a giant Cookies and Cream cup.

Adult tastes are more prosaic:  toasted almond and chocolate eclair.

His ice cream truck put Phil through John Jay College — both undergrad and masters.  He’s looking for a job in law enforcement.

Tom is a nursing student at Sacred Heart.  This summer he’s doing a hospital rotation in South Carolina.  For the 1st time since he and Tom rented that Blue Sky Bar truck, he won’t be selling ice cream.

But Phil is.  And ice cream lovers all over Westport — well, everywhere except the beach — think that’s very, very cool.

We Want Weicker!

According to 1st selectman Gordon Joseloff, recent budget cuts mean our town will have to do less with more.

Damn!  Removing this 1990 Weicker for Governor sign from the base of the flagpole in front of Bank of America had just risen to the top of the Public Works Department’s to-do list.

Now we’ll have to wait another 20 years.

(Photo by Edward Bloch)

Saugatuck Church’s Field Of Flags

In ordinary times, the Saugatuck Congregational Church’s front lawn is impressive.  Broad and lush, it sweeps handsomely from the historic white building to the well-traveled Post Road-Myrtle Avenue intersection.

It announces to all:  Welcome to our New England town.

Next Friday (June 18), it will look more spectacular than ever.

All day long, church members, veterans and community groups will lovingly place nearly 6,000 American flags on the lawn.  They’ll remain there until July 5 — right through Independence Day — serving as a silent, patriotic and poignant reminder of the cost of war.

Each flag, the church says, represents “not simply one casualty, but all the family members and friends who have been touched by that life now gone.”

The flags show “our respect for those who have served and are currently serving in the military, and our hope for peace in the future, for a time when no one is called upon by our country to give the greatest sacrifice.”

At 5 p.m. Friday, members of the Westport/Weston Interfaith Council will lead a dedication and service in the sancturary.   There will be a flag-folding demonstration, and worn and tattered American flags will be collected for proper disposition.

Attendees can also write and send letters to military service members.

The next three Sunday Farmers Markets — June 20 and 27, and July 4 — in the church parking lot are also dedicated to Connecticut vets.  Soccer balls will be collected to be sent to children in Iraq; funds will be raised for transitional housing facilities for more than 400 homeless female veterans, and letters and items will be collected to be sent to local service personnel serving overseas.

The Field of Flags committee extends a special invitation to Blue Star, Silver Star and Gold Star families — and all veterans of military service — to place a flag, and attend the dedication and interfaith service.

It’s a grand 6,000 flags!

Making Wickit Music

When Drew Angus and his roommate asked to use the recording facilities at Hartwick College last year, they were rebuffed.

Drew Angus and his board.

So the pair took a different approach.  Drew — who had taken audio production courses at Staples, recorded his band the Euphons in the Staples studio, then at Hartwick created his own music industry major — used a January term course with a business professor to learn how to create his own record label.

Drew discovered that John Doelp — a senior vice president at Columbia Records — is a Hartwick grad.  Drew met him in his impressive New York office, dominated by the biggest speakers Drew has ever seen, and a plaque-filled wall.

John told Drew that the record label industry is dying, and challenged him to help find a way to make it viable again.  John’s advice:  Find a band Drew thought would be successful, and get them to tour.

Back at Hartwick last spring, Drew took an online Berklee College of Music entrepreneurship course.  He honed a business plan.

Last fall he hosted a battle of the bands.  Then he and a team picked 4 groups with potential.  With a $17,000 grant from Hartwick’s Student Senate, he and roommate M.W. Degan put them in a state-of-the-art recording studio — in a section of the music department that had turned him down less than a year earlier.

The result — after Drew spent many hours mixing — is a 4-track compilation on WICKit Music Group, Hartwick’s “student run record label.”  It’s available now online.  Donations are requested, with funds earmarked to press and promote the compilation as a physical CD in the fall.

This summer — before senior year — Drew is working at A&M Octone Records in New York.  His goal:  “to really learn how to run a record label.”

What about John Doelp’s warning, that the record label industry is going down the tubes?

“In some senses, yes,” Drew says.

“But they just need to be run better than the head honchos of the Big 4 are running them now.

“John told me to get a band to go out and play.  But I’m trying to build something with my educational experience too.”