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Block “S”: Staples Award Shift Stirs Controversy

In a world grappling with conflicts in Ukraine and the Mideast, a nation divided over nearly everything, and a town facing crucial decisions on capital expenditures and Saugatuck redevelopment, Staples High School’s Block “S” is not the biggest concern.

Except — when it stands for something bigger, like respect for tradition — it is.

For 70 years, the Block “S” has been the highest award a Staples athlete can earn. Made of metal, mounted on a wooden base, it is handsome, strong, classy.

Lili Tucker’s Block “S” shows a few dings and scars — similar to what an athlete goes through during a sports season.

Each varsity sport gets 2 Block “S”s. The coaching staff awards them at the end of the season. Most teams give one to the Most Valuable Athlete. The other is for Most Improved, Outstanding Service, or some other admirable quality.

Character, integrity, commitment, passion — they all count for a Block “S.”

Athletes cherish their award. Long after they’ve gotten rid of other mementoes — trophies, medals, certificates — they hold on to their Block “S.”

That’s not just me talking. Stories about the Block “S” filled social media the past few days.

The reason: This year, Staples did away with the Block “S.”

Well, not really. Coaches still give them out. But instead of the handsome, strong, classy award, they hand athletes a generic, flimsy, $12.95 plaque that simply says “Block ‘S.”

Without even space for the honoree’s name.

I received an honorary Block “S” when I stepped down as head coach of the boys soccer program. It is one of the most cherished awards I have ever received.

To use a sports analogy: This was an unforced error.

The change was made this fall by Staples athletic director VJ Sarullo — about to embark in his second year in the role — for budgetary reasons.

That’s reasonable. Two Block “S”s, times 40 varsity teams, adds up.

But … the change was made without consultation with coaches, athletes, or anyone else.

It was done without exploring other options, like asking booster clubs, supportive businesses, or anyone else to contribute.

Or finding a supplier who charged less.

All of this would have been limited to complaints, disappointment and hand-wringing on social media. (To read some of the 100+ comments on Facebook’s Westport Front Porch page — including passionate responses from previous awardees, and those who never won it but wish they did — click here.)

Yet at last night’s Board of Education meeting, the topic exploded into public view.

After announcing the appointment of Dr. Anna Mahon to replace retiring assistant superintent for teaching and learning Dr. Anthony Buono, and then accepting gifts to pay for non-budgeted coaches for spring sports, the board was ready to move on to the next agenda item.

However, member Robert Harrington spoke up. Acknowledging the social media firestorm, he asked the board to discuss the topic.

No one seconded his motion.

Member Kevin Christie said that while he loved tradition and athletics, he trusts the suprintendent and staff ot make decisions. “I’m concerned about micro-managing,” he said.

Harrington and chair Lee Goldstein then engaged in an acrimonious back-and-forth.

“This is an embarrassment to 70 years of tradition,” Harrington said.

“We’re in the middle of a $150 million budget,” Goldstein replied, before moving on.

In 2019, Greens Farms Elementary School teacher Stacy Fowle was named Westport’s Teacher of the Year. Proud of her Westport roots, she sent this photo to “06880.” It shows her posing as a Staples soccer player with her Block S.”

Harrington soon took to Westport Front Porch. He wrote:

“I gave the superintendent and full board advance notice that I was going to simply ask for the goard to vote to discuss this at the BOE tonight. I didn’t even get to propose a solution or a recommendation. I simply wanted to have a discussion in front of attendees and members of our community.

“Jill (Dillon) and Dorie (Hordon) were out sick/traveling. The 4 remaining members wouldn’t even second the motion to simply discuss this issue in public.

“They argued it wasn’t in our purview. They didn’t want to micromanage the administration. The chair said she had to think of the whole community, not just the recipients of a ‘trophy.’ The Block ‘S’ award is more than just a trophy for the 70 years of students who received it.

“Three of my kids did. I am embarrassed as a dad and a Board of Ed member that current and future students won’t enjoy the same honor in the way that past student athletes did.

“We can and should do better than ask our community for a better answer. To not even have a simple discussion of this in public at a Board of Education meeting is an embarrassment.”

Athletic director Sarullo has promised to investigate other options.

The ball is now in his court.

(Two years ago, ESPN anchor Dave Lloyd — a 1979 Staples graduate — gave a shoutout to the Wrecker wrestling team. The crowning moment comes at the end, when he proudly shows his Block “S,” from over 45 years ago. Watch the video below.)

Coaches’ Saga: BOE, Administrators Should Re-examine, Re-set Policies And Procedures

The large crowd gathered Friday in the Town Hall auditorium had plenty of questions.

Would they be able to speak in support of Kris Hrisovulos, the multi-state champion-winning Staples High School boys tennis coach, as he appealed the non-renewal of his contract by Westport administrators?

What would the Board of Education — the group hearing Hrisovulos’ appeal — think about the reasons given for non-renewal?

Would some of the underlying elements of the case — a complaint by a parent not made through the usual chain of command, for example — be discussed openly?

Staples tennis players were among the large crowd at Friday’s Town Hall hearing. 

None of those questions were answered.

After more than 2 hours of debate, the board reached a consensus. The appeal hearing ended, because Hrisovulos had not been given timely, proper and legal notice that his contract was not being renewed.

What the hearing did reveal, however — through questions that were raised, and others that were not, yet loomed unasked over the proceedings — was a number of flaws in Athletic Department policies and procedures.

They include:

  • Evaluation of coaches by superiors.
  • Expectations of, and training provided to, coaches.
  • Support given to coaches by administrators.
  • Expectations of parents regarding the role of interscholastic athletics, and the coaches of those sports.
  • Handling of complaints made by parents, particularly those that go outside the defined chain of command (coach first, then athletic director, principal, and finally superintendent).
  • Process for timely, thorough investigations, including input from student-athletes.
  • Communication with, and respect shown to, student-athletes and their parents.
  • Transparent discussions of conflicts of interest.

One positive consequence of Hrisovulos’ long and expensive battle to retain his job as tennis coach is this: Superintendent of schools Thomas Scarice, Staples principal Stafford Thomas and athletic director VJ Sarullo have an opportunity now to refocus their relationships with coaches, athletes and parents.

They can re-examine policies regarding the hiring, supervision and evaluation of coaches. They can re-set expectations of when, where and how parents can make complaints known — and how to react once a complaint is made.

They can acknowledge the excellent work being done by so many coaches, in so many ways, for such low pay. They can celebrate coaches’ accomplishments, on and off the field and court — and help them improve in areas where it’s needed.

That’s what a team does.

And that’s how they win: together.

 

Staples Football Coach Behrends Resigns; College Job Next

Adam Behrends — the inspirational head coach who took a moribund Staples High School football program to a state championship in just 5 years — is leaving Westport.

Behrends told his players earlier this afternoon that he has accepted a college assistant coaching position.

In 6 years, the Iowa native — who came to North Avenue following 9 years at IMG in Florida, where he helped launch the football program — compiled a 40-16 record. In 2023, the Wreckers captured the “LL” (extra large schools) state championship.

Adam Behrends

Athletic director VJ Sarullo says, “Even more impressive than the on-field results were the lessons and values that Coach Behrends taught to all that participated in the football program. These will stay with our student-athletes long after their time here has concluded.”

Sarullo adds, “As good a football coach as he is, he’s an even better person. I’ll miss him, but I know this is a great opportunity for him.”

A search committee will be formed, to find Behrends’ successor.

Head coach Adam Behrends (far left), with players and coaches after the 2023 state championship win.

Tennis Coach’s Hearing Ends; Non-Renewal Process Deemed Improper

“Policies and procedures must be followed.”

With that simple statement, the Board of Education declined this morning to hear an appeal of the non-renewal of Kris Hrisovulos’ contract as Staples High School’s boys tennis coach.

The Board’s decision — taken not as a vote, but as consensus by all 6 members — capped a 90-minute discussion. At its core: whether Hrisovulos — the multi-state championship-winning coach, and candidate for 2019 National Coach of the Year — had been given proper notice by Superintendent of Schools Thomas Scarice, about athletic director VJ Sarullo’s recommendation to not rehire him.

The decision is believed to be based on a complaint made by the parent of a Staples tennis player last year.

Chair Lee Goldstein was not present. She recused herself from the meeting.

Board of Education members (from left): Robert Harrington, Dorie Hordon, Stephen Sedor (legal consultant), Neil Phillips, Jill Dillon, Abby Tolan, Kevin Christie.

A crowd of several dozen — including parents of current and former tennis players, and 5 members of the current team — were on hand when the special BOE session began at 9 a.m.

Based on the advice of their legal advisor, attorney Stephen Sedor, the board immediately headed to the 3rd floor for an exective session. There, they told the audience, they would discuss how to deal with student confidentiality issues.

The auditorium audience milled around for half an hour, uncertain of when the BOE would return.

Town Hall audience waits for Board of Education to return from executive session.

When they did, they considered a request by Hrisovulos’ attorney, Edward Lerner, that the coach was simply “recommended for non-renewal” by Sarullo. The actual non-renewal, according to board policy, must come from Scarice, within 90 days of the end of the season.

For well over an hour, board members and attorneys debated whether that happened. They read and re-read emails between Hrisovulos and Scarice, noting that the coach was discussing Sarullo’s “recommendation,” not any non-renewal per se. They discussed words, intentions and dates.

“If I am not being rehired by my bank, I expect a formal letter, with reasons I am being terminated,” noted BOE member Robert Harrington.

Administrators “can do better,” added fellow member Jill Dillon.

The adjournment of the meeting — before discussing any details of Hrisovulos’ case — does not necessarily mean the end of the saga.

Scarice still has the option to terminate Hrisovulos — who, like all coaches, is on a one-year contract.

However, the bar for termination is high. There are only 4 reasons: immoral conduct, failure to follow BOE rules and procedures, insubordination, and a decision to end the sports program.

A decision by Scarice lies ahead.

For now, Hrisovulos’ non-renewal has not occurred.

When the Board of Education adjourned, the auditorium burst into applause.

Moments later, an emotional Hrisovulos was hugged by 5 current Staples tennis players. Through 2 1/2 hours of debate and legal wrangling, they were there to support their coach.

Staples boys tennis coach Kris Hrisovulos (right) and varsity tennis player Brett Lampert, moments after the Board of Education adjourned. (All photos/Dan Woog)

“06880” Podcast: VJ Sarullo

VJ Sarullo has just completed his first year as Staples High School’s athletic director. He came to Westport last spring, after 10 years at Jonathan Law High in Milford.

VJ has rejuvenated the school’s athletic department. He bolstered its social media presence, developed a leadership program, and is a visible presence at every sport. (Yes, he goes to games, matches, meets and practices for all 36 of them.)

The other day, VJ sat down with me at the Westport Library stage. We talked about the size and scope of Staples athletics; what it takes to keep teams on top (and what else is important besides winning); the role of coaches (and parents); what it’s like to be a high school student-athlete today — and what he’s learned about Staples, and Westport, over the past year.

VJ was a great guest: passionate, fun, with tons of stories. Click below to hear what he has to say:

Staples Student-Athletes Learn To Lead

Being chosen as captain of a Staples High School sports team is a great honor.

Coaches congratulate the young man or woman. Parents beam with pride. Teammates look to their peer with new respect.

And then — just like that — everyone expects the teenager to lead.

For better or worse, sports programs help define a high school’s environment and culture.

Staples athletic director VJ Sarullo wants to make sure that at his school, that’s a positive one.

For that to happen, he says, leaders must know how to lead.

VJ Sarullo

So, starting this year, Sarullo is bringing together dozens of captains and future leaders. He’ll give them the tools to create a positive culture — one, he says, that can spill over into the entire community.

Actually, he won’t “give them” those resources. He’ll help them discover them on their own.

Sarullo became athletic director in March. He organized a similar Leadership Council at his previous school, Jonathan Law High.

But there were only a couple of dozen varsity sports at the Milford school. Staples fields 39 varsity teams. That’s a lot of students thrust into leadership roles.

This summer, Sarullo asked all 39 varsity coaches for the names of captains. For winter and spring teams that did not yet have them, he asked for potential leaders.

He got 98 names.

The AD asked them all:

  • What are your personal goals, as a Leadership Council member?
  • What areas should we focus on, to improve our Athletic Department?
  • What areas should we focus on, to improve Staples High School overall?
  • What other suggestions do you have?

Answers came quickly. Major themes included:

  • Equal treatment for all teams and genders, in areas like funding and facility usage.
  • A voice for athletes.
  • Increased recognition of student-athletes, in areas like social media.
  • Ensuring that everyone — including freshmen, transfers, and newcomers to a sport — feels welcome and involved.

Two weeks ago, the Leadership Council held its first meeting. It was, Sarullo told attendees, “the only time all year I want to start off by talking to you. From here on, I want you to drive this.”

The first meeting of the Staples High School Leadership Council.

After presenting the survey results, the leaders broke into small groups. Each included a wide range of teams, and both genders.

They brainstormed ideas. Some were broad: a welcoming field day for all athletes. Others were specific: an explanation of the budget process.

All, Sarullo says, will help focus the Leadership Council the rest of the year.

“This is all about being better,” Sarullo says. “This department already has a great culture. But we want to make sure that everyone feels welcome, feels that they’re treated equally, and supports each other. And that affects the entire school.”

The next meeting will feature Dan Switchenko, former baseball coach at Eastern Connecticut State University. He’ll help the teenagers understand the connection between leading by example, and team culture.

The Leadership Council will meet monthly, at 7 p.m. (Chartwells — Staples’ food service — provides food for athletes just coming off a practice or game.)

Student-athletes like Santi Alfageme (#15) are learning to lead, on and off the field. (Photo/Mark Sikorski)

As they learn about leadership, Sarullo is learning from them.

“These kids are honest, and incredible,” he says.

“They all dug in, right from the start. I had to get them to stop their meetings, so they could get out of there by 8:30.”

After all, they still had homework to do. Games to prepare for. Teams to lead.

A captain’s work is never done.

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Roundup: Staples AD, Coffee Mugs, De TAPAS …

Staples High School will soon have a new athletic director.

Vincent J. “VJ” Sarullo succeeds Marty Lisevick on February 1. 

Sarullo has spent the past 17 years as athletic director at Jonathan Law High School in Milford. Before that he was AD at Sheehan High-Wallingford and Notre Dame of Fairfield.

Sarullo currently serves as president of the Connecticut Association of Athletic Directors.

Lisevick retires on January 31, after more than 2 decades in the post. The other finalist for the position, Colin Devine, spent 15 years as Staples’ boys basketball coach.

VJ Sarullo, iin 2014.

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With 3 Starbuckses, 3 Dunkin’ Donuts, and many more places to buy coffee, Westporters use plenty of cups.

We don’t have to.

Sustainable Westport has just launched “Refill Not Landfill.”

The program encourages residents to use reusable cups and mugs at participating coffee shops to reduce waste, combat climate change, and help support small businesses.

Most paper cups used for hot coffee, tea or hot chocolate are coated with plastic to prevent leaks, so they can’t be recycled. Plastic cups used for iced coffee, tea and other drinks, often end up in the trash. It is estimated that only 5% of plastic is ever recycled.

By committing to bring their own reusable mug or cup to participating locations, residents can help reduce waste — and be entered to win monthly prizes.

Beginning this Sunday (January 15), bring a clean, reusable cup or mug to a participating location. (NOTE: They do not wash cups or mugs.)

Order a drink that’s eligible to be filled (some, like smoothies, are not).

At checkout, scan a QR code. Submit your name and email address for each drink you purchased using a reusable cup, to receive credit for your visit.

To be eligible for the monthly raffle, you must participate at least 5 times within a month.

Each month through July 15, Sustainable Westport will draw one winner, for a prize from a local business.

Participating locations include:

To add your business, email emilyabate@gmail.com.

Don’t have a mug?Purchase a Sustainable Westport “Refill Not Landfill” travel mug Thursdays at the Westport Farmers’ Market, or the Earthplace gift shop.

For more information, click here. Questions? Email admin@sustainablewestport.org.

A familiar sight in Westport. But it doesn’t have to be.

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Speaking of restaurants:

DeTAPAS celebrates its 1-year anniversary this weekend with a complimentary glass of Cava.

Carlos Pia’s Spanish gastrobar has become one of Westport’s hottest spots. A native of Barcelona, he’s brought the flavors of his native country here — and the culture and the colors too.

Pia’s Flamenco Nights, Jamon Jamoon Iberico and wine tasting, and other events have added to DeTAPAS’ allure.

Carlos Pia in his vibrantly decorated De Tapas.

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Club 203 — Westport’s social group for adults with disabilities — held its January event at the Westport Weston Family YMCA on Saturday.

A huge turnout of enjoyed basketball, line dancing, stretching and yoga, crafts (hosted by MoCA Westport), a photo booth and snacks. Among the volunteers: Staples High School’s Service League of Boys (SLOBs).

The next event will is at the Westport Playhouse (February 2). It’s a Valentine’s dance — details soon.

Fun at Club 203.

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Stressed-out parents, take note: S4 Study Skills is hosting a free webinar.

In “Why Course Selection is Important to the College Application Process” (January 17, 7 p.m.), college admissions counselor and Westport resident Amy Chatterjee explains what course selection reveals about motivation and focus, and how it impacts college admissions. Click here to register.

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Jazz vespers comes to the United Methodist Church of Westport & Weston.

The service combines liturgical traditions with the soulful sounds of the John Collinge Quartet.

The worship — for all ages and denominations (and a great introduction to jazz for young audiences) is Sunday, January 22 (4 p.m., United Methodist Church sanctuary).

The United Methodist Church on Weston Road.

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There weren’t many people the other day, at Compo Beach.

But the sun is there, regardless. Naturally.

Today’s “Westport … Naturally” image was captured by Bob Mitchell.

(Photo/Bob Mitchell)

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And finally … Jeff Beck died yesterday of bacterial meningitis, in England. He was 78.

Though never as flashy or well-known as Eric Clapton or Jimmy Page, he was a member of the Yardbirds and other very important blues-based groups.

Westport has a couple of ties to the legendary guitarist. When the Yardbirds played at Staples High School in 1966, he was part of the band.

A young photographer in New York heard they would be in Westport. She came here, and photographed Beck and a very young Jimmy Page tuning up backstage, in the choral room.

The photographer’s name? Linda Eastman.

Jimmy Page and Jeff Beck, in the Staples High School choral room. (Photo/Linda Eastman)

And the offices of Connoisseur Media in Westport — owner of some of the most successful radio stations in the area — contain plenty of music memorabilia.

One of the most prized possessions hangs on the wall by CEO Jeff Warshaw’s desk. It’s a guitar, signed by Beck.

On the wall in Jeff Warshaw’s office: a guitar signed by Jeff Beck. (Photo/Dan Woog)

Click here for a full obituary.