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Teens & Tweens: Graduating Senior Says “I Wish I Had …”

Tomorrow, Jolie Gefen graduates from Staples High School.

One of 2 “06880” interns this spring, she helped develop our new “Teens & Tweens” series, giving Westport’s youth a voice on our blog.

Jolie kicks things off today, writing honestly and impactfully about her time in high school. Please share her words with the young people in your life.

According to Google, optimism is “hopefulness and confidence about the future or the successful outcome of something.”

Jolie Gefen

As a moody high schooler undergoing all kinds of stress and drama, the idea of optimism did not come easily to me. As I anticipate graduating on Monday, I reflect on my past 4 years, and now know much more than I did as a freshman.

I wish I had prioritized keeping an open mind and staying positive.

As most of us know very well, Staples fosters an extremely competitive environment. At times, the constant stress and competition I forced myself to undergo and experience over simple assignments was far too overwhelming.

I also often kept a closed mind about taking classes outside of my comfort zone or in subjects I had yet to partake in. I deeply regret that, but I have also learned from it. 

High school is a time to learn what kinds of things interest a person, and I feel I neglected to do so. It’s imperative to take advantage of the many avenues Staples offers us and to ignore anyone suggesting that the classes you take have to align with what you may pursue in college, as it is simply not true.

When it came to the topic of college, my situation also was very close-minded and pessimistic. All my life I have had one dream school. This school was pretty much do or die for me, and I made myself feel that my worth and value as a person and student relied on getting accepted by this college.

I constantly doubted my ability of success, and became frantic over each imperfect grade as it could have hurt my chances of acceptance. 

I implore future seniors about to embark on this long journey to stay optimistic throughout the process, and maintain faith in yourself. You will end up where you need to be, and at the end of the day, a college does not define you. 

One of the biggest regrets I have to this day is how narrow-minded I was regarding friends. Until senior year, I had failed to reach out to new people or be open to becoming friends with some people because of preconceived notions in my head. Right before senior year, however, I joined a big group of amazing girls and found my best friends. 

Jolie Gefen and friends.

Although it’s impossible to know it will work out until you’re on the other side of things, I really wish I had just kept an open mind to everyone around me. The people I am closest to today are people I hadn’t even ever talked to a year ago. Things really do have a way of working out, and I believe I am living proof. 

I know it’s all easier said than done, but I truly hope anyone reading this who may feel the same as I did when it came to classes, college or friends hears me when I say that keeping an open, positive mind is key. When things are tough, try your hardest to find the silver linings and stay optimistic.

When things are great, savor every moment.

I have learned that high school is truly what you make of it. 

(“Teens & Tweens” is an open forum for Westport students. You can write about anything: good or bad, happy or sad, your passions and dreams, your thoughts about your life and community. You can use your name, or be anonymous. You can also submit artwork, videos or other media. If interested, email 06880blog@gmail.com.)

Fine Arts Festival: 4 Portraits

“06880” interns Jolie Gefen and Talia Varsano spent Sunday downtown, at the 51st annual Westport Fine Arts Festival.

They found plenty of interesting art — and artists. Here are 4 of their favorites, and the artists’ stories that give depth to the broad appeal of this popular show.

Jolie and Talia write:

At art festivals, Julia Gilmore is known for her red lipstick, pearls, fancy outfits — and her vibrant oil paintings. 

Ever since she was a child, she has been passionate about painting.

“Everyone on the planet knows exactly what they want to be by the age of 7, but then we forget to listen to that,” she says.  

“It was a long trip to get back to that, but it’s my passion.” 

Gilmore describes her paintings as “hip and contemporary” — something she feels Westport has appreciated. 

Julia Gilmore, with her favorite painting.

She says, “Even though I’m using some retro objects, my art is punchy. It has a little bit of edge, and Westport gets that.”

“It’s a very educated audience that has a spot-on understanding for the bit of tongue-in-cheek in my art.”

Gilmore “feels goosebumps” after enthusiastic customer reviews. 

And, she says, she prioritizes “100% joy” as the message behind her art.

(Click here for Julia Gilmore’s website.)

More of Julia Gilmore’s art.

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Hailing from the coast of Maine, Anita Roelz arrived at the Westport Fine Arts Festival for her third year of displaying nature-inspired jewelry. 

She uses 3 techniques — hammers, torches and grinding — to develop her textured jewelry.

“I’m a texture lover,” she notes.

Anita Roelz, with her jewelry.

Though she has a distance to travel, she says the relationships formed with customers here make it worthwhile.

She says, “Last year, I sold my first divorce ring.”

The customer returned this year. “She bought herself another treat. It was very empowering for her.”

(Click here for Anita Roelz’s website.)

Anita Roelz’s hand-crafted necklaces.

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After 5 decades as a sculptor, David Bryce embraces every step in his artistic process. 

Bryce draws inspiration from Asian cultures and the Baroque period. His booth was one of the most eye-catching at the Festival. 

David Bryce, with his sculptures. 

After starting his career making furniture, Bryce recognizes that finding a passion is not a direct path. 

However, he says, “If you follow your nose long enough, you get where you’re supposed to be.”

Each of Bryce’s pieces is intentionally mounted and named.

Pointing to a specific sculpture, Bryce says, “that one’s called ‘Grace’ because I think she’s at peace.”

“Grace,” by David Bryce.

While some shows are unsuccessful, he remains “pathologically optimistic” for the shows where he “kills it.”

“You can’t just give it up,” he says.

(Click here for David Bryce’s website.) 

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After earning a writing degree in China, Kevin Liang immigrated to America 40 years ago.

Soon after, he began his career as a painter.

Liang commutes from New York to Westport for the Fine Arts Festival, year after year.

“This is a very established show,” he says. 

Kevin Liang, with a large piece of art …

Intertwining his heritage with a passion for writing and art, Liang creates small oil prints on rice paper, each attached to an original poem.

Although his oil paintings mirror scenes of nature, Liang draws deeper inspiration.  

“I don’t paint the location. I don’t paint the photo. I’m painting my emotions,” he says. 

“I call it my poetic landscape.”

(Click here for Kevin Liang’s website.) 

… and smaller prints of landscapes and Chinese calligraphy, with original poems. (All photos/Talia Varsano)

Fine Arts Festival: Sunday Scenes

“06880” interns Talia Varsano and Jolie Gefen headed downtown today, to the 51st annual Westport Fine Arts Festival.

There was another great crowd — and the rain stayed far away. It was another grand slam for the sponsors: the Westport Downtown Association.

Here are some of the artists — and their artwork — that caught Talia’s eye. 

(All photos/Talia Varsano)