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Remembering Perrin Delorey, At 18

Perrin Delorey was a 10-year-old Westport Little Leaguer, ice hockey player and Cub Scout. He died in June of 2018. following a car accident after visiting the Baseball Hall of Fame.

Perrin’s memory has been kept alive by his family, friends, Little League and Staples Tuition Grants. On Wednesday, his father James posted on Facebook:

Today is our son Perrin’s 18th birthday.

Perrin was a thoughtful young man with a great future ahead of him. Angela and I talk about him all the time, as do his little sisters, Mireille and Elodie. He truly is present in our family of 5.

Perrin Delorey earned a Little League game ball in May 2018.

Perrin’s friends and classmates are now high school seniors, making plans for career, public service, university. It is both difficult and wonderful to see all of their accomplishments these last 8 years – performing in school plays, excelling at athletics, making music, volunteering in our community, climbing mountains, becoming Eagle Scouts, becoming adults.

These dreams and hopes are like those we had for Perrin, and what we have now for Mireille and Elodie.

Perrin at McGill University.

This year Perrin’s classmates, led by his “identical cousin” Philip, have created the Perrin Ryan Delorey “Do Your Best” Award, a Staples Tuition Grant that – because of the generosity of so many – will be given in perpetuity to help students pursue their dreams of higher education.

The award is modeled, in part, on Westport Little League’s Perrin Ryan Delorey Sportsmanship Award, presented not to the “best” player, but to the player who works the hardest to improve and help their teammates.

Perrin Delorey at the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, with Ted Williams. He was a big Boston Red Sox fan.

We are so inspired by all the recipients of this award, and look forward to the continued adventures of Perrin’s peers as they enter adulthood.

What will they teach us? Where will they take us? What will they teach others? What kind of families will they build? How many people will they help? Who will they love?

We had all these questions and great expectations for Perrin, and now have them for his little sisters.

Perrin in a Princeton shirt, from his aunt Francesca Ryan.

Today, on Perrin’s 18th birthday, please, if you can, take a deep breath, say Perrin’s name out loud, and do your best to help someone else’s dreams come true.

(To donate to Perrin’s Staples Tuition Grants award, click here. Then choose “The Perrin Delorey ‘Do Your Best’ Award,” from the drop-down menu — it’s near the bottom of that list.)

Perrin, with his Cub Scout Eclipse Award.

Perrin at the Westport PAL Rink at Longshore …

… and at his mother Angela’s Hamilton College hockey rink. 

Perrin with his godfather, Professor Triadafilos Triadafilopoulos, at the University of Toronto.

At Yale Bowl, for the Yale-Harvard game.

Reunited, And It Feels So Good

Several times a day, readers ask me to post a story about something they’ve lost.

Or found.

Car keys. Phones. Dogs. Stuffed animals. And much, much more.

I’m sorry, I say. I can’t do that. There are too many requests. And though it’s important to you, the interest level is way too low for “06880”‘s 20,000 or so daily readers. Try Facebook’s “Westport Front Porch,” I add.

I always feel bad.

Now I can feel better — at least for people looking for lost stuffed animals, dolls and blankets.

James Delorey has created a Facebook page just for them (the people, and the items).

Westport Stuffed Animal Search & Rescue began after his mother gave James’ infant daughter Mireille a handsome bear, complete with a grandma-knit hockey sweater. It quickly became the tot’s favorite.

But halfway through a walk one day, Mireille’s Bruin was no longer in the stroller.

James raced home, jumped on his bike, and retraced his route.

On a stone wall in front of the Longshore golf course, he spotted the bear. Someone had found it, and placed it safely there.

Whew!

Mireille’s Bruin, on the Longshore wall.

Since then, he’s noticed how often local community pages include photos of lost (and found) stuffed animals.

They’re not just toys, he notes. They’re beloved companions.

So James developed Westport Stuffed Animal Search & Rescue as a spot to share photos and locations of found stuffed animals, dolls, blankets and the like.

Since then he’s seen lovies, blankets, puppets, even prizes from the Yankee Doodle Fair.

Years later, Mireille still loves her Bruin.

Some users post their own finds. Some amplify notices from other good Samaritans.

The other day, James had his first personal success.

His family discovered a doll in the middle of Hillspoint Road, in front of Old Mill Grocery.

They brushed her off, and placed her somewhere safe and visible. Within hours, a parent saw their post cross-shared on Westport Front Porch. The doll was quickly reunited with her very grateful owner.

Success!

James says, “Every post in Westport Stuffed Animal Search & Rescue captures both the smallest and biggest parts of life: the love and angst of childhood, the attentiveness of parents, and the kindness of neighbors.

“Our first success filled my heart. I hope it’s the first of many.”

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A Cub Scout Story, For Everyone

“06880” would not normally devote the main story of the day to an invitation to join Cub Scouts.

The focus is too narrow. Our lead story should appeal to a much broader segment of our very large audience.

But this piece is different. As you read it, you’ll learn about the back story behind James Delorey’s request that I post his piece. He writes:

My daughter Mireille just started kindergarten at Greens Farms Elementary School. She asked me to invitate all her classmates to join Westport Cub Scouts Pack 39.

Mireille says she wants her friends to “learn how to hike and make s’mores.” She is excited to be a Cub Scout, and I am excited about all the things our family will get to do with her.

Mireille Delorey, with s’mores.

Cub Scouts is open to all youth – boys and girls – in kindergarten through 5th grade. Every family is welcome.

Lion Cubs (kindergarteners) will learn the Cub Scout motto, “Do Your Best,” make new friends, and learn communication skills and problem-solving through fun, hands-on activities the whole family will enjoy.

Any kindergartener-5th Grader interested in joining Cub Scouts or learning more is very welcome to attend a Westport Cub Scouts event (see information at the end of this story).

A few things in Scouting have changed since I became a Scout as a kid. Now, every youth from every family is welcome. There is a priority on safety and responsibility.

I’m proud that Westport Cub Scouts Pack 39 was among the first in the country to welcome girls. Thousands of girls nationwide have completed Eagle Scout service projects and earned the rank of Eagle Scout, including Scouts from Westport’s Troop 139. Westport’s older Scouts in grades 6-12 do amazing things in Troop 36, 39, and 139.

We know you’re busy with soccer, music, dance, karate, hockey, baseball and life in general. Lions works around your and your child’s busy schedules. It is also a beautiful opportunity for parents to make lasting memories with their children. These experiences mean so much to my wife, Dr. Angela Ryan, and me.

You may have seen the bench and beautiful dogwood tree in the Greens Farms School playground dedicated to our son, Perrin Delorey. He died in an automobile accident in 2018, when he was 10.

Perrin was an all-around beautiful kid. He loved Westport Little League, basketball, hockey, skiing and piano.

He was also a Cub Scout in Westport Pack 39. He did amazing things thanks to doors opened by Scouting parents, like visiting the NBC Sports studios, getting up close to a priceless 1962 Ferrari GTO at Lime Rock, learning how to cast a fishing rod, racing Pinewood Derby cars, throwing tomahawks (safely!), hiking in Devil’s Den, learning how to say “Do Your Best” in sign language, singing songs for residents in a nursing home, skiing his first ski jumps, and camping for the first time.

Perrin Delorey, with his Eclipse Award in 2017. He earned it by showing visitors to the Westport Observatory how to safely view a partial eclipse.

I marvel at how much Perrin grew from the time he joined in 1st grade, to when he was introducing a skit in front of hundreds of Scouts at a campfire just a few years later. I am so excited that Mireille and her friends will be able to experience things like that.

Mireille and I hope to see you at an event. You and your families are welcome to attend. Siblings are welcome too.

Please check out WestportCubScouts.com. Feel free to mail me at jdelorey@gmail.com if you have any questions or suggestions for the coming year. It will be fun!

PS: If you’re not in Westport, you can find a Cub Scout pack by entering your zip code at BeAScout.org.

Mireille Delorey, hiking in Acadia National Park.

Upcoming events (all are welcome):

  • Cub Scout Open House, featuring Mad Science (Today, Sunday, September 15, 2:30 to 4 p.m., Green’s Farms Church)

Cubs will enjoy a fun and interactive science presentation, and adults can learn more about Pack 39 Sunday, September 15th, at 2:30-4:00 p.m.

  • Harvest Campfire (Friday, September 20, 5:30 to 7 p.m., Earthplace)

Cubs will do a short hike, learn how to have a fun and safe campfire, and have pizza and apple cider.

Among the activities planned for the upcoming year:

  • Scout Day at Lime Rock racetrack
  • Cub Scout safari and campout
  • Army football game at West Point
  • Hikes in Westport and nearby areas
  • Traditions Night
  • Pinewood Derby
  • Community service event at VFW Post 399
  • Bear Carnival (run by our 3rd grade Bear Cubs)
  • Snow tubing at Powder Ridge
  • “Blue & Gold” banquet
  • Westport Memorial Day parade
  • Bicycle rally
  • Beach party.

Democratic Women Ponder Polling Process

Hillary Clinton, Donald Trump, you, me — and anyone else in the world who reads polls — all were surprised by last week’s election.

That includes James Delorey. The Westport resident is senior vice president of research at the Global Strategy Group. They use tons of sophisticated tools to advise Fortune 500 companies, non-profits — and political campaigns. In other words: He analyzes data and trends for a living.

James Delorey

James Delorey

Like everyone else in the business, he’s moved past shock. Now he’s trying to figure out how so much polling could have been so wrong for so long.

Tomorrow night (Thursday, November 17, 7:30 p.m., 323 Restaurant) he shares his insights in a local forum.

“Why Data Failed Us: A Closer Look at Polling” is sponsored by the Democratic Women of Westport. Clearly, that’s a group groping for answers.

Delorey will answer questions like:

  • Why did so much 2016 polling data miss the mark?
  • Is it possible to accurately poll the electorate in the current era?
  • Did media coverage of the polls impact the election outcome?
  • What was the impact of late-breaking news?
  • What issues drove the election outcome?
  • Could Clinton have done anything differently to ensure victory?

Delorey — who worked at the state level during this election cycle, and helped elect a Democratic governor in West Virginia, while the state went 69% for Trump — was not one of those presidential pollsters who so misread the presidential tea leaves.

But he knows he, his colleagues — and his industry — are in hot water right now.